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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Boo

    ok um..im 14 and hes about 31 and he has probaly 4 or five kids. Hes my best friend/s brother. ive never liked eny one older than me, well not that old and then Johnny Depp doesnt count. Its wierd tough
    CabbagePatchKid14 CabbagePatchKid14 13-15, F Feb 7, 2010

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Is it such a bad thing? I have meet someone and he is 15 years older but more settled and successful
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    I fell in love with my best friend. He isn't exactly the best looking fellow compared to todays media standards. He is 6'0 and skinny and lanky as slender man. He never brushes...
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    I fell in love with people in both ways, well the personality is more important but I can't help it if I see a girl as preety
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F Jan 15

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    Personality is overlooked these days, and people are judged mostly on their appearance. Personality is what actually matters, because it is usually the one thing that never changes...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I think for me going deeper then the surface appearance is more substantial then what a person looks like on the outside. goodlooks and nice clothes are wonderful yes and i do...
    BreakingdawnOne BreakingdawnOne 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Looks can fade. Looks can be manufactured, modified, or deceive you into thinking that they are also beautiful inside. Well I'm not falling for that again. You maybe handsome and...
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I don't know what I'm looking for.. Other than just wanting a girl to screw around with call her pretty things and the usual. I want somebody I can trust, somebody who's smile...
    Johnnymane Johnnymane 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Personality is key and means so much more than looks. But in reality when you first meet someone you don't fall for their personality because you don't know them, you see the...
    t3rriv t3rriv 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Gunna get married next month. I'm 40, he's 64. Everyone in town thinks he's my dad since he was my adopted dad for so long, that's how I introduced him.
    wendycat wendycat 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Looks can fade in time but your personality doesn't. it is what will be remembered.
    kArmen0314 kArmen0314 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    sometimes I wish the world was blind. so we focus on the things people have to work for and what makes them really them. not their facial features or body, which they have no...
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    In this site happens to me a lot, since i meet nice guys but when i see their profile picture im like "oh, so thats why you are single" I dont ask for profile pictures to avoid...
    Mikaela1920 Mikaela1920 16-17 1 Response Jan 3

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    Good looks are temporary but a beautiful heart equals eternity
    savigirl14 savigirl14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Sometimes its not looks that causes me to notice something. Its how they hold themselves. How they talk to others and me. Looks can be deceiving, but actions never are.
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    They say it, but most never mean it.
    DetrimentalFallacy DetrimentalFallacy 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 6

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    This should just be the standard. So what if he/she has the body if they're callous trash?
    EvoxNeon EvoxNeon 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Damn stright. If I can't relate or talk to you why go intimate?
    MichaelS41074 MichaelS41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    And I've done that, and I genuinely don't KNOW what this boy looks like. He's an amazing person and one of the best friends I could ever have asked for. If he were "ugly", I wouldn...
    DisguisedAsMe DisguisedAsMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    In short, personality will never get old.
    Lakee112812 Lakee112812 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think your personality is important when finding someone you enjoy being around!
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Beauty is what might attract but personality will decide the longevity of the relationship.
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met my husband when I was 19. He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    I like guys who are in their 40's to 50 years old. I had a guy who was 5 years older than me. I don't like men who are really old. I want a man who is the same age as me.
    winnie2008 winnie2008 41-45, F Dec 30, 2014

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    Like every person I've ever liked has been between a month and 14 years older than me. Guys my age are just so immature, but sometimes I worry about how I crush on people so much...
    isabellaperry isabellaperry 13-15, F Dec 31, 2014

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    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now and I do love him I really really do but I am so confused. my boyfriend and I have been through hell and back mostly because of...
    purplegirl1991 purplegirl1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    My best friend is 12 years older than me, and has been with this guy for 15 years. They've been married for 10 and have two beautiful boys. But their marriage started to break down...
    Lesmall Lesmall 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    A few people have wanted me to continue my story about paranormal or spiritual events that have happened to me, so I decided to update. I unfortunately could not find my dream...
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    I think the best proof of this is that my dad makes me wake my older brother up in the morning and he's around two years older than I am.
    xAC3777x xAC3777x 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    My best friend is 30 years older than me. XD
    ImandaraDasa ImandaraDasa 22-25, F Jan 1

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    I've talked to a few guys who were 10+ years older than me even though I'm only 16. So much more respectable and maturer than guys my age in my opinion. Can't say that for all of...
    blackheartlover blackheartlover 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Ever since I was little I always got crushes on guys that were at least 2-5 years older than me never had a crush on a guy my age
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Back in the day lol if you can even call it love at 12 years old? lol.He was cool though everyone in school usually liked him he was 10 years older than me,i would stay after...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I've known him for two years. He always makes me smile and laugh when I'm upset, teases me, jokes around and worries about me when I have problems, spends time with me talking...
    sweetice007 sweetice007 18-21, F Dec 27, 2014

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    I've known him for two years. He always makes me smile and laugh when I'm upset, teases me, jokes around and worries about me when I have problems, spends time with me talking...
    sweetice007 sweetice007 18-21, F Dec 27, 2014

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    It's strange but I have a crush on one of my (3rd generation?) uncles which he is only a few years older than me. I tell myself that we can never be together because we really can...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F Jan 11

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    i m a straight girl n i m deeply fallen love with a lesbian.....she also loves me unconditionally i think more than me..she can do nything for me, even i also can do nything for...
    sept19 sept19 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    The title honestly says it all. I like older guys, with a certain extent to their age. However, recently my friend asked me out. He's 17 and I 16, so he's not much older than me...