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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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    Boo

    ok um..im 14 and hes about 31 and he has probaly 4 or five kids. Hes my best friend/s brother. ive never liked eny one older than me, well not that old and then Johnny Depp doesnt count. Its wierd tough
    CabbagePatchKid14 CabbagePatchKid14 13-15, F Feb 7, 2010

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
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    My boyfriend is a brilliant, handsome, kind gentleman who is 40 years my senior. I feel like I can't talk to my friends about him without judgment. I'm so madly in love and I just...
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    My boyfriend has always said people call him ugly, even his family. His ex girlfriend even told him he wasn't good looking but had a great personality. I don't understand this...
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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
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    Yesss! I approve of this 100% I remember this one time when I confessed to my cousin that I was crushing on this guy she said "Eeeew! He's ugly!" I told her that his looks didn't...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15

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    True Story: There was this guy name Josh I went to school with, he was really quite, nobody liked him, everybody picked on him or bullied him. He was the nerd, the geek, the...
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    TBH I love people who have a great sense of humor, who are active with sports, and are also smart.
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    In my heart, I know that physical beauty is not what makes a girl beautiful, but rather her heart that makes her body beautiful. I really don't know where I get these thoughts with...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Idk why I've always been like that.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13

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    People have eyes but they cannot see.
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    agreed .
    kayeheyII kayeheyII 13-15, F 7 Responses May 9

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    looks are nothing is they can't have a laugh and take everything serious that's just boring haha
    baggiee baggiee 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    At the end of the day- looks attract , but personality is what makes it last.
    Socalsunset Socalsunset 22-25, F 12 Responses May 17

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    im not going to say looks don't matter, but for me personally is way more important
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 14 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have always wanted a man much older than me .
    TropicalIslandForever TropicalIslandForever 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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