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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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