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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Boo

    ok um..im 14 and hes about 31 and he has probaly 4 or five kids. Hes my best friend/s brother. ive never liked eny one older than me, well not that old and then Johnny Depp doesnt count. Its wierd tough
    CabbagePatchKid14 CabbagePatchKid14 13-15, F Feb 7, 2010

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
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    It's true!!!.......I don't know why but I don't usually find them very attractive at first but once I get to know them and once I realize that I like their personality there's like...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    I really believe in this to be honest. I think there has to be some kind of base-level attraction when you first see each other, but the personality is clearly what keeps solid...
    thenewboy87 thenewboy87 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 11

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    yeah personality is more good than other thing though...:)
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    no matter how much it upsets me to see people love beautiful faces so much, I can't blame them. I know it's human nature and kind of inevitable.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I've had three girlfriends. The first one was the result of smoking during pregnancy, go ahead and picture that. But as "unattractive" as her looks were, her personality was the...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    looks with time changes .. personality stays
    tigerbloodbaby tigerbloodbaby 31-35, M Feb 22

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    what's there when you're old and no longer beautiful..?
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    Beauty of looks fade away .. But a beautiful Personality never dies :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 11

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    I would never walk up to someone just because I thought they were attractive. I don't know how someone can have such sting feelings for someone they've never talked to before.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Looks is a bonus but i will always fall for personality. Even though i have stumbled across physical attraction over personality before.
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Difference between looks and personality? You can feel warmth in personality :) I mean, it's not like your looks are so radiant that it can warm someone up..........can it?
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 13-15 1 Response Feb 22

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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