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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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    Boo

    ok um..im 14 and hes about 31 and he has probaly 4 or five kids. Hes my best friend/s brother. ive never liked eny one older than me, well not that old and then Johnny Depp doesnt count. Its wierd tough
    CabbagePatchKid14 CabbagePatchKid14 13-15, F Feb 7, 2010

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    He is 59, and I'm 16. He is also happily married and has a kid that is older than me as well. I don't want to be in love with him, but honestly I need him in my life as much as I...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When you begin to love someone for their personality that is when they start to look attractive to you. It has definitely happened in my case. At first i thought he was alright...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    People should fall in love with their eyes closed
    dannyandme dannyandme 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Everyone in the world is pretty shallow...me included. We look at someone & immediately judge them whether we mean to or not. If they don't look a certain way, then we don't even...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    when I see a handsome man, I get turned on but when I discovered that he has a unhumane attiduted I get really really turned off and pissed of at the same time.
    avienavie avienavie 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    It is the heart and mind that lies underneath all the skin. I would much rather be with someone that has a good loving heart than someone that is just worried about appearances and...
    KindFriend71 KindFriend71 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Looks don't last for ever. A nice personality can only improve, especially if someone else appreciates it. The guy I love ain't a good looker by the world's standards. But he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 9

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    Too be true honest sincere and open with one another. Rare to find such.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Mar 14

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    Well, I get why people go for looks at first, because then you don't know the personality of the person. But still, the looks isn't as close as important as the looks. Don't stick...
    justanothergirlonearth justanothergirlonearth 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here and ask for my number if you like:) just looking for a...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses Feb 28

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    This is 100% true I don't care how you look it depends on your personality is like if it's great then the relationship should be good but if you go for looks it's just gonna end. A...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Someone's mind morals and values are the greatest thing in life.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    YES...youth and beauty can fade but a great personality lasts forever
    unanymous1 unanymous1 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 15

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    Why can't one guy see this literally they go by looks and other things that are private
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M Mar 15

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    So do most profiles say, but.............! LOL!!
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Looks holding toxic soul are bad.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Karinyu0422 Karinyu0422 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 4

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    Starting at the beginning… First off, just letting you know, I am straight to everyone else on the planet, but I know that I am bisexual. This girl Jackie, she is actually...
    shancostello shancostello 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I have always felt atleast five to seven years older than my age. I am turning 35 and already noticing some fine lines under my eyes and on the bridge of the nose .. I don't think...
    karmicsouls karmicsouls 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    My best friend and I have been friends for six years. I told her that I used to have a crush on him, but that I don't anymore. I lied to her because she thinks it would be weird...
    catlover425 catlover425 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone two years ago who believed in a religion I didn't believe in. He was also three years older than me. I reminisce on that time as the happiest I've ever...
    littljay littljay 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Well, he's 6 years older than me. At a very beggining it was just a crush on him but, since we were talking to each other more often I started to like him more, he's very cute...
    M4R1LYN M4R1LYN 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Who you fall for isn't entirely up to you. It's up to your heart. I met him when I was 13, I went to visit my gramma in Ecuador from my moms side then we went to visit my aunt her...
    beautifulbud beautifulbud 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'm in love with one of my best friends and I'm afraid to tell him. I've known Chase, as I'll call him, for over a year now and he's been there for me through some of the toughest...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Alright, this is a really, REALLY long tale, so if you're going to stick around, you should probably get some popcorn or something. I've written all of this just kinda to get it...
    Blue707 Blue707 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I fell in love with a stranger and his name is ?Pete Townshend? I'm not sure if anyone knows him or has ever heard about him but he is (or was back in the 60s70s) this famous...
    WholeLottaPam WholeLottaPam 16-17, F Mar 5

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    I didn't choose to fall for him; he tripped me. He somehow got to me fall in love with him... but I don't mind. One day, I was just minding my own business. I was watching some...
    PKFairytale PKFairytale 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    So to start off I've known this guy for about 2 years, and he's 7 years older then me. I met him at a fraternity he is apart of a group of guys who are still many of my good...
    Asianitalianchik Asianitalianchik 18-21 Mar 9

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    I have a confession that the thought of being with a much older man, late 50's and up turns me on so much!
    lovex2 lovex2 46-50 Mar 2

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    I am afraid that I am falling for someone I should not love but I am also afraid he feels the same way. He is 6 years way older than me. Well, I actually don't care about age, all...
    heyitsbae heyitsbae 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    We met 15 yrs ago, fell madly in love, right from the gate! He was married, I was in a serious relationship. He left her, I left my bf..life struggles, bad timing, different paths...
    assholemagnet assholemagnet 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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