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I Am In Love With a Man 17 Years Older Than Me

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    I Love A Man 16 Years Older Than Me.

    I met him when I was 18 he was 34. I remember the first time I saw him he was soo good looking I thought he was mabe 26 years old. And we had talked about it before and he told he knew he wasn't the right age for me but he loved me. I asked him how old he was but he would never...
    kdr92 kdr92 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    What Now?

    When it all began, I was 25 years old he was 42. Being Latino, age really didnt show. Therefor it wasn't a factor . We started off as friends and grew into THIS. Now after 3 years I am having issues like no one could believe!When our relationship began I was fresh outta an ugly...
    hunny28 hunny28 26-30, F Dec 25, 2007

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    Boo

    ok um..im 14 and hes about 31 and he has probaly 4 or five kids. Hes my best friend/s brother. ive never liked eny one older than me, well not that old and then Johnny Depp doesnt count. Its wierd tough
    CabbagePatchKid14 CabbagePatchKid14 13-15, F Feb 7, 2010

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    Secretly In Love With A Man 15 Years Older.

    The 1st time I saw him, I thought he was in his late 20s cos he looked so darn good looking. Slightly haggard but young. I guess it was crush at first sight cos i cant stop looking at him though i try not to. It was my first day at work afterall. Turns out, he was 36 years old...
    teddygreeny teddygreeny 22-25, F Oct 25, 2013

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    Well, I started highschool, I am much more mature than the rest of the high school. I just keep to myself and focus on the future, I've had an unbelievable past for someone of 15...
    DreamLurker DreamLurker 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I am a social anxious, extremely shy guy... I met a girl on a mental illness forum (First girl I ever talked to)... She is 5 years older than me... we talked (through private...
    awkwardguy23 awkwardguy23 18-21, M Jul 12

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    Well, this is me. I dont know i just don't fall for physical attributes. Recently i was very different, i liked seeing guys who are much older than me. I like role playing, I...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 a week ago

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    There are so many quirks you can fall in love with that make a person unique. The way they do things, the way they talk about things, how excited they get about the things they...
    Steinbaum Steinbaum 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm one of those girls who goes for the personality first but u have to admit, when u see a really hot guy you aren't the slightest bit attracted? Id rather date someone with a...
    welluhm5678 welluhm5678 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I fall in love with their soul not their body!
    LRxIce LRxIce 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm being completely honest here - to consider someone as a romantic interest I want to think they are the least bit cute. But in the end, when I fall in love with someone, it's...
    jasenamigala jasenamigala 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I am perfectly happy with him, but the criticism from complete strangers bothers me. Why should it matter if two people are happy together and care about each other?
    Aahtnamas Aahtnamas 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    You will come across many men in your life and you will be tempted to fall in love. Don’t be lured into giving your heart to a man just because he is handsome, popular and good...
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I'll be real, I'm a Man. I'd be elated to have a girl with a nice body, but it doesn't mean anything if she has a terrible personality.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 3

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    Oh yeah,big time.Looks do play a part,but when you add an extraordinary personality to a face,he/she becomes more than what the eye can see.As for the girls who are looking for...
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12

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    If your looking for looks it'll get you nowhere. Because love sides with personality than looks.
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F Jul 17

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    Looks fade with age. But personalities have a longer shelf life.
    MattsShadow MattsShadow 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Why? Because, looks aren't everything. A person might be lovely to look at if they're beautiful or sexy, but that doesn't mean that person is kind or sweet. Same goes if you're not...
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    After all, looks fade with time, no matter how much they nip tuck and suck away, but personality, is forever.
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    I go with there personality first. And if they have a good one it automatically makes them more attractive to me.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Yeah me too there is a story my mum always tell me there is two women one of them is so pretty but her personality not and the other is not looking good but her personality is soo...
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F Jul 17

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    Humour is the best quality someone can have to me personally because I love to laugh and make jokes, this boy I liked was incredibly funny and always made me laugh with his weird...
    AnotherTomboyGamer AnotherTomboyGamer 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Personality is key. It should be the reason why are why you arent with them. Looks are honestly a bonus in my opinion and dont even matter because whats the point with being with a...
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    It's weird but...I had one relationship where we were completely in love(or I thought so...online relationship) he was always telling me that no matter Wut I looked like he would...
    xAllyBunny xAllyBunny 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Looks are great, but if your personality is beautiful like your outside. I can hang with you! But society has become obsessed with "perfection" it's sad
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Usually I look at guys and if you're ugly I won't even think about dating you. You will automatically be my friend. But sometimes the more I get to know the guy I start to like him...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I do too but I don't want some crazy looking mofo I found in some back alley tho.
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    What sorta personalities are ya'll into? 0_o
    danondorf danondorf 16-17, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I just really don't care how you look as long as you're as weird and odd as me we'll be great :D
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    ☝️☝️because looks can only get you so far..but personality goes a long way
    LaKira LaKira 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I am in love with an older man. He's 20 years older than I am. We are both single but have dated secretly for almost a year because we work together. Recently he has talked about...
    winelover1 winelover1 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    It was the first time I had ever been in love. I met this person on a role playing website; nothing bad or inappropriate, just a place to talk and write stories together with...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I am not a native English speaker,but I'll try to be understood by you. I met someone on Internet one year ago. We are both from different countries,so we speak in English. The...
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    I met her about about 3 years ago, she was a advocate for patient rights appointed by the court I was the tech assigned to protect and control unstable patients physically if need...
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    Two years ago, I met my ex-girlfriend Chauntel online, on Twitter to be exact. A friend of a friend, we talked all day and night until five days later she asked me to be her...
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    The worst is when they are engaged.. ... And you're still in love with them years later.. It hurts and there's nothing you can do.. Not even prayer to ask ease the pain. Not even...
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    In this world there are many women for a man to choose from. Many that holds a variety of unique physical traits and personal thoughts on the world around them. We as males try to...
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    It was an accident, really. Nobody plans to fall in love with their physics teacher. I met my second year physics teacher (we'll call him Mr. K) last year, before he taught me...
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    Seeing as my profile decides to list my age as 13-15, I would just like to take a moment to clear the air. I am in fact 15 years old! Frequently I’m told I appear older than I am...
    alecsgirl18 alecsgirl18 13-15, F Jul 4

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
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    I fell in love with my cousin since I was 8 and she was 7 at the time. We didn't know we were cousins at the time. We met when I visited Korea with my mom because she was home...
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