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I Am In Love With a Married Man

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    There Is Just Something About Him..

    I honestly don't know what it is about this man that makes me so crazy in love. It could be how free and open he is with everything in his life. He does not fear judgement, because he says he is doing the best he can. It could be the bad boy past that has led him to be the...
    simplencountry simplencountry 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Tonight we talked about the things

    that I always want to hear. How much he believes in us, how he is NOT in this relationship wasting time waiting for it to end, and how serious he is about getting the hell out of there. He's working on a place to live, which is the only definite thing keeping him there. Being...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    Ok girls this has been a messed up week.

    I have an issue with trust with my MM. I made the mistake at looking at his facebook. What I found was really no surprise. He was chatting with a girl in texas. He was flirting and telling her he wanted to see her. In short it looked like he was getting ready to try to start...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    It's crazy when I really stop

    and think about what I'm doing in my life and why am I in this situation. Am I a bad person? Is this supposed to teach me a lesson? How far will this go? Being in an affair is never something we plan or hope to be a part of but in some strange way the universe has drawn me so...
    Starrzalign Starrzalign 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    PART 1 I plan to write several posts about this.

    Its quite a story, and I just have to tell it. I'll call him Lou. We found each other by accident. I was in an abusive marriage, desperate and alone. I was meeting men online and trying to find an escape from my unhappiness. He responded to an inane post I made one night, and...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Only thing worse than having to sit next to the

    wife of the man that you love for three hours? Having to listen to her complain about him!!
    ladycaroline ladycaroline 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2014

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    Yes.. he is married. Yes.

    . I knew that he was.. No.. I wasn't looking for this.. But yes.. should he ever ask me, I would be the other woman. Since the day I met him.. I felt something for him. But over time my feelings have increased. now, he is all I think about. We communicate everyday. we see each...
    Caligrl34 Caligrl34 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    My MM and I have known each other

    for 11 years. The first time we met and dated we were both single but lived in different states. Actually he had a fiancé but broke up with her after he met me. Our relationship was exciting. We would travel to different cities together. We were friends and lovers. But the...
    Jennnnni Jennnnni 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I have been in love with a married man

    for 3 years now. I adore him and I cherish the time we have together. However this is one of the most difficult situations I have ever been in. The highs and lows are extreme. He doesn't want to leave her because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. I don't want anyone to hurt either...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I know he has a wife.

    But I can't help it. He lied. I've loved him all along and he never gave me the chance to say good bye. I'll never know what our very special "click" was... He's not even nice to me anymore. Ever since I confronted him when I found out, he's been treating me different. Then I...
    SparkledRed SparkledRed 18-21, F Apr 10

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    My Last Story And Why.........

    Met a man on a singles site. He never said he was single. We talked on line a bit then met in March '11. He is/was tall, handsome, definately country, married  and fun!His smile would melt an 'icecube'.I kidnaped him, he went willingly. We drove around my little town, down by...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    IS AN AFFAIR JUST A TOTAL FANTASY?

    The more I read about women engaged in an affair with a married man, the more I see so many similarities. I met my mm 15 months ago so very innocently like so many other women. He met me through a friend as I was going through a sad divorce from my alcoholic abusive husband.  MM...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Sometimes, I feel that I am not in love with

    him, maybe it's just some sort of addiction or obsession. Well atleast that's what I think it is, I am not sure though. I know I should be with someone who doesn't lie to me and who can take a stand for me. I really hope I get over him with time.
    heartonfire20 heartonfire20 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I'm really attracted to my high school teacher

    and I can't stop thinking about him. I just don't have a lover like some people and I'm sad I can't tell my parents because whoever I like they tell people and Poke fun at it. I have no one to talk to I told my best friend but she said I was weird and doesn't do things with me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    FWB...

    I am also married....and what started off as FWB has turned into something more....but what am I doing? He's in the military and his wife isn't stationed with him, my husband is deployed....so could it be that we are both lonely? It has been about a year that we've been seeing...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Trying desperately to figure out how to be

    with him again for more than a few hours. We have a mid-way meeting point, which is no trouble for me, but he has to move mountains to make it work. Last time it almost didn't happen, and our weekend ended up being only 12 hours. Im not willing to fly there as long as he...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    I am unhappily married

    and I have developed strong feelings for an old mutual friend. We've reconnected and talk often. I've hinted around but he doesn't seem to catch on. He's married and a very devoted family man. Should I keep hinting or try to get over my feelings?
    zandra95 zandra95 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We're Both Married, In Love With Each Other, And Wondering If I'm Just Staying Because Its Easier...

    I've been married for eight years, and dated my husband for four years before that. When he proposed I had hesitations, (not being tied down yet, etc) but I loved him, and knew he'd be a good husband, good provider, etc. He's loyal, smart, forgiving, and handsome. He knows how to...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    And he just told me that him

    and his wife are going to try to work things out for there child..
    beginagain2012 beginagain2012 18-21, F Nov 10, 2014

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    Tonight was a great night with my MM.

    Sometimes he can be so sweet. Ive mentioned that I wanted to go see a movie. He took me to see one tonight. Then off to dinner even though he had already eaten with W. After we drove down to the airport and parked for awhile and talked. He never hides our relationship when were...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    here goes We started just

    as friends, we have fun and go out to eat he works in a place near mine we met through a common friend in a dinner gathering. he always ask me out when he have the time off from work. But then i dont know when it happened that I fell for him. he has always been vocal on how he...
    lyrene lyrene 41-45, F 3 Responses May 14

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    He is busy again, or

    rather she isn’t. Wait and wonder, wonder and wait. Seethe and assume and swirl and fester. Hello and… …I’m sorry What was that now? Who is this self indulgent woman who we used to would have hated? What is blocking the light at the end of this sweet tunnel? (other...
    HappyLadyIntrovert HappyLadyIntrovert 41-45, F Jun 17, 2014

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    Who claims to want to work things out with his

    wife, then spends 4 hours on the phone with me. I know im his kryptonite and I cant help but call him because I know when he hears my voice, its all over and whatever he was talking earlier doesn't even matter. I know he can only hold his word for about 10 minutes then its all...
    beginagain2012 beginagain2012 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    Can't Help Who Your Heart Chooses

    I'm 17 if that matters, I know most will say "you don't know what love is". But I do, unfortunately all the people that I've ever developed feelings for hurt me in almost everyway possible, and NEVER actually loved me back. Every guy I've ever dated, or been with has let me down...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    I'm very busy working at 2 different jobs,

    so I literally go to work and home, occasional grocery visit, occasional dinner with a girlfriend. So, it's pretty incredible that I met someone. I went to a social gathering about spirituality. I nearly talked myself out of it, but it was a tarot gift exchange and since I'd...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Desperately In Love.

    I don't know where to start. I'm such a mess right now. First off, I suppose I should make it clear that we have not had sex. Also, we are both married; my marriage is not an obstacle, but his is. Ok, from the beginning: We met at a party up in the mountains, a place we both go...
    InkiSnowe InkiSnowe 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I never thought I would be in this situation

    where I would be involved with a married man and fall deeply in love with him. I've heard of stories where two people meet and instant chemistry is formed; a chemistry and a connection that is indescribable and magical that it is hard to ignore. This experience happened with me...
    eyeneney eyeneney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2014

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    today was a good day.

    I have been cleaning my MM house for awhile. I was supposed to show up at 9 to stay coaxing before I had to go to work. but got held up by my kids and did not get there til 10. I came in like I always do and MM was still asleep. it wad Uber cold today so I went in his room and...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F Jan 8

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    So valentine day is coming up.

    I'm trying hard not to get excited. my MM said his W is leaving to go see her mom the Friday before v day. and won't be back till sunday. now this means I will not only have MM all to myself but I will also get two over nights. now I still think she's going to change her...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 5

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    .... so deeply in love with a married man.

    its such an amazing yet scary feeling. After living in separate countries he came here to live with his wife for the first time last year, within months I had met him and now I'm completely in love with him. All the problems he was having in his marriage are STILL there he...
    jeebeez2015 jeebeez2015 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I don't know how to feel.

    I try as hard as I possibly can not to let it bother me that he's not completely mine. I try to understand that he's making steps, and I need to be patient. I don't push, I don't complain. I let him do what he needs to do. He wants me to give 100%. And he wants me to be open...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Dying of embarrassment now!

    At work, was wasting some time, thinking of him, and started to write a love letter- one of those ruminations that you never intend to see the light of day. I had only written a few lines, but I started it with "Dear Fifty" (my nickname for him). I wandered away from my desk to...
    ladycaroline ladycaroline 26-30, F Dec 7, 2014

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    Don't Judge My Love For A Married Man...accept Me For Who I Am

    Its not that I condone this behavior or that I am here to argue the point of whether it is wrong or right. All I am saying is that stuff happens sometimes and you fall for people. I am love with my best friend, he is my soul mate and lover...he is also married. It is hard to move...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    We met 15 yrs ago, fell madly in love,

    right from the gate! He was married, I was in a serious relationship. He left her, I left my bf..life struggles, bad timing, different paths, we separated on good terms. I never stopped loving this man. For 15 years, he was still in my heart & in my thoughts. He stayed with his...
    assholemagnet assholemagnet 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    my MM is sick today. I wad supposed to go to

    his house this morning but got a text at 6 am telling me not to cone cause he's sick. two days ago I found out that he has had sex with his W since we stated this relationship. he swore to me he wad no longer sleeping with her. I found out because I was asked to check on his...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I meet this guy from work,

    he is playful, funny, caring. Idk if he has some sort of attraction to me, but I think he does, somehow. He is married, and I feel that I have to keep my distance. The problem is, I have to see him everyday, and I become more and more liking him each day. It is so depressing.
    JUSTME1217 JUSTME1217 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    MM didn't come to work today.

    . Out with his wife so I can't even text him. Sigh. Being the other woman is tough.
    complicatedsimplicity complicatedsimplicity 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 6

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    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    I tried to fight it,

    but I've fallen in love with a married man. He says I am the love of his life. We've only been together a few months. He is married with a 6 month old baby. I know it seems crazy, but we want to be together. He is unhappy in his marriage and wants to leave. but it's incredibly...
    uncloudedliberty uncloudedliberty 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Semi Mistress

    I am the semi mistress of a married man for 3 weeks now. Iam a cd in transition and I give him what he needs that she( his wife) won't. Unfortunately I am not as much to him as he is to me. :-(
    MadisonSilk MadisonSilk 46-50, T Jun 16, 2013

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    Recently i got to know a gorgeous man,

    married with kids and 6 years younger than i am while on my vacation... I am not loving him but i am beginning in love with him. I am blessed and thankful that my vacation trip was a blessing in disguised.
    prettygoddess prettygoddess 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I'm Not Ready Yet, A Poem

    I'm not ready yet Visions of moonlight And sunrises splash My gray canvas Rodanthe nights Kisses of sunlight & shadow Stain my lips a guilty red But oh, the sweetness, The joy, when hand in hand We faced the world. I'm not ready yet The comfort and fear In your arms, a fragrant...
    DearTinHeart DearTinHeart 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    I miss my married man we really need to talk

    but I can't call him!! So sad
    biancaRii biancaRii 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 9

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    Oh the misery us women go through being in love

    with someone we can't have ..
    heartwantswhatitwants heartwantswhatitwants 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Love Hurts....

    We clawed, we chained our hearts in vain We jumped never asking why We kissed, I fell under your spell. A love no one could deny Don't you ever say I just walked away I will always want you I can't live a lie, running for my life I will always want you I came in like a wrecking...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Well I'm new here and need advice.

    The short explanation of the story is I'm sleeping with my brothers best friend and he's married. We have known each other for years and he's 12 years older then me. I've always had a thing for him and never acted on it because he's married.. About 2 months ago a bunch of ppl...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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