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I Am In Love With a Married Man

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    Tortured! - I have been having an affair with a married co-worker for over a year. According to him, his marriage is everything but sexual. They have a great life besides this one...
    febreze123 febreze123 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I never thought I would be in this situation where I would be involved with a married man and fall deeply in love with him. I've heard of stories where two people meet and instant...
    eyeneney eyeneney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    There Is Just Something About Him.. - I honestly don't know what it is about this man that makes me so crazy in love. It could be how free and open he is with everything in his...
    simplencountry simplencountry 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Left In Limbo - It started out as what seemed to be just sex for both if us. He was my boss of about 2 years but we didnt know each other that well. I knew he was in a loveless...
    rekha rekha 31-35 7 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    I have been in love with a married man for 3 years now. I adore him and I cherish the time we have together. However this is one of the most difficult situations I have ever been...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    He's my colleague and my teacher at the same time. I've been interested in him for 4 years, when I started working with him. We've started to talk to each other last year, like 6...
    AL1c3 AL1c3 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Love Hurts.... - We clawed, we chained our hearts in vain We jumped never asking why We kissed, I fell under your spell. A love no one could deny Don't you ever say I just walked...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Unexpected - He was the last person I ever dreamed I'd fall for.  20 years my senior, stern,  high strung....married with two teenage daughters.  He's a VP at my...
    Maureen24 Maureen24 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    My Best Friend - i know hes married , i know i shouldnt love him nor should he love me . I wanna get out but i dont know how i see him everyday he calls and texts me he started...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am in love with a married man, i have walked away many times but i come back he is truly the love of my life. I am not ready to leave him but maybe one day i will. Would like to...
    aliii aliii 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    We Knew Yet We Continue.. - Been in this relationship since St Paddy's Day last year...The day I met J..  Still remember the sweet moment till today..from the gripping of his...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Anyone else in the same position that I am in? He gave me attention, we have a connection with each other, and bang it happened. This is probably the worst thing a girl can go...
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I never thought id ever fall for someone who is married.. I always laughed at the women you see in movies or tv shows, who fall in love with a married man and believed him when he...
    taurus561989 taurus561989 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    We're Both Married, In Love With Each Other, And Wondering If I'm Just Staying Because Its Easier... - I've been married for eight years, and dated my husband for four years before...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I live with my married man.... - So I have been homeless for about 5 months. A month and half to two months now I've been staying with my MM.........and his wife!! I ask myself how...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    Everything Old Is New Again - This is a strange situation for me, and I haven't seen another like it in my research on this topic. Twenty years ago, he and I dated. We were...
    mmartian mmartian 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    I'm Not Ready Yet, A Poem - I'm not ready yet Visions of moonlight And sunrises splash My gray canvas Rodanthe nights Kisses of sunlight & shadow Stain my lips a guilty red But oh...
    DearTinHeart DearTinHeart 26-30, F 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    The way he looks, the way he smells, the was he smiles at me. It's beautiful. Everything about him seems perfect, even if people see so many flaws in him. I just don't know what to...
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F Apr 9

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    FWB... - I am also married....and what started off as FWB has turned into something more....but what am I doing? He's in the military and his wife isn't stationed with him, my...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    The Love I'll Never Have - I will never have you the way I want to have you. I will never be the one you truly love. I will never have your heart the way you have mine. Just...
    Itsmytime2be Itsmytime2be 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    How do you let go of something so strong, so intense? Something I've never felt before. To go back to nothing. I'm not married. I'm alone. My feelings change from one moment to the...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'M Lost. - About two years ago, I was in a failing relationship (I was no longer attracted to my boyfriend but it was comfortably routine). I met a guy at work (older than me) and...
    ifrisk ifrisk 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    He Said It First - 'Oh my God... I'm in love with you!' A pause, I could not block the deafening womp womp of the delicate yellow winged butterfly that fluttered past my window. He...
    HebaMichelle HebaMichelle 41-45, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    JR and I have known each other since I was 19.. we dated for about 8 mos at that time, and, having been young and totally not ready for marriage, we parted romantic ways. Through...
    jrsgal jrsgal 41-45 Feb 19

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Contentment - A Self compressed eventually smothers. Hazy memories of needs fade, Eventually leaving a void. Scabbed over by time, But scratched often enough To merit the...
    nowvoyager42 nowvoyager42 18-21, F May 19, 2013

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    Can't Help Who Your Heart Chooses - I'm 17 if that matters, I know most will say "you don't know what love is". But I do, unfortunately all the people that I've ever developed...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I am in love with my ex fiancee. we broke up back in 2012 and 3 months later he is married with a baby on the way. and now that we have both moved back to the same area and town he...
    hisbutterfly89 hisbutterfly89 22-25, F Mar 18

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    I'm Still With My Married Man. - So for the past two and a half months I have been living with my mm and his wife. My mm wanted us to all get along and be in a three-some...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    Bewildered - I have been seeing a man, who is in a long term relationship, for 5 weeks now. I knew from the start he was in this relationship. He told me he couldn't leave her...
    hope65 hope65 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    I have reconnected with first love. I am separated from an abusive husband after 20 years. I have left and come back many times, but this guy gave me the strength to leave...
    wmoss68 wmoss68 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Please Hear Me Out About 'Him' - I have a boyfriend and have been with him since a few months after my divorce in 2005. The relationship started out great but I lost the passion...
    ConfusedinHB ConfusedinHB 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    I Am In Also In Love With A Married Man - I have told my story at other sites and have been judged, yelled at, told what a horrible person I am and that I can find better. I am not...
    Nicsav4 Nicsav4 51-55, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    How I Fell In Love With A Married Man - So after 3 years of working with him, speaking to him daily, emailing him with a touch of basic harmless flirting the time came for me to...
    terracotta2003 terracotta2003 31-35 3 Responses May 17, 2011

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    I do not know what to do. I am in love with a married man, I did not know he was married for the first 4 months we dated. He is everything I want and more. He admitted to me and...
    nb0510 nb0510 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Im 29, Hes 50 And Married - I see age as just a number, but I see marriage as forever... so why would i ever begin a relationship with a married man?! It didnt start out as...
    native55 native55 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    Don't Judge My Love For A Married Man...accept Me For Who I Am - Its not that I condone this behavior or that I am here to argue the point of whether it is wrong or right. All I am...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Not Again! - I've been involved with married men for most of my adult life. I don't  really believe one man and one woman can be together monogamously forever. With a married...
    anatevka anatevka 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    Over... Again - Well what a whirlwind month... on, off, emails, phone calls one beautiful afternoon... He ended it again, 1st two times I did, this time he said his life was too...
    MillyFlwr55 MillyFlwr55 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Please Help - It was a long-distance, emotional affair. I met him summer 2012 while on vacation. I was only there for a couple of weeks but we continued to talk to each other via...
    Marley03 Marley03 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    IS AN AFFAIR JUST A TOTAL FANTASY? - The more I read about women engaged in an affair with a married man, the more I see so many similarities. I met my mm 15 months ago so very...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 14 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Desperately In Love. - I don't know where to start. I'm such a mess right now. First off, I suppose I should make it clear that we have not had sex. Also, we are both married; my...
    InkiSnowe InkiSnowe 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Dammit - I wish I could just lay next to him without thinking of Michael. Or close my eyes without seeing his smile and remembering how his lips felt. I wish I could give this guy...
    xINcognitoX xINcognitoX 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    He's married and far away from me. How I got in this situation ? I have no idea, all I know is it has to end somehow, both for me and for him. He's the most wonderful person I have...
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's Still Married - Yep, it's true, I am with a married man.  He is officially still married, but separated.  We have lived together for the past 20 years.  We have...
    boarderline boarderline 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 8, 2008

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    Not Typically My Music... But Love The Lyrics - Escapade - Janet Jackson As I was walkin' by, saw you standin' there with a smileLookin' shy you caught my eye thought you'd want to...
    MillyFlwr55 MillyFlwr55 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I knew I loved him from the beginning I met him. I didn't want to give him a chance but when I did, I couldn't let go
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Am So Miserable.. - This is my story..... A few years ago, I met this guy, i was 24 he was 30, he used to come to our office as support for our internet solution. One day i sent a...
    wrongSad wrongSad 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    I Am In Love With A Married Man - I have been seeing a married man for 5 years. Every month he tells his wife he has to go on a business trip but really he is coming to see me. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 1, 2012