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I Am In Love With a Married Man

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    Well...I don't want to be alone

    but I don't really want to meet anyone new...or at least I'm so over trying to meet guys. I thought things were getting easier because I'm not thinking of him every minute...didn't look at his blog all day...so that was a new thing. Still I decided to write on EP because I...
    lilimartelini lilimartelini 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I'm very busy working at 2 different jobs,

    so I literally go to work and home, occasional grocery visit, occasional dinner with a girlfriend. So, it's pretty incredible that I met someone. I went to a social gathering about spirituality. I nearly talked myself out of it, but it was a tarot gift exchange and since I'd...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 16, 2015

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    Today the struggle is

    so real today, missing my MM so bad. Use to seeing him everyday and today I didn't . Being the OW is the hardest thing I have ever done. First time I have done something like this and I promise this will b the last. Falling in love with someone u can't have full time sucks.
    Bubbles1001 Bubbles1001 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    I am in a very very bad place right now

    and need someone to talk to. If you want to judge pls don't answer this thank you. It's the last thing I need right now
    spicegirl3 spicegirl3 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2015

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    We're Both Married, In Love With Each Other, And Wondering If I'm Just Staying Because Its Easier...

    I've been married for eight years, and dated my husband for four years before that. When he proposed I had hesitations, (not being tied down yet, etc) but I loved him, and knew he'd be a good husband, good provider, etc. He's loyal, smart, forgiving, and handsome. He knows how to...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    This is not only foolish,

    I think someone is trying to get my goat!
    gerold60 gerold60 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 14, 2015

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    I'm in love with him,

    we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we are actually accidentally falling in love.when i knew he's married i try not to be to close to him,but somehow I could...
    Sallina71 Sallina71 26-30 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So he just texted! I said i cant see him today,

    i dont really have any plans but I think is better to make up an excuse not to see him than telling him i dont wanna be the other woman... I did the right thing right?
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    So valentine day is coming up.

    I'm trying hard not to get excited. my MM said his W is leaving to go see her mom the Friday before v day. and won't be back till sunday. now this means I will not only have MM all to myself but I will also get two over nights. now I still think she's going to change her...
    nikita9042 nikita9042 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2015

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    I've known him for 8 years,

    was very single when we met. It was just a fwb type situation for a long time, on and off...more off than on, only because of me mostly. There's a 15 yr age difference (he's younger) and I thought for sure he had no interest in me other than sex. Last year, he got married. I...
    MissEvonne MissEvonne 46-50, F Jul 10, 2015

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    So, I am looking for anyone

    who has actually gotten out of the horrible place! I have been involved with a married man for almost 2 years! I can believe myself. I was married at the time myself; bored and looking for something to excite me. Like a fool thinking I couldn't get pregnant (infertility...
    vlcarrillo1 vlcarrillo1 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 15, 2015

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    here goes We started just

    as friends, we have fun and go out to eat he works in a place near mine we met through a common friend in a dinner gathering. he always ask me out when he have the time off from work. But then i dont know when it happened that I fell for him. he has always been vocal on how he...
    lyrene lyrene 41-45, F 3 Responses May 14, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    skyeccaa skyeccaa 26-30, F Jan 10

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    Ughhhh... Was texting him

    and we were getting romantic.. When his W popped up beside him and I was pushed to one side.
    complicatedsimplicity complicatedsimplicity 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2015

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    I am interested in others' opinions on this.

    MM and I have not been spending time together. I had been distancing myself, as I'd written in an earlier post, I am tired of playing second (or last) priority. We still talk mostly daily (well until today), but we have not been seeing much of each other. He's been unemployed...
    Maureen24 Maureen24 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2015

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    I have been in love with a married man

    for 3 years now. I adore him and I cherish the time we have together. However this is one of the most difficult situations I have ever been in. The highs and lows are extreme. He doesn't want to leave her because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. I don't want anyone to hurt either...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I have been with a man

    for 6 years....the thing is he is married. He has made so.many empty promises about leaving her but if he loves me as much as he.claims what is holding him back?? I have changed the person I was to try and become the person he wants me to be because I feel if I can do that then...
    OurLove2015 OurLove2015 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2015

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    I never thought I would be in this situation

    where I would be involved with a married man and fall deeply in love with him. I've heard of stories where two people meet and instant chemistry is formed; a chemistry and a connection that is indescribable and magical that it is hard to ignore. This experience happened with me...
    eyeneney eyeneney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2014

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    Well I'm new here and need advice.

    The short explanation of the story is I'm sleeping with my brothers best friend and he's married. We have known each other for years and he's 12 years older then me. I've always had a thing for him and never acted on it because he's married.. About 2 months ago a bunch of ppl...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 25, 2014

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    I've been having an affair with a married man

    for nearly 3 years. There's more to it than just physical attraction, there are real feeling's involved. Loving him is easy, it's the distance that I find so difficult
    CalamityJane0475 CalamityJane0475 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11 26-30, F Oct 11, 2015

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    I am in love with a friends sisters husband.

    First it was just sexual now I'm completely in love with him. I'm worried what will happen when my friends find out, I've tried to end it but I'm crazy about him. I don't expect him to leave his family but it hurts that he's not always around even when I need him the most. I don...
    kagisoSN kagisoSN 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand

    Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are now and came across an article similar to this that said you could make thousands of dollars within weeks with only an initial investment...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M Aug 22, 2015

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    Well, after a million years we ended our

    physical relationship for now. It's sad but I think it's probably for the best for myself. He is going to try to get his relationship at home in order and I need to be free of the negative feelings I'm having about his activities. If he wants an open relationship, he is going...
    v0lition v0lition 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    MM and I are so in love.

    . but we are also not crazy. He really loves his wife. I feel sorry for her because she is refusing the tenderness of this really beautiful man. and I believe that love and affection could actually heal her. He can't spend as much time with me during the holidays and is...
    v0lition v0lition 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2015

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    Sometimes it's like someone took a knife baby

    edgy and dull and cut a 6" valley through the middle of my soul
    lilimartelini lilimartelini 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2015

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    My Last Story And Why.........

    Met a man on a singles site. He never said he was single. We talked on line a bit then met in March '11. He is/was tall, handsome, definately country, married  and fun!His smile would melt an 'icecube'.I kidnaped him, he went willingly. We drove around my little town, down by...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    PART 1 I plan to write several posts about this.

    Its quite a story, and I just have to tell it. I'll call him Lou. We found each other by accident. I was in an abusive marriage, desperate and alone. I was meeting men online and trying to find an escape from my unhappiness. He responded to an inane post I made one night, and...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Can't Help Who Your Heart Chooses

    I'm 17 if that matters, I know most will say "you don't know what love is". But I do, unfortunately all the people that I've ever developed feelings for hurt me in almost everyway possible, and NEVER actually loved me back. Every guy I've ever dated, or been with has let me down...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    He is busy again, or

    rather she isn’t. Wait and wonder, wonder and wait. Seethe and assume and swirl and fester. Hello and… …I’m sorry What was that now? Who is this self indulgent woman who we used to would have hated? What is blocking the light at the end of this sweet tunnel? (other...
    HappyLadyIntrovert HappyLadyIntrovert 41-45, F Jun 17, 2014

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    I'm Not Ready Yet, A Poem

    I'm not ready yet Visions of moonlight And sunrises splash My gray canvas Rodanthe nights Kisses of sunlight & shadow Stain my lips a guilty red But oh, the sweetness, The joy, when hand in hand We faced the world. I'm not ready yet The comfort and fear In your arms, a fragrant...
    DearTinHeart DearTinHeart 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Tonight we talked about the things

    that I always want to hear. How much he believes in us, how he is NOT in this relationship wasting time waiting for it to end, and how serious he is about getting the hell out of there. He's working on a place to live, which is the only definite thing keeping him there. Being...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    It's crazy when I really stop

    and think about what I'm doing in my life and why am I in this situation. Am I a bad person? Is this supposed to teach me a lesson? How far will this go? Being in an affair is never something we plan or hope to be a part of but in some strange way the universe has drawn me so...
    Starrzalign Starrzalign 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2015

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    I've known him for a while

    as just a friend but now I'm developing feelings for him. I recently asked him if he wanted to hangout and I'm not sure if it was a good idea but I really want to spend more time with him.
    RustyKingdom RustyKingdom 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 21, 2015

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    Recently i got to know a gorgeous man,

    married with kids and 6 years younger than i am while on my vacation... I am not loving him but i am beginning in love with him. I am blessed and thankful that my vacation trip was a blessing in disguised.
    prettygoddess prettygoddess 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2015

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    I'm madly In love with my boyfriend.

    (Whose married). He's about 14 years older than me. And honestly. I'm so upset that my soul mate is married to a fat *****. Although we have fun get away weekends and dates. I want all of him. Too bad the way you get him is the way you lose him. It's weird tho. His co workers...
    Desslilly Desslilly 18-21 1 Response Jan 6

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    Question for you all.

    .. But here's the background first; I worked for 2 years, side by side with a man around my age and fell completely in love with him. We took every break together, capooled, and acted like two gitty kids. But the issue, you guessed it, he's married. We never crossed any...
    gamergal23 gamergal23 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    I am unhappily married

    and I have developed strong feelings for an old mutual friend. We've reconnected and talk often. I've hinted around but he doesn't seem to catch on. He's married and a very devoted family man. Should I keep hinting or try to get over my feelings?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29, 2015

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    I've loved him for almost four years

    and I will continue to love him in my heart. 💚💛💜💘
    lilmisssweet lilmisssweet 36-40, F 1 Response May 31, 2015

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    Oh the misery us women go through being in love

    with someone we can't have ..
    heartwantswhatitwants heartwantswhatitwants 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I'm so in love with my MM.

    He says he loves me too. The only time I'm truly happy in the relationship is when I'm with him. Because he's married, I'm not a priority. I'm the one he cancels on before anyone else. I don't deserve to be last on his list. I deserve to be a priority. I'm getting...
    KimPW KimPW 51-55, F 9 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    Where do I start. 21 years ago I had a brief

    affair with a man. We were both in the Army and the place was rough. It was very intense and I would go as far as to say we fell in love. Anyway we were both married so I chose to end it and make a go with my husband. We were posted away and I never saw him again until 6 years...
    Missymoo2710 Missymoo2710 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    Long story short. And please no judgements.

    I am looking for support and advice. I have been working on separating from my husband for a few years now. During this time, a male friend shared his feelings for me. He and I became very close, very fast. He then put the breaks on it and said he could only keep things casual...
    smokinglilies smokinglilies 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    I have been in a relationship with a married man

    for 2 years. He lied to me and said he was divorced . I moved over 600 miles away from my family to be with him. He say he's staying because of his girls. I feel stupid being the other woman
    Shon2013 Shon2013 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2015

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    I don't know how to feel.

    I try as hard as I possibly can not to let it bother me that he's not completely mine. I try to understand that he's making steps, and I need to be patient. I don't push, I don't complain. I let him do what he needs to do. He wants me to give 100%. And he wants me to be open...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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