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I Am In Love With a Married Man

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    I knew I loved him from the beginning I met him.

    I didn't want to give him a chance but when I did, I couldn't let go
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F Feb 21

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    I have reconnected with first love.

    I am separated from an abusive husband after 20 years. I have left and come back many times, but this guy gave me the strength to leave permanently this time. He reminded me of who I really was.....20 plus years ago and told me I did not deserve any of the stuff I have put up...
    wmoss68 wmoss68 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    He's Still Married

    Yep, it's true, I am with a married man.  He is officially still married, but separated.  We have lived together for the past 20 years.  We have 2 children.  People assume that we are married.  To me, right now, marriage is just a piece of paper. ...
    boarderline boarderline 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 8, 2008

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    I'm Still With My Married Man.

    So for the past two and a half months I have been living with my mm and his wife. My mm wanted us to all get along and be in a three-some relationship together. It worked shortly but the wife deep down was doing it to save her marriage. It also came from her mouth. We interact...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2013

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    Desperately In Love.

    I don't know where to start. I'm such a mess right now. First off, I suppose I should make it clear that we have not had sex. Also, we are both married; my marriage is not an obstacle, but his is. Ok, from the beginning: We met at a party up in the mountains, a place we both go...
    InkiSnowe InkiSnowe 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to

    me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time? I am young and I know I still "got" it. Your thoughts?
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 7

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    I am in love with a married man.

    Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our first date we hit it off and it felt like we had known each other for years. I have never had a connection with anyone like I have...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    He's my colleague and my teacher at the same

    time. I've been interested in him for 4 years, when I started working with him. We've started to talk to each other last year, like 6 months ago, around the same time he got married to his 6 year girlfriend (now wife). He kinda confessed to me in october or november, and made it...
    AL1c3 AL1c3 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Please Hear Me Out About 'Him'

    I have a boyfriend and have been with him since a few months after my divorce in 2005. The relationship started out great but I lost the passion and feeling desirable with him. I think we are both out of love with each other but are too 'comfortable' to rock the boat. He really...
    ConfusedinHB ConfusedinHB 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Well I'm new here and need advice.

    The short explanation of the story is I'm sleeping with my brothers best friend and he's married. We have known each other for years and he's 12 years older then me. I've always had a thing for him and never acted on it because he's married.. About 2 months ago a bunch of ppl...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 25

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    Semi Mistress

    I am the semi mistress of a married man for 3 weeks now. Iam a cd in transition and I give him what he needs that she( his wife) won't. Unfortunately I am not as much to him as he is to me. :-(
    MadisonSilk MadisonSilk 41-45, T Jun 16, 2013

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    I am in love with a married man,

    i have walked away many times but i come back he is truly the love of my life. I am not ready to leave him but maybe one day i will. Would like to hear from anyone going through the same thing
    aliii aliii 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    How I Fell In Love With A Married Man

    So after 3 years of working with him, speaking to him daily, emailing him with a touch of basic harmless flirting the time came for me to tell him that i was leaving, the company i worked for and that someone else was going to be doing my Job. So lets stay in touch came out of...
    terracotta2003 terracotta2003 31-35 3 Responses May 17, 2011

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    I live with my married man....

    So I have been homeless for about 5 months. A month and half to two months now I've been staying with my MM.........and his wife!! I ask myself how did this happen...and all I can say is that I've always been dealt a ****** hand in life. He offered for me to come stay with him...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    Quick update: after a couple weeks of no

    communication between us, he called today. I decided to answer, after all the things am going thru i needed to hear his voice. We talked a little about my situation at home. Then he said he loved me. I said should i believe you? He replied why you never believe me? Then i...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Can't Help Who Your Heart Chooses

    I'm 17 if that matters, I know most will say "you don't know what love is". But I do, unfortunately all the people that I've ever developed feelings for hurt me in almost everyway possible, and NEVER actually loved me back. Every guy I've ever dated, or been with has let me down...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    We're Both Married, In Love With Each Other, And Wondering If I'm Just Staying Because Its Easier...

    I've been married for eight years, and dated my husband for four years before that. When he proposed I had hesitations, (not being tied down yet, etc) but I loved him, and knew he'd be a good husband, good provider, etc. He's loyal, smart, forgiving, and handsome. He knows how to...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Left In Limbo

    It started out as what seemed to be just sex for both if us. He was my boss of about 2 years but we didnt know each other that well. I knew he was in a loveless, sexless marriage and i suspected that he stayed in it for his child. very quickly our passion grew into a close...
    rekha rekha 31-35 7 Responses Apr 22, 2008

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    I do not know what to do.

    I am in love with a married man, I did not know he was married for the first 4 months we dated. He is everything I want and more. He admitted to me and my heart was broken into a million pieces. We broke up, and have not spoke in 2 months up until a week ago. I realized...
    nb0510 nb0510 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I met this guy two months ago

    and we fell head over heels in love. The only problem is that he has been married for 16 years and told me that he is getting his affairs in order and ready to walk away from the marriage. they have two kids together but he told me that he was already leaving before he met me...
    lovesick2014 lovesick2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I never thought id ever fall

    for someone who is married.. I always laughed at the women you see in movies or tv shows, who fall in love with a married man and believed him when he told her he would leave his wife. I always thought to myself how stupid could a woman be for believing him? Now here i am...
    taurus561989 taurus561989 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    Tortured!

    I have been having an affair with a married co-worker for over a year. According to him, his marriage is everything but sexual. They have a great life besides this one issue. He has no plans to leave the wife and he never lead me to believe anything different. We knew each...
    febreze123 febreze123 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    I am in love with my ex fiancee.

    we broke up back in 2012 and 3 months later he is married with a baby on the way. and now that we have both moved back to the same area and town he finds time to e-mail or text me and even ask to meet up. i know that i shouldnt but i agree to meet up with him. we both have...
    hisbutterfly89 hisbutterfly89 22-25, F Mar 18

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    FWB...

    I am also married....and what started off as FWB has turned into something more....but what am I doing? He's in the military and his wife isn't stationed with him, my husband is deployed....so could it be that we are both lonely? It has been about a year that we've been seeing...
    addicted2tattoos addicted2tattoos 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Everything Old Is New Again

    This is a strange situation for me, and I haven't seen another like it in my research on this topic. Twenty years ago, he and I dated. We were together for three years and broke up under really painful circumstances for me. However, we kept in touch for about a year afterwards...
    mmartian mmartian 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2007

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    We Knew Yet We Continue..

    Been in this relationship since St Paddy's Day last year...The day I met J..  Still remember the sweet moment till today..from the gripping of his hands, the dance we had, the laughter we shared and the non stop emails we wrote to each other for a month before I finally...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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    I have been in love with a married man

    for 3 years now. I adore him and I cherish the time we have together. However this is one of the most difficult situations I have ever been in. The highs and lows are extreme. He doesn't want to leave her because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. I don't want anyone to hurt either...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Unexpected

    He was the last person I ever dreamed I'd fall for.  20 years my senior, stern,  high strung....married with two teenage daughters.  He's a VP at my office, but I don't report to him.  We always got along as we shared a similiar sense of humor, but I found him...
    Maureen24 Maureen24 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2009

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    Im 29, Hes 50 And Married

    I see age as just a number, but I see marriage as forever... so why would i ever begin a relationship with a married man?! It didnt start out as anything other than friends.. then it became more than that. I wanted to be around him all the time, he would call me everyday and text...
    native55 native55 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    There Is Just Something About Him..

    I honestly don't know what it is about this man that makes me so crazy in love. It could be how free and open he is with everything in his life. He does not fear judgement, because he says he is doing the best he can. It could be the bad boy past that has led him to be the...
    simplencountry simplencountry 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    I Am In Also In Love With A Married Man

    I have told my story at other sites and have been judged, yelled at, told what a horrible person I am and that I can find better. I am not here for that. I just want someone who has been in a similar situation to listen and understand. To know I am not alone I was in a abusive...
    Nicsav4 Nicsav4 51-55, F 5 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    I'm Not Ready Yet, A Poem

    I'm not ready yet Visions of moonlight And sunrises splash My gray canvas Rodanthe nights Kisses of sunlight & shadow Stain my lips a guilty red But oh, the sweetness, The joy, when hand in hand We faced the world. I'm not ready yet The comfort and fear In your arms, a fragrant...
    DearTinHeart DearTinHeart 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Dammit

    I wish I could just lay next to him without thinking of Michael. Or close my eyes without seeing his smile and remembering how his lips felt. I wish I could give this guy all my attention. But I can't. Something holds me back. And times like this I can't help but think if he's...
    xINcognitoX xINcognitoX 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    Am So Miserable..

    This is my story..... A few years ago, I met this guy, i was 24 he was 30, he used to come to our office as support for our internet solution. One day i sent a some letter to their organisation and it landed on his desk, he called me up and we had a chat and there started the...
    wrongSad wrongSad 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    IS AN AFFAIR JUST A TOTAL FANTASY?

    The more I read about women engaged in an affair with a married man, the more I see so many similarities. I met my mm 15 months ago so very innocently like so many other women. He met me through a friend as I was going through a sad divorce from my alcoholic abusive husband.  MM...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 13 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    He's married and far away from me.

    How I got in this situation ? I have no idea, all I know is it has to end somehow, both for me and for him. He's the most wonderful person I have ever met, and we haven't done anything physical, just texting a lot ... A lot... Everyday for the last 7 months. I feel so stupid for...
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    He is busy again, or

    rather she isn’t. Wait and wonder, wonder and wait. Seethe and assume and swirl and fester. Hello and… …I’m sorry What was that now? Who is this self indulgent woman who we used to would have hated? What is blocking the light at the end of this sweet tunnel? (other...
    HappyLadyIntrovert HappyLadyIntrovert 41-45, F Jun 17

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    I Am In Love With A Married Man

    I have been seeing a married man for 5 years. Every month he tells his wife he has to go on a business trip but really he is coming to see me. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me too. I know he does cause when we are together he pretends I am the only person wherever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    Over... Again

    Well what a whirlwind month... on, off, emails, phone calls one beautiful afternoon... He ended it again, 1st two times I did, this time he said his life was too commitment driven, he couldnt seperate / compartmentalize, he felt guilt. Too much, he couldn't follow the "rules...
    MillyFlwr55 MillyFlwr55 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Please Help

    It was a long-distance, emotional affair. I met him summer 2012 while on vacation. I was only there for a couple of weeks but we continued to talk to each other via phone and Skype for the next five months. He also had a long-distance marriage because his wife was still waiting...
    Marley03 Marley03 26-30 Oct 19, 2013

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    I never thought I would be in this situation

    where I would be involved with a married man and fall deeply in love with him. I've heard of stories where two people meet and instant chemistry is formed; a chemistry and a connection that is indescribable and magical that it is hard to ignore. This experience happened with me...
    eyeneney eyeneney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man,

    who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years and has two young kids with her. I didn't like him until knowing him for 4 months, when I had a dream about him. I didn't know he was married...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    So he just texted! I said i cant see him today,

    i dont really have any plans but I think is better to make up an excuse not to see him than telling him i dont wanna be the other woman... I did the right thing right?
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    JR and I have known each other

    since I was 19.. we dated for about 8 mos at that time, and, having been young and totally not ready for marriage, we parted romantic ways. Through the years, we've both been married. I am now divorced, while JR remains married to the mother of his children. I know he's...
    jrsgal jrsgal 41-45 Feb 19

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    Not Again!

    I've been involved with married men for most of my adult life. I don't  really believe one man and one woman can be together monogamously forever. With a married man, I don't feel smothered. But no matter how great it is, I always end up wanting more, which totally...
    anatevka anatevka 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    My Last Story And Why.........

    Met a man on a singles site. He never said he was single. We talked on line a bit then met in March '11. He is/was tall, handsome, definately country, married  and fun!His smile would melt an 'icecube'.I kidnaped him, he went willingly. We drove around my little town, down by...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    Not Typically My Music... But Love The Lyrics

    Escapade - Janet Jackson As I was walkin' by, saw you standin' there with a smileLookin' shy you caught my eye thought you'd want to hang for a whileWell, I'd like to be with you and you know it's Friday tooI hope you can find the time this weekend to relax and unwindMy mind's...
    MillyFlwr55 MillyFlwr55 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Love Hurts....

    We clawed, we chained our hearts in vain We jumped never asking why We kissed, I fell under your spell. A love no one could deny Don't you ever say I just walked away I will always want you I can't live a lie, running for my life I will always want you I came in like a wrecking...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Don't Judge My Love For A Married Man...accept Me For Who I Am

    Its not that I condone this behavior or that I am here to argue the point of whether it is wrong or right. All I am saying is that stuff happens sometimes and you fall for people. I am love with my best friend, he is my soul mate and lover...he is also married. It is hard to move...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    How do you let go of something

    so strong, so intense? Something I've never felt before. To go back to nothing. I'm not married. I'm alone. My feelings change from one moment to the next.... One minute I think I'm a total idiot and I should let go, the next I think I can't live without him. Seriously, How?
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am in love with a man I never met it's hard to know that yeah he loves me but not in that way I'll never get to meet him I'll never get to see his gorgeous brown eyes...
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    I was having an affair with a married man since September. I went into it for a physical needs type if thing, but it quickly deepened. He was the one who initiated the deeper...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 months. It started off as all relationships do. All nice and loving. Now he screams at me , calls me names, and just recently...
    jon0517 jon0517 36-40, F Jul 2

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