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I Am In Love With a Married Man

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    Trying desperately to figure out how to be

    with him again for more than a few hours. We have a mid-way meeting point, which is no trouble for me, but he has to move mountains to make it work. Last time it almost didn't happen, and our weekend ended up being only 12 hours. Im not willing to fly there as long as he...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    Quick update: after a couple weeks of no

    communication between us, he called today. I decided to answer, after all the things am going thru i needed to hear his voice. We talked a little about my situation at home. Then he said he loved me. I said should i believe you? He replied why you never believe me? Then i...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    So I am 26 and have been with my man

    for 2 years. We live together but he is still married. I love him with all my heart we are honestly the perfect fit. We work in the same industry and have the same sensibilities. We speak without speaking. Thing is he is still married and he has 2 kids under 10 years old. He...
    water4elephants water4elephants 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Desperately In Love.

    I don't know where to start. I'm such a mess right now. First off, I suppose I should make it clear that we have not had sex. Also, we are both married; my marriage is not an obstacle, but his is. Ok, from the beginning: We met at a party up in the mountains, a place we both go...
    InkiSnowe InkiSnowe 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    My Last Story And Why.........

    Met a man on a singles site. He never said he was single. We talked on line a bit then met in March '11. He is/was tall, handsome, definately country, married  and fun!His smile would melt an 'icecube'.I kidnaped him, he went willingly. We drove around my little town, down by...
    djw1 djw1 61-65, F 13 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    I was instantly attracted to my hs English

    teacher the moment I walked into the lass room. I'm a fairly private person but I opened up to him like no other within months of school starting. We got fairly close and always got along well for a student teacher relationship. Mind you he is married with two beautiful children...
    SomethingAboutThatName SomethingAboutThatName 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    IS AN AFFAIR JUST A TOTAL FANTASY?

    The more I read about women engaged in an affair with a married man, the more I see so many similarities. I met my mm 15 months ago so very innocently like so many other women. He met me through a friend as I was going through a sad divorce from my alcoholic abusive husband.  MM...
    lakesgirl lakesgirl 46-50, F 12 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    We're Both Married, In Love With Each Other, And Wondering If I'm Just Staying Because Its Easier...

    I've been married for eight years, and dated my husband for four years before that. When he proposed I had hesitations, (not being tied down yet, etc) but I loved him, and knew he'd be a good husband, good provider, etc. He's loyal, smart, forgiving, and handsome. He knows how to...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Semi Mistress

    I am the semi mistress of a married man for 3 weeks now. Iam a cd in transition and I give him what he needs that she( his wife) won't. Unfortunately I am not as much to him as he is to me. :-(
    MadisonSilk MadisonSilk 41-45, T Jun 16, 2013

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    There Is Just Something About Him..

    I honestly don't know what it is about this man that makes me so crazy in love. It could be how free and open he is with everything in his life. He does not fear judgement, because he says he is doing the best he can. It could be the bad boy past that has led him to be the...
    simplencountry simplencountry 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    I'm really attracted to my high school teacher

    and I can't stop thinking about him. I just don't have a lover like some people and I'm sad I can't tell my parents because whoever I like they tell people and Poke fun at it. I have no one to talk to I told my best friend but she said I was weird and doesn't do things with me...
    jujufruit12345 jujufruit12345 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 29

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    I'm Not Ready Yet, A Poem

    I'm not ready yet Visions of moonlight And sunrises splash My gray canvas Rodanthe nights Kisses of sunlight & shadow Stain my lips a guilty red But oh, the sweetness, The joy, when hand in hand We faced the world. I'm not ready yet The comfort and fear In your arms, a fragrant...
    DearTinHeart DearTinHeart 31-35, F 3 Responses May 15, 2013

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    Over a year and I'm still waiting!

    When I express myself, he gets impatient with me and avoids me. Doesn't call or text, it blows my mind because he also said we can talk about anything. I get anxious and pissed off because I feel I'm wasting my time. Been friends with this man for 30 yrs, never in my thoughts...
    elioness1 elioness1 51-55, F Dec 11

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    So he just texted! I said i cant see him today,

    i dont really have any plans but I think is better to make up an excuse not to see him than telling him i dont wanna be the other woman... I did the right thing right?
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    This is my first post.

    I am totally in love with a married man, I am married also. It is hard a lot of times but I feel he is my soulmate.
    Sweetpea379 Sweetpea379 46-50, F Oct 15

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to

    me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time? I am young and I know I still "got" it. Your thoughts?
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 7

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    I never thought I would be in this situation

    where I would be involved with a married man and fall deeply in love with him. I've heard of stories where two people meet and instant chemistry is formed; a chemistry and a connection that is indescribable and magical that it is hard to ignore. This experience happened with me...
    eyeneney eyeneney 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    This is my first post.

    I am totally in love with a married man, I am married also. It is hard a lot of times but I feel he is my soulmate.
    Sweetpea379 Sweetpea379 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Don't Judge My Love For A Married Man...accept Me For Who I Am

    Its not that I condone this behavior or that I am here to argue the point of whether it is wrong or right. All I am saying is that stuff happens sometimes and you fall for people. I am love with my best friend, he is my soul mate and lover...he is also married. It is hard to move...
    smartandbeautiful3 smartandbeautiful3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Well I'm new here and need advice.

    The short explanation of the story is I'm sleeping with my brothers best friend and he's married. We have known each other for years and he's 12 years older then me. I've always had a thing for him and never acted on it because he's married.. About 2 months ago a bunch of ppl...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 25

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    PART 1 I plan to write several posts about this.

    Its quite a story, and I just have to tell it. I'll call him Lou. We found each other by accident. I was in an abusive marriage, desperate and alone. I was meeting men online and trying to find an escape from my unhappiness. He responded to an inane post I made one night, and...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Yes.. he is married. Yes.

    . I knew that he was.. No.. I wasn't looking for this.. But yes.. should he ever ask me, I would be the other woman. Since the day I met him.. I felt something for him. But over time my feelings have increased. now, he is all I think about. We communicate everyday. we see each...
    Caligrl34 Caligrl34 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I don't know how to feel.

    I try as hard as I possibly can not to let it bother me that he's not completely mine. I try to understand that he's making steps, and I need to be patient. I don't push, I don't complain. I let him do what he needs to do. He wants me to give 100%. And he wants me to be open...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Dying of embarrassment now!

    At work, was wasting some time, thinking of him, and started to write a love letter- one of those ruminations that you never intend to see the light of day. I had only written a few lines, but I started it with "Dear Fifty" (my nickname for him). I wandered away from my desk to...
    ladycaroline ladycaroline 26-30, F Dec 7

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    I have been in love with a married man

    for 3 years now. I adore him and I cherish the time we have together. However this is one of the most difficult situations I have ever been in. The highs and lows are extreme. He doesn't want to leave her because he doesn't want to hurt anyone. I don't want anyone to hurt either...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    This is my first post.

    I am totally in love with a married man, I am married also. It is hard a lot of times but I feel he is my soulmate.
    Sweetpea379 Sweetpea379 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    And he just told me that him

    and his wife are going to try to work things out for there child..
    beginagain2012 beginagain2012 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    PART 2 So. Back to Lou's marriage.

    He had plans to leave her, plans that went back six months before he met me. In NY, divorce is different than here, and he had a lawyer friend draw up divorce papers for him. He had not ever gotten to the point of actually leaving because they have two small children, and as...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F Sep 29

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    all of you that are in love with a married man

    are just the other woman and think of how the guy is if he's dating other woman he's just there for a few hit 'n' runs or a lot if u let him trick you just helping out
    xlovelybutterflyx xlovelybutterflyx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I do not respond to hate

    and judgement on this site. Trolls, haters, vindictive sarcasm, and insulting questions will be ignored. I will, however, block and report you. So will the other women in this group. And you will soon be just a memory like *David*.
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Who claims to want to work things out with his

    wife, then spends 4 hours on the phone with me. I know im his kryptonite and I cant help but call him because I know when he hears my voice, its all over and whatever he was talking earlier doesn't even matter. I know he can only hold his word for about 10 minutes then its all...
    beginagain2012 beginagain2012 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Oh the misery us women go through being in love

    with someone we can't have ..
    heartwantswhatitwants heartwantswhatitwants 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    How do you let go of something

    so strong, so intense? Something I've never felt before. To go back to nothing. I'm not married. I'm alone. My feelings change from one moment to the next.... One minute I think I'm a total idiot and I should let go, the next I think I can't live without him. Seriously, How?
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    I met this guy two months ago

    and we fell head over heels in love. The only problem is that he has been married for 16 years and told me that he is getting his affairs in order and ready to walk away from the marriage. they have two kids together but he told me that he was already leaving before he met me...
    lovesick2014 lovesick2014 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Love Hurts....

    We clawed, we chained our hearts in vain We jumped never asking why We kissed, I fell under your spell. A love no one could deny Don't you ever say I just walked away I will always want you I can't live a lie, running for my life I will always want you I came in like a wrecking...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    Like many here, I'm in love with a married man.

    Rich and I met 3 years ago, through craigslist. I had extra tickets to a concert and wanted someone to come with me. At the end of a week, I choose him. He told me he was divorced. When we met both of us felt this instant connection. We had so much in common, it just felt right...
    Loveangelstar200 Loveangelstar200 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 18

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    Only thing worse than having to sit next to the

    wife of the man that you love for three hours? Having to listen to her complain about him!!
    ladycaroline ladycaroline 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    PART 3 We have met in person,

    yes. I know that's what you EPers want to know. Our first meeting in June involved an 8 hour round-trip drive for me, and we spent 4 hours together. That was the test, and we knew it was real. Everything was right. There was chemistry, we enjoyed each others' company, it was...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    He is busy again, or

    rather she isn’t. Wait and wonder, wonder and wait. Seethe and assume and swirl and fester. Hello and… …I’m sorry What was that now? Who is this self indulgent woman who we used to would have hated? What is blocking the light at the end of this sweet tunnel? (other...
    HappyLadyIntrovert HappyLadyIntrovert 41-45, F Jun 17

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    This is my first post.

    I am totally in love with a married man, I am married also. It is hard a lot of times but I feel he is my soulmate.
    Sweetpea379 Sweetpea379 46-50, F Oct 15

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    I'm dedicating this to my teacher

    who rejected me and Inever got to know him but if mr w you're watching you might not understand i just loved u a lot ... https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7qH4qyi1-Ys
    jujufruit12345 jujufruit12345 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I knew I loved him from the beginning I met him.

    I didn't want to give him a chance but when I did, I couldn't let go
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F Feb 21

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    Can't Help Who Your Heart Chooses

    I'm 17 if that matters, I know most will say "you don't know what love is". But I do, unfortunately all the people that I've ever developed feelings for hurt me in almost everyway possible, and NEVER actually loved me back. Every guy I've ever dated, or been with has let me down...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2013

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    Tonight we talked about the things

    that I always want to hear. How much he believes in us, how he is NOT in this relationship wasting time waiting for it to end, and how serious he is about getting the hell out of there. He's working on a place to live, which is the only definite thing keeping him there. Being...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    PART 4 Lou has tried to leave his marriage.

    It's difficult to leave with no support and two kids. I get that. I was able to leave because there was domestic violence, and my family supported me. I had a place to go, and took my kids with me. Here's what happens when you are a man who has done absolutely everything for...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 29

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