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I Am In Love With a Much Older Man

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    your hands on mine . my hands on yours

    when you look at me to smile as I do the same . I wish I could hold your hand forever but it cant be . we cant be one . not till I turn 18 . for the past 2 years us wanting to be something so bad but we couldn't but once it is july we can be much more
    KatsSeg18 KatsSeg18 18-21, F May 6

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    Old Enough To Be My Dad

    I'm 17 and I love a man who is a teacher(he was my teacher, or, I did never had him but I'll say my teacher). When I fell in love with him I was 16 at that time and didn't know the age. I guessed he was around 35. Time passed by and I couldn't get him because he was a teacher...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Well I May Be A Little Different

    So my age gap may be a little bigger than most of the people in group but here we go! I have always had a love for older men, they know how to treat a woman and most of them are mature so I get along with them better (I'm an old soul in a young body haha) I realized that when I...
    Chantillylace93 Chantillylace93 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    A Whole Different Ball Game............

    I've posed this question before - does an age difference really matter when you're 52 and he's 74? My favorite answer was "not until you're 84 and he's 105" lmao. I don't understand the attraction at all. It's not sexual - it's so much more - don't get me wrong, he is incredibly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: β€žWe have phoned, haven't we?β€œ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    My DK

    I am 34 he is 63........ We met online, he was married. I was separated. He recently left his wife because in his words "he chose me". The past few weeks since he has left his wife he has moved to my town, across the street, rented a house that was suppose to be "our home...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Age Really Doesn't Matter.

    I'm a 19 year old girl and falling in love with a 41 year old man. It's so funny to say that because knowing me, the way I used to be, I would've never believed that I would even glance at someone that much older than me. My story began at work, he was a new manager. I was...
    dorii dorii 18-21 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    carriecc11 carriecc11 22-25, F Feb 18

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I am in love with an older man.  He is 12 years my senior.  He is divorced and a confirmed bachelor.  We have been seeing each other discretely for almost 3 years now.  Sometimes when I look really hard at him, I can see his true age of almost 50.  At...
    lonelyintexas lonelyintexas 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Confused In Love Please Read

    I had a very difficult boyfriend in the past. I met this guy who was on his motorcycle. He wanted to give me a ride to the store i was walking. I said no then he came back around in his vehicle and asked me can he give me a ride. I said no i have a boyfriend well he gave me his...
    lookingforloveinwrongplaces lookingforloveinwrongplaces 18-21 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Our Relationship Isnt Just Black And White...

    Having been closed up in your hotel room since late lastnight... We'd finally stepped out into the sunshine - Johannesburg has never looked more dull in the face of you. Why we couldn't continue our ardent love making was a matter of business - you were getting wined and dine and...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    I think I love him. He's 31,

    and I'm 18. We started talking a few months ago, he's a musician, well known in my country. I just messaged him telling him how good his band's music is and that's where it all started. I was surprised that he was even interested in talking to me. He's really cool, and I always...
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    Teenage And In Love With An Adult!

    I am a teenage girl who is 15 years old and trully in love with a guy who is 14 years older.He is very nice ,he plays in one of my favorite groups and he is awesome.I've met him in concert where he was playing with his band ,and I was so excited cause of the first moment we have...
    Nefmetalholic Nefmetalholic 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    Depressed!

    So i was in a relationship with a man 15yrs older than i am, i always go for older men because i personally think they r more stable and ready for a committed relationship, now im wondering if it was a bad idea, i met him when i was 18 he was 33 he was the sweetest guy ever and...
    doveeyes4 doveeyes4 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    It Feels Wonderful

    I am 22, and my boyfriend is 38. 16 year age difference. He lives in Seattle, but grew up in Wisconsin. And I have lived in Southern California my entire life. We both have never been married but had terrible relationships in the past. We found each other playing Left 4 Dead 2...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

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    My Older Man

    He's old enough to be my father and he's 53. I'm 29. I've known him since I was a little girl. His niece was my best friend growing up. He's adorable, honest, a farm boy who wears tight wranglers, cute, funny and an amazing man all in one. He's never even been married...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    I Can't Stop Loving Him - Don't Know What To Do

    He is 12 years older than me and i know him for 4 years now. He has a girlfriend and is completely happy and there are going to marry some day when they have the money. I see him 2 times a week because he is on the same sportclub as me. He is always so sweat to me and we have...
    BeInTwoMinds BeInTwoMinds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    I (used) to be in love with a man 33 years older

    than me. He was amazing, but it didn't work out. I honestly, truly don't care about age.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    27 Year Difference

    I'm in love with a man 27 years older than I.  He is divorcing, but I'm still in my unhappy marriage.  I feel like I'm a teenager with all the "I wonder if he likes me in that way" thoughts, and it's driving me nuts.  Common sense and enough life...
    frustratedfrau frustratedfrau 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 22-25, F Mar 6

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    They Grey Area Between The Black And White

    Have you ever been in love with someone who frustrates you as much as they make you want them more? When I entered into this relationship I knew it would push some boundaries and change a lot of what I thought I knew about men and how I relate to them... I also wondered how hard...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Omg!!! He's Into Me! And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I'm 18 and he is 30! he's 12years older than me. I met him at our university, he is the guidance councilor in our department. I like him so much, he doesn't look 30, actually he looks like 23 years old and i admit that he's damn hot! I found out to his best friend, that he also...
    chareff0920 chareff0920 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Now Is The Turning Point

    my boyfriend is about to turn 42 ill be 25 in an other few months the age difference is substantial. he looks and acts young, and drinks to much, so do i, but that is an other story. we have been together for 3 years and now he wants to get married. were both college students...
    katearoo katearoo 22-25 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    He's Leaving Everything to Be With Me

    I am 38, he is 60. We met on the internet and after a month of daily and serious chatting, we fell completely in love. He is now leaving everything to come and be with me. I am very scared and excited by it all. Whichever way I look at it, I know I want to be with him. Noone, not...
    DaveKat DaveKat 36-40 8 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Love Uncertainity

    Am in love with wit 10 plus years old man.none of my friends know him but his knows.he is the best in all compared to ex's.except we argue a lot on time spending,he is busy,I want attention.he has kids
    vivienn vivienn 26-30, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F a week ago

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    I Need To Get This Out....

    Well, I told you already that I am with an older man and you know my story if you read it before. Well, about 3 weeks ago I found out a few things. First off, he is 50 and not 39. He is also in the middle of a divorce. He filed for divorce way before he met me and it is final on...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    I am in love with an older man. He's 20 years older than I am. We are both single but have dated secretly for almost a year because we work together. Recently he has talked about...
    winelover1 winelover1 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    cindytongcc11 cindytongcc11 26-30, F Jul 20

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    Long story short, I'm inlove with a married man, who's 32. I'm 17 btw, he has a daughter who's one, his wife is due with their second child in a few months, and me and this man...
    Princessjaa Princessjaa 16-17, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F a week ago

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    I am engaged to a younger man. We're getting married soon. I was friends with him for a long time before we confessed our love to each other. He proposed and I said yes. He has...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    This morning I am angry. Where do they get off bringing us into their world, getting us to fall in love with them and trust them and then just cutting us out like we are nothing...
    Kaspeers Kaspeers 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    My scorpio and I had a huge fight a couple weeks ago and it ended up with him breaking up with me. Since then I haven't been the same, all I think about is him and when I do I just...
    madusand madusand 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I am a married man and a few women have come to me asking for more than a friendship. I have turned them down but I have been tempted... Should I just give in and have a great time...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm so tired of having people tell me it's too soon. It's our life together and I wish people would just be happy for us. A little bit of our story. Five years ago I met my fianc...
    Gj344526 Gj344526 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Quick update: after a couple weeks of no communication between us, he called today. I decided to answer, after all the things am going thru i needed to hear his voice. We talked...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I met this guy two months ago and we fell head over heels in love. The only problem is that he has been married for 16 years and told me that he is getting his affairs in order...
    lovesick2014 lovesick2014 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    It's something I would wanna do at least once in my life.
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know it's something I would wanna do at least once
    Poiro787 Poiro787 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm no longer feeling sad. Though I miss my brother terrible, I'm glad I'll e seeing my boyfriend soon. Last night my brother called and we talked for as long as we could. I'm just...
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Sooo my boyfriend was suppose to come home January 29th.... Then it got switched to December 17th....... Now he tells me he has no clue when he's coming home . I really try to keep...
    lele16 lele16 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    He's been in for over a year now. I thought it would be a cool idea to write him a few letters to surprise him when he checks the mail. I'm so excited for him to receive them.
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F Jul 16

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    Skype call this morning was amazing. He helped me study for a bit while I made breakfast. He really misses my cooking :))
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    ITS MY 21st BIRTHDAY!!!! I had another amazing wake up call from my boyfriend today. Best birthday by far!!!!! Hopefully I get to see him soon (50 days)
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I'm in love with the sand man from the gaurdians movie πŸ˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜šπŸ˜œπŸ˜Šβ˜ΊοΈπŸ˜„
    fluffy96 fluffy96 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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