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I Am In Love With a Much Older Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 214 People

    I Need To Get This Out....

    Well, I told you already that I am with an older man and you know my story if you read it before. Well, about 3 weeks ago I found out a few things. First off, he is 50 and not 39. He is also in the middle of a divorce. He filed for divorce way before he met me and it is final on...
    gklue gklue 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I am in love with an older man.  He is 12 years my senior.  He is divorced and a confirmed bachelor.  We have been seeing each other discretely for almost 3 years now.  Sometimes when I look really hard at him, I can see his true age of almost 50.  At...
    lonelyintexas lonelyintexas 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I Can't Stop Loving Him - Don't Know What To Do

    He is 12 years older than me and i know him for 4 years now. He has a girlfriend and is completely happy and there are going to marry some day when they have the money. I see him 2 times a week because he is on the same sportclub as me. He is always so sweat to me and we have...
    BeInTwoMinds BeInTwoMinds 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    How does your family deal with your

    relationship? I need advice on how to deal with my family. My mother, father, brother and sister all know about my relationship (we live together, he is 41 years older than me and we have been together for almost 6 years now- talking about getting married soon.) Specifically...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Age Really Doesn't Matter.

    I'm a 19 year old girl and falling in love with a 41 year old man. It's so funny to say that because knowing me, the way I used to be, I would've never believed that I would even glance at someone that much older than me. My story began at work, he was a new manager. I was...
    dorii dorii 16-17 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I think I love him. He's 31,

    and I'm 18. We started talking a few months ago, he's a musician, well known in my country. I just messaged him telling him how good his band's music is and that's where it all started. I was surprised that he was even interested in talking to me. He's really cool, and I always...
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    I (used) to be in love with a man 33 years older

    than me. He was amazing, but it didn't work out. I honestly, truly don't care about age.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    Our Relationship Isnt Just Black And White...

    Having been closed up in your hotel room since late lastnight... We'd finally stepped out into the sunshine - Johannesburg has never looked more dull in the face of you. Why we couldn't continue our ardent love making was a matter of business - you were getting wined and dine and...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 16-17, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2014

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    Today we started talking about getting married

    soon. Well, we have mentioned it here and there for years but TODAY he said the word "soon"! Ah I could jump for joy! I am 23, he's 65. We have lived together for about 10 months now and have been together since I turned 18. He is the love of my life and I couldn't be happier...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Feb 20

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    I'm in love with a much older man.

    He's 56 and I'm 20. Everything about him is amazing. We both agreed to keep it fun and simple. It been a year and 3 weeks. I don't know how to tell him.
    EpicAce EpicAce 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2014

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    27 Year Difference

    I'm in love with a man 27 years older than I.  He is divorcing, but I'm still in my unhappy marriage.  I feel like I'm a teenager with all the "I wonder if he likes me in that way" thoughts, and it's driving me nuts.  Common sense and enough life...
    frustratedfrau frustratedfrau 22-25 2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    Now Is The Turning Point

    my boyfriend is about to turn 42 ill be 25 in an other few months the age difference is substantial. he looks and acts young, and drinks to much, so do i, but that is an other story. we have been together for 3 years and now he wants to get married. were both college students...
    katearoo katearoo 18-21 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    He's Leaving Everything to Be With Me

    I am 38, he is 60. We met on the internet and after a month of daily and serious chatting, we fell completely in love. He is now leaving everything to come and be with me. I am very scared and excited by it all. Whichever way I look at it, I know I want to be with him. Noone, not...
    DaveKat DaveKat 31-35 8 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6, 2014

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    My DK

    I am 34 he is 63........ We met online, he was married. I was separated. He recently left his wife because in his words "he chose me". The past few weeks since he has left his wife he has moved to my town, across the street, rented a house that was suppose to be "our home...
    lady1979 lady1979 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    My Older Man

    He's old enough to be my father and he's 53. I'm 29. I've known him since I was a little girl. His niece was my best friend growing up. He's adorable, honest, a farm boy who wears tight wranglers, cute, funny and an amazing man all in one. He's never even been married...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Gunna get married next month.

    I'm 40, he's 64. Everyone in town thinks he's my dad since he was my adopted dad for so long, that's how I introduced him.
    wendycat wendycat 36-40, F Jan 10

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    DaSode DaSode 13-15, M Nov 5, 2014

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    Well I haven't been on here in a while

    and a lot has changed. One thing that hasn't changed is my interest in older men ;) About a month ago I met this guy...I'm 17 and he's 33. It's odd and I NEVER thought I would like someone that much older than me but jeez...this guy is something else. He likes me. But because...
    needtotellnow needtotellnow 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I don't care about age

    and I really like a man who is 23 yrs older then me.
    nyx39 nyx39 31-35, F 13 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Depressed!

    So i was in a relationship with a man 15yrs older than i am, i always go for older men because i personally think they r more stable and ready for a committed relationship, now im wondering if it was a bad idea, i met him when i was 18 he was 33 he was the sweetest guy ever and...
    doveeyes4 doveeyes4 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 26-30 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Omg!!! He's Into Me! And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I'm 18 and he is 30! he's 12years older than me. I met him at our university, he is the guidance councilor in our department. I like him so much, he doesn't look 30, actually he looks like 23 years old and i admit that he's damn hot! I found out to his best friend, that he also...
    chareff0920 chareff0920 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Teenage And In Love With An Adult!

    I am a teenage girl who is 15 years old and trully in love with a guy who is 14 years older.He is very nice ,he plays in one of my favorite groups and he is awesome.I've met him in concert where he was playing with his band ,and I was so excited cause of the first moment we have...
    Nefmetalholic Nefmetalholic 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    Old Enough To Be My Dad

    I'm 17 and I love a man who is a teacher(he was my teacher, or, I did never had him but I'll say my teacher). When I fell in love with him I was 16 at that time and didn't know the age. I guessed he was around 35. Time passed by and I couldn't get him because he was a teacher...
    deleted deleted 22-25 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    your hands on mine . my hands on yours

    when you look at me to smile as I do the same . I wish I could hold your hand forever but it cant be . we cant be one . not till I turn 18 . for the past 2 years us wanting to be something so bad but we couldn't but once it is july we can be much more
    KatsSeg18 KatsSeg18 18-21, F May 6, 2014

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    They Grey Area Between The Black And White

    Have you ever been in love with someone who frustrates you as much as they make you want them more? When I entered into this relationship I knew it would push some boundaries and change a lot of what I thought I knew about men and how I relate to them... I also wondered how hard...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 16-17, F 8 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Well I May Be A Little Different

    So my age gap may be a little bigger than most of the people in group but here we go! I have always had a love for older men, they know how to treat a woman and most of them are mature so I get along with them better (I'm an old soul in a young body haha) I realized that when I...
    Chantillylace93 Chantillylace93 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    A Whole Different Ball Game............

    I've posed this question before - does an age difference really matter when you're 52 and he's 74? My favorite answer was "not until you're 84 and he's 105" lmao. I don't understand the attraction at all. It's not sexual - it's so much more - don't get me wrong, he is incredibly...
    deleted deleted 22-25 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    It Feels Wonderful

    I am 22, and my boyfriend is 38. 16 year age difference. He lives in Seattle, but grew up in Wisconsin. And I have lived in Southern California my entire life. We both have never been married but had terrible relationships in the past. We found each other playing Left 4 Dead 2...
    gklue gklue 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

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    Love Uncertainity

    Am in love with wit 10 plus years old man.none of my friends know him but his knows.he is the best in all compared to ex's.except we argue a lot on time spending,he is busy,I want attention.he has kids
    vivienn vivienn 31-35, F Jul 23, 2013

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    I fell in love with my manager at work, who's 25. I'm only 16, but age doesn't matter too much to me. The real problem is the fact that he's married, & he has a kid.. another issue...
    mikaelarosee mikaelarosee 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I am deeply in love with a man 27 years my senior (I'm 18). He loves me and we've been together for almost a year now. My family doesn't know about him. I am about to graduate from...
    shades4myfuture shades4myfuture 18-21, F Feb 25

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    I'm in love with my best friends dad.
    englishGurl englishGurl 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    angiestong angiestong 26-30, F Feb 25

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    I really think I'm getting feelings for this boy, matter of fact he isn't a boy. He's a grown man. He's in his 20's and I'm 16 years old :( I don't know what wrong with me but my...
    kimcabreraa7 kimcabreraa7 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yea I really am and I want to hear peoples opinions on the matter. Also this isn't some stupid fantasy sex story that ends up with me bedding him in some 50 shades way (not that I...
    JustAnotherDay04 JustAnotherDay04 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 24

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    I'm 44 and he is 70 but he is experienced and successful and we share the same interests but I'm afraid of what other people will think especially the future he is older but he is...
    Bella70 Bella70 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Last night was the night of snowfest and there was a basketball game that i went too. Both of them, they were both working consessions how is that my two favorite men in the same...
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Sometimes, I feel that I am not in love with him, maybe it's just some sort of addiction or obsession. Well atleast that's what I think it is, I am not sure though. I know I should...
    heartonfire20 heartonfire20 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    Doriatong Doriatong 26-30, F Feb 26

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    So I posted about this before but never full disclosure. I'm in a relationship with my moms boyfriend (he's 27, I'm 20 and she's 52). Horrible I know, but basically this "thing...
    mysteros mysteros 16-17, F Feb 16

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    I'm 18 I like talking with older gentlemen they're so interesting.
    silverfoot silverfoot 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 24

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