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I Am In Love With a Much Older Man

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    They Grey Area Between The Black And White

    Have you ever been in love with someone who frustrates you as much as they make you want them more? When I entered into this relationship I knew it would push some boundaries and change a lot of what I thought I knew about men and how I relate to them... I also wondered how hard...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses May 19, 2011

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    My Older Man

    He's old enough to be my father and he's 53. I'm 29. I've known him since I was a little girl. His niece was my best friend growing up. He's adorable, honest, a farm boy who wears tight wranglers, cute, funny and an amazing man all in one. He's never even been married...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    My boyfriend is a brilliant,

    handsome, kind gentleman who is 40 years my senior. I feel like I can't talk to my friends about him without judgment. I'm so madly in love and I just want to talk about it.
    kaym89 kaym89 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I Need To Get This Out....

    Well, I told you already that I am with an older man and you know my story if you read it before. Well, about 3 weeks ago I found out a few things. First off, he is 50 and not 39. He is also in the middle of a divorce. He filed for divorce way before he met me and it is final on...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Love Uncertainity

    Am in love with wit 10 plus years old man.none of my friends know him but his knows.he is the best in all compared to ex's.except we argue a lot on time spending,he is busy,I want attention.he has kids
    vivienn vivienn 31-35, F Jul 23, 2013

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    Our Relationship Isnt Just Black And White...

    Having been closed up in your hotel room since late lastnight... We'd finally stepped out into the sunshine - Johannesburg has never looked more dull in the face of you. Why we couldn't continue our ardent love making was a matter of business - you were getting wined and dine and...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    A Whole Different Ball Game............

    I've posed this question before - does an age difference really matter when you're 52 and he's 74? My favorite answer was "not until you're 84 and he's 105" lmao. I don't understand the attraction at all. It's not sexual - it's so much more - don't get me wrong, he is incredibly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Can't Stop Loving Him - Don't Know What To Do

    He is 12 years older than me and i know him for 4 years now. He has a girlfriend and is completely happy and there are going to marry some day when they have the money. I see him 2 times a week because he is on the same sportclub as me. He is always so sweat to me and we have...
    BeInTwoMinds BeInTwoMinds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2014

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I am in love with an older man.  He is 12 years my senior.  He is divorced and a confirmed bachelor.  We have been seeing each other discretely for almost 3 years now.  Sometimes when I look really hard at him, I can see his true age of almost 50.  At...
    lonelyintexas lonelyintexas 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Old Enough To Be My Dad

    I'm 17 and I love a man who is a teacher(he was my teacher, or, I did never had him but I'll say my teacher). When I fell in love with him I was 16 at that time and didn't know the age. I guessed he was around 35. Time passed by and I couldn't get him because he was a teacher...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    He's Leaving Everything to Be With Me

    I am 38, he is 60. We met on the internet and after a month of daily and serious chatting, we fell completely in love. He is now leaving everything to come and be with me. I am very scared and excited by it all. Whichever way I look at it, I know I want to be with him. Noone, not...
    DaveKat DaveKat 36-40 8 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    I think I love him. He's 31,

    and I'm 18. We started talking a few months ago, he's a musician, well known in my country. I just messaged him telling him how good his band's music is and that's where it all started. I was surprised that he was even interested in talking to me. He's really cool, and I always...
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    Omg!!! He's Into Me! And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I'm 18 and he is 30! he's 12years older than me. I met him at our university, he is the guidance councilor in our department. I like him so much, he doesn't look 30, actually he looks like 23 years old and i admit that he's damn hot! I found out to his best friend, that he also...
    chareff0920 chareff0920 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Well I haven't been on here in a while

    and a lot has changed. One thing that hasn't changed is my interest in older men ;) About a month ago I met this guy...I'm 17 and he's 33. It's odd and I NEVER thought I would like someone that much older than me but jeez...this guy is something else. He likes me. But because...
    needtotellnow needtotellnow 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    DaSode DaSode 13-15, M Nov 5, 2014

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    Well I May Be A Little Different

    So my age gap may be a little bigger than most of the people in group but here we go! I have always had a love for older men, they know how to treat a woman and most of them are mature so I get along with them better (I'm an old soul in a young body haha) I realized that when I...
    Chantillylace93 Chantillylace93 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6, 2014

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    27 Year Difference

    I'm in love with a man 27 years older than I.  He is divorcing, but I'm still in my unhappy marriage.  I feel like I'm a teenager with all the "I wonder if he likes me in that way" thoughts, and it's driving me nuts.  Common sense and enough life...
    frustratedfrau frustratedfrau 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    It Feels Wonderful

    I am 22, and my boyfriend is 38. 16 year age difference. He lives in Seattle, but grew up in Wisconsin. And I have lived in Southern California my entire life. We both have never been married but had terrible relationships in the past. We found each other playing Left 4 Dead 2...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

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    your hands on mine . my hands on yours

    when you look at me to smile as I do the same . I wish I could hold your hand forever but it cant be . we cant be one . not till I turn 18 . for the past 2 years us wanting to be something so bad but we couldn't but once it is july we can be much more
    KatsSeg18 KatsSeg18 18-21, F May 6, 2014

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    He is 59, and I'm 16.

    He is also happily married and has a kid that is older than me as well. I don't want to be in love with him, but honestly I need him in my life as much as I need air or food. He's an attractive guy, with really pretty blue eyes... He actually looks a little bit like Tom...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My DK

    I am 34 he is 63........ We met online, he was married. I was separated. He recently left his wife because in his words "he chose me". The past few weeks since he has left his wife he has moved to my town, across the street, rented a house that was suppose to be "our home...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Teenage And In Love With An Adult!

    I am a teenage girl who is 15 years old and trully in love with a guy who is 14 years older.He is very nice ,he plays in one of my favorite groups and he is awesome.I've met him in concert where he was playing with his band ,and I was so excited cause of the first moment we have...
    Nefmetalholic Nefmetalholic 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    I am 19 and he's 40, happiest we

    both have ever been. You can't help who you fall in love with
    orsoliz orsoliz 18-21, F 18 Responses Apr 12

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    Age Really Doesn't Matter.

    I'm a 19 year old girl and falling in love with a 41 year old man. It's so funny to say that because knowing me, the way I used to be, I would've never believed that I would even glance at someone that much older than me. My story began at work, he was a new manager. I was...
    dorii dorii 18-21 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I'm in love with a much older man.

    He's 56 and I'm 20. Everything about him is amazing. We both agreed to keep it fun and simple. It been a year and 3 weeks. I don't know how to tell him.
    EpicAce EpicAce 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2014

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    Gunna get married next month.

    I'm 40, he's 64. Everyone in town thinks he's my dad since he was my adopted dad for so long, that's how I introduced him.
    wendycat wendycat 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Now Is The Turning Point

    my boyfriend is about to turn 42 ill be 25 in an other few months the age difference is substantial. he looks and acts young, and drinks to much, so do i, but that is an other story. we have been together for 3 years and now he wants to get married. were both college students...
    katearoo katearoo 22-25 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    I (used) to be in love with a man 33 years older

    than me. He was amazing, but it didn't work out. I honestly, truly don't care about age.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2014

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    Depressed!

    So i was in a relationship with a man 15yrs older than i am, i always go for older men because i personally think they r more stable and ready for a committed relationship, now im wondering if it was a bad idea, i met him when i was 18 he was 33 he was the sweetest guy ever and...
    doveeyes4 doveeyes4 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I don't care about age

    and I really like a man who is 23 yrs older then me.
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 14 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    Other way around in my case. My best friend just confessed to me over the weekend that's she's in love with me. I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. She hates him though...
    Whitetrick15 Whitetrick15 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I met the guy on a mountain peak. My favorite one, in my very favorite mountain. I was there with some colleagues from work on a team building and while everyone was gathering...
    wildberrypop wildberrypop 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am in love with someone who I knew in second grade even though it has been 9 years since we have seen each other. We became friends on Facebook and about a year ago I just...
    misspiggybf97 misspiggybf97 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Im so in love with this man. To hear him say how much I meant to him and that he'd do anything for me is just so heart warming. So comforting. Though we're just friends I know we...
    for3v3r7 for3v3r7 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    So some background: on the 5th of May 2014, I fell in love. Head over heels, inexplicably painfully madly in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. Unrequited love, not...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    im in grade 7/yr8 now and 13years old now(turned 13 in april) i've been madly in love with my history teacher since last year when i was grade 6/year7 hes called Derek Wong so...
    yasuoishawt12345 yasuoishawt12345 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My husband has two boys from his first marriage who are older than me and by the time his wife became sick, they had left the house for studies and their jobs. So he started...
    Mira97 Mira97 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    As I sit here in the dark tonight, I thought I would share a few things that Ive thinking about lately. before I met you, I did dated a few guys, after that whole Michigan...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am nineteen, married to someone who is 31 years older than me. I got married 3 years ago and have 2 children with him and pregnant with the third. His children from his first...
    Mira97 Mira97 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It has been 7 months since my separation from my husband. I've moved on but he doesn't know that I moved on with another man. My husband wants to start over but I don't. We text...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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