Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am In Love With a Much Older Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 204 People

    I'm in love with a much older man.

    He's 56 and I'm 20. Everything about him is amazing. We both agreed to keep it fun and simple. It been a year and 3 weeks. I don't know how to tell him.
    EpicAce EpicAce 18-21, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well I May Be A Little Different

    So my age gap may be a little bigger than most of the people in group but here we go! I have always had a love for older men, they know how to treat a woman and most of them are mature so I get along with them better (I'm an old soul in a young body haha) I realized that when I...
    Chantillylace93 Chantillylace93 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    DaSode DaSode 22-25, M Nov 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My DK

    I am 34 he is 63........ We met online, he was married. I was separated. He recently left his wife because in his words "he chose me". The past few weeks since he has left his wife he has moved to my town, across the street, rented a house that was suppose to be "our home...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I (used) to be in love with a man 33 years older

    than me. He was amazing, but it didn't work out. I honestly, truly don't care about age.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Older Man

    He's old enough to be my father and he's 53. I'm 29. I've known him since I was a little girl. His niece was my best friend growing up. He's adorable, honest, a farm boy who wears tight wranglers, cute, funny and an amazing man all in one. He's never even been married...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 5, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Depressed!

    So i was in a relationship with a man 15yrs older than i am, i always go for older men because i personally think they r more stable and ready for a committed relationship, now im wondering if it was a bad idea, i met him when i was 18 he was 33 he was the sweetest guy ever and...
    doveeyes4 doveeyes4 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't care about age

    and I really like a man who is 23 yrs older then me.
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 15 Responses Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel

    They Grey Area Between The Black And White

    Have you ever been in love with someone who frustrates you as much as they make you want them more? When I entered into this relationship I knew it would push some boundaries and change a lot of what I thought I knew about men and how I relate to them... I also wondered how hard...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 7 Responses May 19, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    27 Year Difference

    I'm in love with a man 27 years older than I.  He is divorcing, but I'm still in my unhappy marriage.  I feel like I'm a teenager with all the "I wonder if he likes me in that way" thoughts, and it's driving me nuts.  Common sense and enough life...
    frustratedfrau frustratedfrau 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Our Relationship Isnt Just Black And White...

    Having been closed up in your hotel room since late lastnight... We'd finally stepped out into the sunshine - Johannesburg has never looked more dull in the face of you. Why we couldn't continue our ardent love making was a matter of business - you were getting wined and dine and...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I think I love him. He's 31,

    and I'm 18. We started talking a few months ago, he's a musician, well known in my country. I just messaged him telling him how good his band's music is and that's where it all started. I was surprised that he was even interested in talking to me. He's really cool, and I always...
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Feels Wonderful

    I am 22, and my boyfriend is 38. 16 year age difference. He lives in Seattle, but grew up in Wisconsin. And I have lived in Southern California my entire life. We both have never been married but had terrible relationships in the past. We found each other playing Left 4 Dead 2...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The premier younger women older men dating site

    - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site for younger women seeking older men. It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and older...
    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Old Enough To Be My Dad

    I'm 17 and I love a man who is a teacher(he was my teacher, or, I did never had him but I'll say my teacher). When I fell in love with him I was 16 at that time and didn't know the age. I guessed he was around 35. Time passed by and I couldn't get him because he was a teacher...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need To Get This Out....

    Well, I told you already that I am with an older man and you know my story if you read it before. Well, about 3 weeks ago I found out a few things. First off, he is 50 and not 39. He is also in the middle of a divorce. He filed for divorce way before he met me and it is final on...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Teenage And In Love With An Adult!

    I am a teenage girl who is 15 years old and trully in love with a guy who is 14 years older.He is very nice ,he plays in one of my favorite groups and he is awesome.I've met him in concert where he was playing with his band ,and I was so excited cause of the first moment we have...
    Nefmetalholic Nefmetalholic 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Age Really Doesn't Matter.

    I'm a 19 year old girl and falling in love with a 41 year old man. It's so funny to say that because knowing me, the way I used to be, I would've never believed that I would even glance at someone that much older than me. My story began at work, he was a new manager. I was...
    dorii dorii 18-21 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He's Leaving Everything to Be With Me

    I am 38, he is 60. We met on the internet and after a month of daily and serious chatting, we fell completely in love. He is now leaving everything to come and be with me. I am very scared and excited by it all. Whichever way I look at it, I know I want to be with him. Noone, not...
    DaveKat DaveKat 36-40 8 Responses Mar 4, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    your hands on mine . my hands on yours

    when you look at me to smile as I do the same . I wish I could hold your hand forever but it cant be . we cant be one . not till I turn 18 . for the past 2 years us wanting to be something so bad but we couldn't but once it is july we can be much more
    KatsSeg18 KatsSeg18 18-21, F May 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I am in love with an older man.  He is 12 years my senior.  He is divorced and a confirmed bachelor.  We have been seeing each other discretely for almost 3 years now.  Sometimes when I look really hard at him, I can see his true age of almost 50.  At...
    lonelyintexas lonelyintexas 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 9, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love Uncertainity

    Am in love with wit 10 plus years old man.none of my friends know him but his knows.he is the best in all compared to ex's.except we argue a lot on time spending,he is busy,I want attention.he has kids
    vivienn vivienn 26-30, F Jul 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Omg!!! He's Into Me! And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I'm 18 and he is 30! he's 12years older than me. I met him at our university, he is the guidance councilor in our department. I like him so much, he doesn't look 30, actually he looks like 23 years old and i admit that he's damn hot! I found out to his best friend, that he also...
    chareff0920 chareff0920 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Whole Different Ball Game............

    I've posed this question before - does an age difference really matter when you're 52 and he's 74? My favorite answer was "not until you're 84 and he's 105" lmao. I don't understand the attraction at all. It's not sexual - it's so much more - don't get me wrong, he is incredibly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Can't Stop Loving Him - Don't Know What To Do

    He is 12 years older than me and i know him for 4 years now. He has a girlfriend and is completely happy and there are going to marry some day when they have the money. I see him 2 times a week because he is on the same sportclub as me. He is always so sweat to me and we have...
    BeInTwoMinds BeInTwoMinds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Now Is The Turning Point

    my boyfriend is about to turn 42 ill be 25 in an other few months the age difference is substantial. he looks and acts young, and drinks to much, so do i, but that is an other story. we have been together for 3 years and now he wants to get married. were both college students...
    katearoo katearoo 22-25 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I've always had a strong desire to be naughty and was addicted to the excitement that came with the idea of getting caught. When I was in high school, I would have fantasies about...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Alright. I know I might be judged severely. But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Alright. I know I might be judged severely. But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I created a post about wanting to get pregnant with my older fiance.Many of the responses I got were absolutely rude. I wish people would learn how to shut their mouths once in a...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 31 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 22 and this man is 44. He is completely in love with me, and I him. We live far apart. He wants to be with me forever. He is certain I am the love of his life. I know he...
    clarityy clarityy 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i think loving a man who is older than your age can give you a better view of life. It's not because they have more than experienced than yours but because they had already learned...
    PamBianca21 PamBianca21 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    9 years apart, but he's so sexy and we have much fun.
    Emmy182 Emmy182 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a scorpio woman in love with a scorpio man. We've been going back and forth with our love for one another for the last 4 years. He says it scares him how much he loves me, it...
    armidomi armidomi 36-40, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Best Age Gap Dating Site( Younger Women Older Men Dating and Older Women Younger Men Dating ) ## Age Meet .com -The Largest Dating Site for Older Women Dating Younger Men and Older...
    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    10/27 was our 2 years anniversary I am in love with this guy and he loves me just as much. I love October it's my full of joy month lol. First there's my birthday, then our...
    Amber1027 Amber1027 18-21, F Oct 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have fallen madly deeply in love with a man who has portrayed to be who he is to me, I have since found out he is married 25yrs and he doesn't know I know. I am so in love and I...
    simplicityatbest simplicityatbest 41-45, F Nov 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Right ladies my previous post shares what happened break up etc. I have recently found out, that he has done this before to another girl at the time the girl was 16/17 and 18/19...
    rubazai rubazai 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Oh the misery us women go through being in love with someone we can't have ..
    heartwantswhatitwants heartwantswhatitwants 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Any one want to shower with a hot younger woman ?;)I love older men
    tightbabygirl33 tightbabygirl33 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well. I am 19 years old and the guy that i have been dating for almost two years is 50 years old. I know. I have introduced him to my youth pastor and some church friends and they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I (shamefully) joined a sugardaddy/sugarbaby website. I found a guy near me who's going to take me in. He's really sweet and I like him a lot. He got divorced recently and has...
    StaciCol StaciCol 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It all started with a movie that came out this year called, “Ragamuffin.” It is the true story of Christian singer/songwriter, Rich Mullins. Rich grew up on a farm in...
    angelsfeet angelsfeet 41-45, F Nov 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yes, i am and i actually met him on here like 3-3 1/2 years ago and we have been friends ever since. He has always given me good advice and has always made me feel good about...
    gentlyyours707 gentlyyours707 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's been a long time since I've posted. A lot has happened and so much to say. The divorce finalised over two years ago we lived with each other for the past 2 years, I got to...
    popsydoodle popsydoodle 18-21, F Nov 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been dating my Libra gentleman for 10.5 months & our relationship is moving cautiously. Prior to meeting him, he had been broken up with a girlfriend that he was with for a...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Nov 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just got off the phone with my baby and hearing his voice makes everything so much better. He knows how to calm me down and I love that. He is my rock for sure.
    MarinesGirl94 MarinesGirl94 18-21, F