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I Am In Love With a Much Older Man

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    I Need To Get This Out....

    Well, I told you already that I am with an older man and you know my story if you read it before. Well, about 3 weeks ago I found out a few things. First off, he is 50 and not 39. He is also in the middle of a divorce. He filed for divorce way before he met me and it is final on...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    He's Leaving Everything to Be With Me

    I am 38, he is 60. We met on the internet and after a month of daily and serious chatting, we fell completely in love. He is now leaving everything to come and be with me. I am very scared and excited by it all. Whichever way I look at it, I know I want to be with him. Noone, not...
    DaveKat DaveKat 36-40 8 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I am in love with an older man.  He is 12 years my senior.  He is divorced and a confirmed bachelor.  We have been seeing each other discretely for almost 3 years now.  Sometimes when I look really hard at him, I can see his true age of almost 50.  At...
    lonelyintexas lonelyintexas 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I think I love him. He's 31,

    and I'm 18. We started talking a few months ago, he's a musician, well known in my country. I just messaged him telling him how good his band's music is and that's where it all started. I was surprised that he was even interested in talking to me. He's really cool, and I always...
    CamilleStorm CamilleStorm 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    Age Really Doesn't Matter.

    I'm a 19 year old girl and falling in love with a 41 year old man. It's so funny to say that because knowing me, the way I used to be, I would've never believed that I would even glance at someone that much older than me. My story began at work, he was a new manager. I was...
    dorii dorii 18-21 5 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    27 Year Difference

    I'm in love with a man 27 years older than I.  He is divorcing, but I'm still in my unhappy marriage.  I feel like I'm a teenager with all the "I wonder if he likes me in that way" thoughts, and it's driving me nuts.  Common sense and enough life...
    frustratedfrau frustratedfrau 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    They Grey Area Between The Black And White

    Have you ever been in love with someone who frustrates you as much as they make you want them more? When I entered into this relationship I knew it would push some boundaries and change a lot of what I thought I knew about men and how I relate to them... I also wondered how hard...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses May 19, 2011

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    Teenage And In Love With An Adult!

    I am a teenage girl who is 15 years old and trully in love with a guy who is 14 years older.He is very nice ,he plays in one of my favorite groups and he is awesome.I've met him in concert where he was playing with his band ,and I was so excited cause of the first moment we have...
    Nefmetalholic Nefmetalholic 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    Omg!!! He's Into Me! And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I'm 18 and he is 30! he's 12years older than me. I met him at our university, he is the guidance councilor in our department. I like him so much, he doesn't look 30, actually he looks like 23 years old and i admit that he's damn hot! I found out to his best friend, that he also...
    chareff0920 chareff0920 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Our Relationship Isnt Just Black And White...

    Having been closed up in your hotel room since late lastnight... We'd finally stepped out into the sunshine - Johannesburg has never looked more dull in the face of you. Why we couldn't continue our ardent love making was a matter of business - you were getting wined and dine and...
    boudoirbunny boudoirbunny 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Love Uncertainity

    Am in love with wit 10 plus years old man.none of my friends know him but his knows.he is the best in all compared to ex's.except we argue a lot on time spending,he is busy,I want attention.he has kids
    vivienn vivienn 26-30, F Jul 23, 2013

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    My DK

    I am 34 he is 63........ We met online, he was married. I was separated. He recently left his wife because in his words "he chose me". The past few weeks since he has left his wife he has moved to my town, across the street, rented a house that was suppose to be "our home...
    lady1979 lady1979 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Now Is The Turning Point

    my boyfriend is about to turn 42 ill be 25 in an other few months the age difference is substantial. he looks and acts young, and drinks to much, so do i, but that is an other story. we have been together for 3 years and now he wants to get married. were both college students...
    katearoo katearoo 22-25 1 Response Aug 12, 2010

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    Well I May Be A Little Different

    So my age gap may be a little bigger than most of the people in group but here we go! I have always had a love for older men, they know how to treat a woman and most of them are mature so I get along with them better (I'm an old soul in a young body haha) I realized that when I...
    Chantillylace93 Chantillylace93 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Old Enough To Be My Dad

    I'm 17 and I love a man who is a teacher(he was my teacher, or, I did never had him but I'll say my teacher). When I fell in love with him I was 16 at that time and didn't know the age. I guessed he was around 35. Time passed by and I couldn't get him because he was a teacher...
    KeepThisLoveAlive KeepThisLoveAlive 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2013

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    Depressed!

    So i was in a relationship with a man 15yrs older than i am, i always go for older men because i personally think they r more stable and ready for a committed relationship, now im wondering if it was a bad idea, i met him when i was 18 he was 33 he was the sweetest guy ever and...
    doveeyes4 doveeyes4 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    It Feels Wonderful

    I am 22, and my boyfriend is 38. 16 year age difference. He lives in Seattle, but grew up in Wisconsin. And I have lived in Southern California my entire life. We both have never been married but had terrible relationships in the past. We found each other playing Left 4 Dead 2...
    gklue gklue 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2010

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    I Can't Stop Loving Him - Don't Know What To Do

    He is 12 years older than me and i know him for 4 years now. He has a girlfriend and is completely happy and there are going to marry some day when they have the money. I see him 2 times a week because he is on the same sportclub as me. He is always so sweat to me and we have...
    BeInTwoMinds BeInTwoMinds 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2012

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    My Older Man

    He's old enough to be my father and he's 53. I'm 29. I've known him since I was a little girl. His niece was my best friend growing up. He's adorable, honest, a farm boy who wears tight wranglers, cute, funny and an amazing man all in one. He's never even been married...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Confused In Love Please Read

    I had a very difficult boyfriend in the past. I met this guy who was on his motorcycle. He wanted to give me a ride to the store i was walking. I said no then he came back around in his vehicle and asked me can he give me a ride. I said no i have a boyfriend well he gave me his...
    lookingforloveinwrongplaces lookingforloveinwrongplaces 18-21 6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    I (used) to be in love with a man 33 years older

    than me. He was amazing, but it didn't work out. I honestly, truly don't care about age.
    ShainaNichole ShainaNichole 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 26

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    A Whole Different Ball Game............

    I've posed this question before - does an age difference really matter when you're 52 and he's 74? My favorite answer was "not until you're 84 and he's 105" lmao. I don't understand the attraction at all. It's not sexual - it's so much more - don't get me wrong, he is incredibly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I first met him in the local downtown in a section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend...
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    I still can't believe I found him. My husband, beloved,Sir. My amazing man who somehow can handle me. He's 20 years older and I don't regret it one bit. All the worries we both...
    Retronatrix Retronatrix 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm falling so deep, just deeper and deeper in love, somebody stop me! If only every circumstance were different then we could be together, I picture it and I dream about it but...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I want to be disrespected and face fu*!ed hard by an older man.. Anything goes I'd like to share this experience with a man who wants to get me off Am I the only one that likes...
    Cravingcock Cravingcock 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Hey to whoever took the time to read :) So I met my boyfriend online over a year ago. He's 19 years older then me. The first couple of months where amazing, then things got a bit...
    lovelyle0 lovelyle0 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    He's not yonger but I love tho man to death. I really want him so much!!
    mkreiger mkreiger 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have had an affair (not always physical) with my boss for 2 years. I love him so much and know he loves me but I have ended it - I can't keep being the thing that is missing in...
    cat1970 cat1970 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I am dating a married man. At first, it started as a casual fling. I never thought we'd see each other more than a couple of times due to our distance. But he's made a great...
    MisAdventuress MisAdventuress 36-40, F Apr 8

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    The way he looks, the way he smells, the was he smiles at me. It's beautiful. Everything about him seems perfect, even if people see so many flaws in him. I just don't know what to...
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I've been seeing this guy for over 5 months. He is married but not living with his wife. They have two children together. She uses the kids to get back at him for leaving her. She...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    How do you let go of something so strong, so intense? Something I've never felt before. To go back to nothing. I'm not married. I'm alone. My feelings change from one moment to the...
    sunandsand88 sunandsand88 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Well I found in March im pregnant with his baby when I told him he was so happy when he saw the first sono he smiled and said he loved me he said if the baby has a different last...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F Apr 5

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    So day 1 of being ignored its so fun NOT .. he called all day yesterday now today all my calls are being forwarded so idk what to do ya I love him and all but hes being a dickless...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I ended a relationship with my married boss and now he has become angry and aggressive.
    cat1970 cat1970 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    He's married and far away from me. How I got in this situation ? I have no idea, all I know is it has to end somehow, both for me and for him. He's the most wonderful person I have...
    Yukino10 Yukino10 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Anyone else in the same position that I am in? He gave me attention, we have a connection with each other, and bang it happened. This is probably the worst thing a girl can go...
    Bellllaaaxox Bellllaaaxox 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Well he moved in with me , then drama found us I started to get text messages and calls saying hes with another chick I confront him bout it then we fought so I asked the chick...
    bennysgirl0913 bennysgirl0913 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    How about. Me I am 66 can we date. Let me no baby.... Xx
    tom1912 tom1912 66-70, M 1 Response a week ago

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