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I Am In Love With a Transgender

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 242 People

    I recently met a MTF girl through a mutual

    friend of ours and have quickly fallen head over heels for her. I myself am FTM and having her by my side makes me think the world isn't so dark after all. She's my light
    livingmylifeonewayoranother livingmylifeonewayoranother 13-15, T Mar 22

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    Vanessa

    My finacee is MTF. (I am FTM...) The funny thing is I knew before she did... when I first met her my reaction was "he's so pretty!" We are lucky to have one another so we can support each other and understand what the other is going through. Sure, it took some time to start...
    vicariouslyric vicariouslyric 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 7, 2010

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    I met Devon about five years ago; back then,

    Devon appeared to be a cis woman. However, a year and a half into our relationship, Devon came out to me as a transgender man. At first I was devastated. I'm a lesbian! I'm not supposed to be with a guy! But over time - and after a **** ton of research - I came to understand...
    notquitenormal notquitenormal 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    He Loves Me, I Love Her

    I never expected to fall in love. Even more so, I never expected to fall in love with a transgender woman.I'm used to rejecting a man's advances; the ones that live near me are tasteless and won't understand me at all. I know they only want me for what's under my clothes, so I...
    HerPrettyLittleKitty HerPrettyLittleKitty 22-25 Nov 19, 2011

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    She Means The World To Me

    For the longest time ever, I had been wanting a girlfriend to hold dear to my heart. I'm married to a man, so it's hard to find someone open enough and willing to get involved in this situation. Then one day, while checking messages, I saw one pop up from some girl a state over...
    AlbinoLapineRedQueen AlbinoLapineRedQueen 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    My Dear Nathaniel

    I first met the love of my life almost 2 years ago. He was funny, intelligent, and always stood up for me. I fell in love with him the day I was being picked on, and he got between me and the other guy and told him to back the **** up. I knew right then and there, that he was the...
    Maelor14 Maelor14 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Falling...

    I'm a gender-fluid, polyamorous Switch... I recently met an MtF sub who absolutely rocks my world. She tells me some people see her as tarnished and that not many people want her. I find that crazy... She's sweet, smart, fun, more feminine than me--NOTHING but woman, and a total...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Help!

    Hello, my name is Katie. I'm 15 years old and am dating a ftm transgender. We go to an all girls school which is hard and we are always paranoid someone will find out. To top it all off, my family have banned me from talking to him ever again:( I don't know what to do because my...
    katielewis23 katielewis23 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Love Transgender

    I WANT TO HAVE ORAL LOVE WITH A SEXY SHE MALE
    BOBBIA BOBBIA 46-50, M Nov 1, 2012

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    The Love Of My Life

    Yes, of course, that's how we all feel, that this is the love of my life. I am a female. All of my relationships have been with males, including two marriages. When I met my girl, she was still living as a male, and our friendship strengthened and deepened over time. When she...
    1Lilo 1Lilo 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    What Do I Do!??!!??

    This time last year I met a transgender MTF and fell head over heals in love. I thought i was lesbian through and through though Ive never been physical with another women! I use to go with men (drunk) because i couldnt accept my sexuality and because i loved men romantically...
    gaiea gaiea 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm in love with a MtF.

    ( I'm going to call she a him for HE has not transitioned yet) I met my husband while we both were in high school. I had no clue he wanted to be a woman and he said he had feelings of wanting to be but tried so hard to push the feelings away, one because of the house hold he was...
    WoaCD09 WoaCD09 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 26

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    Waiting And Forgetting She's Trans*...

    This may sound strange because seeing her as a woman first and trans* second (or never) is something she's always wanted (she is MtF).  But sometimes I feel like a horrible person because I forget that she's transgender - I forget the struggles she's going through when we're...
    DaisyRose42 DaisyRose42 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I am in love with a transgender.

    ... Emma, my heart my love my life, I found jan 2013 as chad. Chad was a very girly very adorable man. I cut his hair for a couple months before he started to try to ask me out. I shot him down because of my fears and insecurities... A couple months later he asked me to help him...
    Kaitlynluvsemma Kaitlynluvsemma 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 4, 2014

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    I am in love with a trans man.

    When I met him he was still identifying as female and a lesbian. I kind of thought he was perhaps dealing with gender identity as we for to know each other when we first started dating. When he came to me and said he wanted to transition I wasn't surprised. At first I struggled...
    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2014

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    I Kissed My Best Friend....

    So I kissed my transgender friend that I have crushed on for over a year. He is gay and I have known this for a while. I have fought my urges for so long, well i should have fought harder. I kissed him while we where hanging out and he kissed back. He left for college this...
    pangirl pangirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    roxx1 roxx1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Love Is Pure

    Love doesn't matter by gender, appearances, or anything like it. It's when you get that feeling you can't describe, that feeling that burns up your heart just by being near that person. That's when you can tell that you love someone. You don't have to have anything more, then...
    Clemontone221 Clemontone221 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2012

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    Tell Or Not Tell?

    Hi, I'm a seventeen-year-old girl and I'm hopelessly in love with a trans boy (FtM). This guy is not only someone I can't get out of my head, but I also consider him to be my best friend. I'm not always sure if the feelings are mutual because, while we do talk about anything and...
    ASimilarEnemy ASimilarEnemy 18-21, F Aug 25, 2013

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    Why Her...?

    My long-term girlfriend is a mtf transgender. She's absolutely wonderful, my best and only friend, my life.However, because of the culture we live in, I'm terrified for her. It's heartbreaking for me that she is not permitted to wear the clothes she wants to, has to be...
    DolceVittima DolceVittima 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Help Me?:3

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. We were really good friends before and when we started dating he came out to me as trans. He's an FTM transgender. I have no problem with it and I love him very much I'm actually attracted to the idea of people being...
    leahdarling leahdarling 18-21 5 Responses Jul 16, 2013

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    Out Of The Blue

    I met my partner online and I am so happy that it happened. I had been single for 6 years and had started to give up on love. I am bisexual and was open to a woman or man. Surprisingly I got both. I recognize that my partner is a ftm transgendered individual but the hint of a...
    flygyrldev flygyrldev 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I Didn't Beleive Him At First

    When I hear Fleetwood Mac's song Sara I chuckle to myself when I hear the lines And he was just like a great dark wing Within the wings of a storm I think I had met my match He was singing And undoing...And undoing...the laces Undoing the laces... My transman came into my...
    lezfemme lezfemme 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    My Heart Knows No Boundaries

    to look at me you would think i was just a 40 something suburban housewife. but im not. ive been a single mom for years. two failed marriages and one failed lesbian relationship. so when i decided to start dating again i wasnt looking for anything specific. obviously i couldnt...
    2ducks 2ducks 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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    I Married A Transgender

    i met my wife in 1981,she was locked out of her apt in the builing we lived in and invited her to come to muy place and relax and talk.she was the sexiest lady i ever saw.i was 19 she 26.i had seen her in the bldg about 5 months prior and told my friend i was gonna marry her one...
    gentlemike100 gentlemike100 46-50 1 Response Nov 10, 2011

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    Here Are Some Romantic Ways To Ask Me For A Date!

    Here are some romantic ways to ask me for a date! Send me an E-Mail. Nobody writes love letters anymore, and that is precisely why it is still one of the most romantic ways to ask me out. If you haven’t written one before or if you’re not especially good at writing essays...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    My Significant Other

     It's so hard to start these things so I'll just try to type what I'm feeling! My significant other and I married in 2001.  She did everything that she could to make herself 'more of a man' (including joining the National Guard and going over seas).  I had no idea...
    masaru masaru 46-50 7 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    What Do I Do....

    I'm a straight woman who likes a pre-op MTF.... He (I still think of him as a he...) hasn't had any surgery or hormones yet... We both work together, like each other, kissed a couple times but I'm really hesitant to start anything considering he's going to be transforming soon...
    janiesays janiesays 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    My Fiancee Is Transgender

    I met the love of my life, Ryan, almost 2 years ago but we started going out only three months ago. When I first met him I did not know he was Transgender. About two weeks after we started going out he came out to me and told me he was. But I had already figured it out before he...
    BreAnnaHammons BreAnnaHammons 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    I'm 57 and in love with a 20 year old Filipina

    transgender. I'm seriously considering bringing her to the states for marriage. Can this work?
    Ziggy666 Ziggy666 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Falling And In Need Of Advice

    I'm a straight female and I've been with me straight bf for a long time.. But recently I became great friends with a trans FTM. And I think I'm in love with him. But I know I love my bf we're just in a slump I think or maybe I'm just intrigued by this new man. But we connect and...
    torturedwriter torturedwriter 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2013

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    She Rocks My World!

    I am a 25 year old genetic female who has been with both men and women in the past, but 10 months ago I began a new relationship with a m2f transgender girl. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have never felt so loved and so equal in a rekationship in my life...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I originally met my boyfriend at a church

    retreat right before I started 6th grade. I had no idea he was trans, because at that time he was still in the closet and let people use she/her pronouns and his birth name. We then exchanged numbers, but we both managed to get them lost somewhere along the way. Then, at the end...
    KristenNicoleW KristenNicoleW 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I love my boyfriend! (Ftm trans) <<<I

    think! It's so confusing though! To me she's a he. She thinks like, acts like, and talks like a guy. In my mind I'm dating a man. I love it. I love making her feel manly. I hate having to describe it to other people because they don't understand. I'm not gay. Never have been...
    Tbaay Tbaay 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Roberta

    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 2 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    well i have had a few relationships in the past

    and they have went "mushroom cloud" i think it was i was trying to start transition and start a ltr at the same time was dumb. i want to be loved and find that Transgender are understanding and i don't have to explain everything as she has gone through a lot of things that i...
    nikki19671845 nikki19671845 46-50, M a week ago

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    I never expected to find anyone

    that would fall in love with, I had been a skeptic for far too long, everyone had cheated on me or done me wrong in some other way. And then I found him. Bryan and I met just over 2 years ago online, we both fell madly in love very very quickly. A few months into our...
    keeks16 keeks16 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    BrattyAngel BrattyAngel 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Oh yeah, im sorry know in my past stories I say

    that my girlfriend as my boyfriend, but I meant to say girlfriend, and yes she's a transgender. See, I started dating her when she was a boy, and she told be she loved wearing lingerie and dresses, etc, and so I thought he was just a crossdresser, or honestly gay, but he...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    No More Cismen For Me.

    I am in love with a transguy and he is the love of my life. I wouldnt even consider being with another cisman now that i have been with him. There are a million reasons and when i list them to myself in my head, i know that a lot of them actually have to do with this one specific...
    ElyaMarie ElyaMarie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    I Never Thought This Could Happen To Me...

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    Areyan Areyan 31-35 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    I fell in love with my

    now husband a year ago after knowing each other for two years. we got married six months ago. I remember him telling me how he felt like a girl trapped in a man's body but still attracted. We feel in love anyway. Now I watch him struggle to be female at much as possible only to...
    jayroad jayroad 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Looking For Submissions

    Hello All, My name is Laura and I'm the editor of a collection that we're calling "Significant Letters: Messages from the Sidelines of the Transgender Community". I'll be honest, it's been slow-going but we're pulling together stories, letters, photography, art, poetry, plays...
    MrsHarrington MrsHarrington 41-45, F Oct 6, 2012

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