I Am In Love With a Transgender

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 285 People

    She Means The World To Me

    For the longest time ever, I had been wanting a girlfriend to hold dear to my heart. I'm married to a man, so it's hard to find someone open enough and willing to get involved in this situation. Then one day, while checking messages, I saw one pop up from some girl a state over...
    AlbinoLapineRedQueen AlbinoLapineRedQueen
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

    Out Of The Blue

    I met my partner online and I am so happy that it happened. I had been single for 6 years and had started to give up on love. I am bisexual and was open to a woman or man. Surprisingly I got both. I recognize that my partner is a ftm transgendered individual but the hint of a...
    flygyrldev flygyrldev
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Nov 21, 2013

    My wife and I have been married

    for over 3 years and in love for 4 1/2 years. We met on Match.com. We are lesbians. We had to travel out of our home State to marry because Michigan didn't allow or recognize same sex marriage at the time. While inconvenient and stressful to plan a wedding 800 miles away, we...
    90toforty 90toforty
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    My Significant Other

     It's so hard to start these things so I'll just try to type what I'm feeling! My significant other and I married in 2001.  She did everything that she could to make herself 'more of a man' (including joining the National Guard and going over seas).  I had no idea...
    masaru masaru
    7 Responses Oct 30, 2009

    I met ben a year and 4 months ago

    and my life changed completely. 4 months of being together he surprised me by telling me he wants to be a man. and at first it scared me but now he's the best man I've ever met. I haven't met any other Cis girls who have trans boy friends and it makes me nervous cause most...
    cheffunsized cheffunsized
    26-30, F
    Dec 30, 2015

    I recently came out as a lesbian,

    I was in a long term relationship with a man which ended because I felt like I was no longer attracted to men. I then became friends with her (I have always used female pronouns when referring to her, just felt right to me) and she's helped me through a really difficult few...
    NoAngel13 NoAngel13
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    I love my spouse so much.

    She makes the happiest girl in the world. Sometimes I feel she needs more support then what I can give her. Her parents would disown her if she ever told them the truth, and her sister discredits her constantly. I just want to make her as happy as she makes me.
    jayroad jayroad
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2015

    I have recently fallen completely head over

    heels in love with a transwoman. She has proven in the short time of around 3 weeks that she is not only the most honest, trustworthy, beautiful, open, and most deserving woman of my dreams. But she is also hands down the absolute best soul mate and partner a man could ever ever...
    ImInLoveWithTiff ImInLoveWithTiff
    26-30, M
    Mar 22, 2016

    I never expected to find anyone

    that would fall in love with, I had been a skeptic for far too long, everyone had cheated on me or done me wrong in some other way. And then I found him. Bryan and I met just over 2 years ago online, we both fell madly in love very very quickly. A few months into our...
    keeks16 keeks16
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2014

    My Perfect Angel- My best friend,

    the love of my life, my beautiful angel. Her name is Cheyenne. She's pre-everything...considering she's in the Air Force currently. I met Cheyenne when I was a sophomore and she was a junior in high school. She was my best friend's ex, and I broke the girl code, and went out...
    oliviairene47 oliviairene47
    18-21, F
    Feb 12, 2016

    Hello...I have been in a long term relationship

    with my beautiful girlfriend who happens to be a MTF. We live in the southern U.S. And it is very hard to do even everyday things like grocery shopping or eating out without the looks, laughs, and even slurs. We are raising a 7 year old boy, hers from a previous marriage, and...
    andrusjc andrusjc
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    Looking For Submissions

    Hello All, My name is Laura and I'm the editor of a collection that we're calling "Significant Letters: Messages from the Sidelines of the Transgender Community". I'll be honest, it's been slow-going but we're pulling together stories, letters, photography, art, poetry, plays...
    MrsHarrington MrsHarrington
    41-45, F
    Oct 6, 2012

    I want to be in love with one I'm single looking

    for a transgender that interested in guys and single
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    Jun 23, 2015

    I Married A Transgender

    i met my wife in 1981,she was locked out of her apt in the builing we lived in and invited her to come to muy place and relax and talk.she was the sexiest lady i ever saw.i was 19 she 26.i had seen her in the bldg about 5 months prior and told my friend i was gonna marry her one...
    gentlemike100 gentlemike100
    1 Response Nov 10, 2011

    He Loves Me, I Love Her

    I never expected to fall in love. Even more so, I never expected to fall in love with a transgender woman.I'm used to rejecting a man's advances; the ones that live near me are tasteless and won't understand me at all. I know they only want me for what's under my clothes, so I...
    HerPrettyLittleKitty HerPrettyLittleKitty
    Nov 19, 2011

    I'm 57 and in love with a 20 year old Filipina

    transgender. I'm seriously considering bringing her to the states for marriage. Can this work?
    Ziggy666 Ziggy666
    56-60, M
    Dec 8, 2014

    My girlfriend (MTF) is going through a very bad

    episode of Gender Dysphoria. I'm never sure what to say or do...I'm always there and try to validate her. Are there any other things I can do to comfort her that has worked for others?
    andrusjc andrusjc
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I seriously don't know what to do.

    I hope this doesn't sound immature, but I just need someone to relate to me. The difficult part about this is that I go to an all-girls high school. There are these two transgender girls who dress like boys all the time after school. One is a junior and the other a senior. I'm a...
    oneXdreamXqueen oneXdreamXqueen
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    I'm in love with a MtF.

    ( I'm going to call she a him for HE has not transitioned yet) I met my husband while we both were in high school. I had no clue he wanted to be a woman and he said he had feelings of wanting to be but tried so hard to push the feelings away, one because of the house hold he was...
    WoaCD09 WoaCD09
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 26, 2015

    I fell in love with my

    now husband a year ago after knowing each other for two years. we got married six months ago. I remember him telling me how he felt like a girl trapped in a man's body but still attracted. We feel in love anyway. Now I watch him struggle to be female at much as possible only to...
    jayroad jayroad
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2015

    My Dear Nathaniel

    I first met the love of my life almost 2 years ago. He was funny, intelligent, and always stood up for me. I fell in love with him the day I was being picked on, and he got between me and the other guy and told him to back the **** up. I knew right then and there, that he was the...
    Maelor14 Maelor14
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2012

    http://m.bookemon.com/book-profile/the-shadows-arising/165803 If you click on this link, it will take you to a book I wrote a few years ago, "The Shadows Arising". It has become pretty popular and has gotten many good reviews. It is $20, yes, but if you buy the book $10 are put...
    novaftmpride novaftmpride
    18-21, T
    Jul 27, 2015

    Oh yeah, im sorry know in my past stories I say

    that my girlfriend as my boyfriend, but I meant to say girlfriend, and yes she's a transgender. See, I started dating her when she was a boy, and she told be she loved wearing lingerie and dresses, etc, and so I thought he was just a crossdresser, or honestly gay, but he...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    Waiting And Forgetting She's Trans*...

    This may sound strange because seeing her as a woman first and trans* second (or never) is something she's always wanted (she is MtF).  But sometimes I feel like a horrible person because I forget that she's transgender - I forget the struggles she's going through when we're...
    DaisyRose42 DaisyRose42
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    My partner is MtF TransGender

    and I love them very much. They are my Best Friend and My World. <3
    CalicoWoolfe CalicoWoolfe
    26-30, F
    Mar 10, 2016

    I met Devon about five years ago; back then,

    Devon appeared to be a cis woman. However, a year and a half into our relationship, Devon came out to me as a transgender man. At first I was devastated. I'm a lesbian! I'm not supposed to be with a guy! But over time - and after a **** ton of research - I came to understand...
    notquitenormal notquitenormal
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2015

    I love trans nd ladyboys a lot,

    don't just know why!!
    rechlas rechlas
    36-40, M
    Jan 23, 2016

    The Love Of My Life

    Yes, of course, that's how we all feel, that this is the love of my life. I am a female. All of my relationships have been with males, including two marriages. When I met my girl, she was still living as a male, and our friendship strengthened and deepened over time. When she...
    1Lilo 1Lilo
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2012

    my girl, my princess.

    My cheyenne is transgender. she's still a male biologically as she has not started hormones since she's only 19 and has no support of her family. my girl is so wonderful. I met her 2 and a half years ago at school and I just thought she was a very feminine male. when she came...
    oliviairene47 oliviairene47
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    I wantoo date an fall in love with a Mtf

    transgender intersex a hermaphrodite someone Pm me ?
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 10, 2015


    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2011

    I am in love with a transgender.

    ... Emma, my heart my love my life, I found jan 2013 as chad. Chad was a very girly very adorable man. I cut his hair for a couple months before he started to try to ask me out. I shot him down because of my fears and insecurities... A couple months later he asked me to help him...
    Kaitlynluvsemma Kaitlynluvsemma
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2014

    Why Her...?

    My long-term girlfriend is a mtf transgender. She's absolutely wonderful, my best and only friend, my life.However, because of the culture we live in, I'm terrified for her. It's heartbreaking for me that she is not permitted to wear the clothes she wants to, has to be...
    DolceVittima DolceVittima
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

    I love my boyfriend! (Ftm trans) <<<I

    think! It's so confusing though! To me she's a he. She thinks like, acts like, and talks like a guy. In my mind I'm dating a man. I love it. I love making her feel manly. I hate having to describe it to other people because they don't understand. I'm not gay. Never have been...
    Tbaay Tbaay
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2013

    It is real hard hearing my MTF spouse tell me

    how she thinks about suicide and how.
    jayroad jayroad
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    My Fiancee Is Transgender

    I met the love of my life, Ryan, almost 2 years ago but we started going out only three months ago. When I first met him I did not know he was Transgender. About two weeks after we started going out he came out to me and told me he was. But I had already figured it out before he...
    BreAnnaHammons BreAnnaHammons
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 25, 2009

    I originally met my boyfriend at a church

    retreat right before I started 6th grade. I had no idea he was trans, because at that time he was still in the closet and let people use she/her pronouns and his birth name. We then exchanged numbers, but we both managed to get them lost somewhere along the way. Then, at the end...
    KristenNicoleW KristenNicoleW
    16-17, F
    Feb 24, 2015

    She Rocks My World!

    I am a 25 year old genetic female who has been with both men and women in the past, but 10 months ago I began a new relationship with a m2f transgender girl. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have never felt so loved and so equal in a rekationship in my life...
    staria221183 staria221183
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 11, 2009

    I'm a 16 year old cis female

    and I've been crushing on a transboy who goes to my school for over a year. He doesn't really seem like the relationship type because he rarely speaks to anyone, but I spent time with him at a sleepover party for our mutual friend who is also a transboy and I learnt a lot about...
    EverydayIsHappy EverydayIsHappy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    My Heart Knows No Boundaries

    to look at me you would think i was just a 40 something suburban housewife. but im not. ive been a single mom for years. two failed marriages and one failed lesbian relationship. so when i decided to start dating again i wasnt looking for anything specific. obviously i couldnt...
    2ducks 2ducks
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Mar 12, 2009

    I'm in love with a transgender Ftm

    and some of my family hate me for it.
    rbowen12347 rbowen12347
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    What Do I Do....

    I'm a straight woman who likes a pre-op MTF.... He (I still think of him as a he...) hasn't had any surgery or hormones yet... We both work together, like each other, kissed a couple times but I'm really hesitant to start anything considering he's going to be transforming soon...
    janiesays janiesays
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

    Love Is Pure

    Love doesn't matter by gender, appearances, or anything like it. It's when you get that feeling you can't describe, that feeling that burns up your heart just by being near that person. That's when you can tell that you love someone. You don't have to have anything more, then...
    Clemontone221 Clemontone221
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2012

    well i have had a few relationships in the past

    and they have went "mushroom cloud" i think it was i was trying to start transition and start a ltr at the same time was dumb. i want to be loved and find that Transgender are understanding and i don't have to explain everything as she has gone through a lot of things that i...
    nikki19671845 nikki19671845
    46-50, M
    Apr 19, 2015

    I Never Thought This Could Happen To Me...

    ~ due to technical difficulties (also read as protest to EP's partnership with Facebook) this story has been temporarily removed ~
    Areyan Areyan
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2010


    My finacee is MTF. (I am FTM...) The funny thing is I knew before she did... when I first met her my reaction was "he's so pretty!" We are lucky to have one another so we can support each other and understand what the other is going through. Sure, it took some time to start...
    vicariouslyric vicariouslyric
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 7, 2010

    I am in love with a trans man.

    When I met him he was still identifying as female and a lesbian. I kind of thought he was perhaps dealing with gender identity as we for to know each other when we first started dating. When he came to me and said he wanted to transition I wasn't surprised. At first I struggled...
    threeforagirl threeforagirl
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2014


    I'm a gender-fluid, polyamorous Switch... I recently met an MtF sub who absolutely rocks my world. She tells me some people see her as tarnished and that not many people want her. I find that crazy... She's sweet, smart, fun, more feminine than me--NOTHING but woman, and a total...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2012

    I'm 16, and I met a super hot girl named ally

    in my Spanish class. I moved to a new school, and I don't know kids, and all my friends from my last school are drug addicts, so I don't hangout with them. So other than family, all I had is ally. I eventually grew to like ally, and than she started to likes me. I asked why she...
    helpmeplease252 helpmeplease252
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    Lately I've met the girl of my dreams.

    She has been amazing in everyway, she understands me, can read me, We have a chemistry I only thought were possible in a movie. But it doesn't end there, she's the most beautiful and hottest girl I've ever seen. The best thing is that she fell in love with me!! It's just...
    Hajhaj01 Hajhaj01
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    I recently met a MTF girl through a mutual

    friend of ours and have quickly fallen head over heels for her. I myself am FTM and having her by my side makes me think the world isn't so dark after all. She's my light
    livingmylifeonewayoranother livingmylifeonewayoranother
    16-17, T
    Mar 22, 2015
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