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I Am In Love With a Transman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    I'm a guy (21) and he's 19,

    and he's the most wonderful man I've ever met. He's extremely smart, he's hot, he's really funny and he shares all of my interests. I actually confessed to him two years ago but he gently brushed me off, no awkwardness at all. Thought I'd give up eventually but it's hard since...
    Shadowcat69 Shadowcat69 18-21, M Apr 22

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    My Prince Charming

    When I was six, I had this grand idea of how life would turn out. I would grow up, go to the college my parents attended, become a teacher with long beautiful brown hair and bright blue eyes and be able to woo any many with a flash of my smile. But the only man for me would be...
    scriptedpictures scriptedpictures 22-25, F May 10, 2012

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    Our Not-so-storybook Love Story

    About four years ago, I went on a trip with a group of women from my church. One of those was a girl about my age, named Lauren. She was my age, fun to hang out with, and a great listener. We spent a lot of time together on the trip and then even more as we returned. We had a lot...
    Stingrae Stingrae 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    He Is My Everything!

    My husband is a post-op Transman and I have loved every thing about him from the day I met him. I would not change my realtionship in anyway. I have been asked so many times "don't you wish he was just born a man" or "why didn't you just get with...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    Not My Type.

    There is one thing my man says that really bothers me, "That he is not my type." When we first met I was identified as a lesbian. But than again when we first met, he identified as a woman. This isn't the case anymore and as circumstances change so do we. I wish that he would see...
    KKeith KKeith 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    I Am Afraid

    because i think that something is going to go wrong. I can already see signs of this not lasting, merely because of your own insecurity. You don't want to trust and believe in me. A year later and you can't trust me? I have been through it all: the suicidal thoughts and threats...
    kingdombythesea kingdombythesea 18-21, F Aug 19, 2012

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    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F Jul 26, 2014

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    His Voice...

    I only JUST spoke w/him& he answered the phone now& his voice  is different. it's gotten so much manlier. i LOVE it. what's even better is HE LOVES IT. i told him the day when he seriously has NO REASON not to speak louder in class has come. he shouldn't have ever needed to be...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2011

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    Life Changing Love

    I should start by saying that I have not been on Experience Project in a long time. The reason I came back is what I am writing about. Falling in love with my FTM partner. I knew that here I could find others like him and I. I have no other friends in this situation that I knew...
    idontgiveafuckasaurus idontgiveafuckasaurus 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Highschool Honeys

    I'm currently 16 and I'm dating a pre everything trans guy. I love him so much. I fell for him the first time he looked up at me and smiled. I've had people ask....isn't it confusing? Is it hard pretending he's a guy? Well to me he's more of a guy than anyone else i've dated. He...
    xXnerdyloveXx xXnerdyloveXx 16-17, F Apr 7, 2012

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    Crushing

    I have a crush on a trans FtM but he does not know it, at lest i dont think he does, and he is not interested in me. so kinda sucks, but I dont want someone to be with me just cuz they feel sorry for me, so its better not to push it..
    babygurl20007 babygurl20007 26-30, F Jul 22, 2013

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    So Many Things I Never Expected

    For me, it all started at this hideous leadership conference that my college Soul Stepper team sent me on.  The officers were required to attend in order to keep our organization school approved and up-to-date.  I was dreading this trip, already almost bored to tears...
    kitters06 kitters06 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    He's the most beautiful person I've ever met,

    and I stand by him 100%. He is a trans man and he is beautiful. That's who he is and I will always support him!
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M Nov 21, 2014

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    He's Just Coming Out

    I started dating my partner 5.5 years ago when we were still in high school.  As far as I was concerned, I was dating a lesbian.  That is, until a year ago, when he came out to me as trans.  Now he is currently going through the process of coming out to a few close...
    HGolightly HGolightly 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Love....Well Really Like :))

    I don't know if I really "Love" trans guys but I will tell you they are very attractive to me. I'm a BI guy and I find it hard to find people who enjoy that...So to all the trans guys, Thank you for being you ! 
    WizzKidd WizzKidd 31-35, M Oct 28, 2013

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    AnyExperience AnyExperience 13-15, F Jul 23

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    I am in love with someone... who used to be in love with me. There is a boy I am totally in love with. We used to go to elementary school together and now we are in school together...
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