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I Am In Love With a Transman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Our Not-so-storybook Love Story

    About four years ago, I went on a trip with a group of women from my church. One of those was a girl about my age, named Lauren. She was my age, fun to hang out with, and a great listener. We spent a lot of time together on the trip and then even more as we returned. We had a lot...
    Stingrae Stingrae 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    Life Changing Love

    I should start by saying that I have not been on Experience Project in a long time. The reason I came back is what I am writing about. Falling in love with my FTM partner. I knew that here I could find others like him and I. I have no other friends in this situation that I knew...
    idontgiveafuckasaurus idontgiveafuckasaurus 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    He Is My Everything!

    My husband is a post-op Transman and I have loved every thing about him from the day I met him. I would not change my realtionship in anyway. I have been asked so many times "don't you wish he was just born a man" or "why didn't you just get with...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    His Voice...

    I only JUST spoke w/him& he answered the phone now& his voice  is different. it's gotten so much manlier. i LOVE it. what's even better is HE LOVES IT. i told him the day when he seriously has NO REASON not to speak louder in class has come. he shouldn't have ever needed to be...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2011

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    Not My Type.

    There is one thing my man says that really bothers me, "That he is not my type." When we first met I was identified as a lesbian. But than again when we first met, he identified as a woman. This isn't the case anymore and as circumstances change so do we. I wish that he would see...
    KKeith KKeith 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Highschool Honeys

    I'm currently 16 and I'm dating a pre everything trans guy. I love him so much. I fell for him the first time he looked up at me and smiled. I've had people ask....isn't it confusing? Is it hard pretending he's a guy? Well to me he's more of a guy than anyone else i've dated. He...
    xXnerdyloveXx xXnerdyloveXx 16-17, F Apr 7, 2012

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    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F Jul 26, 2014

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    Crushing

    I have a crush on a trans FtM but he does not know it, at lest i dont think he does, and he is not interested in me. so kinda sucks, but I dont want someone to be with me just cuz they feel sorry for me, so its better not to push it..
    babygurl20007 babygurl20007 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    He's Just Coming Out

    I started dating my partner 5.5 years ago when we were still in high school.  As far as I was concerned, I was dating a lesbian.  That is, until a year ago, when he came out to me as trans.  Now he is currently going through the process of coming out to a few close...
    HGolightly HGolightly 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Love....Well Really Like :))

    I don't know if I really "Love" trans guys but I will tell you they are very attractive to me. I'm a BI guy and I find it hard to find people who enjoy that...So to all the trans guys, Thank you for being you ! 
    WizzKidd WizzKidd 31-35, M Oct 28, 2013

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    So Many Things I Never Expected

    For me, it all started at this hideous leadership conference that my college Soul Stepper team sent me on.  The officers were required to attend in order to keep our organization school approved and up-to-date.  I was dreading this trip, already almost bored to tears...
    kitters06 kitters06 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    He's the most beautiful person I've ever met,

    and I stand by him 100%. He is a trans man and he is beautiful. That's who he is and I will always support him!
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M Nov 21, 2014

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    My Prince Charming

    When I was six, I had this grand idea of how life would turn out. I would grow up, go to the college my parents attended, become a teacher with long beautiful brown hair and bright blue eyes and be able to woo any many with a flash of my smile. But the only man for me would be...
    scriptedpictures scriptedpictures 22-25, F 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    I Am Afraid

    because i think that something is going to go wrong. I can already see signs of this not lasting, merely because of your own insecurity. You don't want to trust and believe in me. A year later and you can't trust me? I have been through it all: the suicidal thoughts and threats...
    kingdombythesea kingdombythesea 18-21, F Aug 19, 2012

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    I'm in love with Christian Grey from 50 shades!!!! I think about him all the time.
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    The Unfinished Story We both met each other back in college, which was like 12yrs ago. It was not at all love at first sight. I didn't like him at all initially. He was the most...
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    Hello. I wanna do this shortly - okay, I couldn't complety live up to the standards of being a girlfriend because of my illness, paranoid schiophrenia, yet I had the BEST, believe...
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    I know, I know, great right? Yet another confused teenager thinking their over hormone driven feelings mean they are in love. Typical right? Let me tell you my story maybe you can...
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    It's a serious concern of mine that I'm in love with a fictional character. When most people say "I love (insert fictional Character)" they're only joking but I'm not. I am utterly...
    GoldenUniverse GoldenUniverse 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Two years ago I saw the new Disney movie ....... FROZEN :-) the movie was good, but I seemed to take a shine to queen elsa.. TWO YEARS LATER, I'm SOOOO in love with Elsa my parents...
    ClaudeHopper1998 ClaudeHopper1998 16-17, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Something really weird happened Thursday at school. I was waiting to be called down to a club that I'm in so I was hanging out in Mr. Z's classroom talking to my friends. They got...
    Meangirl83 Meangirl83 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    I am falling in love with someone I can't have! Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F Feb 7

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    It's been a while since I watched an anime. Recently, I watched Attack on Titan. For some reason, I fell in love with Mikasa Ackerman. This had never happened to me before in my...
    Josua070 Josua070 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 9

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    It's been a while since I watched an anime. Recently, I watched Attack on Titan. For some reason, I fell in love with Mikasa Ackerman. This had never happened to me before in my...
    Josua070 Josua070 18-21, M Feb 9

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    First of all I'd like to say this post really helped me understand more of what exactly I'm going through and i feel a sense of relief, 2ndly I fell in love with a con at 21 years...
    marissabrooke31 marissabrooke31 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    It was late in the summer of 2012. I was 17. I had a summer job at a carnival and it was my last week, as I was starting school soon. I had to travel three hours from home just for...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F Feb 9

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    i love starfire.....and blackfire. what could this mean? i can love both can't i? i am in love with both.... so the question is, do you feel you can or you can't love both. my love...
    kkisu474 kkisu474 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I fell in love with a married man a little over a year ago. We told ourselves that familiar lie, that we would “just be friends”. But we quickly became more to each other. We...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F Feb 11

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    Every day with you is Valentine's Day, my love. Every day is filled with romance, with love, with sharing and caring. Every day I am reminded how blessed I am to have you as my...
    oneloveER oneloveER 22-25, F Feb 13

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    Well, don't know if this will get any responses. I have just signed up to tell this. First of all, I should inform that I was diagnosed as a sociopath. If you haven't heard of it...
    nnastya nnastya 16-17, F Feb 13

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    I fell in love with someone. He was perfect. I loved him with everything that i had. But distance is why things could not work between us. I recently found out that he found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 15

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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