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I Am In Love With a Transman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    He's Just Coming Out

    I started dating my partner 5.5 years ago when we were still in high school.  As far as I was concerned, I was dating a lesbian.  That is, until a year ago, when he came out to me as trans.  Now he is currently going through the process of coming out to a few close...
    HGolightly HGolightly 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    His Voice...

    I only JUST spoke w/him& he answered the phone now& his voice  is different. it's gotten so much manlier. i LOVE it. what's even better is HE LOVES IT. i told him the day when he seriously has NO REASON not to speak louder in class has come. he shouldn't have ever needed to be...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2011

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    Life Changing Love

    I should start by saying that I have not been on Experience Project in a long time. The reason I came back is what I am writing about. Falling in love with my FTM partner. I knew that here I could find others like him and I. I have no other friends in this situation that I knew...
    idontgiveafuckasaurus idontgiveafuckasaurus 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Not My Type.

    There is one thing my man says that really bothers me, "That he is not my type." When we first met I was identified as a lesbian. But than again when we first met, he identified as a woman. This isn't the case anymore and as circumstances change so do we. I wish that he would see...
    KKeith KKeith 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    Crushing

    I have a crush on a trans FtM but he does not know it, at lest i dont think he does, and he is not interested in me. so kinda sucks, but I dont want someone to be with me just cuz they feel sorry for me, so its better not to push it..
    babygurl20007 babygurl20007 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2013

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    Our Not-so-storybook Love Story

    About four years ago, I went on a trip with a group of women from my church. One of those was a girl about my age, named Lauren. She was my age, fun to hang out with, and a great listener. We spent a lot of time together on the trip and then even more as we returned. We had a lot...
    Stingrae Stingrae 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    My Prince Charming

    When I was six, I had this grand idea of how life would turn out. I would grow up, go to the college my parents attended, become a teacher with long beautiful brown hair and bright blue eyes and be able to woo any many with a flash of my smile. But the only man for me would be...
    scriptedpictures scriptedpictures 22-25, F 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    I Am Afraid

    because i think that something is going to go wrong. I can already see signs of this not lasting, merely because of your own insecurity. You don't want to trust and believe in me. A year later and you can't trust me? I have been through it all: the suicidal thoughts and threats...
    kingdombythesea kingdombythesea 18-21, F Aug 19, 2012

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    Highschool Honeys

    I'm currently 16 and I'm dating a pre everything trans guy. I love him so much. I fell for him the first time he looked up at me and smiled. I've had people ask....isn't it confusing? Is it hard pretending he's a guy? Well to me he's more of a guy than anyone else i've dated. He...
    xXnerdyloveXx xXnerdyloveXx 16-17, F Apr 7, 2012

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    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F Jul 26

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    He Is My Everything!

    My husband is a post-op Transman and I have loved every thing about him from the day I met him. I would not change my realtionship in anyway. I have been asked so many times "don't you wish he was just born a man" or "why didn't you just get with...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    He's the most beautiful person I've ever met,

    and I stand by him 100%. He is a trans man and he is beautiful. That's who he is and I will always support him!
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M Nov 21

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    So Many Things I Never Expected

    For me, it all started at this hideous leadership conference that my college Soul Stepper team sent me on.  The officers were required to attend in order to keep our organization school approved and up-to-date.  I was dreading this trip, already almost bored to tears...
    kitters06 kitters06 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Love....Well Really Like :))

    I don't know if I really "Love" trans guys but I will tell you they are very attractive to me. I'm a BI guy and I find it hard to find people who enjoy that...So to all the trans guys, Thank you for being you ! 
    WizzKidd WizzKidd 31-35, M Oct 28, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I have met some incredible people here, some I truly thought I loved who turned out to be scammers and broke my heart. Others who became great friends and will always hold a place...
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    I met this really great guy over the summer. I had known him for a while actually but I never really thought about talking to him. One day he messaged me on Facebook and after a...
    pleasedonthugme pleasedonthugme 13-15, F Nov 28

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    very long post ahead. i have been in love with sonny moore/skrillex for more than 3 years. i think about him every single day. i want him to be happy more than anything. he is my...
    sonnyday5 sonnyday5 16-17 1 Response Nov 30

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    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F Nov 30

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    Okay so I need some good advice if you can give any i'm open to suggestions.. Okay so I don't know what I am, but I do know that my best friend is all I can think about. I can hear...
    coolblue14 coolblue14 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M Dec 7

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm 24 years old and I'm just now experience what it's like to fall in love for the first time. I've never been the type of girl to just say that I love someone for the sake of...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 10

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    I am normally a sensible and practical woman. I'm working towards getting my associates degree in computer science and I have a boyfriend that I've been with off and on for a few...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F Dec 14

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    I'm in love with a fictional character. Only him, and for more than 10 years now. It's not the love of a fan girl for a celebrities - I'm a fan of quite a number of celebrities so...
    sannnnnn sannnnnn 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    It's an incredible feeling to have warmth inside you. To know that it's not always cold out there. I love to love and I'm in love with it. Love on every level and whenever possible...
    ConLocura ConLocura 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    I have been with my kids father for over 14 years and I have been in love with Another man for over ten years. My husband found out and did a 360 to Try to make our Relationship...
    Rosebella14 Rosebella14 36-40 Dec 16

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    I wrote a story not too long ago about my love for Benedict Cumberbatch. I just want to say that I'm over my predicament and just want to impart some words of wisdom to any one who...
    agathashelly agathashelly 26-30, F Dec 18

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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
    CatherineGray CatherineGray 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think that you fall in love with different songs at different points in your life. As you change and grow, some songs stay with you and some don't. Some songs are nostalgic and...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I just realized I am in love with a guy who doesn't love me. We have been talking for months and just recently he has been talking to me less and I am realizing how much it is...
    thirdsense thirdsense 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I met my amazing boyfriend on here over a year ago and we started off as friends and later we started to date in April and I've been in love with him for a while even before we...
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I'm in love with my cousin. Things haven't gone as I thought they would. But I'm grateful I have someone like her In my life. I know in a few months, things will get better. I see...
    mateo213 mateo213 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 29

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    He fell in love with me fast. Way too fast. It was crazy. We're best friends- we would talk to each other all the time. I hated that he was in love with me. Why? I didn't get it...
    AerynAVA AerynAVA 18-21, F Nov 29

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    When i saw him I was interested in his personality and looks, and the way he just made me feel with his seductive voice that sounded like the song you can never forget and loved so...
    ummmheyyy ummmheyyy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I am in love with my teacher and he's married with a three year old daughter and he barely even knows me. I never realised that it would hurt this much to fall in love with someone...
    arindreith arindreith 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    The year was 98 I playing on trampoline with my childhood crush.We were coping stone colds wrestling on each other.Then he randomly pecked me on the lips.I was surprised when he...
    ThePunkDreamer ThePunkDreamer 22-25, F Dec 2

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    I can't explain how in love with this song I am and how happy it makes me. The video is beautiful, too, and I just love how he and the dancer are so close and how their dancing...
    LittleMissIntrovert LittleMissIntrovert 16-17, F Dec 2

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    I don't know how or why, but I fell in love with my English teacher. And I fell hard. I started acting really awkward around her a few months ago for some reason and I can't even...
    perksofbeingamermaid perksofbeingamermaid 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    They say you can't control who you fall in love with. Unfortunately I think that is true. You see, it all started on the first day of school. He was a new teacher and very young...
    bruh245 bruh245 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I have this teacher who I am deeply in love with. I think about her all the time, and yesterday, she was getting out of her classroom and I wanted to say hi. She always has a big...
    UneReveuse UneReveuse 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    First step..make him fall in love with me...then keeping doing what I did to make him fall in love with me the first time. So he can fall in love with me over again
    candacej1983 candacej1983 31-35, F Dec 4

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    BRACELETS, TATTOOS, & LOVE Hey guys! I know it's been awhile since I've given an update about my former teacher, H. Now that I'm away at college it's been difficult not seeing him...
    PulpDiction PulpDiction 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 4

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    Spent basically the entire weekend with him...off and on anyways...Then last night I saw him and spent the night with him and all day! Enjoyed every moment. Waking up having been...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Dec 7

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    I'm head over heals in love with somebody. That sounds great, but it's not as simple as that. Both myself and the person I'm in love with have over the last 6 months gone through...
    tpol75 tpol75 36-40, M Dec 8

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    My boyfriend and I have a very very deep love. When we met we spent the first 8 months disconnected from his friends and my friends. One night after sex I asked him what his...
    zee14 zee14 26-30, F Dec 8

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    I can't really say I "fell" in love with him... it sort of snuck up on me. I say "sort of" because it's not like I was completely unaware of what was happening, I just did not want...
    Friability Friability 18-21 Dec 8

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