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I Am In Love With a Transman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 43 People

    He Is My Everything!

    My husband is a post-op Transman and I have loved every thing about him from the day I met him. I would not change my realtionship in anyway. I have been asked so many times "don't you wish he was just born a man" or "why didn't you just get with...
    HisLady HisLady 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I'm a guy (21) and he's 19,

    and he's the most wonderful man I've ever met. He's extremely smart, he's hot, he's really funny and he shares all of my interests. I actually confessed to him two years ago but he gently brushed me off, no awkwardness at all. Thought I'd give up eventually but it's hard since...
    Shadowcat69 Shadowcat69 18-21, M Apr 22

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    Not My Type.

    There is one thing my man says that really bothers me, "That he is not my type." When we first met I was identified as a lesbian. But than again when we first met, he identified as a woman. This isn't the case anymore and as circumstances change so do we. I wish that he would see...
    KKeith KKeith 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    So Many Things I Never Expected

    For me, it all started at this hideous leadership conference that my college Soul Stepper team sent me on.  The officers were required to attend in order to keep our organization school approved and up-to-date.  I was dreading this trip, already almost bored to tears...
    kitters06 kitters06 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    I Am Afraid

    because i think that something is going to go wrong. I can already see signs of this not lasting, merely because of your own insecurity. You don't want to trust and believe in me. A year later and you can't trust me? I have been through it all: the suicidal thoughts and threats...
    kingdombythesea kingdombythesea 18-21, F Aug 19, 2012

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    Our Not-so-storybook Love Story

    About four years ago, I went on a trip with a group of women from my church. One of those was a girl about my age, named Lauren. She was my age, fun to hang out with, and a great listener. We spent a lot of time together on the trip and then even more as we returned. We had a lot...
    Stingrae Stingrae 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2008

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    My Prince Charming

    When I was six, I had this grand idea of how life would turn out. I would grow up, go to the college my parents attended, become a teacher with long beautiful brown hair and bright blue eyes and be able to woo any many with a flash of my smile. But the only man for me would be...
    scriptedpictures scriptedpictures 22-25, F 1 Response May 10, 2012

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    Crushing

    I have a crush on a trans FtM but he does not know it, at lest i dont think he does, and he is not interested in me. so kinda sucks, but I dont want someone to be with me just cuz they feel sorry for me, so its better not to push it..
    babygurl20007 babygurl20007 26-30, F Jul 22, 2013

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    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F Jul 26, 2014

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    His Voice...

    I only JUST spoke w/him& he answered the phone now& his voice  is different. it's gotten so much manlier. i LOVE it. what's even better is HE LOVES IT. i told him the day when he seriously has NO REASON not to speak louder in class has come. he shouldn't have ever needed to be...
    micahN micahN 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2011

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    He's the most beautiful person I've ever met,

    and I stand by him 100%. He is a trans man and he is beautiful. That's who he is and I will always support him!
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M Nov 21, 2014

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    He's Just Coming Out

    I started dating my partner 5.5 years ago when we were still in high school.  As far as I was concerned, I was dating a lesbian.  That is, until a year ago, when he came out to me as trans.  Now he is currently going through the process of coming out to a few close...
    HGolightly HGolightly 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Highschool Honeys

    I'm currently 16 and I'm dating a pre everything trans guy. I love him so much. I fell for him the first time he looked up at me and smiled. I've had people ask....isn't it confusing? Is it hard pretending he's a guy? Well to me he's more of a guy than anyone else i've dated. He...
    xXnerdyloveXx xXnerdyloveXx 16-17, F Apr 7, 2012

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    Love....Well Really Like :))

    I don't know if I really "Love" trans guys but I will tell you they are very attractive to me. I'm a BI guy and I find it hard to find people who enjoy that...So to all the trans guys, Thank you for being you ! 
    WizzKidd WizzKidd 31-35, M Oct 28, 2013

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    Life Changing Love

    I should start by saying that I have not been on Experience Project in a long time. The reason I came back is what I am writing about. Falling in love with my FTM partner. I knew that here I could find others like him and I. I have no other friends in this situation that I knew...
    idontgiveafuckasaurus idontgiveafuckasaurus 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Other way around in my case. My best friend just confessed to me over the weekend that's she's in love with me. I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. She hates him though...
    Whitetrick15 Whitetrick15 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I met the guy on a mountain peak. My favorite one, in my very favorite mountain. I was there with some colleagues from work on a team building and while everyone was gathering...
    wildberrypop wildberrypop 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I am in love with someone who I knew in second grade even though it has been 9 years since we have seen each other. We became friends on Facebook and about a year ago I just...
    misspiggybf97 misspiggybf97 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I met this girl in class one day, and I love her to the bottom of my very soul. Since we've began dating, I've fallen in love with her every nuance, her every flaw, her every kink...
    glhflol glhflol 22-25, M 15 hrs ago

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    Im so in love with this man. To hear him say how much I meant to him and that he'd do anything for me is just so heart warming. So comforting. Though we're just friends I know we...
    for3v3r7 for3v3r7 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    So some background: on the 5th of May 2014, I fell in love. Head over heels, inexplicably painfully madly in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. Unrequited love, not...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 19 hrs ago

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    There is no "you"...I'm in love with love. Today is Sunday and to me it's a day to relax with a loved one...laying together, whispering sweet nothings, playing word association or...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    As I sit here in the dark tonight, I thought I would share a few things that Ive thinking about lately. before I met you, I did dated a few guys, after that whole Michigan...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am in love with my boyfriend he is the most thoughtful caring considerate guy I've ever met he took me on my first date real date I get jittery just thinking about him he is...
    Ladystone Ladystone 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend.... He unfortunately doesn't love me back. I feel that we have so much potential and it could really work. I tell him absolutely everything...
    Beyist Beyist 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It has been 7 months since my separation from my husband. I've moved on but he doesn't know that I moved on with another man. My husband wants to start over but I don't. We text...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hello everyone. I am new to this and a little nervous but I feel sharing is important so I will share my story with those who will listen. I am a confused person right now because...
    ThatMetalDude ThatMetalDude 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I am I am absolutely and totally in love with my identical twin brother he is the world to me he's the most important person to me we share everything together he is the reason why...
    lovewins2123 lovewins2123 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's been six years since i've heard her voice. Seen her smile. I fell in love with her so deeply I scared her away. I dont think she was ready for what i had in mind. But i loved...
    naomiXO naomiXO 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am deeply in love with those beings that are called "fictional characters". I have loved fictional characters all my life, from my earliest childhood. I believe that what we...
    Lylyth Lylyth 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I was attached to you because you were sweet to me. You were the sweetest of all guys I knew. I thought no one could be sweeter. I went online again and I realized that I have...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    "Distance is just a test to see how far people can travel." Gosh, I don't even know what to say. Ever since I got a new game called Super Smash Bros. for WiiU, I literally fell in...
    ExoTrickz ExoTrickz 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    So I am in love with a boy from Star Trek: The Next Generation. As you may know, his name is my username. Can you guess it? Wesley Crusher. I know everyone thinks he is annoying...
    WesleyCrusher WesleyCrusher 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Hello, I'm posting here because I really don't know what else to do. So me and this girl have been friends for about 4/5 months now. We met through drama school. I'm 22, she's 19...
    EdgeOfSanity EdgeOfSanity 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    This was originally published on Elephant Journal and the slightly longer version is on there: This is truth I thought I’d keep to myself. But as the media is abuzz with all...
    californiagirl80 californiagirl80 26-30, F Jun 28

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    So that was like days ago me: I Mr*** I tease him with the Mr haha :P him: Hi Miss *** It seems that you wake only at night and sleep at day time me: don't judge if you don't...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I need advice. I was in a relationship with a wonderful guy who treats me amazing! But we were lacking the physical elimant of the relationship. I felt like it was a HS...
    hatinglove29 hatinglove29 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F Jun 23

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    This story started 6 years ago.I fell in love with a priest when i was 15,he was 22,still studying priesthood and haven't made any of his vows yet.We met in a camp organized by the...
    Hafizamassoud Hafizamassoud 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Hi, I'm 36, married and bored. I've been married 12yrs (together for 16 in total). My wife and I are a perfect match and are great partners in life. We are virtually the same...
    BoredHubby1 BoredHubby1 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I am afraid to share certain feelings or even admit to myself that I have them. I especially find love troubles trivial but I just need to express myself. I have this friend who I...
    WearOutKyd WearOutKyd 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    I'm in love with someone I can never have. It's a complex situation, involving circumstances and distance, but the feelings are stronger now than they were a few months ago when...
    ally124 ally124 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21