I Am In Love With A Younger Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 442 People

    26 Years

    Im in love with a really young guy, ive always been a bit of a cougar but im 47 and hes 21 and I have never felt anything like it, everything about him makes me tingle, I feel 16 again haha :)
    Cougar64 Cougar64
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2012

    I'm 48, He's 25

    We met thru an online dating site. He sent a real email not just the typical "hey babe lets hook up" kind of flirts. I responded before I saw his young age, and at this point I was struggling with the idea that younger men were attracted to me. Why me? I knew I was not interested...
    frolickingfiona frolickingfiona
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Apr 7, 2013

    Craddle Snatcher?

    I've only dated one older man in the past. Out of my 7 relationship. I didn't choose them purposely but they just happen to be younger.. I like younger men. they are much more vibrant, jovial, carefree and we are much more interest in common. Their desire to please makes up for...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Oct 12, 2007

    Blissful Relationship

    I am in a relationship with a man who is 33 and I am 49. We have been together for 4 years and are so inlove. He is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul and very handsome also :) My two daughters (who are 20 and 32) are so happy for us and really like him, as do my 3...
    Jandy1314 Jandy1314
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    13 Year Age Gap And Still Going Strong After 6 1/2 Years..

    We met at work in December 2003.  I was in a failing marriage and had three children.  He was 22 and I was 34.  We became fast friends, finding that we had MUCH in common.  We discussed everything, including our relationships.  After a year of being friends, it started to...
    FoxyMoxy FoxyMoxy
    36-40, F
    8 Responses May 25, 2011

    Unusual Circumstances

    I never imagined I would meet and fall deeply in love with a man 18years my junior, especially under the circumstances that our lives crossed paths. What makes our circumstances unusual and very, very complicated is that we both live in the same building and we are both in a very...
    Adoniseslover Adoniseslover
    51-55, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2013

    weird place to pit this,

    because i am a younger man, but im yearning for the conversation of an older woman. not even sexual. the intelligence and life experience alone would keep me drawn in.
    LedgeOfficial LedgeOfficial
    22-25, M
    Nov 21, 2015

    He Is My Best Friend, and My Boyfriend.

    I met him when he was 18 and I was 24, and we became close friends that year.  Later on we recognized that we loved each other, and a year and a half later we are still very, very happy.  But a small part of me feels that if it took me this long to know what I really...
    allimarie allimarie
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 7, 2007

    Hello everyone I hope

    that your week is going well. I found this group because I can learn from the experiences here and they are very helpful. I am 28 male and a year ago met an older woman on a popular dating site who is now 45. Well we've only texted back and forth for a while and keep saying we...
    winner8719 winner8719
    26-30, M
    Jul 1, 2015

    I Am In Love With A Guy Four Years Younger To Me

    I am deeply in love with a guy who is four years younger to me. We are very close friends as well. Everything was started as friendship but now I have fallen in love with him. I don't know about his feelings at all. I am afraid of saying anything because I am really afraid that I...
    Sarrahkhan Sarrahkhan
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2013

    Why Cant People Be Happy For Me

    I'm a 33 yr old recently divorced with kids. Just when I determined I would be single for a while ( due to a bad unhealthy relationship) I made the choice to entertain myself in one of the online dating sites. I was very clear of my expectations because I didn't want to hurt...
    karliekat2026 karliekat2026
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

    S.O.S! I Want Him Even More...

    But I don't know what to do... The point is I feel that I'm in love with a younger man. He still at his late teenage years while I'm thirty something. The feeling seems to be mutual. Nothing 'serious' happened between us, except for a whole lots of quality time. The more I know...
    cougarwannabe cougarwannabe
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    I'm 39 And He's 29 And It's Like A Dream Come True

    OK - so yes we met on line. That's out there. I was looking for a fling, a one night stand cause I haven't been with my husband in years. My husband and I stopped sleeping together, in the same bed, over 5 years ago and so, now that I am in my prime, all I have thought about...
    soulwrestler soulwrestler
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2011

    Should I Tell Him Im In Love With Him

    so i need to know what to do im 24 and i am love with a guy who turns 18 in 2 days i have been in love with him since january 2012 and im pretty sure he is in love with me but the age is kinda weird to me and he is my little brothers friend and im over weight and hes not but...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    I'm 32, He's 22 :-)

    Hello everyone! I'm a 32 year old, never married, no children lady. I've been dating since the age of 18, and I never once even considered dating a younger guy. I was not opposed to it; it just seemed more expected/natural to date someone my own age or older.After being single...
    MissShona MissShona
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

    Found Myself In My Younger Man!

    I'm 44 years old and am very much in love with my 26 year old boyfriend. I have more in common with him then anyone else I have ever met. I feel like I've learned more about life and myself since we have been together. He has made me a better person. Im figuring he's probably...
    ImOmg ImOmg
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2013

    He's So Wrong For Me In So Many Ways, But I Can't Help It.

    Where do I start? My husband and I have been together for 19 years and married for 16. I am 36 years old. Ours has really been a difficult marriage. We've found it hard to understand each other and adjust to each other, but we're both committed to each other, so we've decided...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2013
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    Am I Being Weird!

    I am 26 and my now official boyfriend is 19 we have been together for about a year and a half but only officially/publicly for about 6 months. He had recently bulked up a lot muscle wise and grown a lot in the pants too!! yay for me! but he has got chest hair and a massive snail...
    hannahmitchell hannahmitchell
    26-30, F
    Sep 24, 2013

    I am my boyfriend is 10 years younger then I am.

    He's in the Greek Army it's what boys in this country when they turn 18 they have be in for a year. He just turn 18 back in Nov. The lust we have his great lover.
    Markella116 Markella116
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    I have been having sex with him

    since he was 19. Now at the age of 23 he says he loves me and wants to marry me, I am trying to warn him love and marriage is very different than love and sex. I think since all his young girlfriends have left him or cheated on him he thinks I'm the one. I'm just not sure if...
    Ilikethemyoung Ilikethemyoung
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    I am engaged to a younger man.

    We're getting married soon. I was friends with him for a long time before we confessed our love to each other. He proposed and I said yes. He has been very supportive of me and gives me so much energy. I couldn't have asked for a better life partner. He's sweet,sensitive and...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85
    31-35, F
    Jul 6, 2014
    warclub43 warclub43
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    I am 35 and my boyfriend is 13 years younger

    than I am. We don't see the age difference though, I don't look my age and he doesn't act like he's 22, he acts older. I have always dated younger men though, since I was in school. I don't see a issue with it, if they don't mistreat you and they give you the love and affection...
    Nyx50 Nyx50
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 14

    I am 41 yo, he is 26.

    Our age difference hasn't been a problem. We met a couple years ago. Our friendship grew over time, as most do. One day, something lit-up between us. Not long after expressing to one another how we felt, he moved in with me. I have 2 older children. They r happy because I am...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    He Loves Me Like I've Never Been Loved Before

    "I am in love with a younger man".                     We came to know each other through letterwriting, and in time, phonecalls. We had an immediate connection that...
    FaithfulCompanion FaithfulCompanion
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2007

    Could He Be The 1?

    I met this guy through social networking. Actually through a friend but i hav never seen him. Even before we met, we loved each other dearly. When we finally met, we were everything we both were expecting. My family loves him and he loves them. I have finally moved on from my...
    tracili tracili
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 13, 2010

    The Trouble With Love

    Falling in love with a beautiful handsome 25 yr old should be no big deal for a sexy 31 year old woman right? It was a wonderful beginning. I thought he was truely unique and amazing. I thought we would have a worldwind romance that might last forever... So what went wrong...
    BurgundyGirl BurgundyGirl
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2007

    Cougarbait *Chuckle*

    I fell in love with my best friend's son. Upon finding out that we'd been on a date, she ended our 20 year friendship and kicked him out. So we've been living together almost a month now. 2013 has definitely proven to be a crazy year so far! Lol At first, I was devastated by...
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    I am 36 years old. Up

    until last year I was out of the game for 10 years after having splitting up from fiancé. Last year I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression! So find it hard to know what is really going on in my brain. Around this time I met a married man who had left his wife! We had a few...
    Angeldeb847 Angeldeb847
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    I am divorced years and 41st my bf is 18

    and we are very much in love. I have 5 children from my marriage. I do not want another child but my bf necessarily want a child.
    Sabine74 Sabine74
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    I'm crazy in love with him!

    we met 5 months ago, my husband had recently left me so I was in no way looking for anything serious, just spotted him on a night at the pub, thought he was hot and wanted a fun night! I had my reservations after when he asked for my number and we talked a bit more, he's 20 and...
    Coco181225 Coco181225
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2015

    I want to date an older woman,

    I'm attracted by the way they're mature and have their own preferences. Any ladies around London? :)
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 13, 2015

    He's 30 And I'm 45. I Am So In Love With This Younger Man!

    Hi, I'm a 45 year old African American female and he is a 30 year old white male. I am so in love with this man. Every time we are together he holds me and gives me the best hugs. He is always staring in my eyes. He kisses me as if to never let go of my lips. I don't know if I...
    nonosim nonosim
    Sep 17, 2012

    In Love With Him!

    I had dated a few co workers back then but never thought I would date a guy whose 4 years younger me. I'm actually in a long distance relationship but I broke up with him because I fell in love with my younger guy. He's 22 and I just turn 27.. I worked with him, He was actually...
    MyCoNfUsEdHeArT MyCoNfUsEdHeArT
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2013

    Not Quite Yet

    I can't actually say I'm in love with him, but I do have serious feelings for him. There are two problems: one, I am married, but I don't know for how long. and two, he is a LOT younger than me. I am 39 and he is 20. That is a pretty big difference. Even if I were single, I...
    cancermoon cancermoon
    41-45, F
    21 Responses Dec 17, 2008

    Have I Lost My Mind!!!!

    Im falling for a man 20yrs younger than me he's 31and I'm 51 but he makes me feel like I'm the only one in the room where ever we are all his attention and hands are on me he says he loves me and wants to marry me he says I'm it for him! I'm scared to let myself go scared of...
    Crossfire670 Crossfire670
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2013

    He Makes Me Glow.....

    I know it's wrong....But it feels so right...lol... but it is more than just a crossed attraction... more shared than a sexual explosion...more worth than an erotic erosion... it's alot little things that others do not or would not even understand.. like the small * i get you...
    dreamcatcher60foru dreamcatcher60foru
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2013

    In Love With a Younger Man

    I had the wonderful experience of falling in love with a younger man, we are still friends and well, who knows what the future may hold. because I am a novelist I decided to write a book loosely based on my experience. In Love With a Younger Man...
    newfiction newfiction
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2008

    Yes I Am

    My husband is 10 years younger than I am, but it is not something that either of us ever think about because we are so similar in most every way.  We are best friends and lovers and we usually know just what the other is thinking and can finish each other's sentences. ...
    ShewhoisEvolving ShewhoisEvolving
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2008

    Well I must tell I am 100% sure he loves me.

    He is kind and caring. Last time he withdrew all of his bank deposit for my birthday present. He does not hesitate anything to see me happy. I have been with more than 20 men so far, looking for the best match among them. The only ones who were the best were a man 10 years...
    Forouzan Forouzan
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    Actually I use to in love with a boy younger

    than me 3 years old. We spent time together and it's was so happy, beautiful. We're so happy. I just see only him while we next to each other, like this world has only him. Until I move to different state and we still Skype every night for two months, he said love me every...
    zimzu zimzu
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I am almost 40 and still scared of what my

    parents and family will say about my relationship with a man who is 9 years younger than I am.
    ibutterfly75 ibutterfly75
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 30, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    tessaccaa tessaccaa
    26-30, F
    Jul 26, 2015

    Loving A Man Half My Age

    I met a young man half my age and we became friends. I had no idea his age when we met, nor did he know mine. We clicked from the beginning. We do not live in the same state, but I was fine with that, and figured he is only a friend. He eventually asked me to be his girlfriend...
    Rayne2 Rayne2
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

    Related Experiences

    We are a desi couple and I am the husband here. Have been here earlier and had some good interaction with people and friends here. Since EP is closing, I would like to connect...
    Desicouplefun Desicouplefun
    46-50, M
    Apr 21
    I have to say this, one last time, here. I want this to be what anyone and everyone that ever comes here see's, from me. P. I love you. I always will. There will always be a place...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 21
    I wasn't looking for it, sure I was fine with flirting a bit, but I didn't expect to fall in love, and it wasn't like Oh this girl, let's flirt with her and she'll be mind, It...
    WhirlwindR WhirlwindR
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 21
    ok, so here's the cheesy post I promised y'all. So our anniversary is coming up on Friday. This month has been amazing. It feels so right to be with him. For once, I'm not...
    Smileydork Smileydork
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 20
    this is something crazy which a friend is going through, she asked me to help her but I don't know how to advice her..''i really don't know what to do now,I fell in love with and...
    Rosalindaag Rosalindaag
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    this is something crazy,a friend asked for my help but I don't know how to advice her.'' I fell in love with this man who is
    Rosalindaag Rosalindaag
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    I never thought of it as an affair..... It started here, on EP, with a reply to her story about the Status Quo. She was involved with a man on-line, but it wasn't fulfilling, it...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 20
    how discouraged it is after knowing that the guy whom you admire the most didn't like you and he likes to be with someone else better than you are...ouch i can't imagine it!
    jenelyn0298 jenelyn0298
    18-21, F
    Apr 20
    I don't really get the whole "weeaboo" classification when you tell someone you like anime and manga or post about it on the Internet. I mean, I enjoy it a lot myself; I also think...
    Nick8876 Nick8876
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 19
    I'm 17 years old and I struggle with anxiet, although to my friends I appear confident, I hide my true feelings with 'great banter'. I digress, when I joined sixth form I made a...
    Jaffaj Jaffaj
    16-17, M
    Apr 18
    I met her on POF back in July of 2015 we have seen each other once since then but we talk everyday! She has been there everyday since my ex left me for some guy that doesn't care...
    dreamin20 dreamin20
    22-25, F
    Apr 18
    I'm in a situation that makes me feel so incredibly confused. I've always known I liked women but my problem is that I've been in a comfortable relationship with my boyfriend for...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 18
    I miss my Infantry man so much!! I always feel like I'm gonna cry. We're newly weds, and not even a month later the guy gets deployed. I can hardly stand it! It's so hard to sleep...
    cestlavegan0212 cestlavegan0212
    26-30, F
    Apr 17
    I'm curious to know how many people have met on ep and had a successful relationship? tell me your stories :)
    WanderxLust WanderxLust
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Apr 17
    I fell in love with the love of my life when I was 16 in 1978. We were separated with no communication whatsoever for 25 years. In 2005 we re-connected. She is married (damn!) But...
    dbucher dbucher
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 17
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