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I Am In Love With A Younger Man

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    In Love With a Younger Man

    I had the wonderful experience of falling in love with a younger man, we are still friends and well, who knows what the future may hold. because I am a novelist I decided to write a book loosely based on my experience. In Love With a Younger Man...
    newfiction newfiction 41-45 3 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    He Doesn't Know How Much He Means To Me.

    I had just turned 40 he was 25-26 and i met him the day I moved into a new house. I'm struggling with strong feelings for him for almost a year now and he has no idea how important he is to me. I truly unconditionally love and cherish him when meeting up with him or speaking with...
    Virgocrushed Virgocrushed 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    Have I Lost My Mind!!!!

    Im falling for a man 20yrs younger than me he's 31and I'm 51 but he makes me feel like I'm the only one in the room where ever we are all his attention and hands are on me he says he loves me and wants to marry me he says I'm it for him! I'm scared to let myself go scared of...
    Crossfire670 Crossfire670 51-55 6 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Am I Being Weird!

    I am 26 and my now official boyfriend is 19 we have been together for about a year and a half but only officially/publicly for about 6 months. He had recently bulked up a lot muscle wise and grown a lot in the pants too!! yay for me! but he has got chest hair and a massive snail...
    hannahmitchell hannahmitchell 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2013

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    Why Cant People Be Happy For Me

    I'm a 33 yr old recently divorced with kids. Just when I determined I would be single for a while ( due to a bad unhealthy relationship) I made the choice to entertain myself in one of the online dating sites. I was very clear of my expectations because I didn't want to hurt...
    karliekat2026 karliekat2026 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    He's 30 And I'm 45. I Am So In Love With This Younger Man!

    Hi, I'm a 45 year old African American female and he is a 30 year old white male. I am so in love with this man. Every time we are together he holds me and gives me the best hugs. He is always staring in my eyes. He kisses me as if to never let go of my lips. I don't know if I...
    nonosim nonosim 41-45 Sep 17, 2012

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    He Is My Best Friend, and My Boyfriend.

    I met him when he was 18 and I was 24, and we became close friends that year.  Later on we recognized that we loved each other, and a year and a half later we are still very, very happy.  But a small part of me feels that if it took me this long to know what I really...
    allimarie allimarie 26-30, F 1 Response May 7, 2007

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    Should I Tell Him Im In Love With Him

    so i need to know what to do im 24 and i am love with a guy who turns 18 in 2 days i have been in love with him since january 2012 and im pretty sure he is in love with me but the age is kinda weird to me and he is my little brothers friend and im over weight and hes not but...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I'm 51...he's 31...

    I've always said, I will never date someone younger than myself. Well ladies, never say never.... I'm head over heels for him.. He completes me. The most amazing thing is, he loves me too.Before we fell inlove, we were the best of friends.. We started to confide in each other...
    Antine Antine 51-55 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Found Myself In My Younger Man!

    I'm 44 years old and am very much in love with my 26 year old boyfriend. I have more in common with him then anyone else I have ever met. I feel like I've learned more about life and myself since we have been together. He has made me a better person. Im figuring he's probably...
    ImOmg ImOmg 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2013

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    Unusual Circumstances

    I never imagined I would meet and fall deeply in love with a man 18years my junior, especially under the circumstances that our lives crossed paths. What makes our circumstances unusual and very, very complicated is that we both live in the same building and we are both in a very...
    Adoniseslover Adoniseslover 51-55, F 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I have been having sex with him

    since he was 19. Now at the age of 23 he says he loves me and wants to marry me, I am trying to warn him love and marriage is very different than love and sex. I think since all his young girlfriends have left him or cheated on him he thinks I'm the one. I'm just not sure if...
    Ilikethemyoung Ilikethemyoung 36-40, F Jan 25

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    The Best Ever!

    When I met my now boyfriend I wasn't expecting anything but a friendship. I had just ended an unhealthy relationship nd wasn't really ready to date again but I met this "kid" (in my eyes) 10 years younger than me, at the beginning I thought nothing wrong to be just friends, but...
    karliekat2026 karliekat2026 31-35, F Sep 9, 2012

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    Can't Help Myself

    I have the biggest crush on my friend. We have known each other for 1 1/2 years now. We always message each other on fb and we tell each other everything and we have so much in common. I just love being around him. When I go out to events, I can usually find him there and we wind...
    diaochan diaochan 41-45, F Jan 5, 2013

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    Lucky In Love

    I am in love with a young man. He's 19 and I'm 21, so admittedly there isn't a huge age difference but still. I like it, I call him my toyboy and he calls me a cougar (all in good fun) and I can honestly say I've never been with anyone so fun and interesting, he's also...
    Sinsirr Sinsirr 18-21, F Mar 19, 2012

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    Well I must tell I am 100% sure he loves me.

    He is kind and caring. Last time he withdrew all of his bank deposit for my birthday present. He does not hesitate anything to see me happy. I have been with more than 20 men so far, looking for the best match among them. The only ones who were the best were a man 10 years...
    Forouzan Forouzan 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    Should I Be With Him

    My bf is 25 and I am 41. He is from Northern India. We were friends for 9 months before we got together and I always joke it took him that time to win me over. He makes me laugh and is very caring and has always shown interest in my 3 children from my previous marriage. We...
    uncertaincougar uncertaincougar 41-45 2 Responses Jan 10, 2013

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    Yes, Me Too...

    i am so in love with a younger man..i'm 47 and he's 39..we mesh together so well..i truly believe he is THE ONE.....THE SOULMATE i've been seeking for all these years..he doesn't know my feelings however; we have become very compatible as co-workers..he's someone i can be with...
    emerjae64 emerjae64 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    I am engaged to a younger man.

    We're getting married soon. I was friends with him for a long time before we confessed our love to each other. He proposed and I said yes. He has been very supportive of me and gives me so much energy. I couldn't have asked for a better life partner. He's sweet,sensitive and...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    13 Year Age Gap And Still Going Strong After 6 1/2 Years..

    We met at work in December 2003.  I was in a failing marriage and had three children.  He was 22 and I was 34.  We became fast friends, finding that we had MUCH in common.  We discussed everything, including our relationships.  After a year of being friends, it started to...
    FoxyMoxy FoxyMoxy 36-40, F 8 Responses May 25, 2011

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    Cougarbait *Chuckle*

    I fell in love with my best friend's son. Upon finding out that we'd been on a date, she ended our 20 year friendship and kicked him out. So we've been living together almost a month now. 2013 has definitely proven to be a crazy year so far! Lol At first, I was devastated by...
    KM4JM KM4JM 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    S.O.S! I Want Him Even More...

    But I don't know what to do... The point is I feel that I'm in love with a younger man. He still at his late teenage years while I'm thirty something. The feeling seems to be mutual. Nothing 'serious' happened between us, except for a whole lots of quality time. The more I know...
    cougarwannabe cougarwannabe 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    26 Years

    Im in love with a really young guy, ive always been a bit of a cougar but im 47 and hes 21 and I have never felt anything like it, everything about him makes me tingle, I feel 16 again haha :)
    Cougar64 Cougar64 46-50, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Could He Be The 1?

    I met this guy through social networking. Actually through a friend but i hav never seen him. Even before we met, we loved each other dearly. When we finally met, we were everything we both were expecting. My family loves him and he loves them. I have finally moved on from my...
    tracili tracili 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Insanity!

      I am 36, married with two kids and I thought I was happy. I have been in this relationship since I was 15(and no, I wasn't pregnant; we had kids 8 years later). I think I am a pretty intelligent woman. I have three University degrees, a great job, good friends, blah, blah...
    Dagnireguren Dagnireguren 36-40 7 Responses Jul 3, 2009

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    I'm 48, He's 25

    We met thru an online dating site. He sent a real email not just the typical "hey babe lets hook up" kind of flirts. I responded before I saw his young age, and at this point I was struggling with the idea that younger men were attracted to me. Why me? I knew I was not interested...
    frolickingfiona frolickingfiona 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    He Makes Me Glow.....

    I know it's wrong....But it feels so right...lol... but it is more than just a crossed attraction... more shared than a sexual explosion...more worth than an erotic erosion... it's alot little things that others do not or would not even understand.. like the small * i get you...
    dreamcatcher60foru dreamcatcher60foru 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    In Love With Him!

    I had dated a few co workers back then but never thought I would date a guy whose 4 years younger me. I'm actually in a long distance relationship but I broke up with him because I fell in love with my younger guy. He's 22 and I just turn 27.. I worked with him, He was actually...
    MyCoNfUsEdHeArT MyCoNfUsEdHeArT 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    Blissful Relationship

    I am in a relationship with a man who is 33 and I am 49. We have been together for 4 years and are so inlove. He is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul and very handsome also :) My two daughters (who are 20 and 32) are so happy for us and really like him, as do my 3...
    Jandy1314 Jandy1314 46-50 1 Response Feb 10, 2013

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    I'm 32, He's 22 :-)

    Hello everyone! I'm a 32 year old, never married, no children lady. I've been dating since the age of 18, and I never once even considered dating a younger guy. I was not opposed to it; it just seemed more expected/natural to date someone my own age or older.After being single...
    MissShona MissShona 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    I Am In Love With A Guy Four Years Younger To Me

    I am deeply in love with a guy who is four years younger to me. We are very close friends as well. Everything was started as friendship but now I have fallen in love with him. I don't know about his feelings at all. I am afraid of saying anything because I am really afraid that I...
    Sarrahkhan Sarrahkhan 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    Yes I Am

    My husband is 10 years younger than I am, but it is not something that either of us ever think about because we are so similar in most every way.  We are best friends and lovers and we usually know just what the other is thinking and can finish each other's sentences. ...
    ShewhoisEvolving ShewhoisEvolving 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 24, 2008

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    Not Quite Yet

    I can't actually say I'm in love with him, but I do have serious feelings for him. There are two problems: one, I am married, but I don't know for how long. and two, he is a LOT younger than me. I am 39 and he is 20. That is a pretty big difference. Even if I were single, I...
    cancermoon cancermoon 41-45, F 21 Responses Dec 17, 2008

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    The Bronze Rapture: A Poem About The Younger Man I Love...

    You are bronze And you are handsome and you are rapture I want to rapture away with you anywhere you want to go my king If only the years between us weren't so broad You think of it for the future but I do not Is this a may december dream not to happen or could we be? The...
    bronzerapture bronzerapture 51-55, F Sep 10, 2012

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    Craddle Snatcher?

    I've only dated one older man in the past. Out of my 7 relationship. I didn't choose them purposely but they just happen to be younger.. I like younger men. they are much more vibrant, jovial, carefree and we are much more interest in common. Their desire to please makes up for...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 12, 2007

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    He's So Wrong For Me In So Many Ways, But I Can't Help It.

    Where do I start? My husband and I have been together for 19 years and married for 16. I am 36 years old. Ours has really been a difficult marriage. We've found it hard to understand each other and adjust to each other, but we're both committed to each other, so we've decided...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Is All That Chemistry Enough?

    I feel physically sick, scared witless, and incredibly foolish. We met at a training establishment the other side of the world to me. I spent 6 weeks there, he was my tutor. My first thought when we met was "thank god there's no way I could fancy him", then suddenly after 2 weeks...
    43misery 43misery 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2010

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    The Love I Always Wanted to Have...

    It happened last September. I became a teacher in a high school. I saw him the first day, he wasn't like his friends from the class. From the very beginning, he was different. Very mature, reasonable, serious, and so extremely good-looking. I though I wish I...
    Vickroni Vickroni 22-25 4 Responses Jan 23, 2009

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    He Loves Me Like I've Never Been Loved Before

    "I am in love with a younger man".                     We came to know each other through letterwriting, and in time, phonecalls. We had an immediate connection that...
    FaithfulCompanion FaithfulCompanion 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2007

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    I'm Waiting For Him

    I love this guy. I met him two-and-a-half years ago online, when he was 13.5 and I was 18.5. The online forums we met on are dedicated to a book series that is immensely meaningful to both of us, and has changed our lives--so, right there, we already had something in common...
    mmeeshal mmeeshal 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    The Trouble With Love

    Falling in love with a beautiful handsome 25 yr old should be no big deal for a sexy 31 year old woman right? It was a wonderful beginning. I thought he was truely unique and amazing. I thought we would have a worldwind romance that might last forever... So what went wrong...
    BurgundyGirl BurgundyGirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2007

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    I Like My Men to Know What The...

    I like my men to know what they are doing!
    kelkieuk kelkieuk 21-25, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2007

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    Somthing Missing

    A few years back a met a young man who fell madly in love with me.  I could tell by the way he acted around me and the things he said.  He is 19 years younger then me and at first I thought is was weird until I found this site and found out different.  I haven't seen him for a...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 12 Responses Apr 21, 2011

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    In Love ..

    well i'm just turning 19 and he's 16.. we met last year he's my brother's friend, my brother's 20 now.. we became best friends we couldn't spend a day apart and i really miss these days. well after summer was over and after 2 or 3 months he told me he loved me and i told him the...
    confused1916 confused1916 18-21 1 Response Aug 10, 2012

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    Loving A Man Half My Age

    I met a young man half my age and we became friends. I had no idea his age when we met, nor did he know mine. We clicked from the beginning. We do not live in the same state, but I was fine with that, and figured he is only a friend. He eventually asked me to be his girlfriend...
    Rayne2 Rayne2 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    This is the first time I fall in love with younger man. He's 29 and I'm 37 :D
    lilithadam lilithadam 31-35, F Aug 11

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I never knew what love was until I fell in it with him, did I ever really love my husband? I love him now yes but was I ever in love with him? I dont think I was and it couldn't...
    katharine8891 katharine8891 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Alls well that ends $hitty, and sometimes even though you prepare yourself for inevitable heartbreak, pad yourself from the truth, you still crash and burn on impact it seems. You...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 8

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    I am in love with my man who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years, And the first time I laid my eyes in him in gym class I knew he was the one. It was definitely love at first sight...
    kis96 kis96 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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