I Am In Love With An Inmate

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 136 People

    I'm only 18, but I've been waiting

    for my boyfriend for 10 months. 2 months to go and I thought it would get easier but it's only harder. He also lives out of state. I just need someone to talk to who understands and won't judge me. We weren't official when he got locked up, but once he's out and he moves here we...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 9, 2013

    Just Got Off The Phone

    Quickest 15 minutes ever but he is so sweet and amazing. I know he loves me and I love him so much! Puts a huge smile on my face. But also sad I can't have him in my arms. But soon. <3 I love you babe
    skyeinfinity skyeinfinity
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    I worked at a prison

    until yesterday. I had to resign. I was writing and talking to one of the inmates. I have fallen head over heals in love with him. I am so worried about him right now. I am unable to communicate with him. I didn't mean to fall so deeply for him but he is so amazing. I just want...
    speshulk speshulk
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship

    with each other for 9 months now.She is the greatest person to ever come into my life. She is up for parole in April. Hopefully they let her go and we can start our life together.
    jdmiller4020 jdmiller4020
    41-45, M
    Jan 8, 2016

    Today I'm pretty mad I just want him out

    and it's not fair...ughh hate days like these!! I miss him so much 😕
    hisgirlXOXO hisgirlXOXO
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 4, 2014

    Laying in bed thinking how everyone gets to

    spend time with their loved ones on Thanksgiving...cherish those moments! I would give anything to have my baby home with me...instead I'm here and he's there. I was supposed to get a letter from him today but was sad when I checked the mail and nothing which means I won't get...
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2013
    sofinuim sofinuim
    Dec 31, 2013

    I Love Him.

    Its been the toughest year and nine months of my life and more to come. I really do love him, hes put me through alot but I just cant seem to let go. I know Im young and I got my whole life ahead of me, but I just cant imagine my life without him. He is getting sentenced December...
    candesbabyy candesbabyy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2012

    Not Your Average Love Story

    As a person born under the Pisces sign I guess it's fair to say we have a somewhat more advance psychic gift, sense for the unknown, and mystical connections. In all honesty I don't know if that plays a part in our meeting or not but I am a big believer in fate and destiny, omens...
    yourstrulyalexiia yourstrulyalexiia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2012

    How Do You Ladies Put There Deal With The Guy

    You Love Being Locked Up ? He Got Picked Up Today &' Fixing To Do 5-7 Years ;(
    itsyourlove1214 itsyourlove1214
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    I wrote an inmate on a pen pal site

    and I ended up falling so hard for him . His family have reached out to me and sincerely accept me as one their own . I've never felt more comfortable. He has such a beautiful heart and he even tries to provide for me inside of a cell . I am so scared because I don't have anyone...
    Wheremylightis Wheremylightis
    22-25, F
    Jul 25, 2015

    I cant wait till February,

    14 because the love of my life is coming out of prison and i wont stress out any more, i cant wait to hold him and kiss him again and this time i wont let my family control me because its my life but i wish they would just listen to me but that never going to happen but right now...
    marisela3192013 marisela3192013
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    Not Your Typical Love Story.

    I must say, I never knew that I would fall in love with an inmate. I don't even like calling him an inmate, because to me, that is not what he is. How did I stumble upon this bad boy? Who meets their love in prison? That is a good question, I know. It all started when I was...
    Whitters28 Whitters28
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2010

    I have been dating my girlfriend

    for the past 7 months. She has been in prison for the last 18 years. We meet online and started out as just pen-pals. After many letters we both started developing feelings for each other and decided to take it to the next level. She means everything to me and I truly care for...
    jdmiller4020 jdmiller4020
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015

    Missing him and pms ing.

    Eating butter pecan ice cream
    Joeyswiffey4life Joeyswiffey4life
    31-35, F
    May 11, 2015

    My Story.

    I never execpet to fall hard for  an   inmate , who i think is the love of my life.He propsed in a letter and i said yes.he has treated me better than any guy  i have been in a relationship with.I  am  standng by him , we will get married when he gets out.
    tonyswifetobe tonyswifetobe
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2011

    41 days and my man will be free.

    ..I'm counting those days! I can't wait, decided to get myself fit before he comes home and lost 6lb in less than two weeks!
    sofinuim sofinuim
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    I sent an email through JPay last Thursday

    before 7am (so he could get it the same day) to my baby and at the end of the letter I told him to call me b/c I missed hearing his voice...No Call! Sadness kicked in...Saturday still No Call! I became lonely, which turned into concerned. Finally, today my baby called, the unit...
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2013

    My baby sent me a letter this weekend

    that really touched my heart. Poured all his feelings out to me, not that he hasn't before; this time was different! This letter was deep...
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2013

    I have been up for the last few hours thinking

    about the love of my life...two more years and he will be home in my hearts. When I think about him being away from me I just want to cry! I love him so much, it's been 8 years since he's been locked up...
    LonelyHeart817 LonelyHeart817
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2013

    Hi.I met this guy on a dating site 4days ago

    and fell in love immediately. He left me his numbers in my inbox and it took me 2 days to read his message and finally when I did contact him he called immediately and we fell in love.we have been on the phone almost 24hrs since I am a student waiting for my exam results.He is...
    mpekel mpekel
    36-40, F
    Feb 20, 2016

    I Miss My Boyfriend That's In Jail

    Iam so sad I haven't talk to my boyfriend since Friday this is the longest we ever went without talkin i can't help but to think something goin on cuz this not like him I didn't get to see him Saturday so my world is slowly crumblin I just wanna know that he is ok iam goin crazy...
    Mzmodest Mzmodest
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

    No matter what he does

    or how mad I get at him, he's still the one that I can never get over. He's the one I think about before I go to sleep and he's the first thing on my mind when I wake up. I don't know what to do with myself, sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy....my feelings for him are far...
    thatstronggirl thatstronggirl
    22-25, F
    Jul 24, 2014

    ..... But not for long!

    My boyfriend finally gets out April 15th! That's in literally less than 24 hours. Oooooo it's been a long 6 months. This app has helped me out so much. I want to be there for all of you ladies out there . Feel free to write me when ever you are feeling down. Please stay positive...
    london21 london21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    My love is currently being held in remand

    for the last 3 months and we have a 4 month old daughter together which I raise by myself. He is awaiting on pending charges to be held for trial. I miss him so much! It's so hard being without him especially for my child because she's still so tiny and doesn't understand what's...
    jadereign93 jadereign93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    Am sitting here listening to music!

    !! I keep askin myself does it get earlier to deal with him gone? I find myself think of him every min every hour every second!!! I do think like if he here!!! Sometime I have to catch myself to call his name out in the house... I was always calling him or even yelling at him...
    Jenjuice Jenjuice
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2014

    So today I haven't talked to my love!

    ! Yesterday we talked and he was venting cause he havin problems with his cell mate so since he didn't call today I been worried that they got into to it!!! I understand where my love coming from his cell mate shouldn't be touching his personal stuff especially his pictures of me...
    Jenjuice Jenjuice
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2014

    Any one else's loved one dealing with terrible

    officers who mess with the residents just because they can??? They're trying so hard to break my man down...I hate it. I want to go up there and give all of them a piece of my mind! Ha My man is doing so great at staying strong and trying to keep his mouth shut. (Which is epic...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    Jul 17, 2014


    Hello everyone. I came across this group and have read through some really inspiring and emotive stories. It sounds like some of you have been through so much, but the fact that you are still supporting your loved ones and staying so committed is brilliant! I am a feature writer...
    littlestar89 littlestar89
    22-25, F
    Feb 22, 2013

    Im in Love with a guy

    who i have been talking to in prison for two years now. Im so confused because i have best friend who is in Love with me also n wants me give him chance but i cant my heart is stuck on my man in prison. I do feel lonely at times out here but i know at end the road i will be...
    JesseAndLisa JesseAndLisa
    31-35, F
    Jul 11, 2014

    Ugh, how do y'all deal with parents

    that are far less than supportive of your decision to stick by your incarcerated love? And by FAR less, I mean my mother makes it a point every day to let me know she thinks I'm an idiot for standing by him :( I'm super confident in what my boyfriend and I have but hearing...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I met the man of my dreams

    while he's in prision. I didn't intend to fall in love. But I did. Now I'm wondering how do I do this? How do I sit here and wait for 2-4 years knowing when he gets out there's a chance he won't want to be with me anymore. All I think about all day is him! Not just when I wakeup...
    withouthim2026 withouthim2026
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    I would love to start a prison wife /girlfriend

    or family program. Where people experiencing loved ones locked up have somewhere to go or even someone to talk to . People that are in similar situations , just because you have a loved one in jail doesn't mean your any less deserving of someone to talk to and someone that cares...
    skipper596 skipper596
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    My fiancé was arrested a year ago

    for downloading child ****. At first I did what everyone else did and freaked out and never wanted to speak with him. But I realized through digging through his email and just from knowing him and then what he told me that he isn't into kids but addicted to all forms of...
    holdingon4life holdingon4life
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2014
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