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I Am In Love With An Older Man

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    When I say I'm in love with an older man,

    that means I love one man. It doesn't mean that older men can message me on EP thinking I want to talk dirty. Please, just stop lol 😂
    The2ndLaw The2ndLaw 18-21, F Jan 7

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you

    guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in love with my boyfriend who is 32 years old. We met two years ago when i was only 16 and he was my English teacher. After 2 weeks of meeting...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    We finally got to see each other yesterday,

    it was such a great day, we spent the whole day just cuddling, watching movies, and being intimate. He's so affectionate with me I love every second being with him. I know with his sister being sick our time is now limited I stopped being selfish and I cherish our time...
    crystal1830 crystal1830 18-21, F May 14

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    Okay guys. As you know,

    I'm 15. I had always flirted/been flirted with by this guy that I came to find out was 29. Please keep in mind that I'm not here to find judgment. Recently, I had sex with him for the first time and it was what I would consider "making love" because it wasn't being turned on in...
    Patdluva72299 Patdluva72299 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F Jan 21

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    This Monday he came to see me again,

    oh how I love spending every minuet with him. This time he came over to my place since everyone was gone, it was so fun and wild since he's not allowed at my house and knowing we could of got caught, but we didn't. After some time at my place we headed back to his place, we make...
    crystal1830 crystal1830 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    My Old Man

    Well what can I say?...I've been with him for over 2 years now. He is of course much older than I am, 31 years older than me to be exact. I didn't try looking for someone that much older to date, it just sorta happened. I didn't actually start having a serious relationship with...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    I first met him in the local downtown in a

    section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend Chanel(Not her actual name, just keeping all identities anonymous) and I as we walked by them. We decided to stop to talk to him and his best...
    killyourhero killyourhero 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    Yea I really am and I want to hear peoples

    opinions on the matter. Also this isn't some stupid fantasy sex story that ends up with me bedding him in some 50 shades way (not that I've read the book) so just thought I'd point that out. Anyways back to the point... I'm 16 and I love my Neighbour who is 24. I've known him...
    JustAnotherDay04 JustAnotherDay04 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sandy11cc sandy11cc 26-30, F Mar 9

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    I'm 44 and he is 70 but he is experienced

    and successful and we share the same interests but I'm afraid of what other people will think especially the future he is older but he is so handsome and sexy he isn't your average 70 year old can this work he is sensitive and compassionate
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I am 22 he is 23 so he is only 2 years

    and 9 months older then me
    Cowgirl1992 Cowgirl1992 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    It Works For Us...

    I'm 23, he's 52. Automatic response something along the lines of "oh my god", "gross", "how can it possbily work"? Yea, we get that a lot, and have gotten used to it over the past couple of years we've been together. We met by chance through his work. He knew a lot about a...
    dscm dscm 22-25 8 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    Alright. I know I might be judged severely.

    But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a teenager and not a grown woman). I met J (that's what we'll call him) this summer and I've never felt this way about anyone before. I feel like i...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I just like them more.

    The experience the understanding the compassion and passion. Older men are sexy. And they have awesome skills. And I love the way they dress and smell!
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2014

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    I am young and you are not.

    To many that means little but it defines us. I may be mature beyond these 22 years in ways but there are parts which are trapped in the past. These aspects of me these ailments which seem endearing from afar are nothing but ugly flaws. Selfishness and naivety two things which...
    amillionpeople amillionpeople 22-25 Jan 14

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    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to

    three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me in his warm loving embrace. I know I am home in his arms. This is where I belong. Where I am safe from the cruel unloving world. The only moment I...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 18-21, F Nov 30, 2014

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    I am deeply in love with a man 27 years my

    senior (I'm 18). He loves me and we've been together for almost a year now. My family doesn't know about him. I am about to graduate from high school soon and we plan on getting a place together. I'm not sure how I am going to introduce him to my family. He was my former manager...
    shades4myfuture shades4myfuture 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    My boyfriend is a brilliant,

    handsome, kind gentleman who is 40 years older than me. I feel like I can't talk to my friends about him or our relationship. I'm so madly in love and just want to talk about it.
    kaym89 kaym89 22-25, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    I'm 15 and I fall in love with older guys

    because their attractive. they know how to treat a girl. I prefer my men in their 20s. well when boys start acting right I'll change my mind but that's never gonna happen.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    Title speaks for itself.

    It has me so confused and it is always so confusing.
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Janetccaa Janetccaa 26-30, F May 18

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    Im 17 years old dating 40 year old.

    No he is not a ********* and no he is not rich.he is not very attractive looking and he has 3 kids. He has the custody of only one. He has had very bad luck with women , in my opinion is because he is to nice. We have been dating for a year, im completely crazy in love with him...
    spicy7 spicy7 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    I created a post about wanting to get pregnant

    with my older fiance.Many of the responses I got were absolutely rude. I wish people would learn how to shut their mouths once in a while. I was looking for advice on how to deal... with how to get pregnant... and many people made it out to be a complete joke. I came here for...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Being ignored by you hurts me

    so emotionally, but what hurts more is that I'm stupid crazy in love with you and you don't even care I know your busy with your family and trying to find work but nobody is busy 24/7, you found ways to always contact me before, no matter if it was a text or a 3minuet call, you...
    crystal1830 crystal1830 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2

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    I really think I'm getting feelings

    for this boy, matter of fact he isn't a boy. He's a grown man. He's in his 20's and I'm 16 years old :( I don't know what wrong with me but my whole life I always liked older men. But this time I really do care for this guy like I wanna be with him but me and him both know that...
    kimcabreraa7 kimcabreraa7 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    31 Years Difference.

    I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years now. We have a beautiful 4 month old daughter, & they mean the world to me. He's 31 years older than I am, but that doesn't matter to me. Age is only a number. It frustrates me when people say there can't be any real love or...
    Choirwife Choirwife 22-25 4 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I meet this guy August and we had sex 3 times and we also has sex this afternoon so that makes it the forth time. I am 26 years old and he is 45. I enjoy having sex with him but I don't know if he likes me. I know I will get hurt because I always get hurt but I am use to it so if...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2012

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    there's a guy on EP that I totally adore

    and I believe in love with. He's a lot older but I find him so desirable. I have never been with anyone older or made love to. My husband is my age and he seems to have lost his sexual desires with me and it makes me feel so ugly and undesirable. This guy on EP makes me feel...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    To begin with, I wouldn't say love,

    exactly. I just care for him a lot. I haven't been able to sleep and all I have really done the past two hours is lay here and think to myself. How I feel towards him as crossed my mind a few times lately and I just thought about what it would be like to completely lose contact...
    Raneth Raneth 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 21

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    I'm just gonna type something out

    that has been bothering me. I told one of my friends that I like this guy. I'm 17 and the guy is 33. He responded quickly with "be careful. He might be using you" I was confused. Just because he's older than me means he's more likely to use me? There are all kinds of...
    needtotellnow needtotellnow 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Everyone judges, because he's lived longer?

    That's a terrible reason if you ask me. And it's not like he has money, so it's not for that reason, he's what I want, so why do people have to ***** about it?
    Danchou Danchou 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    I'm falling so deep, just deeper

    and deeper in love, somebody stop me! If only every circumstance were different then we could be together, I picture it and I dream about it but that is all I have mental images and dreams as we will never be. I'm asking myself right now how I can ever get over that, this is a...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    I'm Falling For This Older Guy!!

    So im 17 and im inlove with a 37 yr old man. We met when i was 15. i really really love him and he loves me too.he is divorced. He has two sons one is 12 and one is 18..he wants me to live with him..i really want to. He wants to marry me. I do to. Hez so amazing!!! I love him...
    babydoll262 babydoll262 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    As long as I remember I have always been

    attracted to men who are older. I'm attracted to their experience and the way they treat me. They make me feel like something special and I have no clue why it needs to be this way. I am almost 20 and the men I am likely to be attracted to are in the 40s. I do not fall for...
    musling musling 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    been dating an amazing guy!

    (: he just happens to be 29 while I'll be 20 in 4 months! I love living with him! the night cuddles, the pulling all nighters playing video games, the jamming out to slipknot in the car, and our love for reptiles! he truly makes me feel loved and wanted! (:
    HelloKittyEatzSoulz HelloKittyEatzSoulz 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Its funny how you can swear

    that you love a guy for three years and then another comes into your life and makes you love him. No words nothing but him just standing next to you looking at you, smiling at you is all you really need in life. That's how I feel right about now ?
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7 16-17, F Mar 12

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    I am 20 he is 53, I am dating someone

    but this guy has something I feel so attracted to, I can't help it, he's not good looking yet I find him attractive. help!
    LucianaSalazar LucianaSalazar 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Last night was the night of snowfest

    and there was a basketball game that i went too. Both of them, they were both working consessions how is that my two favorite men in the same room. I was wearing a short sparkley blue dress and had my hair curled. When B saw me he smiled and said wow you look great, and looked...
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    i think loving a man

    who is older than your age can give you a better view of life. It's not because they have more than experienced than yours but because they had already learned so many things than yours.
    PamBianca21 PamBianca21 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    They May Be Older But Not Dead

    I'm 35 he's 59, we met when I was 22 and he was 46, I do care for him, and I know he loves me, he knows how to make love to my mind and body, he cooks for me, and spoils me to death and gives me everything I want and need,What I like about him is, He is secure, and stable, and...
    MztooCute4U MztooCute4U 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Im 16 and love showing off my body ,

    i have what your looking for just message me and see . Im a gay teen !
    prettyboii66 prettyboii66 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    My Emotions Won't Give Up On Him

    I am 15. I have had a crush on my biology teacher and track coach for 2 years now. He is 50. Theres definitely an age difference. When i ********** i think of him. I know we will never be together because he is my teacher, and his children are older than me... But still, he is...
    wma21 wma21 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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