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I Am In Love With An Older Man

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    My Old Man

    Well what can I say?...I've been with him for over 2 years now. He is of course much older than I am, 31 years older than me to be exact. I didn't try looking for someone that much older to date, it just sorta happened. I didn't actually start having a serious relationship with...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    Lost, Broken, and Confused

    So it all started when I was in high school. He was a good-looking teacher, and I was a good-looking girl. I think he knew that I had a crush on him (and I did at the time) and so he flattered himself by flirting with me. Nothing ever happened beyond the occassional glances and...
    gilgamesh18 gilgamesh18 19-21 7 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I found a man But he is much older

    than I am We have a 16 year age gap 20 and 36 But it doesn’t matter What I care about is I think he can’t move on from his past love of 8 years To whom he was going to marry in November 2010 But in March 2010 An unfortunate even happened A drunk driver killed her How...
    IShallGoMad IShallGoMad 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to

    three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me in his warm loving embrace. I know I am home in his arms. This is where I belong. Where I am safe from the cruel unloving world. The only moment I...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F Nov 30

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    I created a post about wanting to get pregnant

    with my older fiance.Many of the responses I got were absolutely rude. I wish people would learn how to shut their mouths once in a while. I was looking for advice on how to deal... with how to get pregnant... and many people made it out to be a complete joke. I came here for...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 29 Responses Nov 22

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    Expanding Heart

    One Saturday, late afternoon. I was there seated next to him behind his desk as he explained in great detail what needs to be done. He was actually drafting the form himself. It wasn't that complicated, and once I understood what he wanted, I inconspicuously watched him while he...
    lonelygarland lonelygarland 21-25, F 5 Responses May 1, 2007

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    In Love With An Older Guy and Proberly Always Will Be

    i am in love with an older man. its not just a childish crush, or some one i thik is cute, and to be honest he iant what i would usually call good looking, but to me he is perfect. im 14 and hes 27. i met him when i had to take  chatacism course for my conformation ( im a...
    phunkie phunkie 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    i think loving a man

    who is older than your age can give you a better view of life. It's not because they have more than experienced than yours but because they had already learned so many things than yours.
    PamBianca21 PamBianca21 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    He gives me everything I ever wanted.

    But he's married. I know he loves me tho. I know! Damnit I need him. How can he resist me?!
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 25

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    He loves his wife. He's devoted to her.

    he knows I love him. He is so special to me. He resists me at every turn. He needs me tho! he needs to to complete his vision, and I'm the only one that can take it on and implement it the way he wants. I don't care if he never kisses me, I love this man until the day I...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 13

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    I am hungry and in hopeless love with someone I

    can't have. I'm losing weight so he will like me more. I am sick of being fat. My art suffers when I'm fat. I stuff feelings down with food, but when I'm hungry and starving its much better. That's the way it is! People like my art more when I am attractive. I'm not...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 11

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    I just like them more.

    The experience the understanding the compassion and passion. Older men are sexy. And they have awesome skills. And I love the way they dress and smell!
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    9 years apart, but he's

    so sexy and we have much fun.
    Emmy182 Emmy182 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    That amazing moment when you're out of town

    for the weekend and you get back home and your parents reference to him as your "future husband". 😍 so glad they accepted our relationship.
    avf24 avf24 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    I am 20 he is 53, I am dating someone

    but this guy has something I feel so attracted to, I can't help it, he's not good looking yet I find him attractive. help!
    LucianaSalazar LucianaSalazar 18-21, F 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Hes around like 3 years older

    and im ******* obsessed lol hes so nice to me and hes really been showing he cares for me.. Maybe he will be the one i loose. My v card to haha cuz i totally wouldnt mind it
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I'm so fascinated with older man.

    Especially if they try to pick up younger females. I am not in love with an older male, as I said I'm just fascinated with how they act.
    Meyrinfields Meyrinfields 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Love Him Like A Fat Kid Loves Cake!

    Yes....Indeed it is true.... When I was 19 ( now 23 ) I met a guy online and we just clicked. I could talk to him for hours about nothing, laughing and just be myself around him. Anything I wanted to talk about , he was there for. I thought at the time , I had a great...
    Natasha1234 Natasha1234 22-25, F 12 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I've always had a strong desire to be naughty

    and was addicted to the excitement that came with the idea of getting caught. When I was in high school, I would have fantasies about how exciting it would be to sleep with my teachers. My friends and I would skip class and drive around with smoke and our favorite music...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    I am trying to stay away

    but he doesn't like it when I get near him. He's either afraid of me and doesn't like me or likes me but doesn't want anyone to know. I WANT HIM
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 11

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    It Works For Us...

    I'm 23, he's 52. Automatic response something along the lines of "oh my god", "gross", "how can it possbily work"? Yea, we get that a lot, and have gotten used to it over the past couple of years we've been together. We met by chance through his work. He knew a lot about a...
    dscm dscm 22-25 8 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    Saw him today. He talked to me more .

    I look at him and don't see an old man at all. I see someone who needs affection and love.
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    I'm 29, He's 62

    I first met him when I was hired at the same place my mother worked. In fact, he was my boss, as well as my mother's. I was 23 at the time, about to turn 24 and dating someone else. He was married. A few months later after I lost a pregnancy and broke up with my boyfriend...
    harleycooper harleycooper 26-30 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    there's a guy on EP that I totally adore

    and I believe in love with. He's a lot older but I find him so desirable. I have never been with anyone older or made love to. My husband is my age and he seems to have lost his sexual desires with me and it makes me feel so ugly and undesirable. This guy on EP makes me feel...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    He's about 22 years older

    than me. Both of us are taken at the moment. But I've loved him for so long and am trying to seduce him. He's already seduced me! I'm caught, trapped in this unrequited love! I must pull away because I'm getting overly aggressive and that's not attractive. I'm not going to...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 10

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    Alright. I know I might be judged severely.

    But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a teenager and not a grown woman). I met J (that's what we'll call him) this summer and I've never felt this way about anyone before. I feel like i...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 21

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    we are both artists and very good at what we do,

    with similar styles. we grow closer every day, he knows I'm in love with him. He has to know. We belong together. We are soulmates. the other people around us could never know what it's like to be us. We share this bond of brilliance and talent. I'm positive one day books...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 23

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    It's not fair. I miss him

    and want him. I want to be able to reach over at night and touch him. Kiss him whenever I want. I love him.
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 26

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    31 Years Difference.

    I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years now. We have a beautiful 4 month old daughter, & they mean the world to me. He's 31 years older than I am, but that doesn't matter to me. Age is only a number. It frustrates me when people say there can't be any real love or...
    Choirwife Choirwife 22-25 4 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    He is the most kind generous smart talented man

    I ever met! Besides his ever aging father. I looked into his eyes today and had an unbearable urge to kiss him. But my fiancé was there.
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F Oct 15

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    asked him what his fav dessert is.

    He listed off like 20 things! He really likes dessert. I don't think his wife cooks these favorite foods for him so I am going to surprise him with cookies n pies n cakes . He gave me advice also on pleasing a man : food, touch, and sweetness. Thanks ! I now know what he's...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I am in love with my man

    who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 18

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    They May Be Older But Not Dead

    I'm 35 he's 59, we met when I was 22 and he was 46, I do care for him, and I know he loves me, he knows how to make love to my mind and body, he cooks for me, and spoils me to death and gives me everything I want and need,What I like about him is, He is secure, and stable, and...
    MztooCute4U MztooCute4U 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    I'm Falling For This Older Guy!!

    So im 17 and im inlove with a 37 yr old man. We met when i was 15. i really really love him and he loves me too.he is divorced. He has two sons one is 12 and one is 18..he wants me to live with him..i really want to. He wants to marry me. I do to. Hez so amazing!!! I love him...
    babydoll262 babydoll262 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    I told him how I felt.

    He didn't turn me down, and he said he always liked me. But he kept saying how he is old, fat, and ugly. He's not! He's not. I love him so much!! I want his arms around me. It's so much more than sex. I want passionate kisses. I want adoration. I want him to love me...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    As long as I remember I have always been

    attracted to men who are older. I'm attracted to their experience and the way they treat me. They make me feel like something special and I have no clue why it needs to be this way. I am almost 20 and the men I am likely to be attracted to are in the 40s. I do not fall for...
    musling musling 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Okay so I kind of like my personal trainer.

    ..he is 7 and a half years older than me and i would really like some advice!! I'm 16 and he has a girlfriend (who he doesn't seem to be very serious about...). We get on amazingly and he's adorable and fun - he teases me and we have lots of laughs, he basically brightens up my...
    glassisfull glassisfull 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    To begin with, I wouldn't say love,

    exactly. I just care for him a lot. I haven't been able to sleep and all I have really done the past two hours is lay here and think to myself. How I feel towards him as crossed my mind a few times lately and I just thought about what it would be like to completely lose contact...
    Raneth Raneth 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    There's a rumor that he's had a girlfriend on

    the side for a long time. But not sure if its true. But if it is true, good! Then he's not unbreakable. he's just a good victim of seduction resisting me.
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 13

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    I'm falling so deep, just deeper

    and deeper in love, somebody stop me! If only every circumstance were different then we could be together, I picture it and I dream about it but that is all I have mental images and dreams as we will never be. I'm asking myself right now how I can ever get over that, this is a...
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My Emotions Won't Give Up On Him

    I am 15. I have had a crush on my biology teacher and track coach for 2 years now. He is 50. Theres definitely an age difference. When i ********** i think of him. I know we will never be together because he is my teacher, and his children are older than me... But still, he is...
    wma21 wma21 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    I Did It (and I'm So Proud of Myself)

    If you've read any of my previous stories in this group, you'll know that I've been kind of "chained" to feeling for this man (who is twenty years my senior) for years. Well, I finally decided to be proactive about it--in the most noble sense of the word, of course. He...
    gilgamesh18 gilgamesh18 19-21 5 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    I first met him in the local downtown in a

    section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend Chanel(Not her actual name, just keeping all identities anonymous) and I as we walked by them. We decided to stop to talk to him and his best...
    killyourhero killyourhero 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    At lunch today with my daughter,

    my older man crush suddenly walked through the door! I was so surprised. Totally random because I never eat there. We said hi but he was with clients, so I didn't bother. He spent a lot of time talking about my art and showing them pictures of my art. I went to pay and the...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F Oct 15

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    He asked me to go to an event with him.

    .. Hope he doesn't bring his wife!
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 17

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    Title speaks for itself.

    It has me so confused and it is always so confusing.
    avey10 avey10 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    Well...I'm love with him

    since the first time I saw him. I'm not gonna lie. I might be in for some trouble. He's my teacher, we have an insane age difference. I'm 25, he's 54. He doesn't have a wedding ring. I think he's divorced, but I might be wrong...I'm not naive or stupid. Although that's the way...
    Sybilla89 Sybilla89 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 14

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    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I meet this guy August and we had sex 3 times and we also has sex this afternoon so that makes it the forth time. I am 26 years old and he is 45. I enjoy having sex with him but I don't know if he likes me. I know I will get hurt because I always get hurt but I am use to it so if...
    WandaBread WandaBread 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Everyone judges, because he's lived longer?

    That's a terrible reason if you ask me. And it's not like he has money, so it's not for that reason, he's what I want, so why do people have to ***** about it?
    Danchou Danchou 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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