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I Am In Love With An Older Man

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    Im 14 and I admit that I fall

    for older guys. Mostly guys in their early to late 20's sometimes I will like a 30 year old. The guys I have fell for are multiple teachers. First it started with my science teacher seventh grade, which I still love him. About a year past and I have gotten a habit of liking guys...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I Love Older Men....duh

    I'm 17 and have a liking, no a love for older men! their more mature, sweet, and better than any young guyI don't even bother with young guys cause they don't really spark my attention, I do have a older man as my boyfriendwho I've been with for 4 months now, he always tells me...
    KreamyKookie KreamyKookie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Figuring Things Out

    I've never understood why I wasn't attracted to people my age. I'm 15. I never tried to understand, though. Its not like it was something big to deal with. I almost enjoyed being alone as opposed to being with my peers. I'm not trying to sound snobby, but I just got bored...
    Hrmg Hrmg 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

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    I'm in love with a handsome man about five

    years older then me. He is vary nice and honest he's not like the guys my age he's mature. I love him so much but I don't know if he loves me the way I love him. Sometimes he shows interest in me but other times he doesn't. I hope he dose but I am to afraid to ask him if he...
    Vitam Vitam 22-25, F Dec 26, 2013

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    for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those people who would like to meet someone who is significantly older or...
    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    They May Be Older But Not Dead

    I'm 35 he's 59, we met when I was 22 and he was 46, I do care for him, and I know he loves me, he knows how to make love to my mind and body, he cooks for me, and spoils me to death and gives me everything I want and need,What I like about him is, He is secure, and stable, and...
    MztooCute4U MztooCute4U 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    CajunAngel CajunAngel 41-45, F Feb 21

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    I'm falling so deep, just deeper

    and deeper in love, somebody stop me! If only every circumstance were different then we could be together, I picture it and I dream about it but that is all I have mental images and dreams as we will never be. I'm asking myself right now how I can ever get over that, this is a...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    31 Years Difference.

    I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years now. We have a beautiful 4 month old daughter, & they mean the world to me. He's 31 years older than I am, but that doesn't matter to me. Age is only a number. It frustrates me when people say there can't be any real love or...
    Choirwife Choirwife 22-25 4 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    I met a man when I least expected it.

    It was just a last minute work trip. The hotel was nothing fancy, just your normal kind of place. But he was there and I was there for a week to work. We were up every single night speaking to one another until the early hours in the morning and by the second day I knew I was in...
    slideways slideways 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Older Men Like Younger Women

    as they are more vibrant, spontaneous and full of life. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a younger men. In fact a whopping forty percent of respondents said they would be comfortable dating men three to four years...
    likeyoungerwomen likeyoungerwomen 31-35, F Mar 31

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    In Love With An Older Guy and Proberly Always Will Be

    i am in love with an older man. its not just a childish crush, or some one i thik is cute, and to be honest he iant what i would usually call good looking, but to me he is perfect. im 14 and hes 27. i met him when i had to take  chatacism course for my conformation ( im a...
    phunkie phunkie 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 22-25, F Mar 20

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    I am 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 30.

    We have what could be considered an open relationship. My parents have met him twice and really like him, but they don't know we're dating. When I graduate college in May, I'm planning on moving to another state. He is more than willing to come with me and I think that would be...
    darklightfighter darklightfighter 18-21, F Jan 10

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    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Don't know what to do

    Hi   I can't believe I'm doing this but I don't know where to find comfort.   Because of fear of my identity being known by people involved I do not want to give any details on how we met, I hope you can bear with me despite my secrecy. I met Him this...
    Sharlii Sharlii 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 29, 2010

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    fionacc12 fionacc12 26-30, F Mar 26

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    My man is fourteen years older

    than me, not that you'd think it if you met us. In a lot of ways we're the same, but in others, not so much. I prefer to stay home at night with a blanket, a bottle of wine and a movie while he prefers to go out and dance, and talk to people. Since I met him, he's convinced me...
    colourmegeek colourmegeek 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Who Knew

    Rugged.  Crystal blues eyes that see right into the soul of me. He's a naturalist.  He is one with Nature and everything in it.  That could be one of the sexiest things about him. Long wild hair.  He too is Indian.  That is how we connected to begin...
    juswanablvd juswanablvd 26-30, F 3 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Most of the Time I See Only Advantages

    In my opinion it's better. You know...in my case I like to be in love with older man. It's like to have a boyfriend, your lover, best friend, teacher and mentor in one. It's advantage. You ask a question... he knows the answer, because he is always foreward. It means I dont...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I am madly in love with my boyfriend Aaron.

    He is 17 years older then me and though we have our generation gap differences, we are crazy about one another. I have never met another soul like him. He is outgoing and wild just like me and I wouldn't want it any other way. The second I met him I had dejavu and he is the...
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Hes around like 3 years older

    and im ******* obsessed lol hes so nice to me and hes really been showing he cares for me.. Maybe he will be the one i loose. My v card to haha cuz i totally wouldnt mind it
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    cindycc14 cindycc14 26-30, F Mar 14

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    I found a man But he is much older

    than I am We have a 16 year age gap 20 and 36 But it doesn’t matter What I care about is I think he can’t move on from his past love of 8 years To who he was going to marry in November 2010 But in March 2010 An unfortunate even happened A drunk driver killed her How broken...
    IShallGoMad IShallGoMad 18-21, F Apr 4

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    To begin with, I wouldn't say love,

    exactly. I just care for him a lot. I haven't been able to sleep and all I have really done the past two hours is lay here and think to myself. How I feel towards him as crossed my mind a few times lately and I just thought about what it would be like to completely lose contact...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 12

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    As long as I remember I have always been

    attracted to men who are older. I'm attracted to their experience and the way they treat me. They make me feel like something special and I have no clue why it needs to be this way. I am almost 20 and the men I am likely to be attracted to are in the 40s. I do not fall for...
    musling musling 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Title speaks for itself.

    It has me so confused and it is always so confusing.
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 9

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    I'm 29, He's 62

    I first met him when I was hired at the same place my mother worked. In fact, he was my boss, as well as my mother's. I was 23 at the time, about to turn 24 and dating someone else. He was married. A few months later after I lost a pregnancy and broke up with my boyfriend...
    harleycooper harleycooper 26-30 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    My Old Man

    Well what can I say?...I've been with him for over 2 years now. He is of course much older than I am, 31 years older than me to be exact. I didn't try looking for someone that much older to date, it just sorta happened. I didn't actually start having a serious relationship with...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    I Did It (and I'm So Proud of Myself)

    If you've read any of my previous stories in this group, you'll know that I've been kind of "chained" to feeling for this man (who is twenty years my senior) for years. Well, I finally decided to be proactive about it--in the most noble sense of the word, of course. He...
    gilgamesh18 gilgamesh18 19-21 6 Responses Sep 28, 2008

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    So today I get to go over to his house to look

    at pigs for county fair :) He's been talking to me all day telling me how excited he is that I'm coming over to his house. It's always so fun to hang out with him :)
    liv99 liv99 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    My Emotions Won't Give Up On Him

    I am 15. I have had a crush on my biology teacher and track coach for 2 years now. He is 50. Theres definitely an age difference. When i ********** i think of him. I know we will never be together because he is my teacher, and his children are older than me... But still, he is...
    wma21 wma21 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Love Him Like A Fat Kid Loves Cake!

    Yes....Indeed it is true.... When I was 19 ( now 23 ) I met a guy online and we just clicked. I could talk to him for hours about nothing, laughing and just be myself around him. Anything I wanted to talk about , he was there for. I thought at the time , I had a great...
    Natasha1234 Natasha1234 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Lost, Broken, and Confused

    So it all started when I was in high school. He was a good-looking teacher, and I was a good-looking girl. I think he knew that I had a crush on him (and I did at the time) and so he flattered himself by flirting with me. Nothing ever happened beyond the occassional glances and...
    gilgamesh18 gilgamesh18 19-21 7 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    So I currently have a mentor/professor

    who is 67 and I am only 20. I have been thinking that lately I do feel an attraction to him. It is there and I can feel it. We went camping two weeks ago and during the trip he would approach me a lot and talk to me of my work and how much he admired my work and gave me advice...
    sademunch sademunch 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I first met him in the local downtown in a

    section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend Chanel(Not her actual name, just keeping all identities anonymous) and I as we walked by them. We decided to stop to talk to him and his best...
    killyourhero killyourhero 16-17, F Apr 3

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    I'm 14 (almost 15) and I'm in love with a 24

    year old. He's my neighbor and we've known each other for years. We flirt all the time. I couldn't imagine life without him.
    liv99 liv99 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Expanding Heart

    One Saturday, late afternoon. I was there seated next to him behind his desk as he explained in great detail what needs to be done. He was actually drafting the form himself. It wasn't that complicated, and once I understood what he wanted, I inconspicuously watched him while he...
    lonelygarland lonelygarland 21-25, F 5 Responses May 1, 2007

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    chriscc19 chriscc19 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    He's Beautiful.

    Talented, amazing, caring, gentle, my "older man" is amazing. Most of the time, he doesn't feel older. It's only when certain things like "hey, remember when happened in " does it get funny. It's not even awkward though. We laugh sometimes about it though. I really enjoy...
    c3r4ph3 c3r4ph3 26-30 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    It Works For Us...

    I'm 23, he's 52. Automatic response something along the lines of "oh my god", "gross", "how can it possbily work"? Yea, we get that a lot, and have gotten used to it over the past couple of years we've been together. We met by chance through his work. He knew a lot about a...
    dscm dscm 22-25 8 Responses Nov 3, 2010

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    My Story

    Hi everyone, I must admit I am nervous about writing this. I'm not really sure why, except that I kind of want this to be a secret (as you can see by my s/n). I can't really pinpoint why I want it to be a secret, mostly because I am a secretive person and I don't really want my...
    MySeecret MySeecret 18-21 2 Responses Jul 21, 2009

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    I'm Falling For This Older Guy!!

    So im 17 and im inlove with a 37 yr old man. We met when i was 15. i really really love him and he loves me too.he is divorced. He has two sons one is 12 and one is 18..he wants me to live with him..i really want to. He wants to marry me. I do to. Hez so amazing!!! I love him...
    babydoll262 babydoll262 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    I'm Inspired...

      hello.. i'm a new member, i'm only 25 years old but i was surprised to myself by being in love with an older man, he's 30 years older than me. he's married and i'm single. honestly, it's just a secret between us and his close friends. but me??? i can't even tell it to my...
    sexydrew sexydrew 22-25 8 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Everyone judges, because he's lived longer?

    That's a terrible reason if you ask me. And it's not like he has money, so it's not for that reason, he's what I want, so why do people have to ***** about it?
    Danchou Danchou 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    But, I Am An 'Older' Woman :)

    I'm 42. He's in his 50s. So, there is really no big taboo. He looks 45 anyway, so no heads even turn our way. I have been in three relationships with men, at least, ten years older then me. And, I have been in a long term relationship with a guy my own age. I wasn't...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I'm 15 and I fall in love with older guys

    because their attractive. they know how to treat a girl. I prefer my men in their 20s. well when boys start acting right I'll change my mind but that's never gonna happen.
    VictoriaHall VictoriaHall 13-15, F Feb 25

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    there's a guy on EP that I totally adore

    and I believe in love with. He's a lot older but I find him so desirable. I have never been with anyone older or made love to. My husband is my age and he seems to have lost his sexual desires with me and it makes me feel so ugly and undesirable. This guy on EP makes me feel...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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