I Am In Love With An Older Man

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    Well...I'm love with him

    since the first time I saw him. I'm not gonna lie. I might be in for some trouble. He's my teacher, we have an insane age difference. I'm 25, he's 54. He doesn't have a wedding ring. I think he's divorced, but I might be wrong...I'm not naive or stupid. Although that's the way...
    Sybilla89 Sybilla89
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    Everyone judges, because he's lived longer?

    That's a terrible reason if you ask me. And it's not like he has money, so it's not for that reason, he's what I want, so why do people have to ***** about it?
    Danchou Danchou
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2014

    So, in the club I'm in there's a mentor.

    He's older then me although still relatively young (early to late twenties). I'm at the age of consent in my state and he gets really close to me sometimes. I've observed his behavior towards others and he doesn't get as close to them as he does with me. I heard him mention that...
    SStencil SStencil
    22-25, F
    Jan 22, 2016

    Yea I really am and I want to hear peoples

    opinions on the matter. Also this isn't some stupid fantasy sex story that ends up with me bedding him in some 50 shades way (not that I've read the book) so just thought I'd point that out. Anyways back to the point... I'm 16 and I love my Neighbour who is 24. I've known him...
    JustAnotherDay04 JustAnotherDay04
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    As long as I remember I have always been

    attracted to men who are older. I'm attracted to their experience and the way they treat me. They make me feel like something special and I have no clue why it needs to be this way. I am almost 20 and the men I am likely to be attracted to are in the 40s. I do not fall for...
    musling musling
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    I'm 15 and I fall in love with older guys

    because their attractive. they know how to treat a girl. I prefer my men in their 20s. well when boys start acting right I'll change my mind but that's never gonna happen.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 25, 2014

    Im 16 and love showing off my body ,

    i have what your looking for just message me and see . Im a gay teen !
    prettyboii66 prettyboii66
    18-21, M
    Jun 29, 2015

    I am 20 he is 53, I am dating someone

    but this guy has something I feel so attracted to, I can't help it, he's not good looking yet I find him attractive. help!
    LucianaSalazar LucianaSalazar
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    I am completely, maddeningly in love with my

    boyfriend. He's 23 years older than me, although a lot of the time we forget that. Sometimes we're both 7, giggling and playing video games and crying at anime. Sometimes we're both 40, philosophizing about this world and the next. But the whole time we are just us. We love...
    EvilLittleWolf EvilLittleWolf
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2015

    I have fallen in love with a man 23 years my

    senior. We have never been happier. We met at work and created a very close friendship, it wasn't until a little into my summer going into college that he and I decided to become involved romantically. I love him so much and feel as if he is my soulmate. However, I am one of...
    GL33 GL33
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    My Emotions Won't Give Up On Him

    I am 15. I have had a crush on my biology teacher and track coach for 2 years now. He is 50. Theres definitely an age difference. When i ********** i think of him. I know we will never be together because he is my teacher, and his children are older than me... But still, he is...
    wma21 wma21
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

    I created a post about wanting to get pregnant

    with my older fiance.Many of the responses I got were absolutely rude. I wish people would learn how to shut their mouths once in a while. I was looking for advice on how to deal... with how to get pregnant... and many people made it out to be a complete joke. I came here for...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    It Works For Us...

    I'm 23, he's 52. Automatic response something along the lines of "oh my god", "gross", "how can it possbily work"? Yea, we get that a lot, and have gotten used to it over the past couple of years we've been together. We met by chance through his work. He knew a lot about a...
    dscm dscm
    5 Responses Nov 3, 2010

    They May Be Older But Not Dead

    I'm 35 he's 59, we met when I was 22 and he was 46, I do care for him, and I know he loves me, he knows how to make love to my mind and body, he cooks for me, and spoils me to death and gives me everything I want and need,What I like about him is, He is secure, and stable, and...
    MztooCute4U MztooCute4U
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 7, 2013

    My Old Man

    Well what can I say?...I've been with him for over 2 years now. He is of course much older than I am, 31 years older than me to be exact. I didn't try looking for someone that much older to date, it just sorta happened. I didn't actually start having a serious relationship with...
    Rougejigga Rougejigga
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 13, 2010

    I'm 44 and he is 70 but he is experienced

    and successful and we share the same interests but I'm afraid of what other people will think especially the future he is older but he is so handsome and sexy he isn't your average 70 year old can this work he is sensitive and compassionate
    Bella70 Bella70
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    I fell in love with my manager at work,

    who's 25. I'm only 16, but age doesn't matter too much to me. The real problem is the fact that he's married, & he has a kid.. another issue is the fact that he moved to a different location in the chain.. I miss him so much. He always flirted with me, & he's openly talked about...
    mikarose mikarose
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    Im 17 years old dating 40 year old.

    No he is not a ********* and no he is not rich.he is not very attractive looking and he has 3 kids. He has the custody of only one. He has had very bad luck with women , in my opinion is because he is to nice. We have been dating for a year, im completely crazy in love with him...
    spicy7 spicy7
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 18, 2015

    Alright. I know I might be judged severely.

    But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a teenager and not a grown woman). I met J (that's what we'll call him) this summer and I've never felt this way about anyone before. I feel like i...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

    Last night was the night of snowfest

    and there was a basketball game that i went too. Both of them, they were both working consessions how is that my two favorite men in the same room. I was wearing a short sparkley blue dress and had my hair curled. When B saw me he smiled and said wow you look great, and looked...
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015

    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    i am in love with a guy

    who is 28 but im only 17
    cutter17 cutter17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I'm not in love with an older man,

    I am the older man. I had a girl much younger than me who loved me. Was sort of nice but difficult though I do miss the affection. I'm always up for being friends with young ladies and seeing where it goes.
    mrtexasguy mrtexasguy
    46-50, M
    Apr 15, 2016

    Its funny how you can swear

    that you love a guy for three years and then another comes into your life and makes you love him. No words nothing but him just standing next to you looking at you, smiling at you is all you really need in life. That's how I feel right about now ?
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7
    18-21, F
    Mar 12, 2015

    So i wanted to share my experience with you

    guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in love with my boyfriend who is 32 years old. We met two years ago when i was only 16 and he was my English teacher. After 2 weeks of meeting...
    AlexaER AlexaER
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2015

    Being ignored by you hurts me

    so emotionally, but what hurts more is that I'm stupid crazy in love with you and you don't even care I know your busy with your family and trying to find work but nobody is busy 24/7, you found ways to always contact me before, no matter if it was a text or a 3minuet call, you...
    crystal1830 crystal1830
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    31 Years Difference.

    I've been married to the love of my life for 3 years now. We have a beautiful 4 month old daughter, & they mean the world to me. He's 31 years older than I am, but that doesn't matter to me. Age is only a number. It frustrates me when people say there can't be any real love or...
    Choirwife Choirwife
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

    I'm seeing him for the first time a good two to

    three weeks. Oh how i've longed to feel his soft embrace and shrink into his chest. I long too feel him tighten his arms around me in his warm loving embrace. I know I am home in his arms. This is where I belong. Where I am safe from the cruel unloving world. The only moment I...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx
    18-21, F
    Nov 30, 2014

    I am currently 18 years old

    and a junior in college. I've always been mature for my age - hense having skipped ahead two years of elementary school. I met Dave (so we'll call him) when I was 14 years old. I was a new waitress in a small diner in my just as small town. He was, at the time, 51. He is 37...
    megm1958 megm1958
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    I really think I'm getting feelings

    for this boy, matter of fact he isn't a boy. He's a grown man. He's in his 20's and I'm 16 years old :( I don't know what wrong with me but my whole life I always liked older men. But this time I really do care for this guy like I wanna be with him but me and him both know that...
    kimcabreraa7 kimcabreraa7
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015

    im 36 and hes 58 years old!

    i just wish he loved me like i love him. i want so much more the FWB! i want him always
    deleted deleted
    Sep 30, 2015

    I just like them more.

    The experience the understanding the compassion and passion. Older men are sexy. And they have awesome skills. And I love the way they dress and smell!
    RainbowLoveFire RainbowLoveFire
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2014

    been dating an amazing guy!

    (: he just happens to be 29 while I'll be 20 in 4 months! I love living with him! the night cuddles, the pulling all nighters playing video games, the jamming out to slipknot in the car, and our love for reptiles! he truly makes me feel loved and wanted! (:
    MissBloodKittie MissBloodKittie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

    I am deeply in love with a man 27 years my

    senior (I'm 18). He loves me and we've been together for almost a year now. My family doesn't know about him. I am about to graduate from high school soon and we plan on getting a place together. I'm not sure how I am going to introduce him to my family. He was my former manager...
    shades4myfuture shades4myfuture
    18-21, F
    Feb 25, 2015

    Love Him Like A Fat Kid Loves Cake!

    Yes....Indeed it is true.... When I was 19 ( now 23 ) I met a guy online and we just clicked. I could talk to him for hours about nothing, laughing and just be myself around him. Anything I wanted to talk about , he was there for. I thought at the time , I had a great...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Apr 4, 2012

    To begin with, I wouldn't say love,

    exactly. I just care for him a lot. I haven't been able to sleep and all I have really done the past two hours is lay here and think to myself. How I feel towards him as crossed my mind a few times lately and I just thought about what it would be like to completely lose contact...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 12, 2014

    i think loving a man

    who is older than your age can give you a better view of life. It's not because they have more than experienced than yours but because they had already learned so many things than yours.
    PamBianca21 PamBianca21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2014

    When I met him, he was my boss.

    He had a girlfriend of 12 years and I just a girl with a part time job whose going to college. After many ups and downs, heartbreaks, tears of fear and joy we are finally together. 38. We are 38 years apart. I'm 21 and he's 59. Soon to be 60. It breaks my heart knowing for some...
    Itsalwaystricky Itsalwaystricky
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    We finally got to see each other yesterday,

    it was such a great day, we spent the whole day just cuddling, watching movies, and being intimate. He's so affectionate with me I love every second being with him. I know with his sister being sick our time is now limited I stopped being selfish and I cherish our time...
    crystal1830 crystal1830
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    My boyfriend and I are 12 years apart,

    I am 18 and he is 30, I am perfectly fine with the age and so is he, he has no children and has never been married (neither have I), we have been together for 6months and everything is perfect, he is the only man I've been with sexually so I have so many more and amazing...
    crystal1830 crystal1830
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Apr 21, 2015

    i've been going out with an older guy the last

    months. we have 16 years of difference. well,it has been mostly texting. we saw eachother once a month or something like that. and we do connect. at any point. i'm a rather shy person, he's a little more outgoing in his character, but he's relaxed. we share what makes us happy...
    Ilerovers Ilerovers
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2016

    I'm just gonna type something out

    that has been bothering me. I told one of my friends that I like this guy. I'm 17 and the guy is 33. He responded quickly with "be careful. He might be using you" I was confused. Just because he's older than me means he's more likely to use me? There are all kinds of...
    needtotellnow needtotellnow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    I am 17. He is 10 years older.

    He makes me feel so special. He is the most beautiful man I've ever met. He's tall and tanned and muscular and has a beautiful face. I'm not in love with him but he makes me feel sick and nervous because he's cooler than me.
    InsidiousJ InsidiousJ
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    If any you ladies care

    for a chat wit a real old man pm me please
    ukoldguyy ukoldguyy
    61-65, M
    Oct 29, 2015

    I'm Falling For This Older Guy!!

    So im 17 and im inlove with a 37 yr old man. We met when i was 15. i really really love him and he loves me too.he is divorced. He has two sons one is 12 and one is 18..he wants me to live with him..i really want to. He wants to marry me. I do to. Hez so amazing!!! I love him...
    babydoll262 babydoll262
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

    I first met him in the local downtown in a

    section where a lot of people sorta walk by, but don't hang out in, during summer 2013. He was 32. I was 16.He said hi to my friend Chanel(Not her actual name, just keeping all identities anonymous) and I as we walked by them. We decided to stop to talk to him and his best...
    killyourhero killyourhero
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    This Monday he came to see me again,

    oh how I love spending every minuet with him. This time he came over to my place since everyone was gone, it was so fun and wild since he's not allowed at my house and knowing we could of got caught, but we didn't. After some time at my place we headed back to his place, we make...
    crystal1830 crystal1830
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 20, 2015

    So I have been seeing this guy

    for 3 months now. We started as friends then after our incredible connection became obvious, we started our relationship. He is the best friend I never had, the best lover I have ever had, I miss him all the time I'm not with him. Even when I sleep at his house, I wake up and...
    31-35, F
    Aug 31, 2015

    My boyfriend is a brilliant,

    handsome, kind gentleman who is 40 years older than me. I feel like I can't talk to my friends about him or our relationship. I'm so madly in love and just want to talk about it.
    kaym89 kaym89
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 9, 2015

    I am 13 and he is a lot older

    than me but i don't care. I am in love with him and he loves me. No one understands but he does. And he isn't like boys my age. He gives me his attention, he really cares about my problems or my day. He doesnt play Xbox all day or hang out with stupid friends. He buys me stuff...
    LoveDoesntKnowAge LoveDoesntKnowAge
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2015

    I Am In Love With An Older Man

    I meet this guy August and we had sex 3 times and we also has sex this afternoon so that makes it the forth time. I am 26 years old and he is 45. I enjoy having sex with him but I don't know if he likes me. I know I will get hurt because I always get hurt but I am use to it so if...
    WandaBread WandaBread
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2012

    there's a guy on EP that I totally adore

    and I believe in love with. He's a lot older but I find him so desirable. I have never been with anyone older or made love to. My husband is my age and he seems to have lost his sexual desires with me and it makes me feel so ugly and undesirable. This guy on EP makes me feel...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014
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