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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    sh3rylanne sh3rylanne 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband has been abusive for 21 yrs. We've been married for 18. He has a friend that expressed a interest in me 2 yrs ago and I've been seeing him ever since. He is so sweet and...
    ginahunt3 ginahunt3 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I fantasize watcjing my wife making love to another man.
    Secretdzires Secretdzires 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    I am in love with a man I never met it's hard to know that yeah he loves me but not in that way I'll never get to meet him I'll never get to see his gorgeous brown eyes...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 months. It started off as all relationships do. All nice and loving. Now he screams at me , calls me names, and just recently...
    jon0517 jon0517 36-40, F Jul 2

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    Well, I started highschool, I am much more mature than the rest of the high school. I just keep to myself and focus on the future, I've had an unbelievable past for someone of 15...
    DreamLurker DreamLurker 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I think of this all the time. After reading "50 Shades" and many more related story's my wife told me she'd like to be submissive. So, I started boning up on Dom material. We've...
    Kandainnc Kandainnc 41-45 5 Responses Jun 29

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I think about my wife flirting, kissing and having sex with other men.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I am trying to convince my wife to sleep with someone else and then tell me about it. I hope I don't regret it.
    ewcmfa ewcmfa 36-40, M 5 Responses Jul 17

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    I can't sleep and thinking about you. I want to believe that long distance relationship can work. But when I'm always talking on skype with you is make me happy, inside sad. I feel...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So yea I'm having an affair with my sister in laws husband... We've been seeing each other on and off over the past 7 months. My marriage to his wife's brother has been in the...
    bowerstoy bowerstoy 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I wish we could meet the person we want no matter where they are or who they are'
    lisa1996 lisa1996 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    It's been 11 days since I last heard from my marine I miss him!!! :( I'm not use to this right now I just hope he's just working a lot. Good morning to everyone though
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Okay in theory yes I suppose I can guess why they do. However in practise I can't for the life of me, understand how a loving man could be happy doing this? Nor how a wife could be...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 13

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    We are married for 1.5 years. My wife a bengali sexy lady who loves sex very much. After a long nagging i hav managed my wife to get her shared with another man. I wanna try. If u...
    smazumder1984 smazumder1984 26-30, M 10 Responses Jul 14

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I met this boy at my job about a year and a half ago. We became best friends in just six months, and we've been inseparable since. I knew not long after we met that I was falling...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I was falling In love with a man whom I can't have forever. I having a relationship with a man whom wanted to be part of my life. But sad to say he will just passed by after six...
    Anjelay Anjelay 22-25, F Jul 4

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    I'm in love with SOOO many fictional characters its hard to count how many lol ❤❤😊😍😍😘😘💋😏👌🙌🙌📚📖
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    In love with so many fictional characters and it feels real to me... TV and Internet has ruined me.
    giroflee giroflee 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    What I learned: Be your own hero. Reflect and apply what you’ve learned to your life, today. Work at forgiving yourself and others for being flawed human beings who must learn...
    AppleJacks10 AppleJacks10 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm married for 11 years and have 2 beautiful young children. My husband and I have grown apart. after a long career, I became a stay at home mom at least until my youngest is in...
    Llynne12 Llynne12 41-45, F Jul 1

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    Firstly I hate the word 'have' it suggests people are a possession for others to own and they aren't, that said this is the closest I have to express myself. It will have to do. So...
    LastEnglishRose LastEnglishRose 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'm deeply in love with a character from Frozen. I'm 20 years old and how this came about was during a family function, I was bored and the youngest kids were watching it. During...
    FrozenIceAndSnow FrozenIceAndSnow 18-21, M 19 mins ago

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