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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Sometimes it's his daily messages of "good

    morning sunshine hope you have a great day!"that help motivate me to put a smile on my face and start my day!
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Mar 21, 2015

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    Related Experiences

     ... but of course I'd never tell him that. I met Luke junior year of high school. He and my friend Haley went to homecoming together and I was head-over-heels the moment I...
    spark97 spark97 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm in love with him,we've been go through this hard time for the past two years,i love him more than I've ever loved a man.he's special he loved his wife,but he loves me too.we...
    Sallina71 Sallina71 26-30 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    First post! Here goes... I fell in love with him the moment I met him. I knew it deep down, but couldn't bring myself to go for him. He is dangerous. Charming. Handsome. We are...
    MiniMeA MiniMeA 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I am also in love with my former teacher since 3 years now and it hasn't changed. I don't know what to do, my friend told me to tell him my feelings but I'm scared that he might...
    sandykc sandykc 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I live in America. He lives in the Czech Republic. I am a light gamer. So I was playing WoW. And I am silly. I just randomly started talking to him. And after two or three days, we...
    Abbylynnscott Abbylynnscott 16-17 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just let two opportunities passed. Two guys were madly in love with me but I refused to be comitted with them and decided to leave the UK because I am stuck with this damn love...
    mabuhayka mabuhayka 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Love The Imperfections Of You. You Told Me The Other Day You Were Disgusted With Yourself. Well I'm Not You're Really Silly And I Love That You're A Child At Heart. You Have No...
    Introvertedchild18 Introvertedchild18 18-21 4 days ago

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    So the first thing I thought of when I read this experience..... Well, DUH. Why would I want to fall in love with someone who doesn't love me? Unrequited love is one of the most...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    As i write this, i am in an on-again, off-again relationship with a Scorpio man. it started back in june 2013 when we first met and we both agree it felt like we have known each...
    thisisjesso thisisjesso 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Ohhhhhhh damn I'm in a worst situation someone could ever be!!!!! Nope I don't fall in love with someone.... Someone else fall in love with me!!!! Ok I was chatting with one of...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Me and my cousin (second cousin) first started talking properly when I was 14. Although, we live in different countries, we used to Skype and message each other everyday. I visited...
    TheMannGirl48 TheMannGirl48 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    100 reasons why I love my boyfriend! These are 100 reasons why I love you, you mean everything to me and I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to have you baby, I want to...
    aimeethompson233344 aimeethompson233344 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hi Guys, I need advice on how to get over a married woman I have been having an affair with for over 3 years. It all started when i began to give her tennis lessons at the country...
    soccerguy1989 soccerguy1989 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    What do I do? I think I really am in love with him. He is the only person who knows who I really am. I can be myself around him and not feel ashamed or discussed in myself. He...
    ASadGirl123 ASadGirl123 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Yet again. I haven't been on this site in years. When I look back on it my stories were so.... ugh. But here I am again and yet again, I have a thing for one of my best friends...
    mayabutterfly mayabutterfly 16-17, F Jan 28

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    I am a 50 year old white male married to a 39 year old Indian women a few years a go we were on holiday india , staying at a hotel my wife said she going to bed early I stayed in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28

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    no but have paid married women
    itsBob itsBob 51-55, M 5 Responses Jan 25

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    She fell in love with his courage, his sincerity and his flaming self respect. She loves him the way she loves the ocean, with pride and fear. She fell in love with how he...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    I use to feel so abnormal because of this! I grew up in a very strict traditional Hindu home. My father would tell me if I had sex I would die lol.. I've had plenty of boyfriends...
    MeTooMeenu MeTooMeenu 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 23

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    So this fascination started when I was watching "pegging" **** and I thought I really wanted to try that with my husband. But the more I thought about it, I realized I would really...
    killakelley killakelley 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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