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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Sometimes it's his daily messages of "good

    morning sunshine hope you have a great day!"that help motivate me to put a smile on my face and start my day!
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Mar 21

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    Related Experiences

    Would love to see my wife have sex w another man and or woman..would enjoy chatting w others who've had success w their spouses having sex w others
    tryme234 tryme234 51-55, M 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It has been a comfort, being a member of this EP group, there are so many people in a similar boat and sharing a similar pain it is truly comforting. Emotions are such a...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    I am in love with my best guy friend who claims he is straight, I can't give up on my love for him, and I feel like if I get close enough, he will see he loves me too. All I can do...
    olone olone 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've had this fantasy for years. My fantasy actually goes beyond her flirting. My girlfriend followed through for me this past weekend. It was a first for us both. Though we need...
    AZGuy12 AZGuy12 41-45, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been fantasizing about making out and having sex with another woman. Just the thought of it gets me so wet and turned on ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm married. My husband is verbally abusive quite often, and sometimes I really wish I could get out of this relationship. But I still love him. I also love someone else, though...
    Diipali Diipali 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    This is my dilema and the most obvious is that it is NOT a dilema but the feelings I have makes everything feel so wrong. I in a sense do know the person I am inlove with, but I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    This is a brief telling of the three years I spent with this teacher all the way until I fell head over heels in love with her. This might bother your eyes with the block wall of...
    AKoolGuy AKoolGuy 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Well he's not actually a real person...I love a cartoon very much and I often find myself dreaming about a life with him, living with him in his world, going exploring with him and...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have no spouse to be in love with but I would like one. I have been reading through your experiences hoping to learn something in order to avoid marital pitfalls. I have noticed...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    there's this girl in my research group with zero manners. she annoyed me enough to make me write this. she interrupts when someone is talking, she throws brainless opinions before...
    Mateom93 Mateom93 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together since we were 15 years old. We married at 20. I am now pushing 28. We have three young kids (5,3,2). I am not in love with him like I once was...
    PurpleOrchids PurpleOrchids 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've tribbed with another woman and it feels amazing and I want to do it again,sadly it's been awhile
    butterflymstress butterflymstress 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    those are so hard to come by....fa real. for once, I wish I had a man that protected me, so I wouldn't have ta act like the bad azz all the time! sometimes, I wish I jus had a man...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 a week ago

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M Aug 23

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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    i am in love with another one... sasha blouse.
    parkourakiko27kablamo parkourakiko27kablamo 13-15, M Aug 21

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    This happened 2 years ago. I needed a piece of furniture repaired, so I asked one of my FB friends who builds custom made furniture. He is sort of a renaissance man. I go over to...
    Tejaschick Tejaschick 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I really want to experience sex with another girl. I have kissed another girl and i loved it. But so far have not found a girl who will sleep with me.
    LoveMeNow2002 LoveMeNow2002 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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