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I Am In Love With Another Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Sometimes it's his daily messages of "good

    morning sunshine hope you have a great day!"that help motivate me to put a smile on my face and start my day!
    Melanie04 Melanie04 26-30, F Mar 21

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    I'm having some marital problems and for the last year I don't know if my husband and I are just in a temporary crisis or whether we'll get through it. We split up for a little...
    shoogabonbons shoogabonbons 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I'm 33 years old and my husband is 55 years old. We've been married for 9 years. We don't have any kids. I meet this guy ( 35 yrs old ) at my workplace we have a mutual...
    Emmaj2015 Emmaj2015 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    This is a love story. Back in the year 2009 I fell in love with a man from Poland. I was 18 years old and he swept me off my little feet. Still now I often think about him. But he...
    auby91 auby91 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm a 14 years old teenager and I guess I'm madly in love with this particular person, who's also a teenager girl like me.We've known each other for a pretty long time, about 7...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F May 19

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    Another man's wife has sent me these photos of herself in the best positions ever! She wants to know what everyone thinks of her awesome milf body !
    California151346 California151346 26-30, M 2 Responses May 1

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    Hi I am totally new at expressing myself or posting , but I really need advice , I am a straight woman and having crush on lesbian friend , and to worse the situation she just told...
    lostsoul29 lostsoul29 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been in love with him for years. We were seeing each other for a time about 4 years ago, but I blew it. I didn't realise we were perfect for each other, so I ended it for...
    sarahannr sarahannr 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    My 5 year anniversary with my girlfriend is this Thursday. She wants to do something but I'm sure you guys know what I've been wanting to happen. If you haven't, read my past posts...
    702vee 702vee 22-25, M 7 Responses May 17

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    I was lonely and desperate for a companion. His name popped up on my screen alongside a smiling face. Still to this day, I have no idea how to pronounce his name but seeing it...
    KAnnie98 KAnnie98 16-17, F May 9

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    happy 35th birthday its sad that i always remember your birthday and you never remembered mine during all these years .... now ... even though we don't talk anymore. .. i...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 1 Response May 7

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    No indian couaples here. Misspellin cuz they dont want this post.message me if anyone here...
    mumcpl123 mumcpl123 41-45 9 Responses May 11

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    -I am struggling to love a fictional character- Hi! I happen to create this account this week and so far, this is going to be my first experience/story that I said. Anyway, it...
    ExoTrickz ExoTrickz 18-21, M 3 Responses May 3

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    Yes I am still in love with a man from other country.But I hate him too.
    des3low des3low 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't fall in love easily. I don't connect with people easily. My anxiety prevents it. I've moved from job to job and never missed the people in them. I have an amazing fiance...
    glassbox27 glassbox27 26-30, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I'm new to this and I need to get this feeling out. So here I go. Second Grade is where it started. Mrs. Holston's class. I walked into that class not knowing what to...
    AtheistChrist AtheistChrist 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If your first reaction to this statement is condemnation and judgment, you have obviously never been in love with somebody you shouldn’t be. People like to judge nowadays. And I...
    romka romka 22-25 1 Response Apr 30

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    So during school I had this really close best friend for a couple of years. I kinda knew she was gay, though she was never officially "out". Over time i started realising i...
    kirstyr kirstyr 18-21, F 6 Responses May 14

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    I just posted this around a few places but for some reason didn't think to post it as a story until now. This post is a follow up to my first post, EP Link If you are interested I...
    seb300 seb300 18-21, M 1 Response May 20

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    I fell in love with my Professor, my married Professor. It wasn't something I intended on doing. The first couple weeks of class he really didn't do anything for me. Then one day...
    Celine001 Celine001 22-25, F 5 Responses May 8

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    Have always wanted to add a woman into the mix.. With a man.
    aliceinwomderland aliceinwomderland 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17

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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response