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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Related Experiences

    I am married to a wonderful husband and father of my children. I couldn't ask for more. But I am madly in love with another man. He's been an acquaintance of ours for over 20 years...
    rysgirl rysgirl 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I found out 2 weeks ago my girlfriend of 3 years is pregnant with another mans baby, I really don't know what to do, she wasn't drunk or under drugs, she slept with him and found...
    dragonninja dragonninja 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just need somewhere to get this out. I moved house with my family, a long way from where we were, new life started very excited. I started to live, previously I had been very...
    Frankjoon Frankjoon 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I am marred for ...26 years . About 5 years ago I meet man at work . And truly fell in love . I am thinking about him 24/7 . He is my real soulmate . I had " in and out...
    tipshonet tipshonet 41-45, F Aug 20

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    ... and I usually prefer women... but he has swept me off my feet with his magickal love. So giddy and dizzily happy right now! Singing grateful praises to my Goddess Aphrodite.
    aphroditespriestess aphroditespriestess 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I feel like no one in the world could possibly understand what I'm going through. It's like I'm on a roller coaster every day. It's like I'm electrified when we are up and then...
    whoareyou208 whoareyou208 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was in love with an older woman and didn't realise it. Yes, that sounds like a dumb statement but it is entirely true and it was mutual. I was just too young and perhaps too na...
    Foreigntraveller Foreigntraveller 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I have stories to narrate.. but I am no longer in love with this man.,. I don't know if I will keep posting here or to another group..
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    i really don't want to tell the story because i was such an idiot. this is just a warning to people, male or female. do not let a bad man or woman keep u from finding someone who...
    Chulazon Chulazon 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I am in love with my man who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    So it's been a bit since my last post and I felt the need to post a new experience after reading up on some of the newer TC stories in this group. I decided to turn down that...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years, And the first time I laid my eyes in him in gym class I knew he was the one. It was definitely love at first sight...
    kis96 kis96 18-21, F Aug 22

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    So after reading several experiences on this site that somehow involve a TC I have seen remarkable similarities in the responses people receive for posting stories about their TC's...
    Dpreukssiya Dpreukssiya 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I work a part time job and I am in love with my manager who is dating someone who used to work at my job. He is 13 years older than but looks five years older. I don't know if he...
    aghgirl9529 aghgirl9529 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am madly in love with a man from Scandinavia. It has to me the most divine type of love in the world. I have never felt this way about someone and have never felt that someone...
    jagaringenting jagaringenting 22-25 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes I am madly in love with my man. He's my one and only and my everything.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Just need to ask. If anyone is in love with a loyal, faithfull scorpio. I had my doubts about the man I've been with for the last 10 months. I questioned him, I said what bothers...
    renija renija 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone, I am so sorry for not updating for so many months, I hope everyone still remembers me. So I have so much to tell everyone. Lets start at the beginning. So I am going...
    qtrocks25 qtrocks25 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The first lesson with SL. I'm already there, but have about 30 mins before meeting him. Talking to the director and a friend of her a bit, they are super friendly. Then I'm walked...
    feelthu feelthu 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Its a few days before school starts and I've been praying every night that i get my history teacher from last year again. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. i get...
    bellabee25 bellabee25 13-15, F Sep 3

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    My story begins in May of 2014. I had a small circle of friends online with which I hanged out with regularly, like every single day, even if it was to talk about our daily life...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Result of median with a facility's power to manage website traffic much more proficiently and properly and also the influence that it would have within the local firms.YOUR...
    Alexander714b4xm8 Alexander714b4xm8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Hey guys! After a long time out, I'm back with news and problems... Well, since my last post, things with my man just got worse, he was very strange with me, he stopped...
    Ollyecleo Ollyecleo 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    She came into my world when I least expected it. I had been in an unhealthy relationship with a guy for 5 years, and it was ending for good this time. I had always dated guys and...
    neverletgo33 neverletgo33 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I don't have much time ..my teacher told me I will be having 2:30 houred exams everyday for this week..yes he did.. But I have to get it out of me, get your opinion and also keep...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I was only sixteen when my best friend admitted that she had feelings for me. I felt the same way and we got together. We've shared so much of our lives, more than 8 years of ups...
    Beyala Beyala 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2

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