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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I never knew what love was until I fell in it with him, did I ever really love my husband? I love him now yes but was I ever in love with him? I dont think I was and it couldn't...
    katharine8891 katharine8891 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3...
    callme77 callme77 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 27

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    I am in love with a man I never met it's hard to know that yeah he loves me but not in that way I'll never get to meet him I'll never get to see his gorgeous brown eyes...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    This is the first time I fall in love with younger man. He's 29 and I'm 37 :D
    lilithadam lilithadam 31-35, F Aug 11

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    I am marred for ...26 years . About 5 years ago I meet man at work . And truly fell in love . I am thinking about him 24/7 . He is my real soulmate . I had " in and out...
    tipshonet tipshonet 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    It's so hot and sexy when my wife is with other men. Love to see her pleasing other men. And more. Poly is such an awesome thing. Feel free to ask me things or we can discuss.
    c0wboi c0wboi 31-35 5 Responses Jul 30

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    I can't sleep and thinking about you. I want to believe that long distance relationship can work. But when I'm always talking on skype with you is make me happy, inside sad. I feel...
    vinxgaza vinxgaza 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    Alls well that ends $hitty, and sometimes even though you prepare yourself for inevitable heartbreak, pad yourself from the truth, you still crash and burn on impact it seems. You...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 8

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    It's been 11 days since I last heard from my marine I miss him!!! :( I'm not use to this right now I just hope he's just working a lot. Good morning to everyone though
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F Jul 25

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    My boyfriend and I have known each other for about 3 years, And the first time I laid my eyes in him in gym class I knew he was the one. It was definitely love at first sight...
    kis96 kis96 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I am in love with my man who isn't too older than me. He's only 5 days older, but I only am into older guys.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    What I learned: Be your own hero. Reflect and apply what you’ve learned to your life, today. Work at forgiving yourself and others for being flawed human beings who must learn...
    AppleJacks10 AppleJacks10 26-30, F Jul 27

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response Jul 28

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    I am 19 years old. Two years ago, when I was 17, I met someone who would end up completely altering who I thought I was. I was a happy girl. I enjoyed being single and flirting...
    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    My situation is one I'm still coming to grip with. I met my boyfriend two years ago on a casual online dating site. My intention of joining and communicating was purely for...
    Baughb Baughb 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    At first I never suspected she was a man eater/ player but when I started to feel something wasn't quite right it was too late because I was deeply in love with her and I still am...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    So that's it. I was in love with someone for 1 painful year, but my feelings have gone now. I still like the character, but not in a romantic way. Looking back, it feels pretty...
    ChortlesOfDoom ChortlesOfDoom 13-15, F a week ago

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    I noticed from time to time, random people venture into this experience group, read our stories, and comment negative things. Seriously, why waste your time reading our stories...
    TheFrozenOne TheFrozenOne 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    (The following 'Connection Tips' post was originally posted by Yalanda, but her account was deleted for whatever reason. I wanted to share this information in the hopes that others...
    joshwilburn1017 joshwilburn1017 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 23

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    When I was nine I met my now boyfriend. He was in my class and I decided I liked him. I never stopped. Through the years and the grades and *shudders* puberty, he became best...
    Lochnessie Lochnessie 13-15, F Jul 24

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm in love with this girl science last year, we meet in the university and she was the one who start with this feelings , she always sit with me in the classroom, the cafeteria...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Well , this post is kinda different than what people usually share here as I won't stress on " love " as much as I'll do with other important things too. I met my bf online and of...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 3 Responses Aug 9

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