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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    He stole my heart in high school but never let on that I stole his. So I tried to move on. We lost contact after high school for three years, going about our own lives. I got...
    Bluesirenz Bluesirenz 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I am in love with a man in the Marines. It gets hard sometimes. But the distance is worth it in the end.
    Usmcsweetheart07 Usmcsweetheart07 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    But truth is, I don't know the person. I don't think any of my classmates know what his real name is. Everyone, even the teachers, calls him Shadow. It fits him well, though. He's...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    He's so handsome, but 39 years old. I am 17. He works at the same hotel as me, it's so dificult He told me we would never be together, because he's married. Though he loves me too...
    Coldcaselove Coldcaselove 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My wife left the bathroom door open having a shower while the electrician was working just outside the bathroom, she thinks he had a good look at her the whole time.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Id like to talk to women or couples who share this interest or have experienced this as Ive mentioned it to my wife and our sx life has gotten much hotter when I mention it while...
    jamiejames36 jamiejames36 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    My wife is a nurse. She doesn't wear a bra when she goes to work.
    Stky2001 Stky2001 36-40, M 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm wondering about this tonight. Am I really still in love with the man I loved so intensely for 2 years? When we were together, I was completely in love with him. Real life...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    I fell in love with a man I can never have. We met 5 years ago when he decided to take a job oversees. We emailed each other all of the time. Then he met "her". He was supposed...
    Nikita2008 Nikita2008 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 25

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    we are both artists and very good at what we do, with similar styles. we grow closer every day, he knows I'm in love with him. He has to know. We belong together. We are...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 6 hrs ago

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    I'm a married man and I fell in love with my best friend who is a lesbian. My friend has no idea how I feel and I can't tell her how I feel because I can't risk pushing her away.
    cragbag cragbag 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Advice? Help? Tips? So I've been in love with my former teacher for almost a year now. I know it sounds really ridiculous, and believe me, before I met him I thought teacher...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I was 14 years old when I fell in love with a guy I never met. I remember the exact date I met him, 26th January 2009 sometime after 6pm. It was back in the days of MSN. We met on...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 2

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    I have posted about this many a time before; truthfully I don't even know which category to post this in. Perhaps to get the most feedback I will just post it in more than 1. Is...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Well my relationship started with the good ol Facebook. We went to school together in a small bayou town. Haven't seen or heard from him since finishing school. One day i was just...
    hisbabydoll1215 hisbabydoll1215 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    Me and my bestie have been best friends since we were three years old. We did everything together but we are so different from each other. She is an athlete (she is on a...
    foxyknoxy18 foxyknoxy18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    I feel the need to start this story from the very beginning, mostly to get the point across of how weird my current relationship is. This is going to be long, because I have a lot...
    mackenziesaxon mackenziesaxon 18-21, F Oct 7

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    This is a somewhat lengthy story, but a very true and loving story. This started when we were both kids, over 40 years ago. I am just over 50 and she will be 50 next year. We...
    honoluludave honoluludave 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    And I'm constantly scared he's with another girl, because he partys every night and has had another girl, which was in fact his first "girlfriend"... What to do? :/
    leahmorinnn leahmorinnn 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    It doesn't matter that I was 18 when I met you. It doesn't matter that you're only a few years older than me. It doesn't matter that I am hopelessly in love with you. But, do you...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It's been 14 years since we first met. We lost contact for 2 yours, we found each other again, through a number i carved on the underside of my drawer. We fell in love right away...
    DejectedSolitude DejectedSolitude 26-30, M Oct 10

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yael) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I definitely am! I'll give you more details on who he is later but you can probably read my activity and figure out for yourselves too. In the beginning, I thought it was just the...
    oreocupcake23 oreocupcake23 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yale) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F Sep 29