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I Am In Love With Another Man

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    We Had A Discussion.............

    I was unable to go to Christmas lunch at my Mom's (I was sick). After lunch, my Mom called me; she and Dad wanted to talk to me. Needless to say, I knew what the conversation would consist of.............yep, my H and I. Apparently, he talked with my Mom at lunch, saying he...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    He Can't Wait to See Her...

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    Harry In Bath

    I skipped work today to go to Bath with Harry. It was something we arranged so quickly, without thinking about the weather. It rained and rained all day, we did manage to tour the shops holding hands, cuddling now and then. I wanted Harry to love me again. We had nowwhere to...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    Confused

    I have been married for 18 years, I met my husband in highschool and we started dating at 13. I am now 40. To make a long story short, I have 3 children 16, 12 and 6 I drive my 6 year old to school and there everyday is this very attractive man he approached me one day and gave...
    lborelli4 lborelli4 36-40 1 Response Sep 11, 2008

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    Feeling Guilty

    Well, I Have been married for 9 years. Almost 4 years ago, my hubby made friends with a guy, I'll call "jake". Jake Is smart, funny and adorable. I still love my husband very much, and don't plan to leave him for Jake. But when Jake comes around, we seem to have some...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2008

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    I Can't Stop Thinking About Him

    I'm a middle aged mother and step-mom.  I've been contentedly married for 4 years and dated my husband for 4 prior to that.  During the time I've been with Jim, I've had several minor crushes on guys, but nothing serious.  Always guys who I found attractive, but...
    Chimaera Chimaera 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 12, 2010

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    The First Real Love

    Well, this "other man" is actually one of the first boys I ever kissed. I am 39 years old. We met when we were 14. We went to school together and graduated in a small class of only 18 people (private school). Even though our stars never aligned in high school to date...
    iMDoNE iMDoNE 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 17, 2008

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    My friend is married with kids.

    But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is single but feels that when they are together and look into each other's eyes she saids it is like everything around them stops in...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    I Just Lost The Man That I Love And It Is Not My Husband...

    I recently lost the man that I am truly in love with and this is not my husband. My husband and I married about 2 1/2 years ago and dated about 5 years before marriage. We were both getting out of abusive relationships when we started dating. Even though I love my husband very...
    lonesomeandheartbroken lonesomeandheartbroken 31-35 May 6, 2012

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    What Happened To Me?

    Here is goes: My spouse and I have been together for four years now (he is my common law spouse). We have no kids. I met him 2 months before my 26th birthday. He is also 20 years my senior, I am 30 and he is 50. Anyway,he is not the type that talks about feelings but he has...
    Jasminebunny Jasminebunny 36-40 Aug 8, 2012

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I have been married for 19 years. We have no children. I was 20 when we got married, finished my undergraduate then got my first job 5 months after graduation. After about 3 or 4 years of marriage, the relationship my husband and I had started to change. Let me say, I was...
    chippey chippey 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    Loving Harry

    I wrote my story of being with Harry for the first time last Wednesday. I had had concerns about people knowing etc and Harry being over sixty. This Sunday, yesterday, with the snow cleared from the village and being able to get about I intended to go and see Harry again. By...
    regpantiesdown regpantiesdown 26-30, M Jan 28, 2013

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    I Want A New Life

    I was in several abusive relationships and then I joined the Navy. Three months in the Navy I met my husband and he loved me totally, completely, and unconditionally. I did not love him but I knew he loved me very much. So, I chose to marry him after dating a year...
    TheFreudianID TheFreudianID 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I Am In Love With Another Man

    I first met Jim in 1994, I was very disapointed to find out he was married.  I was not at the time.   The only thing Irealized at that time was that he was handsome, and I very  much noticed him.  he became a customer of mine for 12 yrs, and I learned to respect him, but at...
    tina4251 tina4251 41-45 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    So Right In Every Way

    This may be the only positive story on being in love with another man, so I hope you guys enjoy. I'm currently in love with my housemate and lover of four years; he's only a year older than me.  We were high school sweethearts.  However, I'm in love with another man...
    Happyface Happyface 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    Dr.,Dr. Give Me the News...

    So "jake" has been working, and therefore I have not gotten to see him lately. I had hoped that might help me out, but he visits nearly every night in my dreams. So anyway, my hubby gets to see him, and yes, I admit that i feel a little jealous. But apparently he wants...
    michichibi michichibi 26-30, F May 20, 2008

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    Torn

    I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. He's my best friend and the love of my life (considering I'm only 20 and started dating him when I was 14).  Taking all of this into consideration, maybe it will help you understand my dilemma... I feel as though I missed out on...
    nirvanachick15 nirvanachick15 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2009

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    The End Of Love

    Its simple. I am a cheater. I live a life of lies. I fell in love with another man. And then he found out I was married. I broke his heart. I broke my heart. I lay here in my bed near my husband and I hate myself. I hate my husband. and I long for someone I can never have. I met...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    A Dream, a Trip, a Movie

    I'd almost convinced myself that it would never happen, that it was not worth thinking about, that it was wrong to think about it...it being my friend D.  For the past few years, on and off, I've had feelings for him.  Over the past couple of months, those feelings have...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 Sep 28, 2008

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    Confused

    My husband and I are newlyweds but dated for 5 yrs before saying I do. For the last 3-4 months I have been seeing and have fell in love with another man and don't know what to do. The story of our relationship is long and complicated. We met when I was 19 I had only had one other...
    Living4today86 Living4today86 22-25 1 Response Feb 10, 2012

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    Partners Best Friend

    25 yrs ive been with my partner a daughter who is 22,my own home good job boring partner cant walk through a illness,he loves his home to death and is all about possesions,and ive fallen head over heels in love with is best mate,i wud give him my rite arm id fight the world for...
    longlegs11 longlegs11 36-40 Nov 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    There is not a soul that I can tell this to, but need to get it off my chest. In middle school, I experienced the closest thing to "love at first sight" that I can think of. At...
    Lostinalaska Lostinalaska 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Ive been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, Ive always had the fantasy of watching her with another guy. She knows about it and sometimes when we are having sex she asked me how I...
    andyb161 andyb161 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love you Anarchy!! You know who you are!! I want to be cut by you!
    Landon6464 Landon6464 22-25, M Jan 8

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    I found out my girlfriend was pregnant with her ex boyfriend baby. She said it was mine. She broke me...
    Landon6464 Landon6464 22-25, M Jan 8

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    Found this wife's album online... what would you do with her? https://www.flickr.com/photos/retrogirlfriend/
    pheon pheon 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I met a man through Instagram. We kik'ed for a while, then ended up Skyping and Facetiming and eventually falling in love. We have been in a long distance relationship and I can't...
    MizzMox MizzMox 18-21, F Jan 5

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    He swept me off my feet with his wittiness and his magnificent mind so I won't be looking for a replacement any time soon.
    Amphioxus Amphioxus 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Want to share my fiancé w a single white male But she doesn't believe me that mostly any guy would be more then willing to do it based on her looks alone....I need some good...
    Bmq23 Bmq23 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 16

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    I did it accidentally and now I feel a mixt of jealousy and excitement... If you want details see my story: EP Link
    bluezbooy bluezbooy 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Oh yes when he talks all neuro scientific to me!
    StepIntoMyOffice StepIntoMyOffice 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I never said that I am with another man! or cheated on my man.... I like my computer teacher but that doesn't mean that I am attracted to him sexually .. When I am with him I laugh...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I feel lonely since December, i see all this couples in the street or passing by I front of me and I wonder when I would be happy with that special someone... It's hard most of...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 22-25, F Jan 4

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    well guys It's my last year in my school...I'm spending every last minute just taking everything in, trying to make the most of the time I have left. I mean, soon, I'll no longer...
    lindastars42 lindastars42 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm so in love with a man. He loves me too. His friends tore us apart with lies about me. The love of my life now won't even talk to me and I can't do anything to get him to know...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    It's been a year since we became friends and 11 months since we became each other's universe. Has it always been easy? Absolutely not! Have we always loved one another through all...
    Gingersnapped Gingersnapped 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I really don't know where to even begin with this story so lets take it back to 8th grade. I would see this kid all around school, we'll call him James, and I thought he was so...
    haleymaeee haleymaeee 16-17, F Jan 8

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    Haha Today I was talking with my man and I was telling him how crazy we were monthsss agooo when I used to tell my parents that I wanna go to gymn with him and we laughed and the...
    InLove000 InLove000 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend about 3 years ago. We've been together for 2 years on Jan. 1. But right now we are on a break. I'm terrified that this is it for us. Even though...
    christin13 christin13 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I want to experiment with another guy....Now this is an interesting topic, but if you are having second thoughts about hooking up with someone else check this out. I'm in a...
    maryann230 maryann230 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    yep sure do. I am in love with the right person right now but I also love another guy who is a horrible choice. if only u could forget him and only love the man who truly loves me...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    yep sure do. I am in love with the right person right now but I also love another guy who is a horrible choice. if only u could forget him and only love the man who truly loves me...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm in love with an alcoholic. I always have and always will love him.. despite the nasty things he said when drunk.. he done believe rumors.. I know he loves me I never question...
    missjdragon20 missjdragon20 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I AM HIV+ AND I HAVE FOUND LOVE ON EP - UPDATE Back in May 2014, I shared the story of how I met Eric on EP and how we fell in love with one another. When I wrote that story it...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M Jan 7

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Ok wow! I have been looking so hard for people with the same thing! I have fallen in love with characters all my life. They have come and go and I have let them do so. But this...
    DatVikingKid109 DatVikingKid109 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 15

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    No, I am not in love with someone. I have never experienced anything like this actually. I think it'd be cool to know this feeling of "falling in love" and be "in love" with...
    Lila2088 Lila2088 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    I've been friends with her the longest time. I called her every day, and loved every minute of it. We share a lot of the same interests, but just enough difference to keep things...
    BadCatholic BadCatholic 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014