Post

I Am In Love With Her But She Doesn't Love Me Back

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 279 People

    I Love Her, But She Doesnt Love Me Back

      Never in my life did I think I would be pouring my heart out to a bunch of random strangers on the internet, and I’m still not sure if this is a good idea or not... but I guess I’m kind of hoping that it will feel good to get it all out somewhere.. ...
    PLaserDSM PLaserDSM 18-21 5 Responses Feb 7, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her To Death!

    I love her to death i swear! I know this girl, this amazing girl from three years now. Sadly it seems that she doesn't love me back. And this brakes my heart! I think about her every day. I don't have motivation to do anything. I can't study, i can't enjoy thing that i like no...
    endbegin endbegin 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love You Clara

    I love this girl. Ive never been in love like this before. And when she said no I want to kill my self. ( not litteraly ). It was like a spear going through my heart. All I want in life is her. Not money. Not flashey gadgets. Just her. Just Clara. Ahhhhhhh!!!!!!!!
    Leemason Leemason 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Typical Love Story

    So it all started about a year ago. I realized I had feelings for a very close friend of mine. Being such close friends I immediately told her how I felt only to be let down (not too painfully though) over the past year however we have become best friends but I can't ignore the...
    randomhero389 randomhero389 18-21, M Oct 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Sure How She Feels!!

    Well it started 12 months ago when she began at my workplace. I instantly knew i liked her but she was married. About 6 weeks later her husband cheated on her and they seperated. I know this sounds a little selfish but i was slightly happy when this happened, but also hated...
    Madkeen Madkeen 31-35 Aug 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Loved Her But She Never Did Care About It.

    It has been two years since i last saw her . We were together in school and she was like just another girl for me but then after i started talking to her , my feelings changed and i started to like her . I started to spend more time with her , think about her all the time and...
    gotu699 gotu699 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Girl I Love Causes Me So Much Pain

    The most amazing girl I've ever met comes to see me about every week I've loved her for 2 years but it's only hurt me for 6 months. She has a boyfriend and i told her that I was jealous of him and she freaked out. When she comes around it always seems like she loves me back but...
    enditall18 enditall18 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 18, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Couldn't Stop Falling

      Had to go to work that day. Had to be there by noon.  It was Saturday and she had the whole day off.  I didn't want to go. I wanted to stay there, in bed, holding her and just let the rest of the world melt away like it always did when she was in my arms. ...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Three Weeks Today

    It's been three weeks to the day now since she left.  I came back home feeling as if I were being physically dragged back, but not wanting to stay where I was.  That apartment was haunted with the ghost of what she and I used to be.  Memories...
    concreteardrop concreteardrop 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Cold Hearted Person That'S What They Say

    I am dating three at this point and I am straight forward to them do not fall for me cause I am a cheater ..,, and the answer is I don't care I just want to have my fun women have tendency to fall in deep felings after couple dates .....,, to me I made it clear to them I am cold...
    DRLOVEWILLHELPU DRLOVEWILLHELPU 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Soulmates?

    It all started about 10 months ago. That's when I first saw her. She was beautiful. I know it sounds cheesy but it really was love at first sight. For me... I talked to her at the fair, that night, and later friended her on Facebook and we started talking. We became really really...
    Fulgrimm Fulgrimm 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You Don't Know How Much You're Hurting Me

    I feel like you are coming up with excuses to break it off with me. As the time gets closer for us to be together, you keep finding reasons why we should wait. I think it's so you don't feel guilty about ridding yourself of me. You are slowly realizing that you aren't in love...
    darkechoes darkechoes 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her, But She Could Never Love Me

    i met this girl about 9 months ago, at first i couldnt really see anything special, but i would look through her facebook photos and feel something in the pit of my stomach, and i thought "no way", then when we first met in the flesh i found my heart skipped a beat and...
    clark52 clark52 16-17, M 8 Responses Sep 6, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Her

    I thought she was the one. If FELT like she was the one. I started talking to her a month ago and we shared a couple kisses here and there. She made it clear from the start that she wasn't ready yet to have a relationship. I respected that. She drifted away more and more the...
    Kevxy Kevxy 16-17 Dec 3, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Little Cowgirl

    So about two years ago i met this girl and we have literally talked everyday since we met. Over the two years I've fallen completely head over heels in love with her, problem is she lives 12 hours away in another state and i have told her how i felt about her and i think she...
    marine1105 marine1105 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Know That You've All Probably Heard This One Before But... You're Gonna Hear It Again

    this girl I'd been hanging out with her for almost a year, today I finally got the balls to tell her how I feel, to tell her that I love her and... she loves me too... but not in that way... I believe those were her words, but to be around her knowing that I'll never be able...
    gummibearyyz gummibearyyz 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 23, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feel Worse Everyday

    Ok to start I am 42 years old I have been married and divorced twice. This all happened in the process of my second divorce(we were separated at the time). I was lonely and alone so I decided to look up my high school girlfriend. We were friends on Facebook so I contacted her...
    bizcat bizcat 41-45 Jan 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She Dont Love Me Back

    She is my restaurant and night club, she like to come my restaurant to have dinner. So from there I now her. So one she come to club. She like to come my club have fan ever. One she come to me told me i like you, i say me 2. She ask me you have girl friend, i say i don't have...
    143tisha 143tisha 22-25 Oct 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ending Love

    She needs some time to figure out with our relationship while I linger and suffer because she must be seeing someone else
    NicolasExperience NicolasExperience 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Seen Her Today

    And she put on this naughty cop outfit and looked so sexy. We laid together and cuddled and play wrestled and I wanted to kiss her so bad but I couldn't because she is straight. I am in such a pickle. We have kissed before many times but anytime I talk about more she changes the...
    Hbeccam1 Hbeccam1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Fell In Love With My Friend

    This is my story...i just want to write it down simply coz i want to spill it out..all this is building up inside me and i need to share it with someone..anyone. So, it all started when we met in college...within an year we became friends and after some time we came a bit...
    nick0609 nick0609 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her, But She Doesn't Love Me Back

    Hi there. I have never done anything like this, but i need help desperately. This story is sometimes bizarre but keep an open mind. I hope someone has some answers, cause the whole situation is driving me nuts!Two years ago i met the most beautiful woman on the planet. I mean it...
    Nightwish1968 Nightwish1968 41-45 3 Responses Jan 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So we go on a few dates,

    I'm starting to really fall for her, I've already met her parents. And before I could make it an official relationship she tells me she likes this guy 4 years older then I am. She says she cared for me but this other guy is a better friend.... Ik him, he's an idiot who is a...
    Unexplainable00 Unexplainable00 18-21, M Dec 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So Confused..

    ok so it all started a little over a year ago. theres the girl- Melony. So me and her liked each other so we started dating. So did my best freind and his girlfreind - Katy So me and Melony were completely happy for five amazing months. Then we started arguing alot and (mutually...
    NicoDiAngelo NicoDiAngelo 22-25 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How To Tell If A Girl Is A Lesbian And Into You?

    So I have only known this girl I work with at the grocery store for about a week now. I met her when she constantly kept coming in my aisle asking me were grocery products were located. Now there are always more people on the floor than me but she always came to me. So I was...
    Miranada101 Miranada101 18-21, F Nov 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Everything She Wants, But She Doesn't Want Me?

    I'm a 20 year old guy, almost 21 in a few more months.  In High School i was never a ladies man, until I graduated and started working Blue Collar jobs for 2 years and gradually got more and more confident because of everyone i was around.  I now attend college to be...
    Vancent Vancent 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 24, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How To Tell If A Girl Is Bisexual Or A Lesbian?

    So I am a girl 18 year old girl extremely attracted to this girl I work with who is 17 but is turning 18 in a few weeks. Anyway I just started to have major feeling for this girl. Like I have a huge crush on her. We have been working with each other for at least 4 weeks now. At...
    Miranada101 Miranada101 18-21, F Nov 11, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So about two years ago I met this awesome girl.

    We became friends really fast, and eventually she came to be my best friend. Then I fell in love with her. I decided to tell her and she just said "not right now". I figured maybe she needed to think about it or something, so I didn't bring it up anymore because I didn't want...
    estfan estfan 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her, But She Said She Isnt Ready For A Relationship

    it all started out about 9 months ago, we both go to the same school, we had a class together but really didnt know eachother to well untill a mutual friend introdused us. we started hanging out alot, we went to few of our school football games together and we started to get...
    super61 super61 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Long Storys Cant Be Short

    laying in bed at shilohs with leeroy and spence July 8 dating Anna .. love of my life trying to understand why she's do distant from me and why Im so scared to get close to her because she hurt me so much before? maybe .. relationships are also scary I suck at them I told her...
    CbMatt CbMatt 18-21, M Jul 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    True Beauty

    tall and beautiful she stands as the center of attention, while i /lurk/ in the lower thought group of kids. i stole things, very lightly though. such as pretzels the school provided you where supposed to pay for. she's amazing, and i can't stand not being amazing enough for her...
    spydersul spydersul 13-15 Oct 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She's My Best Friend

    So I Told Her That I Love You , And She Replied ' You're Just My Friend ' . I Can't Stop Loving Her , She's Like Life To Me . Should I Keep Trying To Get Her Heart Or Just Give Up !! PLEASE ANSWER ME (:
    John494 John494 13-15 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Met Her Just As I Was Moving.

    So it all started in the mall. She was working at Sunglasses Hut and caught my eye from across the way. For some reason, We locked eyes and continued looking in each others as I walked up to her. I started the conversation and we ended up sitting there locked in deep conversation...
    climb4christ1 climb4christ1 22-25 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Can Words Explain?

    She is so beautiful, in so many ways. I didn't know her and she didn't know me, but we kissed within the Western Wall, and sparks turned to searing flames. Living in another country, we developed a relationship so pure and whole that just thinking about it brings my existence to...
    roeravid roeravid 18-21 Dec 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She's great. We started off

    as friends and it took me a long while to realize I wanted to be more. She's confusing though. It's like she's always giving me mixed signals. I can't tell if she's flirting or playing around. She's always mentioning her ex boyfriend on Twitter, like constantly. She is not over...
    carmeloo16 carmeloo16 13-15, M Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am in love with a girl

    but she said that she had a boyfriend, however still courted her and found out that she didn't have one. And then I got pissed off because she kept on insisting, and left her, the girl then cried and threw tantrums all over social media ( by calling me crazy, idiotic, among...
    finalcommand24 finalcommand24 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Cant Accept That She Doesnt Love Me

    I have known her for 4 years, and I always cared for her a lot. She was very special to me, someone I could always trust and who could always cheer me up. A bright spot in an otherwise dismal life. But just about 3 months ago I started feeling even stronger about her, more than...
    djpanda djpanda 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 8, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her So Much But Its Not Returned

    well i never thought id be online telling the pain inside me but what better way but to let complete strangers into your life and give you comfort and advice. I got the girl... yay for me right i thought so after her being my best girl friend with alot of ups in downs such...
    jawkss jawkss 16-18, M 4 Responses Jan 18, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Her Hair Is Hollow Gold....

    I recently decided to dive into the whole internet dating world due to the encouragement of friends and various success stories I have heard from several different people. I've never really had a difficult time meeting women. I use to be really shy when I was much younger, late...
    Strummer4321 Strummer4321 26-30 Nov 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Red

    I remember the first time I ever saw her. It was first grade on the playground, and my buddy Zach nudged me and nodded in the distance. "Isn't she lovely?" He was a strangely eloquent romantic for a six year old. But she was. Everything about her was doused in confounding...
    RedTiger331 RedTiger331 18-21 2 Responses Jul 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Girl That I Still....

    (Warning: this is kind of long and boring) I met this girl my sophomore year in high school, and she was a cool person. We'd sit on the bus and we'd share stories, laugh, etc. Haha, the windows would often interest me more than her at times. However as time progressed and my...
    bitterduedbro bitterduedbro 18-21 7 Responses Jan 6, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She Has No Idea

    I know you all propably think im to young to love but i dont believe so... a couple of years ago i met this girl we started to get close and soon i started fancying her at first it was just a lustfull thing like most teenage crushs but after about 6 months i realised i still...
    Thebackgroundguy Thebackgroundguy 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 18, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Like This Girl But I Am Not Sure She Likes Me

    I have known this girl since middle school and we were friends, not like BFF's but we talked and hung out.  Then for some reason in the 8th grade something was different about her, not actually physically abot her but how I saw her.  My heart would flutter and my throat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Never Thought About Falling In Love...

    Then this girl just...waltzed into my life! I don't know how it was possible, but she changed my views in ways I never thought possible. That's why, this next part I'm going to tell you still hurts me like you couldn't imagine. Sorry if this takes too long, but I've been waiting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Only One I Can Love, But Can Never Have

    This one starts out pretty normal. Boy meets new girl at work place, thinks nothing special of it. I’m in a permanent position, and she’s the new intern. After a few times however, I start to notice beautiful but otherwise shy and normal girl, making fun of her to try and get...
    DarkPast10 DarkPast10 22-25 1 Response Oct 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Heartbreaker..

    I always meet the wrong guys out there. The ones who find me attractive and really fall in love with me, I never feel the same back. . And the one I want to find me attractive, and the one I fall for, he doesn´t feel the same. WHY?! It´s getting on my nerves.. I meet guys...
    ixHoney ixHoney 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She Is the Only Person I Can Say I Truely Love

    You know you are being torn apart when you are so desperate to let the jealousy, rage, and confussion out to a world of complete strangers. I really need logical advice though. I mean I am so messed up, it's affecting my job, and just my everyday life in general. For anyone who...
    HeartBroken07 HeartBroken07 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Girl Looking For A Guys Perspective On This!

    About 3 years ago I met a boy, we got on very well, I was quite weird and innocent and he was quirky and kind. For the next year we saw each other weekly, but last year we stopped classes but met up a good bit, at Christmas of last year he told me he liked me when I had a...
    Ciarasjen Ciarasjen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Best Person I'll Ever Meet.

    I'm just going to start from the beginning. There is this girl in my class. I met her one day on the first day of school. I still remember her looking back at me, smiling, and looking away. To be honest she was probably looking at a friend behind me. But that didn't stop me (for...
    rob36611 rob36611 13-15, M Oct 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Current Status

    the girl I fell in love with is bi polar I dated her and it was awkward she made I that way I talked to her about it and it was always the same response. nothing. so we came to he conclusion it wasn't working out I miss her and she doesn't acknowledge it. until about 2 weeks...
    CbMatt CbMatt 18-21, M Jul 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    She Says Her Baby Loves Me But She Still Loves Her Babys Father!

    I have a girl who is one of my best freinds sister. I've had my eye on her as a romantic partner for two + years the last tgree months(i know thats not long) we've been dateing flowers holidays going outspending time with her and the baby im deeply in love with her but shes torn...
    Jan 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love Her, Not Sure If She Feels The Same

    Long story short. I have known this girl for about a year and a half. At first we were "talking" but I never really got a chance because she wasn't over her previous boyfriend. Since then we have grown to become extremely close. Over this time I talked to a few girls and went on...
    mjg2012 mjg2012 18-21 1 Response May 31, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I'm falling for a guy who Is a REALLY good friend and he tells me everything! We have no secrets except the one where I like him. I'd say I'd have a shot if he wasn't in love with...
    7Bird 7Bird 16-17, F Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So first off a bit of background on my situation. I am 24 and a college student, a few months ago an old friend from high school got in contact with me. She is 21 and a student at...
    Akalmostdad Akalmostdad 22-25, M 20 Responses Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm more confused than in love. My friend (who shall remain nameless) knows I'm a lesbian, and she think it's awesome! So she has no problem with it at all. The thing that is...
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in love with my health teacher. I've always found him attractive and his personality is seemingly perfect... But not until this year, have I realized that I truly have feelings...
    Kkeiser Kkeiser 18-21, F Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel