I Am In Love With My Best Friend

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    First post! Here goes.

    .. I fell in love with him the moment I met him. I knew it deep down, but couldn't bring myself to go for him. He is dangerous. Charming. Handsome. We are both crazy intellectual. I can talk to him for hours without losing interest. Unfortunately, At the time I met him I thought...
    MiniMeA MiniMeA
    18-21, F
    Feb 3, 2016
    ImAPuzzle ImAPuzzle
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2016

    Suchhhh a long story!

    But my best friend and I have came to the conclusion that we are in love and we are soul mates! We absolutely love each other so deeply I can't even explain our love. Here's the catcher ( we are both straight females).. crazyyyyy right?? We both like men and have never even...
    TattedPrincess89 TattedPrincess89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    Love Is...

    Now love is a dense and solid body, it’s limbs, those of a younger man: soft and sinuous, and princely. Love is a long face with a strong, square jaw. Dimples: love resides within those recesses. Love is two bright, dark eyes - the one punctuated by the brush stroke of a...
    simplygirl simplygirl
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    Today I had to sit and stare my best friend

    straight in the face as she told me all about her new romantic interest, and how much she enjoyed making out with him this weekend at his house. It took everything in me to act happy for her but on the inside, I am completely shattered. I really am happy for her but I just think...
    marleypavel marleypavel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    Why Does It Have To Be You??

    ive known her for 16 years..weve been together that long but only as friends..i didnt cherish friendship then in my kid years but as i become a teen i realized how important it is to have true best friends..she was just a simple little girl then always sitting in the corner...
    redchic4 redchic4
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 9, 2011

    I met him 2 years ago in school

    and we instantly connected. He and I have so much in common its unbelievable! We hung out a lot last summer. We surfed and went to the beach almost everyday. We created a really strong bond through surfing. I had never been with someone who shared that interest with me. That's...
    parman23 parman23
    18-21, F
    Feb 6, 2016

    Since no one here actually knows

    who I am, I can comfortably write about who I love. Iv known this guy basically my whole life, my next door neighbor is his cousin, so I'd say Iv known him since I was 4 and were still friends. It still hurts now just thinking about him with other girls, I really feel the...
    ashlynn1014 ashlynn1014
    18-21, F
    Mar 13, 2014

    To me it is sort of a prerequisite

    that your one true love is also your best friend.
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    I Can Never Tell Her That I Love Her

    Since kindergarten, I have always known that I was different from other girls. At school, when my friends would think some guy was cute, I would agree that he was good-looking. But I knew I didn't feel how they felt about him. So whenever this happened, I would carry on the...
    flipchick18 flipchick18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2012

    Friend Zone

    im stuck in the friend zone. ive known him since I was born. we grew up together. ive loved him as in love love for 2 yrs but ive never told him because I don't want our relationship to change. I love him like no other. I know im only 13 and I know, ohh ur too young you don't...
    TheRealMe99 TheRealMe99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2013

    My best friend and I are inseparable.

    We go to eachothers houses almost every week and 90% of our hobbies are the same. One day she came to my house (I always go to her house, we usually never come to mine) on my birthday. I usually don't blush at all even if I get embarassed, but this one time my whole face turned...
    Zukeatekia Zukeatekia
    22-25, F
    Dec 18, 2015

    It's funny cause we only started talking

    because I was dating his best friend then we became best friends and I kept thinking to myself it's really not that bad to be in love with your boyfriend's best friend a.k.a your best friend. The truth is I love them both. One gives me butterflies and make me blush and he's so...
    ImAPuzzle ImAPuzzle
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2016

    I'm In Love With A Girl

    My life sucks . Many things bad happen to me , i'm not smart , positive , brisk , rich .... my friend told me that i'm useless ,clumsy ,even my mom (when i did'nt do something she want , she always mention, compare me to my sis who is smarter , beautier.."better" than me"). i...
    glchicken glchicken
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2011

    She is bi and single I've been in love with her

    for about 5 years One side of me is telling me not to tell her and the other side is telling me to tell her it's really difficult
    kbforlife kbforlife
    18-21, F
    Dec 26, 2015

    My best friend is a girl

    and is straight. No hope there.
    HiddenAway4Now HiddenAway4Now
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    Yes i am, I've known him all my life.

    Over the years we've slept in the same bed many times, ya sleep anywhere after drinking all night. One night I was going out dressed as a girl, as I left my apartment n bumped str8 into him in the hallway! OMG We went back in and I explained, then we actually kissed, deep and...
    Figurehug Figurehug
    46-50, T
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    We only just got together a few months ago,

    but we've been best friends for a couple years. Sometimes it's kind of hilarious. After a fun date or something, he'll text me later and start gushing about it like I wasn't there the whole time. Haha....oh man. What a gift. This guy is great.
    Aerynflies Aerynflies
    22-25, F
    Dec 26, 2015


    Hi. My name is Kelsea. And I'm in love with my best friend in the whole entire world named Dawson. I found out last night when I was watching the Titanic with him. As you all may know, Leo DiCaprio played Jack DAWSON. At the very end, Jack gives his life for Rose. And when the...
    KelBell KelBell
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 11, 2006

    Well see. You talk to someone everyday.

    You laugh together. Cry together. You share stories about your day. Your family. The activities you enjoy doing as hobbies. You talk about music and books and movies. You find all the things you have in common along with some things you don't. You know all their ins and outs...
    DayDreamingDragon DayDreamingDragon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    Because I Can't Tell Her.

    I haven't been really myself lately. Nothing comes into mind aside from work & responsibilities but you and her. I've lost my taste in life and I cannot blame it on you. This is my own doing. I have to set myself free. I know the answers anyway, the mind knows it well but the...
    confusion confusion
    26-30, F
    Apr 25, 2011

    Update #4: I've decided

    that tomorrow will be day I tell her that I love her.
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    Jun 12, 2015
    akatay akatay
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 19, 2014

    Did I Make A Mistake?

    So I wrote a story a month or so ago about my friend that I have had feelings....strong feelings for the past 2 years. She isnt into girls so I never bothered telling her. I just had to sit and listen to how her now ex bf of 6 yrs treated her and just everything else I wish I...
    Music2MySoul Music2MySoul
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    After 5 years of friendship,

    we are finally dating and I could not be happier right now <3
    psychh psychh
    18-21, F
    Jan 15, 2016

    My high school buddy

    and best friend. We have known each other for over 30 years and get together when we can. I told him about 6 months ago that I love to crossdress but am too wary of going out in public by myself. I showed him some pictures and he was pretty speechless and bit freaked out. I...
    nikkinolen nikkinolen
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

    im a girl and i think im in love with my best

    friend. Can anyone give me advice how to handle with this?
    victoriaxlg victoriaxlg
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    I'd do anything for her.

    She's been with me as my greatest ally since I ended up surviving my suicide attempt. Through all of the **** that my last ex put me through and even now when I'm nervous to go back to school. We can talk about anything and I mean anything. She knows what hurts me the most and...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 29, 2014

    As we fast approach our wedding anniversary,

    it becomes more and more apparent every day. Through all the ups and downs; good memories, bad memories, and everything in between; she has made mistakes, I have made mistakes, but in the end, she is the one I find myself thinking about when I wake up in the morning and before...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 27, 2015

    I have known my best friend

    for over 15 years and as time has gone on we have grown extremely close. I can talk to him about anything and everything! I send him a good morning text first thing when I wake up, message him throughout the day, and enjoy his conversation late into the night. He makes me feel...
    hottmom22 hottmom22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    What do I do? I think I really am in love with

    him. He is the only person who knows who I really am. I can be myself around him and not feel ashamed or discussed in myself. He makes me feel great. He knows I want to date him and that I love him and he loves me too but he doesn't want a girlfriend. He thinks relationships are...
    ASadGirl123 ASadGirl123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    We both know that we like each other,

    we have for the past 3 years and he's the only one that properly makes me happy and he's been the one who's constantly been here for me. I never thought I'd feel so strongly about someone at this age, but (trying not to sound soppy) he really is my other half, I don't know where...
    Alexa001 Alexa001
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2014

    I love my best friend

    and I have no clue what to do
    Rowenisme Rowenisme
    18-21, T
    Nov 1, 2015

    Well the problem is I have no idea

    if she would like me back or leave me to become depressed. But also how would i tell her if I got the chanec one day?
    Bluemoonispretty747882 Bluemoonispretty747882
    16-17, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    I want to see his smile

    when I wake up in the morning and when we go to bed. I'm scared though. I don't want to break his heart the way mine has been broken before. Everyday I just get more feelings for him. I love him.
    ASadGirl123 ASadGirl123
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2016

    Do you believe in fate?

    I do. I was never the woman who dreamed of marriage or starting a family. I never really got insecure with a man I was dating or experienced jealousy when it came to other women. I didn't really have the urge to 'protect what's mine' kind of attitude but with you, I want to...
    BeingSara BeingSara
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2015
    psychh psychh
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2015


    I am in love with my best friend ,and he knows it :D he loves me also.. I love his voice,I love it when he makes me smile, I love that he is unique and never been kissed <3 I wish I can be that FIRST girl that he will ever kiss because I love him and honestly I can see me in...
    1234icu 1234icu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

    I think the best soul mate is

    when your other half is also your bestie
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin
    22-25, F
    Mar 30, 2015

    We Weren't Best Friends At...

    We weren't best friends at first, but ever since I met her, I've been falling deeper and deeper into love with her, and have since become best friends with her. I trust no other as much as I trust her, and there is no one I feel closer to. Lucky me, I have her as my best friend...
    Distanced Distanced
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2007

    I am in love with my best friend.

    I've tried to fight the feeling for years now, but lately I haven't been able to get rid of these feelings. I feel like I need to tell him because it's killing me inside trying to hide my feelings. I don't want to lose a friend that's been there for me since day one, but I don't...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 2, 2015

    My best friend The one

    that understand me I could never lose him My best friend Is also my ex I'm in love with him He's unaware It's been a while since we dated So he asked me sex related Friends with benefits I'm in love with him He has no idea I can't tell him then fwb isn't here this has...
    polarbearlove polarbearlove
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    I met a guy a year and a half ago in Boston.

    He was really cool and we kept in touch via Skype and texting. I'm American and he's Australian. And over the last few months I've come to realize I have feelings for him. But he lives on the other side of the world and I don't know if he has feelings for me too.
    Kabaliwan Kabaliwan
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    Wish She Felt The Same Way

    I am in love with my best friend. She knows it, but does not feel the same way. When I am around her, my day brightens and I feel like life is perfect. I know it will never be, but when I think about it, it hurts deep inside. When I see her smile and laugh, it brings up those...
    rosco02geek rosco02geek
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2012

    My Secret

    i am 22 in college. I met my bestfriend in college. We are definitely each others bestfriend. I can go on explaining how we became so close but the point is we are. People tease us that we should get married and when they do deep inside I tell myself "I wish". Something...
    confusion confusion
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Feb 12, 2007

    I'm pretty sure I'm in love with my best guy

    friend. I have this weird feeling in my chest that has never gone away over the past 7 years, it happens when I think of him. I also randomly have dreams where I'm talking to him and I kiss him, I also had a dream where I walked up to him and I said I have been wanting to do...
    CaptainDragoness CaptainDragoness
    18-21, F
    Mar 23, 2016

    But he just got out of a 2 year relationship

    and I need to give him space... I just really REALLY want to be with him. And I'll wait as long as I have to do that can happen. I want to be the special one in his life. I want to be the one to make him smile. I want to be the one that lights up his world because he already...
    mei1239 mei1239
    18-21, F
    Feb 10, 2016

     ... but of course I'd never tell him

    that. I met Luke junior year of high school. He and my friend Haley went to homecoming together and I was head-over-heels the moment I laid eyes on him. First of all, he was wearing a suit and I'm a sucker for a well dressed man. However, there is this thing called 'girl code...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 5, 2016


    I know I write a lot about my boyfriend, but this one isn't about him. Well, it's about him, but he's not my boyfriend anymore. We broke up last night, and I cried, a whole lot more than I care to admit. And well, I love him. So yeah, I'm in love with my best friend. I have no...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

    I don't want to admit this

    but I think I am in love with my best friend. We currently have a 'thing' going on, we admitted we both like each other but we don't want to label ourselves as a couple yet we do what couples do of course. Everyday I end up liking them more and more that I cannot handle it, I...
    carazami carazami
    Sep 28, 2015

    I met him 10 months ago,

    I fell in love with him instantly he amazed me. His complexity stood between him, and everyone else but I could move past it. I loved how we could just talk for hours, and never once did we get tired of each other. I shared parts of my life I've never really told, he never...
    DevinaWagner DevinaWagner
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2015

    I used to think that I was falling

    for my best friend, but after months of chasing him and asking him questions about his identity I realized that the digging was really hurting him. I knew he was straight I just didn't want to believe it. Seeing your best friend hurting makes you hurt. So I stopped and I...
    joey88joey joey88joey
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    It's never simple, I fell in love with my best

    friend of 2 years after about 6 months. We were both straight she broke up with her boyfriend 4 months after we became bestfreinds. we had a few months of flirting, joking around about it and constantly being around each other.we became more than friends and its been nearly a...
    Justbeingme93 Justbeingme93
    1 Response Jan 22, 2016

    It drives me crazy to think

    that I'll never have you. You are my best friend, so I'll always have you in my life.. …but..I mean, I don't know why I can't..if you truly mean everything you say to me. You're my best friend..the person who I want to talk to the very first second I open my eyes… The one...
    beautifulbaby069 beautifulbaby069
    22-25, F
    Oct 29, 2015

    You'll Never Know

    You're sweet and sexy smile It just drives me wild! The sparkle in your soft blue eyes Now my heart tells me no lies The gentleness in your touch Makes me want you so much My hearts full of desire It burns inside like fire You think we're just friends But my love for you never...
    BJLes BJLes
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2011
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