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I Am In Love With My Best Friend

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    Let's refer to my best friend

    as "Rose" Rose has been is a relationship with her boyfriend for three years and they are inseparable. I really think they are in it for the long haul. Rose is also one of the biggest homophobes out there. I have fallen for Rose. And I have fallen hard. I can't talk to her...
    brieftimetravelinfluencer brieftimetravelinfluencer 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My best friend got drunk one night

    and told me she loves me. I love her too, but I’m married and she’s in a long term relationship. I can’t be with her - at least not right now. It really hurts.
    saer2000 saer2000 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    I used to be. I used to be best friends with

    her. We'd tell each other anything and everything. She'd tell me about her day, what she did, and she'd tell me about anything that had her upset, worried, happy, afraid, and I loved it. I loved being able to have someone who could open up to me and someone I could open up to...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    We Weren't Best Friends At...

    We weren't best friends at first, but ever since I met her, I've been falling deeper and deeper into love with her, and have since become best friends with her. I trust no other as much as I trust her, and there is no one I feel closer to. Lucky me, I have her as my best friend...
    Distanced Distanced 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2007

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    Dawson

    Hi. My name is Kelsea. And I'm in love with my best friend in the whole entire world named Dawson. I found out last night when I was watching the Titanic with him. As you all may know, Leo DiCaprio played Jack DAWSON. At the very end, Jack gives his life for Rose. And when the...
    KelBell KelBell 16-17, F 6 Responses Dec 11, 2006

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    I Can Never Tell Her That I Love Her

    Since kindergarten, I have always known that I was different from other girls. At school, when my friends would think some guy was cute, I would agree that he was good-looking. But I knew I didn't feel how they felt about him. So whenever this happened, I would carry on the...
    flipchick18 flipchick18 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Because I Can't Tell Her.

    I haven't been really myself lately. Nothing comes into mind aside from work & responsibilities but you and her. I've lost my taste in life and I cannot blame it on you. This is my own doing. I have to set myself free. I know the answers anyway, the mind knows it well but the...
    confusion confusion 26-30, F Apr 25, 2011

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    I am definitely in love with my best friend.

    He is my high school love, my husband, father of my kids and my absolute best friend!
    chickengirl14 chickengirl14 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'd do anything for her.

    She's been with me as my greatest ally since I ended up surviving my suicide attempt. Through all of the **** that my last ex put me through and even now when I'm nervous to go back to school. We can talk about anything and I mean anything. She knows what hurts me the most and...
    shyguy38 shyguy38 18-21, M 1 Response May 29, 2014

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    Yes, she's my wife. And how do I know she's the

    love of my life? Simple, cause in the same day I couldn't love her anymore than I fo, while at the same time periodically thinking about putting jalapeño juice in her tea cause she drives me so mad. Thst my EP friends, is true love!
    pittdaddy pittdaddy 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 26

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    Hi everyone, I was hoping somebody could

    please give me some insight on a dilemma I am in. I have been friends with a guy for 3 years now. We crossed the line of friendship many times and I took his virginity 2 years ago. After he fell in love with me and I had feelings for him but I wasn't sure if it would work...
    mzgirl mzgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    I think I am in love with my friend,

    ,,,,,but i cant able to express my feelings to her.....becoz i am afraid of loosing that friend,,,if she says no,,,then she may stop talking with me or she may avoid me,,,,,,,i am totally confused,,,,whether to tell or not that "I wana to grow old with her"
    104nairrahul 104nairrahul 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 21

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    He has helped me through

    so much. He made a lost just for me titled "53 reasons to live, and why your an amazing friend!" Also on Instagram he posted a picture that said, "I think I love your but I'm afraid." He has a girlfriend, who is also my friend who lied to my face about more than one thing...
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2014

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    Ever since I first met him,

    I always thought he was attractive. I didn't know that I could ever care so much for another human being till I met him. He has asked me out, but we have been friends for so long, that if we date and it goes badly, things wont ever be the same. I used to think he might be gay...
    jswdancergirl1 jswdancergirl1 16-17, F Mar 19

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    You'll Never Know

    You're sweet and sexy smile It just drives me wild! The sparkle in your soft blue eyes Now my heart tells me no lies The gentleness in your touch Makes me want you so much My hearts full of desire It burns inside like fire You think we're just friends But my love for you never...
    BJLes BJLes 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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    4 years as friends, 3 years I've loved him.

    So scared to tell him. And i want to tell him so badly.
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    Simply put.. I too am a victim of loving my

    best friend. For almost 6 years now.. I feel I'm too old for this but love has no boundaries.. he used to tell me about all..but apparently he realised that I have feelings for him so he has hidden his last gf from me. I found out from another person by accident and I was so...
    DrGeorgie DrGeorgie 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    So I have this friend.

    We've known eachother for 5 years. I honestly care for him so much. I wish we could be together, but I know it will never be. I've accepted that. He also has a gf and they go together so well, so I'm happy for him. I do appreciate our friendship and he will always have a place...
    Via70 Via70 22-25, F Jan 17

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    I think the best soul mate is

    when your other half is also your bestie
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F Mar 30

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    We actually met on here.

    We had an instantaneous connection and we made a brief go at a relationship. But it didn't work out. We were both broken over other people. But that ended up being the foundation that truly forged the bond between us that we have. My kids and I lived with him for almost a year...
    WolfElvyn WolfElvyn 31-35, F Mar 16

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    My bf is the best and no1 can tell me any

    different, lol. I won't bore y'all with the story but we were besties for years and i think that helped a lot
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F Apr 2

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    My high school buddy

    and best friend. We have known each other for over 30 years and get together when we can. I told him about 6 months ago that I love to crossdress but am too wary of going out in public by myself. I showed him some pictures and he was pretty speechless and bit freaked out. I...
    nikkinolen nikkinolen 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I love my best friend very much .

    She touches me deep inside and she knows I only want her . We sometimes have our ups and downs but where it matters our hearts are entwined and our love is strong and true . And I love being her Dom , she's my gorgeous sexy submissive with a heart of gold and eyes that dazzle me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 21

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    When I went away to college about three

    and a half years ago, I didn't really know anyone. I've always been that awkward, antisocial girl who would rather read than talk to people. Anyway, during freshman year I had this statistics class, and there was a girl named Sarah in it. That's not exactly how I met her because...
    showusyoursouls showusyoursouls 22-25, F Feb 3, 2014

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    I’ve known a guy for about 10 years,

    through a marriage in our family. I am pretty close to his side of the family but always closest to him. He’s understood me more than anyone I know, and I’ve gone to him for a lot of things I couldn’t go to my girl friends or boyfriends about. I’ve had a thing for him...
    twistedfiction twistedfiction 26-30, F Jan 28

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    I am in love with someone

    who I consider my best friend. Yes she has hurt me in my passed but I have forgiven her. After taking a break from her and relaitionships in general I have come to the realization that to walk away from something so beautiful would be a huge mistake. I know after what...
    RicanPenguin RicanPenguin 18-21, M Mar 30

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    More than anyone could ever realize.

    I've never felt this way before. It's honestly kind of scary. I don't like being this vulnerable.
    iBeautifly iBeautifly 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    "Maria...I' just kissed a girl named Maria.

    .." okay, so my life isn't exactly like West Side Story, but here it is. My best friend and I, we've been friends for about 4 years. Another friend connected us for years before that, and well, we've been inseparable. In the past few months I've started to have more....sexual...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 24

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    My Secret

    i am 22 in college. I met my bestfriend in college. We are definitely each others bestfriend. I can go on explaining how we became so close but the point is we are. People tease us that we should get married and when they do deep inside I tell myself "I wish". Something...
    confusion confusion 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 12, 2007

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    Wish She Felt The Same Way

    I am in love with my best friend. She knows it, but does not feel the same way. When I am around her, my day brightens and I feel like life is perfect. I know it will never be, but when I think about it, it hurts deep inside. When I see her smile and laugh, it brings up those...
    rosco02geek rosco02geek 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    Kyle and I had known each other

    since we were little kids, we were neighbours but never really got along. He would call and sing for me but I rejected him every time, I didn't like him. I remember that he had a crush on me & ever since then... He always had. As we got older, we grew closer. He was always...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F a week ago

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    so i was in a tough situation with my bf

    that ive never met while i lived with his wife. and during that hard time i told my friend everything that i cant tell to anyone. and he would patiently listen to me and encouraged me to do anything that makes me happy. he always support me even when i decided to leave my bf and...
    thepesut thepesut 22-25, F Mar 9

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    akatay akatay 13-15, F 1 Response May 19, 2014

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    :/

    I know I write a lot about my boyfriend, but this one isn't about him. Well, it's about him, but he's not my boyfriend anymore. We broke up last night, and I cried, a whole lot more than I care to admit. And well, I love him. So yeah, I'm in love with my best friend. I have no...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    *aaron

    I am in love with my best friend ,and he knows it :D he loves me also.. I love his voice,I love it when he makes me smile, I love that he is unique and never been kissed <3 I wish I can be that FIRST girl that he will ever kiss because I love him and honestly I can see me in...
    1234icu 1234icu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Did I Make A Mistake?

    So I wrote a story a month or so ago about my friend that I have had feelings....strong feelings for the past 2 years. She isnt into girls so I never bothered telling her. I just had to sit and listen to how her now ex bf of 6 yrs treated her and just everything else I wish I...
    Music2MySoul Music2MySoul 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    I am head over heels.

    I'm a ******* goner. She's everything I've ever wanted in a human, and it took me forever to realize, but I'm so in love it hurts. We spend so much time together, just the two of us. Recently, we have been cuddling, and sometimes staying the night in each other's dorm rooms...
    Shitfuckerd Shitfuckerd 22-25, M Apr 9

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    I'm in love with one of my best friends

    and I'm afraid to tell him. I've known Chase, as I'll call him, for over a year now and he's been there for me through some of the toughest times in my life. He's a selfless, laid-back kind of guy and he treats me better than most of the people in my life. When I first met...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I know he cares for me,

    but I really wish he'd love me like I love him. We would make such a great couple, but it just isn't meant to be... sucks balls... hurts as hell, seeing him with others. But having him in my life as a great friend is better than a life without him.
    mywastedlife mywastedlife 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2014

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    Suchhhh a long story!

    But my best friend and I have came to the conclusion that we are in love and we are soul mates! We absolutely love each other so deeply I can't even explain our love. Here's the catcher ( we are both straight females).. crazyyyyy right?? We both like men and have never even...
    TattedPrincess89 TattedPrincess89 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I Love My Best Friend.

    I honestly love her. She is perfect and beautiful and everything I could have ever wanted and more. She makes me laugh. She's silly and funny and just plain adorable. She has a killer smile and gorgeous eyes. She has a beautiful, quirky, adorable personality. I treasure every...
    Basketballer42 Basketballer42 16-17, F Sep 25, 2012

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    So I went to see him today

    and it made me so happy. I should have stayed longer then I did.... can't change that now though. I wish I was there now cuddled in his sweet embraced. He is the only one that makes me feel safe. I miss him so bad now . <3
    WolfOfDreams WolfOfDreams 22-25, F Feb 21

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    Am about to gradúate

    and never tell her that am madly in love with her , she is so beautiful funny my perfect girl but the worst thing is that she is straight and she will never love the same way i love her.
    paulina45 paulina45 22-25, F 6 Responses May 20, 2014

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    Friend Zone

    im stuck in the friend zone. ive known him since I was born. we grew up together. ive loved him as in love love for 2 yrs but ive never told him because I don't want our relationship to change. I love him like no other. I know im only 13 and I know, ohh ur too young you don't...
    TheRealMe99 TheRealMe99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2013

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    atomicbombastar atomicbombastar 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I am wide awake and I miss her.

    I keep thinking about holding her while we sleep. I know she's asleep right now and If I wake her she will kill me but damn I'd do anything just to here her tired zombie voice.
    RicanPenguin RicanPenguin 18-21, M Apr 5

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