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I Am In Love With My Cousin

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    I met my cousin for the first time two years ago

    and fell in love with him. I try to avoid him but I can't because I miss him so much. I want to be with him but I'm afraid all he thinks is that I would be a fling and that makes me nervous. It would be so much more to me. I'm married, was married 5 years ago. I don't have kids...
    purelife9 purelife9 26-30, F 8 Responses May 9

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    In Love With My Cousin

    My cousin and I have feeling for each other. We both know we can't be together. It hurts a lot. but we see each other when I go over to his house. My mom and dad are started to notice. They don't say anything. But I know. They are staying quiet well not really they tell the...
    Skye2215 Skye2215 16-17, F 5 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I love my COUSIN. :) i hope she will read this

    because i'm to afraid to tell her that and i'm not shore if she loves me that kind back. Lately i feel she is geting more and more intemesy with me. I hope she loves me romanticly back becaus i whant her as my girlfriend þand wife in the future. :) what can i do?
    skufur85 skufur85 26-30, M 5 Responses May 24

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    Me and my cousin have been in love

    for more than 7 years, his n my family do not like each other (their relationship is solely formal especially after they knew about out relationship), my family like him as a person though they don't like me to marry him and they were annoyed when they knew that, they wish me...
    behonestlolo behonestlolo 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    I am in love with my first cousin.

    I am a gay man (21) and he is a straight(?) man (24). We have known each other for over 18 years. I get these butterflies in my stomach when I am around him and I just have so much affection for him. He also turns me on like no one else on this Earth...I just want to ***** him...
    87minnows 87minnows 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 11

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    Sigh, Help

    I fell in love with my cousin (First). She's the daughter of my father's sister, she's 18, im 19. When we were kids we hated each other, but since we turned teenagers we've been talking, and getting along.What I'm getting at is that after about 6 years of us talking, I've...
    fml420 fml420 18-21, M 11 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    I Love My Best Friend, My Cousin.

    I’ve been reading posts on this site for a couple months now. It reassures me that I’m not alone in this situation; others are experiencing a love for their cousin like no other as well. I’ve been in love with my cousin ever since I was little. I didn’t just look forward...
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Recently I hv met my cousin again in a family

    union n we chat like how we used to be n had fun tgt. It was all normal until we open up to each other. I admit that I had a crush for him last yr but I thought it was just normal cousin love. But it's not true... We both know that we love each other so much and we always talk...
    catscrazy catscrazy 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    Love Of My Life

    Im now 40 years old and have never in my life loved in such a way like I do with my third cousin.  I met him when I was 9 yrs. old.  I remeber the connection that was instant!  We were inseperable.  He made me so insanely happy.  We had so much passion and love and...
    cupid40 cupid40 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2012

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    Love Of My Life

    My cousin and I have always had an irreplaceable connection. It all started when I was 14. My moms brother sent his son and daughter to spend the summer with us. My intermediate family lives on the east coast and all the rest of my family lives on the west coast. We never went...
    Simml847 Simml847 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    It Happens

    I fell in love with my cousin a long time ago. I was 18, she was 16. She lived in another state and rarely visited. I wrote her a letter once telling her how I felt, and her mom intercepted it and never gave it to her. For the next 25 years, I thought that she has gotten the...
    Onetruenutcase Onetruenutcase 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 31, 2012

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    I Still Can´t Believe It...

    Everything started when my cousin came to visit the family from Miami...I always liked him but I never told him a thing...when he came I acted normally but the days passed and we became  closer to each other and I felt like He was attracted to me too!!but I never said...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 1, 2008

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    One Last Night

    Hey everybody. I haven't been on in a while, but tonight I needed to write. The bottom line of this story is that I've sexted my cousin five times now (I NEVER sent pictures, we just used words), and we had "our last night" (as he put it) on Wednesday night. He's leaving for...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    Me and my cousin became close

    when we were younger and decided to make it a relationship, after a few years she got cold feet because she thought I was going to break up with her and freaked out, she now won't risk loosing her family an mostly is concerned with social stigma, her family by the way don't care...
    manlost manlost 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    There are 7 billion people in the world,

    surely it's bound to happen that the person who is meant for someone would turn out to be their cousin. I met my cousin several years ago and knew almost immediately that I loved him, and it growing and goring until I couldn't ignore it. I know you think that it's sick, that I'm...
    Schozophrenia Schozophrenia 22-25, F 6 Responses May 16

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    Heads Over Heels

    I am in love love love with my cousin Ben. We realized this summer that we both had feelings for each other beyond the scope of normal family 'love' and since then, it has been AMAZING!!! A little back story seems in order... Ben isn't really my cousin and by that I mean he was...
    AnnaBell143 AnnaBell143 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    I am 21 and have a daughter.

    I am currently in a relationship with female but I know we arent going to last. But the thing is I have grown up with my cousin, I remember growing up at family dinners at our grandmother's we were always never to be together alone because of one incident when we were 4&5 we...
    ndnlove ndnlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Open Letter For Closet Cousin Lovers and "Cousin Lover" Haters

    This letter is an open letter to everyone in regards to cousin couples. Before you say it is wrong or what your feeling is wrong, please read on. When we first start thinking about cousins in a relationship, we think society won't accept us, we hear horror stories of genetic...
    jeditaz jeditaz 41-45, M 7 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    I am in love with my cousin Dylan.

    He is perfect in every sense. Problem? He doesn't think that way about me. I think. He sends me mixed messages all the time. Sometimes, we can text for hours, then we won't text for months. He doesn't live in the same town, and he rarely texts or facebooks me. He called me the...
    MidnightDust817 MidnightDust817 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    We hit our year mark in February

    and it seems our love keeps getting stronger and stronger with time. The only problem (besides the obvious) is that now I'm starting to scare myself with thoughts of him leaving me in the future. I would completely accept it and let him go find someone or something better. I...
    HurtingLover HurtingLover 26-30, F 18 Responses May 17

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    Love My Cousin

    I have felt a close bond to my 2nd cousin since she was born. Our families are very close. I have watched her grow up and over the years my feelings of admiration and adoration developed into something more. I love this girl more than anyone else and I always will. No other girl...
    kanuxperience kanuxperience 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 18, 2013

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    Falling In Love With My Cousin

    I remember when my little cousin was born. We are all so excited for my Uncle and Aunt . When they brought her over to our grandmother's house for the first time, everyone was all excited to meet her. The first one of the cousins to hold her was my brother - he was the oldest at...
    jeditaz jeditaz 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 10, 2012

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    Why

    Why? That's what I've been asking myself for the last eighty-eight hours. I've been in love with my second cousin for 2 1/2 years now, and the only good thing left in our relationship is the sexting (no pictures, just words)... We had "our last night" on Wednesday night, and now...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    The girl who i have always been loving.

    It first started when i was in nursery.. 6 years young. By each day i arrive from school i would visit my grand parents house.. then i would see my grand father either playing majong or drinking with his friends and relatives, through those events some of my close cousins...
    ronxavier ronxavier 70+, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Were 3rd Cousins and Are In Love....

    erin and i are third cousins and are in love. we never really grew up around each other and would have not really known each other if it were not for older relatives. it started one night when we both happened to be at the same bar. she walked in and we saw each other. she came...
    weezer weezer 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    When me(17) and my cousin(15) we kids we had

    crushes on each other, but we didn't act on it cause we thought it was bad cause its what we were raised to believe. Then some time after i was forced away from her for 10 years. We still kept our crushes on each other within us. In winter of 2012, i finally get to hang out with...
    dyingwish dyingwish 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    So In Love

    Im in love with my first cousin. He's 19 and I'm 22. We've been going out for 6 1/2 years now. He's the best thing that has ever happened to me. We plan on moving out together soon. And then after moving out we want to get married. Im so excited to soon become his wife...
    sexyinpink08 sexyinpink08 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    I feel the need to write

    and post my story. I feel alone and unable to confine in any one individual. I've been in love with my cousin for seven years now. What started as admiration or maybe even a small infatuation at a young age turned into what is now love. Ever since I was 13, I was captivated by...
    Imaginarium99 Imaginarium99 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    So my cousin of 17 years old,

    let's call her Sarah. (not her name.) but, I'm 16 years old and my names.... Mike, That works. but I fell in love with her.. I don't know.. I've just always had the strongest attraction to her over every other girl I've been with. and I have no idea why. I love it though. just...
    mrclax1227 mrclax1227 16-17, M 3 Responses May 30

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    I fantasize about my younger cousin.

    Kissing her. ******* her. She's very attractive. And we aren't related by blood since I'm adopted. So if it happened I'm not sure it would be bad.
    Shenron88 Shenron88 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Relieved

    First I want to say That I'm happy to find people like me. My story outline ... When I was 15 I met a cousin on my fathers side for the first time (I don't talk to my father or his family). We talked and hung out n got to know each other and realized we are alike in many ways. A...
    MyCousinMyBD MyCousinMyBD 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    In Love With My Cousin

    My second cousin (mother side) recently committed suicide, to be exact it was in October 2013. We live in Europe, so my mother tongue isn't English, sorry if I make some mistakes while typing away. Anyways, for the funeral the whole family around the country I live in, were all...
    confusingemotions confusingemotions 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Another Summer With Him

    This year Tyler came to my house for a week to go fishing and as soon as i saw him at the airport i knew i had to kiss him again. So we were taking a nap after we went golfing and i held his hand just as i had done the previous year but my brothers were in there so thats all i...
    southernlove96 southernlove96 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Wow this is crazy. Like

    where do I start? Idk because it's just a long story, happening over a year today. We aren't first cousins, more distant cousins if anything. I been fell in love with him and it saddens me that he knows and doesn't reciprocate them as well. I often cry about this. Especially...
    BayouBeauty09 BayouBeauty09 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    He's so perfect and just the right type I'm

    looking for but of course there's a problem. He's older than me by 5 years and he has a gf but he's cheating on her with another girl. The most I got with him was a hug and a kiss cause for us it's normal to give a kiss on the cheek when we meet and we kind missed the cheek and...
    MerpR MerpR 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    I've posted one other story on this topic,

    but I need to write another. I apologize for how lengthy this may be. A little background: I am a guy, and she is a girl. We are second cousins, and are NOT related by blood in any way. Just by one of my parents being adopted into her family. We see each other about 2 times a...
    7Questions 7Questions 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Soul Mate

    I think I have always loved my cousin. he is a few years older than me and our families had a lot to do with each other always. As a girl I looked up to him .. I thought he was wonderful, kind and caring. When his daughter was born we had this awesome talk, and I remember it...
    crrazyang67 crrazyang67 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    Bloodline Rebellion

    I met him at my family reunion. I've always been very separated from this side of the family and decided only the morning of the reunion that I'd face the music and attend. Best decision of my life. I remember seeing him for the first time and thinking "Thank goodness I didn't...
    Waikapu11 Waikapu11 22-25 1 Response Oct 11, 2013

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    I don't know exactly how it started between me

    and my cousin, but i know i initiated the whole thing between us. It probably started as a game, you know like rough housing, but I do know that one day it ended with me on my knees. Now every weekend I go over his house and spend the night and we have S E X without our family...
    sethjackson2015 sethjackson2015 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Anyone in this situation

    and worried about it? You are not alone, and you are not twisted or sick. See http://www.cousincouples.com/ You will find that, for the most part, you can marry, have kids, and live happily ever after.
    Onetruenutcase Onetruenutcase 51-55, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    I honestly think I may be falling in love with

    my cousin. Her name is Kari and we've known each other since we were kids pretty much. She's my second cousin. So this is the story.... We never really talked when we were kids but as soon as we were 16, we started bonding and having a cool relationship, like friends. Over the...
    joshyboy91 joshyboy91 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 29

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    Him and I have been talking

    for a little bit now and the bad thing about it is he's married andthey have a baby together. He married her because she was pregnant and he felt that was the right thing to do. Growing up him and I had a close bond we are a year apart, from all our other cousins we were kind of...
    ndnlove ndnlove 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    My Second Cousin, My First Love

    Sorry in advance because it's quite lengthy..but I want to share the story so you can get the background. I met my second cousin for the first time during my senior year in high school. My parents just had the ugliest divorce after being married for 18 years. After all the...
    serenadawson serenadawson 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Well where to start. Guess is all began over 2

    years ago when my first cousin and i started talking. He was going through a very messy divorce and i just wanted to be there for him because i have been through one myself. We have known eachother our whole lives. Even though we were away from eachother most of our 20s. But we...
    markandme markandme 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    The last part (I believe) i hope

    this is real and for good. after almost 3 years, i think i'm emerging from the heartbreak i've felt from my cousin. I believe that after those days of tears and hurt and bullying from him (at least indirectly) i feel it's beginning to subside and not pierces me as painfully as...
    spencer2129 spencer2129 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    So Wrong

    I'm 20 and my cousin has only just turned 13. One night I was baby sitting him and he basically ******** naked in front of me offering him self, i wanted to do him so bad but couldn't - not because we're related but because he only just turned 13 so we got into his bed together...
    xRimsayx xRimsayx 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I fell in love with my cousin since I was 8 and she was 7 at the time. We didn't know we were cousins at the time. We met when I visited Korea with my mom because she was home...
    foronelove foronelove 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    My cousin and I have been in love for our entire life, We are both in our fifties now. we are best friends. We talk as often as we can. We do not cheat. But, now we want to...
    jacanddi jacanddi 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I'm 13 and i'm in love with my cousin. I am most likely sure she's my 2nd cousin so that might make a difference. She doesn't want to ruin our good cousin bond and everything but...
    smaemura smaemura 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    I love baby cousin oh so much :) she wouldn't share her slushie
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 Jul 7

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    I am in love with my cousin. I admit it. It's not infatuation. Word cannot describe my feelings for her! Idk why and how this all happened. I want to be with her but I'm scared to...
    mateo213 mateo213 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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