I Am In Love With My Cousin

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 617 People


    First I want to say That I'm happy to find people like me. My story outline ... When I was 15 I met a cousin on my fathers side for the first time (I don't talk to my father or his family). We talked and hung out n got to know each other and realized we are alike in many ways. A...
    MyCousinMyBD MyCousinMyBD
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    so like, im 15 and im pretty positive some

    adults might see this as like a dumb "kiddy relationship" but like honestly doesn't feel like it. Ive had relationships in the past that never felt real, and never felt like it was suppose to go any farther then what they were. but the relationship I'm in now means everything to...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    Some great news! After a few months of finally

    being together as a couple, we were cornered by my brother and his wife on if we were a couple or not. Even though we planned on telling them in our time, we were not prepared for an ambush, so we both stood there and just sort of stammered, to which they both said "I knew it...
    jeditaz jeditaz
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    Hey, okay. Well I'm not sure

    if I'm in love with him or not so I'm confused. But to start off, ever since I was young, I've gotten along with my first cousin very well. He's a year older than me and currently 17 years old (while I'm 16) and we have a different relationship than normal older cousins. I guess...
    thatxx65 thatxx65
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    Since my last post about my relationship with

    my first cousin, I sold my home and moved nearly 1000 miles to be with him. He left his place of residence (about a two hour drive) and now lives around the corner from me so we can be with each other as often as we can. We are making plans to secure our future together as...
    tapka tapka
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2015

    So Wrong

    I'm 20 and my cousin has only just turned 13. One night I was baby sitting him and he basically ******** naked in front of me offering him self, i wanted to do him so bad but couldn't - not because we're related but because he only just turned 13 so we got into his bed together...
    xRimsayx xRimsayx
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2013


    Why? That's what I've been asking myself for the last eighty-eight hours. I've been in love with my second cousin for 2 1/2 years now, and the only good thing left in our relationship is the sexting (no pictures, just words)... We had "our last night" on Wednesday night, and now...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2013

    I am supposed to go home

    but my cousin arrived from japan and i'm doubtful to show up. We are family and we had a past its quite difficult not to run into each other. Because he staying at our house in the city, i am indecisive to go home.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2015

    Falling In Love With My Cousin

    I remember when my little cousin was born. We are all so excited for my Uncle and Aunt . When they brought her over to our grandmother's house for the first time, everyone was all excited to meet her. The first one of the cousins to hold her was my brother - he was the oldest at...
    jeditaz jeditaz
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2012

    Love Of My Life

    My cousin and I have always had an irreplaceable connection. It all started when I was 14. My moms brother sent his son and daughter to spend the summer with us. My intermediate family lives on the east coast and all the rest of my family lives on the west coast. We never went...
    Simml847 Simml847
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2013

    Any,suggestions on the best way to tell your

    children about you being in a relationship with your cousin?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    We have strong feelings toward each other.

    Happy, no arguments. One day he met someone. He felt confused and said that i should forget the more-than-cousins moments. It is heartbreaking and angry for hurting me.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    I am 20, 21 in a couple of months,

    he is 26. When he went on a work trip to Malta with my dad I tagged along because I'd never been abroad. We were there for 10 days. I was already with my other cousin who is on the other side to him but assumed he didn't know because we told everyone he was blood related (didn't...
    Lovelyheartx Lovelyheartx
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    So we have broken up cause he wants to be with

    his daughter 24/7. The problem is he is trying to make me out to be the bad guy. He will call or text an act like it's my fault we aren't together. I have done everything he wanted. He didn't want me calling or texting or giving his baby mom any reason to think he even thinks...
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2016

    When me(17) and my cousin(15) were kids we had

    crushes on each other, but we didn't act on it cause we thought it was bad cause its what we were raised to believe. Then some time after i was forced away from her for 10 years. We still kept our crushes on each other within us. In winter of 2012, i finally get to hang out with...
    dyingwish dyingwish
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    I don't know exactly how it started between me

    and my cousin, but i know i initiated the whole thing between us. It probably started as a game, you know like rough housing, but I do know that one day it ended with me on my knees. Now every weekend I go over his house and spend the night and we have S E X without our family...
    sethjackson2015 sethjackson2015
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014
    beer2014 beer2014
    26-30, M
    Mar 26, 2016

    I've never had a connection like I do with him.

    He's amazing and we have been together for 3 months now. Our family is kind of suspicious but we have decided not to say anything until we have a stable home. I love him more and more with each passing day. I am absolutely terrified of my family finding out. My sister knows and...
    Meadowruelover Meadowruelover
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    I know most of y'all are gonna think I'm Nasty

    but I'm 16 and I love my cousin . I don't look at him as a cousin I look as him someone I love and want to have a relationship with him
    noteller noteller
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    I adore him like no other.

    why? why do I feel this way. is something wrong with me? he tells me it's him. everything is wrong with him. but how does he see us being related as a big deal when I don't? sometimes he calls me his girl. I think he wants to protect me. I'm fragile, you see. he wants to protect...
    crisseo crisseo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    Open Letter For Closet Cousin Lovers and "Cousin Lover" Haters

    This letter is an open letter to everyone in regards to cousin couples. Before you say it is wrong or what your feeling is wrong, please read on. When we first start thinking about cousins in a relationship, we think society won't accept us, we hear horror stories of genetic...
    jeditaz jeditaz
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Nov 20, 2012

    As I write this he is asleep in his bed,

    and me in the same room as him as this is where we keep the computer. I will tell you how it started: January of this past year I was a nanny for someone who was not paying me, so he (living with who I presumed his gf at the time) offered to help me out and let me move in...
    crisseo crisseo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Soul Mate

    I think I have always loved my cousin. he is a few years older than me and our families had a lot to do with each other always. As a girl I looked up to him .. I thought he was wonderful, kind and caring. When his daughter was born we had this awesome talk, and I remember it...
    crrazyang67 crrazyang67
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Apr 28, 2013

    Those of you that got lucky

    and get to spend your time and life with them. Stay strong and love them don't let anyone put doubt into either of your heads. it's your love between you and your partner, no one else's. I've spent a decade of my life without the one I love and only got a month to spend with her...
    dyingwish dyingwish
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 26, 2015

    This is a long story

    that goes back over 30 years. I realized I loved my cousin when I was about 14, I never told him or acted on my feelings. We were always very close and loved spending time together, I felt like he had feelings for me also but we only remained best of friends. Several years later...
    Sadeyes69 Sadeyes69
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2016

    Has anyone married their cousin?

    How is it? Did your family and friends come? Are their children involved?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2015

    I still want him , despite the cruel words he

    says to me. I just want to lie in his arms . I want to be in bed with him . I want to lock lips with him . I just feel that we don't need to talk but our bodies can express how they feel. Why does he have to be so far?
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    Who you fall for isn't entirely up to you.

    It's up to your heart. I met him when I was 13, I went to visit my gramma in Ecuador from my moms side then we went to visit my aunt her husband and her 3 kids. I stayed in their home for a month and got to know Daniel he was always fun and I remember always thinking about him...
    beautifulbud beautifulbud
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    Well this is an update on my experience .

    After my cousin cut me off I contacted him again , once again through text . He replied to me like nothing had happened and after a while he brought up some stuff about religion and I said that he shouldn't be thanking a supernatural being for his own capabilities . He got...
    SoleExecutioner SoleExecutioner
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    He told me he wants to sleep with me (again.

    ........for like the third time), but says he's worried about the morality of it all. Then he tells me he's not scared. Now he won't call me, text me anymore since I said I would. As long as I resisted, all was well. As soon as I decided to give in..........he gets quiet. What...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2016

    I'm new to this site

    and it would be great to Beable to talk to someone who's in the same situation I am , me and my cousin have been in a relationship for the past 6 years and love eachother very much, if you care to share stories let me know !
    bella3892 bella3892
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    We've been together for three years now

    and I'm beginning to grow tired and fed up with hiding and living a double life of being in a secret relationship. In the earlier years I would dream of the day we would come out and let everyone know about us instead of the few that I confided in. But now the longer and longer...
    HurtingLover HurtingLover
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    We could not be any more perfect

    for each other, and we both know that. He is my rock, the one person I can count on for anything at anytime, anywhere. He fell in love with me despite seeing me at my very worst in life. He's the first person to look past my flaws and love me for who I am. I'm excited and so, so...
    lovelyLittle08 lovelyLittle08
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    So I went to a see my family

    and i fell in love with this boy and he then turned out to be my 3rd cousin and we kissed and looked deep into my eyes for a long time and he said he loved me and i do not ever get to see him its been 3 days since i saw him and i cry and have went into deep depression of not...
    kaiseop08 kaiseop08
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Ok so i have been attracted to my cousin

    since i was like around 10 he has to be at least 6 years older then me but everytime he was around i would blush & flirt i admit at first it was just lust i really wanted him hes so perfect in my eyes . Im am 19 Now & hes around 25-26 & i finally told him how i felt he was...
    godessd godessd
    22-25, F
    25 Responses Jan 13, 2015

    He left to go back to his home today.

    . currently heartbroken. How can you make long distance work?
    sundaZe127 sundaZe127
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I feel the need to write

    and post my story. I feel alone and unable to confine in any one individual. I've been in love with my cousin for seven years now. What started as admiration or maybe even a small infatuation at a young age turned into what is now love. Ever since I was 13, I was captivated by...
    Imaginarium99 Imaginarium99
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    My cousinā¤ he is not my first cousin

    but yes i cant technically fall in love with a person who is a part of my family we first met when i was of 12. I never had any feeling for him but then we met again after 5 years i was a young and turned attractive and he turned handsome. We met at my first cousin's place and...
    unicornpurple unicornpurple
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2015

    So I never knew I had a boy cousin

    until I came to united states and I met him and we where around 14or15 and I was 8or9 and we never talked and I did not really know much about him one afternoon it was brothers birthday and we kissed for the first time,it felt weird.My mom almost catch us and we never kissed...
    wzuluetaa wzuluetaa
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2014

    I am completely in love with my cousin I always

    thought that I was the only one till I found this page me and my cousin had never really talked much growing up there was a lot of family issues and people didn't get along but I always have had a crush on him and this past year we've gotten super close and we started flirting...
    oilchick1488 oilchick1488
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    It all started as teasing around

    until we actually got to intimacy. Now I started to develop feeling for him. I noticed him being a little different and we didn't have sex. Until yesterday I told him that we should try to give us some space because I actually care about him. And he just kept silent and I asked...
    QueenElla QueenElla
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2015

    One Last Night

    Hey everybody. I haven't been on in a while, but tonight I needed to write. The bottom line of this story is that I've sexted my cousin five times now (I NEVER sent pictures, we just used words), and we had "our last night" (as he put it) on Wednesday night. He's leaving for...
    BroadwayDreamer16 BroadwayDreamer16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2013

    In Love With My Cousin

    My cousin and I have feeling for each other. We both know we can't be together. It hurts a lot. but we see each other when I go over to his house. My mom and dad are started to notice. They don't say anything. But I know. They are staying quiet well not really they tell the...
    Skye2215 Skye2215
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    We hit our year mark in February

    and it seems our love keeps getting stronger and stronger with time. The only problem (besides the obvious) is that now I'm starting to scare myself with thoughts of him leaving me in the future. I would completely accept it and let him go find someone or something better. I...
    HurtingLover HurtingLover
    26-30, F
    13 Responses May 17, 2014

    My crush on my cousin started 30 yrs ago.

    He is my mothers 1st cousin but close to my age. It started with peck kisses as small children that everyone thought was cute. When I was 11 and he was 13 he gave me my first French kiss. First time we had sex was at 15 and then again in college. He got married a year after our...
    4everHeart 4everHeart
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2016

    Apologies this may already have loaded at a

    different section or a reply to someone else's experience, but I feel I need to share my experience and get your feedback. I was naturally very close to my relatives extremely close to my older female cousin. When we were young we used to play families and it was then she...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 6, 2015

    Another Summer With Him

    This year Tyler came to my house for a week to go fishing and as soon as i saw him at the airport i knew i had to kiss him again. So we were taking a nap after we went golfing and i held his hand just as i had done the previous year but my brothers were in there so thats all i...
    southernlove96 southernlove96
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    So we started telling people close to us,

    that we are together. Some found out in a way we didn't want and the situation got handled wrong. My question is if your family starts shouting threats can you actually fault your partner and threaten to leave them if anything happens?
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    Hello everyone. I am an Associate Producer at

    a television production company based in California. I am currently working on a powerful new documentary series in an effort to educate viewers and challenge prejudices by following cousins in strong, loving relationships. We truly hope that our evocative series will help...
    24development 24development
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    My cousin and i saw each other

    as adults for the first time at a family event. When I saw him, I thought oh he is cute. But I was a little cautious because I don't have trusting thoughts when it comes to family. From the first real conversation we had I was smitten with him. He was different, I thought it was...
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    It Happens

    I fell in love with my cousin a long time ago. I was 18, she was 16. She lived in another state and rarely visited. I wrote her a letter once telling her how I felt, and her mom intercepted it and never gave it to her. For the next 25 years, I thought that she has gotten the...
    Onetruenutcase Onetruenutcase
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Dec 31, 2012

    I used to **** my cousin.

    We f*ckef with my family in the room
    Emmalee410 Emmalee410
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Feb 25, 2015

    I can't sleep at the moment with these feelings

    inside me... knowing that I miss her heaps in this silence and cannot speak to her. Any advice please. Story: I went back to my home country a few months ago. I met a relative which I know of but never ever hang around with in my whole life. I couldn't even recognised her when...
    conmeo0907 conmeo0907
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Jun 13, 2015

    i think about her every day.

    I dont even look at other girls when they walk by i dont even talk to them the other boys in my class are always asking me why i never show any interest in girls and some are even saying that i am gay or something but the truth is i have absolutely no interest in those other...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    This experience in my life has led me to really

    think about love. It all started in the summer of 2014 when I helped my cousin (let's call her Amy) move out of her old house. At that time, I was 18 and she was 21. I had never seen her as more than as just my cousin before then. I'm not sure what it was, but after that day we...
    owf684 owf684
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    My male cousin and I spent a lot of time

    together growing up before I went away. We never did anything (no inappropriate touching, kissing, etc.) but there always seemed to be something more to us, some chemistry. He is the oldest male cousin in our family, and we are the same age. I spent a significant amount of time...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 10, 2016
    pepsicolalove pepsicolalove
    36-40, F
    Feb 15, 2016
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