I Am In Love With My Coworker

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 235 People

    I met my coworker about a year ago

    when I moved to this department. We have lunch together and find ways to spend time with each other even though I don't work in the office very often. I am very attracted to her and we have many similar interests. I am married and have not made any serious advances but I always...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    He is married and doesn't know how I feel.

    He is 15 years older than I am and we are of the same faith and ethnic origin. We used to talk at work everyday because he sat right behind me. One time he joked and asked if I am engaged yet..I jokingly said yes. He said "but I haven't made a decision yet." (To get engaged with...
    Peaceful4 Peaceful4
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    Looking Forward To Mondays!!!

    Who in their right mind looks forward to Mondays? I do. Why? Because I get to spend time with and see my best friend...the man I have fallen in love with over the past year. The weekends have become very difficult for me. I let my mind wonder what he is thinking and doing...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2013

    I Am Completely In Love With My Coworker

    I have been working with my coworker for 8 years now. I have always liked her but didn't want to ruin our great working relationship which is completely abnormal. She is 46 and I am 47. We are both single and have never been married. Were are always together at work when we don't...
    darrentown darrentown
    51-55, M
    7 Responses Mar 11, 2013

    Well where can I start.

    I have to say that this has gotten me totally by surprise. I started working with this girl about 4.5 months ago. She has been married for a little over 1 year now and seems to be happily married. As often co-workers do we started to get to know each other better, no romantic...
    luismiguel1980 luismiguel1980
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2014
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 16, 2014

    Okay, here's the story: I have a very strong

    crush - I will not call it love - on my male employee. I am a manager at a place and he is one of my staff members. This should send red flags but to be honest I don't really care about my companies "anti-fraternization" policy, so we're good there. That's not the issue. I am 3...
    HunterOfTheRings HunterOfTheRings
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    I am crazy about my coworker .

    .. A completely impossible situation - we live in different countries just to start with ... He's the dream ... The guy that I have lusted for since I can remember .... He's like my Rhett Butler but he'll never make a move ... I don't even think he digs me .... What a silly...
    scarlett1974 scarlett1974
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    I think he is interested in me too

    but I keep second guessing myself. He will make special trips to my office, he touches my arm almost every time I see him ( he never touches anyone else). But there are some days he completely ignores me and that has me very confused. If I approach him and he isn't interested...
    cmorlove cmorlove
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Aug 9, 2014

    This is gonna be a long one.

    My coworker and I are best friends. We tell each other everything. Seriously, I have never acted like this to anyone in my life. Well on Easter she came over and just sparks happened. We ended up kissing and touching a lot. No sex or anything because I actually felt something...
    rynsctt60 rynsctt60
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 8, 2014

    I'M In Love With A Younger Coworker

    I am obsessively attracted to a younger coworker of mine. She's 20 I'm 30 and married. It started out innocently enough talking flirting , hanging out after work or drinks etc. it recently has led to strong flirting and suggestive talk. I'm so attracted to her it's like almost a...
    Duran386 Duran386
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2013

    Great news I got a text from her asking how my

    weekend is going? Made my whole weekend! Now can go and watch baseball game and feel better then have in 40+ years. Smiling ear to ears...
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 18, 2014

    I Am In Love With My Coworker. But He Seems to Avoid Close to Me Now ..

    I think I am in love with a colleague who sits just behind me in the office. But I don't know what he feels. That makes me feel so sad everyday. Being so close but feeling so far away makes me suffer and sad.  Does he like me? Can we end up to a...
    clare2009 clare2009
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2009

    I felt in love with her on day one

    since she joined the team. I gave it some time since it could've been just a crush but it didn't go away. We've worked together quite closely and she's been absolutely amazing. We got to know each other over time and my feelings got more serious. Issues - we're both currently...
    nopeandnope nopeandnope
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    The first time I ever laid eyes on K.

    L.Y. was at work. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. She has brown hair dyed blonde, beautiful green eyes, is very tall (5'9), and has an amazing body. She's someone completely out of my league. We would talk on a daily basis about anything and everything. I fell...
    hockeyfanm13 hockeyfanm13
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    I Have Too Become Smitten "big Time" With My Co-worker

    Okay, the bottom line with this situation is I was unemployed from my job in the legal field for six months before I applied for a position within the casino world.  I got hired in the security department, went to orientation, started work on the graveyard shift and was assigned...
    crazy4dave crazy4dave
    1 Response May 18, 2012

    Hi Everyone. Will try to be

    as brief as possible: I`m married 28yo (no kids), he`s single 32yo, 6 months working together, sexual tension between us is insane from day 1, we even struggle to communicate with each other like normal people. We had sex once in the beginning (I made the first step), it was...
    renatakubiliote renatakubiliote
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 5, 2014

    I dont even know where to begin.

    . She half white half black so her complexion is perfect. She's got them pretty brown eyes and a beautiful smile. She has two kids and they are just as sweet as she is. She seems perfect right..? Well she is except Im pretty sure she is straight.. This is my first girl crush that...
    Bree93 Bree93
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Love Or Crush??

    Not sure where to begin but here goes, both of us have been working for the same company for more then 5 years, and in the past year we both have become single. We both work in close together and see each other and talk to each other on a daily basis.  Of course we are...
    yahsaf yahsaf
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2010

    We are planning on going

    for lunch together and for a walk as well! Thank you again all for support and advice
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 22, 2014

    it's a crazy tale. i'm not exactly gay

    but I have a same sex lover and im in a perfectly good relationship with my partner. we are happy. really happy. my partner gets along really well with this coworker of mine. in fact, the three of us hang out pretty often, together with my friends and his friends. my coworker...
    dahliaxx dahliaxx
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    I feel so nervous about my feelings about

    fellow worker. She is shy like me but we sit across from each other in building. I feel like I'm a kid again with her. We check in at work almost same time each day and I loom forward to the 2-3 minute talk we get when we check in and check out. Is it me or not sure what to do...
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    3 Responses May 15, 2014

    Sick To My Stomach

    I have been working with this woman friend for three years now and have fallen madly in love with her.  I am married and she is devorced.  it is to the point that when she dates I feel very sick inside and want to crawl under a rock and die.  we are actually best...
    xpraider xpraider
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2009

    So, here goes it... I started working at a new

    place about a month ago. Right away my coworker and I hit it off very well. We share the same work space, bounce ideas off of each other, listen to music together, share about each other's lives, etc. I noticed that he's more affectionate toward me than toward other people (he...
    willgethru willgethru
    26-30, F
    Nov 27, 2015

    Totally Crazy About Coworker

    I met this wonderful man 3 1/2 years ago when he joined our staff. We became casual acquaintances and then friends (we don't share many projects). We went out for drinks one night while out of town at a conference and from there shared lunch and finally dinner and a movie one...
    agentfce agentfce
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2007

    I started working at this company 2 years ago.

    This female coworker had joined a few weeks prior. When I met her I discovered an average looking girl (she's now 30, as I'll soon be) with beautiful green eyes. She brightens up any room. She's fun, funny, loud, hardworking, quick and smart. Everyone can tell the difference...
    indeeptrouble indeeptrouble
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2014

    He is married and doesn't know how I feel.

    He is 15 years older than I am and we are of the same faith and ethnic origin. We used to talk at work everyday because he sat right behind me. One time he joked and asked if I am engaged yet..I jokingly said yes. He said "but I haven't made a decision yet." (To get engaged with...
    Peaceful4 Peaceful4
    Jun 26, 2014

    I have a coworker that likes to flirt,

    not just with me, but with most women. And I know that he does it because he's good looking and it makes us all feel good. But over the past couple of months, he's been spending more time in my office (he works in another building but sometimes just shows up). I asked him to go...
    hidinglove hidinglove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    We're Both In Love..

    I never thought he would fall in love with me.. He was just a fantasy that I thought would never come true. Till we started texting and hanging out. Got to know him more and more. To were we fell in love with each other. Broke up with my long distance bf because of him. I was in...
    MyCoNfUsEdHeArT MyCoNfUsEdHeArT
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2013

    I Don't Know What Is Wrong With Me.

      This is a really strange story. I honestly think I am crazy, and I have tried so hard to pretend like everything okay but unfortunately it is not. I have started working at this company about three years ago, and I met this coworker he was nice and I thought nothing special of...
    nicolinajones nicolinajones
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2011

    Things going smooth, just been texting back

    and forth and cannot wait to see her Monday :)
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 25, 2014
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 16, 2014

    I Was Blind Before I Met Him

    We started talking only six months ago. I had been working there for a while, but I am shy and tend to just keep to myself. I knew how special he was from the time we had our first conversation around the water cooler. I could feel it before it even happened. It was like watching...
    mellifluouswhite mellifluouswhite
    May 16, 2011

    Or atleast thats what i think.

    Cant get her out of my mind. But the thing is she's 100% not gay, our personality clash. I tried to be close to her, but i felt like shes avoiding me.
    catehere catehere
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    I am looking for advice here

    because I fell in love with my co-worker. We work together in side by side offices in a sales team. We worked together for over 2 years but only within the last couple months my feelings escalated. I do remember the 1st time we met in the office and did like her but didn't...
    ziggijaz ziggijaz
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    He Lighten Up My Day When I See Him...

    Some days i wish u could take a lot back just to be with you just for one day, you make my day be full of joy and happiness, when I'm around you i keep a smile on my face...thanks for the talks and the laughs that you have gave me...
    boo86 boo86
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2012

    Friends First

    Recently I have falling in love with my coworker. Although we work on separate shifts I can't stop thinking about her. A few weeks ago we went out with a small group of people for drinks. During the night she informed me that she had split for good from her husband(second time...
    guitar68 guitar68
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2012

    I Think I Am In Love With My Co-worker

     I have been working at the same place for about two years, This guy has been working there for about a year, we have become great friends over that time and we constantly flirt at work. He dated my friend that worked with us before that, i know its not a good thing to...
    Sarbear2279 Sarbear2279
    7 Responses Mar 13, 2009

    I'm Falling For Him

    It's a cliche really, as it all started as plain platonic buddy buddy relationship.  I was the one he ran to when he had relationship problems, he was my comforter whenever I was in pain, then I just simply woke up one day and realized that I was falling for him.  I would never...
    iassec iassec
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

    You know, there is a term in my workplace

    `office husband '. Whereby married chicks will have a second husband at workplace. First it started off as a method to provide emotional support among colleagues that face problems in work. Initially it was innocuous. But some of the dudes managed to get lucky as their...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 18, 2015

    I'm attracted to my coworker.

    There are some days where i think he feels the same. I want to tell him how I feel... But I'm a married woman. Ugh! I don't know what to do.
    seatotheweed seatotheweed
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2015

    I started at my current work place around a year

    and four months ago. After two weeks of work, I was sent upstairs to a different department. I'm in manufacturing, so mostly I do shift work and I hated the constant rotation cycles so I applied for steady nights (it was the only steady option available). That's when I first met...
    murdoc2k murdoc2k
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2014

    Chemistry Is A Tricky Bastard

    Ever since I started at this new job at a small family-owned restaurant, I have been crazy for this guy I work with.  Sure he doesn't really fit the bill for a successful guy, but the chemistry I feel is undeniable.  It's like that feeling that seems like everyone else would...
    diordiva025 diordiva025
    1 Response Jun 2, 2012

    Im glad there is a forum like this

    that you can exchange stories like this. I wasn't aware that there were so many people in the same situation. I am in my mid 50's and in a 10 year relationship. I love my girl friend but to say our relationship has been an emotional roller coaster is an understatement. I have...
    Gator50 Gator50
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 31, 2014

    I was curious to ask other people here a

    question. After getting the text from the co-worker I want so bad . Have any of you text them and things got heated. I'm just taking it day by day but just happy it's her texting me more and more. For two adults in our late 40's but feel like two teenagers
    Quietoldman Quietoldman
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 20, 2014

    Does anyone has experience with "breaking up"

    with a coworker? How did it go? What happened after? Did you keep the job or left? I dont want to leave my job, its well paid and I love it and need to support my little one. Any ideas how survive at work?
    symyqy symyqy
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2014

    I a married man ,first met her

    when she interviewed me for the new job .She was the last interviewer on a grueling day .She asked me a lot of questions with a smile .Then asked me if I wanted coffee .I happily agreed .I felt a connection with her even then . 2 months later I joined .Attended training the...
    woodooman woodooman
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2014
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