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I Am In Love With My Coworker

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    I Was Blind Before I Met Him

    We started talking only six months ago. I had been working there for a while, but I am shy and tend to just keep to myself. I knew how special he was from the time we had our first conversation around the water cooler. I could feel it before it even happened. It was like watching...
    mellifluouswhite mellifluouswhite 26-30 May 16, 2011

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    I Am Completely In Love With My Coworker

    I have been working with my coworker for 8 years now. I have always liked her but didn't want to ruin our great working relationship which is completely abnormal. She is 46 and I am 47. We are both single and have never been married. Were are always together at work when we don't...
    darrentown darrentown 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Does anyone has experience with "breaking up"

    with a coworker? How did it go? What happened after? Did you keep the job or left? I dont want to leave my job, its well paid and I love it and need to support my little one. Any ideas how survive at work?
    symyqy symyqy 36-40 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I started working at this company 2 years ago.

    This female coworker had joined a few weeks prior. When I met her I discovered an average looking girl (she's now 30, as I'll soon be) with beautiful green eyes. She brightens up any room. She's fun, funny, loud, hardworking, quick and smart. Everyone can tell the difference...
    indeeptrouble indeeptrouble 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    He Lighten Up My Day When I See Him...

    Some days i wish u could take a lot back just to be with you just for one day, you make my day be full of joy and happiness, when I'm around you i keep a smile on my face...thanks for the talks and the laughs that you have gave me...
    boo86 boo86 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2012

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    Chemistry Is A Tricky Bastard

    Ever since I started at this new job at a small family-owned restaurant, I have been crazy for this guy I work with.  Sure he doesn't really fit the bill for a successful guy, but the chemistry I feel is undeniable.  It's like that feeling that seems like everyone else would...
    diordiva025 diordiva025 22-25 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Im glad there is a forum like this

    that you can exchange stories like this. I wasn't aware that there were so many people in the same situation. I am in my mid 50's and in a 10 year relationship. I love my girl friend but to say our relationship has been an emotional roller coaster is an understatement. I have...
    Gator50 Gator50 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Totally Crazy About Coworker

    I met this wonderful man 3 1/2 years ago when he joined our staff. We became casual acquaintances and then friends (we don't share many projects). We went out for drinks one night while out of town at a conference and from there shared lunch and finally dinner and a movie one...
    agentfce agentfce 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 8, 2007

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    I'm Falling For Him

    It's a cliche really, as it all started as plain platonic buddy buddy relationship.  I was the one he ran to when he had relationship problems, he was my comforter whenever I was in pain, then I just simply woke up one day and realized that I was falling for him.  I would never...
    iassec iassec 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Started a New Job This Year

     I started at a new company this year in Florida and after learning the ropes, so to speak, I really started to notice one of my co-workers.  She is a really wonderful person, very vibrant and alive, with a great body and looks.  My marriage has been in trouble for...
    westcoastflguy westcoastflguy 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 2, 2009

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    Completely, Hoplessly In Love With My Married Coworker

    I guess I'm writing this story in hopes to try to validate the way I feel about her. I would also love any helpful advice, or any answers to some of my biggest questions about her. To start with I will say that I've never mentioned the feelings I have for this wonderful...
    confusedM33 confusedM33 31-35, M 25 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    It's Official... I Want You And I Won't Say I Love You!

    [Note: this get's a bit PG -13 ish] I also wrote this as an confession too. Yes, he is a co-worker of mine but also kind of a boss too. I dreamed about you... Therefore its official. I think about you enough already (despite it being only three months since I met you) for my...
    TheVoicelessMelody18 TheVoicelessMelody18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2011

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    Coworker

    Not really!  I'm not the one who has a crush or love my coworker.  A coworker was in love with me and everyone knew it at work.  I liked him as a friend.  My husband know's about him too. He has told me many times, he wanted to leave his chick for the reason I won't state...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jul 5, 2011

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    I Have Too Become Smitten "big Time" With My Co-worker

    Okay, the bottom line with this situation is I was unemployed from my job in the legal field for six months before I applied for a position within the casino world.  I got hired in the security department, went to orientation, started work on the graveyard shift and was assigned...
    crazy4dave crazy4dave 46-50 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    He's So Damn Hot

    I'm 24 and recently started a new job. I have a fiancé whom I thought I was deeply in love with but lately I've had some strong feelings for a coworker. He's 10 years older, married and has a newborn. It sounds so awful but we're both so into each other. All we do is fight with...
    CandiceeMariee CandiceeMariee 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    I Don't Know What Is Wrong With Me.

      This is a really strange story. I honestly think I am crazy, and I have tried so hard to pretend like everything okay but unfortunately it is not. I have started working at this company about three years ago, and I met this coworker he was nice and I thought nothing special of...
    nicolinajones nicolinajones 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2011

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    Yes, I Am Crazy About Him.

    I am a young university student, and i am currently doing my postgraduate studies (bear with me, English is not my first language). I also work part time at school, and that's where i met him (lets call him X). Well, i first saw X in my first year of college (2009), and had...
    letlaka letlaka 22-25 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    I Dont Know What To Do...

    Okay i know i will be judged, but i am a 14 year old girl and i work at a haunted house/hayride/maze and i work with this really cute guy. the only problem is that he is 21 and that's obviously too old for me to date... but i really like him. he is super nice, kind, smart, and...
    thisisabadname thisisabadname 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2013

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    Sick To My Stomach

    I have been working with this woman friend for three years now and have fallen madly in love with her.  I am married and she is devorced.  it is to the point that when she dates I feel very sick inside and want to crawl under a rock and die.  we are actually best...
    xpraider xpraider 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I'M In Love With A Younger Coworker

    I am obsessively attracted to a younger coworker of mine. She's 20 I'm 30 and married. It started out innocently enough talking flirting , hanging out after work or drinks etc. it recently has led to strong flirting and suggestive talk. I'm so attracted to her it's like almost a...
    Duran386 Duran386 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    First of all, I’m a French teacher at high

    school, and I’m madly in love with my coworker. And to tell you the truth, the only reason that made me feel this way is the fact that I know that he Is interested in me. At the beginning, I was just attracted him since he is really handsome, but then, I started to sense...
    j00heika j00heika 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I have a coworker that likes to flirt,

    not just with me, but with most women. And I know that he does it because he's good looking and it makes us all feel good. But over the past couple of months, he's been spending more time in my office (he works in another building but sometimes just shows up). I asked him to go...
    hidinglove hidinglove 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Think I Am In Love With My Co-worker

     I have been working at the same place for about two years, This guy has been working there for about a year, we have become great friends over that time and we constantly flirt at work. He dated my friend that worked with us before that, i know its not a good thing to...
    Sarbear2279 Sarbear2279 18-21 7 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    I dont even know where to begin.

    . She half white half black so her complexion is perfect. She's got them pretty brown eyes and a beautiful smile. She has two kids and they are just as sweet as she is. She seems perfect right..? Well she is except Im pretty sure she is straight.. This is my first girl crush that...
    Bree93 Bree93 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    We Live Together Now And Have A Kid :)

    The wife used to be my boss, or at least higher up in the hierarchy where we both used to work. I didn't report directly to her.We kept it a secret and were "friends with benefits" for almost two years. It was a blast! That little hint of danger and the fun of sneaking around...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I Am In Love With My Coworker. But He Seems to Avoid Close to Me Now ..

    I think I am in love with a colleague who sits just behind me in the office. But I don't know what he feels. That makes me feel so sad everyday. Being so close but feeling so far away makes me suffer and sad.  Does he like me? Can we end up to a...
    clare2009 clare2009 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2009

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    Friends First

    Recently I have falling in love with my coworker. Although we work on separate shifts I can't stop thinking about her. A few weeks ago we went out with a small group of people for drinks. During the night she informed me that she had split for good from her husband(second time...
    guitar68 guitar68 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    We're Both In Love..

    I never thought he would fall in love with me.. He was just a fantasy that I thought would never come true. Till we started texting and hanging out. Got to know him more and more. To were we fell in love with each other. Broke up with my long distance bf because of him. I was in...
    MyCoNfUsEdHeArT MyCoNfUsEdHeArT 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    I started at my current work place around a year

    and four months ago. After two weeks of work, I was sent upstairs to a different department. I'm in manufacturing, so mostly I do shift work and I hated the constant rotation cycles so I applied for steady nights (it was the only steady option available). That's when I first met...
    murdoc2k murdoc2k 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I Can'T Help Myself, I'M Falling...

    *****Update***** I started a new job in the fall of 2012, not knowing what to expect. I met a young man (we will call him Z) that at first I had no interest in. Over time we developed a friendship and started hanging out at work. As if out of the blue, feelings started to...
    Sbspcutie Sbspcutie 22-25 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Hi Everyone. Will try to be

    as brief as possible: I`m married 28yo (no kids), he`s single 32yo, 6 months working together, sexual tension between us is insane from day 1, we even struggle to communicate with each other like normal people. We had sex once in the beginning (I made the first step), it was...
    renatakubiliote renatakubiliote 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    Well where can I start.

    I have to say that this has gotten me totally by surprise. I started working with this girl about 4.5 months ago. She has been married for a little over 1 year now and seems to be happily married. As often co-workers do we started to get to know each other better, no romantic...
    luismiguel1980 luismiguel1980 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Love Or Crush??

    Not sure where to begin but here goes, both of us have been working for the same company for more then 5 years, and in the past year we both have become single. We both work in close together and see each other and talk to each other on a daily basis.  Of course we are...
    yahsaf yahsaf 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2010

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    I Am In Love With A Coworker

    I have been at my job for almost a year. I am recently divorced. (been separated for a long time) my ex has moved on.. However when I started this job, there is a coworker that is a big cut up, and the first time I ever spoke a word to him, I said to myself that this is the...
    jenwes15 jenwes15 36-40 Nov 4, 2010

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    Never Felt Love Like This

    I feel for him the first time I saw him at the office...I was the intern, and he had been working at the firm for 5 years. It took 3 weeks for us to go out to the bars together, and we feel inseparable now. Its been almost 2 months, and its as though every time he looks me in the...
    ALoveLikeThis ALoveLikeThis 22-25 Jun 18, 2012

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    Looking Forward To Mondays!!!

    Who in their right mind looks forward to Mondays? I do. Why? Because I get to spend time with and see my best friend...the man I have fallen in love with over the past year. The weekends have become very difficult for me. I let my mind wonder what he is thinking and doing...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    Its All Your Fault I Need To Leave My Job!!

    ive been trying to end an affair with my co worker and its just hard knowing we see each other all the time..one of us needs to give up the job but how can we both need it..its hurting me everyday seeing him and its hurting me more when his wife visits him to work its just very...
    cleofe17 cleofe17 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    zalzal zalzal 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Long story short, my boyfriend is in rehab and I think I'm falling in love with one of my roommates. I haven't seen my boyfriend in 3 months, and our relationship is falling apart...
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