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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year

    Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started with a dream.  In the dream, I was cuddling him.  No sex or even sexual feelings really (in the dream at least), just a lot of affection.  When...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap

    Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in the way of my productivity and happiness more and more.  Here's some advice: DON'T fall for your friend...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Yes, It Happens!

    My friend makes me smile, my heart shine and my knees weak.....she has my heart, mind, body and soul. I was always attracted to women but never had the courage to act on this attraction. My husband, or should I say no man, has ever had this effect on me. We live together as if he...
    riveria riveria 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    The Go-between :-(

    This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good friend, as I mentioned.  I'm at work still, and so is my friend (her BF).  So she asked me if i knew where he...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    He Misses Her

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    The Unfinished Story We both met each other back in college, which was like 12yrs ago. It was not at all love at first sight. I didn't like him at all initially. He was the most...
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    Underststement of the century! I'm ******* livid with my husband! Why? Because every time I start to trust him around alcohol he shows me that I can't trust him at all. I stupidly...
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    I'm in love with Christian Grey from 50 shades!!!! I think about him all the time.
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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    I Am In Love With Twodifferent Men At The Same Time I need advice. I am in love with two different men at the same time. I am almost married but have been carrying on an 'on again...
    Vodkating Vodkating 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    kkisu474 kkisu474 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I meet this guy like 1 year and a half ago. He was new in school and I'm that kind of girl that always try to be friend of those quiet, lonely people so they can feel welcome or...
    roxyse roxyse 18-21, F Feb 11

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    Well, don't know if this will get any responses. I have just signed up to tell this. First of all, I should inform that I was diagnosed as a sociopath. If you haven't heard of it...
    nnastya nnastya 16-17, F Feb 13

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    FloristGirl FloristGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 23

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    Its not really that I am falling in love with him but because he makes me smile always. ^.^ He is so jolly. Whenever Im with him we atleast laugh always. I dont know , we dont...
    faye08 faye08 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    I'm currently in love with my best friend. He's been super close to me since sixth grade, and we've just clicked. Recently, over the past summer, we got really intimate, and we...
    TalkingKat TalkingKat 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
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    I love my friends more then anything. I have a group of best friends and it might not be healthy how much I love them haha but seriously they mean the world to me<3 idk what the...
    ellajade ellajade 13-15, F Feb 18

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    Fallen Love, Forgotten Life I swore to myself that I'd never love you. You shouldn't fall in love with your best friend. But that's not the kind of love I fell into. I miss never...
    smile44me smile44me 16-17, F Feb 18

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    I fell in love with my gay best friend. We met at work and became very close because of some common friends. He was the guy who makes me laugh and was always there for me. The...
    ste327 ste327 22-25, F Feb 21

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    Why is it so bad to love a friends sibling? I have fallen in love with my best friends little brother he's 22 and I'm 24. we have been having sex for a few weeks now and spending...
    Pinkberry24 Pinkberry24 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    So I know I've posted a lot about being in love with my best friend. As of recently, I finally drew up the courage to leave my unhappy relationship and after a good while I've...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 6

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
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    dorothyinOZ dorothyinOZ 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I'm in love with a girl that likes my best friend. She doesn't know I like her but my friend knows that she like him. Idk what to do 😭
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