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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year

    Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started with a dream.  In the dream, I was cuddling him.  No sex or even sexual feelings really (in the dream at least), just a lot of affection.  When...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap

    Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in the way of my productivity and happiness more and more.  Here's some advice: DON'T fall for your friend...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Yes, It Happens!

    My friend makes me smile, my heart shine and my knees weak.....she has my heart, mind, body and soul. I was always attracted to women but never had the courage to act on this attraction. My husband, or should I say no man, has ever had this effect on me. We live together as if he...
    riveria riveria 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    He Misses Her

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    The Go-between :-(

    This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good friend, as I mentioned.  I'm at work still, and so is my friend (her BF).  So she asked me if i knew where he...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My husband and I are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it. I shouldn't have married him in the first place although he's a lovely guy. He's just not the right person...
    missraspberryberet missraspberryberet 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I'm not sure what I feel. He's been cheating, though I guess now he's stopped... Unsure. But I just feel Kind of numb to the whole thing, I say "I love you" and I show it, but not...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My guy and I... We were perfect. So amazing other people told me they were jealous. I was happier than I ever thought humanly possible. Then he started having trouble at work...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Aug 18

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    I never imagined that this will happen. I have always thought that I will fulfill my marriage vows until the end. I realized that people, things, situations and feelings change...
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I just want to feel love again and hoping it will be for a life time what to do?
    zasha192 zasha192 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I most certainly am but I can't trust him at all recently found out he's had a lot of secrets and had no intention of telling me about them I shouldn't have to go digging it's...
    missy118118 missy118118 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    So-called "family"........don't you hate it when they are total hypocrites that hold ANY and every mistake you've ever made against you?
    asus146 asus146 46-50, F Aug 18

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    I've never dated anyone online, but boy do I have a story to tell... February 2012 this girl met a guy thru an online dating site. She lives in the US and he lives in Africa...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    My friend is married with kids. But she is in love with the guy she works with. Her relationship with her husband is average and feels a soul connection to this other guy. He is...
    bonnyjill bonnyjill 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    I broke with my husband last week. This time he was a bit crazy and pretty off the limits. He knows i am pretty much into nudity and he was the one who quite pushed me to try it...
    Lily25f Lily25f 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hai. Im new here to Experience Project so, I thought I would tell you about my self. I am in love with Cameron Dallas. And if you have never heard of him, have you been living...
    SamDallas SamDallas 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I'm thinking about moving to the town of my good life-long friend who is also my crush that rejected me. So, let me explain. There's this guy that I've been good friends with...
    BlueColored BlueColored 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm a lesbian who is married to a guy. When we first got together I was confused, then we had a baby and now I don't want to leave....But I'm in love with someone else, however she...
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I'm a girl, and I'm in love with my best friend's other best friend. My best friend is a girl and we tell each other almost everything. We've been best friends since like 3rd grade...
    malakhkhalil malakhkhalil 13-15, F Aug 17

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    We met last year during my sophomore year. He was in my art class and we became best friends really fast. I told him things I hadn't shared with anyone. I trust him completely. He...
    kellss kellss 16-17, F Aug 18

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    I think it is something that almost everybody experiences at least once. You get the idea that you maybe like one of your friends more than just for a friend. Well, at least I have...
    briantjuh94 briantjuh94 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I'm in love with my best friend I wish I wasn't. I've liked him way before he became best friend, but I know I can never have him.I can't have him for the simple fact that he is...
    cchristinaa cchristinaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I'm in love with this girl science last year, we meet in the university and she was the one who start with this feelings , she always sit with me in the classroom, the cafeteria...
    IamNicolle IamNicolle 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I did have another account, but it logged me out, and then decided it didn't recognise me?? Weird ... Anyway, back to why I joined in the first place. The ex. So, I've finally...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I didn't know it could happen to me. I've seen my friends fall in love with all these boys and they can't stop talking about making out with them and being in love. I never...
    LessonsOfTheSakura LessonsOfTheSakura 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I love my friends the way they are. Even if we're having an argument, I still love them. I will always help my friends if they're in a trouble and need me to help them. My friends...
    JunHara JunHara 18-21, M Aug 12

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    My opposite sex best friend is in love with me!!! He is also VERY good friends with the guy I've recently been talking to. I'm totally feeling my guy, unfortunately he is so closed...
    mylifeoutloud mylifeoutloud 41-45, F Aug 12

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    My friend since early grade got sick and died long time ago when we just finished college and started working. It broke my heart. we were so close and she was the only friend I...
    zoe1970 zoe1970 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I met her online. We've been friends for a little over a year now. We've talked about it before and still do a lot. She lives in Canada and I live in the US in the state of...
    kyuubinaruto199 kyuubinaruto199 16-17, M Aug 18

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    It all started during 8th grade I remember all my friends being in different homerooms leading me to being alone with no friends during the first weeks of school and after that I...
    NancyCS NancyCS 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I met a guy at work and we started talking about common interests, some time passed when we stopped talking, however, after some time passed we started talking and hanging out. I...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F Aug 20

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Well she IS my friend, but she is also my good friend's sister which is part of the reason my situation is so screwed. So tonight was the last time I will see her before college...
    theskyisarainbow theskyisarainbow 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    i just started high school. my best friend yesenia have been best friends since 7th grade. we were both new so we didn't know anybody and automatically became best friends. the...
    larissa14 larissa14 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I was only sixteen when my best friend admitted that she had feelings for me. I felt the same way and we got together. We've shared so much of our lives, more than 8 years of ups...
    Beyala Beyala 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    He has been in there for 14 years and has five more to go. We were dating at the time he got locked up. Remained friends for a few years. Then he became Muslim, I embraced...
    Afuaymani Afuaymani 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I am in love with a friend and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I love being friends with people who don't fit in! It's like awesome but then I do have a handful of friends that are " popular "
    Sprinklesnstuff Sprinklesnstuff 13-15, M Aug 25

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    I think I've falling in love with my best friend... I don't want to ruin our friendship.
    J3ssii3 J3ssii3 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I'm desperate for any advice I can get with this situation that I'm in and have been in for a long time now. I'm deep in love with my straight best friend. I think about him every...
    MattyB0621 MattyB0621 22-25, M a week ago

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    Fall in love with your best friend is something relative. It can be the best or the worst thing in your life. You can get really worried about your firendship or the thing will...
    journeyrainbow journeyrainbow 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I love my friends ^.^ Just...Kidding... I don't have any friends because they can't handle my crazy Mexican Drug Cartel side. .... Jk.. I don't have a crazy Mexican Drug Cartel...
    TyTy19 TyTy19 16-17, M 1 day ago

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