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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year - Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap - Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    The Go-between :-( - This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    He Misses Her - How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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