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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    Yes, It Happens!

    My friend makes me smile, my heart shine and my knees weak.....she has my heart, mind, body and soul. I was always attracted to women but never had the courage to act on this attraction. My husband, or should I say no man, has ever had this effect on me. We live together as if he...
    riveria riveria 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    The Go-between :-(

    This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good friend, as I mentioned.  I'm at work still, and so is my friend (her BF).  So she asked me if i knew where he...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap

    Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in the way of my productivity and happiness more and more.  Here's some advice: DON'T fall for your friend...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year

    Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started with a dream.  In the dream, I was cuddling him.  No sex or even sexual feelings really (in the dream at least), just a lot of affection.  When...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    He Misses Her

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
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    it makes me sad... I wish I knew what to do. .
    LadyJunebug LadyJunebug 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    But she's a girl .. And its just too awkward.. Im so confused, do you think it is possible for someone to love two people in the same time? .. I love a guy , that hates me so much...
    nonorawi nonorawi 13-15, F 15 mins ago

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    I hate myself each day for feeling this way. I just can't help it. I can't help myself from thinking about this other man before bed. My husband isn't like him, yet not a bad guy...
    Kira05 Kira05 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    whoami8555 whoami8555 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    CGM14 CGM14 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Kynearin Kynearin 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Nov 13

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    aldream221 aldream221 31-35, M a week ago

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    Me and my scorpio gf has been dating for almost 2 years we had a argument where I said something's I didn't mean out of anger that I was hanging out with a female just because I...
    Heartbroken93 Heartbroken93 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    MyDearDiary MyDearDiary 18-21, F Oct 30

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    LostCause LostCause 18-21, F Nov 1

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    gay4ever gay4ever 16-17, M Nov 16

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    He's my theatre teacher-And no, he isnt the stereotypical gay theatre guy. So stop there with that stereotype. Last year, when I was a new kid at my school, and I was sitting in...
    SilencesLullaby SilencesLullaby 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    TobyMccoy1996 TobyMccoy1996 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    MandaDLinn MandaDLinn 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    Please bear with me- This will be quite a long story. If I would share this experience of mine, I should first said something about myself a'right? :) I am a junior Engineering...
    Skarizza Skarizza 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    trishakaye trishakaye 18-21, F Nov 5

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    lovelysunset lovelysunset 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Herecomesafemale Herecomesafemale 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    Roadroller Roadroller 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3