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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    The Go-between :-(

    This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good friend, as I mentioned.  I'm at work still, and so is my friend (her BF).  So she asked me if i knew where he...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap

    Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in the way of my productivity and happiness more and more.  Here's some advice: DON'T fall for your friend...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year

    Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started with a dream.  In the dream, I was cuddling him.  No sex or even sexual feelings really (in the dream at least), just a lot of affection.  When...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    He Misses Her

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    Yes, It Happens!

    My friend makes me smile, my heart shine and my knees weak.....she has my heart, mind, body and soul. I was always attracted to women but never had the courage to act on this attraction. My husband, or should I say no man, has ever had this effect on me. We live together as if he...
    riveria riveria 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2012

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    I know I'm not unique, but my husband is really the best man in the world...for me. So glad that everyone here found the best man in the world for them too!
    lyly73 lyly73 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5

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    married from 4 yrs n caught him cheating frm first day. he made promise he won't do it again but once a cheater is always a cheater. he uses me n my money. He's selfish. he won't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    I'm a 14 years old teenager and I guess I'm madly in love with this particular person, who's also a teenager girl like me.We've known each other for a pretty long time, about 7...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I'm having some marital problems and for the last year I don't know if my husband and I are just in a temporary crisis or whether we'll get through it. We split up for a little...
    shoogabonbons shoogabonbons 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I am definitely in love with my best friend. He is my high school love, my husband, father of my kids and my absolute best friend!
    chickengirl14 chickengirl14 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    5 Months ago, my first son was stillborn at 34 weeks. it was and still is very devastating for me. . i miss my son dearly. i had to bury him along with all of my hopes and dreams...
    Sasquatch1990 Sasquatch1990 22-25, F 1 Response May 7

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    I'm 33 years old and my husband is 55 years old. We've been married for 9 years. We don't have any kids. I meet this guy ( 35 yrs old ) at my workplace we have a mutual...
    Emmaj2015 Emmaj2015 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I think I'm in love with love. I'm addicted to romance and tenderness with or without sex. I crave the words, touch, intimacy, adventure, and attention. I ache for a smile and eye...
    jennytressler jennytressler 41-45 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am still in love with my ex and I miss her a lot. And if ur reading this I hope u know I love you and always will love u and I miss you a lot.
    Zay15 Zay15 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I live in England and I fell in love with a guy from Morocco I met online in January.. We met over skype plenty of times and I hope to visit him next year. He is amazing!!!!!
    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of falling in love and having my heart ripped out.. I just want to fall in love with someone who really loves me.. I want to go to college and become a teacher... Then I...
    2Thoughts 2Thoughts 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have known my best friend for 3 years. We met through band, but our friendship didn't truly start until I sat beside him in biology on the first day of school. He was a freshman...
    Cheyenne555 Cheyenne555 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I have known my friend for almost 2 years now and even though we've only been hanging out for about 1 year, I can strongly say that I have never, in my entire 24 years of living...
    MePlusHim MePlusHim 22-25, M 1 Response May 13

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    So during school I had this really close best friend for a couple of years. I kinda knew she was gay, though she was never officially "out". Over time i started realising i...
    kirstyr kirstyr 18-21, F 6 Responses May 14

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    A day of them. A day of people I love. My mother happy. Birthday present not too weird....tick :-) A new friend. A colleague. We sneak out. I take her somewhere new. She...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just posted this around a few places but for some reason didn't think to post it as a story until now. This post is a follow up to my first post, EP Link If you are interested I...
    seb300 seb300 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    confused. if she likes me too. So I have a coworker, who I am madly in love with, but don't know if I am just a regular friend to her more than that. We know each mother from near...
    lostsoul29 lostsoul29 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    She is my best friend's younger sister, he is literally the older brother I never had, he & I are both survivors of child molestation, he has built me up and I have built him up in...
    collegestudent83 collegestudent83 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hi I am totally new at expressing myself or posting , but I really need advice , I am a straight woman and having crush on lesbian friend , and to worse the situation she just told...
    lostsoul29 lostsoul29 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with someone online. I met her on MySpace when I was 14. I've known her for 9 years now and we've been together for 3 years. We always wanted to meet in real life...
    thyrm thyrm 22-25, M 1 Response May 3

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    I met Amy when I reported for duty in Albany Ga at the Marine base. She in my opinion was the All American Girl.. Blonde hair Blue eyes about 5'7" weighed about 110 lbs dripping...
    ChessiSometimes72 ChessiSometimes72 51-55, M 4 Responses May 11

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    Kyle and I had known each other since we were little kids, we were neighbours but never really got along. He would call and sing for me but I rejected him every time, I didn't like...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I am in love with my English teacher in high school for 2 yrs.. I adore her. We like the same music, we have the same thinking about many things.. We have the same look on world...
    onelittlehumanbeing onelittlehumanbeing 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm in love with my very best friend. She's basically family I guess. She stays the night a lot and says she thinks she's likes girls also. She used to have a crush on me a while...
    Stargirl345 Stargirl345 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I should have posted this months ago. *kicks self* Anyway this is another thing I wanted to share. This is for those of you that want to actually see the character you are in love...
    DreamsAreReal1 DreamsAreReal1 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I fell for a woman who didn't love me, I thought she cared but it turns out she was in love with a ex friend of mine! We had lots of fun and did a lot with each other. Then in...
    bigjjunkman bigjjunkman 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    we would have been perfect together. It's been 2 years we know each other, separated physically for 1 year, so far but yet we became closer and closer each day until i fell in love...
    Sting23 Sting23 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So this one boy really likes me and he's really nice, but we have nothing in common. On the other hand, i'm in love with someone who sees me as a friend only, and probably will...
    maryinthesky maryinthesky 16-17, F May 2

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    I am not happy without lovers or friends, but surely I have peace of mind, and freedom to do anything. Happiness thus comes from Within in the form of ecstasy. And I surely love...
    Islav Islav 18-21, M May 9

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    I fell in love with my best friend last year. She is outgoing, funny, and everyone likes her as soon as they meet her. We live 2 and a half hours away but are gonna see each other...
    pyrodexx46 pyrodexx46 16-17, F 2 Responses May 12

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    here goes We started just as friends, we have fun and go out to eat he works in a place near mine we met through a common friend in a dinner gathering. he always ask me out when...
    lyrene lyrene 41-45, F 3 Responses May 14

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    He was the first guy to voice message me on an app called Skout. He had an amazing voice that I fell in love with immediately. We've been talking ever since. His name is *V*and he...
    Hamyamyak Hamyamyak 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    You guys will not be hearing anything from me anytime soon. I cannot put up with my teacher's complexity any longer. You know, there is a good kind of mysterious, and a bad kind. I...
    XOAfraaXO XOAfraaXO 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    I'm in love with a fictional character for over 3 years now... I'm in some serious trouble because the feeling just doesn't wear off. I never really questioned my love to a non...
    LeahJules LeahJules 16-17, F 1 Response May 7

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    They say falling in love is a choice. That we need to choose to fall in love with someone everyday if we want the relationship to work. But the problem is, it's not just a choice...
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F 6 days ago