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I Am In Love With My Friend Not My Husband

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    He Misses Her

    How do I make this go away?  Or resolve it somehow?  Am I going to feel like this forever?  D and I went with friends to a movie last night. My husband was busy, so he didn't go.  He sat next to me.  I could feel electricity when our arms touched. ...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Oct 9, 2008

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    The Go-between :-(

    This is so hard.  I feel like crying right now.  My friend's girlfriend is out of the country, and I'm chatting with her online.  She's a good friend, as I mentioned.  I'm at work still, and so is my friend (her BF).  So she asked me if i knew where he...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2008

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    I Am Falling For My Friend, But I Got Married Last Year

    Over the past few weeks, I have been thinking increasingly about one of my best guy friends.  My realization started with a dream.  In the dream, I was cuddling him.  No sex or even sexual feelings really (in the dream at least), just a lot of affection.  When...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 6 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Feel Like Crap

    Ugh.  I have that pukey feeling again.  And I can't get anything done.  I'm feeling stupider and stupider about my feelings, and they are getting in the way of my productivity and happiness more and more.  Here's some advice: DON'T fall for your friend...
    iateabugtoo iateabugtoo 26-30 3 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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