I Am In Love With My Teacher Forum & Chat Board | Ever notice the kind of people in this group?

Like almost 100% of them are immature and female. Im sorry to say this but just because you have daddy issues and you like his cologne doesnt mean you love him. And just because he has looked at you like he does with the entire f cking class doesnt mean he loves you either. So get in line and striaghten up that even if he kinda likes you its messed up hes an adult and youre a bunch of girls still concerned about what music is good and how good your math grades are. Youre a bunch of hormone driven crazies. If you want to go mess up your life and you would just love to see your teacher in jail and your family act differently around you? Go ahead keep pretending you know what lvoe is and see what the judge has to say about it. And dont a single f cking one of you dare say to me that you know what love is you think "oh ive known him all year" and i think about him every day oh crap this must be love he kinda looked at me today god this is mother effing love OF COURSE!!! NO NO NO shut the f up you psycotic little emotional beiber-loving hot-topic wearing hormonal girls get of it. EVERYONE in this group is always fing female because most guys ar mature enough to realize what love is and to not go bat-sh!t crazy over someone they barely know and have only been around during school or fro them WORK its their JOB to have to deal and be nice to you their JOB!!!! please dont come to me thinking you know crap about love because you have thought about him for "sooo long" or that "his smile is special when its to me" st fu Dont dare talk to me about how you know crap about life or anything about love. You comment here and join this group when you think oh thats true. "luv" is much different than Love. So please keep your estrogen in your pants so you dont end up arresting your teacher and making your whole family look at you differently, double check yourself because thats not a good thing and its not something you can escape thats a lifelong thing when you are so immature to think like this group. Dont dare talk about love when you just have your daddy issues and you think you are mature enough or mature at all dont come tio me dealing crap. I think 10% of women (statistically) will be raped in their lifetimes and you are walking right into it. And yes there is a reason that there is an "age of consent" because too many girls' lives got ruined before they even knew what life was really like. Theres one type of people in this group and its never the mature, people who have dealt with major psycological disorders, depression, starvation, and have had to be responsible. Its always the same type a young girl thinking she knows what love is when most of you dont know what life is even like so dont you dare talk about love to me you're all sad and im sorry that your parents didnt teach you responsibility.

 

That's pretty harsh but I think you have a point. I think most people just confuse "having a crush/being infatuated with someone" and "being in love with someone". I used to think I was "in love" with one of my teachers when I was like 15 years old and I've just come to realize that after all, it was just a crush. A huge crush, but still a crush. (I did never act on it  in any way, though. I knew my boundaries.) I totally agree with you on the "age of consent" thing and anyway, mature men are usually not interested in teenage girls or at least they shouldn't be. 

 

I agree with pretty much everything you've said here, even though I probably fit the bill of being some stupid hormonal teenager. I think you're right, a lot of the people in this group may not know what love is, and it's easy to lust over a figure of authority who's wiser, smarter and more mature than you are. However, this is a group for anyone who may think or know that they're truly in love with their teacher, and it may be the only place where they can express their feelings and tell the truth as they feel that they have no-one to talk to in real life. For that reason alone, we shouldn't be so judgmental of other members in this group.

 

Though I agree with your sentiments completely, I'm glad you used the phrase "almost 100 percent," as there are certainly some individuals in this group--few, mind you--who have experienced those psychological issues and have dealt with them in a responsible, effective manner.  Some of us are mature enough to recognize the feelings and let them go due to the negative consequences associated with them; in the meantime, it's comforting to know that we can communicate these repressed emotions to others in similar situations.  I feel that, while you do speak the truth, it could have been said a bit less callously.