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I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 18 People

    I Have Been With A Man For 6 Years

    I have been with a man for 6 years and 3 years ago we decided to buy a hosue and live together. I think that because i arrived here from another continent with my kids, I was lonely and had difficult years to start my life from scratch, I mixed love with support and went ahead in...
    melissa40 melissa40 41-45 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    Sacrifice

    I have been married for 22 years and have two sons.  My husband tends to be emotionally abusive, very negative and always critical on anything we all do.  He has good traits and I know he loves the children very much, they are his world.   About a year and a...
    wombourne wombourne 41-45 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Getting Too Old For This

    I have been married for about a year now and my husband needs me due to health problems (Cancer). I have been in love with another man since I was 15. He is all I think about but how can I leave my husband who needs me so much?
    outofmymind43 outofmymind43 41-45 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband.

    Ive been married for 15 years, together for 18 but there has always been another I have been in love with and he in love with me. We loved each other before I got married but I chose my husband over him because he was older and more stable.(we were high school sweethearts and i...
    jazmina jazmina 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2007

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    Yes, I am married, with children, and have fallen in love with someone on the side. My new male lover makes me feel so wonderful and loved when we are together. We have so much...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    I didn't know I could so easily be moved to fall in love with her. It wasn't planned. I simply was looking for a lonely soul on EP who lived in the same state, was from the same...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I met him a year and a half ago and my world changed. I am married and he is 14 years younger. There was an instant connection, literal sparks. We have been seeing each other on...
    Kristen2331 Kristen2331 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I have no idea how to cope with the pain of being so in love with someone who doesn't love me. Couples who are in love with each other, I hope you are grateful and never take each...
    Milo77 Milo77 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I long for someone to love me just as much as I love them. I want to be head over heels in love with someone who feels the same about me. Im so tired of one sided love..
    Etherealrose Etherealrose 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm in love with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I've decided to stop making myself feeling miserable because of this by letting it go. And I'm genuinely happy for him for...
    JustMarvellous123 JustMarvellous123 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    story of my life. I spouse I'm always in love with someone who doesn't love me.
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    is there really any other way to fall in love with someone? one doesn't fall in love with looks that is falling in lust. Noone has ever looked at a woman with curves in all the...
    geekygirl2 geekygirl2 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 3

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    Last night I let go of the pain, I stopped holding everything and stopped looking at situation blindly. I've been in love with someone for 7 years, and I finally realized they did...
    dancingyogi114 dancingyogi114 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I did fall in Love with someone I had met online. Unfortunately, they will prob never feel the same towards me.
    pafireman pafireman 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 21

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    I know this may sound dumb but I truly think I'm in love with someone that I haven't talked to for years. She was one of my best friends and we go back to when we were 3 years old...
    volsfan123 volsfan123 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am in love with someone but she is suffering in pain and cuts me out of her life. She doesn't realize I have a need to take care of her and nothing more.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29

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    Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder jst as u'd see a thing nd hate it someone else would see the same thing nd love it. only u knw how u see things or feel them..things are...
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I am in love with a man who is more than double my age. I could go on and on about how wonderful he is - but obviously I think he's great.. I have been pining after him like a...
    NotFromThere NotFromThere 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    NOOOOOOO I accidentally tapped this group but I can't unjoin it on my phone. I'm not in love with anyone. In fact I'm afraid to fall in love. But I do get easily attached when I...
    LoneDolll LoneDolll 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Can't... A selfish woman But not selfish enough To make herself happy A self centered woman Who loves her friends like family So she doesn't give enough to him A woman not...
    BexAddiction BexAddiction 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm in love with this guy and it's tearing me apart. We were friends, than we added the "benefits" and then he found a girl...a girl he probably doesn't love, but she's his girl...
    Lor97 Lor97 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    Okay this may come across as weird... I am 19 years old and I work in Retail at a High Street Store (I live in the UK btw and I recently got a job there... I am in love with the...
    achorusgirl achorusgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I met him two years ago. He is my coworker and married with two beautiful kids. Our connection was imminent the minute we met. We connected like no other. I knew that day that I...
    freebutchained freebutchained 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everyone in the world is pretty shallow...me included. We look at someone & immediately judge them whether we mean to or not. If they don't look a certain way, then we don't even...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I have been in love with a man for 4 years now..I truly believe it is the only time in my life that I have felt this strongly about a man..we are friends...he knows I love him, he...
    Omhippiesoul Omhippiesoul 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm in love with my boyfriend of two years and we've never met in person. I love him with all my heart and we both really want to be together in person but its so hard to get to...
    QueenCOLE29 QueenCOLE29 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    This is my story with my boyfriend and i. We will call him J. I had a Meetme account, well i added a new photo of myself and i got a message from this guy who was cute, and he...
    gigglebuttt gigglebuttt 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    We belong together. Everyone knows it. We click. We make sense. I miss talking to you and I have to stop myself from wanting to kiss you or hold your hand. This is so difficult...
    delicious78 delicious78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I met someone online I really like. We're from the same town but have never met. I have fallen in love with his personality but don't know how he feels about me. And he's 14 years...
    sHyvIking23 sHyvIking23 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Personality is where his true beauty is. Looks constantly change every moment, every day. Sometimes it's noticeable right away and sometimes it's not noticeable for a while...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I fell in love with a woman I met online. She was half my age. I thought her beautiful. Now, did I fall in love with her, did I fall in love with the idea of her or did I fall in...
    MasterofDesire MasterofDesire 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I fell in love with a man in college. When 9/11 happened he got called up active duty for the Air Force and was deployed for over a year. When he returned I felt like he was not...
    naughtyk82 naughtyk82 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    It's funny how time flows fast. I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I owe you an explanation I can't give you in fact. Suppose I never will. I could barely explain it, even though it's actually very simple... I told you I was afraid to be around...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 3

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    "Falling in love" just because you like the way somebody looks is almost shallow in a way. It's like you won't accept somebody if they don't meet up to your expectations for the...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 9

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    I am jealous, jealous of his wife. He doesn't love her, at least, he tells me he isn't "in love" with her. I know there are all kinds of love. I know that he still loves her...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't wait to fall out of love with you </3
    Ragoo7 Ragoo7 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I have been in love with this one girl for over a year now. We were and still are quite good friends but I always thought we could be more. She knows I like her this way and I know...
    mixtemotionz mixtemotionz 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I am falling deeper and deeper in love with him. I've tried to end it or at least distance myself from him and I can't do it. I'm married bi want to chuck it all and run into his...
    mynameis12345 mynameis12345 51-55, F Mar 27

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    Im too in love with him... Now that i have lost him... I need some distraction as i am constantly thinking about him and its hurting.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Where do I start, he was just their to help me get over an ******* and I guess he just came at the right time and I fell deeply madly in love with him, but since I don't live in a...
    holyteenobserver holyteenobserver 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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