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I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 19 People

    I Have Been With A Man For 6 Years

    I have been with a man for 6 years and 3 years ago we decided to buy a hosue and live together. I think that because i arrived here from another continent with my kids, I was lonely and had difficult years to start my life from scratch, I mixed love with support and went ahead in...
    melissa40 melissa40 41-45 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband.

    Ive been married for 15 years, together for 18 but there has always been another I have been in love with and he in love with me. We loved each other before I got married but I chose my husband over him because he was older and more stable.(we were high school sweethearts and i...
    jazmina jazmina 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2007

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    Sacrifice

    I have been married for 22 years and have two sons.  My husband tends to be emotionally abusive, very negative and always critical on anything we all do.  He has good traits and I know he loves the children very much, they are his world.   About a year and a...
    wombourne wombourne 41-45 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Getting Too Old For This

    I have been married for about a year now and my husband needs me due to health problems (Cancer). I have been in love with another man since I was 15. He is all I think about but how can I leave my husband who needs me so much?
    outofmymind43 outofmymind43 41-45 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Ugh....getting off of work soon. As tired as I am...I rather be at work. Home is so uncomfortable right now. Just passing by each other. No words...just stares...I get nervous and...
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    thetitania thetitania 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I fell in love with someone I meet on EP. We Are both married. My situation is complicated my wife had bipolar and it very up and down. Her situation is that her husband doesn't...
    Myck85 Myck85 36-40, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    No, I am not in love with someone. I have never experienced anything like this actually. I think it'd be cool to know this feeling of "falling in love" and be "in love" with...
    Lila2088 Lila2088 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    His name will forever be etched in my heart and mind. Should the opportunity arise, i'd seek him out. Pathetic I am sure but I don't care. He was the one and even if I see him with...
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 Jan 5

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    so many barriers between us...he is already in relationship... he is quiet famous in college so he don't deserve someone not bright like me. Futhermore I'm a loser compare to him...
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Do you ever feel like all your crushes are just accidents? I hate falling in love. I'll be sailing through my life all strong headed and confident and BAM! I go crazy over...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I thought I was, but now I think I WAS in love with someone and he is more like obsessed with me, not in love. Been with him for 4 years now so it's hard to let go, but I'm getting...
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I fell in love with someone who I no longer speak to. It's ok if we don't because I want him to be happy I'm thankful for meeting someone who gave me the true meaning of love even...
    Fire0007 Fire0007 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I'm in love with someone that doesn't think about me. We had a thing once, but he ran away and never spoke to me again. While he's moving on and seeing other people, I can't stop...
    Flowerunderrain Flowerunderrain 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I fell in love with someone I can't have. But I've moved on even though sometimes I struggle, I'll never forget him. I just learn to live with it
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    I have fallen in love with someone I may never get to be with, she lives to far away and to be honest I don't know what she sees in me she is beyond perfect.
    Jessy1414 Jessy1414 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    That person was my married female cousin. :/ I know i shouldn't be in love with her but i can't help it.I just love the way she made me laugh when i was feeling down in the dump...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    That person being my brother in law's brother ( meaning my sister's husband's brother) We've always got along, and we spend alot of time together when I go and stay with my sister...
    Karmicjoy Karmicjoy 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm in love with my husband.. but he doesn't want to have children with me..I'm 41 w/no kids because I wanted to wait until I got married to have the family i always wanted for...
    desi35 desi35 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I fell in love with my neighbour in my dorm, let's call her K. She was an exchange student for half a year, and I liked her from the first moment I saw her. Me and her + her...
    lassieboy lassieboy 18-21, M Jan 8

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    I am so hopelessly in love with this guy I met a little over a year ago. I met him through a friend and since then we have really bonded and gotten close. He tells me things he has...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 18

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    To my best friend: “Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.” - Unknown. I was with you one day, and it hit...
    PhilosophicalCoder13 PhilosophicalCoder13 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm torn. I am going through a divorce that has been a long time coming and is for the best. I've been separated for 7 months and the D should be finalized in a couple of months...
    DrHowl DrHowl 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Heh, it's not that I'm in love... I'm a handsome guy, and women find me attractive in general. ...a year ago I madly fell in love with her and she had a boyfriend for maybe 7 years...
    dzordze dzordze 18-21, M Jan 11

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    She says she loved me once, but now there's someone else and I want so badly to be happy for her, but I can't, because I feel like it should be me making her happy. I should be...
    snitchwings snitchwings 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    It hurts to try and forget. I knew it won't ever happen, Yet I kept on playing scenarios in my head of him and I,hoping it becomes reality, when truthfully he has his eyes set on...
    ThunderManami ThunderManami 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I am in love with my high school sweetheart. I have been married for five years and last year had an affair with my high school sweetheart who I have always been in love with and I...
    yungnsexi yungnsexi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    My best friend is a girl and I am totally in love with her. I am sure a lot of people know the feeling. We still talk almost every day and see each other once a week. About a year...
    nathanvp nathanvp 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    He doesn't want to date me because he lives in Germany and I live in Texas. We've been talking for four months now and I'm completely in love with him. I've never met anyone so...
    LilahWolf LilahWolf 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    To feel this way... Is really to expose your weakness and to be put in the hot chair and answer every question you never thought of Being asked. To play the clown have always Been...
    vickepicke vickepicke 16-17, M Dec 31, 2014

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    Over the past few months I've developed a friendship with a girl I see everyday working at a local coffee shop. I'd seen her working there for a year or so, but one day she said...
    musicman1975 musicman1975 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    It's been a few weeks now and every time I'm trying to go out, my mom gets upset and brings up the guy I'm talking to. She tells me that I can do so much better and that I should...
    edpj25 edpj25 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I've been in a relationship with a woman that shows no affection, has no emotion, and no sex drive. There was a time when we couldnt keep our hands off of each other. Her touch...
    amadio1 amadio1 36-40, M Jan 16

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    i met someone online 7ish months ago and have recently fallen in love with him.. but i havent physsically met him but we have had the "dating" title for almost 6 months. he wants...
    mlhenry mlhenry 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I really want to be in a relationship with someone. But girls dont notice me or they notice me when they are already taken. But the problem here is i see nice or beutiful girls...
    JanSchinkel JanSchinkel 16-17, M Dec 31, 2014

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    I finally met him after two months of texting, emails, phone calls and FaceTime. He is working in Afghanistan, but we only live 2 hours apart. I've been holding this guy at arms...
    norlights3 norlights3 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I am in love with a woman 30 years younger than myself and I know she likes me but I am just too old for her. I would never do anything to hurt her and value her friendship too...
    iwillbealone iwillbealone 56-60, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I am in love with my younger friend he is cute but I am 22 years old but we like to message each other
    StayingStrong21 StayingStrong21 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I fell in love with people in both ways, well the personality is more important but I can't help it if I see a girl as preety
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    My parents are so strict and I mean soooo strict. They got married to each other when my mom was 15 and my dad was 17, but they can't even trust me with anything. Every time I'm in...
    EmilyNMH EmilyNMH 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    my ex just came back into my life right when I just recently went on a date with a guy I was thinking about going out with. and I've been in love with my ex for a long time. I feel...
    ForeverStar0 ForeverStar0 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I am in love with a 17 year old and im only 13 he does not know and shall never know because age differences suck
    Musicislife13417 Musicislife13417 13-15 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I am in love with this guy I meet on line. And I know he likes me and love me very much too. I sent him a lot messages and New Years greetings and he did not respond to me...
    Wecanbfreinds Wecanbfreinds 31-35, F Jan 2

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    im in love with my guy best friend . he is a bi . he likes a guy currently . and i help him a lot with his new relationship with the other guy . i want him to be happy always and i...
    nikhi1996 nikhi1996 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I tend to fall in love with people who are: married, in a stable relationship etc. If you are one of these, I ask you not to flirt with me, ask me anything beyond friendly. One way...
    Alissa7 Alissa7 31-35,