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I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband

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    I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband.

    Ive been married for 15 years, together for 18 but there has always been another I have been in love with and he in love with me. We loved each other before I got married but I chose my husband over him because he was older and more stable.(we were high school sweethearts and i...
    jazmina jazmina 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2007

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    Getting Too Old For This

    I have been married for about a year now and my husband needs me due to health problems (Cancer). I have been in love with another man since I was 15. He is all I think about but how can I leave my husband who needs me so much?
    outofmymind43 outofmymind43 41-45 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Have Been With A Man For 6 Years

    I have been with a man for 6 years and 3 years ago we decided to buy a hosue and live together. I think that because i arrived here from another continent with my kids, I was lonely and had difficult years to start my life from scratch, I mixed love with support and went ahead in...
    melissa40 melissa40 41-45 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    Sacrifice

    I have been married for 22 years and have two sons.  My husband tends to be emotionally abusive, very negative and always critical on anything we all do.  He has good traits and I know he loves the children very much, they are his world.   About a year and a...
    wombourne wombourne 41-45 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    I've been married for 39 years to a girl I met in high school. We married because she was going to have a baby...I dd the responsible thing at the time. We lost the baby at 6...
    linkbelt6335 linkbelt6335 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women...
    celinecc11 celinecc11 26-30, F Feb 2

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger...
    celinecc11 celinecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I have been married for less than a year now. To be honest, I didn't want to get married at the time, I would have much preferred to wait a couple more years. However, I was...
    languishing languishing 26-30, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    So, I am friends with a married man and I'm married. We slept together one weekend and the connection between us was very strong at the time, although afterwards he confessed he...
    da7ednconfused da7ednconfused 36-40, F 62 Responses Feb 1

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    It wasn't supposed to happen...these things never should. It began as harmless banter and commiserating about marriages that were not fulfilling. It appeared we were kindred...
    pink50 pink50 46-50, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    But I'm polyamorous, so it's ok. ;)
    Zabet Zabet 31-35, T Feb 1

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    I keep trying to fight these feelings but I just can't. Idk what to do anymore. This is the first time I have ever said this "out loud" I'm hoping it makes me feel better.
    confusedinlove83 confusedinlove83 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm totally in love with one of my friends. her name will stay anonymous. but anyways this girl is one of the most beautiful girls in the world. I love everything about her. I love...
    RAYPENA RAYPENA 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone. He was perfect. I loved him with everything that i had. But distance is why things could not work between us. I recently found out that he found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 15

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I appreciate this is long but I am truly devastated, I would really really appreciate some insight or advice into this. I am completely and utterly with all my body mind and soul...
    garden5680 garden5680 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am falling in love with someone I can't have! Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I fell in love with someone i met online. And I know this is risky, I don't know if he feel the same way or just pretending. I don't know if he's telling the truth every time we...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I fell in love with someone I met online by chance. We will be celebrating our two year anniversary in a week, and we will be married on May 16th of this year. He is my fairy tale...
    Sculls Sculls 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    He knows it and so do I. I never thought I'd say I could fall in love with someone over a computer. This person could also not be any farther away from me if he tried. : (
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 7 Responses Feb 16

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    I am in love with someone but I am shy to tell her that I love u...
    samxjoe samxjoe 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My bestfriend is gay and I'm in love with him... We have this amazing relationship & sometimes I think "Mabey he's not gay... Mabey the fact that he was raped when he was small...
    rosiewindswept rosiewindswept 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    It was 15 months ago that we met on here and started talking. It was 14 months ago that I realized I was getting attached. It was 13 months ago in which I knew I was falling in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Feb 7

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      This is my first post, so Im not sure how it works but I'm just going to tell you what happened anyway and i really hope there is someone else out there who has had the...
    WeAlwaysHaveTheSun WeAlwaysHaveTheSun 22-25, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    recently I have been thinking about someone but what I find strange about this is for the first time in four years I am having these visions. in the past I used to envision being...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It was late in the summer of 2012. I was 17. I had a summer job at a carnival and it was my last week, as I was starting school soon. I had to travel three hours from home just for...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I don't hate him and I won't. I'm not going to blame someone for not loving me back. I'm not going to be mad at someone for not wanting to be with me. And I'm not going to call him...
    glasschildd glasschildd 22-25, F Feb 16

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    Well meh.... *sigh*.... It is impossible for it all to work.... I dont even know whether she is looking at me or someone else... Well it doesnt matter.... Ik it wouldnt work...
    InfiniteMusic InfiniteMusic 13-15, M Feb 9

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    Every time my phone flashes and vibrates I think it's a message from him and every time I get a little sad because the message isn't from him at all. He's 6 years order than me I...
    BandsSavedMyLife BandsSavedMyLife 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I met him on an app through my iPhone called "thumb" and every interaction on this app is by chance it seems. You generally chat with someone anonymous until you later are able to...
    dpeterson831 dpeterson831 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    That person was my married female cousin. :/ I know i shouldn't be in love with her but i can't help it.I just love the way she made me laugh when i was feeling down in the dump...
    Stephanieloveowl Stephanieloveowl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    "Believe it or not," I typed in with a smile, "I usually come across as too shy." I pressed the 'enter' button and waited for him to respond. "Seriously?" was his reply, and I had...
    thetitania thetitania 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F Feb 7

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    I fell in love with a married man a little over a year ago. We told ourselves that familiar lie, that we would “just be friends”. But we quickly became more to each other. We...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F Feb 11

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    I fell in love with my best friend, and I know she'll never return my feelings. Every twice a month, she'll ask if I met a girl I've liked and I'll tell her no. Hurts that I know...
    nickynickynoo nickynickynoo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I think I have changed. But I am still in love with him. I am not sure if it was a good or bad change in me. But I feel like I might lose you if you knew. I've always been cursed...
    actionsspeakgreaterthanwords actionsspeakgreaterthanwords 56-60, F Feb 3

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    I wish you realised that I don't just have a small 'crush on you' as I get the impression you think that I wish you realised how much I think about you Or that the second I wake up...
    rosexoo rosexoo 13-15, F Feb 6

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    It is still so fresh and raw and to some degrees painful. It all started with an innocent tinder chat. I was tindering as any single busy girl with mobile would do. I'm a...
    dorothyinOZ dorothyinOZ 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I'm in love with a girl that likes my best friend. She doesn't know I like her but my friend knows that she like him. Idk what to do 😭
    Fitzs35 Fitzs35 16-17, M Feb 12