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I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband

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    Getting Too Old For This

    I have been married for about a year now and my husband needs me due to health problems (Cancer). I have been in love with another man since I was 15. He is all I think about but how can I leave my husband who needs me so much?
    outofmymind43 outofmymind43 41-45 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Have Been With A Man For 6 Years

    I have been with a man for 6 years and 3 years ago we decided to buy a hosue and live together. I think that because i arrived here from another continent with my kids, I was lonely and had difficult years to start my life from scratch, I mixed love with support and went ahead in...
    melissa40 melissa40 41-45 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    Sacrifice

    I have been married for 22 years and have two sons.  My husband tends to be emotionally abusive, very negative and always critical on anything we all do.  He has good traits and I know he loves the children very much, they are his world.   About a year and a...
    wombourne wombourne 41-45 7 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband.

    Ive been married for 15 years, together for 18 but there has always been another I have been in love with and he in love with me. We loved each other before I got married but I chose my husband over him because he was older and more stable.(we were high school sweethearts and i...
    jazmina jazmina 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2007

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    About 18 years ago, I met an amazing guy. We really connected & had amazing chemistry. At the time he had a set 3 mo old twin boys & I discovered that I was pregnant by my ex. So...
    Angeeb Angeeb 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    This was not supposed to happen. But it did. I love my wife. She is the standard against which all women are measured. She is my soulmate and my best friend. Yet, I'm falling for...
    Ashman13 Ashman13 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I don't know how I feel anymore. My life has gotten too complicated to even handle sometimes.
    LM96753 LM96753 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm a lesbian who is married to a guy. When we first got together I was confused, then we had a baby and now I don't want to leave....But I'm in love with someone else, however she...
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I'm gay and it's hard enough to find people where I live, I found a guy or he found me on the computer and it was a long distance relationship, which I knew would be terrible in...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    The person is amazing, and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    i fell in love with someone i meant playing minecraft but i live in The USA and she lives in the Phillipeans
    Madmantas Madmantas 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I am in love with someone that I can never have and it shatters me. She is 8 years older but that doesn't phase me or her or anyone. The problem is that I am a closeted lass and...
    B4bydragon B4bydragon 13-15, F Jul 25

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    I'm in love with someone I can't have.
    NecklessCage NecklessCage 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I am no stranger to relationships started on the internet. In fact those are the only kind of relationships i have ever had. For some reason im like guy "repellent" in person or...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response Jul 28

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    I've never dated anyone online, but boy do I have a story to tell... February 2012 this girl met a guy thru an online dating site. She lives in the US and he lives in Africa...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2 51-55, M 19 hrs ago

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    I remember seeing you walking pass me right across the chapel. That back pack hanging in your shoulders and the wearisome look etched on your face. I love those metals on your...
    skypiea skypiea 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    ....and subsequently got my heart broken. I've noticed a lot of you have had similar experiences, so I thought I'd share my own. It's too long to go into here, but if you wish to...
    AndieWaffle AndieWaffle 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I am not a native English speaker,but I'll try to be understood by you. I met someone on Internet one year ago. We are both from different countries,so we speak in English. The...
    nathhalia nathhalia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I want to see you with someone better than him. Someone who will see how lucky they are to have you. That someone should be me.
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Aug 8

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    Arent we all. I womder when ill Stop loving him and being emotionally attached. He now lives n another country and by far doesnt feel the same way i do. Im such a fool i wish i...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F Aug 2

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    Looks don't last forever but to love and be loved by someone who has an amazing personality and understands you that love does.
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I thought when I was 16 I knew what love is,,boy I didn't know anything,, Learning everyday with someone very special what Love is,,falling for him more and more as we get to...
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Well , this post is kinda different than what people usually share here as I won't stress on " love " as much as I'll do with other important things too. I met my bf online and of...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 3 Responses Aug 9

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    So I think I'm in love with this guy. But a lot of people judged us cause he's black and I'm white. But we would always ignore all the comments and **** people would say. It was...
    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F Aug 10

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    She was my best friend. We were extremely close. Then, one day, she found out, and after about a month she abandoned me. She won't answer the phone or reply to a text. She moved a...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Im inlove with someone I met online..
    Chance7349 Chance7349 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    my first time connecting with someone i met on a dating site ( long distance relationship) We talked everyday on the phone, hours at a time for months we had build a very strong...
    LEZBhonest LEZBhonest 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Being inlove with someone you can't have.. It just sucks. You feel so empty inside when you've gave them your everything yet you get nothing. & til this day, this boy will always...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I am a married man and have been for 13 years. My wife left me and came back so we agreed to try to work things out. Don't get me wrong, I do still love her, however I am no...
    southernboy332009 southernboy332009 36-40, M Jul 23

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    I didn't plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt that you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 23

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    I am in love with a Mormon. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love...
    wpsiatwin wpsiatwin 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I have been in and out of love with my best friend since freshman year of high school. We think the same, share the same views, our lives are headed in the same direction and I don...
    sarahgirl94 sarahgirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Her essence, you ask? Graceful like the smell of lust and desire. Oh god, is our fire hot! Not to mention it's uncommon fuel, which is our inability to have each other. Well, you...
    ReMaxius ReMaxius 18-21, M Aug 5

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    It feels so good and im so happy for falling in love with her. We are far , i'm from Iran and she is from US but i don't care . We are in love and it's important to me . I love...
    Sandman18 Sandman18 18-21, M Aug 8

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