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I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband

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    Sacrifice

    I have been married for 22 years and have two sons.  My husband tends to be emotionally abusive, very negative and always critical on anything we all do.  He has good traits and I know he loves the children very much, they are his world.   About a year and a...
    wombourne wombourne 41-45 7 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Getting Too Old For This

    I have been married for about a year now and my husband needs me due to health problems (Cancer). I have been in love with another man since I was 15. He is all I think about but how can I leave my husband who needs me so much?
    outofmymind43 outofmymind43 41-45 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Have Been With A Man For 6 Years

    I have been with a man for 6 years and 3 years ago we decided to buy a hosue and live together. I think that because i arrived here from another continent with my kids, I was lonely and had difficult years to start my life from scratch, I mixed love with support and went ahead in...
    melissa40 melissa40 41-45 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    I Am In Love With Someone Else and My Husband.

    Ive been married for 15 years, together for 18 but there has always been another I have been in love with and he in love with me. We loved each other before I got married but I chose my husband over him because he was older and more stable.(we were high school sweethearts and i...
    jazmina jazmina 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 31, 2007

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    I never meant to start having feelings for you. I already had strong feelings for someone else. I guess they weren't strong enough, huh? You could have told me you were in love...
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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
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    Wtf?? What such irony........why would you think about loving someone else if the person you love is right there?? Honestly it wasn't love that brought you together, that's what's...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Every woman should read the book "He's just not that into you"...of course it's not written for married people having affairs, but the basic rule still applies! I've been a fool...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have been with my husband for seven years and married for one. We started dating when I was 17 and it was bliss for the longest time. My husbands step brother has been living...
    kbaby66 kbaby66 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    This is not infatuation, I've been infatuated before and this is completely different...I've been married 3 and 1/2 years and I love my husband though we have a rocky marriage...
    galaxyrea galaxyrea 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I have been married to the same man for a little over Ten years. With dating and everything we've been together for almost 12. Problem is off and on I've always wondered if he was...
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I am married, seven years next month and have always found it easier to make friends with the opposite sex. I found someone who felt down and we ended up picking each other up. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 25

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    How do I end it with my MM? He's been a jerk lately. I've forgiven him many times. Last week I forgave him for his online searches...he actually has kept his promise but he also...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Well this guy... Is married and has two children with a wife and everything. His kids are 8 and 2 and he says him and his wife have agreed to divorce in two years when his youngest...
    miracle98 miracle98 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Today I became neurotic...repeated myself 100 ways and forced my MM who actually had no plans in leaving me, to think about actually leaving me. He didn't want to break up with me...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Jul 7

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    My heart is feeling lonely just thinking about him 24/7...I feel so sad that I can't be with him 😔
    Mamasita25 Mamasita25 22-25, F Jul 4

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    I don't know what to do, can someone please just talk to me. I was with her until two months ago now she is with someone else. I am in pain.
    badgoodguy badgoodguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Okay so I fell in love with someone that I met on plenty of fish. Biggest mistake of my life! We got married and everything changed. He turned into be the biggest ******* I have...
    kelbear kelbear 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    The most depressing part of it all... There's nothing I can do to fix that. And I will always be reminded of her memory. If I were to go to hell to relive the worst moments in my...
    JaysGrief JaysGrief 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I can sense that familiar feelings in me again......i didn't wanted to be in love. but i am in love now; and this time i'm in love with someone i met online.. i know we can never...
    imawarrior7 imawarrior7 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm being completely honest here - to consider someone as a romantic interest I want to think they are the least bit cute. But in the end, when I fall in love with someone, it's...
    jasenamigala jasenamigala 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Im in love with someone for 4 years and we was in a relationship for 4 years but 2 months ago we broke up , he cheated on me with a girl , this girl is now his gf he moved on sooo...
    joyce2404 joyce2404 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I am in love with someone who lives 4,721 miles away.
    lookingforrea lookingforrea 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Honestly, I have fallen in love with someone on here. Not going to mention his name. But yeah, he's super sweet to me. Even though we don't talk much, he's just perfect to me. I...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My husband had an affair and I left him. I was not looking for anyone, I knew I was vulnerable and probably not a good idea. I made the mistake of communicating and eventually...
    RayMizae RayMizae 26-30, F Jul 8

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    If some1 tells u that he can telepath with u and everythin u feel towards him is coz of his msgs, will u fall in love with him??
    BushraAbbas BushraAbbas 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I thought I'd write a story and for the first time I plan on it being absolutely positive. Back in 2009 when my life was starting to fall apart, I joined an online chat programme...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    He is everything I could ask for. He doesn't push or demand that I do things, he asks. "If your ok with it and you want to can I have your number? Would you like to do this? Would...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm not sure if I love him but I like him slit but he likes someone else and I don't wan to tell him it's just so hard.
    Sunshine150 Sunshine150 13-15, F Jul 6

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    It all started when i was 11 i went to Guatemala to visit my family, when i met this cute kid one year older then me, we hung out a lot since he lived next door to my grandmas...
    Siomara Siomara 18-21 Jul 7

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    I dont know if this can even happen. But im actually really scared if what im feeling is true. We havent met each other in real life since we live across the Earth from each other...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've always loved talking to online strangers. There is something about the interaction that I continually craved. The thrill of getting to know someone miles away, the thrill of...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I am in love with my friends brother in law. He is gorgeous and has the sweetest personality. The one problem is he has a girl friend who has emotional problems. He tries to smile...
    staky85 staky85 26-30 Jul 6

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    its about 3 years I havent see him, 'cause yeah we are now school in a different place. I dont know the reason why, but actually a friend see a message or mention from twitter just...
    Katyaing Katyaing 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I want to share this with everyone, it would help me feel a bit lighter from inside. I am from India, I fell in love with a girl who is elder than me by 3 years. We used to talk...
    sharonnathaniel sharonnathaniel 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm in love with a someone who is in a relationship
    callllllllllie callllllllllie 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love gaming. I've always found it easier to hang around guys and I had grown up gaming since I was a kid. I made a Steam account a few months ago and I game on it almost everyday...
    skylasting skylasting 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I was falling In love with a man whom I can't have forever. I having a relationship with a man whom wanted to be part of my life. But sad to say he will just passed by after six...
    Anjelay Anjelay 22-25, F Jul 4

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    The person I whom I trusted blindly other than my family was my best friend. We met one and a half years ago. We are in the same college. I didn't know when I fell in love with him...
    Bella2911 Bella2911 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I have a best friend. I've known him for years and fell in love with him soon after we started getting close. We go to school together, talk everyday and all that. Over the past...
    Iamevolved Iamevolved 16-17, F Jun 24

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    Six Months Ago, on Christmas Day, at 7:30 PM, Unjusted and I met irl for the first time. It was an awkward meeting. We had chatted extensively online for several months in the...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 25

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    I fell in love with a boy who said he loved me back then left 😔
    daisyjane17 daisyjane17 16-17, F 9 Responses Jun 25

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    I met him last fall 2013 on skout. we've Been dating for 11 months.. We never seen each other in personal. We're just communicating through iMessage, Skype or FaceTime. He's in...
    Sabel25 Sabel25 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I met a man online in a PenPal app. He and I are in similar situations in our marriages and within a few months we started having feelings for each other. Unfortunately he's 5000...
    notlivinglife notlivinglife 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I love a girl who is suffering from a brain tumour. We match in almost every way, even though we live over 4000 miles from each other; she's American and I'm British. We always...
    tommycuffe tommycuffe 18-21, M 1 Response