I Am In Love With Someone I Cant Have

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    I'm married. My husband is verbally abusive

    quite often, and sometimes I really wish I could get out of this relationship. But I still love him. I also love someone else, though to be honest, it is fading, since I haven't seen him in over a year and only occasionally text him. Our communication went downhill after I got...
    Diipali Diipali
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    It's sad that sometimes we can't be "the one"

    that they love. We can't be the one to make them happy. And it's not because we aren't good enough or attractive enough, and it's not because they are horrible and selfish... It's because it's just not meant to be... One day you will find someone who will love you back, in the...
    missssyme missssyme
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    Had a great couple weeks with him

    and he says his girlfriend is back in town so we won't talk much now. He warned me almost daily about her return but it still stings. I want to sleep next to him. Not her. ;(
    Sellerbee616 Sellerbee616
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    I wish it could work

    but I know it won't i feel happy when I talk to her in the end my heart is broken
    northstar303 northstar303
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    This is killing me everyday.

    She came into my life& out of my life so quickly. Long distance thng.Not a relationship. We didnt fit any of society's conventional labels,or norms. This was unworldly. Magical. Seems like it was a dream. She and were meant to be,but I feel will never be which is the most...
    Sugasug Sugasug
    41-45, M
    May 28, 2015

    They're gone. I told them

    but I don't think they had enough time to hear me. I don't wish to share their real name so I'll replace it with their nickname Daisuki dayo, Meliodas
    MeliodasLelouch MeliodasLelouch
    18-21, T
    Feb 18, 2016

    Why does this heart still love you?

    When it knows you may never be mine. ? The feelings just won't go away ,no matter how hard i try. Your soul captured me a very long time ago and as the years go by we get closer and closer. But yet not close enough to what we want. What we truly want. We want to wake up with...
    solongago2 solongago2
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 25, 2015

    I'm in love with Lindsey Wixson

    and in her smile I see something more beautiful than poems...
    addicted2chaos addicted2chaos
    26-30, M
    Jan 27, 2016

    Being inlove with someone you can't have.

    . It just sucks. You feel so empty inside when you've gave them your everything yet you get nothing. & til this day, this boy will always have my heart. He's been my best friend for 6 years & I'd do anything in the world for him. How I feel about him is how he feels about another...
    Country00Girl Country00Girl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    He was my everything,

    he was my bestfriend. It was different, but I guess it just wasnt meant to be. 5 damn years and i still love him the same as I did when we first met. We barely talk anymore and I know he has forgotten about me completely. No matter how much life makes us coincidently bump into...
    believexoxo believexoxo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016

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    Dianecc11 Dianecc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    She realized she isn't actually bisexual.

    I never saw it coming. We're all moved in together. She was having intimacy issues that she thought were because of past abuse. Turns out it's because she's not actually bisexual. I never expected to find anyone like her. She's a needle in a haystack for someone like me. I didn...
    OrganicMachina OrganicMachina
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 30, 2016

    3 weeks since we have spoken.

    2 months since we last touched. I can't wait until I get over you. Because these lapses of time will be insignificant. And all you will be is a faint memory.
    DanniSwtSn DanniSwtSn
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 13, 2015
    lollyguy12345 lollyguy12345
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    I am still in love with my partner

    but unfortunately she is not in love with me. We were together for 8 years and broke up 4 months ago, She still wants to be friends but maybe it's too soon? All I know is I have a 💔
    TiaMaria24 TiaMaria24
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2014

    I continue to chase the same girl I can't have

    and it has cost me 3 relationships
    justmax justmax
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2014

    I've never had any luck with girls.

    I'm not good looking, smart, charming, social, I'm not desirable in any way... I always fall for girls that are smart, beautiful, athletic, sociable, and perfect. But Avery(I hope nobody lives in Southern California that knows her) was different. She actually knew I existed...
    NPkid44 NPkid44
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 5, 2014

    I snuck back and caught him off guard at work.

    He took me to an office, cleaned off the desk, layed down cardboard and his shirt on top of the cardboard. I leaned back on the desk and he gave me the best oral ever, then we had sex. He texted me afterwards to say WOW. I adore this man so much but our situations are...
    Sellerbee616 Sellerbee616
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    I don't hate him and I won't.

    I'm not going to blame someone for not loving me back. I'm not going to be mad at someone for not wanting to be with me. And I'm not going to call him an a**hole for not finding what he's searching for, in me. It sucks, but I can't hate him for being human. And one day, if I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2015

    i just got into a college,

    i met this senior, he seems fine and kind of cute. we used to say "excuse me" or "sorry" whenever we passed by senior. this senior always smile and say "okay" when i passed by him. and when my friend passed by him, he just stood and have a bitter smile. fyi, in my college all...
    shalleo shalleo
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2015
    allaboutbellasnj allaboutbellasnj
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2015

    The thought of being without him makes saddens

    me deeply. If he moves... I have no words to express the loss I will feel
    marveld marveld
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2016

    Why am I such a fool?

    I can't stop myself from loving you. Countless nights I've cried over you, Just because my feelings are true. You're up, you're down, Your feelings are all around. I need to stop lying to myself Because obviously you'll never love me. I've spent so many nights thinking about...
    silentlyscreaming102 silentlyscreaming102
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 5, 2014
    dearalexe dearalexe
    22-25, F
    Dec 12, 2014

    We met online 18 mo ago.

    ...I am falling in love with him. He is married I am in a 13 yr relationship. We both have kids and want the best for them. I can't stop thinking about the man! We have talked everyday almost. He has boundaries, I do not. I have told him exactly how I feel and he knows I am stuck...
    heart2fond heart2fond
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    I can’t stop the love i feel

    for you and I wish I could. I know that I can’t love a married man. It has caused me so much pain to love someone I can’t have in my life. It tears at my heart to know you are not able to love me the same way. I want you to know – I do love you and probably will always...
    hannagrace hannagrace
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2014

    im not truly looking

    for any once advice but its just a kind of confession . i am truly in love with a girl. truly blindly and madly, yeh ! im 20 yrs old and and my love is also of same age but different religion. now the problem is , v r not in love !! the relation started wn v whr in school and...
    secondfuture secondfuture
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 2, 2015

    Pretty much how it always has been.

    I love someone, they don't love me back. No matter who it is, there's always a reason not to like me.
    ZenithSky ZenithSky
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2014

    Im very madly in love with my best friend

    and what makes this situation such hell is because Im already in a relationship, not a very loving one but its still there. My best friend jokes about how he is in the permanent friend-zone and I just awkwardly rock back and forth on the heels of my feet and Ill chew on my...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I fell in love over 20 years ago

    and never let go. We loved one another but the timing was off, again and again. After years of heartache, I trusted my head over my heart and settled for a kind and sweet man with integrity... I felt I had no choice at the time. It kills me that I can't love my husband as he...
    blueskies100 blueskies100
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2014
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    He's a kid about 2 years younger

    than me and I've known him since I was 6... But recently I've noticed that I'm deeply in love with him... But it seems that he's straight :( and a little too young anyways...
    BabyKyle14 BabyKyle14
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2015

    He is married. We used to work together

    but now I work on a different floor. I think about him all the time and miss him but I don't go visit him so I can forget about him. He used to come up to me and talk everyday. When I was leaving the job he said " I won't get to see that pretty face or smile." I fell in love...
    Peaceful4 Peaceful4
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    I'm in love with someone I can never have.

    It's a complex situation, involving circumstances and distance, but the feelings are stronger now than they were a few months ago when we met. He came into my life like a car-crash - unexpected and chaotic. I was not prepared for him. Not one bit. We have been in contact...
    ally124 ally124
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    He is all I think about sometimes.

    It's all consuming, that given I want to call him out on his crap, but then I am afraid to because I don't want to lose him. Doesn't say much about me and my self worth. In the moment I believe he is truthful, but has no concept on how to remain so. One day it will crash down...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 1, 2016

    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.

    I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want to be in love. But, she's beautiful, kind and a pure soul. I've known her for a couple of years but we never really talk much. I get nervous...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17
    22-25, F
    May 3, 2015

    It's not so much that I can't have him,

    but I wont allow myself to cross out of the "friend zone" because he means too much to me and I would never want to risk losing him.
    AlexisH94 AlexisH94
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    so I've been out with this girl a few times

    and I've done some bad things I really regret she means the world to me and would do anything for her and I've cried over her for the past week I feel like committing suicide but everytime I look at her she makes me wanna stop she makes me happy I've told her this but al she...
    jamesMutch jamesMutch
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Feb 20, 2016
    FilleKenyane FilleKenyane
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    Yes. :'( I don't know what else to say.

    I don't need to say anymore. I love her and she doesn't love me back. Or even want to talk to me anymore.
    Iamafrog1997 Iamafrog1997
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    My best friends dad and I have been flirting

    for a month now. I want him and I know he wants me. I go to my friends house just to try and hook up with his dad.
    cuteflute8771 cuteflute8771
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Nov 3, 2014

    "A person doesn't know true hurt

    and suffering until they've felt the pain of falling in love with someone whose affections lie elsewhere" Ain't that the truth :(
    Milo77 Milo77
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Dec 13, 2014

    You were once kind, gentle,

    and caring. You comforted me when I felt alone. You gave me affection when no one else could or would...I made myself vulnerable to you...I love you.I don't regret anything I've done to show you my love. I don't expect you to still feel the same for me, all I can do is hope for...
    hannagrace hannagrace
    36-40, F
    Sep 6, 2014

    I Met Someone Who Is So Perfect......but He Belongs To Someone Else.....

    Have you ever met someone who is so perfect for you in so many ways.......they "get you".....you "get them"....they share the same passions, desires, lustfut thoughts...they are smart and funny....and always know how to make you laugh no matter what is going on... You want their...
    ThoseTearsofJoy ThoseTearsofJoy
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    It's crazy to be in love

    and know someone feels this strange immensely strong bond the same way you do and all u both want is the other to be happy and just that alone could make everything okay because you know the other is still smiling and seeing each other is all u want and the looks u share, the...
    WhoseMe WhoseMe
    22-25, F
    Mar 5, 2016

    I just broke up with fiance

    after a one year relationship. I love him so much and he's so good for me, but unfortunately we were in a long distance relationship which eventually got too much...
    alesha18 alesha18
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    yes about 6 or 7 months I think I fell in love

    with someone but with my issues plus that person doesn't and can't like me back
    deleted deleted
    Aug 28, 2015

    I like my best friends ex boyfriend.

    He's just so weird and i'm scared to start getting more and more feelings for him. My best friend keeps saying she is going to tell him but I always blackmail her so she doesn't. I kinda want him to know. I know he won't like me back but I still want him to know but i'm scared...
    Hai12321 Hai12321
    18-21, F
    Feb 26, 2016

    I really am in love with a guy on this he is

    just so nice and supportive and we have a lot in common but we have not been talking that much and I don't really think he likes me anyway.💔
    lealea12234 lealea12234
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

    I have no idea how to cope with the pain of

    being so in love with someone who doesn't love me. Couples who are in love with each other, I hope you are grateful and never take each other for granted, because not everyone finds that happiness. Sometimes Cupid shoots one of you through the heart and then just f**ks off! I...
    Milo77 Milo77
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2015

    I just needed to vent somewhere.

    I am in a relationship of 3 years. I went away to my home country in that time over 8 months to work and I fell madly in love with somebody there and he with me. He is from another religion so we could not even have imagined when we met that we would be. We walked around it...
    Krystal1989 Krystal1989
    26-30, F
    Jan 12, 2016

    I thought I was over him

    but he posted a picture of himself on Facebook.. So not over him.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    we both love each other

    but can never be together...
    babe0318 babe0318
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    There is this guy that I met in my English 110

    class last fall and we hit it off. He made me laugh so hard it was great. We exchanged numbers (kiks, instagrams, etc) we were texting up a storm when I realized he had a girlfriend when I asked him about it they were on the outs because she was moving. But she didn't move. And...
    JKenagy JKenagy
    18-21, F
    Jun 26, 2015

    love is a wonderful feeling,

    am living the life i meant for me.thanks to dr faust a spell caster i met here..my love life is back..thanks Faust..if u are having issues in any issues of life.......thanks to him my husband came back.give him a try +447035914441
    rosemyers rosemyers
    51-55, F
    Aug 17, 2015
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