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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    The only point where you can say

    that you're ready for love is at the same point where you can say you're ready to get hurt.
    Adonisalala Adonisalala 18-21, M May 8

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    I'm in love with my ex n I know I can't have

    him anymore that hurts I feel useless because I couldn't help him I wish that he would come and there could be a us again but I know it's not possible I know you were stuggle but I could of help you but you never let me I hate to think that maybe it's over for good my...
    angie314 angie314 13-15, F 1 Response May 15

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    I'm in love with someone I know I can never

    have. We used to be super close then he just stopped acting like he wanted to talk to me. I'd give just about anything to hold him again.
    CassidyRose4905 CassidyRose4905 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    after 4 long years i can finally get to see her

    again. I'm so excited!!!!!! i just want to hold her, look into her eyes and tell her how much i missed her ...
    sephiroth04 sephiroth04 26-30, M 4 Responses Apr 23

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    MiserysChild MiserysChild 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    there's this girl, she's amazing,

    really pretty and the kindest person I've ever met but I'm really close friends with her friend and she thinks we "flirt" which we don't, but she says she won't go out with me if me and her friend/ my friend stay as close as we are so idk what to do.
    Akitten1 Akitten1 18-21, M 2 Responses May 14

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    Maybe someday... if all the terms are met,

    i will find you and love you.
    Adonisalala Adonisalala 18-21, M 2 Responses May 7

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    I still like my ex who is dating one of my best

    friends cousins and I am happy for them but I cant help but smile every time I see him because I think of everything we did together. I feel so bad but I want him back but I cant have him, they are so happy together and im so lonely without him :'(
    cuttergirl16 cuttergirl16 13-15, F May 5

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    I'm in love with my sister (not actual blood

    sister, we are just so close and like-minded that our friends call us sisters). She recently came out to me as bisexual - and told me that the reason she told me is because she knows that I'm bisexual - and she also admitted that at one point she had a crush on me, but started...
    EmoGirl286 EmoGirl286 13-15, F 3 Responses May 12

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    Once again she came into sight,

    talks between us starting happening, The smoke of the past is still pricking my eyes, Her condition is unlike mine, Why is there a little sadness in this happiness? why is that same old world forming again? The world from which I had come far away, Its once again coming to view...
    dreamchaser23 dreamchaser23 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    A few weeks ago, i met the most amazing girl.

    .. i've been seeing her around at school for a while, but never really bothered to talk to her. Then, one night, by total chance, we began to have a conversation. Immediately i realized that i was a fool for not talking to her earlier. She turned out to be an amazing person...
    BMWMP0WER BMWMP0WER 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I want him. I have the feelings

    that I just want to hold him and hold him. I have no idea why. I have to keep telling myself I mustn't even look in his direction. I keep telling myself I can't go there. It's so bad :(
    hopeandsoul hopeandsoul 16-17, F 2 Responses May 1

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    my english teacher he is

    so sexy. he has the most beautiful blue eyes ever. whenever he looks at me i feel all tingly if he smiles at me my heart races. i want to be with him so bad.
    kaylee13 kaylee13 13-15, F May 7

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    Okay, there's J.Cole,

    Ben Affleck, Obama, Paul Walker, and Drake.The above are dreams, and there are two other real people but the one is married and the other in a relationship. Also, I am fat, jobless, I stink, and am trapped in a Hellish marriage!
    sesi1116 sesi1116 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    Do you ever feel like you have

    so much love to give - you could care for them, ask them about their day, listen to their stories, hug them, kiss them, tell them how great they are and how you love them more than anything in the world...you don't even expect to be loved back, all you want is a place in their...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 1 Response May 13

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    It's a hard feeling to know

    that it won't happen yet knowing that loving them means you'll be there for them no matter what. I can't figure out how to shut off the pain.
    ProphetaMessias ProphetaMessias 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I miss someone who isn't mine to miss,

    I dream about someone who isn't mine to dream about, I love someone who isn't mine to love. All my love's flying in the sand..~ *rolls around with blanket like a burrito*
    Ikimoem0 Ikimoem0 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    It sucks doesn't it. Liking someone you can't

    have.. Seeing them everyday, but knowing that they'll never be yours.. It's the worst feeling, cause all you can do is dream about and wish for them, but never have them..
    JennyAB JennyAB 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    from time to time when i no longer can control

    my heart i write here at ep each time i hope she will read it some day after each time i write i wonder why my words cant win her heart i know now she will never be mine yet when i cant control my heart it speaks her name my good wishes for her i wish she lives a wonderful...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 1

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    I met her. I liked her.

    I wanted her. I love her. I can't have her. She met me. She liked me. She didn't want me. She doesn't love me. She can have me. Its stupid i know. It's time for me to move on. I finally give up. She won't have to worry about me anymore.
    classykitty classykitty 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    I cant quite believe what happened to me today.

    Hubby and i took our 14 yr old to a soccer trourno......and HE ( my AP) turned up and stood right next to ys on the touchline with his 'partner'. He hadnt seen me. I scutted off to the loo and texted him. Altho its almost 2 yrs since weve seen one another we stayed in touch...
    sillysoo sillysoo 46-50, F 1 Response May 11

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    I am just dying to get intouch with you.

    Im missing you again. I want to hear your voice and see your face but im being a good girl. I dont want to smother you with my love. I will give you your space and the chance to decide if you want me as much as i want you. Its nice to feel wanted somtimes,also since your the...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 1 Response May 13

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    She is my light, my best friend,

    she is selfless, always the for others, always smiling while I think she cried last night. I love her, worry about her, want her to be happy.. But she says it all doesn't matter. I don't matter to her.
    Thirsty1975 Thirsty1975 36-40, M 1 Response May 12

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    I've known my best friend

    since we were 7 years old, now we're 18 and we have spent most of our life together. I had my girlfriends and he had his, but recently I've been having some different feelings.. I want to be with him all the time, hug him, kiss him. But none of these things are possible because...
    LipieCastro LipieCastro 18-21, M 1 Response May 2

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    I still think about her almost everyday

    and I still wonder if she thinks about me at all. But it doesn't hurt very much any more. I hope she is happy.
    dub000 dub000 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    I think I've fallen hard this time.

    . And I hate it cause I'm not sure I can figure him out.. And I don't want to get my heart broken again again 😔
    XTheSkinImAmInX XTheSkinImAmInX 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Hey I am in love with like my bestfriend

    but she has a boyfriend we usely can talk about anything but today she is fixing things with her bf Idk how I feel about this I want her to love me so bad but I want her to be happy I am confused and scared she does not want to be my friend anymore I am just scared and hurt
    Jamison96 Jamison96 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    people tell me i am lucky i dont reply

    usually just say this in my heart am i lucky will be the person who will have her who will share sunsets and sunrises with her who will give her jacket or coat when she is cold while walking who will watch her in wedding dress i can only imagine and my imagination shows me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1

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    Dear my secret friend,

    I have really loved you since I have met you. Last in year we first met. You were the first person I really met on hear and one I still talk to as often as I can. The distance is far between us. However we are so similar. I care about you so much, no matter your past, no matter...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 7 Responses Feb 4

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    I can't describe the pain I feel seeing her

    so happy with someone else. I wish I could just tell her how I feel about her but there's no point, and there's no way I'd want her to feel bad for making me feel like this when she hasn't done anything wrong. When she texts me or we meet it feels magic, but afterwards I just...
    Milo77 Milo77 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    He is older than me. He is the first thing on

    my mind in the morning and the last as I slip into sleep. The way he holds me makes me want to cry. We have been secretly seeing each other behind closed doors for over a year now because he has a wife, whom he is separated from, and children. Some days I want to leave it all...
    goddessstorm goddessstorm 22-25, F 1 Response May 15

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    I spoke to her for the first time in a year

    and a half on the weekend. it was only for 20 minutes. It was a milestone Birthday and I wasn't going to let go by without acknowledgment. She was happy and surprised to hear from me, and it was nice catching up on a few key elements of our lives. If my wife knew, she'd kill...
    jackflash3300 jackflash3300 31-35, M 3 Responses May 6

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    i did my best to stop thinking about you but

    what do i do you keep appearing in my thoughts my plans for future in front of eyes as an imagination prince of dreams aka M
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1

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    Many. They are married.

    Me is polybi. One is single but sick. Me is disabled too. We are too far away. And me hates cities. So me cares for them. And advises. And breathes because they care back.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 2 Responses May 4

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Tv ****** me off with their interpretations of

    love stories. I try every chance I can to see the guy I love. Just to see him, maybe say hello. But it never works out right. Tv tells people that it's so easy, the person you love is everywhere you turn and you can't help but see them and be reminded of what you can't have...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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