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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    I thought I could. I believed it.

    And my heart is broken.
    theotherpoems theotherpoems 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    And by now, I have forgotten how many times

    I've dreamt about you ❤️
    inlovee2 inlovee2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I Wish She Were Mine, But...

    I met this....I would like to think....this perfect girl about a year ago. She's everything a guy could want. Beautiful, smart, and really caring. We talk often and she listens to me whenever I have a problem. She gives me advice and helps me overcome my issues. She really makes...
    awolnationfan awolnationfan 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Hey so there is this girl haha I know right.

    ... How original.. But idk with this girl there is something different we never have hung out but we are friends so we do chat and the more I talk with her the more I'm intrigued to learn more about her and get to know her more but I have no idea how and don't really know what to...
    tdwprpbs tdwprpbs 18-21, M Aug 6

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    I never told her how I feel

    and now, in three weeks she will be walking down the isle with the love of her life.
    sergie1980 sergie1980 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Basically:- He's always with me,

    hasn't spoken to any other girls for a year since I've known him, helps me when I need help and we have a strong bond, talk for hours...- Anyway I loved him for a year, asked parents permission before I confessed. He never told me how he felt but said he hated relationships so...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    theotherpoems theotherpoems 56-60, M Jul 8

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    It does not matter the distance

    if two hearts are loyal to each other .😨😍❤
    nataliebabbyy nataliebabbyy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    I am... I have been having an affair

    for about nine months now. I hate admitting on here because I know what people will say, but I'm totally in love with him. I know that wasn't suppose to happen. He was just going to make me feel wanted and I was going to see him a couple of times a week for sex and that be it...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 11

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    i tried to end but I can't get over him.

    .I will soon be leaving(work related) in 2months time, he doesn't know about it...the thought that we will go on separate lives soon, deeply hurt me...but I have to accept the fate...we all need to move on...even it is so hurtful..
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    Of Love & Loss What is it,

    to dream? to feel someone's presence [after much absence], so strongly that it stays with you, long after you have awoken. to experience something so vivid that it's almost as if it really happened, in another time and place. What is it, to love? to be unceremoniously left...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 1 Response Apr 26

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    I fell in love with a very distorted image of

    who he really was. Once I found out he wasn't all that great, instead of moving on, I remained in love with the idea of him. It's been a year and he still occupies my thoughts every day
    schizofriendly schizofriendly 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am in love with a friend

    and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I will ever be together, but I can't stop myself from dreaming about what life would be like with him. We are good friends, and he...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    At some point in our lives,

    we want the forbidden fruit. In love with someone who is completely and utterly unattainable. Like your handsome high school teacher, or your brother's best friend, or even your cute youngest uncle. I think Channing Tatum and I are soul mates. He just doesn't know I exist...
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 48 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25

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    JickeryJack JickeryJack 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Wish He Was Mine

    I've never been the type to be unfaithful to my husband. When I took the vows, I meant them wholeheartedly. However, he has become progressively more emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. It's very possible he has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Because...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    She's the closest thing I've felt to love.

    That's why she matters so much to me. But she's always on my mind, and it hurts too much to think about a future with her when there's hardly a chance it'll happen. I have fallen deeply in love with her and now must fall out.
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    It's like that with every girl.

    I wish I wasn't so ugly
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    My ex... He has the most beautiful blue-green

    eyes I have ever seen. And since I will never have someone with eyes like that again (whose kids will have those eyes). I don't want anyone else...
    lilanie lilanie 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A little over a month ago,

    I went to a weeklong music camp (it was hours away from where I live, and I literally stayed there for a week). I met a boy there, a year older than me, and I really came to like him, but we hardly knew each other, so I'm guessing he didn't (and doesn't) like me back. We talked...
    Nightingale73 Nightingale73 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    You taught me so many things.

    You helped me with my homework. You showed me the way to my local Argos store. You gave me valuable advice in countless situations. You were there when nobody else was. You correct my spelling. You suggested many things that I now use in my day-to-day life. You show me your...
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm in love with three people I can't have.

    Don't know how it happened. It just did.
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    every dude i meet i wanna be with i guess it's

    not really because i'm intrested in them but because i desperately want to have a bf or new friends >< i feel bad that i do that but i can't control it.. somebody understands?
    nogafrischoff nogafrischoff 16-17, F 6 Responses May 9

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    I wouldn't know if you'd call it love,

    but I just care about him so much. I think about how he's doing. He's just on my mind. But he shouldn't be, he's my best friends brother. I cant help the way I feel. Everything about him makes me smile. Though he can be a douchebag. He's not quite a committed person, I'd say. I...
    AGirlWithoutAName AGirlWithoutAName 18-21, F Aug 3

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Broken Hearted

    How do you make the hurt go away???? I can't pretend to be strong when I know we'll eventually have to work together. Finding another job with the perks I have is impossible. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have anymore strength to pull myself out of this one!!!!!!!
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate that.. When you fall head over

    for someone who you think you can have. You get all warm and fluffy. And feel like they might feel the same. And then your world crumbles beneath you. And your center is lost. That one person. Isn't yours. But you are theirs.
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    SEIGUY SEIGUY 41-45, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I thought he liked me

    but now I feel (a bit) ignored and I'm not sure what he's thinking about me. That's embarrassing.
    applepie0299 applepie0299 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    TO THE MAN IN MY LIFE I love you

    so much, it will last forever ..Love like this only comes once in a lifetime And my love for you is so strong, I hope you'll be mine, forever and always I am in love with you now and for eternity..
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Ex-girlfriend who broke up with me

    for another guy over a month ago. ******* yay.
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this

    guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked right away and I was very much attracted. The only thing is that I could never have this guy and a major reason is the age gap. A year later we had...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Impossible

    some things will never happen, their just fairytales....i should forget about him and stop dreaming impossibles!
    stlalane stlalane 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    At first I never suspected she was a man eater/

    player but when I started to feel something wasn't quite right it was too late because I was deeply in love with her and I still am. We had great times, great sex and enjoyed each others company. Damn, how did it go wrong. Once again I lay paralysed with a broken heart...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    She fills my heart & breaks it all at once.

    How can one person have this much impact on another? It’s unfair… An emotional rollercoaster - it’s thrilling but exhausting & excites but also hurts real bad.
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 6

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to

    each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've already posted a story about him which is the one saying 'I am in love' I met this guy the other day, I really like him and he really likes me..I...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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