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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    So I am completely in love with my bestfriends

    brother. I am most positive that he dose not like me... He has a girl friend that has already broken his heart. The only reason they are together is because they you know do stuff together.. It's not a real relationship.... Why can't he see that I am here I truly love him...
    kkdashner kkdashner 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I'm 12 and I really like this girl

    and are families r friends and we've known each other for a really long time and I'm kinda shy and I'm scared to ask her out wat should I do?
    pearce8721 pearce8721 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    ...for as long as we have constant

    communication through text and brief phone conversation......sometimes it is easier and better to love him from a safe distance...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I had a crush with a senior.

    we were in the same theatre club but I don't know what to do so... I kept it secret. I sent a letter to him telling him that I loved him but I didn't wrote my name in the letter. now he's graduated and is now studying abroad. :(
    gytriajeng gytriajeng 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Why does a small, stupid "hi :)" text from him

    make my day....ugh - why do I allow myself to put so much hope and happiness into such a silly little thing???
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 20

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    ...there isn't a day in my life

    that you are not in my thoughts...the other day when I texted you-"I am cooking and preparing my fave food for dinner and wish that someday you will be here to join dinner with me"...I thought I will be fine loving you from a distance..but every day I am wishing you will be my...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    I Wish She Were Mine, But...

    I met this....I would like to think....this perfect girl about a year ago. She's everything a guy could want. Beautiful, smart, and really caring. We talk often and she listens to me whenever I have a problem. She gives me advice and helps me overcome my issues. She really makes...
    awolnationfan awolnationfan 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    It does not matter the distance

    if two hearts are loyal to each other .😨😍❤
    nataliebabbyy nataliebabbyy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I want to share this with everyone,

    it would help me feel a bit lighter from inside. I am from India, I fell in love with a girl who is elder than me by 3 years. We used to talk, share and care for each other. But her parents were never positive about us, they wanted someone too rich for their daughter. She was...
    sharonnathaniel sharonnathaniel 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ...never regret anything you have done with a

    sincere affection, nothing is lost that is born of the heart...i miss you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F a week ago

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    My First Story On Here So I just have to make

    it about her...my grief is what brought me to this site in the first place. Perhaps a place to vent out my pain? Well, let my put it like this: I've been an unwilling victim to the tortures of unrequited love for a good six years already. She is my dear friend...she is my first...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 29

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    JessiLin JessiLin 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...took the courage of not calling

    or texting him since yesterday evening...trying to control my feelings to stop communicating with him until Ramadan is over...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 13

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    "Good morning, I miss you" is how I started my

    day texting you with this almost every day..."Good night, I miss you" is how i ended my day before going to sleep...waiting for you until Ramadan is over...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    Broken Hearted

    How do you make the hurt go away???? I can't pretend to be strong when I know we'll eventually have to work together. Finding another job with the perks I have is impossible. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have anymore strength to pull myself out of this one!!!!!!!
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    I love josh hutcherson

    but he is famous and I'm not
    JoshKilbride JoshKilbride 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    ...i cried now and thinking

    that this is unfair...why i need to fall in love with him...why he stares and look at me through the eyes that almost touches my soul on our first meeting...why there is another meeting with his eyes looking at me deep into my soul...why i can"t avoid him even he admitted that...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5

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    ...trying to let go of him,

    but it's hurting me so much...can't bear the thought of not communicating with him at all...i'm so hurt...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Aentha Aentha 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I get anxiety when I see him.

    . Even before I see him. Can't really look at him or carry a conversation. Always regret after how I act not too interested... but I'm sure he knows.. he needs affirmation just as much as I do. Hate this feeling... Every little thing he does or say has so much power over me...
    Mira53 Mira53 36-40, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Lol I was at Vans Warped Tour

    and I was sitting in a small opera-house-style stadium, waiting for a band to come on that I kinda knew. Another well-known band came on and I saw the bassist. Let me tell you something about the bassist. He has a lion's mane of long, curly black tendrils, and a pearly white...
    hornewrecked hornewrecked 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I am... I have been having an affair

    for about nine months now. I hate admitting on here because I know what people will say, but I'm totally in love with him. I know that wasn't suppose to happen. He was just going to make me feel wanted and I was going to see him a couple of times a week for sex and that be it...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 11

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    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    At some point in our lives,

    we want the forbidden fruit. In love with someone who is completely and utterly unattainable. Like your handsome high school teacher, or your brother's best friend, or even your cute youngest uncle. I think Channing Tatum and I are soul mates. He just doesn't know I exist...
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    ...we can close our eyes to the things we do

    not want to see, but we cannot close our heart to the things we do not want to feel...i miss you...i love you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I always wish him to be happy.

    ..but I also wish myself to be with him in every moments of happiness...i miss him and his eyes that stares deep down to my soul...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 49 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    enough of controlling myself

    because I just love him more..after office, I texted him...and after 3 hours he texted back...telling me that he's fine and asking me if Im also doing fine...just a simple text...but mean so much for both of us...i miss him so much...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F a week ago

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    We were so in love, but we agreed the timing

    wasn't right and the distance would be difficult. We still stay in touch. He said he's dating someone now, but he also gave me reason to believe he still loves me, or at the very least still thinks about me romantically. I still think about him all the time. I have tried for...
    SacredEarth SacredEarth 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...yesterday afternoon I received a missed call

    from him...and when i return back the call ...he did not answer...i did not text him "goodnight, i miss you" and "good morning , i miss you"...i want him to do the first move...still waiting...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I'm in love with a someone

    who is in a relationship
    callllllllllie callllllllllie 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Impossible

    some things will never happen, their just fairytales....i should forget about him and stop dreaming impossibles!
    stlalane stlalane 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    I'm 13 and i'm in love with my cousin.

    I am most likely sure she's my 2nd cousin so that might make a difference. She doesn't want to ruin our good cousin bond and everything but she's all I can think about. No matter what I do, she's always there. I don't know what to do. Please help
    smaemura smaemura 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    every dude i meet i wanna be with i guess it's

    not really because i'm intrested in them but because i desperately want to have a bf or new friends >< i feel bad that i do that but i can't control it.. somebody understands?
    nogafrischoff nogafrischoff 16-17, F 6 Responses May 9

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    I just figured out that my crush

    for over past 5 months is a married man, but from the signals he gave me throughout the past 5 months (i.e. stares at me, stares at my best friend when I'm not around, those typical gestures) and the fact that I've never seen him wearing his wedding ring (that got me liked him...
    gabriellakanon gabriellakanon 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Sometimes life just isn't fair.

    .. So many times people with huge hearts like myself love someone so strongly..and that other person scarcely notices, thinks nothing of their existence... I wish I had met you so much sooner...I wish there were any help for it...but this is a love that will never be other than...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Wish He Was Mine

    I've never been the type to be unfaithful to my husband. When I took the vows, I meant them wholeheartedly. However, he has become progressively more emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. It's very possible he has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Because...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20

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    I can't disconnect the person I think he is

    and who he really is.. I think I'm caught in what I think a relationship with him would be like. I feel like he'll be the first guy that won't care about what I look like, just me. Or the first guy to ever find me attractive. I know realistically that just doesn't happen at my...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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