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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    i tried to end but I can't get over him.

    .I will soon be leaving(work related) in 2months time, he doesn't know about it...the thought that we will go on separate lives soon, deeply hurt me...but I have to accept the fate...we all need to move on...even it is so hurtful..
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Ex-girlfriend who broke up with me

    for another guy over a month ago. ******* yay.
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Hey so there is this girl haha I know right.

    ... How original.. But idk with this girl there is something different we never have hung out but we are friends so we do chat and the more I talk with her the more I'm intrigued to learn more about her and get to know her more but I have no idea how and don't really know what to...
    tdwprpbs tdwprpbs 18-21, M Aug 6

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25

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    I am... I have been having an affair

    for about nine months now. I hate admitting on here because I know what people will say, but I'm totally in love with him. I know that wasn't suppose to happen. He was just going to make me feel wanted and I was going to see him a couple of times a week for sex and that be it...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 11

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 10 Responses May 23

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    I had him and I ruined it.

    I got too jealous, too clingy, too demanding, too sweet. He moved on. He just wants to be friends and I can't do that when I love him so much on another level.
    becxboo becxboo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to

    each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've already posted a story about him which is the one saying 'I am in love' I met this guy the other day, I really like him and he really likes me..I...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    theotherpoems theotherpoems 56-60, M Jul 8

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    It's like that with every girl.

    I wish I wasn't so ugly
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    She's the closest thing I've felt to love.

    That's why she matters so much to me. But she's always on my mind, and it hurts too much to think about a future with her when there's hardly a chance it'll happen. I have fallen deeply in love with her and now must fall out.
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Impossible

    some things will never happen, their just fairytales....i should forget about him and stop dreaming impossibles!
    stlalane stlalane 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    Wish He Was Mine

    I've never been the type to be unfaithful to my husband. When I took the vows, I meant them wholeheartedly. However, he has become progressively more emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. It's very possible he has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Because...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    Been trying to convince myself to move on.

    . Staying distant.. Silent... Feeling sorry for myself and alone but staying strong... And then... She ruins it all with a simple text that made me ridiculously happy.. I feel so powerless when it comes to her... It's pathetic... lol I find it ironic cause I mastered the art of...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20

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    We flirt(ed) all the time in person,

    we'd hug and sit together and have inside jokes at the back of the bus even though he's 3 years older and it looked slightly weird to all his and my friends. We'd talk occasionally on Facebook. Now he's left. He's going to uni so he's never getting my bus again. That's it, poof...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    I am in love with a friend

    and colleague who is happily married to a woman he calls his soulmate (and she is beautiful and lovely.) There is absolutely no chance that he and I will ever be together, but I can't stop myself from dreaming about what life would be like with him. We are good friends, and he...
    brendabrenda brendabrenda 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always loved him

    since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never cared what anyone thought...I admired that, but it was also that very thing that I hated about him. He also didn't care...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I hate that.. When you fall head over

    for someone who you think you can have. You get all warm and fluffy. And feel like they might feel the same. And then your world crumbles beneath you. And your center is lost. That one person. Isn't yours. But you are theirs.
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I Wish She Were Mine, But...

    I met this....I would like to think....this perfect girl about a year ago. She's everything a guy could want. Beautiful, smart, and really caring. We talk often and she listens to me whenever I have a problem. She gives me advice and helps me overcome my issues. She really makes...
    awolnationfan awolnationfan 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5

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    And by now, I have forgotten how many times

    I've dreamt about you ❤️
    inlovee2 inlovee2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    So basically I was instantly attracted to this

    guy the first time I laid eyes on him. He wasn't hot or anything but he was cute to me and just something about him had me hooked right away and I was very much attracted. The only thing is that I could never have this guy and a major reason is the age gap. A year later we had...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    At first I never suspected she was a man eater/

    player but when I started to feel something wasn't quite right it was too late because I was deeply in love with her and I still am. We had great times, great sex and enjoyed each others company. Damn, how did it go wrong. Once again I lay paralysed with a broken heart...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    I thought I could. I believed it.

    And my heart is broken.
    theotherpoems theotherpoems 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 48 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    At some point in our lives,

    we want the forbidden fruit. In love with someone who is completely and utterly unattainable. Like your handsome high school teacher, or your brother's best friend, or even your cute youngest uncle. I think Channing Tatum and I are soul mates. He just doesn't know I exist...
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I thought he liked me

    but now I feel (a bit) ignored and I'm not sure what he's thinking about me. That's embarrassing.
    applepie0299 applepie0299 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Broken Hearted

    How do you make the hurt go away???? I can't pretend to be strong when I know we'll eventually have to work together. Finding another job with the perks I have is impossible. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have anymore strength to pull myself out of this one!!!!!!!
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    My boyfriend is a Muslim

    and am a Christain it kills me that I might never be with him. This is because his family wants him to marry a Muslim. I feel like this is unfair and an individual should marry who ever they want.In Islam a Muslim man can marry a Christian woman anyway but his family won't...
    shumirai shumirai 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    I fell in love with a guy from spain.

    Real love. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He tried to do so many things to me when nobody was around and i almost allowed it. He knew how i felt.. But then he did the same to other girls.. And then i learned he was in a relationship already. I cant stop thinking...
    Jovifroyo Jovifroyo 18-21 3 Responses Aug 11

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    TO THE MAN IN MY LIFE I love you

    so much, it will last forever ..Love like this only comes once in a lifetime And my love for you is so strong, I hope you'll be mine, forever and always I am in love with you now and for eternity..
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    She fills my heart & breaks it all at once.

    How can one person have this much impact on another? It’s unfair… An emotional rollercoaster - it’s thrilling but exhausting & excites but also hurts real bad.
    megmegmeggers megmegmeggers 18-21, F Aug 6

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    SEIGUY SEIGUY 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm in love with three people I can't have.

    Don't know how it happened. It just did.
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    She was my best friend.

    We were extremely close. Then, one day, she found out, and after about a month she abandoned me. She won't answer the phone or reply to a text. She moved a year ago, so I couldn't be there for her... And she isn't here at all. Everyone tries to say it wasn't my fault, or just...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I fell in love with a very distorted image of

    who he really was. Once I found out he wasn't all that great, instead of moving on, I remained in love with the idea of him. It's been a year and he still occupies my thoughts every day
    schizofriendly schizofriendly 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My ex... He has the most beautiful blue-green

    eyes I have ever seen. And since I will never have someone with eyes like that again (whose kids will have those eyes). I don't want anyone else...
    lilanie lilanie 36-40 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Of Love & Loss What is it,

    to dream? to feel someone's presence [after much absence], so strongly that it stays with you, long after you have awoken. to experience something so vivid that it's almost as if it really happened, in another time and place. What is it, to love? to be unceremoniously left...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 22-25 1 Response Apr 26

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    I'm a lesbian who is married to a guy.

    When we first got together I was confused, then we had a baby and now I don't want to leave....But I'm in love with someone else, however she is also married but bisexual, she's very loyal to her husband though. I don't know what to do.
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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