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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    Dear my secret friend,

    I have really loved you since I have met you. Last in year we first met. You were the first person I really met on hear and one I still talk to as often as I can. The distance is far between us. However we are so similar. I care about you so much, no matter your past, no matter...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 4

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    I am desperately in love with someone I can

    NEVER have. I look up at the sky and think over and over again- why do I even exist in this selfish, cynical world? Tears of frustration and anxiety always well up in my eyes because of her. We crave for handful of attention. We try to look the very best just for our loved ones...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    We had our day yesterday.

    A day i was waiting for all my life. It was nothing short of amazing. We just spent an entire day together..doing whatever we wanted to do. We lay in eachothers arms.. watched movies.. kissed..made love several times.. ate ..drank.. he made tea for me in the evening.. hes so...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    we're both married but

    that doesn't matter. I want to be with her and she feels the same way. very soon we will see each other and the time we spend together will be like a dream come true. even though I can't spend the rest of my life with her, I'll make sure she stays in my life forever
    sephiroth04 sephiroth04 26-30, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Is it too much to ask

    for someone to love you as much as you love them?? I seriously don't know anymore. I love her I really do, but God please let me forget her. Or move on from her. I am so sick of fighting for her and always being second place. You know when you're going through a breakup and...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey I am in love with like my bestfriend

    but she has a boyfriend we usely can talk about anything but today she is fixing things with her bf Idk how I feel about this I want her to love me so bad but I want her to be happy I am confused and scared she does not want to be my friend anymore I am just scared and hurt
    Jamison96 Jamison96 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    "It used to be saving us

    but now it's just breaking us... Get away, get away, get away."
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F Mar 24

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 46 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 6 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    how is this possible?

    and how to let go.... i am deeply and truly in love. the world is unfair.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I tried so hard to move on

    and live my own life, but no matter how hard I try I couldn't move on. The sad part is I don't think I can love again; I went out on several dates but he is the only person I could think of, I push away nice guys, I hurt some of them, and it's driving me crazy.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Would it make any difference

    if I said I loved you? Because I do, and no physical distance or social barriers are going to change that. The only thing that matters is what changes between us should I ever tell you that I love you. Would we be better for it, or worse? Or does it even matter anymore? If...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F Oct 24, 2014

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    I met him two years ago.

    He is my coworker and married with two beautiful kids. Our connection was imminent the minute we met. We connected like no other. I knew that day that I will fall in love with him, and I knew that he already is falling for me. He lives in Europe and I live in US... But for two...
    freebutchained freebutchained 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In a few hours we will be together.

    I know you are thinking twice and so am i because we will feel ****** after it. But we have dreamed of this chance for soo long and now that we are getting it i think we should just let it happen one last time. Let us have our moment together and then we shall be done i promise...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I have feelings for someone

    who lives far away. someone who doesn't know about my feelings for him. someone who doesn't feel the same way about me. someone I can't have.
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    The Worst Regret We Can Have In Life Is Not For

    The Wrong Things We Did....BUT...For The Thousands Of The Right Things we Did For The Wrong People.....
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    It's a hard feeling to know

    that it won't happen yet knowing that loving them means you'll be there for them no matter what. I can't figure out how to shut off the pain.
    ProphetaMessias ProphetaMessias 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    It's so painful..so much

    so that I can barely focus on anything else. Every stupid little thing reminds me of him. Especially good stuff, things that used to make me happy..like eating, smiling, working out, listening to music, listening to the radio..even stupid things like sitting in my ******* math...
    MyMindCravesNectar MyMindCravesNectar 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Im too in love with him.

    .. Now that i have lost him... I need some distraction as i am constantly thinking about him and its hurting.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    She was the reason why I cut myself last year.

    She's the reason I have scars on my arms and heart. But at the same time she's the reason why I keep going. Why I keep smiling. Hoping that one day we could be together. But she is also hurt. Hurt by her past. I'd like to hold her forever and take away all her pain, so she could...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 4

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    It sucks doesn't it. Liking someone you can't

    have.. Seeing them everyday, but knowing that they'll never be yours.. It's the worst feeling, cause all you can do is dream about and wish for them, but never have them..
    JennyAB JennyAB 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I'm in love with this guy

    and it's tearing me apart. We were friends, than we added the "benefits" and then he found a girl...a girl he probably doesn't love, but she's his girl and she can have him. I can't. Two years have passed and I tried to force myself to control my feelings. I always knew it was...
    Lor97 Lor97 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    I still think about her almost everyday

    and I still wonder if she thinks about me at all. But it doesn't hurt very much any more. I hope she is happy.
    dub000 dub000 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    We belong together. Everyone knows it.

    We click. We make sense. I miss talking to you and I have to stop myself from wanting to kiss you or hold your hand. This is so difficult. Will it get better? I'm not going to let down my guard again because it only leads to this... Wanting to be with someone who I cannot have
    delicious78 delicious78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I have been in love with a man

    for 4 years now..I truly believe it is the only time in my life that I have felt this strongly about a man..we are friends...he knows I love him, he cares about me and has feelings of love for me but is not in love with me. I am so attached to him, I know it is in my best...
    Omhippiesoul Omhippiesoul 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I have a severe crush with my brothers football

    coach and sixth grade basketball coach. Gosh hes just so amazing blue eyes and brown hair the total package. He is really sweet and says all the right things I really wish i could have him but i cant...
    ilovemusic7 ilovemusic7 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    its official. im head over heels

    for him. you would think a year apart from each other would make my feelings for him go away but instead it made it grow stronger. I know its not right to love him but since he has come back into my life I have been so full of joy again. that sparkle that I lost have come back...
    lonelymom1982 lonelymom1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    It's funny how time flows fast.

    I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him. I thought of him everyday and I dreamt about him. It took me three weeks to find him again but unfortunately he turned out to be...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I miss someone who isn't mine to miss,

    I dream about someone who isn't mine to dream about, I love someone who isn't mine to love. All my love's flying in the sand..~ *rolls around with blanket like a burrito*
    Ikimoem0 Ikimoem0 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I am a Gay 14 year old

    and I have a crush on a straight guy that I know I will never have.but that doesnt mean I will stop crushing... lol
    ddrake67840 ddrake67840 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    This is a test that I am failing hard!

    !!! How can one stop this!!!
    Lastpoppy Lastpoppy 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So this is quite a long story,

    read it if you dare..I'm not sure if I could say I'm in love but I have definitely had this person on my mind for the last few years..every since I met him, no matter who I was with. We worked at a restaurant together and to make thins worse he was my manager. I can't still...
    Tbmarie Tbmarie 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    This person does not

    even know my existence, yet I am falling deeply for him. The way he smiles, the way he sings, and his bubbly personality makes me feel like an ice cube that's melting on a hot summer day. It hurts to know that he's in a different country, speaking another language, and carrying...
    FromJennyWithLove FromJennyWithLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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