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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    I fell in love with a girl

    who left me and ignored me. Today she texted me and made me even more depressed. It hurts too much
    hgaood hgaood 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    So some background: on the 5th of May 2014,

    I fell in love. Head over heels, inexplicably painfully madly in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. Unrequited love, not because she rejected me, but because I didn't tell her. For numerous reasons, in the closet not wanting to come out yet, she was older and also...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    its a heart throbbing ,

    mind blowing , love affair complication.
    bluu9 bluu9 18-21, F Jun 16

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 7 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    She threw me away like I was nothing,

    and lied to me over and over again beforehand. Now she just likes to believe everything's ok when I can't do anything right without her even when all she did was give me false hope. No one will ever love a waste of a human life like me
    KidNova45 KidNova45 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 15

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    Its about me and him again.

    We got together just now for a simple dinner. It was really nice... We talked we laughed we talk about our plans for the future etc... It was genuine. It was intimate at every level. I am head over heels over him and so does he. Time is never enough for us but we make the most...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F Jun 19

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    I am trying so hard to get over him,

    for the millionth time. I see him tomorrow though, and even when I try to just pretend he isn't there, he goes and teases me and gets me all flustered and smitten. He gives me that beautiful smile and that look that lets me know he wants me too... then we start talking away and...
    VictoriasSecrets24 VictoriasSecrets24 22-25, F Jun 10

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    We were once close friends.

    ..now? I don't even know if he sees me as a classmate anymore, whether he sees me as nothing... With my emotions died away, I can't feel the hurt, the pain, the torture. I can't feel fully happiness, excitement. I can't feel fully frustration, nervousness. I can't feel the burn...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I am desperately in love with someone I can

    NEVER have. I look up at the sky and think over and over again- why do I even exist in this selfish, cynical world? Tears of frustration and anxiety always well up in my eyes because of her. We crave for handful of attention. We try to look the very best just for our loved ones...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I remember when I cried during sex with a girl

    I loved so much. We were both drinking and of course I didn't intend on crying, it just started pouring out of my face. She asked me why I was crying and I said I don't know. She dropped it right then and there. Who does that? It broke me. How she just dismissed it and kept on...
    Angelandadan Angelandadan 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    We used to be friends during middle school.

    My freshman year I told her how I felt about her. She said that she wanted to remain friends but after freshman year I never heard from her again. I missed her a lot after that. I actually considered suicide to get over her :(
    Lifeisgoodtearsofjoy Lifeisgoodtearsofjoy 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Dear my secret friend,

    I have really loved you since I have met you. Last in year we first met. You were the first person I really met on hear and one I still talk to as often as I can. The distance is far between us. However we are so similar. I care about you so much, no matter your past, no matter...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 4

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    I hate just waiting i love her

    but i can guarantee she will reject me like before but i truly love her and im just lost can anyone help me?
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 16-17, M Jun 26

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    Physically he belongs to another,

    but in every other aspect he is mine. We have been in love with each other for 4 months now. He is everything I have ever wanted in another person. No one on Earth has ever made me feel things that he does. I love knowing every day we are there for one another, express our love...
    lovelychickadee lovelychickadee 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm in love with someone

    who doesn't want to be with me. I've decided to stop making myself feeling miserable because of this by letting it go. And I'm genuinely happy for him for finding someone who gives him the love he deserves and always wanted to have. I hope she will be able to make him happy...
    JustMarvellous123 JustMarvellous123 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    When you were right in front of me telling me

    that you wanted to be with me ..I pushed you away. . I didn't know that over a decade from that time I would be wanting you more than anything else that I have ever wanted. I never thought that I would lose you to someone else in a way I would have never dreamed of. I took our...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I'm in love with someone I'll never have.

    .. It's the saddest thing in the world to me...
    boggbinny boggbinny 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Do you ever feel like you have

    so much love to give - you could care for them, ask them about their day, listen to their stories, hug them, kiss them, tell them how great they are and how you love them more than anything in the world...you don't even expect to be loved back, all you want is a place in their...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 1 Response May 13

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    argh, my friend is completely smitten with this

    girl but she doesn't like him. He is always talking to and I hardly ever do. but I have these feelings deep in my stomach about her. I hardly know her and I have all these feelings just running around. what should I do
    Akitten1 Akitten1 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Of Love & Loss What is it,

    to dream? to feel someone's presence [after much absence], so strongly that it stays with you, long after you have awoken. to experience something so vivid that it's as if it really happened, in another time and place. What is it, to love? to be unceremoniously left, and...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2014

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    I got to hang out with him this evening.

    it was so nice to be able to hang out with him like we used to. its my exs friend but we have always had a thing for each other. We hooked up in the past but not today. He asked me to run away with him to Las Vegas. I wish i could. You dont know how much i wish i could.
    deadgirlsfairytale deadgirlsfairytale 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I don't have any idea what he wants from me.

    Circumstances mean we can never be together. Ever. Add distance (different countries) to that mix, there is no way this can ever have a happy ending. Yet I'm in love like I never have been and I don't know what to do about it. We met once and the chemistry was explosive. I've...
    ally124 ally124 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I love kissing him. Its like our lips are made

    for each other. Sadly we dont have all night. We had to return to whom we legally belong to. But i love him endlessly...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    It's so wrong to like him

    but I can't help it. He's perfectly perfect. Words aren't enough to explain how thankful I am that I met him.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I'd pause time to be with you.

    I'm in so deep. How do I carry on and in this world and you are in yours? I function with everyday tasks and needs that need to be carried out and attended to. No goodbyes, they are nonexistent for me. Pausing time seems the only way to be with you that no one is hurt…is...
    1unusualLass 1unusualLass 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 45 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Once I had thought that I'm special.

    I'm someone lovable. I'm normal... But I'm not. I am nothing. I'm unlovable in a romantic way. I'm a weirdo. He was my savior as well as my destroyer. He helped me stand up again. He helped me everytime I needed him. I thought...Oh I was silly, so stupid, thinking that he cares...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    First of all.. I'm lesbian

    and in love with another girl and I just had to pour my heart out. I am in love with an extraordinary human being. She's the cutest thing ever. She has so many good qualities and the most beautiful heart ever. She always has something good to say about everyone. She finds...
    DifferentbyNature DifferentbyNature 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    Hey I am in love with like my bestfriend

    but she has a boyfriend we usely can talk about anything but today she is fixing things with her bf Idk how I feel about this I want her to love me so bad but I want her to be happy I am confused and scared she does not want to be my friend anymore I am just scared and hurt
    Jamison96 Jamison96 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Once again she came into sight,

    talks between us starting happening, The smoke of the past is still pricking my eyes, Her condition is unlike mine, Why is there a little sadness in this happiness? why is that same old world forming again? The world from which I had come far away, Its once again coming to view...
    dreamchaser23 dreamchaser23 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Basically i feel like im in love with her at

    first i thought it was lust but now its genuine love i think however i have a selection of issues firstly ive asked her out before and got rejected secondly she is by far my closest friend and thirdly she doesnt seem to have any interest in my romantically and we have a kind of...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    This is again.... About my colleague

    and i. Though we dont already see or meet each other publicly, we still do text a lot. And when we could we get a room in a hotel and spent few hours together. If we cant get a room we would just park somewhere, talk and kiss until its time to go home to our spouses. This has...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 11

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    Would it make any difference

    if I said I loved you? Because I do, and no physical distance or social barriers are going to change that. The only thing that matters is what changes between us should I ever tell you that I love you. Would we be better for it, or worse? Or does it even matter anymore? If...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F Oct 24, 2014

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    It sucks doesn't it. Liking someone you can't

    have.. Seeing them everyday, but knowing that they'll never be yours.. It's the worst feeling, cause all you can do is dream about and wish for them, but never have them..
    JennyAB JennyAB 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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