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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    It has been 8 months

    since I felt love at first sight for him. I feel so stupid for this going on so long and keep hoping one day these feelings will stop but they arent. I never felt much towards anyone until I met him at my first day of work. He is 20 and I am 17 and it kills me. We are friends...
    wxvx wxvx 16-17 1 Response Mar 31

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 6 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    We had our day yesterday.

    A day i was waiting for all my life. It was nothing short of amazing. We just spent an entire day together..doing whatever we wanted to do. We lay in eachothers arms.. watched movies.. kissed..made love several times.. ate ..drank.. he made tea for me in the evening.. hes so...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    after 4 long years i can finally get to see her

    again. I'm so excited!!!!!! i just want to hold her, look into her eyes and tell her how much i missed her ...
    sephiroth04 sephiroth04 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Ok him again... We finally talked

    after a month of forced separation by people around us. It was difficult seeing him at work but unable to talk to him. But the moment we start texting again all feelings came back in and it feels like falling in love for the first time.. Then he said he needed to kiss me.. So we...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F Apr 19

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    She was the reason why I cut myself last year.

    She's the reason I have scars on my arms and heart. But at the same time she's the reason why I keep going. Why I keep smiling. Hoping that one day we could be together. But she is also hurt. Hurt by her past. I'd like to hold her forever and take away all her pain, so she could...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I met him two years ago.

    He is my coworker and married with two beautiful kids. Our connection was imminent the minute we met. We connected like no other. I knew that day that I will fall in love with him, and I knew that he already is falling for me. He lives in Europe and I live in US... But for two...
    freebutchained freebutchained 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    In a few hours we will be together.

    I know you are thinking twice and so am i because we will feel ****** after it. But we have dreamed of this chance for soo long and now that we are getting it i think we should just let it happen one last time. Let us have our moment together and then we shall be done i promise...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    He is still the first person I think of

    when I wake up and the last person I think of before I go to bed, but today I barley think of in my busiest moment, and that is a start, the feelings are fading away.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 18

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    Im too in love with him.

    .. Now that i have lost him... I need some distraction as i am constantly thinking about him and its hurting.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I miss someone who isn't mine to miss,

    I dream about someone who isn't mine to dream about, I love someone who isn't mine to love. All my love's flying in the sand..~ *rolls around with blanket like a burrito*
    Ikimoem0 Ikimoem0 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    I am desperately in love with someone I can

    NEVER have. I look up at the sky and think over and over again- why do I even exist in this selfish, cynical world? Tears of frustration and anxiety always well up in my eyes because of her. We crave for handful of attention. We try to look the very best just for our loved ones...
    Macyyyy Macyyyy 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    It's so painful..so much

    so that I can barely focus on anything else. Every stupid little thing reminds me of him. Especially good stuff, things that used to make me happy..like eating, smiling, working out, listening to music, listening to the radio..even stupid things like sitting in my ******* math...
    MyMindCravesNectar MyMindCravesNectar 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I am a Gay 14 year old

    and I have a crush on a straight guy that I know I will never have.but that doesnt mean I will stop crushing... lol
    ddrake67840 ddrake67840 22-25, M Apr 15

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    This is a test that I am failing hard!

    !!! How can one stop this!!!
    Lastpoppy Lastpoppy 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I'm in love with someone

    who doesn't want to be with me. I've decided to stop making myself feeling miserable because of this by letting it go. And I'm genuinely happy for him for finding someone who gives him the love he deserves and always wanted to have. I hope she will be able to make him happy...
    JustMarvellous123 JustMarvellous123 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    It's a hard feeling to know

    that it won't happen yet knowing that loving them means you'll be there for them no matter what. I can't figure out how to shut off the pain.
    ProphetaMessias ProphetaMessias 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I have feelings for someone

    who lives far away. someone who doesn't know about my feelings for him. someone who doesn't feel the same way about me. someone I can't have.
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    its official. im head over heels

    for him. you would think a year apart from each other would make my feelings for him go away but instead it made it grow stronger. I know its not right to love him but since he has come back into my life I have been so full of joy again. that sparkle that I lost have come back...
    lonelymom1982 lonelymom1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Okay, there's J.Cole,

    Ben Affleck, Obama, Paul Walker, and Drake.The above are dreams, and there are two other real people but the one is married and the other in a relationship. Also, I am fat, jobless, I stink, and am trapped in a Hellish marriage!
    sesi1116 sesi1116 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    I'm in a relationship

    but I am desperately in love with somebody else.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 46 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I met the lovely person several years ago

    and we dated then one of my ex's got in-between us and cause lots of problems I still much care for her. she got married then divorced i got married to a person i love a lot but i still think of the first person a lot don't know what to do but i am very happy now cant get the...
    damien3971 damien3971 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I met this guy who I had an incredible

    connection with - we slept together for the good part of a year, until we decided to stop the physical because the relationship wasn't going anywhere. I've been exploring other options since that time, but I find my thoughts keep coming back to him. Things happen to me and he...
    catonfire catonfire 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    we're both married but

    that doesn't matter. I want to be with her and she feels the same way. very soon we will see each other and the time we spend together will be like a dream come true. even though I can't spend the rest of my life with her, I'll make sure she stays in my life forever
    sephiroth04 sephiroth04 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 15

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    It's funny how time flows fast.

    I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him. I thought of him everyday and I dreamt about him. It took me three weeks to find him again but unfortunately he turned out to be...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    It sucks doesn't it. Liking someone you can't

    have.. Seeing them everyday, but knowing that they'll never be yours.. It's the worst feeling, cause all you can do is dream about and wish for them, but never have them..
    JennyAB JennyAB 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    We'll probably never make love

    but if we do, this is how I want it to be. Love you 💋 http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WZkuuUe97_s
    Chpt17 Chpt17 22-25, M Apr 11

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    Hey I am in love with like my bestfriend

    but she has a boyfriend we usely can talk about anything but today she is fixing things with her bf Idk how I feel about this I want her to love me so bad but I want her to be happy I am confused and scared she does not want to be my friend anymore I am just scared and hurt
    Jamison96 Jamison96 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Dear my secret friend,

    I have really loved you since I have met you. Last in year we first met. You were the first person I really met on hear and one I still talk to as often as I can. The distance is far between us. However we are so similar. I care about you so much, no matter your past, no matter...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 4

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Once again she came into sight,

    talks between us starting happening, The smoke of the past is still pricking my eyes, Her condition is unlike mine, Why is there a little sadness in this happiness? why is that same old world forming again? The world from which I had come far away, Its once again coming to view...
    dreamchaser23 dreamchaser23 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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