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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    My First Story On Here So I just have to make

    it about her...my grief is what brought me to this site in the first place. Perhaps a place to vent out my pain? Well, let my put it like this: I've been an unwilling victim to the tortures of unrequited love for a good six years already. She is my dear friend...she is my first...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 29

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    ...we can close our eyes to the things we do

    not want to see, but we cannot close our heart to the things we do not want to feel...i miss you...i love you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 20

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    Impossible

    some things will never happen, their just fairytales....i should forget about him and stop dreaming impossibles!
    stlalane stlalane 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    NecklessCage NecklessCage 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20

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    darkmoonlight darkmoonlight 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    At some point in our lives,

    we want the forbidden fruit. In love with someone who is completely and utterly unattainable. Like your handsome high school teacher, or your brother's best friend, or even your cute youngest uncle. I think Channing Tatum and I are soul mates. He just doesn't know I exist...
    Jeggo Jeggo 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Broken Hearted

    How do you make the hurt go away???? I can't pretend to be strong when I know we'll eventually have to work together. Finding another job with the perks I have is impossible. I can't stop thinking about him. I don't have anymore strength to pull myself out of this one!!!!!!!
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 13 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    Im still inlove with my ex girlfriend its been

    one year now since we broke up.. She have new lesbian lover...
    zeyek zeyek 36-40, F Jul 22

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    I get anxiety when I see him.

    . Even before I see him. Can't really look at him or carry a conversation. Always regret after how I act not too interested... but I'm sure he knows.. he needs affirmation just as much as I do. Hate this feeling... Every little thing he does or say has so much power over me...
    Mira53 Mira53 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    It does not matter the distance

    if two hearts are loyal to each other .😨😍❤
    nataliebabbyy nataliebabbyy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I guess I'm not exactly IN LOVE,

    but it's the inbetweener. I really like this guy. We are complete dorks around each other. He's 21, I'm 17. He's so fun, and happy. His soul is so pure and beautiful. He took a fall for his brother and ended up in prison for 3 years. He got out, we met, while I was with his...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    And by now, I have forgotten how many times

    I've dreamt about you ❤️
    inlovee2 inlovee2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Okay, so here's the story.

    I really like this girl I met online. She's super sweet and fun and happy and the best person ever. I really like her in a romantic way, but she'll never feel the same way because I'm pretty sure she's straight and I know she has other friends she likes better. I feel like I'm...
    derpicornsunite derpicornsunite 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I remember seeing you walking pass me right

    across the chapel. That back pack hanging in your shoulders and the wearisome look etched on your face. I love those metals on your teeth, I adore the tight pants you used to wear and the shiny shoes that glisten when the rays of the sun hit its surface. I tried so hard to make...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I don't know how I let this happen

    and my heart wants to be hopeful but reality just doesn't make it seem likely! We live half a world apart and every opposite in our social identities is working against us. But why would the universe have allowed us to connect the way we have without there being any possible way...
    starstuff79 starstuff79 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    I Wish She Were Mine, But...

    I met this....I would like to think....this perfect girl about a year ago. She's everything a guy could want. Beautiful, smart, and really caring. We talk often and she listens to me whenever I have a problem. She gives me advice and helps me overcome my issues. She really makes...
    awolnationfan awolnationfan 26-30, M 10 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Alive or just breathing.

    This is what i am feeling now. I can't believe how easily we fell for each other but now we're drifting apart. I can't let go of you, i know. But it seems that you don't want me anymore. So i think it's time to let you go. Hurts cause i will never have you. Not because of the...
    youaresoinsensitive youaresoinsensitive 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    ...you make me smile,

    my source of happiness, life was easy for me because of you...i love you and i always will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Well I had an affair.

    Yes I'm sure there will be critics out there but until you walk in my shoes keep it to yourself! I did not mean to fall for him. I only meant to have some uncomplicated fun and substitute what was missing in my marriage. Well with receiving daily texts for over a year and a...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    He is my boss. I always laugh at how cliché

    and ridiculous it is at face value. I feel like a bimbo secretary. I don't want to feel that he is perfectly imperfect. I don't want to respect him so much that he doesn't pursue me because he is married. I try not to think of how we communicate without saying a word... how we...
    Karmacomagirl Karmacomagirl 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    He's moving away soon.

    Its pretty much the worst.
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I am... I have been having an affair

    for about nine months now. I hate admitting on here because I know what people will say, but I'm totally in love with him. I know that wasn't suppose to happen. He was just going to make me feel wanted and I was going to see him a couple of times a week for sex and that be it...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 11

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    Wish He Was Mine

    I've never been the type to be unfaithful to my husband. When I took the vows, I meant them wholeheartedly. However, he has become progressively more emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. It's very possible he has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Because...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    I need help or advice.

    I am 22 years old, I feel as if I am 50 haha, been through a lot of stuff in my life. I am in love with someone who I will never have, :( we both have confirmed this, and it hurts so bad, not only that, because we both know this she's been doing her wife thing, sex with the...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    We were so in love, but we agreed the timing

    wasn't right and the distance would be difficult. We still stay in touch. He said he's dating someone now, but he also gave me reason to believe he still loves me, or at the very least still thinks about me romantically. I still think about him all the time. I have tried for...
    SacredEarth SacredEarth 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5

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    i just received a reply of text message from

    him "good night"...I'm so happy knowing that he find ways and sometimes break the rules...really love knows no bound, no boundaries, it just feel and understand...I may not have him at all but the fact we have this kind of special relationship, I'm fine with our set up...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 23

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    I am in love with a Mormon.

    Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love with him I can't bear to let him go. We met two and a half years ago when he saved me from an emotionally and physically abusive...
    wpsiatwin wpsiatwin 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love josh hutcherson

    but he is famous and I'm not
    JoshKilbride JoshKilbride 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Why does a small, stupid "hi :)" text from him

    make my day....ugh - why do I allow myself to put so much hope and happiness into such a silly little thing???
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 20

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    I'm 13 and i'm in love with my cousin.

    I am most likely sure she's my 2nd cousin so that might make a difference. She doesn't want to ruin our good cousin bond and everything but she's all I can think about. No matter what I do, she's always there. I don't know what to do. Please help
    smaemura smaemura 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I know this is really strange

    but I don't know what to do anymore, I'm struggling and just feel like letting all these feelings out by writing this... I have a really terrible crush on my male best friend I've known for a while now and we are very close. We tell each other secrets and our problems. We...
    DingleberryBooBoo DingleberryBooBoo 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    every dude i meet i wanna be with i guess it's

    not really because i'm intrested in them but because i desperately want to have a bf or new friends >< i feel bad that i do that but i can't control it.. somebody understands?
    nogafrischoff nogafrischoff 16-17, F 6 Responses May 9

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    Raez69 Raez69 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Vammy1d Vammy1d 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    JessiLin JessiLin 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Am I ready to let go of something I can't have?

    ??? I just want to cry!!!!! Can I accept the realization of him having another interest? I may have myself up for another heartbreak. I feel so small.... I'm so stupid for letting my heart get in the way again! Ugh!!!!!!!
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I'm gay and it's hard enough to find people

    where I live, I found a guy or he found me on the computer and it was a long distance relationship, which I knew would be terrible in the first place, yesterday he told me he was in love with someone else, I have trust issues with him now but it's been a year of dating and I don...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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