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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 8,431 People

    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    lovemylife2210 lovemylife2210 26-30, F Jul 18

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    And its not the cushy nice feeling.

    Its screwing me up in ways I have never thought was possible. I hardly eat or sleep. And when I go to bed, there is this block in my chest, that wont let me cry or even breathe. I dont know how to move past this. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before. I was in a...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm in love with this guy

    that works all the time. So much so that he misses his family events. We only see each other once or twice a month, but I love him. He loves me too but he says he's not in a position to make me happy the way he wants to. He's on a grind so he can retire in a few years @ age 45...
    jwiz113 jwiz113 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    He's 27, I'm 20. He's flying off to New Zealand,

    I'm flying off to Neverland. Haha. Damn. Two years of concealed feelings, and still nothing has changed. Why can't the universe be a little kinder and just let us be together? I tried shifting my attention to someone else, but I always end up failing. 😔
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm in love with someone

    who doesn't want to be with me. I've decided to stop making myself feeling miserable because of this by letting it go. And I'm genuinely happy for him for finding someone who gives him the love he deserves and always wanted to have. I hope she will be able to make him happy...
    JustMarvellous123 JustMarvellous123 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    He is a muscular, tall handsome man.

    He is a college graduate. He knows how to treat a woman. He is white. His name is billy......
    SarahLVivianOhNo SarahLVivianOhNo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Hey I am in love with like my bestfriend

    but she has a boyfriend we usely can talk about anything but today she is fixing things with her bf Idk how I feel about this I want her to love me so bad but I want her to be happy I am confused and scared she does not want to be my friend anymore I am just scared and hurt
    Jamison96 Jamison96 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 5 Responses Mar 5, 2014

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    Of Love & Loss What is it,

    to dream? to feel someone's presence [after much absence], so strongly that it stays with you, long after you have awoken. to experience something so vivid that it's as if it really happened, in another time and place. What is it, to love? to be unceremoniously left, and...
    wildf1ower wildf1ower 26-30 1 Response Apr 26, 2014

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    she's amazing when we talk I feel like I've

    known her forever. she's special in more ways than I can count.shows me what it feels like to be cared and loved back not yanked by many different directions.
    mundinger1992 mundinger1992 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I'd pause time to be with you.

    I'm in so deep. How do I carry on and in this world and you are in yours? I function with everyday tasks and needs that need to be carried out and attended to. No goodbyes, they are nonexistent for me. Pausing time seems the only way to be with you that no one is hurt…is...
    1unusualLass 1unusualLass 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    its a heart throbbing ,

    mind blowing , love affair complication.
    bluu9 bluu9 18-21, F Jun 16

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    Dear my secret friend,

    I have really loved you since I have met you. Last in year we first met. You were the first person I really met on hear and one I still talk to as often as I can. The distance is far between us. However we are so similar. I care about you so much, no matter your past, no matter...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 4

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I fell in love with a girl

    who left me and ignored me. Today she texted me and made me even more depressed. It hurts too much
    hgaood hgaood 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 45 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I've had a major crush on this one girl.

    Her name is Alicia. She has the kindest, sweetest heart of any person I'd ever met. She was the only girl who thought anything of me. Now, she's going to a college in Virginia, and I'm still stuck in Indy. I'd give anything to have her as my own, but that's awfully selfish of me...
    NldlDrummer2835 NldlDrummer2835 16-17, M Jun 16

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    Kisses

    There is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore no matter how many times it is sent away......... ...........and so love never expires in my heart no matter how many times I tell my soul to turn away.
    quietstorm48 quietstorm48 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Not romantic love: Ryan.

    I am destined to help you. I have been watching over you since the day that we met and I have felt so many emotions. I long to be your friend, your companion. These circumstances anger me. i do not want a lover, a mate or a boyfriend. I want you to be okay. I know that getting...
    imJboy2001 imJboy2001 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    When you were right in front of me telling me

    that you wanted to be with me ..I pushed you away. . I didn't know that over a decade from that time I would be wanting you more than anything else that I have ever wanted. I never thought that I would lose you to someone else in a way I would have never dreamed of. I took our...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 3, 2014

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    I have been working at my present job

    for 3 years now, and the company was just bought out (replaced) by another. This new company is great, they are wonderful and supportive and upper-management (I can't believe I am saying this) is absolutely fantastic. They are so helpful and appreciative of all we do... it's...
    iSpyce iSpyce 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    We used to be friends during middle school.

    My freshman year I told her how I felt about her. She said that she wanted to remain friends but after freshman year I never heard from her again. I missed her a lot after that. I actually considered suicide to get over her :(
    Lifeisgoodtearsofjoy Lifeisgoodtearsofjoy 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I love kissing him. Its like our lips are made

    for each other. Sadly we dont have all night. We had to return to whom we legally belong to. But i love him endlessly...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I really like this guy I work with

    but he has a girlfriend and is also 5 years older then me. I don't know what to do.
    cuttergirl16 cuttergirl16 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Hello, I'm posting here

    because I really don't know what else to do. So me and this girl have been friends for about 4/5 months now. We met through drama school. I'm 22, she's 19. We met properly at one of our after-play-parties and I thought we hit it off right away. We've spoken in person and online...
    EdgeOfSanity EdgeOfSanity 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    Although I'm not one to fangirl over movie

    stars, singers, etc; Channing Tatum is an exception. How can you not love him!😍😆
    WonderxGirl WonderxGirl 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    She threw me away like I was nothing,

    and lied to me over and over again beforehand. Now she just likes to believe everything's ok when I can't do anything right without her even when all she did was give me false hope. No one will ever love a waste of a human life like me
    KidNova45 KidNova45 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 15

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    It's so wrong to like him

    but I can't help it. He's perfectly perfect. Words aren't enough to explain how thankful I am that I met him.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I hate just waiting i love her

    but i can guarantee she will reject me like before but i truly love her and im just lost can anyone help me?
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 16-17, M Jun 26

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    I miss someone who isn't mine to miss,

    I dream about someone who isn't mine to dream about, I love someone who isn't mine to love. All my love's flying in the sand..~ *rolls around with blanket like a burrito*
    Ikimoem0 Ikimoem0 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    i need to be so careful about

    who i get intimate with... i don't want this feeling ever again
    thoughtsiwontforget thoughtsiwontforget 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I don't have any idea what he wants from me.

    Circumstances mean we can never be together. Ever. Add distance (different countries) to that mix, there is no way this can ever have a happy ending. Yet I'm in love like I never have been and I don't know what to do about it. We met once and the chemistry was explosive. I've...
    ally124 ally124 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Would it make any difference

    if I said I loved you? Because I do, and no physical distance or social barriers are going to change that. The only thing that matters is what changes between us should I ever tell you that I love you. Would we be better for it, or worse? Or does it even matter anymore? If...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F Oct 24, 2014

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    argh, my friend is completely smitten with this

    girl but she doesn't like him. He is always talking to and I hardly ever do. but I have these feelings deep in my stomach about her. I hardly know her and I have all these feelings just running around. what should I do
    Akitten1 Akitten1 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    So some background: on the 5th of May 2014,

    I fell in love. Head over heels, inexplicably painfully madly in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. Unrequited love, not because she rejected me, but because I didn't tell her. For numerous reasons, in the closet not wanting to come out yet, she was older and also...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Once again she came into sight,

    talks between us starting happening, The smoke of the past is still pricking my eyes, Her condition is unlike mine, Why is there a little sadness in this happiness? why is that same old world forming again? The world from which I had come far away, Its once again coming to view...
    dreamchaser23 dreamchaser23 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    He's the most amazing man I've ever met in my

    entire life but he's getting married . Sometimes I can tell that he wishes he was marrying me...
    ladysapio ladysapio 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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