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I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

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    ItsChristmas ItsChristmas 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 17

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    We are both attached

    and happy but there is a spark I feel with her that is undeniable. This relationship can never happen and I just want it off my chest even if it is to a bunch of strangers that are pretending to be women. Neither of us have so much as hinted at our feelings but nothing needs to...
    SchrodingersBox SchrodingersBox 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Some Impossible Girl

    I’m always falling in love with some impossible girl, somebody never meant to love me, sweetness from some other world. I’m always falling apart from some improbable pain, sorrows never meant to break me, bullets with other men’s names. she’s never there when...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    My first crush was when I'm 13 years old it

    become stronger I was love him so much after knowing that he love my best friend I didn't tell him about my feelings and I just throw him away from my heart.now when ever I see him we met just like an old friend and after that I never love someone cause I'm scared now.
    alexorn alexorn 22-25 Dec 9

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    He makes me happy, my heart beat fast,

    and hard, butterflies in tummy, he makes me feel. I havent felt alive in a while. He makes everything just that much better. Doesnt matter if it ends today, tomorrow, in a week, month, or a year. Right now he is mine and that is all that matters. Enjoy the time. ♡
    PassionateBaker PassionateBaker 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I saw what you did...

    and I see the real you now. Your true self. I trusted you so much and I was led to believe all was special. Is this the real you all this time? I have been blinded or deceived. Why is it that I am still reasoning your actions in my mind and trying to give you the benefit of...
    valkilmer valkilmer 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I've known him for two years.

    He always makes me smile and laugh when I'm upset, teases me, jokes around and worries about me when I have problems, spends time with me talking about random stuff even though he has work to do. When we talk, he holds eye contact with me with a smile. He's opened up to me about...
    sweetice007 sweetice007 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am... I have been having an affair

    for about nine months now. I hate admitting on here because I know what people will say, but I'm totally in love with him. I know that wasn't suppose to happen. He was just going to make me feel wanted and I was going to see him a couple of times a week for sex and that be it...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 11

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    Would it make any difference

    if I said I loved you? Because I do, and no physical distance or social barriers are going to change that. The only thing that matters is what changes between us should I ever tell you that I love you. Would we be better for it, or worse? Or does it even matter anymore? If...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F Oct 24

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    The strange thing about this is

    that it's requited. It's sentimental rather than sexual and I missed the feeling of being close to someone without having a constant urge to have sex with them. Its truly what I've been wanting. I wouldn't say that I don't 'have' her, strictly speaking. There's just no way that...
    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 15

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    And by now, I have forgotten how many times

    I've dreamt about you ❤️
    inlovee2 inlovee2 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Lol

    Damn straight :P I am in love with someone I can't have. But as long as he's happy, I'm happy too ^~^ And if you truly are in love with someone, that's all you should be concerned with. I know that it's difficult to get into that state of mind, but if they have found someone...
    NekoRose NekoRose 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    The ex boyfriend and I mutually broke up today.

    I felt like I could hear my heart crack when we agreed we were done. I'm proud of him of both of us for not ending with a huge fight or anything.
    mkmoore mkmoore 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Sometimes the one you want the most,

    is the one your best without.
    CookieeMONSTA CookieeMONSTA 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 23

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    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 20

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    While you're my world,

    my life.... You're out living your life, seeing the world. I am just a piece of your life... A stop on your world tour. Hardly seems fair. Loves funny like that sometimes :/
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    He's a great man, much older

    than me, and happily married. He knows I want him, but he's such a good guy, he won't cheat on his wife. I would love to kiss him.
    stolenartistalways stolenartistalways 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 21

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    He's my best friend. I tell him everything

    and he tells me everything. We are so close. I feel he is my soulmate. I love him and he has told me he loves me. He is married. I would never encourage him to leave his wife. I do the opposite. Remind him to buy his wife birthday gifts. Take her to dinner. Make her...
    TinyBlissBlue TinyBlissBlue 41-45, F 6 Responses May 17

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    A Good Example Of Bad Relationship

    "Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together."
    MonsterBeneathYourBed MonsterBeneathYourBed 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    Yeah me too. but it's more complicated

    than a "first world problem" as you might think. There are issues. social, moral, religious, and that I don't feel like explaining in detail. just really tragic things are the way they are.
    stabbedtoceasersalad stabbedtoceasersalad 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    I miss you, I miss you,

    I miss you. We're struggling to even have time to even be friends at the moment. The odd text, the promise of coffee. Too busy, too complicated. I miss your touch, how you look at me, your huge sofa, how your kitchen feels like home. I miss your texts right up to my clothes on...
    Littlemissshy7 Littlemissshy7 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    I am desperately in love with someone I can

    NEVER have. I look up at the sky and think over and over again- why do I even exist in this selfish, cynical world? Tears of frustration and anxiety always well up in my eyes because of him. We crave for handful of attention. We try to look the very best just for our loved ones...
    Mayuko Mayuko 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 21

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 26

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    She played with my feelings,

    probably to see how far she can go - now I'm in Love.... It hurts badly.
    meximum meximum 36-40, M Nov 28

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    The pain of the constant heart ache i go through

    because i cant me with you. Am so depressed, i cry my self to sleep every night. And during the day i cant drag my self out of bed. All the nice memories we are having togather is causing even more pain. I cant take it anymore, i can feel this destroying me mentally and...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    It's been over a year

    since she left. She had become my best friend. She could build me up or tear me down with a single look. For 7 years I tried to make her happy. In the end, she told me I did not know how to love her. She was wrong...I loved her with all of my heart. I was thinking the other day...
    vincentriver09 vincentriver09 31-35, M 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    My One And Only

    Hes my ideal partner. Someone I want to be with so badly. We started off as friends but it developed into admiration and much love. He's the one I want to spend forever with. We share everything in common and can talk for hours on end. His little neurotic habits are kind of...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F 48 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I have really liked this one guy

    for over a year, but can't have him because he's already in a relationship.
    rapidreader101 rapidreader101 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    And I still do... Whenever I think about you.

    Even if it has been years, I still feel the chills and butterflies whenever I think of the moments we have shared...... And I don't even know if you think about me or have I even crossed your mind.... 
    MsDemeanorMe MsDemeanorMe 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Enough is enough

    I really need to get this off my chest as its tearing me apart. I've know this girl for over a year. We became good friends and spoke eveyday, and I quickly fell for her. I've told her I love her, many times. Her reaction is always to question me about it, she will ask me "why do...
    DuckFeathers DuckFeathers 22-25, M 15 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Being sixteen and in love is inconvenient.

    Add in the factors that I am gay and she is not. She is 18 and leaving school and I am not, and finally the fact that we aren't close (so now that she's left school I have no reason to contact her.) It leaves me pretty much buggered. We had known each other for two years before...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 13

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    every dude i meet i wanna be with i guess it's

    not really because i'm intrested in them but because i desperately want to have a bf or new friends >< i feel bad that i do that but i can't control it.. somebody understands?
    nogafrischoff nogafrischoff 18-21, F 6 Responses May 9

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    He had the same feelings

    for me… Then he moved away… It's like he doesn't even care about me anymore. As much as I'm upset, distance is helping me get over him.
    AutumnLeeWindstar AutumnLeeWindstar 16-17, F Dec 6

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F a week ago

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    It's An Innate Tendency

    I do believe that human beings tend to gravitate to those who we can't have. Especially when we feel connected to a person and want them in our lives for the long haul. It's an interesting thing, because those who fancy us and give us attention, we tend not to want.I know that in...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 4 Responses May 12, 2012

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    ..distance will never separate me from loving

    the same man i can't have...i refused to let go and move on..i still want him to be part of my life and in everything i do..a wish of "goodluck" from him is something for me, he inspired me to make the best of every activities i do..he may not love me back the way i wish he...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3

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    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 10 Responses May 23

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    Oh Baby I Don Want Your Tears Fall Down,,they're So Precious

    When she's alone when she's had a long day when she's lonely when she's up too late not knowing why when she's upset not knowing the reason when she needs a shoulder to lean on when life seems a burden to her when she's cryin alone sitting on her bed alone when she feels that no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I don't understand why destiny allowed some

    people to meet, when there's no way for them to be together...i can't bear the thought of forgetting you and live my life without you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 25

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    Tonight was confusing.

    .. Talked to someone I never thought I'd really talk to again. I looked a mess, I was tired cold, and just overly exhausted. I was texting as I saw him walk in. I looked back down at my phone, pretending to not have seen him. But I saw his shoes walking towards me. Those damn...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    We broke up due to long distance,

    but I still love her and she said she does too.. She is getting married today.! *Sigh*
    misterweirdo misterweirdo 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    She is a youtuber and she lives in Japan.

    I've been following her 5 months since she started making videos, which is around April 2011. It hurts so much, I want to touch her, kiss her, hug her, talk to her. I don't only follow her Youtube, I also follow her blog so I can know how she is doing. It hurts a lot. I don't...
    Machipa Machipa 18-21, F Dec 18

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    I had her, then i lost her.

    and the worst part is that when i think ive moved on, i fall in love with her all over again. And everytime i do i love her more than i did before. im so screwed...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    It does not matter the distance

    if two hearts are loyal to each other .😨😍❤
    nataliebabbyy nataliebabbyy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    Almost everyday I think of him.

    Wanting him. Even dreaming of him. He's a YouTuber and I met him personally on an emceeing job a few months back. At first I was starstruck and didn't speak to him but merely admired him from afar. When my 2-day job was over, he came over and asked to take a picture with me. I...
    thehardesttruth thehardesttruth 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 19

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ .

    .but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who I am even if the one True Love I seek is thought as purely Fantasy to others, as he is a true form a Reality to me. It may be...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    I am thinking of you.

    As I often do. I often wonder if you think of me too. Did you sleep well? Did you eat? Are you happy? Well are you? I would love nothing more then to wake up to you every single day. Until my days are taken away. I often get caught up in my fantasies of you. Silly me for ever...
    Brooklynbella Brooklynbella 36-40 6 Responses Mar 5

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    Wish He Was Mine

    I've never been the type to be unfaithful to my husband. When I took the vows, I meant them wholeheartedly. However, he has become progressively more emotionally and verbally abusive over the years. It's very possible he has undiagnosed borderline personality disorder. Because...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2013

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    It's a hard feeling to know

    that it won't happen yet knowing that loving them means you'll be there for them no matter what. I can't figure out how to shut off the pain.
    ProphetaMessias ProphetaMessias 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 5

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    How Did This Happen??!!

    OK, here it goes....... I'm a married man, my wife (in my opinion) is very beautiful, OUTSIDE, she can be (not as often as I would like, or need) very sweet, kind, affectionate, fun, outgoing ..... But more often than not, she's just snotty, a bit rude, quick to snap.....I tell...
    LoveMyFox LoveMyFox 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I met a guy recently.

    .words can't explain how I feel when i am receiving a text from him .. Those freaking butterflies in my stomach... The feeling of my heart going to blow off .. And all of this for what? I know that he will never turn at me .. I think i am doing like a crazy person just staring at...
    tommy21v tommy21v 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 16

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