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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Fallenprinceofthedarkside Fallenprinceofthedarkside 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm in love with a much older man. He's 56 and I'm 20. Everything about him is amazing. We both agreed to keep it fun and simple. It been a year and 3 weeks. I don't know how to...
    EpicAce EpicAce 18-21, F Nov 25

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    The young get older and looks change but personalty pretty much stays the same. So instead of falling in love with someone just because they are pretty really get to know them...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    If I only wanted to look at something, I'd buy a painting. But falling in love with someone's personality is not even a choice, it's a requirement. Love doesn't come from looks, it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 23

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    There's so, so much more to a person than appearance. Attraction from looks is just a bonus, but they will fade, it's just chance that they happen to appear beautiful. Looks fade...
    EternalShy EternalShy 16-17, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    my boyfriend is a chubby guy..its not a health risk currently. he isn't fat, just bigger. I love him dearly and could care less if he had a six pack or not( I wouldn't argue if he...
    taylormorgan2113 taylormorgan2113 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Looks fade away with time, but I will always love the person I fell in love with.
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    Looks may change as we get older but being intimate and finding someone who shares your feelings with common interests will flourish for lifetimes! It makes me smile just thinking...
    AvgDudeJ AvgDudeJ 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I mean if we are being honest a healthy relationship requires some attraction. When I was in high school I was very picky about who I chose to date. They had to be something...
    groundcraze groundcraze 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Looks don't last for ever. Personality last for ever. This young generation is all about looks and I blame it on them watching way to much free **** on the net. The want a woman...
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I couldn't agree more! I've seen physically attractive people who turned me right off the second they opened their mouths! Someone who may only be marginally physically attractive...
    LaVidaSombra LaVidaSombra 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 27

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    I'm starting to like someone and I dont even know what they look like lol :L
    racheldoyle00 racheldoyle00 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 3

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    Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to complain if the love of my life turns out to be a looker. But, in all honesty, a hot bod might as well be a dull brick on the floor if there's...
    Parker33 Parker33 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Actually, I'm awfully superficial, I like really good looking men. But, but...... wait for it, I want a man with the same personality as Ace Ventura! Yes! He's hilarious. Okay, so...
    OlicityShipper OlicityShipper 70+, F 4 Responses Nov 17

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    Dont get me wrong.. looks are important. In order to be with somone, a connection and attraction has got to be there. And looks are rolled up in that package. However, looks...
    BrianTheChef BrianTheChef 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 18

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    Looks fade with time but the personality is one thing that tends to endure till the end of days.
    Tomorrowsday Tomorrowsday 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Anything can happen at any time or place where looks and physical attractions can be damaged or altered.I want to learn to except people for their inner beauty because when you...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Nov 21

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    its the best thing ever. As u all know I'm inlove with my bedt friend. I feel for his warm personality first. His looks are just a amazing bonus. :) I just hope someday if he...
    Justbeingmeok Justbeingmeok 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    I'm not gon lie and say looks don't play a big part but women with amazing personalities outshine the looks👀
    diandre diandre 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I think looks are the outer person, the shell if you like. You can't have a good laugh or experience things with looks, it's all about inner beauty for me. I think people are...
    friendlygent friendlygent 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Well, I have a weakness to blue eyes however I like funny, interesting, curious, adventurous, kind and smart guys. Those guys who make life interesting and better are hard to find...
    belseg belseg 22-25, F 11 Responses Dec 2

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    I do this a lot. ._. A lot.
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah that's the best. But everyone has a good feature to their face I just hoping for the eyes to be his best feature... Ya know bright blue eyes perfect shape...
    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel true beauty is something that radiates from the very depths of a woman's soul. The connection of two hearts beating as one is the epitome of what I'm looking for in a...
    Gentleman44 Gentleman44 51-55, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel so old and I look so old. Sometimes Id wish I fit into my own age group. It really makes me sad and I always feel like an outcast and always get made fun of cause im so tall...
    ZaquoyaTinsley ZaquoyaTinsley 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F Nov 26

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12 26-30, F Dec 3

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