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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Related Experiences

    Well, this is me. I dont know i just don't fall for physical attributes. Recently i was very different, i liked seeing guys who are much older than me. I like role playing, I...
    iamnotshy iamnotshy 22-25 2 days ago

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    I'm being completely honest here - to consider someone as a romantic interest I want to think they are the least bit cute. But in the end, when I fall in love with someone, it's...
    jasenamigala jasenamigala 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm one of those girls who goes for the personality first but u have to admit, when u see a really hot guy you aren't the slightest bit attracted? Id rather date someone with a...
    welluhm5678 welluhm5678 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Honestly I am the type of guy who would look at a girl and judge her within the first second, normally i go on looks like most guys i know but looks aren't everything. Girls take...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M Jul 12

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    I fall in love with their soul not their body!
    LRxIce LRxIce 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    There are so many quirks you can fall in love with that make a person unique. The way they do things, the way they talk about things, how excited they get about the things they...
    Steinbaum Steinbaum 26-30, M Jul 17

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    You will come across many men in your life and you will be tempted to fall in love. Don’t be lured into giving your heart to a man just because he is handsome, popular and good...
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Looks can change, someone's personality not so much. Good looks can get you though a few nights a good personality will get you though a few years.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M Jul 17

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    After all, looks fade with time, no matter how much they nip tuck and suck away, but personality, is forever.
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    Yeah me too there is a story my mum always tell me there is two women one of them is so pretty but her personality not and the other is not looking good but her personality is soo...
    sunnynight15 sunnynight15 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    If your looking for looks it'll get you nowhere. Because love sides with personality than looks.
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F Jul 17

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    Humour is the best quality someone can have to me personally because I love to laugh and make jokes, this boy I liked was incredibly funny and always made me laugh with his weird...
    AnotherTomboyGamer AnotherTomboyGamer 13-15, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Oh yeah,big time.Looks do play a part,but when you add an extraordinary personality to a face,he/she becomes more than what the eye can see.As for the girls who are looking for...
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12

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    Why? Because, looks aren't everything. A person might be lovely to look at if they're beautiful or sexy, but that doesn't mean that person is kind or sweet. Same goes if you're not...
    xoxoMeowliciousxoxo xoxoMeowliciousxoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I'll be real, I'm a Man. I'd be elated to have a girl with a nice body, but it doesn't mean anything if she has a terrible personality.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 3

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    Looks fade with age. But personalities have a longer shelf life.
    MattsShadow MattsShadow 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I go with there personality first. And if they have a good one it automatically makes them more attractive to me.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Usually I look at guys and if you're ugly I won't even think about dating you. You will automatically be my friend. But sometimes the more I get to know the guy I start to like him...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I do too but I don't want some crazy looking mofo I found in some back alley tho.
    adav218 adav218 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    What sorta personalities are ya'll into? 0_o
    danondorf danondorf 16-17, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am in love with someone that I can never have and it shatters me. She is 8 years older but that doesn't phase me or her or anyone. The problem is that I am a closeted lass and...
    B4bydragon B4bydragon 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I have fallen in love with someone on here. Not going to mention his name. But yeah, he's super sweet to me. Even though we don't talk much, he's just perfect to me. I...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F a week ago

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    I never meant to start having feelings for you. I already had strong feelings for someone else. I guess they weren't strong enough, huh? You could have told me you were in love...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 10

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    I've been silent this past week on EP because I experienced a bad car crash. I've been forced to take care of my family. But the car crash did teach me that we are not guaranteed...
    Shaider83 Shaider83 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Okay so I fell in love with someone that I met on plenty of fish. Biggest mistake of my life! We got married and everything changed. He turned into be the biggest ******* I have...
    kelbear kelbear 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    Im in love with someone for 4 years and we was in a relationship for 4 years but 2 months ago we broke up , he cheated on me with a girl , this girl is now his gf he moved on sooo...
    joyce2404 joyce2404 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I can sense that familiar feelings in me again......i didn't wanted to be in love. but i am in love now; and this time i'm in love with someone i met online.. i know we can never...
    imawarrior7 imawarrior7 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I am in love with someone who lives 4,721 miles away.
    lookingforrea lookingforrea 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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