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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Godofblackclouds Godofblackclouds 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    I've been seeing this woman aged 42

    for a few months now. It started out as a casual thing. We met through a mutual friend, we ended up swapping numbers, went for a meal together then she asked me if I wanted to go back to hers for some drinks, and the rest is history. But she's just always on my mind. When I'm...
    chewie90 chewie90 22-25, M a week ago

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    When I first met him I thought he was maybe 22,

    which wasnt so bad since I have dated guys that were 5 years older than me. He was so handsome. It was the end of my junior year and I found out he was going to work at one of the schools in the district and sponsor my club. Senior year came I was 17, We started to get to know...
    novawriter8 novawriter8 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I'm married. My husband is verbally abusive quite often, and sometimes I really wish I could get out of this relationship. But I still love him. I also love someone else, though...
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    Yes, very very far away...like I complete different world...for years I've forgot about my feelings for a cartoon that I used to be in love with, but lately he's all I can think...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I know we both are highly incompatible. I know we both HATE eachother. I know YOU are Happy with someone else. Why do I cry then?
    KosmicKonnection KosmicKonnection 31-35, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    This is my dilema and the most obvious is that it is NOT a dilema but the feelings I have makes everything feel so wrong. I in a sense do know the person I am inlove with, but I...
    LoveUnite LoveUnite 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    im struggling today..... cant forget you even though im trying.....we were connected.....i wanted to marry you and be happy.....then you married some1 else of your parents choice...
    reyyah reyyah 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I get emotional when i read back his texts. No one has ever loved me as much as he does...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So i was on omegle one day and i met this guy and we started talking. We talked for hours until i fell asleep. I gave him my email and then skype. I thought it would be another...
    Afrolicious13 Afrolicious13 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I've been talking to this one guy on the phone for awhile and our conversations are awesome. His personality alone, I can't even begin to put it in words. Ok, yes I can. He's...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was just a small 6th grade kid who had terrible self-esteem issues. It comes with the territory when your father used to terrify you, when he would beat you for the most trivial...
    S1NK1LL3R S1NK1LL3R 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I am in love,with someone I cant have. it took me months to just even recognize the feelings, how can I love somebody I never thought I would even like? a complete opposite to what...
    bujji14 bujji14 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This happened 2 years ago. I needed a piece of furniture repaired, so I asked one of my FB friends who builds custom made furniture. He is sort of a renaissance man. I go over to...
    Tejaschick Tejaschick 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    Its not all about the looks its how someone treats you and there personality being fit doesn't come into it
    lisa1dixon lisa1dixon 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have fallen in love with my husband's best friend and I keep dreaming of him frequently. I click with him better than my husband and is very attentive towards me. My husband is...
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Now, my husband and I, we have lost a lot of our passion during the years, and I have had a crush with someone I shouldn't have for over 15 years, and that crush has blossomed into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Ha! I can't believe, I fell in love with a guy I met on here! We have been talking for a few months now.He is so amazing. Perfectly imperfect for me. Many guys are interested in me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Well you can't control who you fall in love with now can you?
    beautifulpain96 beautifulpain96 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    i keep asking myself why do i still love you so much..... i just feel responsible for you..... i see your vulnerability.... i see your mind is weak...... i feel your pain..... i...
    reyyah reyyah 31-35, F Aug 17

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    yes I sure did but this one is a bitter sweet story! we met here about 4 months ago when he PM messaged me. minutes turned into hours and hours turned into days then weeks..we text...
    FinallyExhailing FinallyExhailing 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 17

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    I dated this guy who was 37 and I'm 19 he's almost 20 yrs older than me and I didn't see anything wrong with it I actually thought we made a good couple we understood each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Aug 16

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