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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    He is 59, and I'm 16. He is also happily married and has a kid that is older than me as well. I don't want to be in love with him, but honestly I need him in my life as much as I...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Everyone in the world is pretty shallow...me included. We look at someone & immediately judge them whether we mean to or not. If they don't look a certain way, then we don't even...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is the heart and mind that lies underneath all the skin. I would much rather be with someone that has a good loving heart than someone that is just worried about appearances and...
    KindFriend71 KindFriend71 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 9

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    When you begin to love someone for their personality that is when they start to look attractive to you. It has definitely happened in my case. At first i thought he was alright...
    oceaneyes97 oceaneyes97 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    People should fall in love with their eyes closed
    dannyandme dannyandme 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Looks don't last for ever. A nice personality can only improve, especially if someone else appreciates it. The guy I love ain't a good looker by the world's standards. But he's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 9

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    Someone's mind morals and values are the greatest thing in life.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    Too be true honest sincere and open with one another. Rare to find such.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Mar 14

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    Well, I get why people go for looks at first, because then you don't know the personality of the person. But still, the looks isn't as close as important as the looks. Don't stick...
    justanothergirlonearth justanothergirlonearth 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here and ask for my number if you like:) just looking for a...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses Feb 28

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    This is 100% true I don't care how you look it depends on your personality is like if it's great then the relationship should be good but if you go for looks it's just gonna end. A...
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 10

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    when I see a handsome man, I get turned on but when I discovered that he has a unhumane attiduted I get really really turned off and pissed of at the same time.
    avienavie avienavie 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    YES...youth and beauty can fade but a great personality lasts forever
    unanymous1 unanymous1 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 15

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    Why can't one guy see this literally they go by looks and other things that are private
    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M Mar 15

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    So do most profiles say, but.............! LOL!!
    BUalways BUalways 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Looks holding toxic soul are bad.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone two years ago who believed in a religion I didn't believe in. He was also three years older than me. I reminisce on that time as the happiest I've ever...
    littljay littljay 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    too late not falling fell. it's horrible. I hate it. he could care less doubt he has given me much of a second thought and my life, I've been throwing up on its end doing...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I want to fall in love with someone who will love me in return. I've never been in a relationship and I want to be loved by someone. I get this feeling that someone will love me...
    freckles45 freckles45 41-45, F Mar 5

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