I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013
    davis2566 davis2566
    26-30, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

    When I first met him I thought he was maybe 22,

    which wasnt so bad since I have dated guys that were 5 years older than me. He was so handsome. It was the end of my junior year and I found out he was going to work at one of the schools in the district and sponsor my club. Senior year came I was 17, We started to get to know...
    novawriter8 novawriter8
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight
    31-35
    1 Response Feb 8, 2012

    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Nov 7, 2009
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous
    13-15, F
    Feb 19, 2010

    I've been seeing this woman aged 42

    for a few months now. It started out as a casual thing. We met through a mutual friend, we ended up swapping numbers, went for a meal together then she asked me if I wanted to go back to hers for some drinks, and the rest is history. But she's just always on my mind. When I'm...
    chewie90 chewie90
    22-25, M
    Aug 20, 2015

    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21
    18-21
    3 Responses May 3, 2009

    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2013

    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2009

    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319
    16-17
    1 Response Aug 9, 2011

    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2009

    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill
    18-21, F
    Jul 7, 2013

    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2011

    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2012

    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Nov 1, 2012

    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 30, 2013

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    The second I saw her Picture!! then to my surprise she responded to my message.. I have to say I fell for her as soon as we were chatting. It was like we had met before or...
    ReallyBill ReallyBill
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Apr 21
    I wasn't looking for it, sure I was fine with flirting a bit, but I didn't expect to fall in love, and it wasn't like Oh this girl, let's flirt with her and she'll be mind, It...
    WhirlwindR WhirlwindR
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 21
    It happened again. I fell for a guy a decade older than I am. Although he is fun and young at heart. we are having so many issues, i think it's mainly because of me. but seriously...
    QueenofIceandRoses QueenofIceandRoses
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    I was told the most beautiful thing..... Don't think of it as a broken heart. It's a whole heart, half yours, half hers. She has your half as well. You gave it to her to keep. She...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 20
    his name is Jakob.. and i wont ever see him after this summer.
    MusicIsMyLife2016 MusicIsMyLife2016
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 20
    I am in love with my bestfriend,and I don't believe his in love with me. His 3 years older then me.
    PrincessHannahsweet16 PrincessHannahsweet16
    16-17, F
    Apr 20
    this is something crazy which a friend is going through, she asked me to help her but I don't know how to advice her..''i really don't know what to do now,I fell in love with and...
    Rosalindaag Rosalindaag
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    this is something crazy,a friend asked for my help but I don't know how to advice her.'' I fell in love with this man who is
    Rosalindaag Rosalindaag
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    I never thought of it as an affair..... It started here, on EP, with a reply to her story about the Status Quo. She was involved with a man on-line, but it wasn't fulfilling, it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 20
    how discouraged it is after knowing that the guy whom you admire the most didn't like you and he likes to be with someone else better than you are...ouch i can't imagine it!
    jenelyn0298 jenelyn0298
    18-21, F
    Apr 20
    https://youtu.be/dGR65RWwzg8
    Joysummers Joysummers
    31-35, M
    Apr 20
    Need a daddy I dont have one anymore :( 26 from the UK with pics no older than 43
    Sweetenoughalready Sweetenoughalready
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 19
    I'm 17 years old and I struggle with anxiet, although to my friends I appear confident, I hide my true feelings with 'great banter'. I digress, when I joined sixth form I made a...
    Jaffaj Jaffaj
    16-17, M
    Apr 18
    I met her on POF back in July of 2015 we have seen each other once since then but we talk everyday! She has been there everyday since my ex left me for some guy that doesn't care...
    dreamin20 dreamin20
    22-25, F
    Apr 18
    Andy! You have always stayed by my side. I love you!! 😘😍
    Missminn Missminn
    46-50, F
    Apr 18
    I'm curious to know how many people have met on ep and had a successful relationship? tell me your stories :)
    WanderxLust WanderxLust
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Apr 17
    I need some advice.. I think I am in love with a girl, which has never happen before. Actually i have been in a long term relationship with a guy which i loved very much but things...
    fra123 fra123
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 17
    I just realized one day that I like him again and its killing me I know I will never have him, he already likes someone else he is someone I can never reach, can I just delete all...
    girlpandaaa girlpandaaa
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 16
    We were together for 3 months. I thought he was perfect. Then he asked for a boob pic. Which I sent. And then he never talked to me again
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    Apr 16
    where to begin in my life there is almost of things I can tell anyone I feel like I'm going to explode if I don't get it out. Yes, me like so many of you am in love with a married...
    debbie03102 debbie03102
    18-21, F
    Apr 16
    i love you all keep being beautiful i love you all so very much if no one else ever dose you always have me thank you for being a part of me and my journey
    o3118152 o3118152
    26-30, M
    Apr 16
    I'm not in love with an older man, I am the older man. I had a girl much younger than me who loved me. Was sort of nice but difficult though I do miss the affection. I'm always...
    mrtexasguy mrtexasguy
    41-45, M
    Apr 15
    My bestfriend. She had hickeys on her neck today from a guy she wont tell us about. I am a girl in LIKE with a girl. I dknt believe in love
    Lexibenson01 Lexibenson01
    13-15, F
    Apr 15
    I have a serious confession to make and people will think I am delusional and crazy but I'm sure my head is still intact. This is my deepest, darkest secret... I am in love...
    bittersweethermit bittersweethermit
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 14
    Well, seeing as this website is coming to a close, I figured to update one last thing in this experience group. I used to be a big part of this experience group, but ever since my...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 14
    In this situation you are asking someone to risk more than they ever would with another person. It could be anywhere from losing friends or family to losing an opportunity for...
    cataleyaj2009 cataleyaj2009
    26-30, F
    Apr 14
    She puts her hand on either side of my face, and the world falls away.........
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 14
    I met someone online - 15 years ago, what I believe to be my soulmate. Yet - we have never met in real life. I kid you not. We met when I was 25, lived in different countries...
    Taffycatz Taffycatz
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Apr 12
    I have Fallen in Love with EP "Terrorist" name " DON JUAN" .Proof reader.. Wiggley Bottom. I have claimed that Syrian DONGS are for me. It ain't work. He is a Male CUNNZ.. he has...
    fuckuprincessanyajaki fuckuprincessanyajaki
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 9
    I NEED ADVICE ASAP. (No it's not the same guy from my other story, it's a totally different one.) I lost contact with one of my long distance friends (Boyfriend at the time) about...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Apr 8
    Where do I begin?? About a year ago I met a guy we became very close friends I was in an abusive relationship and he helped me so much he was a great emotional support eventually I...
    potsandpansexual potsandpansexual
    18-21, F
    Apr 8
    In fact, I am MUCH older than 35.
    TValentine TValentine
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 8
    There's this guy, that I just can't seem to get over, even though we've never dated. He was one of the first few people I came out to, but we eventually lost contact until January...
    xxxMeeThreexxx xxxMeeThreexxx
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 6
    I AM GOING TO SAY EVERYTHING AND HOPEFULLY GET SOME FEEDBACK!!! I've known my bestfriend since forever along with her brother (my bestfriend is a year younger than me and the...
    Millyhelly Millyhelly
    16-17, F
    Apr 6
    well here I a young ladies,come on over and chat or hmu on skype or yahoo/gmail,messsge me anytime.
    waxfootbackagain waxfootbackagain
    46-50, M
    Apr 6
    i dont know if its love but i felt an emotional connection with a special someone..we aren't friends anymore...but he ll be in my heart forever...im sure he ll read this...just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 6
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