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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I fell in love with my best friend. He isn't exactly the best looking fellow compared to todays media standards. He is 6'0 and skinny and lanky as slender man. He never brushes...
    CutttieBaby CutttieBaby 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    I fell in love with people in both ways, well the personality is more important but I can't help it if I see a girl as preety
    daniel147 daniel147 13-15, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F Jan 15

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    sometimes I wish the world was blind. so we focus on the things people have to work for and what makes them really them. not their facial features or body, which they have no...
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Looks can fade. Looks can be manufactured, modified, or deceive you into thinking that they are also beautiful inside. Well I'm not falling for that again. You maybe handsome and...
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    I don't want to sound superficial but looks are not NOT important meaning if someone looks like that upside down faced kid in the Simpson's and smells like a ogre there probably...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I think your personality is important when finding someone you enjoy being around!
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    If I'd fall for someone for who they are and get loved back the same way... Well let's just say, they'd get a lot of affection. <3
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I mean yeah to me, they go hand in hand for instance, if you are cute, yeah okay but your personality will easily move you up, down, our keep you right when you are. you could be a...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Gunna get married next month. I'm 40, he's 64. Everyone in town thinks he's my dad since he was my adopted dad for so long, that's how I introduced him.
    wendycat wendycat 36-40, F Jan 10

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    Looks can fade in time but your personality doesn't. it is what will be remembered.
    kArmen0314 kArmen0314 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I think for me going deeper then the surface appearance is more substantial then what a person looks like on the outside. goodlooks and nice clothes are wonderful yes and i do...
    BreakingdawnOne BreakingdawnOne 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    In this site happens to me a lot, since i meet nice guys but when i see their profile picture im like "oh, so thats why you are single" I dont ask for profile pictures to avoid...
    Mikaela1920 Mikaela1920 16-17 1 Response Jan 3

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    Good looks are temporary but a beautiful heart equals eternity
    savigirl14 savigirl14 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Personality is overlooked these days, and people are judged mostly on their appearance. Personality is what actually matters, because it is usually the one thing that never changes...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Sometimes its not looks that causes me to notice something. Its how they hold themselves. How they talk to others and me. Looks can be deceiving, but actions never are.
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    They say it, but most never mean it.
    DetrimentalFallacy DetrimentalFallacy 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 6

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    This should just be the standard. So what if he/she has the body if they're callous trash?
    EvoxNeon EvoxNeon 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Damn stright. If I can't relate or talk to you why go intimate?
    MichaelS41074 MichaelS41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    And I've done that, and I genuinely don't KNOW what this boy looks like. He's an amazing person and one of the best friends I could ever have asked for. If he were "ugly", I wouldn...
    DisguisedAsMe DisguisedAsMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    In short, personality will never get old.
    Lakee112812 Lakee112812 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Beauty is what might attract but personality will decide the longevity of the relationship.
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00 51-55, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    What I believe is that attraction based on looks can create a relationship, while personality can cause it to be amazing or collapse under you.
    OrionWolfe OrionWolfe 13-15, M 21 hrs ago

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    I am not attracted to men much older than me, at all. In fact, I'm not attracted to men at all. But, I have joined this experience because this is where you are, little girl, sweet...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I love men much older than me want a relationship with one. ;)
    Rebecca214 Rebecca214 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    I guess I am just wondering if there is anyone else out there in their twenties that I have anything in common with. It seems to me that every twenty something I meet is only...