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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Honestly, it's too early to tell, but I feel like an obsessed teenager talking to this guy who is way older than me. I don't know why I fell for him as we hardly have anything in...
    UltraaViolencee UltraaViolencee 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    In fact I do! I fall inlove with personality over looks everytime! I used to be the guy that would be like "Pics or I don't believe you are what you say you are" but now I just...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F Aug 31

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    We can fall in love with qualities, gestures, or preferences—but the best kind of falling always happens in the middle of conversations. That's why I believe that falling in...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    When you're so in love with that person , looks doesn't matter anymore.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I cherish the soul of the woman more than her looks due to the fact her sweet persona is more priceless than any hotness can muster.
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I hear people say all the time that they think someone else is so cute, or handsome, or sexy, or pretty, or built like a god/goddess, and of course I think that over my lifetime I...
    Dancewithme2 Dancewithme2 51-55, M Aug 22

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    Relationships based on personality and how much you love and care for each other last much longer and are much more meaningful.
    stormyskies12 stormyskies12 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Personality has so much more value than looks.
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I have. His Nature and Personality if I have to say in words.. I could use the Whole Oxford, but will never be able to find the right artibutes that suit him. He is 99% close to my...
    BlueMah BlueMah 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Yes!!!! It's so much better trust me!
    cwebb1221 cwebb1221 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is very true, because I'll admit back in highschool, I was that "jerk" football player, stereotypical "jock". However, I've come a long way and have cleaned up my act and am...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I'd rather be beautiful on the inside than the outside.. Beauty fades but a kind heart will never fade... Having a loving caring heart is sexxxy AF!!!
    Earthanngel Earthanngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    There's a difference between who we love, who we settle with and who we were meant for!
    Earthanngel Earthanngel 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 4

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    When you're in love, looks don't matter. It's personality that matters. :)
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 9

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    I can be physically attracted to almost any girl, but to love them, to be attracted emotionally and mentally as well, that's a harder, yet more rewarding connection to find...
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I wish I could. We'd all have better relationships if physical appearance wasn't judged on a daily basis. On the other hand, finding a person with the looks and right personality...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Sep 4

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    Totally true. Personality is key. Anyone who can keep a conversation going is A OK with me.
    Kierstyne Kierstyne 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    This is a great statement. My guy and I became attracted to each other via conversation. No pics until ten minutes before meeting. We are very happy. The beautiful parts are...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    I don't care how hot you are. If your personality is ****, your physical appearance automatically means nothing.
    FuSoYa FuSoYa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Let's see if this picture linking actually works... Guide to taking your profile pictures for EP.
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M Sep 6

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    I told my boyfriend he's handsome, and he answered, "Maybe you're just saying that because I'm your boyfriend. And I told him, "No, you're handsome, inside and out." 'cause I...
    HwangNeulRin HwangNeulRin 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    You must find a place inside yourself where nothing is impossible!!
    Earthanngel Earthanngel 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    Charm gets the girl.Character keeps her.
    teachocolate teachocolate 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 9

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    Fell in love for the first time 20 yrs ago with a man who thought I was much older than I was. I lied about my age. I really liked him but we only saw each other off and on for a...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    One day i was so bored so I went to Omegle just to chat with people, is a website that you can talk to strangers all over the world, and in that day I don't know how but I tipped...
    Youcy Youcy 18-21, F Sep 12

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    I fell in love with someone who I met online and he is very precious to me! More than he knows! I can't function if I don't speak with him! My mood is ruled how we are it's crazy...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 11