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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Okay so I know someone

    who is Lets just call her P and call him X. P told me today that she was in love with some so I asked who she said it was someone she met on the internet, she said he was a little older than her by 10 so years I was shocked but it was weird because P was freaking out so I asked...
    Citygirl06 Citygirl06 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    He Takes My Breath Away...

    okay, so theres this guy who looks way older than me, say about 10 years or so, and i see him nearly everyday at the bus stop (if im lucky enough) i've seen him for about 6 or 7 months but never actually talked or anything. i try to get over him and say to myself he probably...
    ArmedAndDangerous ArmedAndDangerous 13-15, F Feb 19, 2010

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    In love with a much older man

    Currently am in a kind of relationship which I am sure has the potencial to last a lifetime. We love each other for who we are and we share some of the same ideals and ways of viewing life. People say that he's got a different agenda than mine. But what do they know?. It's not...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    Love

    i am in deep love with someone 9 yrs older then me.
    hollyanncullen hollyanncullen 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    How does your family deal with your relationship? I need advice on how to deal with my family. My mother, father, brother and sister all know about my relationship (we live...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    I really believe in this to be honest. I think there has to be some kind of base-level attraction when you first see each other, but the personality is clearly what keeps solid...
    thenewboy87 thenewboy87 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 11

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    no matter how much it upsets me to see people love beautiful faces so much, I can't blame them. I know it's human nature and kind of inevitable.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Today we started talking about getting married soon. Well, we have mentioned it here and there for years but TODAY he said the word "soon"! Ah I could jump for joy! I am 23, he's...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Feb 20

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    I would never walk up to someone just because I thought they were attractive. I don't know how someone can have such sting feelings for someone they've never talked to before.
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Difference between looks and personality? You can feel warmth in personality :) I mean, it's not like your looks are so radiant that it can warm someone up..........can it?
    sweetcolors123 sweetcolors123 13-15 1 Response a week ago

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    yeah personality is more good than other thing though...:)
    alfhyraawal alfhyraawal 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I've had three girlfriends. The first one was the result of smoking during pregnancy, go ahead and picture that. But as "unattractive" as her looks were, her personality was the...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    looks with time changes .. personality stays
    tigerbloodbaby tigerbloodbaby 31-35, M a week ago

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    what's there when you're old and no longer beautiful..?
    goodatnothing goodatnothing 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    Beauty of looks fade away .. But a beautiful Personality never dies :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Feb 11

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    Looks is a bonus but i will always fall for personality. Even though i have stumbled across physical attraction over personality before.
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    It's true!!!.......I don't know why but I don't usually find them very attractive at first but once I get to know them and once I realize that I like their personality there's like...
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Personality will last forever. Looks won't!
    kell177 kell177 36-40, M 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    It was late in the summer of 2012. I was 17. I had a summer job at a carnival and it was my last week, as I was starting school soon. I had to travel three hours from home just for...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I love men that are older than me. I'm quite mature for my age so when a man who is mature and knows what he wants and looks beyond stupid, superficial things, I find it so...
    sorayageorgina sorayageorgina 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I fell in love with someone. He was perfect. I loved him with everything that i had. But distance is why things could not work between us. I recently found out that he found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 15

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am falling in love with someone I can't have! Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I am in love with someone but I am shy to tell her that I love u...
    samxjoe samxjoe 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I'm totally in love with one of my friends. her name will stay anonymous. but anyways this girl is one of the most beautiful girls in the world. I love everything about her. I love...
    RAYPENA RAYPENA 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I truly fell in love with someone I met online. And it wasn't on this site. Haha. I was actually someone who answered a Craigslist ad I posted.
    luv2wetmyself2 luv2wetmyself2 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with someone i met online. And I know this is risky, I don't know if he feel the same way or just pretending. I don't know if he's telling the truth every time we...
    RedThatDescribesMe RedThatDescribesMe 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I fell in love with someone I met online by chance. We will be celebrating our two year anniversary in a week, and we will be married on May 16th of this year. He is my fairy tale...
    Sculls Sculls 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    He knows it and so do I. I never thought I'd say I could fall in love with someone over a computer. This person could also not be any farther away from me if he tried. : (
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 7 Responses Feb 16

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    Many young women today are a bit tired of the usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women...