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I Am In Love With Someone Much Older Than I

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    Deeply In Love

    I do not know if you consider 6 years a large age difference, but I guess it seems like one if you take in account that I am under 18 years old...You do the math. We met  through music. Both of us are very committed musicians and first only communicated via music. Every...
    eleria eleria 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I'm 12 And He's 22

    Were 10 years apart we both love eachother. It's the law that's keeping us apart.
    Wolfdreamkill Wolfdreamkill 18-21, F Jul 7, 2013

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    I Just Love A Much Older Guy

    I'm 19 and he's 33. We've been dating for almost a year now. I never really thought I would consider someone his age, until I met him. He's a caring, gentle, thoughtful and pretty sharp guy. He can decipher my emotions and always get me to talk to him and work out any problem. I...
    RTuter RTuter 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Not 'happy end' love story

    You know, when we are going through some hard situation, we just think that our problem is the worst. But there is so many people out there who are suffering because they don't have roofs, they don't have food, they've lost a member of a family. And me? I am suffering because of...
    emotionalgirll emotionalgirll 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    Seems Like Nothing

    My partner is 11 years older than me and we couldn't be happier.I am almost 26 and she is 37. It has never been an issue for us at all. I think it helps that she's a bit of a kid at heart.... in fact some times I feel like I am the older one in terms of responsibilty. But I must...
    staria221183 staria221183 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2009

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    A 40 Y/O Man Asked Me If I Wanted To Be His Girlfriend, But...

    ...I didn't loved him. He also asked me if he could get my phone number, told me that I was sweet, cute. But I don't love him back. He was a stranger and I don't even know his name, he didn't even introduced himself... Why can't the men I love, love me? All the men I don't like...
    KeepThisLoveAlive KeepThisLoveAlive 18-21, F May 30, 2013

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    I'm In Love...weird

    well, i'm in love with someone much older than me, 29 years older than me. I know i'm a freak to fall in love with him. He's my conductor, i think he's charming and he's still single. At first i just like him coz he's great,smart, tall, intellengence,cheerful. Then i began to...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 7, 2009

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    I Love Him Ever So Deeply..

    So I'm in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. I'm turning 22 this year and he is turning 31. Neither of our families know as they clearly would not approve. (His youngest sibling is still 5 years older than me) Not only is there the age difference, I'm an American...
    CherryWinterStorm CherryWinterStorm 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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    I L♥ve Men Who's 14-30 Years Older Than Me (i'm 16)

    This story was first written to the group "I like older men". But I couldn't post it because I had to be an adult to post something there. So I post it here. When I'm old enough I'm gonna post it there and delete this. I'm 16 and love 30-46 y/o men. I haven't date anyone yet...
    KeepThisLoveAlive KeepThisLoveAlive 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    I'm In Love With Someone Older And I Don't Know What To Do!!!

    I am 17 and I started to take some surfing lessons. There I met this wonderful guy named Andy and we got to know each other. We talked and talked and laughed. The problem: he just graduated from college and is working. But we have soooo many things in common and he is just...
    reddy2319 reddy2319 16-17 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    Bus Driver

    im in high school... and hes my bus driver... he is 10 years and 8 months older then me.... and he likes he back... its called sagatory rape and if we were seen together he would lose his job and probally go to jail....life kinda sucks...
    angelbaby21 angelbaby21 18-21 3 Responses May 3, 2009

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    I Got Hit By A Train Crush

    The title ⇧ is very ironic, but this is serious. I saw him almost everyday from the first day of High school(20th Aug) till now. I didn't realize my heart was beating for him, untill now... And I became warm, nervous, shaky and glad for his prescence. I wanted to see him and...
    KeepThisLoveAlive KeepThisLoveAlive 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Our Wonderful Connection

    We met each other in university. I went to tell him something and he said to me: „We have phoned, haven't we?“ I was thunderstruck because my surname is such a common one. Actually the phone call was a few months ago. He couldn't mean that, but he did. From the beginning I...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 2 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    Twice My Age...

    I'm in love with someone exactly twice my age. Ordinarily this wouldn't suck, except he doesn't feel the same way. I met him at work, and our boss is like a walking advert for "Horrible Bosses"... I mean really, I see a sign that says "Is your boss a slave-driving psycho?" and...
    violetdeath violetdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Trying To Find A Way To Tell My Parents..

    I'm 19. He's 42. How would you suggest telling overly protective parents who saw your heart get run over by a guy only 6 years older that you want to be in a relationship with someone who's old enough to be your father.....?
    000kefitch 000kefitch 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's just heartbreaking how can we lose ourself by being in love with someone else, especially if they don't want us and don't love us anymore;-(
    Nikita2103 Nikita2103 31-35, F Mar 31

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    I didn't realize it until last night I think I am in love with someone else. My mind often drifts to this person, and it's so wrong and would NEVER work ever. I have two kids a...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I am in love with someone who doesn't know me. Even though he is not appear in front of me everyday but he aura always with me.. I am clueless if he is notice about my existing.
    tzyt tzyt 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I fell in love with someone I met online
    ezzyrock ezzyrock 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I fell in love with someone I met on here almost instantly! 😍😍
    Awesome5790 Awesome5790 13-15, M 8 Responses Mar 31

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    It's not Love at First Sigh nor First Love. I suddenly found a boy who looks like my ex on Facebook. After breaking up with my ex, I started to be impressed by him. His name is T.D...
    happytoseeyoueveryday happytoseeyoueveryday 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Part 4: sorting out feelings After my EP guy left my hometown, I knew that since we had an affair things were now real. Now he was a part of my life, I just needed to sort out...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Ok really need advice. I've known this guy for a while and have liked him for about the same amount of time. He is super sweat and funny, and he's nerdy but the cute kind of nerdy...
    Frankie908 Frankie908 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    This is something I thought of this morning that I can't get out of my head. It's about how I feel about the distance between him and I. It's about all the other people I dated in...
    misselodie misselodie 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    I feel in love with my someone who has become more than my world, she's become my best friend, my confidant, my life, and my reason to keep going through each day. Maybe at times...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My fiancé found my profile on an online website and we are truly soul mates. I do not want to interfere with his children's relationship with their parents. I have found that...
    ruledbyvenus ruledbyvenus 51-55, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    So I am in love with this girl from Florida, I want to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her, she doesn't know the extent of my feelings. She has a boyfriend who broke...
    SkitLaberge SkitLaberge 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I'm in love with my best friend. She's into someone else. Everyone says we're going to date eventually but I'm just not sure she wants to. She's not a lesbian and neither am I. I...
    Runnergirl4000 Runnergirl4000 26-30, F Mar 25

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    There is this one girl I work with who is beautiful absolutely stunning but I know I will never have a shot with even though we are friends she can do so much better than me. She...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    ok. So basicly i datedd this guy a while back. He showed so much interest in me always cheering me up telling me he likes me and only me etc. We spoke for months before i actually...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    He has a girl friend. She is more pretty, popular, smart, funny then I will ever be. She is just plain out better than I am. He will never be with someone like me. And to add to...
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm not really in love with that person but I like the person sooo much but I know it's never gonna work out
    Jantzdavid Jantzdavid 16-17, M Mar 23

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    I believe that I am falling in love with a guy who died less than 2 years ago. He would have been in his late 30s had he lived. I wondered what it will be like if he were alive...
    erykah123 erykah123 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I fell, in love with him through a friend. We both kinda knew that we were meant to be. God just have him to me. I'm happily engaged and I love him so much. <3
    Darkflowers Darkflowers 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I was about to send this to a girl, who I'm madly in love with, and who is also my best friend. But I couldn't bring myself to hit send... "I've known you for about 6 years now...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I think it is junk!!! If he isnt fallen out of love he sure has a funky way of showing it these days. I think it's unfair that I still allow sparks to fly when he wants them to and...
    IUsed2BJustAWendy IUsed2BJustAWendy 31-35, F Mar 31

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    About a few years back I met two guys off online. I started talking on Facebook with one of them. He lived in a different state and he wanted to come meet me. We got along really...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    There you are again at the back of my mind, always there never leaving my thoughts. I know we can never be, I push you away constantly but you always persist and I can't help but...
    anonbeing anonbeing 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    We are thousands of miles apart right now but eventually we will be together. I hate being so far apart, I want to be able to hug her, kiss her, hold her any time I want to. I just...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    This feeling is heartbreaking. Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I met someone online before and fell in love with him. But we decided a year later it would never work. I don't talk to him anymore and I miss him a lot but I know this is the way...
    thatgirlem thatgirlem 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    2 days later - I saw her standing outside when I had to go inside the building. I could choose between 2 doors and I walked to the door were she was. When I was close to her we...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm in love with this boy I know. He's cute funny and we're really good friends. The only problem is that he's straight and he doesn't know in gay. Every time I see him I can't...
    zakkoboi14 zakkoboi14 13-15, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm not in love with this person, they're more of a drug to me but recently I has snapped out of it. See you can too :-)
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F Mar 24

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    I fell in love with my best friends crush and now we're dating we have the best sex and he's so complimentary towards I've had lads before say they love me but he really makes me...
    cailowe cailowe 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I'm a girl in love with one of my friends and she is straight.I've never been in love with a girl before though.After 6 months of holding it inside of me I decided it is better to...
    vivi9298 vivi9298 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I am in love with a wonderfully intelligent, mature, creative, talented man who I met on the dating site OKCupid. I noticed that he kept visiting my page but never said anything to...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    I fell in love with my perfect spanking partner. Unfortunately she's living with a guy and I'm in a loveless marriage. My timing really sucks. :(
    BaredBottomBill BaredBottomBill 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am still in love with my first proper boyfriend, we got engaged and then my cousin interfered and split us up. Its been 7 years since we split and i still think about him...
    3271amy 3271amy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    A guy liked me for three months and asked me to be with him. I rejected him. But everyday in the past three months i was falling in love with him. When i realized it, it was too...
    missavayang missavayang 22-25, F 2 Responses