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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 5 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    I met my husband when I was 19.

    He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends the rest of the time. When they divorced 5 years later, we started dating and were married just over a year later. We have been...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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