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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I met my husband when I was 19.

    He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends the rest of the time. When they divorced 5 years later, we started dating and were married just over a year later. We have been...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 5 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I recently met and fell in love with someone other than my wife. She and I are both in decent but wholly unfulfiling marriages of 10+ years. We both have two young children...
    kydadof2 kydadof2 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    lately I have been sharing my experience with this guy i met online. and in those experiences I shared the love I have for him. I was nervous to how I feel about him because I'm...
    NotHisGirl NotHisGirl 16-17, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I'm the kind of person who has a crush on anybody. Yes, I kept saying "I have a crush on him and him and also him and the other one and the other". Although I was kidding. Lol to...
    SaccharineRose SaccharineRose 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So this one boy really likes me and he's really nice, but we have nothing in common. On the other hand, i'm in love with someone who sees me as a friend only, and probably will...
    maryinthesky maryinthesky 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone 19 years younger than me ... We dated on and off for two years ... He was my best friend, we did everything together and he was my best lover I ever had...
    tcross71 tcross71 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 19

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    I met him two years ago. He is my coworker and married with two beautiful kids. Our connection was imminent the minute we met. We connected like no other. I knew that day that I...
    freebutchained freebutchained 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Ok him again... We finally talked after a month of forced separation by people around us. It was difficult seeing him at work but unable to talk to him. But the moment we start...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F Apr 19

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    Last night I let go of the pain, I stopped holding everything and stopped looking at situation blindly. I've been in love with someone for 7 years, and I finally realized they did...
    dancingyogi114 dancingyogi114 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I'm in love with someone I know I can never have. We used to be super close then he just stopped acting like he wanted to talk to me. I'd give just about anything to hold him again...
    CassidyRose4905 CassidyRose4905 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone online. I met her on MySpace when I was 14. I've known her for 9 years now and we've been together for 3 years. We always wanted to meet in real life...
    thyrm thyrm 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I never really thought that it could ever happen to me but about year and a half ago I started chatting on Skype with one stranger. I didn't really remember, when an why I added...
    PorcelainDoll98 PorcelainDoll98 16-17, F Apr 18

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    I have lived with a man for 11 years and only now do I see he was suffering from mild depression and anxiety for a good portion of it. He has always been a very stoic person who...
    marydd marydd 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Just over a month ago after reading her experiences and interests I messaged her. I'm not sure how many days went by, but she didn't pay attention to my message. On day I saw her...
    Lovethatgal4415 Lovethatgal4415 56-60, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    We are going to meet in a couple of weeks. He lives on another continent. So today it got really hard. Somehow I talked to my collegue about boyfriends and I said he was mine. But...
    Steffi27 Steffi27 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I met someone online I really like. We're from the same town but have never met. I have fallen in love with his personality but don't know how he feels about me. And he's 14 years...
    sHyvIking23 sHyvIking23 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Personality is where his true beauty is. Looks constantly change every moment, every day. Sometimes it's noticeable right away and sometimes it's not noticeable for a while...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Some say heart can be wromg but when you feel that tug in the heart and butterflies .. it's all true you know... that feeling when you feel so comfortable with someone.. i wanna...
    CursedRaven CursedRaven 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Where do I begin. Me and her have been chatting online here for a few weeks. Before I confessed my undying love for her. I started to think about her more and more then started...
    Ghost25 Ghost25 16-17, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So this is quite a long story, read it if you dare..I'm not sure if I could say I'm in love but I have definitely had this person on my mind for the last few years..every since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 9

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    NOOOOOOO I accidentally tapped this group but I can't unjoin it on my phone. I'm not in love with anyone. In fact I'm afraid to fall in love. But I do get easily attached when I...
    LoneDolll LoneDolll 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I can't describe the pain I feel seeing her so happy with someone else. I wish I could just tell her how I feel about her but there's no point, and there's no way I'd want her to...
    Milo77 Milo77 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    I never met him in real life. I just met him on omegle and we continue our conversation on skype. We do cam chat from night til morning. Sometimes the cam chat isnt worth it. Bcs...
    ochamr ochamr 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am in love with my old English teacher..... I've never felt this way towards any other woman.... I can't even theoretically be with her.. :'(
    nooblordiv nooblordiv 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I am jealous, jealous of his wife. He doesn't love her, at least, he tells me he isn't "in love" with her. I know there are all kinds of love. I know that he still loves her...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    Just by the night I was in this site and the morning I was on I have fallen in live with someone that cards about me.
    skyegraeler skyegraeler 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I admit it. I fell in love with her. Loving her has made me feel alive again in so many ways. I feel so many things right now! Mostly amazing and just a little sad at the moment...
    SexyBoss70 SexyBoss70 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I'm in a relationship but I am desperately in love with somebody else.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19

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    It is really so great thing , i dream in a pure and innocent love with an honest girl , is that impossible , i really do not know , all what i know and iam sure of that after the...
    umayyad umayyad 31-35, M Apr 20

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    I'm in love with my best friend sunce 5th grade, we're freshman. She knows. She's going with her crush who likes her back to the movies on Friday. It hurts to be near her but not...
    BeYou321 BeYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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