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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 3 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 71 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm a lesbian who is married to a guy. When we first got together I was confused, then we had a baby and now I don't want to leave....But I'm in love with someone else, however she...
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I want to see you with someone better than him. Someone who will see how lucky they are to have you. That someone should be me.
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Aug 8

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    I'm in love with someone I can't have.
    NecklessCage NecklessCage 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    The person is amazing, and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    Well , this post is kinda different than what people usually share here as I won't stress on " love " as much as I'll do with other important things too. I met my bf online and of...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I've never dated anyone online, but boy do I have a story to tell... February 2012 this girl met a guy thru an online dating site. She lives in the US and he lives in Africa...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Her essence, you ask? Graceful like the smell of lust and desire. Oh god, is our fire hot! Not to mention it's uncommon fuel, which is our inability to have each other. Well, you...
    ReMaxius ReMaxius 18-21, M Aug 5

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    At first I never suspected she was a man eater/ player but when I started to feel something wasn't quite right it was too late because I was deeply in love with her and I still am...
    heartskipsabeat heartskipsabeat 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    It's stupid, they tell me... But they didn't feel it. It's stupid, to love at young age they tell me... But they didn't feel it. It's stupid, to cry over a ripped heart that holds...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Looks don't last forever but to love and be loved by someone who has an amazing personality and understands you that love does.
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    my first time connecting with someone i met on a dating site ( long distance relationship) We talked everyday on the phone, hours at a time for months we had build a very strong...
    LEZBhonest LEZBhonest 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    So I think I'm in love with this guy. But a lot of people judged us cause he's black and I'm white. But we would always ignore all the comments and **** people would say. It was...
    wolfhaileyyy wolfhaileyyy 13-15, F Aug 10

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    We met on here, on EP. We fell madly in love for each other. But we live in different countries. I in the US, he in Canada. We are both married. It just isn't right timing for us...
    Alwayswantingmore78 Alwayswantingmore78 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 16

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    I thought when I was 16 I knew what love is,,boy I didn't know anything,, Learning everyday with someone very special what Love is,,falling for him more and more as we get to...
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I spoke to him today just to say "Hi" as a friend. He told me he was happily in love. Those words felt like a bullet in my heart, as if my heart had been stabbed to death...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I am in love with a Mormon. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love...
    wpsiatwin wpsiatwin 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I have been in and out of love with my best friend since freshman year of high school. We think the same, share the same views, our lives are headed in the same direction and I don...
    sarahgirl94 sarahgirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Because I'm not really that attractive myself. But then the real answer would be because if you fall in love with a personality that person will become the best looking person in...
    staticdreams staticdreams 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Dude, I'm in love with this guy from Facebook. He said he likes me too. He's cute, intelligent, and a lot more. He helped me get over my heartbreak the other day with his advice...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I fell in love with a guy from spain. Real love. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He tried to do so many things to me when nobody was around and i almost allowed it...
    Jovifroyo Jovifroyo 18-21 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I knew her casually, 2 years ago. She was perfect, we had an immediate compatibility, I gradually fell in love with her, despite we are both engaged. We even planned to meet each...
    harmles harmles 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 18

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    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Arent we all. I womder when ill Stop loving him and being emotionally attached. He now lives n another country and by far doesnt feel the same way i do. Im such a fool i wish i...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F Aug 2

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    She was my best friend. We were extremely close. Then, one day, she found out, and after about a month she abandoned me. She won't answer the phone or reply to a text. She moved a...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    TO THE MAN IN MY LIFE I love you so much, it will last forever ..Love like this only comes once in a lifetime And my love for you is so strong, I hope you'll be mine, forever and...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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