Post

I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 68 Responses Sep 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 3 Responses May 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I didn't realize it until last night I think I am in love with someone else. My mind often drifts to this person, and it's so wrong and would NEVER work ever. I have two kids a...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's just heartbreaking how can we lose ourself by being in love with someone else, especially if they don't want us and don't love us anymore;-(
    Nikita2103 Nikita2103 31-35, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am in love with someone who doesn't know me. Even though he is not appear in front of me everyday but he aura always with me.. I am clueless if he is notice about my existing.
    tzyt tzyt 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell in love with someone I met online
    ezzyrock ezzyrock 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell in love with someone I met on here almost instantly! 😍😍
    Awesome5790 Awesome5790 13-15, M 8 Responses Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He is my coworker. I know, I know, getting involved with someone at work isn't exactly the brightest thing to do but it happened. I couldn't help it, my feelings are too strong...
    applef applef 18-21 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How are some of you coping? I feel like outside if getting a lobotomy, this guy will forever occupy my heart and soul. It's not obsession. We had (maybe still have) a very deep...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Part 4: sorting out feelings After my EP guy left my hometown, I knew that since we had an affair things were now real. Now he was a part of my life, I just needed to sort out...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is something I thought of this morning that I can't get out of my head. It's about how I feel about the distance between him and I. It's about all the other people I dated in...
    misselodie misselodie 22-25, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel in love with my someone who has become more than my world, she's become my best friend, my confidant, my life, and my reason to keep going through each day. Maybe at times...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was about to send this to a girl, who I'm madly in love with, and who is also my best friend. But I couldn't bring myself to hit send... "I've known you for about 6 years now...
    Canonomousjay Canonomousjay 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There is a guy that used to go to my high school but not anymore because of his grades. How ever we would always talk with each other about school, relationships, and everything...
    Bonelessskelington Bonelessskelington 16-17, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    2 days later - I saw her standing outside when I had to go inside the building. I could choose between 2 doors and I walked to the door were she was. When I was close to her we...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in love with my best friend for 2 years.. 6 months ago he confessed to me that he was gay, but 2 years ago (when I first started to have feelings for him) he also had...
    marlene5sos marlene5sos 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not Love at First Sigh nor First Love. I suddenly found a boy who looks like my ex on Facebook. After breaking up with my ex, I started to be impressed by him. His name is T.D...
    happytoseeyoueveryday happytoseeyoueveryday 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It hurts when see someone say i love you and never act it ever. I want to feel loved as hell why i am always the one who say i love you and even mention the name of the one i am in...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think I'm falling in love with somebody on EP.... I feel my heart skip when I see that they're online and I get excited whenever I have a message.... Then disappointed if it's...
    Dan123123 Dan123123 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He has a girl friend. She is more pretty, popular, smart, funny then I will ever be. She is just plain out better than I am. He will never be with someone like me. And to add to...
    truthtobetold truthtobetold 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My best friend and I were so close. We loved each other, went together everywhere, and spent every minute with each other. We even began going out and our relationship got even...
    tiradrossel tiradrossel 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a girl in love with one of my friends and she is straight.I've never been in love with a girl before though.After 6 months of holding it inside of me I decided it is better to...
    vivi9298 vivi9298 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe that I am falling in love with a guy who died less than 2 years ago. He would have been in his late 30s had he lived. I wondered what it will be like if he were alive...
    erykah123 erykah123 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think it is junk!!! If he isnt fallen out of love he sure has a funky way of showing it these days. I think it's unfair that I still allow sparks to fly when he wants them to and...
    IUsed2BJustAWendy IUsed2BJustAWendy 31-35, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ok. So basicly i datedd this guy a while back. He showed so much interest in me always cheering me up telling me he likes me and only me etc. We spoke for months before i actually...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met this lovely girl in a group on DeviantArt. We've known each other for a few years now even after the group disbanded, and I've fallen in love with her. She's on the other...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is going to sound weird but i need some advice. I am in love with my aunty's step-son. Yeah! He knows and he told me that we can be together because of the family situation...
    Adridee Adridee 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think I'm falling in love with my best guy friend. We tell each other everything. We hangout a lot and go fun places together. We occasionally hookup, like 1/3 times we hangout...
    Destinyyyh7 Destinyyyh7 16-17, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm married with two kids. We are separated but legally. I'm in love with a guy 13 yrs older than me and he's single. I've known him since I was 8 yrs old. We can never be together...
    Allie26 Allie26 36-40, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in love with my best friend. She's into someone else. Everyone says we're going to date eventually but I'm just not sure she wants to. She's not a lesbian and neither am I. I...
    Runnergirl4000 Runnergirl4000 26-30, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This feeling is heartbreaking. Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is crazy to me. But here's goes my first official boyfriend in HS... Omg I was head over heals and we were perfect for each other... Flash forward to home coming his junior yr...
    thegirlWHOwait3d thegirlWHOwait3d 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met someone online before and fell in love with him. But we decided a year later it would never work. I don't talk to him anymore and I miss him a lot but I know this is the way...
    thatgirlem thatgirlem 26-30, F 15 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in love with this boy I know. He's cute funny and we're really good friends. The only problem is that he's straight and he doesn't know in gay. Every time I see him I can't...
    zakkoboi14 zakkoboi14 13-15, M 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not really in love with that person but I like the person sooo much but I know it's never gonna work out
    Jantzdavid Jantzdavid 16-17, M Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not in love with this person, they're more of a drug to me but recently I has snapped out of it. See you can too :-)
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell in love with my best friends crush and now we're dating we have the best sex and he's so complimentary towards I've had lads before say they love me but he really makes me...
    cailowe cailowe 13-15, F Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am in love with a wonderfully intelligent, mature, creative, talented man who I met on the dating site OKCupid. I noticed that he kept visiting my page but never said anything to...
    xobrighteyesxo xobrighteyesxo 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell, in love with him through a friend. We both kinda knew that we were meant to be. God just have him to me. I'm happily engaged and I love him so much. <3
    Darkflowers Darkflowers 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I fell in love with my perfect spanking partner. Unfortunately she's living with a guy and I'm in a loveless marriage. My timing really sucks. :(
    BaredBottomBill BaredBottomBill 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am still in love with my first proper boyfriend, we got engaged and then my cousin interfered and split us up. Its been 7 years since we split and i still think about him...
    3271amy 3271amy 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel