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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 62 People

    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 5 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I met my husband when I was 19.

    He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends the rest of the time. When they divorced 5 years later, we started dating and were married just over a year later. We have been...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    First of all, please don't judge..I am a good person that did a not-so-good-thing. I fell deeply in love with someone I shouldn't have. He feels the same. We are both with other...
    Catontheroof Catontheroof 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    Fell in love with someone online, didn't asked for it, wasn't looking for it, even when we started talking she asked me if i was talking to others girls and i told her no, because...
    viperguy96 viperguy96 18-21, M 2 Responses May 7

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    I'm tired of falling in love and having my heart ripped out.. I just want to fall in love with someone who really loves me.. I want to go to college and become a teacher... Then I...
    2Thoughts 2Thoughts 18-21, F 2 Responses May 22

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    A few weeks ago, i met the most amazing girl... i've been seeing her around at school for a while, but never really bothered to talk to her. Then, one night, by total chance, we...
    BMWMP0WER BMWMP0WER 18-21, M May 19

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    I am in love with someone that doesn't love me back. I'm so In love and I feel as if I'll never get over him. it sucks. and I wish I could change everything and make him mine.
    baylee0104 baylee0104 13-15, T May 10

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    it's funny you know? the thought that maybe, just maybe you can be with that one person who can do everything to make you smile or make you cry.. and then finding out just how much...
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 4 Responses May 23

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    I am in love with someone I can't have because I don't even know him and because I like someone else but he had
    skyegraeler123 skyegraeler123 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been falling in love with someone who can never love me back. ??
    tawless tawless 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with someone online. I met her on MySpace when I was 14. I've known her for 9 years now and we've been together for 3 years. We always wanted to meet in real life...
    thyrm thyrm 22-25, M 1 Response May 3

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    I'm sure most people who have fallen in love with someone online can understand this expression.... ugh
    metagross metagross 18-21, M 4 Responses May 8

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    Im in love with someone who is in prision....But Im not sure if I want to continue this
    msnikki010 msnikki010 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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    This sucks :( I go to University in September which means I have to move city, but I've now fallen in love with someone in my hometown! I hate this feeling, crying myself to sleep...
    Beffylouise Beffylouise 18-21, F May 18

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    I don't think, I KNOW I'm in love with someone.
    for3v3r7 for3v3r7 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    And so it ends ... Received this Friday Hope you’ve had a good week. My days just fly by. I don’t know that there is one day where I’ve taken a lunch “hour.” But once I...
    PC09 PC09 51-55 4 Responses May 18

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    This is a different type of attraction than the ones I'm used to and I'm really confused because I want to think that it's not based on anything other than loneliness. I know that...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    I'm new to this and I need to get this feeling out. So here I go. Second Grade is where it started. Mrs. Holston's class. I walked into that class not knowing what to...
    AtheistChrist AtheistChrist 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    What's the point of loving someone if you love them for how they look instead of how they act? You don't love them for them in that case. Looks are temporary. You never loved them...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 4 Responses May 3

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    "Been there, done that." How did it work? Failed. Yet, it wasn't love. It was, as one could imagine, attraction to their looks. Never doing that again. It was a huge waste of my...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    She is my best friend's younger sister, he is literally the older brother I never had, he & I are both survivors of child molestation, he has built me up and I have built him up in...
    collegestudent83 collegestudent83 22-25, M 1 Response May 23

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    we would have been perfect together. It's been 2 years we know each other, separated physically for 1 year, so far but yet we became closer and closer each day until i fell in love...
    Sting23 Sting23 18-21, M May 23

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    Well, I just graduated from my high school. I am happy and also worried about my future. But there is still a regret. I was in love with a boy. I couldn't stop thinking about him...
    Anomago Anomago 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Okay. After a really long ride after a pseudo relationship going sour, I met someone who made my heart believe in love again. She did hit on me in the beginning, but I couldn't do...
    cursedswan cursedswan 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    He was the first guy to voice message me on an app called Skout. He had an amazing voice that I fell in love with immediately. We've been talking ever since. His name is *V*and he...
    Hamyamyak Hamyamyak 22-25, F 4 Responses May 19

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    I'm totally in love with a guy i met almost 2years ago when i was up visiting my home town like, 2000 miles away from where i live now, and he happened to be dating my childhood...
    ivysmommy5 ivysmommy5 18-21, F May 21

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    I fell for a woman who didn't love me, I thought she cared but it turns out she was in love with a ex friend of mine! We had lots of fun and did a lot with each other. Then in...
    bigjjunkman bigjjunkman 46-50, M May 22

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    I am in love with my old English teacher..... I've never felt this way towards any other woman.... I can't even theoretically be with her.. :'(
    nooblordiv nooblordiv 13-15, M May 3

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    We've never met, hell I don't even know if you exist. You were in my dream, beautiful, perfect. I made you laugh, we walked and talked as I tried to impress you. I remember you so...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    Yes I am still in love with a man from other country.But I hate him too.
    des3low des3low 31-35, F 1 Response May 20

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    Married 13 years to a wonderful man. Everyone loves him...except for me. I love him per se, but not in love with him . Met someone almost a year ago I've tried to deny feelings for...
    Lustingforad Lustingforad 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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