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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 3 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Do you ever feel like all your crushes are just accidents? I hate falling in love. I'll be sailing through my life all strong headed and confident and BAM! I go crazy over...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 18 mins ago

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    so many barriers between us...he is already in relationship... he is quiet famous in college so he don't deserve someone not bright like me. Futhermore I'm a loser compare to him...
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    UPDATE: Hey guys - just thought I would write a little update on one of my previous experiences "I fell in love with someone I met online" So this is a gaming related post. I had...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I'm I'm love with someone that is 10 years older than me. I doubt she sees me in the same way. I wish I had someone to talk to about it
    Lexiimichellee Lexiimichellee 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    The young get older and looks change but personalty pretty much stays the same. So instead of falling in love with someone just because they are pretty really get to know them...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 12

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    I have met some incredible people here, some I truly thought I loved who turned out to be scammers and broke my heart. Others who became great friends and will always hold a place...
    DandelionsJourney DandelionsJourney 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    Just talked to my H. He wants to work on our marriage...is he nuts? I said I don't think I can be what he wants. I can't be a good wife...not to him. I don't want to tell him I've...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Spent basically the entire weekend with him...off and on anyways...Then last night I saw him and spent the night with him and all day! Enjoyed every moment. Waking up having been...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Dec 7

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    Thursday night. the word madly in love will remind me of... a song.. my favourite song.. passionate and sensual.. so I turn on to Insatiable by Darren Hayes.. my favourite part...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M Dec 18

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    "A person doesn't know true hurt and suffering until they've felt the pain of falling in love with someone whose affections lie elsewhere" Ain't that the truth :(
    Milo77 Milo77 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 13

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    I have fallen comletely in Love with someone who lives 6 833 nautical miles away ~ until we cross the Pacific Ocean and the Equator very soon XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    vinvicau vinvicau 66-70, M Dec 17

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    I think I'm falling love with someone....I don't know why but I'm getting feelings for him.
    SunSetAllDay SunSetAllDay 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12 26-30, F Dec 3

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M Dec 7

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I love my husband he works his *** off. I try to do what I can to help. I'm back in school to make a new career. I have been in situations where I have falling in love also with...
    kavett kavett 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    I think about her constantly. At work. Doing chores. Watching a show or movie. I dream about her. My day is always better when I get that first text from her. Work is better, goes...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 19

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F Dec 14

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    We had an eight month relationship despite of the fact that i'm married and he's in a relationship with another girl for 11yrs. He was so in-love with me back then. As for me, I'm...
    burnsandbruises burnsandbruises 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't know what I'm looking for.. Other than just wanting a girl to screw around with call her pretty things and the usual. I want somebody I can trust, somebody who's smile...
    Johnnymane Johnnymane 16-17, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    There's so, so much more to a person than appearance. Attraction from looks is just a bonus, but they will fade, it's just chance that they happen to appear beautiful. Looks fade...
    EternalShy EternalShy 16-17, F 10 Responses Dec 10

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    True... Like my previous post... Im in love with my best friend and im only admitting it now... I thought we were only platonic but now i just realised how much i truly like him...
    appetanc3 appetanc3 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    I finally met him after two months of texting, emails, phone calls and FaceTime. He is working in Afghanistan, but we only live 2 hours apart. I've been holding this guy at arms...
    norlights3 norlights3 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Guess this should be the forum to post my stories because I'm definitely not the Other Woman anymore. But I've fallen madly in love with a single guy (SG) but I'm still married :(
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I always fall for the guys that are never interested in me and i hate it because when i decide to tell them about my feeligs it always backfires on me and im forced to love them in...
    Daisylilyviolet Daisylilyviolet 18-21, F Dec 11

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    I'm in love with a man who is 23 years older than I am, but he's so wonderful, charming, gentlemanly, and extremely intelligent, I just wish he knew how I felt without risking our...
    CoirstaidhNicAnToisich CoirstaidhNicAnToisich 16-17, F Dec 15

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    I asked myself once. If someone who should be better half is in another part of this world, should I work hard for him? And the answer since then, yes. I believe distance won...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    I had her, then i lost her. and the worst part is that when i think ive moved on, i fall in love with her all over again. And everytime i do i love her more than i did before. im...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I met him in the dating app Badoo, and I can say, he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. We're married now and we're so happy with each other. I'm so glad we met!!! And it...
    Senselesssmassacre Senselesssmassacre 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Yeah well I met him like 3 months back and we were the best of friends since then. I had a break up with my bf back then n this guy was like always there for me after that. I...
    callmeLys callmeLys 13-15, F Dec 18

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    We fell on the same place. Last night he texted me that for sure nwxt life we will be with each other no matter what. :)))
    nightfurydoodie nightfurydoodie 18-21, F Dec 18

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    I have. I met her here and i am madly in love with her. She lives really far but we're gonna make it work. I have never been so sure of anything in my life
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 6 Responses Nov 29

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    Also, even if he fell in love with me, we could never be together, as he will spend the rest of his life in jail in a different country. I'm at my wits end here.
    LillithMeiwes LillithMeiwes 26-30, F Dec 6

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    I'm in love with the Coco(:
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    its soo hard to fall in love with your son...what are we to do?? i cant change how i feel...sooo lonely sometimes
    kellysand kellysand 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 21

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    i fell in love with my best friends ex boyfriend. and he has a girlfriend.. but hes perfect.. he makes me laugh and kissing him is perfect, and i can talk to him about things i...
    SamTornado SamTornado 13-15, F a week ago

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