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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 63 People

    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    I met my husband when I was 19.

    He is 8 years older than me and was unhappily married at the time. While we did have a brief fling at the beginning, we remained strictly friends the rest of the time. When they divorced 5 years later, we started dating and were married just over a year later. We have been...
    GoddessShashini GoddessShashini 26-30, F Jan 26

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 5 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    Need help/advice! Here's my story: My mom and dad split up before I was born, so I never really saw much of my dad or his side of the family growing up. When I was about 17, my dad...
    Italy21 Italy21 26-30, F Feb 7

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    I've posted about this before, but it's still just the same. I am so in love with someone who stumbled into my life and quickly became one of my best friends in a matter of months...
    FlyAwayWithMe3 FlyAwayWithMe3 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I would like to agree with this but I feel like it would be kinda hypocritical of me even though I do believe that if you fall in love with someone I wouldn't choose the super cute...
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I fell in love with someone. He was perfect. I loved him with everything that i had. But distance is why things could not work between us. I recently found out that he found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 15

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    I fell in love with someone over Facebook but she is married and lives over 2000 miles away.. She defriended me for about 3 months, then out of the blue messaged me wanting to be...
    jaxon38 jaxon38 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I fell in love with someone two years ago who believed in a religion I didn't believe in. He was also three years older than me. I reminisce on that time as the happiest I've ever...
    littljay littljay 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to fall in love with someone who will love me in return. I've never been in a relationship and I want to be loved by someone. I get this feeling that someone will love me...
    freckles45 freckles45 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    I am falling in love with someone I can't have! Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F Feb 7

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    I am in love with someone but I am shy to tell her that I love u...
    samxjoe samxjoe 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I'm totally in love with one of my friends. her name will stay anonymous. but anyways this girl is one of the most beautiful girls in the world. I love everything about her. I love...
    RAYPENA RAYPENA 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I truly fell in love with someone I met online. And it wasn't on this site. Haha. I was actually someone who answered a Craigslist ad I posted.
    luv2wetmyself2 luv2wetmyself2 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    He knows it and so do I. I never thought I'd say I could fall in love with someone over a computer. This person could also not be any farther away from me if he tried. : (
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 7 Responses Feb 16

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    I would say I'm in love with TWO men other than my husband. Doesn't THAT make life interesting!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I didn't choose to fall for him; he tripped me. He somehow got to me fall in love with him... but I don't mind. One day, I was just minding my own business. I was watching some...
    PKFairytale PKFairytale 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm a 24 year old female. My story started a long time ago. I was a sophmore in high school, I think I was 15. I was in chemistry and my teacher made me partner up with a boy. I...
    Fantasybird Fantasybird 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Just warning, this might get slightly long. So, I am a 13 year old girl. (Please don't judge me by my age). I have always been kind of "boyish" or however you want to call it. I...
    Wildheart919 Wildheart919 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    It was 15 months ago that we met on here and started talking. It was 14 months ago that I realized I was getting attached. It was 13 months ago in which I knew I was falling in...
    awaywego4 awaywego4 26-30, F Feb 7

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      This is my first post, so Im not sure how it works but I'm just going to tell you what happened anyway and i really hope there is someone else out there who has had the...
    WeAlwaysHaveTheSun WeAlwaysHaveTheSun 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 20

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    Every time my phone flashes and vibrates I think it's a message from him and every time I get a little sad because the message isn't from him at all. He's 6 years order than me I...
    BandsSavedMyLife BandsSavedMyLife 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I met him on an app through my iPhone called "thumb" and every interaction on this app is by chance it seems. You generally chat with someone anonymous until you later are able to...
    dpeterson831 dpeterson831 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 24

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    I have been seeing a girl since we had sex on accident 3 months ago. We aren't in a relationship but we're close and we both care about each other. her mom likes me and her friends...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    It was late in the summer of 2012. I was 17. I had a summer job at a carnival and it was my last week, as I was starting school soon. I had to travel three hours from home just for...
    aashton aashton 18-21, F Feb 9

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    recently I have been thinking about someone but what I find strange about this is for the first time in four years I am having these visions. in the past I used to envision being...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M Feb 23

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    I love him alot more than i should. But i don't see a way out of this ..other than just loving him from a far. This is for you my love , my sweet bjorn.
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    His name is James. He is American but his mom is Asian like me and was from the same country. We've been talking for 7 months now. We had a lot of fights mainly because of my...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 17

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    We chatted for seven months. After seven months, I told him I love him. But he said he can't say I love you to someone he hasn't met in person. He wants me to wait 9 more months...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I had to end it. I love him, always will, but I love myself more. No more pain can be caused by disappointment or broken promises. No more feeling inadequate and under appreciated...
    GoddessBluefox GoddessBluefox 36-40, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I fell in love with a married man a little over a year ago. We told ourselves that familiar lie, that we would “just be friends”. But we quickly became more to each other. We...
    2ndinline 2ndinline 31-35, F Feb 11

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    spoke with her today and it warmed my heart seeing her smile and making her laugh. its weird how comfortable her and I are with each other that we can be our weird selves and its...
    Boomer2133 Boomer2133 22-25, M