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I Am In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

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    So Confused

    So here's the deal. Maybe someone can help. I met a guy online that my husband works with. That was back in November. We have talked off and on frequently, and recently it's been a nightly occurance via IM. We have spent hours and hours talking (last time we chatted all through...
    almostenchanted almostenchanted 22-25 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    I Feel Awful

           I married my husband because it felt safe, I didn't really love him, but I was willing to live my life with him if he wanted. I got pregnant before I actually married him, and I think that's why I actually went through with it...
    milada milada 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Fell In Love With Someone Other Than My Husband

    I met my husband when I was 19. Before him I dated a guy for 5 1/2 years. So I haven't been out in the world on my own ever. We married when I was 22. I was still in college, just about to graduate. We have 2 beautiful children a boy 5 1/2 and a little girl 2 1/2. We have always...
    pirseinkim pirseinkim 31-35 3 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Love At 42!

    i married at the age of 17, an arranged Indian wedding. Like a good Indian, i tried to b a perfect wife. He was more attached to his widowed mother and his relatives, never shared his salary details with me and gave me less money as his mother maintained that being an only...
    chotisibaat18 chotisibaat18 41-45 4 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Confused Oh So Sonfused

    ok so heres the deal... I need help. I have been married for 6 years in january and the road has NEVER been easy. We have 2 kids together and have known each other for 10 years. My husband has done so horrible things in the last couple of years including leaving me and my two...
    debatinglove08 debatinglove08 22-25 2 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    Bad Wife?

    I have been together with my husband(Roy) ever since I was 14.. I fell in love with himwhen I was 16, I started developing feelings for one of my best friends(Emmet). He was such an awesome guy. I had soo much fun around him.Roy and I broke up for a while, and I started talking...
    hoplessromantic456 hoplessromantic456 18-21 3 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Unhappy Relationship

    I married my hubby because I was homeless my mum threw me out of the house. Friendsitting is what I did from house to home, I had no money not even for the bus. Had I gone anywhere it would have been on foot. I had no money to eat completely trapped! Then enters into my life...
    chessyviolin chessyviolin 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    I've Tried, But I Can't Do It Anymore.

    My husband and I have been married for 2 and a half years, and we were together for a year and a half before that. I met him through my ex. We became best friends quickly and once I built uo the courage to leave my ex for him, things were great. Two months into our relationship...
    charmantebivens charmantebivens 26-30 70 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Really Screwed Up!

    I was 16 when I got married. I really screwed up! I knew I didn't want to get married but what could I do? I couldn't embarrass him in front of our friends and family!! I was a good wife. I did everything he asked. I was faithful to him. I never thought about cheating, he would...
    kimberlyagh kimberlyagh 22-25 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband.

    An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My husband (who was my boyfriend at the time) and I had been together for three years before I met Mike*(not real name) at a bonfire. I wasn't looking...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 2 Responses Mar 28

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    married for over 20 years. met and grew in love with another woman, a much younger woman
    jwl112233 jwl112233 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hi all, I'm new :-). I hope you can help me. I have fallen in love with someone who has a girlfriend. I know that this is wrong but there is nothing I can do about my feelings...
    whoami8555 whoami8555 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    If I only wanted to look at something, I'd buy a painting. But falling in love with someone's personality is not even a choice, it's a requirement. Love doesn't come from looks, it...
    Uncertain153 Uncertain153 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    There's this girl who always ask me for advice,, so maybe I could get other feedback on this!! She has a boyfriend and the person she was dealing with (a girl) has a girlfriend...
    kbberry kbberry 26-30, F Nov 1

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    I am in love with someone i think i can't have... i can't even talk to that person for some reason and it really hurts..
    lover28f lover28f 26-30 1 Response Nov 2

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I hate myself each day for feeling this way. I just can't help it. I can't help myself from thinking about this other man before bed. My husband isn't like him, yet not a bad guy...
    Kira05 Kira05 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I live my life as a wife to a man who barely knows me anymore and as a mother to the most awesome little girl I've ever known. Every sacrifice I make is worth it for her but I get...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    So years ago, I met this guy at work. He was new, so to make him feel welcomed, I asked about his life. He was married with 1 child. I was single then, but I don't go after married...
    Holls215 Holls215 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I need help!!!!! i met my husband in 2008... we were young, loving life and infatuated with eachother. we got married in 2012 and here it is 2014 and I have felt for a year and a...
    lovexlife lovexlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over phone and...
    sarahc11 sarahc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via mutual spiritual interests. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my...
    bettecc11 bettecc11 26-30, F Nov 16

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    I met a man online and fell in love with him quickly without knowing how he looked. He showed me a photo of a man an pretended it was him because he was afraid I would stop loving...
    Jim666Moriarty Jim666Moriarty 16-17, T Nov 8

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    I met someone on Xbox Live 4 years ago. He and I were in very similar relationships that ended this year. For the longest time I've felt so connected and comfortable talking to him...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 85% sure that girl I like will never be mine. Don't say man up and talk to her because that's not how I do stuff. I might get into a relationship but thats short term until...
    xxxfakerhaterxxx xxxfakerhaterxxx 18-21, M Nov 5

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    I have liked the same girl for years and as I've gotten to know her more and we've become friends, my feeling have become hightened (I think I'm in love with her). Everything...
    danielk128 danielk128 13-15, M Nov 8

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    I was introduced to this social/gaming website about ten years ago, where I met this amazing guy. Every day we could chat for hours on this website. This lasted several months. At...
    justanothersteph justanothersteph 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I have always been really close with this guy (lets name him S) who is my best friends brother (sucks). When I was about 8 years old my mom moved to a different country and i had...
    ilovecookiesalways ilovecookiesalways 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Let me begin with well I have a problem I like 2 girls at my school. And they are both friends and everyone is telling me to ask out of the the girls that I hang out with. But how...
    madison57 madison57 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    This girl that I've previously written about. The one that I thought that I can have an open relationship with her & told her I'd give her the world if she would be mine turns out...
    dancedesire dancedesire 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Hello EP readers. I don’t know what I hope to gain from sharing all this, but I feel compelled to do so. You will probably think I’ve lost my mind by the time that you get to...
    ThePolarPanda ThePolarPanda 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    i met someone online, we got along well, chatted everyday, and the next thing i knew, we fell inlove with each other,... thought it would be happy ever after, but i was wrong...
    EpolApple EpolApple 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm in love with the sweetest and most attractive person in the entire world, and i've believed that since the day we first spoke. We met online as you do, and he was so perfect...
    boyfriendpls boyfriendpls 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I believe that a bad personality makes you ugly despite physical appearance. Also I believe falling in love with them for who they are no matter what race gender or whatever...
    Keegal Keegal 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 3

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    6 months ago I met Alexander on Experience project, 4 months ago today I entered into a relationship with him. Before Alex, I was bitter, and quite reserved, but getting to know...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I like this girl who happens to be my classmate also ,as time went by we got really close and I told her my feelings ,she feels the same way ....though she has a bf and their...
    lostinside109 lostinside109 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 13

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    I Had A Dear Friend Named Josh. He Was My Sun & My Moon. But, I Really Struggled In Our Relationship. It Came To A Point Where We Didn't Know How To Be Just Friends & We Didn't...
    MsLizBethBennet MsLizBethBennet 18-21, F Nov 14

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    I have fallen in love with a man so out of my norm. I usually go for the hot military/cop kinda guys, but as I get older i just don't care. I have met a beautiful/handsome man...
    NCgrlmissinMAguy NCgrlmissinMAguy 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    we work together and have for years and somewhere along the way I fell madly in love with her. We she started working with me she was just out of college and now 8 years later...
    jwt3333 jwt3333 22-25 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Looks fade away with time, but I will always love the person I fell in love with.
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He said he was very tempted, he said he always liked me too, he said be good, you never know what is around the bend. He's also married. He's also giving me a house. I know he...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F Nov 5

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    He said he was very tempted, he said he always liked me too, he said be good, you never know what is around the bend. He's also married. He's also giving me a house. I know he...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I met this female. She was very beautiful and very wise. We talked for a while as friends. There became a point where We became bestfriends. We talk on the phone every day and...
    classykitty classykitty 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 6

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    I am in love with my boss and she doesn't know it. She knows that I like her, due to the flowers and cards that I bought her, but I later found out that she had a boyfriend. I feel...
    marques30s marques30s 31-35, M Oct 30

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    I am a 15 year old girl and I am in love with one of my best friends. I have known him for about 2 years and he is the nicest guy I have ever met. I haven't liked him until...
    Herecomesafemale Herecomesafemale 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I'm in love with every guy who have muscles. I know I'm not the only girl who think this but I loveeeeee guys who muscles. Not the guys who show off their muscles for attention but...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7

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