I Am In Love With Someone Who Doesnt Love Me Back

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    I'm sure you guys are tired of hearing from me

    but since I can't get it all outa my head anywhere else; I just I keep thinking about her and how much I wanna hold her in my arms and what I'd give to tell her how I feel and for her to say she feels the same.
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I feel rotten. I have never been in this

    situation before, but I have somehow been the target in my life for people to fall for. I am not bragging, boasting, or being cocky. I have had over ten of my friends convinced that they are in love with me. Some have stated it for four years, going strong. Others after knowing...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2015

    Unrequited love has me thinking irrational

    thoughts like "maybe we'll get back together again in 10-15 years time, right??"
    wildheart9 wildheart9
    22-25, F
    Apr 10, 2015

    Fake message ! Lol Don't want a boyfriend I am

    dating one now Can't get the feel that he isn't close to me but it's ok
    mlplights mlplights
    16-17, F
    Dec 18, 2015

    Have you ever loved someone

    but they didn't love you? Have you ever wanted someone so bad that it became an obsession? I have, and let me tell you it sucks ***
    zanyzoey zanyzoey
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    I love her so much. But she has feelings

    for someone else. I haven't stopped crying sense Saturday. Actually writing this right now my eyes are watery. I went back to school today and was depressed holding back tears all day. Seeing her face fills me with joy and hatred at the same time. I don't understand. She acts...
    TheRealMe99 TheRealMe99
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2014

    After 9 years with my boyfriend,

    i suddenly knew something about him that made me realized im not the one he's been looking for. It made me feel awful until i knew back then he's still in love with his friend way back years ago. It made me feel insecure with that woman he really like.
    mynameisnicz mynameisnicz
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 14

    When will this pain go away!

    7 months and i still truly love her. I would give anything to have my life with her back. I miss her and her family so much everyday i think about her. Will the pain ever end? Never have i loved so much.
    hopeandsorow hopeandsorow
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 7, 2014

    I'm in love with a girl

    who wants someone to love her. Apparently she wants anyone to love her except me, and I don't know what I did wrong.
    MaxAttack19 MaxAttack19
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    Quick I'm having a weak moment

    and I might call my ex!! 😢 Someone distract me please my resolve is crumbling too fast
    wildheart9 wildheart9
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    I made something for a girl I'm pretty much in

    love with; and when I gave it to her she shrugged it off like it was nothing
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    Mar 15, 2015

    I'm in love with a guy

    that doesn't love me, I told myself I was done, but he texted me the other night and has my heart again. He plays me for a fool. Texts then ignores me for months, but I always go back. We've never kissed or anything like that, but I still love the a$$hole. He's the first guy I...
    Dorkfish711 Dorkfish711
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    So this one boy really likes me

    and he's really nice, but we have nothing in common. On the other hand, i'm in love with someone who sees me as a friend only, and probably will never have any sort of romantic feelings for me. In fact, I suspect he has a crush on a friend of mine. I wish I could give the other...
    maryinthesky maryinthesky
    16-17, F
    May 2, 2015

    I'm kinda new to this whole thing

    and to this app so yea. I was recently in a relationship with a guy I really loved but I don't know if it was true love because it was long distance. So he would tell me he loves me and cares about me and deep down I knew he didn't mean it but I don't know why but I believed him...
    Takenandinlove Takenandinlove
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    This girl we were together

    for almost two years... I thought I knew what love was until she left me on my birthday and cheated on me... After that she apologized and I said I forgave her but there was still a bitterness in my heart so I treated her like dirt like she was nothing all because I let my...
    AyoMagallon AyoMagallon
    18-21, M
    Jan 6, 2014
    Dorkfish711 Dorkfish711
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    Seriously though, what's the point of love?

    Everyone suffer and die because of it. Lovers are quick to give up and lose hope. We get jealous, sick and tired of everything. Why can't we conquer love? Love is a ruthless delusion that sucks your mind in and make you feel happy, sad and gloomy.. Lovers are quick to come and...
    Violetblossoms Violetblossoms
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 11, 2015

    I am in love with someone

    that doesn't love me back. I'm so In love and I feel as if I'll never get over him. it sucks. and I wish I could change everything and make him mine.
    baylee0104 baylee0104
    16-17, T
    May 10, 2015

    One Way Love

    I have fallen madly in love with someone who doesn't care the slightest bit about me anymore. I lay In bed at night thinking I should give up, but somehow hold on to hope thinking it will get better. But deep down I know It won't, so I continue to lie to myself that she will...
    notyouraveragedrugaddict notyouraveragedrugaddict
    16-17, M
    Nov 18, 2013

    So I like this guy who's also a volley ball

    player with a gorgeous girlfriend and well I still like him but I know I have no chance with him since I'm on the badminton team and also a volleyball player and I did everything stuffed my bra put on tons of make up and started doing workouts to get a body that'll be noticeable...
    Ericacatchesyourclouds Ericacatchesyourclouds
    18-21, F
    Dec 19, 2015

    Hey World. How are you?

    I am I love with somebody so much that I feel that he doesn't love me back. How can I be sure that I am right or wrong in the best way...?
    mlplights mlplights
    16-17, F
    Dec 18, 2015

    Actually...it's more I LIKE LIKE someone

    who isn't liking me back...or me front.
    bikegenius1 bikegenius1
    56-60, M
    Jun 6, 2015

    So I recently went out with someone I've been

    crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've brought up being together she has always said it wasn't the right time or something along those lines; and so that night when little opportunities...
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015

    So this guy liked me a lot

    and I had a boyfriend. And me and my boyfriend broke up. So, I check the guy who liked me'a account, and there is a date on it, yesterday's date. He got a girlfriend. And only then did I realize I love him.
    theoneandonlyxx theoneandonlyxx
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2014

    You say you want somebody to love you

    but when i gave you my heart all you did was use it and rip it apart. If you wanted love then what the hell was I?!
    anotherclosetedteen anotherclosetedteen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015

    Hello there, The angel from my nightmare,

    The shadow in the background of the morgue. The unsuspecting victim of darkness in the valley. We can live like Jack and Sally If we want. Where you can always find me And we'll have Halloween on Christmas. And in the night we'll wish this never ends, We'll wish this never ends...
    SuicideGray SuicideGray
    16-17, M
    Dec 19, 2015

    I am in love with a guy (I'm gay ) his name is

    aiden potvin I flirt with him but I don't think he knows I am pleas help
    xenon54 xenon54
    16-17, M
    May 11, 2015

    I keep your message up just

    so I can see if your messaging me back. It can be an hour and I'll still be patiently waiting. When I see you're typing it takes a heaviness off my chest.
    Brittneynatasha Brittneynatasha
    22-25, F
    Apr 3, 2014

    :cI love his smileT.TI love his voiceD:He's

    so cute when he does... Anything... Pretty much anything:(He's a total gamer and geek and he loves anime. And no... He doesn't live in his mom's basement. xDHe loves physics. Why do all the fantastic people out there like physics?! I don't... But I would for him.The sad thing is...
    ThatOneDepressedKid ThatOneDepressedKid
    16-17, F
    Mar 11

    I place a lot of emphasis on intentions.

    If you hurt me but it was genuinely unintentional AND you express remorse, of course I wouldn't hold that against you! In fact, it'll probably help me get over it easier since I wouldn't take it so personally. I just wish I didn't assume that everyone thinks like this.
    wildheart9 wildheart9
    22-25, F
    Apr 8, 2015

    Ohhhhhhh damn I'm in a worst situation someone

    could ever be!!!!! Nope I don't fall in love with someone.... Someone else fall in love with me!!!! Ok I was chatting with one of my best friends (she is girl) then she said I hate you, I love you, I hate that I love you then send sad mems like this 😢😢 I was thinking she...
    arshiazare arshiazare
    13-15, M
    1 Response Feb 1

    Had an amazing dream last night; one of those

    felt real ones, where she and I were together... Needless to say waking up was soul crushing.
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2015

    I'm pretty sure he knows I'm in love with him

    and has been using me this entire time
    thetvison thetvison
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    I fell Inlove with someone

    but because of my insanity back in the past I lost him. Is it weird I still love him after almost a year when only dated two weeks? I've tried to let him go but I can't because he was my perfection, and you only get perfection once in a life time .
    UnconditionallyGone UnconditionallyGone
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    It happened, it hurts

    but I am helpless.
    kevinparker kevinparker
    26-30, M
    Jan 31

    I have been for three years now,

    and she clearly doesn't feel the same way about me. I have told her several times that I do but she already had dated a guy who she was best friends with and she lost him. I don't know if she's afraid of losing me or what, but I don't know whether to keep trying or give up, and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    I am having less and less pity parties,

    I can't wait to stop thinking of you as a love lost.
    wildheart9 wildheart9
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    I have been attracted to this boy

    for perhaps a year now, and recently the attraction has blossomed into a crush. Ok, perhaps not recently, it's been a few months now. However, as time goes on, I find I fall a little deeper for him. He doesn't return the feelings. I have even gotten to the stage where all I care...
    neongoggles neongoggles
    18-21, T
    Apr 5, 2014

    I am just so sad about my marriage.

    How could he just not care. We have had our problems but it's different this time. He could not talk to me for days and be fine.. Not even look at me. I don't argue or nag and told him if he wants to than just leave but he won't. He must just want me to feel alone and hurt while...
    jussme91 jussme91
    22-25, F
    Jan 13, 2015

    I have liked him for months now.

    My best friend helped me realize it, though I denied it to her. For years I have worked very hard to be "one of the guys" and it's mostly worked, but they still won't invite me to things because I'm a girl. Yet my best friend doesn't even try at all, but she's like their best...
    Mokuba Mokuba
    13-15, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2015

    I REALLY like the guy

    who likes my best friend and she likes him back. I am trying to be happy for her cuz she's moving away
    madibballbooks madibballbooks
    13-15, F
    Jun 13, 2014

    Those sucky points in the day

    where you're talking to them and you can tell by the way they talk they don't feel for you but you want so badly to tell them how much you love them, but you know there's no point cuz it won't change anything.
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    Jun 5, 2015

    I've been in love with my best friend

    for 15 years. She is the only girl I have ever loved. I love her so much it hurts. But she feels nothing for me. What makes it worse is she was with a guy for 13 years who treated her like dirt. Recently she finally left him which leaves me terrified because I'm going to have to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 20, 2015

    Yes her name is Taylor Swift.

    or T-sweezy whichever you prefer.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    Oct 16, 2015

    I miss my ex boyfriend Tony.

    I still have feelings for him but I can't date him unless apologies for what he did after I broke up with him
    saeb1012 saeb1012
    13-15, F
    Jul 7, 2015

    I've had a crush on someone

    since the sixth grade. He's one of my closest friends now and I asked him out twice. I'm certain that if I still feel some way towards him, that must be the start of love. I find myself thinking about him and worrying about him a lot. I really need advice.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 28, 2015

    Teacher Love

    I am a fifteen year old girl and I've never understood what true love or heartbreak feels like until now. I've never liked girls, but I am undoubtedly in love with female English teacher; I never had to question it. I knew it from day one. she noticed the pain in my eyes and...
    raveyyyy raveyyyy
    18-21, F
    Oct 5, 2013

    I had the worst experience last summer like my

    whole summer and first semester of school was crap. i dont even know how i passed my classes. so i was taking humanities in the summer and one day this girl came late she looked cute and she sat beside me and took my number (that was a big mistake i made, i wish i hadn't..)...so...
    unknownghost07 unknownghost07
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 11
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