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I Am In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

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    She Is Taking Me Over Again

    Today I was really depressed. I thought about HER all day. Since my best friend told me she dreamt me invading HER privacy I've been overwhelmed with a myriad of feelings again. I know I still love HER and a part of me knows I always will. Yet, I want to be able to move on. I...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Nov 13, 2013

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion,

    "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course." Clearly they had never really been in love before. When you love someone, you give everything to them. Your past, present, and promise of a...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    A Bit Simpler Story

    I am in love with someone who is graduating next year and I dont think he likes me back. Basically, he's popular and im the kind who's like a loser (and fat). Totally not his type. I cant stop thinking about him and I just get so happy whenever i talk to him. This...
    hopelessR93 hopelessR93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2009

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    It always happens to me.

    .. I guess i'm destined to be alone. I better work out to at least be a hot single or something xD
    knock2knock knock2knock 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    12 years i've been thinking about him everyday.

    ..12 years spent dreaming that one magic day he'll say he loved me... so him yesterday...nothing...not even a hello, how is it going... he's so self centered...why doesn't he love me?!...oh i know, 'cause i'm young, stupid, naive, and not at all impressive... i guess it's my own...
    kikilie kikilie 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I Would Take Him Back Any day!!!!!!!!

     I would take him back any day, I would forget the past and start out fresh. I forgive him and i love him... he is the one for me!!
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I have this really good friend

    who I think I might be in love with, but I don't ever think he will see me as more than a friend. As it is now I am "one of the boys"... And to make matters worse, we just graduated and therefore we don't see each other as often as before, so naturally I miss him, but I can't...
    jtajulie jtajulie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I Miss Her

    I want my CJ back. I feel so empty without her. I just wish I could undo all the **** I caused in April and things could go back to normal. I miss her hugs and kisses especially. I want to go and visit her in her office and talk as we used to. I'm still very much in love with her...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Oct 15, 2013

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    The guy I started having a crush on in third

    grade and am now in love with, started dating one of my best friends and I get that she can't help what she feels but idk that really hurt me..
    karlagarcia17 karlagarcia17 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm in love with my cousin

    but I have no idea if he likes me or not I hope he does but I'm not for sure cause he has a girlfriend and I would love to take her down but that's not how it works he's 21 and I'm 12 but I have feelings for him I love him so much but he's way out of my league heard that one...
    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    At Night I Pretend the Pillow Next to Me Is Her.

    I met her when I was married and she was in an mentally abusive marriage to a drug addict. She turned to me for support and we became best friends. It was a rough time in her life and I was there when she needed someone. We found ourselves falling in love with each other. When...
    dvaughn dvaughn 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    Last night I did a coward move

    and said "I love you" over Facebook to a guy that I'm inlove with, were not going out and I've told him I liked him and he said he likes me too and we've like each other over 6 months and I really do love him and I told him over Facebook that I love him And it said "seen" with...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm not really "in love"

    but there's this guy I find kind of cute. But he's almost a senior and I'm only in eighth grade so it totally wouldn't work out. I think a crush is a better qua to put how I feel...
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I met him two years ago in my first year of

    college. Everything about him is wonderful. He's everything I've always wanted and everything I want to be. He's had a girlfriend for the past 8 years. I've already told him how I feel but I feel like it isn't enough. All I do anymore is think about him and miss him terribly. I...
    TearDowntheWall TearDowntheWall 18-21, F Apr 26

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    zhenry zhenry 13-15, M Nov 7

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    I have been in love with the same girl

    for about 3 years. She just doesnt feel the same bc shes "straight." We havent really been talking for a while but i dnt know if i still feel the same or not.
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    GOD bless all of you.

    Be in love with GOD because he is in love with you. GOD is the creator of all.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Unrequited Affection

    We met over 2 years ago, and there hasn't been a day when I haven't thought about him hundreds of times. I am in LOVE with him. And I'm not that kind of person who "falls in love" with someone new every week. He's the only person I have ever felt this way about. I haven't met...
    TanBarbieGirlxox TanBarbieGirlxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    I first encountered him

    as a crush. I have always had a crush on him. He is white I'm native so their is a big difference in our popularity scale. Of course I am not as pretty as his white girl friends (not being racist) so I know I would never have a chance with him. We are in the same grade. Last...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Mar 23

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    Related Experiences

    Yeah well I met him like 3 months back and we were the best of friends since then. I had a break up with my bf back then n this guy was like always there for me after that. I...
    callmeLys callmeLys 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm currently seeing someone who hasn't shown they care about me. We don't spend much time together and he doesn't have much to say to me anymore. I'm putting too much trying to...
    seredipidy seredipidy 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I just realized I am in love with a guy who doesn't love me. We have been talking for months and just recently he has been talking to me less and I am realizing how much it is...
    thirdsense thirdsense 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I feel like everyone has this ideal person that they would fall in love with, the perfect combination of good looks, intelligence, and humor. That person is physically attractive...
    loverofthelight95 loverofthelight95 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I'm not really sure what love is, so I'll just say I've liked a guy for almost 4 years. And obviously, he doesn't know me. It wasn't love at first sight. We were in the same...
    rachelenid rachelenid 18-21, F Nov 20

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12 26-30, F Dec 3

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F Nov 26

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    She takes it slowly at first but learns that this is the person for her and that she has no need to be hesitant as she will never find out unless she takes a leap of faith...
    darnit05 darnit05 31-35, F Nov 23

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    I feel like my heart says, "When is he going to ask us out?" and then my brain is arguing, "Why are you getting your hopes up? Logic says he doesn't like you back." And then my...
    ghostwolf343 ghostwolf343 13-15 1 Response a week ago

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    Almost everyday I think of him. Wanting him. Even dreaming of him. He's a YouTuber and I met him personally on an emceeing job a few months back. At first I was starstruck and...
    thehardesttruth thehardesttruth 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Being sixteen and in love is inconvenient. Add in the factors that I am gay and she is not. She is 18 and leaving school and I am not, and finally the fact that we aren't close (so...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    We all want that fairytale romance....even when we realize it doesn't exist!! There is no Prince Charming...there is no perfect man....only the one we create in our heads.
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 28

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    He had the same feelings for me… Then he moved away… It's like he doesn't even care about me anymore. As much as I'm upset, distance is helping me get over him.
    AutumnLeeWindstar AutumnLeeWindstar 16-17, F Dec 6

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    I have been in love twice in my life. Years ago there was a girl I loved. But I had to love her from afar and never told her. We never dated because religion was separating us and...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I have always been really close with this guy (lets name him S) who is my best friends brother (sucks). When I was about 8 years old my mom moved to a different country and i had...
    ilovecookiesalways ilovecookiesalways 13-15, F Nov 23

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    we work together and have for years and somewhere along the way I fell madly in love with her. We she started working with me she was just out of college and now 8 years later...
    jwt3333 jwt3333 22-25 1 Response Nov 20

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    Let me start with I have a problem. I'm only 19 and I have always been drawn to older women that have a strong personality. I went to job corps and Miss Maria was my 3rd shift...
    patriotslover21 patriotslover21 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I am in love with a girl. and i just cant stop thinking about her. i have lots of feelings for her and i am so attached to her. i dont know if i can live if i ever lose her...
    AngelLuvsBabyBlue AngelLuvsBabyBlue 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    The pain of the constant heart ache i go through because i cant me with you. Am so depressed, i cry my self to sleep every night. And during the day i cant drag my self out of bed...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yup, it's crazy. I fell for him the first time I saw him 4 years back. And since then I haven't really liked anyone! He has no idea of my existence.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F Nov 21

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    Well, I appreciated all the responses from others in the same situation. It helped a bit and there was some good advice. I wish I could say I was cured on my unrequited love, but...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 26

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    Even my heart is poking it's fingers through my rib cage to try pick that eyelash from your cheek. I want to kiss you through the small microphone in my phone. I want you to know...
    LegitimateRabbit LegitimateRabbit 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    I feel like I'm being torn apart from the inside out. I love her so much but she just got back together with her ex and I'm just done. She was the one that helped me discover who I...
    adeechloe adeechloe 13-15, F Nov 25

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    Let me begin with well I have a problem I like 2 girls at my school. And they are both friends and everyone is telling me to ask out of the the girls that I hang out with. But how...
    madison57 madison57 13-15, M Nov 26

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    My first crush was when I'm 13 years old it become stronger I was love him so much after knowing that he love my best friend I didn't tell him about my feelings and I just throw...
    alexorn alexorn 22-25 Dec 9

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    Tonight was confusing... Talked to someone I never thought I'd really talk to again. I looked a mess, I was tired cold, and just overly exhausted. I was texting as I saw him walk...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    The strange thing about this is that it's requited. It's sentimental rather than sexual and I missed the feeling of being close to someone without having a constant urge to have...
    MarimbaJake MarimbaJake 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    She was my twin's first love. That was the last thing he was talking to me about before he died, he was telling me how much he liked her. We were fifteen. She was a bit younger...
    michalb michalb 41-45, M 6 Responses Nov 20

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