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I Am In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

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    I am in love with someone who is graduating next year and I dont think he likes me back. Basically, he's popular and im the kind who's like a loser (and fat). Totally not his type. I cant stop thinking about him and I just get so happy whenever i talk to him. This...
    hopelessR93 hopelessR93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2009

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion,

    "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course." Clearly they had never really been in love before. When you love someone, you give everything to them. Your past, present, and promise of a...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    The guy I started having a crush on in third

    grade and am now in love with, started dating one of my best friends and I get that she can't help what she feels but idk that really hurt me..
    karlagarcia17 karlagarcia17 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    I'm in love with my cousin

    but I have no idea if he likes me or not I hope he does but I'm not for sure cause he has a girlfriend and I would love to take her down but that's not how it works he's 21 and I'm 12 but I have feelings for him I love him so much but he's way out of my league heard that one...
    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    I met him two years ago in my first year of

    college. Everything about him is wonderful. He's everything I've always wanted and everything I want to be. He's had a girlfriend for the past 8 years. I've already told him how I feel but I feel like it isn't enough. All I do anymore is think about him and miss him terribly. I...
    TearDowntheWall TearDowntheWall 18-21, F Apr 26, 2014

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    GOD bless all of you.

    Be in love with GOD because he is in love with you. GOD is the creator of all.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Sep 2, 2014

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    zhenry zhenry 13-15, M Nov 7, 2014

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    Last night I did a coward move

    and said "I love you" over Facebook to a guy that I'm inlove with, were not going out and I've told him I liked him and he said he likes me too and we've like each other over 6 months and I really do love him and I told him over Facebook that I love him And it said "seen" with...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    12 years i've been thinking about him everyday.

    ..12 years spent dreaming that one magic day he'll say he loved me... so him yesterday...nothing...not even a hello, how is it going... he's so self centered...why doesn't he love me?!...oh i know, 'cause i'm young, stupid, naive, and not at all impressive... i guess it's my own...
    kikilie kikilie 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    I Miss Her

    I want my CJ back. I feel so empty without her. I just wish I could undo all the **** I caused in April and things could go back to normal. I miss her hugs and kisses especially. I want to go and visit her in her office and talk as we used to. I'm still very much in love with her...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Oct 15, 2013

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    I have this really good friend

    who I think I might be in love with, but I don't ever think he will see me as more than a friend. As it is now I am "one of the boys"... And to make matters worse, we just graduated and therefore we don't see each other as often as before, so naturally I miss him, but I can't...
    jtajulie jtajulie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    Unrequited Affection

    We met over 2 years ago, and there hasn't been a day when I haven't thought about him hundreds of times. I am in LOVE with him. And I'm not that kind of person who "falls in love" with someone new every week. He's the only person I have ever felt this way about. I haven't met...
    TanBarbieGirlxox TanBarbieGirlxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    I'm not really "in love"

    but there's this guy I find kind of cute. But he's almost a senior and I'm only in eighth grade so it totally wouldn't work out. I think a crush is a better qua to put how I feel...
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    She Is Taking Me Over Again

    Today I was really depressed. I thought about HER all day. Since my best friend told me she dreamt me invading HER privacy I've been overwhelmed with a myriad of feelings again. I know I still love HER and a part of me knows I always will. Yet, I want to be able to move on. I...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Nov 13, 2013

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    It always happens to me.

    .. I guess i'm destined to be alone. I better work out to at least be a hot single or something xD
    knock2knock knock2knock 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I first encountered him

    as a crush. I have always had a crush on him. He is white I'm native so their is a big difference in our popularity scale. Of course I am not as pretty as his white girl friends (not being racist) so I know I would never have a chance with him. We are in the same grade. Last...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Mar 23, 2014

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    At Night I Pretend the Pillow Next to Me Is Her.

    I met her when I was married and she was in an mentally abusive marriage to a drug addict. She turned to me for support and we became best friends. It was a rough time in her life and I was there when she needed someone. We found ourselves falling in love with each other. When...
    dvaughn dvaughn 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    I Would Take Him Back Any day!!!!!!!!

     I would take him back any day, I would forget the past and start out fresh. I forgive him and i love him... he is the one for me!!
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I have been in love with the same girl

    for about 3 years. She just doesnt feel the same bc shes "straight." We havent really been talking for a while but i dnt know if i still feel the same or not.
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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