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I Am In Love With Someone Who Doesn't Love Me

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    I met him two years ago in my first year of

    college. Everything about him is wonderful. He's everything I've always wanted and everything I want to be. He's had a girlfriend for the past 8 years. I've already told him how I feel but I feel like it isn't enough. All I do anymore is think about him and miss him terribly. I...
    TearDowntheWall TearDowntheWall 22-25, F Apr 26, 2014

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    Someone once asked me in a group discussion,

    "Would you rather have loved and lost, or never loved at all?" The people before me had all said, "To have loved and lost of course." Clearly they had never really been in love before. When you love someone, you give everything to them. Your past, present, and promise of a...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    I have been in love with the same girl

    for about 3 years. She just doesnt feel the same bc shes "straight." We havent really been talking for a while but i dnt know if i still feel the same or not.
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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    It always happens to me.

    .. I guess i'm destined to be alone. I better work out to at least be a hot single or something xD
    knock2knock knock2knock 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    12 years i've been thinking about him everyday.

    ..12 years spent dreaming that one magic day he'll say he loved me... so him yesterday...nothing...not even a hello, how is it going... he's so self centered...why doesn't he love me?!...oh i know, 'cause i'm young, stupid, naive, and not at all impressive... i guess it's my own...
    kikilie kikilie 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    I'm not really "in love"

    but there's this guy I find kind of cute. But he's almost a senior and I'm only in eighth grade so it totally wouldn't work out. I think a crush is a better qua to put how I feel...
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I Miss Her

    I want my CJ back. I feel so empty without her. I just wish I could undo all the **** I caused in April and things could go back to normal. I miss her hugs and kisses especially. I want to go and visit her in her office and talk as we used to. I'm still very much in love with her...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Oct 15, 2013

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    A Bit Simpler Story

    I am in love with someone who is graduating next year and I dont think he likes me back. Basically, he's popular and im the kind who's like a loser (and fat). Totally not his type. I cant stop thinking about him and I just get so happy whenever i talk to him. This...
    hopelessR93 hopelessR93 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2009

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    Last night I did a coward move

    and said "I love you" over Facebook to a guy that I'm inlove with, were not going out and I've told him I liked him and he said he likes me too and we've like each other over 6 months and I really do love him and I told him over Facebook that I love him And it said "seen" with...
    hollaout hollaout 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I'm in love with my cousin

    but I have no idea if he likes me or not I hope he does but I'm not for sure cause he has a girlfriend and I would love to take her down but that's not how it works he's 21 and I'm 12 but I have feelings for him I love him so much but he's way out of my league heard that one...
    laurenbraun10 laurenbraun10 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    Unrequited Affection

    We met over 2 years ago, and there hasn't been a day when I haven't thought about him hundreds of times. I am in LOVE with him. And I'm not that kind of person who "falls in love" with someone new every week. He's the only person I have ever felt this way about. I haven't met...
    TanBarbieGirlxox TanBarbieGirlxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    At Night I Pretend the Pillow Next to Me Is Her.

    I met her when I was married and she was in an mentally abusive marriage to a drug addict. She turned to me for support and we became best friends. It was a rough time in her life and I was there when she needed someone. We found ourselves falling in love with each other. When...
    dvaughn dvaughn 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    She Is Taking Me Over Again

    Today I was really depressed. I thought about HER all day. Since my best friend told me she dreamt me invading HER privacy I've been overwhelmed with a myriad of feelings again. I know I still love HER and a part of me knows I always will. Yet, I want to be able to move on. I...
    bpdstruggles2012 bpdstruggles2012 26-30 Nov 13, 2013

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    zhenry zhenry 13-15, M Nov 7, 2014

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    I first encountered him

    as a crush. I have always had a crush on him. He is white I'm native so their is a big difference in our popularity scale. Of course I am not as pretty as his white girl friends (not being racist) so I know I would never have a chance with him. We are in the same grade. Last...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Mar 23, 2014

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    GOD bless all of you.

    Be in love with GOD because he is in love with you. GOD is the creator of all.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Sep 2, 2014

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    I Would Take Him Back Any day!!!!!!!!

     I would take him back any day, I would forget the past and start out fresh. I forgive him and i love him... he is the one for me!!
    rainbowclouds rainbowclouds 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Last night I let go of the pain,

    I stopped holding everything and stopped looking at situation blindly. I've been in love with someone for 7 years, and I finally realized they did not love me like they said they did. Love should be easy. And for me it unrequited. They knew how I felt, and with every chance used...
    dancingyogi114 dancingyogi114 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I have this really good friend

    who I think I might be in love with, but I don't ever think he will see me as more than a friend. As it is now I am "one of the boys"... And to make matters worse, we just graduated and therefore we don't see each other as often as before, so naturally I miss him, but I can't...
    jtajulie jtajulie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    The guy I started having a crush on in third

    grade and am now in love with, started dating one of my best friends and I get that she can't help what she feels but idk that really hurt me..
    karlagarcia17 karlagarcia17 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2014

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    I'm in love with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I've decided to stop making myself feeling miserable because of this by letting it go. And I'm genuinely happy for him for...
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    story of my life. I spouse I'm always in love with someone who doesn't love me.
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    I have feelings for someone who lives far away. someone who doesn't know about my feelings for him. someone who doesn't feel the same way about me. someone I can't have.
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    It's funny how time flows fast. I met him last June in a store and I fell in love with him from the first sight. I didn't know anything about him and i was too shy to talk to him...
    NayaSakura NayaSakura 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    We belong together. Everyone knows it. We click. We make sense. I miss talking to you and I have to stop myself from wanting to kiss you or hold your hand. This is so difficult...
    delicious78 delicious78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    You told me today I pushed you away and I can`t even tell you were wrong. I do, I push you away, because it hurts too much to be around you. To see you, to talk to you, it makes me...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 5

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    we're both married but that doesn't matter. I want to be with her and she feels the same way. very soon we will see each other and the time we spend together will be like a dream...
    sephiroth04 sephiroth04 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 15

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    NOOOOOOO I accidentally tapped this group but I can't unjoin it on my phone. I'm not in love with anyone. In fact I'm afraid to fall in love. But I do get easily attached when I...
    LoneDolll LoneDolll 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Real men Don't Love the Most Beautiful Girl in The World, They Love the Girl who can Make Their World the MOST Beautiful... Similarly... Real Girls Don't Love the Most Beautiful...
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M Apr 8

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    It's so painful..so much so that I can barely focus on anything else. Every stupid little thing reminds me of him. Especially good stuff, things that used to make me happy..like...
    MyMindCravesNectar MyMindCravesNectar 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I met this guy who I had an incredible connection with - we slept together for the good part of a year, until we decided to stop the physical because the relationship wasn't going...
    catonfire catonfire 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I can't describe the pain I feel seeing her so happy with someone else. I wish I could just tell her how I feel about her but there's no point, and there's no way I'd want her to...
    Milo77 Milo77 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This person does not even know my existence, yet I am falling deeply for him. The way he smiles, the way he sings, and his bubbly personality makes me feel like an ice cube that's...
    FromJennyWithLove FromJennyWithLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Is it too much to ask for someone to love you as much as you love them?? I seriously don't know anymore. I love her I really do, but God please let me forget her. Or move on from...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I owe you an explanation I can't give you in fact. Suppose I never will. I could barely explain it, even though it's actually very simple... I told you I was afraid to be around...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 3

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    I met him two years ago. He is my coworker and married with two beautiful kids. Our connection was imminent the minute we met. We connected like no other. I knew that day that I...
    freebutchained freebutchained 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Im too in love with him... Now that i have lost him... I need some distraction as i am constantly thinking about him and its hurting.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Ok him again... We finally talked after a month of forced separation by people around us. It was difficult seeing him at work but unable to talk to him. But the moment we start...
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F Apr 19

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    I'm in a relationship but I am desperately in love with somebody else.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F Apr 16

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    So this is quite a long story, read it if you dare..I'm not sure if I could say I'm in love but I have definitely had this person on my mind for the last few years..every since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 9

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    I place a lot of emphasis on intentions. If you hurt me but it was genuinely unintentional AND you express remorse, of course I wouldn't hold that against you! In fact, it'll...
    eshgheman9 eshgheman9 18-21, F Apr 8

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