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I Am In Love With Someone Who Loves Someone Else

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    I Wish He Could See

    I know I'm young, I've got a long road ahead of me, but this is my story. I am in love with my best friend, who is in love with someone else. He knows I like him. Just not how much. Today I saw a post on a website that he had done saying that he was going to have a girlfriend...
    lulu1235 lulu1235 13-15 May 16, 2010

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    Am I A Fool In Love?

    I met an amazing woman and fell head over heels....a few weeks in, she told me she was in a relationship with a married man who had been her best friend for 10 years. Initially I told her it was ok because they hadn't seen each other in years and lived in different cities. The...
    Angelaleemarino Angelaleemarino 31-35 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    He Takes Me For Granted

    So I guess i'll start from the beginning. We grew up together, i used to go over to his house when we were like 5 and play with him. I didn't really get to know him until highschool (I'm Australian so its middle-highschool for USA) because we went to different primary schools...
    rawrdani rawrdani 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2012

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    I Thought We'd Become Something

    I began talking to this guy but we both talked to someone else. Everything was cool then because there wasn't any deep feelings. Me and this guy began talking all day everyday which eventually led me to like him. It wasn't anything serious so I kept it to myself. One day he told...
    KaShayy KaShayy 18-21 1 Response Dec 16, 2012

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    TOO Fast Too Soon?

    Here's my story.  Going to try to keep it short but it's been bothering me lately and wanted to get it off my chest.  First, about a year ago a relationship I was in for almost 4 years ended due to infidelity and I was crushed.  This guy was pretty much my first...
    ALLUSIVE09 ALLUSIVE09 31-35 1 Response Feb 18, 2009

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    It's Quite Simple Really

    I've had this friend that we talk every day online and sometimes by phone.  We live about 1.5 hours away.  Either I've been in a relationship when she's been single or vice versa. Right now, she's dating an old college roommate of mine, and it's devastating to know...
    FFW1 FFW1 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    Two Lovers

    I have had a very confusing last year with an ex boyfriend who ive been with 5 times who treated me like **** . I moved on to an amazing guy who is my best friend and I fell in love with dificulty is he just sees me as his best mate even though he tells me he likes me and we had...
    catherine118 catherine118 18-21, F Oct 1, 2009

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    I'm In Love With Someone Who Is Inlove With Someone Else

    It all started about five years ago when we met... He was something different in a guy I've never seen I didn't know what to do but at the same time I had no control over It we started dating in was together for two years on and off then after that he would get into a...
    Lovebyd33 Lovebyd33 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    He Is Marrying :(

    I am inlove with someone who is about to get married two months from now. We have been dating secretly and I have been convincing myself the situation isn't right but the thing is that he doesn't want to let go of me and yeah, I don't think I'd want it either. I love him so much...
    kianelou kianelou 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    A Messed Up Life.

    My boyfriend had been about to propose to me, we already had some wedding plans set. Then he called it off, I don't even know why. Yes, it broke my heart, but I later realized he was not meant for me. Months later I started dating this other guy, a really sweet, caring guy. The...
    broken1993 broken1993 18-21 1 Response Aug 26, 2012

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    My Gay Lover Loves Another Man But Says He Loves Me-right!

    i WONDER WHY PEOPLE TELL SO MANY LIES. I FELL DEEPLY IN LOVE. I THINK IT WAS THE UNATTAINABLE THAT ATTRACTED ME. i LOVE A CHALLENGE. I HAD ONE UNTIL I GOT WISE! IT WAS THE MOST HIGH FEELING. LIKE RIDING ON A CLOUD WITHOUT THE BROOMSTICK.. IT TOOK ME MONTHS TO FALL DOWN, BUT...
    BERNICEVINSON BERNICEVINSON 22-25 1 Response Feb 20, 2011

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    He's In Love With My Best Friend In The Entire World

    My story starts when I started to like this guy. I started to like him a lot. Then it grew. And one day I realized I'm in love. The problem is is that we never talk. We are not even friends. And better yet. He's in love with my best friend in the entire world. I don't know what...
    Livelaughloveallday Livelaughloveallday 13-15 1 Response May 29, 2011

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    Madly In Love With Him... I Wish He Would Ever Understand...

    It all started this year in April when I joined a biology tution. After a few weeks he also joined the tution. After 1 or 2 classes he asked me for the notes and I gave him. And like this we became aqauaintance of each other and soon we became just friends. Then one day one of...
    cyara cyara 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    Confused and Hopelessly In Love?

    I fell in love with this man. We were introduced through one of my friends. We had so much in common and I felt this connection between us. HOwever he was in an up and down relationship. After breaking up with his girlfriend multiple times in the past 3 years he finnally left her...
    dreamer234 dreamer234 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    I Need Help Please

    So I became friend with this guy a little less than 2 years ago...it was an instant attraction. We just gravitated towards eachother. I have never felt such magnetism with another person. I soon found out that he had a girlfriend though. So I was like oh why not just hang out and...
    heyiamsorry heyiamsorry 18-21 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    548/2 =274

    i've been broken-hearted for months because of the guy who hurt my heart till the day that amazing guy came into my life ...i really like him ...but there is one problem ..he is already committed with someone else or in other words he is in a relationship ..i showed my feelings...
    miszpasaway miszpasaway 13-15 Jul 19, 2012

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    He Is The One

    Hello All, I am so glad I've found this site and found others who share my heart-felt (...or in this case, my heartbreak) delima. This is my first time sharing my experience so please forgive me if I'm doing anything wrong here. :-) My story of the man I'm so deeply in love with...
    MarkOnMyHeart MarkOnMyHeart 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2011

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    I Am In Love With Someone Who Is With A Friend Of Mine

    Please read this whole story I really need help in the delicate matter. This all started February 2012, I made a friend at my workplace. He was an interesting guy so we started hanging out and now we are friends. He is the type of guy that talks about the women he's done, his...
    JLB2291 JLB2291 22-25 Jul 22, 2013

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for close to a year and nine months, it's our senior year and by far the busiest year of our lives. I know it sounds messed up but i talked to someone else for about the last 6 months. This new guy, he's a drug dealer, he has a baby, he's a drug addict, and if you ask why I find...
    hshahkdiahbs hshahkdiahbs 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Meeting Your Soulmate

    We met each other when both of us were married with kids via work channels. Working on challenges at work closely few hundred miles away got us together and close. We talk about lots of things other than work and the attraction is strong. We met twice on workshops and though it...
    beniballer beniballer 26-30 Oct 22, 2011

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    How Much Can I Take? God Please Give Me Strength.

    I am In Love with a woman I've never met in person, but the real problem is, she's in love with someone else with whom she knows she has no real future. He's married and will never leave his family but somehow he still controls her. I thought I had helped her break away from...
    ClarkInHouston ClarkInHouston 51-55, M 13 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Passioately In Love

    I am a married woman fortynine years old, who is in love with a fortyfive year old man, who is in love with me but still love his ex girl friend.His ex don't want him but she don't want anyone else to have him.What can i do about that.
    nitty nitty 46-50 1 Response Feb 16, 2009

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    Father of My Child

    I met this guy online. He's 10 plus years older than I and I instantly felt like he was the type of person I wanted to have a long term relationship with. Just 3 months later I found out i was pregnant. We spend a lot of time together, but he also seemed to distance himself every...
    what2do09 what2do09 26-30, F Sep 28, 2009

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    I Love Him, He Loves Her..3

    So about 4 years ago i met this guy. It was chemistry the minute we met. We started going on dates and talking nonstop, we would do almost everything together. A couple months into that he told me that he had done something stupid that he regretted and that we needed to stop...
    ihateloving ihateloving 16-17, F Jan 27, 2013

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    Old Friend And My Fragile Heart...

    Well i just got out of an abusive relationship of 2 1/2 years. I was playing around on Facebook one day and I came across an old friend I hadn't seen since high school. He had gotten a divorce from his wife and seperated from his girlfriend B, that he had after the divorce, and...
    Brokenkajira Brokenkajira 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    :(

    it all started in september last year, me and this guy were txting each other i wasnt interested in a relationship nor was he, we meet up a few times for a drink, thats when i found out he had a girlfriend. i thought nothing of it but he rung me up one night and asked to go or a...
    jessicablaire jessicablaire 18-21 2 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    She Sure Does ...

    I am in love with a woman, she is the next best thing to perfect ... in fact to me she is perfect. I loved her from the minute i met her in person, she looked like a little girl from the back ... only being a short 4'9, her little bottom was wriggling as she made her way to the...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Jul 23, 2013

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    I'm In Love With Someone Who Is Inlove With Someone Else

    It all started about five years ago when we met... He was something different in a guy I've never seen I didn't know what to do but at the same time I had no control over It we started dating in was together for two years on and off then after that he would get into a...
    Lovebyd33 Lovebyd33 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2012

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    Am In Love With Someone Who Loves Someone Else

    There's this guy, he's my husband's friend, actually he's my husband's lawyer, I knew him for a very long time but we were not close, n one day I came from work an I found him in my house visiting my husband n he was with his wife, so me n his wife started to talk as woman do, n...
    aquina aquina 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    Ouch

    I've been talking to a guy for a while online, and we met recently. I really like him, really really like him, and we have so much in common, it just clicks. I think he could like me too but he's still not over his ex. I know the usual rules, get some distance, try to get over...
    witheredandfading witheredandfading 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2011

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    No

    I have a crush on a guy in my grade. he is funny cute and athletic. I like him and I think he knows it. he somehow got my email address and started to email me. I thought that maybe he liked me. because he would mess with me. try to trip me. and for one he did know my email and...
    yolo1023 yolo1023 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    You can ignore me, you can curse my name, you can say you don't love me and don't miss me, you can hate me....but through it all, I will love you and miss you everyday and every...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 31-35, M Aug 19

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    and i would like to know if anyone is going through this right now and is feeling lost and helpless because they just want to be with the ones they love?:(
    ssterling97 ssterling97 18-21 Aug 3

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    I still think about her. Not everyday but at least once a week. Last time I saw her was 8years ago. She was my best friend. I miss her.
    Daveokay Daveokay 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'm a lesbian who is married to a guy. When we first got together I was confused, then we had a baby and now I don't want to leave....But I'm in love with someone else, however she...
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    The person is amazing, and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    It's just what it is. I want to be loved by someone who cares. I'm not asking much, just for someone who really cares about me to love me.
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Looks don't last forever but to love and be loved by someone who has an amazing personality and understands you that love does.
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I believe that looks in no way define us as a person. If we fall in love with someone for their looks then what's to stop is falling in unrequited love every day with the first hot...
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    *sigh* It seems like it always happens this way. I don't think I'm in LOVE with her, per se (I don't know if I am mature enough to feel romantic love for anyone)... but I do know...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Her essence, you ask? Graceful like the smell of lust and desire. Oh god, is our fire hot! Not to mention it's uncommon fuel, which is our inability to have each other. Well, you...
    ReMaxius ReMaxius 18-21, M Aug 5

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Last night I was freaking out, thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I happen to love two men. Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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