I Am In Love With Someone Who May Not Love Me Back

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    Me and my current girlfriend have been together

    for two years. Its been up and down, a couple of breaks troughout those years. A good first relationship, but We have many sources of conflict. I met this girl, who is now one of my best friends, 5 years ago. Let's name her Alex. She had been involved with one of my guy friends...
    spartakus826 spartakus826
    22-25, M
    Aug 12, 2015

    wish he was her just had bath

    and got my pjs on and wish i could see him to chat to after my bath. wish the kettle was boiled for two. wish the music was listened to by both of us or change to watch somthing else. wanna feel his hug now.
    KentGirl29 KentGirl29
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    at least i think it's love,

    my feelings for them are so deep that it drives me nuts, I keep having thoughts about them I've never had with other people; maybe it's because I never had feelings like these for those people. I find myself thinking of us having a future, just us together and happy to express...
    carazami carazami
    16-17
    Oct 6, 2015

    I am gay and I have "feelings"

    for my best friend. but I am afraid of losing his friendship. I feel so much happier and I feel like myself when I am around him, yet I am scared of these feelings
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 6, 2015
    someoneyoumightknow00 someoneyoumightknow00
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    I Get Too Attached Easily

    i really don't know what's with me that i tend to be too attached to guys who court me.. maybe it's due to the fact that i'm living alone and that my family is far from me that's why i'm longing for love from people around me.. this is the main reason, why i tend to cry a lot...
    brokenvow brokenvow
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 28, 2011

    Tearing like paper. Memories

    so dear to me. I want to toss them, set them a flame like my anger. Is she better then me? She must be. Is she prettier than me? Oh yes, dArk hair blue eyes, your dream girl. Does she needs you as much as I do? Maybe not but that doesn't stop you. You keep running back. I'm...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    My Thoughts On Love

    They were right. Everyone. I'm so sick of all of this! I just want life to be easy again. What happened to when we were 5 and could just have a simple crush? I wish I could go back. It never works out because of some stupid ***** who always gets in the way. There's no escaping it...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2013

    Okay everyone I have ever liked no one ever

    likes me back. I always think that they like me back and I finally get the courage to tell them I have feelings for them then they say they don't like me that way. I guess I'm just getting used to being alone:(
    Flowerposter Flowerposter
    16-17, F
    Jun 17, 2015

    I loved and dated a guy knowing he would never

    love me back. Our relationship was bad ex cheated/flirted with girls online and refused to stop talking to a past love I felt alone and that I want good enough after all the bs I still have feelings for them..
    kanashimi93 kanashimi93
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Wondering

    Ive been with him for 7 months now, yet i have loved him for 4. He doesn't even want to mention it but we have been getting serious. everyone says they can tell that he loves me but i can't. I just want to know that i'm not wasting his time. That he does see a future between him...
    Carrie21 Carrie21
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2013

    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    Donnacc12 Donnacc12
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2014

    I really need some advice,

    my boyfriend used to be so romantic, close, attentive, send cute texts, he doesn't any more. he doesn't respond when i send flirty texts either. We've only been together 4 months. He's a manager and works hard, he's doing up a house too. he says he's just stressed over worked...
    danis72 danis72
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 18, 2015

    I Think I Am Single

    I recently find myself falling for someone who may not feel the same way about me.  Okay, I am 26 and I have a crush, like when I was in high school, which seems like a strange phenomenon because those butterflies haven't come for a while.  As I find myself falling...
    nicole1355 nicole1355
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 10, 2006

    How can give my heart to someone

    when when some else have it?
    oblivious423 oblivious423
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    My memory is awful when it comes to dates,

    everything sometimes seems like a blur and blends together at times, but I remember him. Always. I remember how he was always able to light up my life in some way. Make me actually feel alive and free. From the first time he asked me for my phone number, to black diamond ski...
    proudmomof3 proudmomof3
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    u always know wat to say to reel me in hold me

    as you're slave why do i let you do this t me
    teddybear420 teddybear420
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    So I recently went out with someone I've been

    crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've brought up being together she has always said it wasn't the right time or something along those lines; and so that night when little opportunities...
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    Aug 25, 2015

    I've known him a little over a decade

    and was never attracted to him until now. Not saying he's bad looking because he's, definitely, not that at all. I was never into Caucasian men, until, recently. As we progressed with reestablishing a friendship, a fondness, deeper than friends, has developed and, now, I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 15, 2015

    Even my heart is poking it's fingers through my

    rib cage to try pick that eyelash from your cheek. I want to kiss you through the small microphone in my phone. I want you to know you literally have resided in my thoughts for the past year, like a tenant who uses my mind furniture like it's their own. You're the exact height...
    LegitimateRabbit LegitimateRabbit
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    6 Years Later And I'm Still Wondering Does He Love Me.

    First of all I apologize For my bad grammar, I am trying my best :). well, i'm 17 years young and I know what your already thinking, she's 17 how could she possibly be in love for the last 6 year's, well trust me i have been hopelessly. Where do I start, I have known let's say...
    pancakemix17 pancakemix17
    16-17, F
    Aug 1, 2012

    The years have not been kind to me.

    It's been a constant battle of he loves me but he can't. Figures, not sure why I even try.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    Why does it hurt so much?

    I feel like I'm unable to function completely. I'm tired of crying. I just want to move on and carry on with life without you.
    sillyliz777 sillyliz777
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    I love him more than he deserves.

    ... he hurts me more than i deserve.....:-((
    nandita12 nandita12
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    I'm gay. she's my best friend

    and straight. I love her so much, but she will never love me the same way.
    JamesCarter20 JamesCarter20
    18-21, T
    Aug 14, 2015

    Okay love is a strong word

    but I couldn't find the "like" version of this. So, there's this guy, his name is Amin and I am just head over heals for him. I don't know if he likes me back or not and it's just driving me crazy! I really like him, I've never felt this way about anyone. And I mean that. He...
    feraligatr001 feraligatr001
    16-17, F
    Mar 26, 2014

    i love a person from last 6 years.

    ... he love me too ....... i did almost everything for him..... now he wants to leave me.... he want to do arrange marriage with his parents permission.... never think about me.... he told me that time can heal everything.... i am missing him badly... i need him.....he is going...
    nandita12 nandita12
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 7, 2014
    oblivious423 oblivious423
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    Just The Beginning

    When I first met her, I was lost, with no light in a dark world; but she showed me happiness and love when no other would. I knew immediately that I loved her, and since then those feelings have matured into a brilliant-romantic love. Even though she knows my feelings, she does...
    ninthpulse ninthpulse
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 26, 2011

    Stupid Unanswered Love

    I couldnt put my feelings on this portal, I Truly Loved a Girl.. I am very true and Pure for this Love.. unfortunately this turned to be a so far one sided affair. She considering me just a friend and I kept on waiting for proper time to express my feelings to her. Some days back...
    ambuj03 ambuj03
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2012

    He's so adorable and kind

    and i really enjoy being around him. I confessed my love to him but sadly he said he doesnt feel the same. He tells me that im clingy that i basically need to give him space. But its hard because i have dpd (dependent personality disorder). I dont know what to do. Hes the only...
    Imonlylatrice Imonlylatrice
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2015

    yup. he actually likes my best friend,

    often ignores me. he doesn't try with his education, instead he smokes weed and skates, he makes stupid irrelevant comments all the time. he says a lot of offensive things. but for some stupid reason, I've had the biggest crush on him since the first day I talked to him.
    skittlequeen skittlequeen
    18-21, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    I've been crazy about this girl

    for about two years, she's amazing, kind hearted, smart, really funny, she makes me think when we talk, and that's all before you know how beautiful she is, mostly her bright blue eyes that just are mesmerizing. Sadly I've brought up moving our friendship forward the next level...
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

    I started liking this guy even

    before I met him. Never thought I'd actually meet him. One night I made a prayer to meet him. I sincerely begged God if I could have a chance with him. Two weeks later, we met at work. He approached me, we talked, and he introduced himself. He works on a different floor than me...
    Gemini004 Gemini004
    22-25, F
    Jan 18

    I Wish He Feels The Same

    Recently, I fall in love for the first time. I never knew love could be like this.It is so wonderful yet painful at the same time when I have the knowledge he can never be mine.Yet, I stayed in love. I did not dictate myself to feel this.It happened.It occurred.Then, one day, I...
    MyZen MyZen
    36-40, F
    Sep 28, 2011

    I met this female. She was very beautiful

    and very wise. We talked for a while as friends. There became a point where We became bestfriends. We talk on the phone every day and every night. We see ravisher everyday. One day I really looked at her and seen true beauty in her. I fell in love with this girl. She has been...
    classykitty classykitty
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    zoecc11 zoecc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2014

    I Am Uncertain

    The moments we share make me smile. When i see you smile i feel ok. I want, nay i need to be with you but i don't know that you know how i feel. I cant tell you how i feel because i dont think it would be returned. I need to see you smile and be happy even if it is not with me. I...
    Icis2500 Icis2500
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    Can a boy with a girlfriend have feelings

    for another girl he hasn't talked to in a while?
    laurenCortez laurenCortez
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 10, 2014

    I am overweight and I love.

    . We'll maybe not love but extremely like a guy who is super fit and muscular. I told him I like him multiple times because I'm an idiot. He is always really nice about it and tells me that he kinda likes me, but I think he is just trying to be polite.He lives an hour away from...
    karahbear10 karahbear10
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    he cant be happy with me.

    .. u cant be happy without him.... both r not happy.... slight difference of the word "out"....... tragedy of life....
    nandita12 nandita12
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    she said she loves me

    but broke up with me but said there was a small chance to get back together so confused!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 18, 2015

    I'm sorry if u can't love me,

    the way u love before me...so i'll let u go to find her, and hope someday, u'll see... that the one true love u've been looking for, was the one who set u free.
    burnsandbruises burnsandbruises
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 25, 2014

    I feel like I'm falling in love.

    . Although I don't like to throw that word around too loosely... That's what I feel like I'm doing. But idk. I think about him all the time. I know how funny and caring and I've even seen his bad side. I just feel like I love him, but I have no clue.
    Awkwardlyoptimistic32 Awkwardlyoptimistic32
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2014

    I'm Always In Love and I H...

    I'm always in love and I hardly ever tell the person I'm in love with so probably most of them are not in love with me. That is also the reason why I don't tell them
    linda linda
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2007

    See

    The annoying part about it is the fact that you wonder and wonder and wonder if there CAN be anything when in fact you KNOW there probably won't be. Even better you pretty much go and TELL this person that you LIKE them and you get no response. Life lesson? Sure. But eh...
    anteye anteye
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2006

    Slam poetry piece: Unperturbed view of

    future's abyss. So now the lines of seemingly well constructed literature are literally eating me. If I look at all the white spaces in between the words they look like jaws indeed. The spotlight is hovering over me as if I have some magical sentence to enlighten the whole...
    LegitimateRabbit LegitimateRabbit
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    I have loved him for 3 years.

    I know he used to like me 2 years ago. I have been holding on the hope that he still does all this time. We used to talk everyday, now he's only spoken 3 words to me in over 8 weeks. Even though we see each other everyday, when we look at each other it's awkward and there's...
    EdWBedBugs EdWBedBugs
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    Its getting kinda lonely here.

    Is this how I supposed to feel after breaking up with my love one?
    MimiMonroe MimiMonroe
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015

    I have known him for 7 years.

    I love him. I. Cry because I love him. I can't sleep because I love him. I am sad because I love him. But he ignores me everyday. He hates and despises me. Like I am rubbish on the road. I snapchat him- he opens and doesn't reply. Help. I need him bak In my life before I do...
    ammmiiiiiiii ammmiiiiiiii
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    I Am An Idiot. I Wrecked It.

    (You can skip towards the end if you're too lazy to read my whole rant...) First of all, I realize I am young, and I don't want to be thought of as immature. This is the first time I have shared a story on here, so sorry if it's kind of a mess... Second of all, I am straight, I...
    shoot4themoon shoot4themoon
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2012

    So in a few days I will be meeting up with this

    girl; I decided I need to tell her how I feel and figure out if there's any chance of a relationship. To be honest, I'm terrified she will reject me, in fact I'm trying to prepare for it, but if I don't know how can I move forward, right? Yet I'm concerned that in the face of...
    qeust24 qeust24
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2014
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