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I Am In Love With Someone Who May Not Love Me Back

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    Uncertainty Again

    Some people wished to know how everything developed between my lecturer and me, so this is part two about our special connection. Yes, for me it still feels special, even when my euphoria has gone. I'll tell you why. Well, when I couldn't stand the situation anymore, I decided to...
    ready2fight ready2fight 31-35 1 Response Sep 1, 2012

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    I May Well Be, But I,d Rather ...

    I may well be, but I,d rather live with the dream,than find out it can never be.
    crystalkate crystalkate 51-55, F May 11, 2007

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    I Get Too Attached Easily

    i really don't know what's with me that i tend to be too attached to guys who court me.. maybe it's due to the fact that i'm living alone and that my family is far from me that's why i'm longing for love from people around me.. this is the main reason, why i tend to cry a lot...
    brokenvow brokenvow 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 28, 2011

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    I am 34 yo woman, and have been living with my

    fiancé for 9 years. We care about each other, and he is very supportive, of my studies and as a result of my financial situation. I am now on a job hunt. We are from different cultures, but besides some in-law tensions, we love the same things, we have great fun together, and...
    angelp79 angelp79 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Wondering

    Ive been with him for 7 months now, yet i have loved him for 4. He doesn't even want to mention it but we have been getting serious. everyone says they can tell that he loves me but i can't. I just want to know that i'm not wasting his time. That he does see a future between him...
    Carrie21 Carrie21 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Today I saw her again.

    She was sitting in at a table, it was at school, and she looked at me when I came in the room. When I was sitting at the table that was the second in the front of her I turned around. Immediately when I did that she grabbed her paper and holded it in the front of her face. I don...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M Apr 15

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    My Thoughts On Love

    They were right. Everyone. I'm so sick of all of this! I just want life to be easy again. What happened to when we were 5 and could just have a simple crush? I wish I could go back. It never works out because of some stupid ***** who always gets in the way. There's no escaping it...
    123IMissYou321 123IMissYou321 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2013

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    Just The Beginning

    When I first met her, I was lost, with no light in a dark world; but she showed me happiness and love when no other would. I knew immediately that I loved her, and since then those feelings have matured into a brilliant-romantic love. Even though she knows my feelings, she does...
    ninthpulse ninthpulse 22-25, M 3 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Okay love is a strong word

    but I couldn't find the "like" version of this. So, there's this guy, his name is Amin and I am just head over heals for him. I don't know if he likes me back or not and it's just driving me crazy! I really like him, I've never felt this way about anyone. And I mean that. He...
    feraligatr001 feraligatr001 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Stupid Unanswered Love

    I couldnt put my feelings on this portal, I Truly Loved a Girl.. I am very true and Pure for this Love.. unfortunately this turned to be a so far one sided affair. She considering me just a friend and I kept on waiting for proper time to express my feelings to her. Some days back...
    ambuj03 ambuj03 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    My oldest brother is 5 years older

    than me. He has a marine friend who has been home for a month. we've seen a lot of each other The last few weeks I don't Know what It is but I like him. we have a lot in common and I know it's possible because my aunt married my uncles best friend who is five years older. my...
    SilentHollywood SilentHollywood 16-17, F May 10

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    Can a boy with a girlfriend have feelings

    for another girl he hasn't talked to in a while?
    laurenCortez laurenCortez 16-17, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I go out with this guy

    and I really do like him but I have so much little confidence in myslef. I can't seem to think why anyone would like me? I'm fat and ugly (not a cry for attention, just how life is) and I want to talk to him all the time and always be with him but I can't đŸ˜Șxx
    sydneywitherby sydneywitherby 13-15, F Jul 27

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    I'm Always In Love and I H...

    I'm always in love and I hardly ever tell the person I'm in love with so probably most of them are not in love with me. That is also the reason why I don't tell them
    linda linda 21-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2007

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    I Feel You

    i understand what you are feeling in a way because im in love with my boyfriend and i think he maybe feels the same way well every time he is drunk he pours out his deep feelings for me but he just cant say those three simple words when he is sober its so annoying.  i feel i...
    lolo182 lolo182 19-21, F Jul 24, 2007

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    A Tough One

    OK so....I am a 32 year old man who is best friends with a gay woman. We have known each other since we were 10. We always just clicked on a very deep level. ALWAYS. She is I don't want to say "Butch" because that's not it. She is very boyish, but in an adorable way. Over the...
    illogic17 illogic17 31-35 2 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    Im In Love With My First Kiss

    The person that I am in love with that don't love me back is my ex. I met him 8 years ago and we broke up because back then I wasn't interested to go anywhere with him. I didn't care about the relationship but after a couple months something triggered me into talking to him. In...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    So there's this guy. He's on my track team.

    Well, on the guys team anyway, but the jr high track practices and does meets together. Well I really like him, he's adorable, he's funny, he's nice, but he likes someone else I'm sure. I don't know who it is specifically, but I get really jealous when he's talking to other...
    turtlegeek turtlegeek 13-15, F Apr 24

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    Does He Love Me?

    ok. so i was trick-or-treating with my 17 year old cousin. and when we were walkin up to this house 1 of my best friends (that i kinda like) was there passing out candy ...and he threw some at me so i like pushed him over.and like tok a handfull of the candy.then i started to...
    NathanIsMyLove NathanIsMyLove 13-15, F Oct 30, 2011

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    Damn, a lot of us married people here!

    Lucky didn't have live visits or centre for us ep married people let us vent and talk to others :)
    Quietoldman Quietoldman 46-50, M May 28

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    For any further info on this look at my other

    posts, and for those who already know this is just an update! I'm in love with my step brother...here are the details of whats recently happened: step has been looking at me, like full on STARING for a few days (me looking back at him too obviousllly!!) And paying a lot of...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I often have multiple crushes at once,

    and thus chose to not get romantically close to anyone during those times as it would end in pain either way. However, a few weeks back, a friend told me to think hard about it, imagine doing relationship-type things with each and every one of the crushes. I did such, and it...
    neongoggles neongoggles 18-21, T Mar 16

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    I Don't Know If I Would Ca...

    I don't know if I would call it love, but I still have very strong feelings for someone who that thought he had feelings for me too and then all of the sudden he changed his mind after several months with no excuse other than he was confused about what he wanted.  I told him...
    kimmy kimmy 36-40, F 3 Responses May 10, 2007

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    I really like a girl at school.

    She is so beautiful, and I dont think she's straight (im bisexual), but let me tell you why I think she might like me back. She is FOREVER touching me. Like everytime i walk past her, she brushes my arm, touches my hand, etc. When i stand next to her, she literally sticks her...
    strongwarrior strongwarrior 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    I Wish He Feels The Same

    Recently, I fall in love for the first time. I never knew love could be like this.It is so wonderful yet painful at the same time when I have the knowledge he can never be mine.Yet, I stayed in love. I did not dictate myself to feel this.It happened.It occurred.Then, one day, I...
    MyZen MyZen 36-40, F Sep 28, 2011

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    I Think I May Be Falling In Lo...

    I think I may be falling in love with my boyfriend and he would run a mile if he knew!
    Bluemoo Bluemoo 21-25, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    Some times She changes

    and act strange like if she is telling me don't talk. I didn't tell her that i love her yet, she told me that she doesn't believe in love and such things and also some stories about guys who tried with her and it didn't work so i don't want to be counted with them, i prefer not...
    tenardo tenardo 18-21, M 1 Response May 19

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    I waited two years for this guy to finally

    brake up with his girlfriend, and then he finally did, I thought right away we would just leap into each others and fall in love, but no. He still calls we occasionally meet up but nothing, he says he loves me and that reels me in to believe that he actually does, but what sucks...
    murpherrs murpherrs 16-17, F Jul 27

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    Alone At Night

    He moved out to a small apartment after living together for 10 years. He said he dosen't love me anymore. He left two children as well. Yet we see him everyday, he leaves every night. I had no say in matter he had to go. I love him and love him dearly. He crushed me broke my...
    ihavevalue ihavevalue 41-45, F Oct 17, 2013

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    One way traffic in love is like water flowing

    uphill! Reciprocation is fundamental for true love
    ceegeeess ceegeeess 61-65 1 Response Apr 12

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    2 days later - I saw her standing outside

    when I had to go inside the building. I could choose between 2 doors and I walked to the door were she was. When I was close to her we looked at each other and she giggle a bit too. After that I walked inside and felt stupid for not saying anything. I still don't get what she...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    What reason could she have to try to pay no

    attention to me after we didn't saw each other for 2 weeks. She tries to but I sometimes see her looking at me and when she sees that I'm going to look she immediately turns her head. Is the way she acts a way to try to let me know she doesn't love me or a way to find out if I...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M May 10

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    My First Love As A Late Blooming Wallflower.

    I had had a few odd dates and two short relationships that fizzled, because I had thought of them as friends, but when they asked me out I decided to give it a try.  I had naively thought that by being a couple the feelings would come, they didn't, and it hurt the friendships...
    BlueSheep BlueSheep 22-25 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    Please Tell Me What To Do Help Me Out

    I am very confused if he knows it or not.....!There's a guy who sent me friend request on Facebook a year ago.His picture wasn't that good but I accepted. We started talking a lot. He seemed okay and was interested in me. My mother knew him but didn't know he was my friend. I was...
    AmeliaMoseby2 AmeliaMoseby2 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2011

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    I Am In Love ...

    With this guy who I can't shake off my system. We met in May 2012 it was a spark and magical... he contacted me to ask me out on a date... it was beautiful.... we met for a nice dinner and we connected right away... i felt it was a spiritual connection.... just kept telling...
    MyLife7777 MyLife7777 31-35 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    This is basically the one of the most sad

    experiences in my life.At my school,boys didn't like me for my personality and looks (they prefer the popular queen bees there,the pretty and talented ones),I was fine with it (except their bullying) cause I was a tomboy (but not a lesbian).I fell in love with a smart boy but he...
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 16-17, F 3 Responses May 19

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    This all started in my first semester of

    college. I met these group of friends who are very fun to hangout with. There was this shy & quiet guy among then who i thought was cute. I wasn't really attracted to him in anyway at that time and we wouldn't really talk much. We go the same direction going home. One day while...
    missconfused24 missconfused24 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'm not sure if its love.

    .. All I know is that I care about him deeply... I've known him for three years we grew really close.. We ended up dating.. But then he broke up with me.. He told me he still loved me an that it wasn't the right time.. Bullshit. The thing is we have so much in common & we are...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    No, But the Revers...

    No, but the reverse is true, and in the past when I loved someone and they didn't love me back, I thought I was the only one in pain. Now being the person who is LOVED and not having the same feelings I see that, that too is no picnic. It is hard to talk to him when he talks...
    AlwaysRemembers AlwaysRemembers 41-45, F 1 Response May 11, 2007

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    -Sigh-

    We met online almost 4 years ago, we've been on and off, but we've never really called it a relationship but we both know we're meant to be together, so he says.. And I was never really into him until he wasn't into me, it feels like a game of cat and mouse. He says he has the...
    chantelliefay chantelliefay 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    At the moment I'm trying to sleep

    but I can only think of her. I won't see her for 1 more week and I'm already getting frustrated from the first one. I can't get her out of my mind. I'm asking if someone maybe could give me an idea how I could not think of her for 1 week or at least less then I think of her now...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M Apr 24

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    Fed Up!

    So i dont think it,i know it,as it was said in so many words.so im done with falling for guys on ep.done!!i have had my heart broken twice before,but this time was the worst.i cant breath sometimes,at the thought that its over.so im done.if you cant see that im a nice person who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    I'm not in love with this person,

    they're more of a drug to me but recently I has snapped out of it. See you can too :-)
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F Mar 24

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    I Am An Idiot. I Wrecked It.

    (You can skip towards the end if you're too lazy to read my whole rant...) First of all, I realize I am young, and I don't want to be thought of as immature. This is the first time I have shared a story on here, so sorry if it's kind of a mess... Second of all, I am straight, I...
    shoot4themoon shoot4themoon 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2012

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    I Think I Love Him, But He'll Never Know.

    I think I may be in love with someone I dated about six years ago. How pathetic is that? As vomit-inducing as it sounds, I still remember his smell and I still miss the way he held me. Just a few months ago, I called him up and he asked me to hang out. He said he'd pick me up...
    EroLoli EroLoli 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2011

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    See

    The annoying part about it is the fact that you wonder and wonder and wonder if there CAN be anything when in fact you KNOW there probably won't be. Even better you pretty much go and TELL this person that you LIKE them and you get no response. Life lesson? Sure. But eh...
    anteye anteye 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2006

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    I Don't Put All of My Eggs...

    I don't put all of my eggs in one basket anymore.  It's too risky to put yourself out there for a person who may never reciprocate.  What's even worse than doing that is holding back and having a person reach out to you.  When you finally open up and can trust that...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F May 10, 2007

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    6 Years Later And I'm Still Wondering Does He Love Me.

    First of all I apologize For my bad grammar, I am trying my best :). well, i'm 17 years young and I know what your already thinking, she's 17 how could she possibly be in love for the last 6 year's, well trust me i have been hopelessly. Where do I start, I have known let's say...
    pancakemix17 pancakemix17 16-17, F Aug 1, 2012

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    I Think I Am Single

    I recently find myself falling for someone who may not feel the same way about me.  Okay, I am 26 and I have a crush, like when I was in high school, which seems like a strange phenomenon because those butterflies haven't come for a while.  As I find myself falling...
    nicole1355 nicole1355 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2006

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    I can't describe my feeling about her I can

    only think of it and think of it. This feeling is so frustrating and yet so calming. When you show someone what you feel and she is only pushing and pulling you, yet she doesn't show any hate, it will still let you doubt about her feelings. Does she hate or like me? Some words...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Seeing you move on and live your life without

    me, shattered every fibre of my being. 3 months ago, my heart was left devastated and torn... you broke me. I loved you with my whole heart, the kind of love that was uncompromising. Even now, it still hurts to know that you'll never know the extent of my love for you.A couple...
    trying2forgetyou trying2forgetyou 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I love her so much that it hurts.

    I can't get her out of my head no matter how hard I try, and I try very hard. I honestly thought she was the one I was going to marry. She used to think that too and now she won't even look at me. She's perfect and she hates me? How do I forget her because at this point, I'm...
    ejhoover ejhoover 18-21, M 1 Response May 19

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    He is someone I never thought would be

    as special to me as he is now. We met at the beginning of the school year, and during discussions after school, we found out that we have a lot in common. We're two halves of the same whole. We could complete each other, were we given the chance. Or, it seemed that way. At...
    evanescent19 evanescent19 18-21, F Jun 9

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