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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    I want to hate him. He comes

    and goes from my life constantly. It's been about 5 years. Can't he just let me go and let me live my life? I don't go to him and try and talk to him, he always comes to me but I don't have the heart to ignore people especially him. I can't change my past with him but it's like...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 21

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    Im currently dating a really nice guy named drew

    but I am still in love with my ex Andy and i have no idea why. I just wish i could let him go. I ******* hate myself for still loving him
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    Need Help

    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I still love her, probably always will. But I'm not "in love" with her. When it ended she said and did things to me that can never be undone. It makes me very sad, but I know we...
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    I have been in a relationship with a man for 6 years and met a man on EP and developed strong feelings for him. After a few months I tried to reconcile with my original boyfriend...
    greeneyedgodess88 greeneyedgodess88 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I'm wondering about this tonight. Am I really still in love with the man I loved so intensely for 2 years? When we were together, I was completely in love with him. Real life...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    Yes! It's not the body that matters...it's the person! As you age, the body changes but not the person. Especially if they have a good heart.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I've actually been made fun of with jokes of my past boyfriends by my friends. Because most if them were really not attractive physically. I didn't care though. They were sweet but...
    AzureTiger AzureTiger 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I mean, naturally appearance does play a part initially, but I personally don't really get a crush until I actually know the person (and like) and their personality
    Profclouseau Profclouseau 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Even though I nice physical appearance does help your chances. XD But in all honesty, the actual person is what makes a person want to be with another.
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Personality matters the most
    karaforever96 karaforever96 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I've had a couple of times where I didn't care much for the persons looks but after I got to know then I ended up crushing on them :p
    nessa8a nessa8a 22-25, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    He was my enemy and now my crush :)
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I really like somebody recently but they are not perfect but thats what makes them so perfect. she seems really caring but I dont know if she will lile me because am about 1-2...
    ForeverAmity ForeverAmity 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Advice? Help? Tips? So I've been in love with my former teacher for almost a year now. I know it sounds really ridiculous, and believe me, before I met him I thought teacher...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    And I have lol I'm going to be honest my bf is not the hottest but he's pretty hot but he's hot a great personality and that's why I love him I could really care less about his...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    It so hard to not to think about tht certain person u love but yet, I shouldn't fall in love with tht person! Ugh it's just so hard to not think about, every night I cry myself to...
    Chipmunk1023 Chipmunk1023 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I suppose it all started the night of hallowe'en when i was walking back from a party, drunk, having already purchsed my kebab, and wanting to devour it in peace. My memories are...
    lologreeno lologreeno 16-17, F 23 mins ago

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    About three years ago I met someone who changed my life. She was funny,smart and the most wonderful person to be around. We talked through the summer and started getting close. I...
    GingerInTheForest GingerInTheForest 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I’ve been with the same person for thirty years. I knew very early on that we were a mismatch, but twenty-six years ago, when I told him that we should go our separate ways, he...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 15 Responses Oct 14

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    When we first met it just seems like we're a long lost friend with endless topic to talk. I never thought we would be friend for long as his life is completely opposite to mine...
    nunuii nunuii 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I am madly in love with my teacher that is in his early 40's. He would tell us a little bit about his life, his sisters, and about his childhood. I met him back in 11th grade when...
    blackbunny97 blackbunny97 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    My best friend and I had a fight because I dated this guy without telling him. He never admitted his feelings but all he said was "I waited for you", months have passed and now he...
    MaryJay712 MaryJay712 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I have posted about this many a time before; truthfully I don't even know which category to post this in. Perhaps to get the most feedback I will just post it in more than 1. Is...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Well...I'm love with him since the first time I saw him. I'm not gonna lie. I might be in for some trouble. He's my teacher, we have an insane age difference. I'm 25, he's 54. He...
    Sybilla89 Sybilla89 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 14

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    we are both artists and very good at what we do, with similar styles. we grow closer every day, he knows I'm in love with him. He has to know. We belong together. We are...
    magicalabundance magicalabundance 31-35, F 15 hrs ago

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    Ok so I'm not in love with one of mine...her name is Mrs Lucas and she's basically a HORRIBLE COW! there, said it. Ha! Ha!
    EllieT01 EllieT01 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    This is a somewhat lengthy story, but a very true and loving story. This started when we were both kids, over 40 years ago. I am just over 50 and she will be 50 next year. We...
    honoluludave honoluludave 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I am in love with someone. I can't tell anyone because it's a close friend of mine. He got married over a game and I know it's stupid but it hurts me when they talk. I tried...
    sickinlove57 sickinlove57 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    I fell for his avatar. Is it possible to be attracted to one's EP profile picture? I adore how he changes the eye color of his avatar. Can you fall in love with a faceless person...
    flowertattoo4u flowertattoo4u 51-55, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've only ever fallen so madly in love with someone that I can't stop thinking about him and that person is my first cousin. I miss him so deeply. I might crack and just run away...
    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yael) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I definitely am! I'll give you more details on who he is later but you can probably read my activity and figure out for yourselves too. In the beginning, I thought it was just the...
    oreocupcake23 oreocupcake23 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I am in love with someone and I have been for a long time but I don't know if they even like me as a friend anymore because they rarely talk to me or see me now but I used to be...
    Jamesheller Jamesheller 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 25

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    I love a dead person? It's bizarre, and frankly, terrifying. Shouldn't I be like all those normal people who love the living? I don't. Why???
    CathyEarnshaw CathyEarnshaw 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 27

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    It doesn't matter that I was 18 when I met you. It doesn't matter that you're only a few years older than me. It doesn't matter that I am hopelessly in love with you. But, do you...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    Maybe, I’ll stop loving him tomorrow, But for today, I’ll fall in love with him… I was only four when I met him. He was eight. He (Yale) and his little sister (Eva) were my...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F Sep 29

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    I was 14 years old when I fell in love with a guy I never met. I remember the exact date I met him, 26th January 2009 sometime after 6pm. It was back in the days of MSN. We met on...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 2