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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    I want to hate him. He comes

    and goes from my life constantly. It's been about 5 years. Can't he just let me go and let me live my life? I don't go to him and try and talk to him, he always comes to me but I don't have the heart to ignore people especially him. I can't change my past with him but it's like...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 21

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    Im currently dating a really nice guy named drew

    but I am still in love with my ex Andy and i have no idea why. I just wish i could let him go. I ******* hate myself for still loving him
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18

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