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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    Need Help

    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    I want to hate him. He comes

    and goes from my life constantly. It's been about 5 years. Can't he just let me go and let me live my life? I don't go to him and try and talk to him, he always comes to me but I don't have the heart to ignore people especially him. I can't change my past with him but it's like...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Apr 21

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Im currently dating a really nice guy named drew

    but I am still in love with my ex Andy and i have no idea why. I just wish i could let him go. I ******* hate myself for still loving him
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F 1 Response May 17

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    i don't care about looks its the personality that gets me. i love someone who can make me laugh and take care of me when im sick and be there for every moment. i don't care about...
    Morganater97 Morganater97 16-17, F Nov 13

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    Well nothing is more attractive then a woman with a good head on her shoulders. If she can make me laugh its a major turn on. If she isnt shallow n easy to talk to turn on. I...
    Time4kush Time4kush 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    I do find it interesting how primarily we humans seek out the things we like the look of. Including people/potential partners. Whether it be at work, in the pub or anywhere we go...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 14

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    So I like this guy in 7th grade and everyone always wonders why because they say that he's fat/chubby and he's no where near handsome. But honestly, he's the kindest person I know...
    odeybelle odeybelle 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    Told a member this. She said what about huge. Me said personality gets examined. If truthful and precious then kisses flow. And if me no reach. Then toys tickle the...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 14

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    Lust is body. Love is soul.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 13

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    The character is the first thing I notice I don't want to fall inlove with someone with a bad character thts just a turn off for me
    Anabe1995 Anabe1995 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 14

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    My wife won my heart, I locked my self outside of my apartment, I had no choice but to spend the night at hers. ;) honestly? First time I ever spent the night with a woman and not...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    I get the most crushes on the guys that arent that high in the look department. and my friends are all like what do you see in him and im just siigh if only you talked to him you...
    jajolly12 jajolly12 13-15, F Nov 13

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    That's why I'm pansexual....
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 14

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    I think that you fall in love with different songs at different points in your life. As you change and grow, some songs stay with you and some don't. Some songs are nostalgic and...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have read a lot of articles and blogs online about women who are in love with their abusers, but its often chocked up to Stockholm Syndrome. Meaning, their boyfriends and...
    elleboogie elleboogie 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is something that my friends just cannot understand. I'm not saying that there is a right or wrong way to be. We are all different. Some people can be happy with just about...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 16

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    He is married and we were best friends and I truly deeply love him. I was admiring him in the shades, secretly in my heart but never allowed my heart to wish for anything until he...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I have a girl best friend were gunna call her k (she's not the one I'm in love with) we'll we were best friends for like 3 years over all and I knew my guy best friend since 4th...
    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Nov 13

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    If you haven't read my previous post I'm not sure anyone would understand.... Just continuing from my previous posts, it's been exactly 1 year and 9 months since I've seen him in...
    fuckedupstories fuckedupstories 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    Hi all, I'm new :-). I hope you can help me. I have fallen in love with someone who has a girlfriend. I know that this is wrong but there is nothing I can do about my feelings...
    whoami8555 whoami8555 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F Nov 11

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    Marriage There are two kinds of things in life, basically: logical, and emotional. Emotionally driven things tend to turn out badly, for me anyway. I’ve been in love 7 or more...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    (excuse my typing, im on a psvita.) well, he's sort of real. He's a Vocaloid. He has a voice, and he has live concerts. but he's still not human. He has no personality, so its been...
    Roadroller Roadroller 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Eyes are so powerful. Once I know a person I can look in their eyes and tell just how they feel. Isn't it weird how all our emotions and all out feelings go to our eyes? Facial...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F Nov 11

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    My name is Afraa, and I would like to write about the climax of my life… falling in love with my teacher. This particular teacher had a great impact on my life. In fact, I fell...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I believe that a bad personality makes you ugly despite physical appearance. Also I believe falling in love with them for who they are no matter what race gender or whatever...
    Keegal Keegal 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 3

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    i'm a female student and a christian. i have fallen in love with a girl. at first, i just consider her as a friend. someone to talk to. then i started to feel things. every time we...
    BLUEstuff BLUEstuff 16-17 1 Response Nov 16

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    I just read a post about a woman who was constantly falling in love with married men... She analysed the situation she was in and realised why this was happening to her. Now I...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 17

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    I think I’m in love with my best friend and we are both female and straight. I have never felt this way about another girl, she makes me feel safe, and beautiful and loved. It...
    ast2014 ast2014 22-25 6 days ago

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    Hey, My name's **** (Account name is an Alias for obvious reasons) and I fell in love with my cousin when I was 15... or around 15 years old. Anyway, I'll start from the...
    TobyMccoy1996 TobyMccoy1996 18-21, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    There's this girl who always ask me for advice,, so maybe I could get other feedback on this!! She has a boyfriend and the person she was dealing with (a girl) has a girlfriend...
    kbberry kbberry 26-30, F Nov 1

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    I'm in love with the sweetest and most attractive person in the entire world, and i've believed that since the day we first spoke. We met online as you do, and he was so perfect...
    boyfriendpls boyfriendpls 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 2

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    As this all started my aunt and my 3 cousins were living with me, my dad, and my sister. Now ever since a young age I have been in love with my cousin, keep in mind that at the...
    jasonator28 jasonator28 13-15, M 4 Responses Nov 3

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    So today was bad. really bad. I recently lost my half sister which is quite painful. After my lesson today, I went to eat where eberyone from music school eats, studies, drinks...
    CitylessDesires CitylessDesires 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    ..if loving him is wrong then i don't want to be right...i'm still in love with the same man i can't have...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I met a man online and fell in love with him quickly without knowing how he looked. He showed me a photo of a man an pretended it was him because he was afraid I would stop loving...
    Jim666Moriarty Jim666Moriarty 16-17, T Nov 8

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    About a year ago, I met the most beautiful, amazing woman...and fell in love with her. I only saw her and spoke with her for a few hours...but thought of her afterward, constantly...
    midagehippie midagehippie 56-60 Nov 9

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    I met this guy more than a year ago. He is a photographer. I was a cosplayer at that event. When we met, he asked to take my picture and I said 'yes'. Little did I know that I'm...
    feistcc12 feistcc12 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I have fallen in love with a man so out of my norm. I usually go for the hot military/cop kinda guys, but as I get older i just don't care. I have met a beautiful/handsome man...
    NCgrlmissinMAguy NCgrlmissinMAguy 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    If I only wanted to look at something, I'd buy a painting. But falling in love with someone's personality is not even a choice, it's a requirement. Love doesn't come from looks, it...
    Uncertain153 Uncertain153 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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