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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    I want to hate him. He comes

    and goes from my life constantly. It's been about 5 years. Can't he just let me go and let me live my life? I don't go to him and try and talk to him, he always comes to me but I don't have the heart to ignore people especially him. I can't change my past with him but it's like...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    It's been almost a year now.

    I started last year at my birthday. We were really drunk and we hugged and I actually never thought about him that way. And a few weeks later, I started to like him more and more but he never saw me I guess. And then he had his finals and I took some initiave to talk to him on...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 18-21, F Feb 1

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    From 17 to 23, I was never alone

    for long, a 'serial monogamist' of sorts. When I and my most current ex broke up in 2013, I decided that it was time for me to work on myself. I did. I stayed single for a whole year, getting my life on track and learning to be happy with myself. I was determined to let go of...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Jan 29

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18, 2014

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