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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    From 17 to 23, I was never alone

    for long, a 'serial monogamist' of sorts. When I and my most current ex broke up in 2013, I decided that it was time for me to work on myself. I did. I stayed single for a whole year, getting my life on track and learning to be happy with myself. I was determined to let go of...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I want to hate him. He comes

    and goes from my life constantly. It's been about 5 years. Can't he just let me go and let me live my life? I don't go to him and try and talk to him, he always comes to me but I don't have the heart to ignore people especially him. I can't change my past with him but it's like...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21, 2014

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    Need Help

    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 18, 2014

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    It's been almost a year now.

    I started last year at my birthday. We were really drunk and we hugged and I actually never thought about him that way. And a few weeks later, I started to like him more and more but he never saw me I guess. And then he had his finals and I took some initiave to talk to him on...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 18-21, F Feb 1

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    5 Months ago, my first son was stillborn at 34 weeks. it was and still is very devastating for me. . i miss my son dearly. i had to bury him along with all of my hopes and dreams...
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    I have decided, after really thinking it through and weighing the pros and cons, to divorce my husband of 9 years. I am not happy and I just can't imagine living this way for the...
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    I am inlove with a MM. But unlike alot of you, I went into this with my eyes wide open. As in, he told me from day one, his not looking to break his family or hurt his wife. He...
    tklovesjh tklovesjh 31-35, F Apr 26

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    I'm the kind of person who has a crush on anybody. Yes, I kept saying "I have a crush on him and him and also him and the other one and the other". Although I was kidding. Lol to...
    SaccharineRose SaccharineRose 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I'm in love with a fictional character for over 3 years now... I'm in some serious trouble because the feeling just doesn't wear off. I never really questioned my love to a non...
    LeahJules LeahJules 16-17, F 1 Response May 7

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    I just posted this around a few places but for some reason didn't think to post it as a story until now. This post is a follow up to my first post, EP Link If you are interested I...
    seb300 seb300 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Idk but how the way he texts me it makes me fall in love with him deeper and deeper ahm help me guys xD
    PrettyMe205 PrettyMe205 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    lately I have been sharing my experience with this guy i met online. and in those experiences I shared the love I have for him. I was nervous to how I feel about him because I'm...
    NotHisGirl NotHisGirl 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 27

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    So i wanted to share my experience with you guys in order to help you in case you are confused about what to do about this feeling. I'm 18 years old and completely, fully, madly in...
    AlexaER AlexaER 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Looks change, a person's personality can change somewhat. Even what they like to do and don't like to do, even their favorite things and hated things haha but what I rather fall in...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    "Been there, done that." How did it work? Failed. Yet, it wasn't love. It was, as one could imagine, attraction to their looks. Never doing that again. It was a huge waste of my...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15

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    Hi I am totally new at expressing myself or posting , but I really need advice , I am a straight woman and having crush on lesbian friend , and to worse the situation she just told...
    lostsoul29 lostsoul29 26-30, F 19 hrs ago

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    You guys will not be hearing anything from me anytime soon. I cannot put up with my teacher's complexity any longer. You know, there is a good kind of mysterious, and a bad kind. I...
    XOAfraaXO XOAfraaXO 18-21, F 4 Responses May 5

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    True Story: There was this guy name Josh I went to school with, he was really quite, nobody liked him, everybody picked on him or bullied him. He was the nerd, the geek, the...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8

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    I'm in love with my ex n I know I can't have him anymore that hurts I feel useless because I couldn't help him I wish that he would come and there could be a us again but I...
    angie314 angie314 13-15, F 1 Response May 15

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    I recently met and fell in love with someone other than my wife. She and I are both in decent but wholly unfulfiling marriages of 10+ years. We both have two young children...
    kydadof2 kydadof2 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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    Just reminiscing here... I loved how his black raven hair always shined with intensity. Not too thin, not too thick, just enough to get a good grasp in my hands. I've never had a...
    XOAfraaXO XOAfraaXO 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    I met Amy when I reported for duty in Albany Ga at the Marine base. She in my opinion was the All American Girl.. Blonde hair Blue eyes about 5'7" weighed about 110 lbs dripping...
    ChessiSometimes72 ChessiSometimes72 51-55, M 4 Responses May 11

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    I don't fall in love easily. I don't connect with people easily. My anxiety prevents it. I've moved from job to job and never missed the people in them. I have an amazing fiance...
    glassbox27 glassbox27 26-30, F 2 Responses May 13

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    A few weeks ago, i met the most amazing girl... i've been seeing her around at school for a while, but never really bothered to talk to her. Then, one night, by total chance, we...
    BMWMP0WER BMWMP0WER 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Kyle and I had known each other since we were little kids, we were neighbours but never really got along. He would call and sing for me but I rejected him every time, I didn't like...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I am in love with my English teacher in high school for 2 yrs.. I adore her. We like the same music, we have the same thinking about many things.. We have the same look on world...
    onelittlehumanbeing onelittlehumanbeing 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Love absolutely sucks. This will probably be my last post for awhile. I've completely given up on us. Just when things were starting to look up. So many people on here and even in...
    thatkid1195 thatkid1195 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Fell in love with someone online, didn't asked for it, wasn't looking for it, even when we started talking she asked me if i was talking to others girls and i told her no, because...
    viperguy96 viperguy96 18-21, M 2 Responses May 7

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    I went to the store to buy new hiking boots today. I was wearing the clothes I slept in, but I did brush my teeth. I picked one off the wall and went looking for the sales person...
    justmeandmydreams justmeandmydreams 26-30, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I'm a 14 years old teenager and I guess I'm madly in love with this particular person, who's also a teenager girl like me.We've known each other for a pretty long time, about 7...
    Pain24 Pain24 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    most people are negative about this...but I have a big heart, and after he told me that he loved me, i was shocked! But, we started talking more (he didn't even guilt me) and i...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F Apr 25

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    Hey guys?? so I'm in love with my teacher.. let's just call him TA!(: he's my math teacher.. well not technically.. he's A math teacher but not mine. I met him in the summer before...
    SoDamagedxx SoDamagedxx 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I am now 18 years old and already working.I have this feeling to my friend.We've known each other for three years now and I think I am totally in love with him.He's not my...
    gwapamanqoe gwapamanqoe 18-21, F Apr 28

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    So this one boy really likes me and he's really nice, but we have nothing in common. On the other hand, i'm in love with someone who sees me as a friend only, and probably will...
    maryinthesky maryinthesky 16-17, F May 2

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    I am honestly experiencing a heart break.I have never been in love before, I've never been in a relationship before either. I don't even want to be in love with her, I don't want...
    Someonequiet17 Someonequiet17 18-21, F 1 Response May 3