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I Am In Love With the Wrong Person

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    Hello, everybody! I did submit a post already, so sorry if I am repeating myself, but I'm new to the forum and very tired. At the end of May I met someone during a work-related event - we had fun and sex (which probably shouldn't have happened, but I was very vulnerable back...
    frizzycat frizzycat 26-30 Oct 25, 2008

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    I am at such a loss..

    confused. I'm writing this in the early hours of the morning because I can't get to sleep. I met someone who I thought was very handsome and charming and though I wasn't so interested at first, I gave us a chance to be friends because well...we just clicked. After a few months of...
    Passionateintrovert Passionateintrovert 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I were friends

    before we started dating, and ever since he moved away we've struggled to keep our long-distance relationship going. The problem is, whenever we go out, somehow my best friend ends up third-wheeling and taking my precious time with him from me because she clearly likes him. She...
    Taylorscolors Taylorscolors 16-17 14 hrs ago

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    What Should I Do Now....

    I been dating My boyfriend for 9 1/2 years, I am 23 and he is 29... after the 1st yr we broke up it was his choice.. We broke up for 2yrs and those two yrs he didn't care at all he would go out with all types of girls sleep with them ect.. living a single life. I always...
    azzihdz azzihdz 22-25 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    When Ever We Have Problems In Our Relationship I Always Think Its My Mistake Even When I Know It Was His Mistake

    i have been in love with this person for 6 years now. He loves me too.    He has one good quality of turning any argument against me. I do what ever he says.  sometimes i do things to just make him happy but he takes it all in a negative sense. Like when he is any...
    leahparker leahparker 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Why Doesn't He Miss Me?

    So my marriage wasnt the greatest all the time but we had some good times. I loved him and still do with all my heart. I know he is enjoying the fact that he no longer has a wife looking over his shoulder nor his child crying at night because she doesnt feel good. What I dont...
    amethysthm amethysthm 36-40 Jan 7, 2013

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    Gay

    I'm in love with a girl that thinks we're just good friends, we met two years ago at a party and i couldnt stop thinking about her so i found a way to get in touch with her and we became kind of close, i think at first she liked me too or she was just being nice, it got to a...
    Zaleek Zaleek 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    If you could love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you would love the right person.
    QueenAwesomePants QueenAwesomePants 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm not in love with this person, they're more of a drug to me but recently I has snapped out of it. See you can too :-)
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    I'm going to start this off by saying: i don't think he's in love with me. He has a girlfriend. But this experience group was probably the closest to what experience I'm having...
    Epaestimated Epaestimated 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 5 Responses Apr 7

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    I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. That's the same as wasting energy on something that's never going to work out. However, people in this society choose being with...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Sometimes loving the wrong person can teach you how to appreciate the right person when they come along.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Yeah... talk about a waste of time or low self esteem after the break up with the wrong person... for me being single has taught me more about who I am and what I want in life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21

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    If I am alone, I don't have to worry about others, if I am with a person that isn't for me, I have to worry about when I won't have to worry about that person again
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    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Well, anyone willing to voice their opinion, and read a pretty long post like this one, is truly welcome to! So, here goes nothing... Since I was knee-high to a grasshopper (about...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 5 Responses Apr 8

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