I Am In Love With Two Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 175 People

    He's Gone...

    I've been in love with the same person for years. This love has grown stronger everyday if that's even possible. We have fought, not talked and been best friends throughout this time. It's hard for me to see as a friend. I have a boyfriend to get over the fact however it's not...
    mwajordan mwajordan
    18-21, F
    Nov 1, 2012

    Loving My Boyfriend; In Love With My Best Friend

    I was sixteen then, twenty-four now. On a school bus to a soccer tournament, backwards in the seat, Green Day blaring through my head phones when I saw him. Little did I know I was looking at the next nine years of my life. We never got together but we were always...
    twobestfriends twobestfriends
    6 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    So Close, And Yet So Far...

    I spent two years wishing he would love me as though I was the most special person in the world. I loved him so much and yet I hated him for making me feel like I wasn't good enough. We had been through something that would keep us connected forever and I was foolish enough to...
    jennaporter jennaporter
    41-45, F
    Feb 20, 2011

    A Triangle In Europe

    It seems to me that all I have been capable off lately is being sad, in at least three different ways. I was in a long distance relationship with Anthony for 7 years. He worked in Denmark and I studied a long way away, in Croatia. Things were never perfect for me, as I was never...
    Rumina Rumina
    31-35, F
    Apr 28, 2012

    He's The One

    Yes I love two guys.. One of them is never on and seems like he ignores my messages even tho I know he loves me. This is Jake(made up name) The other one PD(initials) is ALWAYS there for me. I went thru a rough place in u life during the summer and he helped me out of it while...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

    I love my boyfriend To death.

    ..and I've known the other guy longer than my Man. I don't know what to do...I've messed up. I don't want this to end up like a similar situation I've been in before...
    bribri590 bribri590
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    Entanglement of Past and Present

    i realized that i could no longer remain with my boyfriend of nearly three years as his addictions and abusive behavior took their toll upon the relationship.  leaving him was the most difficult and heart-wrenching decision i have ever made.  however, i realized that...
    candlelyte candlelyte
    1 Response Mar 15, 2009

    I love my boyfriend with all my heart,

    but I've developed a crush on one of our friends (who already has a girlfriend). I would never cheat on him, but the romantic and, sometimes, sexual thoughts make me feel horrible. Especially since my boyfriend is very sensitive. I have no clue on what to do.
    frostpop frostpop
    18-21, F
    Apr 13, 2014

    One of them is my husband

    who I have been with for 14 turbulent years & I have 2 beautiful daughters with. The other is a man I met at a job I had 17 years ago. We dated for a while back then but it was not meant to be anything more than an on/off relationship as he needed to grow up a bit. He & I lost...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    I am in love with two men

    and it's not fair to either of them....obviously. The first man is my boyfriend of almost two years. He graduated college with two degrees and has started his career. We are good together. There is a 6 year age difference. Although not huge, it still can be difficult at times...
    clichechick clichechick
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2014

    I have been with the same man

    for eleven months . And I really care about him . He's a great guy . But for the past few months we've been fighting . We'd break up in the morning .. Make up at midday and by midnight we're separated again . We've hurt each other so much . But we've always managed to put...
    prettypink72 prettypink72
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

    Loving 2 Men And Been Loved By 2 Men

    Im 20 years old and until last year I never thought I would ever find love. The funny part is i found love in not just one man but two. I fell in love with Zak one of my best friends even though he was younger. I never told Zak how i felt until he had already figured it out on...
    c3poxl7 c3poxl7
    Sep 22, 2012

    They Are So Different.

    The man I am with is my son's father.  He is stable,kind and sweet and tries so hard to make me happy.  He is a good father, although sometimes he does lose his patience.   Of course, we have our problems.  He has a temper and sometimes we fight alot...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2010

    Well here I am four years

    after I first came on this site looking for a milker now completely confused. You have all given me advice about the man who took my breath away and said ditch him. I tried, Not hard enough i guess. But at the point wehn i was about to run off in to the sunset with hi my hysband...
    bigjugs4u2milk bigjugs4u2milk
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    So, today I woke up with two men on my mind.

    ..I know that sounds horrible but it's the truth and you know the saying...the truth will set you free. It's funny because five years ago, I would be judging someone who said they loved two men and as a matter of fact, I've been on the other side of a triangle. Interestingly...
    Ki55Love Ki55Love
    1 Response Jan 25, 2014

    So Difficult to Let Go

    My boyfriend of three years and I have had a rough time.  When we were on a break/break-up I dated someone else who is a great guy and I started to fall in love, now that I am back with my boyfriend I can't seem to let go of the new guy.  My boyfriend is wonderful...
    Harper321 Harper321
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2009

    And I Can'T Have Either....

    The first, my roommate, has been my best friend since I started college. We always tell each other, "I love you" and we have really good communication. The second is my ex. We met online and hung out in RL, but he is a marine and he had to move. He said that he might be allowed...
    Wynn42 Wynn42
    22-25, F
    Apr 1, 2013

    Where do I start? I am a gay man,

    I have known I was gay since 3rd grade. Growing up was tough and is a story for a later time. I met my first long term partner when I was 22, we spent 13 years together. It was not the best and I never had that feeling that made me confident it would last forever. I was an...
    taletotell taletotell
    41-45, M
    Apr 13, 2016

    Dont Tell My True Love I Just Lost My True Love...

    I am 23 years young. I have had the pleasure of experiencing the pain of love since a very early age, about 13 years young. But never anything as confusing as this. The man that I believe to be my soul mate...... instantaneous connection, great intellectual conversations...
    Kichou Kichou
    22-25, F
    Apr 22, 2012

    My boyfriend, I love him.

    And he knows everything that's going on between me and this other guy. I've known "this other guy" and have liked him since middle school. So that says something. He moved away a few years ago, but not too far, only about half an hour away. I have always loved him, and I don't...
    qwernia qwernia
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    3 Years Later.

    I'm 17 years old, and I'm in love with two different men. One of them is my ex boyfriend, whom I dated from the time I was 13 until 15. We broke up under good terms, only because we both were having a lot of family problems and neither of us had the time. We've just...
    LexiCullen LexiCullen
    1 Response Aug 4, 2009

    Im So Confused

    i have been with my boyfriend for alomst 2 months and i have been thinking about my ex boyfriend and i talk to him and we both miss eachother and i dont want to leave my boyfriend for someone that crushed my heart but something about him i just love and i want to be with him to...
    huhconfused huhconfused
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2009

    Crystal Ball

    I wish I had a crystal ball to tell me what to do.  Honestly, I believe in the one above and not much down here, which is all the more concerning to me of how I ended up in this place, in love with two men. I wish God would tell me, wish I could trust my own heart, but...
    deerest deerest
    36-40, F
    Nov 4, 2009

    My Lost Soul Mate

      I met my soulmate when I was 14.  He was my best friend and we had a connection that I've never had with anyone else.  We never "dated" but loved eachother deeply and discussed how we knew we would be together in the future. I got pregnant by my...
    greeneyesnmste greeneyesnmste
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

    John & Johnny

    I have been with John for 16 months... he is everything in the world to me, he treats me well, he's patient with me, he turns me on... I love him near to unconditionally. I don't want to be without him. I met Johnny a few months ago... at first I didn't even notice him. It...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2011

    Dont No What To Do

    i was with some one for 8 years ,,,,i got up one morning and went to my sisters with my stuf  ,,,,, i love him very much but he never told me he loved me ,,, i fould that so hard ,,,,we are still seeing each other but im in my home and he is in his ,,,,,,,then later on down the...
    sunset72 sunset72
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2011

    Ten Years Gone!

    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, which is how long (I thought) it took me till be able to say I don't love my ex anymore. But really I had just pushed those feelings for him so deep I thought they had gone. Until he (my ex) found me on Facebook. Since then we have...
    PurpleUmbrella PurpleUmbrella
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jun 18, 2009


    I've known him for 8, and been with him for 6. I remember the first day we met, I was in my pajamas. He had a thing for girls in pajamas I suppose because he asked for my number that day. I remember looking at him that day, and not only did I thought he was crazy for asking for...
    jhezsika jhezsika
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2011

    No Regrets

    I was very intrigued by the first lady's story about being in love with two men, which lead me to write this response. Do you believe in God? if so then you already know what you should do. No, it's not easy, and YES, I know that doing the right thing all the time is very hard...
    no2bsenceable no2bsenceable
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 16, 2012

    My Two Men.

    I have been with my husband for eleven years.  We have built a life together and are a stable couple.  We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage.  My husband owns his own business, so he spends a lot of hours working. I love him and my...
    projectme projectme
    14 Responses Jun 8, 2008

    In Love...with Two Men.

    I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 2 and a half years. He is serious about me and has also asked me to marry him. Everything was going picture-perfect..until ...he got a job offer 500km away from the city. This meant we would be having a "long-distance...
    alette alette
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2012

    I Love Two Men..

    I have been married for 3 years happily. A couple months ago I became very close with my best friend and ended up falling in love with him. My best friend and I have been open and honest with my best friend and my husband, not hurting either. However, recently my best friend and...
    traumaRN traumaRN
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 7, 2008

    Well...yeah...here's the deal: I've been in a

    relationship with my bf for about a little over a year now. We hit it off immediately but as time passed I felt like the flame died down, it's still there but not as intensely as first. Another problem is that in our class we are the only couple so everyone is always going on...
    Rehvan Rehvan
    22-25, F
    Apr 25, 2014

    In Love With Two...help!

    I never thought anything like this would happen to me.  I have always been against cheating, and I still am (hypocrite I know). I first met my husband when we were in high school.  We were both top students and were always playfully comepetive when it came to...
    Koohii Koohii
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 2, 2009

    It's Time

    I love them so much.. I actually love 3 guys but still the main ones are Jake,and PD(made up names)the other one is Joshy. But I'm focusing on Jake and PD.. They are older than me and I they have handled all my ****.. They deserve better than me.. That's why I need to let them...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    I fell in love with my friend's brother

    while staying with her for work related reasons. I had a boyfriend of off and on ten years, but I had lost my feelings for him when I suddenly had all I was wanting. Affection, passion, but still being able to hang out and just enjoy each others company. My boyfriend and I were...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 22, 2014

    My Heart Is Torn In Two, I Feel Like A Horrible Person &Amp; I'M Broken. What Do I Do?

    Let me start by trying to explain something, I do not condone cheating, I never have. I have been cheated on (that I've know of) 8 times by different partners and I never EVER wanted to be responsible for putting another human being through that type horrid pain and emotion. But...
    MissElevenEleven MissElevenEleven
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

    Love With More Than One Man.... But Can't Have The One I Really Want...

    I've always loved Paul from the moment I met him, I knew he was the only one that would ever make me happy. We have a crazy love affair for almost 15 years on and off. Neither of us can completely let each other go, but somehow we manage to live our lives with another. Right now...
    kittycatforyou123 kittycatforyou123
    4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

    I Don't Know What To Do!

    I love two guys.  I have been dating my current boyfriend seriously for several months now and I really do love him, and we have a lot in common.  We could probably have a nice life together.  The problem is Im completely in love with my ex, and he told me recently...
    dReaMeR531 dReaMeR531
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

    My Story With Two Perfect Men

      7 years ago I met a guy. Let´s say Mr. perfect. We were incredibly matching in everything and we fell in love in no time. I met him 8 or 9 months after i´d got divorced “a horrible marriage that couldn´t last for more than a year”. So I felt...
    ElDestino ElDestino
    4 Responses Aug 25, 2009


    I fell in love with someone when I was young who I later ended up marrying. After 12 years of marriage we divorced. It has been about 12 years since the divorce. Although we weren't together anymore we still loved each other very much. We just couldn't live together. I remarried...
    gatorgirl013 gatorgirl013
    41-45, F
    Jan 16, 2013

    Obviously In Need Of Some Perspective...

    I am in an emotional mess, and I can't find my way out. Please understand that I know all this is my fault, and I know my behavior is wrong and inexcusable. I have dug myself into this hole, and need some perspective to find my way out with the least amount of carnage. I met...
    loveisadogfromhell loveisadogfromhell
    1 Response Aug 12, 2012
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