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I Am In Love With Two Men

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    Timing.

    I've known him for 8, and been with him for 6. I remember the first day we met, I was in my pajamas. He had a thing for girls in pajamas I suppose because he asked for my number that day. I remember looking at him that day, and not only did I thought he was crazy for asking for...
    jhezsika jhezsika 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    The Dangerous Choice

    I have been in love with two men for the past ten years. One, my husband, is a great guy whom I love very much. I would never want to hurt him. The other, is my best friend and my soul mate. I can talk to him about anything, we are physically and emotionally compatible. I know it...
    amberbria amberbria 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    Truly Torn Between Two Great Men.

    I have been with my current boyfriend for over 13 years and love him very much, but I am also in love a boyfriend from the past that who hurt me and had to leave, but only recently make contact again with him and still love him. Both have made me grew and at times wanted to kill...
    MilitaryVet MilitaryVet 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 25, 2012

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    I Love Two Men..

    I have been married for 3 years happily. A couple months ago I became very close with my best friend and ended up falling in love with him. My best friend and I have been open and honest with my best friend and my husband, not hurting either. However, recently my best friend and...
    traumaRN traumaRN 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2008

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    They Are So Different.

    The man I am with is my son's father.  He is stable,kind and sweet and tries so hard to make me happy.  He is a good father, although sometimes he does lose his patience.   Of course, we have our problems.  He has a temper and sometimes we fight alot...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    I have been with the same man

    for eleven months . And I really care about him . He's a great guy . But for the past few months we've been fighting . We'd break up in the morning .. Make up at midday and by midnight we're separated again . We've hurt each other so much . But we've always managed to put...
    prettypink72 prettypink72 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Obviously In Need Of Some Perspective...

    I am in an emotional mess, and I can't find my way out. Please understand that I know all this is my fault, and I know my behavior is wrong and inexcusable. I have dug myself into this hole, and need some perspective to find my way out with the least amount of carnage. I met...
    loveisadogfromhell loveisadogfromhell 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    So Difficult to Let Go

    My boyfriend of three years and I have had a rough time.  When we were on a break/break-up I dated someone else who is a great guy and I started to fall in love, now that I am back with my boyfriend I can't seem to let go of the new guy.  My boyfriend is wonderful...
    Harper321 Harper321 46-50, F Sep 20, 2009

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    One of them is my husband

    who I have been with for 14 turbulent years & I have 2 beautiful daughters with. The other is a man I met at a job I had 17 years ago. We dated for a while back then but it was not meant to be anything more than an on/off relationship as he needed to grow up a bit. He & I lost...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Well here I am four years

    after I first came on this site looking for a milker now completely confused. You have all given me advice about the man who took my breath away and said ditch him. I tried, Not hard enough i guess. But at the point wehn i was about to run off in to the sunset with hi my hysband...
    bigjugs4u2milk bigjugs4u2milk 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Closure

    I fell in love with someone when I was young who I later ended up marrying. After 12 years of marriage we divorced. It has been about 12 years since the divorce. Although we weren't together anymore we still loved each other very much. We just couldn't live together. I remarried...
    gatorgirl013 gatorgirl013 36-40, F Jan 16, 2013

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    My Heart Is Torn In Two, I Feel Like A Horrible Person &Amp; I'M Broken. What Do I Do?

    Let me start by trying to explain something, I do not condone cheating, I never have. I have been cheated on (that I've know of) 8 times by different partners and I never EVER wanted to be responsible for putting another human being through that type horrid pain and emotion. But...
    MissElevenEleven MissElevenEleven 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    My Lost Soul Mate

      I met my soulmate when I was 14.  He was my best friend and we had a connection that I've never had with anyone else.  We never "dated" but loved eachother deeply and discussed how we knew we would be together in the future. I got pregnant by my...
    greeneyesnmste greeneyesnmste 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    Love With More Than One Man.... But Can't Have The One I Really Want...

    I've always loved Paul from the moment I met him, I knew he was the only one that would ever make me happy. We have a crazy love affair for almost 15 years on and off. Neither of us can completely let each other go, but somehow we manage to live our lives with another. Right now...
    kittycatforyou123 kittycatforyou123 41-45 4 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    Double Trouble

    Love is complicated, especially when there's two guys in one girls life.I, myself, am experiencing this complication. I've been best friends with my friend Mekhial for quite some time now, and although he's 16 and has a girlfriend, I can't help but feel very attracted to him...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    A Triangle In Europe

    It seems to me that all I have been capable off lately is being sad, in at least three different ways. I was in a long distance relationship with Anthony for 7 years. He worked in Denmark and I studied a long way away, in Croatia. Things were never perfect for me, as I was never...
    Rumina Rumina 31-35, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Entanglement of Past and Present

    i realized that i could no longer remain with my boyfriend of nearly three years as his addictions and abusive behavior took their toll upon the relationship.  leaving him was the most difficult and heart-wrenching decision i have ever made.  however, i realized that...
    candlelyte candlelyte 18-21 1 Response Mar 15, 2009

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    My Story With Two Perfect Men

      7 years ago I met a guy. Let´s say Mr. perfect. We were incredibly matching in everything and we fell in love in no time. I met him 8 or 9 months after i´d got divorced “a horrible marriage that couldn´t last for more than a year”. So I felt...
    ElDestino ElDestino 31-35 4 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    He's Gone...

    I've been in love with the same person for years. This love has grown stronger everyday if that's even possible. We have fought, not talked and been best friends throughout this time. It's hard for me to see as a friend. I have a boyfriend to get over the fact however it's not...
    mwajordan mwajordan 16-17, F Nov 1, 2012

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    They're both technically exes of mine.

    The one tries so hard to make me happy, and would give/do anything for me. The other treats me like crap most of the time, but not always. He's the one I've been hung up on for so long. The other night he reminded me how no matter what, we can't stay away from each other. As I...
    AngelusTenebris AngelusTenebris 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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    Ten Years Gone!

    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, which is how long (I thought) it took me till be able to say I don't love my ex anymore. But really I had just pushed those feelings for him so deep I thought they had gone. Until he (my ex) found me on Facebook. Since then we have...
    PurpleUmbrella PurpleUmbrella 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    And I Can'T Have Either....

    The first, my roommate, has been my best friend since I started college. We always tell each other, "I love you" and we have really good communication. The second is my ex. We met online and hung out in RL, but he is a marine and he had to move. He said that he might be allowed...
    Wynn42 Wynn42 22-25, F Apr 1, 2013

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    I love my boyfriend with all my heart,

    but I've developed a crush on one of our friends (who already has a girlfriend). I would never cheat on him, but the romantic and, sometimes, sexual thoughts make me feel horrible. Especially since my boyfriend is very sensitive. I have no clue on what to do.
    frostpop frostpop 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    Im So Confused

    i have been with my boyfriend for alomst 2 months and i have been thinking about my ex boyfriend and i talk to him and we both miss eachother and i dont want to leave my boyfriend for someone that crushed my heart but something about him i just love and i want to be with him to...
    huhconfused huhconfused 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    John & Johnny

    I have been with John for 16 months... he is everything in the world to me, he treats me well, he's patient with me, he turns me on... I love him near to unconditionally. I don't want to be without him. I met Johnny a few months ago... at first I didn't even notice him. It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Dont No What To Do

    i was with some one for 8 years ,,,,i got up one morning and went to my sisters with my stuf  ,,,,, i love him very much but he never told me he loved me ,,, i fould that so hard ,,,,we are still seeing each other but im in my home and he is in his ,,,,,,,then later on down the...
    sunset72 sunset72 36-40, F 2 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Loving My Boyfriend; In Love With My Best Friend

    I was sixteen then, twenty-four now. On a school bus to a soccer tournament, backwards in the seat, Green Day blaring through my head phones when I saw him. Little did I know I was looking at the next nine years of my life. We never got together but we were always...
    twobestfriends twobestfriends 22-25 5 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do!

    I love two guys.  I have been dating my current boyfriend seriously for several months now and I really do love him, and we have a lot in common.  We could probably have a nice life together.  The problem is Im completely in love with my ex, and he told me recently...
    dReaMeR531 dReaMeR531 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Crystal Ball

    I wish I had a crystal ball to tell me what to do.  Honestly, I believe in the one above and not much down here, which is all the more concerning to me of how I ended up in this place, in love with two men. I wish God would tell me, wish I could trust my own heart, but...
    deerest deerest 36-40, F Nov 4, 2009

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    It's Time

    I love them so much.. I actually love 3 guys but still the main ones are Jake,and PD(made up names)the other one is Joshy. But I'm focusing on Jake and PD.. They are older than me and I they have handled all my ****.. They deserve better than me.. That's why I need to let them...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    He's The One

    Yes I love two guys.. One of them is never on and seems like he ignores my messages even tho I know he loves me. This is Jake(made up name) The other one PD(initials) is ALWAYS there for me. I went thru a rough place in u life during the summer and he helped me out of it while...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    No Regrets

    I was very intrigued by the first lady's story about being in love with two men, which lead me to write this response. Do you believe in God? if so then you already know what you should do. No, it's not easy, and YES, I know that doing the right thing all the time is very hard...
    no2bsenceable no2bsenceable 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2012

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    Dont Tell My True Love I Just Lost My True Love...

    I am 23 years young. I have had the pleasure of experiencing the pain of love since a very early age, about 13 years young. But never anything as confusing as this. The man that I believe to be my soul mate...... instantaneous connection, great intellectual conversations...
    Kichou Kichou 22-25, F Apr 22, 2012

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    So, today I woke up with two men on my mind.

    ..I know that sounds horrible but it's the truth and you know the saying...the truth will set you free. It's funny because five years ago, I would be judging someone who said they loved two men and as a matter of fact, I've been on the other side of a triangle. Interestingly...
    Ki55Love Ki55Love 31-35 1 Response Jan 25

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    My Two Men.

    I have been with my husband for eleven years.  We have built a life together and are a stable couple.  We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage.  My husband owns his own business, so he spends a lot of hours working. I love him and my...
    projectme projectme 31-35 14 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    3 Years Later.

    I'm 17 years old, and I'm in love with two different men. One of them is my ex boyfriend, whom I dated from the time I was 13 until 15. We broke up under good terms, only because we both were having a lot of family problems and neither of us had the time. We've just...
    LexiCullen LexiCullen 16-17 1 Response Aug 4, 2009

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    I fell in love with my friend's brother

    while staying with her for work related reasons. I had a boyfriend of off and on ten years, but I had lost my feelings for him when I suddenly had all I was wanting. Affection, passion, but still being able to hang out and just enjoy each others company. My boyfriend and I were...
    EmberCrown EmberCrown 36-40, F Apr 22

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    I am in love with two men

    and it's not fair to either of them....obviously. The first man is my boyfriend of almost two years. He graduated college with two degrees and has started his career. We are good together. There is a 6 year age difference. Although not huge, it still can be difficult at times...
    clichechick clichechick 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    So Close, And Yet So Far...

    I spent two years wishing he would love me as though I was the most special person in the world. I loved him so much and yet I hated him for making me feel like I wasn't good enough. We had been through something that would keep us connected forever and I was foolish enough to...
    jennaporter jennaporter 31-35, F Feb 20, 2011

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    I really care about my boyfriend,

    but then there is this other guy. This other guy and I spent a lot of quality time together last night at the fair, and now I am falling head over heels for him. But he is also in a relationship. I still love my boyfriend, but I also really really like this other guy who happens...
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F May 25

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    Loving 2 Men And Been Loved By 2 Men

    Im 20 years old and until last year I never thought I would ever find love. The funny part is i found love in not just one man but two. I fell in love with Zak one of my best friends even though he was younger. I never told Zak how i felt until he had already figured it out on...
    c3poxl7 c3poxl7 18-21 Sep 22, 2012

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    Well...yeah...here's the deal: I've been in a

    relationship with my bf for about a little over a year now. We hit it off immediately but as time passed I felt like the flame died down, it's still there but not as intensely as first. Another problem is that in our class we are the only couple so everyone is always going on...
    Rehvan Rehvan 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    So Difficult to Let Go

    My boyfriend of three years and I have had a rough time.  When we were on a break/break-up I dated someone else who is a great guy and I started to fall in love, now that I am back with my boyfriend I can't seem to let go of the new guy.  My boyfriend is wonderful...
    Harper321 Harper321 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    In Love...with Two Men.

    I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 2 and a half years. He is serious about me and has also asked me to marry him. Everything was going picture-perfect..until ...he got a job offer 500km away from the city. This meant we would be having a "long-distance...
    alette alette 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    In Love With Two...help!

    I never thought anything like this would happen to me.  I have always been against cheating, and I still am (hypocrite I know). I first met my husband when we were in high school.  We were both top students and were always playfully comepetive when it came to...
    Koohii Koohii 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    When I was nine I met my now boyfriend. He was in my class and I decided I liked him. I never stopped. Through the years and the grades and *shudders* puberty, he became best...
    Lochnessie Lochnessie 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    YOu better choose number two. You would not have fallen in love with number two if you really loved number one....
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    Why does this have to be so hard
    USFvaulter20 USFvaulter20 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Why do I feel like this? Months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We had a strainful and failing relationship, a lot of it from the getgo. I was in shambles and in hell. I cried...
    ImmortalxApathy ImmortalxApathy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I am a social anxious, extremely shy guy... I met a girl on a mental illness forum (First girl I ever talked to)... She is 5 years older than me... we talked (through private...
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    It was an accident, really. Nobody plans to fall in love with their physics teacher. I met my second year physics teacher (we'll call him Mr. K) last year, before he taught me...
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    He knows I am in love with him, but he is very standoffish because he only has a year or so left. He won't talk to me about anything more than skin deep now, only light hearted...
    terribletaytor terribletaytor 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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