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I Am In Love With Two Men

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    He's Gone... - I've been in love with the same person for years. This love has grown stronger everyday if that's even possible. We have fought, not talked and been best friends...
    mwajordan mwajordan 16-17, F Nov 1, 2012

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    In Love...with Two Men. - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last 2 and a half years. He is serious about me and has also asked me to marry him. Everything was going...
    alette alette 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    My Heart Is Torn In Two, I Feel Like A Horrible Person &Amp; I'M Broken. What Do I Do? - Let me start by trying to explain something, I do not condone cheating, I never have. I...
    MissElevenEleven MissElevenEleven 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    Timing. - I've known him for 8, and been with him for 6. I remember the first day we met, I was in my pajamas. He had a thing for girls in pajamas I suppose because he asked for my...
    jhezsika jhezsika 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    One of them is my husband who I have been with for 14 turbulent years & I have 2 beautiful daughters with. The other is a man I met at a job I had 17 years ago. We dated for a...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    A Triangle In Europe - It seems to me that all I have been capable off lately is being sad, in at least three different ways. I was in a long distance relationship with Anthony for...
    Rumina Rumina 31-35, F Apr 28, 2012

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    Love With More Than One Man.... But Can't Have The One I Really Want... - I've always loved Paul from the moment I met him, I knew he was the only one that would ever make me happy...
    kittycatforyou123 kittycatforyou123 41-45 2 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    In Love With Two...help! - I never thought anything like this would happen to me.  I have always been against cheating, and I still am (hypocrite I know). I first met my...
    Koohii Koohii 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2009

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    Entanglement of Past and Present - i realized that i could no longer remain with my boyfriend of nearly three years as his addictions and abusive behavior took their toll upon the...
    candlelyte candlelyte 18-21 1 Response Mar 15, 2009

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    My Lost Soul Mate -   I met my soulmate when I was 14.  He was my best friend and we had a connection that I've never had with anyone else.  We never "dated...
    greeneyesnmste greeneyesnmste 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    Loving My Boyfriend; In Love With My Best Friend - I was sixteen then, twenty-four now. On a school bus to a soccer tournament, backwards in the seat, Green Day blaring through my...
    twobestfriends twobestfriends 22-25 4 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Crystal Ball - I wish I had a crystal ball to tell me what to do.  Honestly, I believe in the one above and not much down here, which is all the more concerning to me of how I...
    deerest deerest 36-40, F Nov 4, 2009

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    I love my boyfriend with all my heart, but I've developed a crush on one of our friends (who already has a girlfriend). I would never cheat on him, but the romantic and, sometimes...
    frostpop frostpop 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He's The One - Yes I love two guys.. One of them is never on and seems like he ignores my messages even tho I know he loves me. This is Jake(made up name) The other one PD(initials...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    Dont Tell My True Love I Just Lost My True Love... - I am 23 years young. I have had the pleasure of experiencing the pain of love since a very early age, about 13 years young...
    Kichou Kichou 22-25, F Apr 22, 2012

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    So Close, And Yet So Far... - I spent two years wishing he would love me as though I was the most special person in the world. I loved him so much and yet I hated him for making...
    jennaporter jennaporter 31-35, F Feb 20, 2011

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    It's Time - I love them so much.. I actually love 3 guys but still the main ones are Jake,and PD(made up names)the other one is Joshy. But I'm focusing on Jake and PD.. They are...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    Obviously In Need Of Some Perspective... - I am in an emotional mess, and I can't find my way out. Please understand that I know all this is my fault, and I know my behavior is...
    loveisadogfromhell loveisadogfromhell 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Loving 2 Men And Been Loved By 2 Men - Im 20 years old and until last year I never thought I would ever find love. The funny part is i found love in not just one man but two. I...
    c3poxl7 c3poxl7 18-21 Sep 22, 2012

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    Double Trouble - Love is complicated, especially when there's two guys in one girls life.I, myself, am experiencing this complication. I've been best friends with my friend Mekhial...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2011

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    So Difficult to Let Go - My boyfriend of three years and I have had a rough time.  When we were on a break/break-up I dated someone else who is a great guy and I started...
    Harper321 Harper321 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Im So Confused - i have been with my boyfriend for alomst 2 months and i have been thinking about my ex boyfriend and i talk to him and we both miss eachother and i dont want to...
    huhconfused huhconfused 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    3 Years Later. - I'm 17 years old, and I'm in love with two different men. One of them is my ex boyfriend, whom I dated from the time I was 13 until 15. We broke up under...
    LexiCullen LexiCullen 16-17 1 Response Aug 4, 2009

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    No Regrets - I was very intrigued by the first lady's story about being in love with two men, which lead me to write this response. Do you believe in God? if so then you already...
    no2bsenceable no2bsenceable 36-40, F 1 Response May 16, 2012

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    So Difficult to Let Go - My boyfriend of three years and I have had a rough time.  When we were on a break/break-up I dated someone else who is a great guy and I started...
    Harper321 Harper321 46-50, F Sep 20, 2009

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    My Story With Two Perfect Men -   7 years ago I met a guy. Let´s say Mr. perfect. We were incredibly matching in everything and we fell in love in no time. I met him 8...
    ElDestino ElDestino 31-35 4 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    So, today I woke up with two men on my mind...I know that sounds horrible but it's the truth and you know the saying...the truth will set you free. It's funny because five years...
    Ki55Love Ki55Love 31-35 1 Response Jan 25

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    My Two Men. - I have been with my husband for eleven years.  We have built a life together and are a stable couple.  We have one child together and I have two from a...
    projectme projectme 31-35 14 Responses Jun 8, 2008

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    I am in love with two men and it's not fair to either of them....obviously. The first man is my boyfriend of almost two years. He graduated college with two degrees and has started...
    clichechick clichechick 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    And I Can'T Have Either.... - The first, my roommate, has been my best friend since I started college. We always tell each other, "I love you" and we have really good communication...
    Wynn42 Wynn42 22-25, F Apr 1, 2013

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    I Love Two Men.. - I have been married for 3 years happily. A couple months ago I became very close with my best friend and ended up falling in love with him. My best friend and I...
    traumaRN traumaRN 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2008

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    Ten Years Gone! - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, which is how long (I thought) it took me till be able to say I don't love my ex anymore. But really I had just pushed...
    PurpleUmbrella PurpleUmbrella 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Dont No What To Do - i was with some one for 8 years ,,,,i got up one morning and went to my sisters with my stuf  ,,,,, i love him very much but he never told me he loved me...
    sunset72 sunset72 36-40, F 2 Responses May 16, 2011

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    They Are So Different. - The man I am with is my son's father.  He is stable,kind and sweet and tries so hard to make me happy.  He is a good father, although sometimes...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    John & Johnny - I have been with John for 16 months... he is everything in the world to me, he treats me well, he's patient with me, he turns me on... I love him near to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    I Don't Know What To Do! - I love two guys.  I have been dating my current boyfriend seriously for several months now and I really do love him, and we have a lot in common...
    dReaMeR531 dReaMeR531 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    I have been with the same man for eleven months . And I really care about him . He's a great guy . But for the past few months we've been fighting . We'd break up in the morning...
    prettypink72 prettypink72 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    Closure - I fell in love with someone when I was young who I later ended up marrying. After 12 years of marriage we divorced. It has been about 12 years since the divorce. Although...
    gatorgirl013 gatorgirl013 36-40, F Jan 16, 2013

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
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    I am frustrated that I have to write this. I feel that if I do not get these words down on something that they will burst out at the wrong time. I am thankful for the anonymity...
    ShootTheButterfly ShootTheButterfly 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    So guys what I will post today won't be about my man . I will just tell you guys about my religion since you guys are my friends :) Please no Hates . I respect all religions...
    InLove000 InLove000 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    On the posts from before, about my love, I expressed my own self hatred. Some were confused as to why or how I can hate myself. I wrote this story to help explain to my friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    The sky was milky gray and the ocean was fierce. The light dappled through the clouds. He stood in a circle of four other friends, skateboard underfoot and as aloof as the azure...
    streck32 streck32 26-30, F Apr 5

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Hey, everyone. Today finds me in quite a quandary, in that I don't know if honesty really is the best policy. As you could have probably guessed by the fact that this is entitled...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ambiguous time: Two and a half this world hours later and I'm still near speechless and unsure how to even begin to find the words. An overly long post here. My apologies in...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been married for 5 years, together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Hi, Im a married man 41 year old, Im happily married and Im in deep love with my wife. But recently I discovered that I enjoy her relationship with other men. I even want to see...
    rimpi1972 rimpi1972 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 8

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    I am really struggling with my mental health recently. I've been clinically since I was 15 and take venlafaxine 250 for this. It can seem, at times, that I'm fine, I feel Fine...
    keyedup keyedup 26-30, F Mar 23

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    I think I should have reconsidered my actions before I did what I did. For those that don't know, on March 5 of this year, I posted my Experience on the topic "I Am In Love With A...
    lonelyteen96 lonelyteen96 16-17, M 4 Responses Mar 25

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    Unlike most of the stories here on the same subject, absolutely nothing ever happened between me and my best friend: we never dated—nor did anyone ever even suggest it or say we...
    luehdnoea luehdnoea 18-21, M 6 days ago