I Am In Love With Two People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 206 People

    Do you believe you can genuinely love two

    people simultaneously? I don't know what to do. I have been married for a little over a year with an absolutely amazing man who I adore. Last summer we went to visit his family in another country who I've never met before and met his cousin. We hit it off almost immediately and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    In The Middle

    i never thought i could be in love with two people. but i am. and it hurts. and is so confusing. i don't want to hurt either of them. but i don't want to lie to either of them. so i'm choosing neither of them. and that hurts, too. 
    outerblonde outerblonde
    18-21, F
    4 Responses May 3, 2010

    Mutual But Forbidden

    I am in love with both my husband and my ex-boyfriend. My ex is married and has kids, but has admitted that he still loves me too. Neither of us want to screw up the lives we have now, but we both fantasize about getting back together someday. I can't stand thinking that I might...
    trinityblossom trinityblossom
    36-40
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2008

    I Think of Him Everyday

    I am currently in love with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We had a child together 6 months ago. We are very different people, but from our first date I felt that he was "the one".  The problem is that I can't get my ex out of my head. Here's the back story: 11...
    loving2 loving2
    31-35
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2009

    Here I am in love with you; You're everything

    and more. This is the way it's supposed to be; There's nothing I want for. But she was in my heart before, The embers there still glow, And every time I see her now My love it overflows. So when I look into your eyes My love is always true, And losing you's the worst thing...
    chewyconor chewyconor
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    It Sux...!

    I am in love with two people and it is so confusing! One is my boyfriend of 1 yr and a half. I've known him for 4 yrs total and he is my BEST friend. We do everything together! I am so crazy in love with him. The second guy is a guy who came into my life when me and my boyfriend...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2012

    Torn I Cant Have Him But Always Liked Him

    I am torn..I have a friend who I have know since I was 17 I am 23 now. He is year younger than me. He isnt wow! He has lovely eyes, looks nice thin or fat, he has a smile that melts my heart. He has had girlfriend for all the time I have known him on otherhand I have been...
    xoxdxox xoxdxox
    26-30
    Dec 2, 2013

    Yep. And one is all right

    for me and one is all wrong.
    daria80 daria80
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2014

    I really don't know where to

    even begin with this story so lets take it back to 8th grade. I would see this kid all around school, we'll call him James, and I thought he was so cool and hot and what not but I was weird and didn't fit in at the time and just wasn't pretty like the other girls, so I knew I...
    haleymaeee haleymaeee
    18-21, F
    Jan 8, 2015

    I'm Great At Being Confused.

    I have about two months until I move in with my long-distance girlfriend when my semester ends. She's amazing, caring, beautiful and helped me through so much. At the beginning of the year she helped me get through some tough decisions and supported me morally through it all...
    StressedStimulus StressedStimulus
    18-21
    Sep 27, 2013

    All I Can Say Is This To All Of You..

    If you love 2 people at the same time, choose the second one because if you really loved the first one u wouldn’t have fallen for the second.
    Thyrza92 Thyrza92
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2011

    Both mean a lot to me.

    I can't decide
    KalEl06 KalEl06
    22-25, M
    Nov 20, 2014

    And I Know I Shouldn't Be

    I have the greatest boyfriend I could ask for. He loves everything about me and treats me better than I thought possible. I'm totally comfortable around him and truly feel like I could spend forever with him. There's just one problem: I'm still in love with my best friend from...
    wannabewriter42614 wannabewriter42614
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    I am in love with two completely different men.

    Danny is my dream guy, physically. He has those brown eyes that always manage to draw me in. Danny is brazilian and has a dark tan which is the complete opposite of me. I could not be any paler but I liked that contrast between us. Danny is a very depressed individual but sweet...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 24, 2015

    When I was nine I met my

    now boyfriend. He was in my class and I decided I liked him. I never stopped. Through the years and the grades and *shudders* puberty, he became best friend with my brother, so I saw a lot of him. We were in scouts together. I played with dolls his little sister. When I was...
    Lochnessie Lochnessie
    16-17, F
    Jul 24, 2014

    Until 2 years ago, I was a normal,

    happily married guy. Never strayed, never as much as looked at another girl. Then I met 'her' and it all cam tumbling down. I love my wife. I am still in love with my wife. We share experiences together, we laugh, we have a good sex life. I honestly have nothing to want for...
    jackflash3300 jackflash3300
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2014

    My heart aches every time I know he is with her,

    i wait in-patiently to talk to him in the end of the day. I dont know how he can do it so easy, loving 2 people at the same time, because i know am struggling, emotionally and mentally.
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2014

    Theres No Greater Feeling Than Lying In The Arms Of The Two People You Love.

    Sucking his penis is an honor and a privilege. Going deep to the balls and drinking his non-slimey sweet after taste nectar. Then my hand touches his quivering stomach. Next comes my sweet sweet wife who I love even more than him. I eat her for hours and listen her moan while...
    1juicylife 1juicylife
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Feb 29, 2012
    USFvaulter20 USFvaulter20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    My First Love Vs My Second

    I am in love with two people, one I have been through hell and back to be with and another was just best friends with me since the day I had him in class my freshman year in hs, when he was a senior. The one I went through hell to be with argues with me all the time and quits...
    Thisgirl27 Thisgirl27
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2012

    Why Does God Hate Me?

     Seriously can anything ever work out for me? I meet a cool guy and nothing comes of it... Go on a vacation for one week and have the most mind blowing experience with a man ever.... AND I MEAN EVER.... I am totally older than him and more...
    bakedlays bakedlays
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2009

    Yes. I've been with my boyfriend

    for 5 months and he is so unbelievably sweet and I love him. But he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. And in one way I want that. But at the same time I'm a very adventurous person and I'm still young so I want to live and be wild. And there's this guy I met...
    josieyoung101 josieyoung101
    16-17, F
    Aug 25, 2015

    I've written quite a few stories about my

    boyfriend, Kade. He and I have already been back together for almost 2 months, since November 17th. He's my true love. Everything I want and need. Every single day he talks about us. How he can't wait to move in with me and have children with me. I can't wait either. I want it...
    lowellwolf lowellwolf
    18-21, F
    Jan 5, 2014

    I went out with my boyfriend today,

    we spent 5 hrs togather, best time i had in such a long time. He makes me connect with my feelings. I love him so much.
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost
    22-25, F
    Dec 13, 2014

    They Don't Want Me...

    There's this boy in school he so tall and he has curly hair, and he is so beautiful and he's not one of those guys who are stupid and judge people, He's so shy. But probably not. Neversaw his true colors. But he doesn't even know I exist so I don't feel like trying. At...
    AnnaSavvy AnnaSavvy
    13-15, F
    Nov 6, 2012

    Believe It Or Not, This Is The Short Version Of My Conflicted Heart

    Although I didn't meet Boy A until my 2nd year of college, he and I always lived no more than 10 miles away from each other. We both were born on Long Island, moved to the same city in Florida when we were 5. We went to the same elementary, middle, and high school. We had classes...
    AimLove AimLove
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2011

    Advice That I Received

    I was once told by a friend that just because two truths contradict each other, does not mean that they are mutually exclusive. In fact, she said, the biggest mistake that people make in life is assuming that only one of the contradicting truths must be true and trying to force...
    IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 10, 2011

    I never thought I would love two people at the

    same time. It's despicable. One has a strong passion for me. The other one doesn't feel the same about me.
    darkestSun darkestSun
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 5

    First Love Versus Internet Pen Pal

    Several months ago I met the first boy I would ever love. He is absolutely wonderful. He is charming, competitive, magnanimous, and he really does love me. We are a happy couple, but we are uncomfortable interacting in some ways. We write acticulate messages to one another, spend...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 18, 2012

    Two Men One Heart

    I'm torn. I'm lost. I'm broken. I'm in love with two people. How is that even possible? I don't understand it. One, we'll call John, I've known since High school. He was there as a friend through every trial it had to bring. Abusive boyfriend, abusive father, separated parents...
    Icantimagine Icantimagine
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2011

    Torn Between Two Guys I Both Love

    Here's my story (it's kinda long... So thanks for reading through (: ) Half a year ago... I fell in love at first sight with a high school classmate. After about a week, he asked me out. I felt so happy around him, we are together all the time. Being with him just makes...
    sweetnightmaree sweetnightmaree
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    I am a 16 year old male

    and I have no clue what the **** to do. Alright I guess I will start this story at the beginning. Newly single me is hanging out with a group from my Japanese class in (undisclosed city) and I one of the girls there (we will just call her Ariel), I had a crush on (she also has a...
    LonelyIncubus LonelyIncubus
    16-17, M
    Sep 17, 2014

    I Am So Confused

    I am in a long distance relationship for 3 years with this guy..lets call him jack..i love him a lot n he loves me too. we want to spend our whole life together but his parents are against this..my sister recently got married and few months back i went to their place. she was...
    ritzi11 ritzi11
    18-21
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    I just realized yesterday

    that i have known my boyfriend for 12 years, we have a very strong bond that keeps us together. Even though my husband and i have known each other for a similar amount of time, maybe even longer. But the bond is stronger between me and my boyfriend because we are also best...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2014

    I love my husband, we have a daughter togather,

    we adore each even more with her in our life. And i love my ex, we are still in touch, we know each other so well that we just cant let go, he is my soulmate, he is also newly married. Could this be possible? Loving 2 people at a time. Each of them has his own unique...
    anonymousandlost anonymousandlost
    22-25, F
    Dec 12, 2014

    Divided ...

    Love is divined .. but Mine is Divided .. I love them .. & I can't help it .. If loving them is wrong then i don't wanna get right ... <img src="http://thumb1.shutterstock.com.edgesuite.net/display_pic_with_logo/154549/154549,1197598528,2/stock-vector-a-letter-full-of...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 4, 2010

    The Both Of Them

    What little drama I do have in life I cause for myself... I am in love with two men. Men that are so different from each other that loving them is like night and day. What one isn't the other one is and vice versa. A is a tall native Alaskan man with a awesome smile, charismatic...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2011

    I Love My Boyfriend But...

    I love my boyfriend but we fight alot. We've been together for over a year. He doesnt seem happy with me anymore. My bestfriend and I have always been close. We had a thing before I started dating my boyfriend. I was drunk one night and I told my bestfriend that I love him...
    nicoleee92 nicoleee92
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2008

    Emotions....

    i have been married for almost 7 years. we are open and have been open for a very long time.a year after we got married i had told him i had a fantasy of being with an older man.he said if you want to go experance it find someone and i did some one 20 years older than me at the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 28, 2013

    Confused

    I NEED HELP... Im in a realationship with my gf of 6yrs nd i talkin to this guy that i knew for 4yrs well here where it gets tricky im in love with them both we tried to do a polygamy realationship but it dont work im a jealous type where i gotta be center of attention if not...
    LivingLifewithfetishes13 LivingLifewithfetishes13
    22-25
    1 Response Jan 27, 2013

    my boyfriend of 9 months

    and my best friend who loves me
    OliviaMarie14 OliviaMarie14
    13-15, F
    Dec 20, 2015

    My Son's Dad And The Other Guy.

    My son's dad and I are the best of friends.  Things between us are comfortable and we really care about one another.    However, the other guy I am with makes me feel alive and young and the sex is awesome.    I love them both and I am so...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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