I Am In My Thirties And Single With No Children

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    I Feel Sad About It, But On The Other Hand I Can't Handle Raising Children

    I keep wishing I could have at least had my first child when I was around age 20, like most other women, or by my mid-twenties, so I could feel young as a mother, and I feel old for someone still without children or having children later. Probably most of my former female...
    MDenise MDenise
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2011

    i'm not ashamed of who i am.

    but i don't think i can deal with this anymore. i'm craving a partner so much. i don't want to repeat dates just dates life. i want to have relationship even though relationship can be very tough,pain it's also beautiful..and worth it if that person worth it..
    noteyetoeye1 noteyetoeye1
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    I'm 34 now. in my 20s I thought I wanna get

    married quickly & have children but the older I get the more scarier I become from commitment & marriage responsibility. recently I met some1 who seems so perfect and I blow him off without giving a chance because I know he wouldn't understand me as all guys don't care they don...
    rashahan rashahan
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    I am 31 (turning 31 on December 4th 2015),

    I'm very much single and never had any children. Some days I'm ok with it but some days I wonder if I'll get what everyone else around me has.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I am 31 (as if dec 28th) very single with zero

    children. I get very upset with my family on the inside because my cousin is the only one in my family besides me that doesn't have children and my family constantly asks him, right in front of me, when he is going to give the family another grand baby? And they NEVER say...
    haircutluv haircutluv
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    if this is true you've got life by the

    kahoonies. you've got so much time to make a life changing decision.....what if you were sixty saying this (and you know you won't be)
    Kentex Kentex
    56-60, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I LOVE IT. I guess I'm not totally single

    anymore, I have a guy I'm crazy about now, but i don't ever feel any rush to get married. It's more important to be a better friend to him. He's recently divorced and has kids from a previous marriage. If I want to be with kids, I can go to his. If I want to exercise, paint, do...
    DyreWvlf DyreWvlf
    41-45, F
    Feb 22, 2014
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