I Am In Need of Some Advice

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    Okay so there's this guy at school

    and he's a player and we're not really friends but he always asks if I'm okay and he knows about my cutting Last week when I was walking the track alone he asked me if I was okay and said he's always there for me if I need it I just don't know if I should talk to him or not...
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    2 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    I am 15 and I am dating a 17 year old.

    Our relationship is amazing and I really do think he is my soul mate! I'm very intelligent and I do well at school, but recently my grades have been dropping, I think this is because I rarely do much work anymore because I'm always with him. However, when I'm not with him I...
    thatgirl1410 thatgirl1410
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2015

    Not sure what happened Quote My son

    and dil, have been married for almost 2 yrs. and lived together for 2 yrs before that. She's always favoured being with her family for occasions and reading alot of stuff tells me that is common behaviour for many dil's. Thinking back I remember that I would have rather been...
    bellisima bellisima
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 10, 2014

    My husband just asked me

    for a divorce after 14 years of marriage and i do not want one. we have 3 kids. I love my husband and he says their is just nothing their anymore and that he has made up his mind. I am hurting on the inside so bad what do i do.
    jenhump jenhump
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    I have been in such a on

    and off relationship within 2 years....My ex was falling out of love me..everytime he just broke up with me..I was scared to be alone. He tricked me to get back with him because at that time i was pregnant,obviously he was flirting with someone behind my back.Then he started...
    moondesires moondesires
    22-25, F
    Nov 1, 2015

    I don't even know where to start.

    Everything with my life just seems wrong right now, I'm in my early twenties which I know is young but sometimes I feel like my life is melting away. I had to quit my job about a month ago due to basically becoming redundant, was only being left with a few hours a few from them...
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 23, 2014

    I haven't been on here in a while,

    but I'm having a lot of difficulty with my emotions and controlling them. I have an internship right now, that requires me to commute 3 hours one way and back everyday to NYC on a train, starting at 4:30am and finally home at 8pm. I am exhausted when I get home, but muster up...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    I Know Alot Of Friends,,But Still Feel Alone When I'M With Them

    I'm one of those people that can go anywhere and have someone talking to within five minutes, but deep down inside still feel lonely,,I have alot of friends,,I love them so much,,But I don't feel that I'm myself when I'm with them,,I have to laugh when they say jokes even if I...
    maemou maemou
    22-25, F
    Feb 26, 2013

    Why is it I can give great advice (in my

    opinion), but never follow myself?
    New2ThisToo New2ThisToo
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    I have no experience with forums like these,

    but am hoping for some advice from a third party to advise me in this situation. I will start off by saying I am a 20 year old female and I have never had a serious or long term boyfriend and/or relationship. 4 months ago, I met a man on a dating website that is completely "out...
    xfcaro xfcaro
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    EP Peeps, I Need Your Help!!

    justANNIE justANNIE
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2009

    At work, every weekend a guy comes in with a

    bunch of his friends. He's really cute and I just need to find a way to talk to him!!! I can't just be awkward and jump in their conversations and I'm not sure if he even notices me when he comes in. Any advice would be appreciated :)
    TimeTravelingWomanOfJustice TimeTravelingWomanOfJustice
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2015

    what do it mean to dream about someone

    that you had feelings for but yall not on speaking terms hes chasing after you and you keep walking away ignoring them until they grab u and next thing you know your on the phone with their mother and you have a close relationship with their mom as well
    Mzhoney Mzhoney
    22-25, F
    Jun 23, 2015

    So, there's this guy I've been talking to.

    He's really sweet and he makes me really happy. I haven't had a real smile on my face since I don't know when but when he messages me, I can't stop. He makes me feel special. I'm extremely insecure and I hate myself but he helps me...the thing is...I'm 16 and he's 14. Is that...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 25, 2015

    How Do I Get the Finances to Move to My Husband's Post?

    Hi. my name is jessica and i have recently been inducted as an official army wife. my husband's training was delayed at fort benning when he hurt his back, so i havent seen him since june.  he is expected to graduate in mid-october, and then get sent to fort gordon for his...
    jaygurlenator jaygurlenator
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2008

    can someone help me please im baffled ,

    I have recently split from my wife after no fault of my own ,she sent me a text saying she loves me as her best friend but not like her husband ,what does this mean
    pvcman78 pvcman78
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    should i ask him "why" ?

    I met someone, we could talk everyday chat until early morning. Have told that we like each each other. But few days ago he doesn't reply my chat again, while he is still look online. i really want to ask him "why, is there something wrong with me?" "why you avoided me" "why...
    Rescya Rescya
    22-25, F
    Jan 5, 2016

    Help Restore His Pride..

    I'll begin with a short backstory..my boyfriend/child's father is 30 years old, has had 20 blood clots and is currently awaiting surgery approval to have his lungs and pulmonary artery cleared of past clots, it is an open heart surgery only performed in 2 hospitals in the U.S. He...
    cg624720 cg624720
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2012

    I'm trying to lose weight

    and my goal is 130. I was originally at 154 and I vary between 147.5 and 150 right now. I modified my diet quite a bit, having. Soda and junk food maybe once or twice a week and in small quantities. I want to start working out to, but idk what I shouldn't on or how to do it...
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    1 Response May 2, 2015

    Missing 💭 Mother never noticed Daddy wasn't

    there Siblings shut me out Friends didn't care I'm skipping meals Cutting deep Popping pills Losing sleep Pencil sharpeners missing blades Used to erase the pain Cuts just starting to fade You know I'm not afraid But I won't cut my skin It's no longer worth it This...
    Piercedprincess17 Piercedprincess17
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    There was a lot of issues between my boyfriend

    and my family, specifically with my mother and my brother. Since January he wasn't allowed in the house at all and they told me he would be allowed back in June. Well June is right around the corner, but my boyfriend obviously isn't fond of my brother or mother either. He doesn...
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    1 Response May 10, 2015

    so I'm pregnant and my hubby is a gamer,

    I'm at the end of the pregnancy so anyday now my little girl will be in this world. but lately my husband has been non stop playing ff14 and he has friends on there that he non stops talks to, we've spent no time together and on the game you can marry someone and we got me the...
    YummyKupkakes YummyKupkakes
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2016

    My head has been feeling weird

    for 5 daus straight. It feels really heavy and if someone was pressing both sides of my head together and I told my mom and she got mad and im afraid to ask her again Idk what it is :'(
    itsstephybitxh itsstephybitxh
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    Defiant 13 Year Old Daughter

    Where do I start.... I have a 13 year old daughter that has no friends her age because she is a know it all that can do anything you can do but better. She only has young kids that like her (only because they think its cool to hang out with a teenager and they don't know better...
    sndfilbin sndfilbin
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

    I let a past mistake get the best of me

    yesterday..and I'm trying to pick myself up from it ..I thought I had forgiven myself but the shame took me over again. I'm always the careful cautious responsible one ..and my one bad decision /mistake is going to haunt me forever I feel..I was at my bottom at the time..so I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    So my girlfriend and I live a significant

    distance away from each other and can usually only text. Well she's recently gotten a job and doesn't really have time to talk. Even when she's off she doesn't answer me in a tinely manner and I just don't know what to do. When we do talk its short and awkward and I don't know...
    spen1112 spen1112
    18-21, M
    Dec 26, 2015

    I feel so hated in my own home.

    I feel like garbage around my stepmom. I have lived with her for almost 3 years and yet she doesn't even great me when she gets home. I haven't spoken to her in almost a week. I always try to talk to her, whenever she gets home from work I say hi but she just ignores me and goes...
    mudkipperz mudkipperz
    18-21, F
    Jul 14, 2014

    Recently, my mom would ask me to do one thing,

    let me go back to what I'm up to, then ask me after like 30 seconds of me sitting down to get up and help her out with something else. THEN, I tell her that I have time and things I need to get done so I can become a successful student. I tell her that she needs to give me a...
    EatingCereal EatingCereal
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    I need some advice and no nasty comments please.

    I have found myself in awkward situation and I'm not sure what to do. On an extended vacation earlier this year I met this guy, Edward. We dated for the month that I was there. I was staying with his family and I felt really awkward and vulnerable being in that situation and...
    Missylain Missylain
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    I'm in need of advice!

    ! Currently right now told I have to get cyst removal surgery next week and I'm scared and I'm literally dreading it! Apparently it's the only way to remove it and if I don't I will have this throughout the rest of my life. I'm not nervous about my surgery but I'm more nervous...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    So I've been through a lot of things,

    but that's too many words to type in one day. A life time of self harm, depression, and lonely experiences, but now I am conflicted. I've been having these terrible dreams. I call them dreams because I enjoy these nightmares in which I take pleasure of sleeping to. It's hard to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    I have a very very good friend.

    We were both basically social outcasts until we met each other. We were good friends for 3 years, then she moved. 5 hours away. I barely see her and we don't talk over text... Well barely. She's not good at texting, and it's impossible to keep a conversation going over text. We...
    DoucheyDitto DoucheyDitto
    18-21, M
    Mar 16, 2015

    I don't remember who wrote this; But I need

    anyone's help. What do you think about this "The person who cares less about the relationship has all the power and control." I'm staring to think its true. But how do you stop caring so much about the person that you love? Please someone help me/:
    deleted deleted
    Jul 17, 2015

    pls i need your advice I have being voted in

    as the vice-president of a youth group in church, and one of my job is to organize an interactive forum for the youth, and i ve never handled any position before. Pls tell me what to do. Like topics to discuss, games to play, etc.
    Bianca85 Bianca85
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2015

    Should I Seek And Attorney For Medical Malpractice?

    I would like to get an opinion of if I should pursue a medical malpractice case. In California you have 1 year to file. In July of 2011 I went in to have a benign (Thank you, God) lymph node removed from my neck. The surgeon is very well known for being a great and competent...
    attipay attipay
    56-60, F
    Jan 15, 2012

    My friend and I are fighting

    and I need some advice. The 11th of April was her birthday and she came over in the morning to help out with a yard sale. Her mom came with her and we started talking about people buying stuff at yard sales for cheap and re-selling it for profit. Her mom started talking about...
    emeraldtriangle420 emeraldtriangle420
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2015

    PLEASE READ TILL THE END I need advice Advice

    on how to handle my brother. Ok so in the morning my brother is notoriously slow and my school has a requirement that if you're late more than 10 times you get detention:/ and he's always making us late everyday and it's driving me nuts!! Also another issue his career! He is...
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    1 Response Jan 20, 2016

    I've been thinking about selling pictures it's

    easy to edit faces and familiar background out of them. it's always just been a thought though. never done it. but it crosses my mind more often now that I'm looking into some art supplies no one will get me
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    Saturday night at a party,

    my "bestfriend" we'll call her (K) hooked up with this guy that likes me we'll call him (T) and the guy (K) likes we'll call (W) * I'm 17 (K) is 15 (T) is 24 (W) is 30 * (T) told me he liked me and kept asking if i liked him, all night he was trying to get me alone with him...
    laurenbby laurenbby
    22-25, F
    Feb 18, 2014

    I have a good friend

    who I have liked for a long time. I want so desperately to connect with her but I don't think she processes the world the same way I do. She was molested and raped for many years, and says she has trouble letting people in and "pushes people away", doesn't trust anyone etc. It...
    lolita2018 lolita2018
    26-30, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    I don't remember who wrote it; But I need

    anyone's help. What do you think about what this. " The person who cares less about the relationship has all the power and control." I'm starting to think it's true. But how do you stop caring so much about the person that you love? Please someone help me/:
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 17, 2015

    Ive come to a point in my life

    where i have to make a choice. I need help with this choice. Someone who has a lot of life experience. Its about my life. Should i keep going, or should i disappoint everyone who has ever known me.
    Mybedismybestfriend Mybedismybestfriend
    18-21, M
    Feb 23, 2014

    So my girlfriend and I live a significant

    distance away from each other and can usually only text. Well she's recently gotten a job and doesn't really have time to talk. Even when she's off she doesn't answer me in a tinely manner and I just don't know what to do. When we do talk its short and awkward and I don't know...
    spen1112 spen1112
    18-21, M
    Dec 26, 2015

    Hi guys. So, I've had this friend River

    for years now. He's always liked me, and I never actually dated him but I did like him in the past. I'm at a point in my life where I've really moved on and I'm in a happy relationship currently with someone else. I'm not interested in River, but here's the issue: River suffers...
    twisteduniverse twisteduniverse
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    The Caymans were wild Anything

    but mild We were looking' for action And to our satisfaction The parties were crazy The mornings were hazy We met cool people We threw down equal Shots went around Until the bar closed down The Caymans were wild
    myenglishfinal myenglishfinal
    18-21, M
    May 12, 2015

    What Should I Do?

    This morning I received an alert from my phone reminding me that Spring registration is today and tomorrow. As much as I would love to return to school, I don't know if I should. I work a full time job in the family business which is planned to be handed off to me. I guess I'm...
    Veriace Veriace
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2012
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