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I Am In Need of Some Advice

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    Help Restore His Pride..

    I'll begin with a short backstory..my boyfriend/child's father is 30 years old, has had 20 blood clots and is currently awaiting surgery approval to have his lungs and pulmonary artery cleared of past clots, it is an open heart surgery only performed in 2 hospitals in the U.S. He...
    cg624720 cg624720 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    Ive come to a point in my life

    where i have to make a choice. I need help with this choice. Someone who has a lot of life experience. Its about my life. Should i keep going, or should i disappoint everyone who has ever known me.
    Mybedismybestfriend Mybedismybestfriend 18-21, M Feb 23

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    Defiant 13 Year Old Daughter

    Where do I start.... I have a 13 year old daughter that has no friends her age because she is a know it all that can do anything you can do but better. She only has young kids that like her (only because they think its cool to hang out with a teenager and they don't know better...
    sndfilbin sndfilbin 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    Saturday night at a party,

    my "bestfriend" we'll call her (K) hooked up with this guy that likes me we'll call him (T) and the guy (K) likes we'll call (W) * I'm 17 (K) is 15 (T) is 24 (W) is 30 * (T) told me he liked me and kept asking if i liked him, all night he was trying to get me alone with him...
    laurenbby laurenbby 18-21, F Feb 18

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    Things have been eating me alive lately.

    For somewhat of a background, I am 24 years of age, and that this point in my life a lot of things are changing, yet I'm not quite where I want to be yet. I just got a car, have 2 jobs, and try to take care of my grandmother at home. I put everyone else's needs above my own, and...
    GiovanniRose GiovanniRose 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Don't Know What To Do About My Father

    My father is 73 years old and he is having to dialysis 3 times a week due to his kidneys issues. He started dialysis in the beginning of 2011. My dad and I have had our issues, but I've tried to remain close to him since I lost my mother to cancer when I was a teenager. I don't...
    guest72 guest72 36-40 Apr 14, 2012

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    So I've been through a lot of things,

    but that's too many words to type in one day. A life time of self harm, depression, and lonely experiences, but now I am conflicted. I've been having these terrible dreams. I call them dreams because I enjoy these nightmares in which I take pleasure of sleeping to. It's hard to...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    EP Peeps, I Need Your Help!!

    OK, HERE'S THE STORY!   I AM CURRENTY CARING FOR A 10 YR OLD MIXED TERRIER NAMED MUNCHKIN, WHO, PRETTY MUCH, ABANDONED HER HOME.  SHE WAS LIVING WITH 2 WOMEN, ONE WENT INTO THE HOSPITAL, THE OTHER IS 85 AND HAS ALZHEIMERS, AND, I DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE DID TO THIS DOG...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    What Should I Do?

    This morning I received an alert from my phone reminding me that Spring registration is today and tomorrow. As much as I would love to return to school, I don't know if I should. I work a full time job in the family business which is planned to be handed off to me. I guess I'm...
    Veriace Veriace 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I need advice from an adult.

    (I'm almost 17) Im from Philadelphia, & My dad never talked to me. Then out of the blue he started talking to me, & he even came to visit me from NY...... 3yrs have passed & he doesn't pick up my calls, unless its a blocked #. So any way..... I have a brother & sister that I...
    MrAmazn MrAmazn 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    How Do I Get the Finances to Move to My Husband's Post?

    Hi. my name is jessica and i have recently been inducted as an official army wife. my husband's training was delayed at fort benning when he hurt his back, so i havent seen him since june.  he is expected to graduate in mid-october, and then get sent to fort gordon for his...
    jaygurlenator jaygurlenator 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    I feel so hated in my own home.

    I feel like garbage around my stepmom. I have lived with her for almost 3 years and yet she doesn't even great me when she gets home. I haven't spoken to her in almost a week. I always try to talk to her, whenever she gets home from work I say hi but she just ignores me and goes...
    mudkipperz mudkipperz 13-15, F Jul 14

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    My mom is missing all the important stuff in my

    life (which hurts me inside) because of her new job but she will try to adjust her schedule to go to all of my little sister's things and same with my twin. What do I need to do?
    TheCupcakeQueen TheCupcakeQueen 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have one friend whom I know

    for the past 6 months. We clicked and get close pretty fast, hanging out and talking like a close friend. She personally had one bestfriend whom she knew for more than 4 years, which I respect their bestfriend relationship on the first place and I know no one can replace her...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517 18-21, F Jan 26

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    Have you noticed all the posts about people

    who feel suicidal, depressed, feeling lost and alone? Do you ever feel the urge to help them? To say something that will brighten their day? Are you afraid to? Don't be! If it is put in your heart take action! Be the support that person is searching for! If you are that...
    dreadheadgal dreadheadgal 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Not sure what happened Quote My son

    and dil, have been married for almost 2 yrs. and lived together for 2 yrs before that. She's always favoured being with her family for occasions and reading alot of stuff tells me that is common behaviour for many dil's. Thinking back I remember that I would have rather been...
    bellisima bellisima 46-50, F 1 Response May 10

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    What Do I Do?!

    I am in a crisis situation. my band made it to the state competition and it is set to be on may 4th or 5th. 2 or 3 month ago i had plans to spend time at disney world with my cousins and aund and uncle who i barley get to see. this will be happening on the week of may 4th:( Now i...
    scooter397 scooter397 13-15, F Apr 11, 2012

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    Hate the fact the more I try to avoid him the

    more he appears without wanting too and he still give me the looks .dont know what it means but it still confusing :(
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I haven't been on here in a while,

    but I'm having a lot of difficulty with my emotions and controlling them. I have an internship right now, that requires me to commute 3 hours one way and back everyday to NYC on a train, starting at 4:30am and finally home at 8pm. I am exhausted when I get home, but muster up...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Should I Seek And Attorney For Medical Malpractice?

    I would like to get an opinion of if I should pursue a medical malpractice case. In California you have 1 year to file. In July of 2011 I went in to have a benign (Thank you, God) lymph node removed from my neck. The surgeon is very well known for being a great and competent...
    attipay attipay 56-60, F Jan 15, 2012

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    I Know Alot Of Friends,,But Still Feel Alone When I'M With Them

    I'm one of those people that can go anywhere and have someone talking to within five minutes, but deep down inside still feel lonely,,I have alot of friends,,I love them so much,,But I don't feel that I'm myself when I'm with them,,I have to laugh when they say jokes even if I...
    maemou maemou 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    If Someone Needs Advices Come To Me

    I would happy to help you =)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    I don't even know where to start.

    Everything with my life just seems wrong right now, I'm in my early twenties which I know is young but sometimes I feel like my life is melting away. I had to quit my job about a month ago due to basically becoming redundant, was only being left with a few hours a few from them...
    MsTML MsTML 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Just To Clarify...

    It turns out that my dad said to go be adopted out of anger.,i dont beleive him,,,,not for a second.....you dont tell your kid to go be adopted and then spend 4 days of research looking for new parents.....i dont know a parent that could do that to their kid...and then lie and...
    kaitlynnwatson kaitlynnwatson 16-17, F Aug 28, 2012

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    Hi. I've been in a lot of pain in my life.

    And it's damn pain in the ***. But it's a good thing to know that there'll be someone to guide me through and see the sense in everything... She didn't make me do anything. She just made me realize what the real situation is.. Her advices were not common... But it was real...
    JudyAnneServantes JudyAnneServantes 16-17, F May 18

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    I am 17 years old and I live in a house that is falling apart with a father that lives with his mom(so yes I live with my grandma). His second ex and her children is also living...
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    In October of 2012, my ex and I broke up. We dated for four years and we were each other's first love. We usually broke up for about a few days and got back together; it wasn't so...
    trivy trivy 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi. So I wanna know how to get closure, me and this guy were really close at the end of last year and then we sorta stopped talking and hanging out this year. I reallllly miss...
    merley99 merley99 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    A few years ago i had received a phone call. actually it was a wrong number however, he and i actually became friends. We hit it off quite well. We'd spend night after night on the...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I am in a really tough love situation, if anyone is willing to help me out pls message me ):
    drowninglol drowninglol 13-15, F Jul 1

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    I get jealous off me basically thinking things. It drives me crazy that no matter what I will never feel good enough for anything.
    cherryshelby cherryshelby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    So I am trying to help my wife become more confident in herself, not only in her natural abilities and her beauty. She recently went out and bought a number of items of lingerie...
    pwis2648 pwis2648 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Ok I know I probably sound like a crazy gf but I was on fb and his ex posted a status "in a relationship" so I went to her page and wanted to see who it was. Anyway I went to her...
    mollygirl123 mollygirl123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    So my bestfriend's boyfriend keeps hitting me up and just asked me to talk with him over the phone? I mean i've been friends with her boyfriend since wayyy before they dated, but...
    zbabyy7 zbabyy7 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    So my friend Vincent wanted me to give him my phone number so I did he said he would call but he never did ! He said " don't call !!" Since his parents are divorced he lives with...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Yo, anyone from the UK that has done Camp America while at university ? i don't know whether to go next year after i have finished my second year of university, or go the year...
    TheFlamingLips TheFlamingLips 18-21, M Jul 18

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    I know this girl, and she isn't the most popular girl around. Meaning she is super-unpopular, gets bullied a lot, and has almost no friends except for me and a few others. She...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    How do you keep arguments minimal
    bobbyshmurdadance bobbyshmurdadance 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    How long should you wait until you text back a guy/girl? Also what's your opinion on the whole "who should text first"? I've grown up with the whole mentality that the guy should...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want to know if I am doing the right thing or am I over analyzing the situation... Been with my man for three years but doesn't seem to see how his actions affect me or those...
    Kymen Kymen 22-25, F Jul 14

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    I need some advice I'm always the one giving advice but when it comes to my own problems I don't stand a chance My best friend came to my house yesterday She saw dog food and...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I feel like he's pulling away. My boyfriend, we've been together 2 and a half years. We we first got together, and up until the last December, everything was great. We got each...
    krissyhopee0726 krissyhopee0726 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been with this man for a year now and military life can be really annoying. I've spent a lot of time waiting around and I really don't mind but the thing that gets me the most...
    honeybug792 honeybug792 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I need some advice. I try talking to my boyfriend about things that happen to me on a daily basis and sometimes I ask for his opinion. The problem however lies in his responses. He...
    CRTme CRTme 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    Anyone care to listen? I need some advice and to talk but its a really really really long story..😔
    baybabes71 baybabes71 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Anyone around for a chat, just need some advice
    confusedhalp1995 confusedhalp1995 18-21, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know anymore. My friends turn on me and leave like nothing happened just need some advice
    IFEVERONECARES IFEVERONECARES 13-15, M 1 day ago