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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    Please Tell Me What You Think. - Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective. - I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    The Story Continues - Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Dumped Again And Again - Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst - The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Heartbreak - Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak? - I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Another Day Of Loneliness - Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One - So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    Back and Forth... - ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    I am looking for a support group, a community of people that I can connect with. I hope I have come to the right place. I feel so alone. there is a deep ache inside my gut. I am...
    ode2joy14 ode2joy14 41-45 1 Response Mar 23

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    I met someone about 4 months ago. I was single for almost two years. I dated someone for about 7. It was intense and unhealthy, and although I have moved on,I wont lie sometimes...
    allthebeautifulthings allthebeautifulthings 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Today I did healing for her. She's in her 50's, she had a younger lover, they said sex without attachment. He left, she was heartbroken and disappointment, hurt and in emotional...
    wowman1011 wowman1011 36-40 2 days ago

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    April 10. Using Others to Stop Our Pain. Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well-being is not held by another to be given or withheld at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    All i can see is darkness. There is complete nothingness. I feel like people can see through me as though I am a walking spirit. I don't matter. Nothing matters and so why...
    CannibalizeTheMerciful CannibalizeTheMerciful 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Even though there are times where my life seems to be in the dumps I manage a smile on my face. My first heartbreak, yeah I cried tears and it was hard to look at him but I manage...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I'm tired of this, nothing good comes out of my life, I'm always getting rejected by girls. I always have crushes on chicks that I can never have. I've been told that I'm sweet and...
    romero44 romero44 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ahhhhhhh my wrist! Sorry for complaining but fu*ck!!!! I felt like screaming when I woke up, but I didn't so I needed to let it out silently. please kick in soon pain meds so I...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    But, loneliness is inevitable. I learned that everyone that you see around you has a hole in their heart. It doesn't always matter who they appear to be, or how they seem, we all...
    amblargh amblargh 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I used to complain about the loneliness.. Now I seem to seek loneliness.. I feel comfortable when I am alone... I feel good, I love that quietness... I am starting to hate hearing...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    To keep my story short- i had it very hard in my life. I dont know why people treated me this way, that i became sick, but i cant find answers to this. All i feel is pain, shame...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F a week ago

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    When I was 15 I was very passionate about a friend of mine a long time, we always studied together but never had the courage to say that. It turns out that a friend of mine...
    ygirl18 ygirl18 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I am single and I think this will be the case for a while. I have had too many bad experiences with a variety of a-holes and hurtful people. Even the guys that didn't mean it, they...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to find the perfect guy. However to find the perfect guy I needed to experience the guy who I thought way "the perfect guy" but turn out to be an a**hole I met this guy...
    aliceS96 aliceS96 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Aloneness versus loneliness: Aloneness allows us to think for ourselves, to deal with ourselves without interference. It supplies calmness to our busy existence. It allows us to...
    TeKKeeVee TeKKeeVee 61-65, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    March 26. Gifts, Not Burdens. "Children are gifts, if we accept them." —Kathleen Turner Crilly Children are gifts. Our children, if we have children, are a gift to us. We, as...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 26

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    April 7. Those Old Time Feelings. "I still have bad days. But that's okay. I used to have bad years." —Anonymous Sometimes, the old feelings creep back in. We may feel fearful...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 7

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    I don't know what to do. I feel alone and unloved or even wanted by those around me. I am a self sufficient independent 38 year old woman who's family and friends take advantage of...
    rewien rewien 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    April 16. Letting Things Happen. We do not have to work so hard at gaining our insights. Yes, we're learning that painful and disappointing things happen, often for a reason and a...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Loneliness became part of my life. I'm with people most of the time, but I have no true connections with them. I get depressed on weekends and holidays because it's time when love...
    viktorwolfman viktorwolfman 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    One day when I was feeling lonely I decided to try and do something about it. I took out my phone list and started phoning people on there, but I got to the end of the list. No...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I fight depression and loneliness everyday
    Nathancallaghan Nathancallaghan 18-21, M Mar 24

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    so i don't know what to say or who i can turn to. everything seems ok to people that pass me by but it isn't. my grandma passed away four months ago and it has triggered something...
    mrblobby49 mrblobby49 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I wish this anxiety would go away, the feeling of scared, annoyed, insecure, the worse butterflies, the sadness, anger everything mixed together. The feeling of loneliness and...
    Axoxo Axoxo 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Loneliness sucks! I put too much energy in a relationship that was not worth it. Iam trying to survive but this feeling of been neglected and alone is killing me :/
    Luna0902 Luna0902 36-40, F Apr 3

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    yeah and it's not a cheesy statement which means I need someone, being alone is peaceful and it's the moment when you can think about deep things and maybe sort life out...
    sidou89 sidou89 22-25, M Apr 4

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    My battle with chronic pain goes back 18 years to my first attack of acute hemorrhaging pancreatitis - a disease caused in my case by gall stones that blocked my pancreatic duct...
    ericgaudion ericgaudion 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Through early morning fog I see visions of the things to be the pains that are withheld for me I realize and I can see... That suicide is painless it brings on many changes and I...
    Greywlf Greywlf 56-60, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Pain Pain is what we get. pain is there just waiting for Us. It sneaks around waiting it sneaks around watching It can tell when we are at our most vulnerable. It strikes...
    Greywlf Greywlf 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Physical pain is something that I can see, therefore I know given time the scars or bruises will go away. But emotional pain, I know it's there but I don't know what to do. No...
    AriannaG AriannaG 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    A painter from Maysel, West Virginia, Ronald Ravesky is acknowledged for his landscape paintings. His art work is a perfect blend of creative expressions, colors and fabulous ideas...
    ronald01 ronald01 22-25, M a week ago

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    Ronald Raevsky is a landscape painter from Maysel, West Virginia. He started painting at a very young age and he was just 8 years old when he completed his first painting. He grew...
    ronald01 ronald01 22-25, M a week ago

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    Actually we both suffer chronic pain. you might think this would bring us together or we would understand each other. But he says i discount his pain as though it is nothing. I...
    zionpegasus zionpegasus 41-45 Mar 17

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    The whole thing is shot, or so it seems... I damaged my knee skiing a long time ago and sustained a hip injury while rock climbing. Now many years later the knee, hip, bursitis...
    epjoni epjoni 56-60, T Mar 20

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    I have been in chronic, constant pain for over 15 years now. I have seen a multitude of doctors, had several surgeries, many exploratory and even a spinal fusion of my L4-L5 disc...
    Mahala71 Mahala71 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    We are old friends, pain and I. We go way back to the beginning of my life. Physical, emotional, mental, soul wrenching sadness, it's all the same. Pain is the only constant in my...
    unfixablegirl unfixablegirl 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Wearing a heavy book bag has finally caught up to me. Since I moved off campus, I have to bring all my books with me for the day, and it gets pretty heavy but I'm use to it. The...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Different moods have different pain though. I'm not suicidal or anything. When I'm riding my bike, I crash. Sometimes I get road rash or sometimes I slip a pedal and get a...
    goofybmxerdan goofybmxerdan 26-30, M 1 day ago