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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is cold and distant; the next he is loving and sweet. I have been a bit aloof myself at times, especially when he is being...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak?

    I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find that my experiences include writing about the pain of loneliness. Which makes me wonder which is worse, the pain of being alone and unloved or having...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Back and Forth...

    ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to throw myself in his arms and be comforted. Though to be honest I don't know that he would be any comfort. This is a time...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Another Day Of Loneliness

    Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes me long for days past, when there was someone there, someone I could call and even if they couldn't come over they would at least...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst

    The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care. He acted like he did in the beginning, but now he acts like he could care less. I have no one to talk about this. It hurts so bad. I am so...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Please Tell Me What You Think.

    Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with my life and not justify my actions. Especially when my friends tell me that they are sure that I wasn't the only one out there...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Heartbreak

    Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right after I had my baby in May we got kicked out of our house because of my husband, and ever since I have resented...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Dumped Again And Again

    Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we went out - secretly because he was married but was separated for the past 7 years. He was indicating he will be trying for...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One

    So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down that he didn't, but he couldn't account for the incubation period. Things calmed down or so I thought and then he hit me with a bombshell...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective.

    I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He became very indignant as I went on. He began to rant about my needs within the relationship. Reminding me of how many times Jake rejected me and...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    He is everything to me and I cannot see him in pain. We live apart and I cannot be there for him. If I were, I'd take him in my arms and let him know he's cared for. I can't make...
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    LorenFlower LorenFlower 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't really know where to begin I remember the darkness that engulfed me well. The feeling that I could no longer carry on that people would be better off if I wasn't here and...
    iampinkpvc iampinkpvc 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Its like a loneliness that drowns u.drags u under with ever breath.like a black sea of nothing.....its a painless emptiness that makes u want to break free
    emo200 emo200 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Can someone talk to me I need to talk to people who have gone through emotional,physical pain
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M Apr 19

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    All in one click of a button.... Wow and it's strange and real I almost don't know how to process it honestly... I can't really put it in to words , *sigh*.... Now I'm up at 5am...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F Apr 27

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    I had one of those moments today...I sat in my room and just balled my eyes out everything that has happened to me comes rushing back and it hits me again why do I deserve this...
    Brokenheartedloner10 Brokenheartedloner10 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I hate broken hearts. It's very painful. Makes u wanna do unspeakable things to yourself and all those neg thoughts like I'm crap. I'm boring. I'm rubbish. I look like a nerd. Etc...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    Day 11 21/4 8:09am it's pouring raining and I miss him more than ever... I miss hugging him and cuddling him from behind... I feel so depressed and miserable... What do I do? Why...
    odijay odijay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I've experienced more than my share of heartbreaks. It hurts but I guess it makes you kinda scared to fall again....and they always promise that they won't ever hurt you but they...
    missunderstoodxo missunderstoodxo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Man, I've never known true heartbreak until now.. i can't eat.. i'm always cold.. i my chest literally hurts.. i feel like I'm going to puke 24/7 and I don't even want to recover...
    Foreverlucia Foreverlucia 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    heartbreak destroyed me but I forgave and things got better but I'm a worrier and can't stand conflict
    anniethe27th anniethe27th 16-17, F Apr 8

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    Heartbreak is that empty pit in your chest, the tears that flow freely, the heart beat in your throat, the desolation, the begging and pleading, the anger, the depression, then...
    NihilSineNefas NihilSineNefas 22-25, M Apr 8

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    Ever since i was young, I was different somehow. I was smarter, less naive, a deeper thinker. I never believed in Santa Clause. My teachers didn't like me all that much because I...
    MoreThanAWord MoreThanAWord 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Seems like all I can think is how they used and treated me. Alone and abused as they beat me repeatedly. The rain falls on my eyes cause I can't cry on my own. The only place I can...
    Moweb95 Moweb95 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    caraccaa caraccaa 26-30, F Apr 7

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    here i'm try to searching how to kill myself painless, i think i'm slowly losing my mind
    p4r1s p4r1s 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm lost in a sea of people where no one sees me drowning, even the people i love can't see that I'm dying. No one to listen, no one to care. My life seems like a bloody dare...
    Maneeshk Maneeshk 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I ******* hate my life, I hate my family I hate school I just hate everything. I cut most days bow because i deserve the pain, I deserve everything I get. I hope I cut so deep one...
    michael1129 michael1129 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 15

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    When I first herd about people who cut n burn themselves to make them feel better it really freaked me out. I thought wtf kind of person would inflict pain on to themselves like...
    Echo0fSilence Echo0fSilence 18-21, M Apr 16

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    Everyday I plunge deeper into the rabbit hole wondering if I'll ever find a way out. The pain and emptiness I feel inside continues to be ever present. Unfortunately, no one can...
    Dade34 Dade34 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I live alone and in chronic pain..lonely and get depressed..I would love to chat with someone ..I just lost my best friend and more..Im NOT looking for sex talk.just keep me...
    grizlite grizlite 46-50, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok well this isn't really an experience but I really want all of you who fight loneliness & depression to know that you will win this fight don't give up I understand what it's...
    UnwantedHuman UnwantedHuman 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    And today is no different. I am struggling with loneliness but I may have to be alone but I can still be here for others. The only way I can make myself feel like I deserve to live...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 20

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    Everyday feels lonely to me. I live with my grandparents since I have remembered. I have parents and a sister a year younger than me. However, she lives with my mother. I live with...
    BIP235 BIP235 16-17, F Apr 21

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    My medication ain't helping and I feel so alone, so isolated I can't trust anyone around me, no one understands me I just wish I had someone who won't judge me be it my mental...
    neeb1234 neeb1234 18-21, M 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Was I right to end it?? I broke up with my girlfriend because it was to much stress but now I'm back to the loneliness. Can't sleep don't want to eat not producing at work when...
    Jr2912 Jr2912 31-35, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I always know when my period comes because of the pain. It's pain that hurts but isn't at the stage where I'm thinking "I can't deal with this anymore". It's like an alarm clock...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Apr 25

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