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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst

    The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care. He acted like he did in the beginning, but now he acts like he could care less. I have no one to talk about this. It hurts so bad. I am so...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Please Tell Me What You Think.

    Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with my life and not justify my actions. Especially when my friends tell me that they are sure that I wasn't the only one out there...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    Dumped Again And Again

    Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we went out - secretly because he was married but was separated for the past 7 years. He was indicating he will be trying for...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    Another Day Of Loneliness

    Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes me long for days past, when there was someone there, someone I could call and even if they couldn't come over they would at least...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    Heartbreak

    Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right after I had my baby in May we got kicked out of our house because of my husband, and ever since I have resented...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective.

    I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He became very indignant as I went on. He began to rant about my needs within the relationship. Reminding me of how many times Jake rejected me and...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Back and Forth...

    ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to throw myself in his arms and be comforted. Though to be honest I don't know that he would be any comfort. This is a time...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak?

    I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find that my experiences include writing about the pain of loneliness. Which makes me wonder which is worse, the pain of being alone and unloved or having...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One

    So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down that he didn't, but he couldn't account for the incubation period. Things calmed down or so I thought and then he hit me with a bombshell...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    The Story Continues

    Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is cold and distant; the next he is loving and sweet. I have been a bit aloof myself at times, especially when he is being...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Etheros Etheros 46-50, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    "How the hell does a broken heart get back together when it falls apart?" I really don't know. I don't know how to feel better. How long is it going to take before I don't think...
    Miranda240 Miranda240 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    In these confusing days of my life. Like a train I'm just flying past all the stops in my life. I can't quite describe the feeling of loneliness. But I'm realizing that the reason...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The capacity of pain and suffering that can be put on the human heart breaks me. I can take my own pain but it's the struggles that I see others in that tears me down day by day...
    GoddessAirmid GoddessAirmid 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    The capacity of pain and suffering that can be put on the human heart breaks me. I can take my own pain but it's the struggles that I see others in that tears me down day by day...
    GoddessThemis GoddessThemis 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 3

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    It's funny how someone else's heart break can affect you It's funny how you can feel the pain when really it had nothing to do with you It's hard to imagine that it will fade away...
    missunfortunatesoul missunfortunatesoul 18-21, F Oct 26

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    The cold, dark and quiet of my present loneliness is frequently interrupted by the scream of fear, horror and terror. What is happening to me? Where is this emotional pain coming...
    myyself myyself 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 1

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    I'm currently dealing with depression for more than 2 years now, and I'm feeling absolutely desperate, terrified, miserable and completely out of hope. My pain and my fear are so...
    LookingForTheSunshine LookingForTheSunshine 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    HIM - Killing Loneliness <3 it ~Memories, sharp as daggers Pierce into the flesh of today Suicide of love took away all that matters And buried the remains in an unmarked...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F Nov 13

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    Why are two souls together always happier than being all by yourself, even for the most spiritually advanced people there needs to be some force that is the source of love. I think...
    harmony612 harmony612 26-30, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I woke up again today with slightly less pain than what I've felt over the last couple of months. Usually I've been feeling it from the moment I open my eyes till the moment I...
    AlexCorvace AlexCorvace 26-30, M 4 Responses Oct 21

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    I was in concert band one day. Just waiting for the teacher to come in. Then she comes in. I met her a year before, she played clarinet( I played trumpet) and I immediately felt...
    TerrelicTom TerrelicTom 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 4

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    I honestly feel like a marinet being played like a toy by some cruel sadistic master taking everything I have ever loved from me and leaving me to clean up the mess as they watch...
    TheSameOne TheSameOne 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I like him so much but I'm affriad to indulge in my emotions. I guess I've kept my gaurd up so I don't have to face possible pain . . .
    Mi5tiqu3 Mi5tiqu3 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Relationships are never a permanent solution to loneliness. Loneliness remains consistent even when you are together but it's simply hidden. It's waiting to unleash, ready to force...
    mrdane415 mrdane415 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    ive only lived in this small town for a few mths and rumor has spread that im a hoe, im a heartbreaker, ive broken two guys hearts so far. ive never meant to be like this, i havent...
    Abby97 Abby97 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    This is the first story I've ever written on this site and likewise my first real experience of heartbreak. The stupid kind, where there are no grand betrayals or the cruel lapse...
    starstarstar58 starstarstar58 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ive been lonely for a long long LONG time. I want to learn to understand the root cause of why i feel so seperated from everybody and everything. Ive been this way since i was a...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Sometime during the past summer, I started to be consumed by the overwhelming feeling of loneliness. Even though, I hung out with a few of my friends, but it didn't seem like it...
    CrypticIris CrypticIris 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I live with my boyfriend, have been for a little over a year now. Right before I moved in with him I was at my worst with my depression. I was constantly taking pills trying to...
    MissJessieGurl MissJessieGurl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    It does get better For years and years I have suffered from Major Depression, ever since I was a teenager. It really became a problem as a teen, when I went to an all male high...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 28

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    I don't even know how to begin this but yesterday I broke down, and i haven't done that in months, but I really thought I could be stronger. since I was in middle school I've been...
    kawina kawina 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 28

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    I lost my Mum just over a month ago and I can't believe it. Stage 4 lung cancer with secondary liver cancer. I miss her so much. She went very quickly from diagnosis to death. It...
    secr3tsss secr3tsss 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 29

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    Sitting here on a bridge underneath a busy highway... Some pencils, a sharpener and my sketchbook. Just want the pain to go away... I'm trying to distract myself.. But looking over...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 1

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    Dear Ms. c130patra, I read your post and it really hit home. I'm not going to say that I know what you're going through, because I don't - every life experience and what caused it...
    Darcie5 Darcie5 18-21, F Nov 3

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    I don't have the heart to kill myself anymore,seriously what's gonna happen if I do? Some relief that I couldn't experience with anybody else. Personally, I'd rather suffer than...
    AzureSmile AzureSmile 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    When the high point of the day is taking a sleeping pill (or two) and falling into a blissful nothingness, when one finds love only to discover one cannot have it. When everything...
    kanga4 kanga4 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    A couple of months ago the only person I've ever loved abandoned me knowing very well I was already suicidal and it's only gotten worse but recently I've been noticing increasing...
    TiredSoVeryTired TiredSoVeryTired 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 25

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    Sometimes I get so caught up in trying to act normal and pretend as if everything is alright that I forget how tragically alone I am, and how much the isolation has ****** me up...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 6 Responses Nov 7

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    Marginalized....thats the word that defines me. I fought for so long just to survive after I lost my real parents. But then 7 1/2 years later after surviving Foster homes, an alot...
    AquilaAqua AquilaAqua 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 9

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    So i had a set back today... well have been having them more often of late it seems. I feel so useless and my mind wanders constantly trying to numb itself. Between the crushing...
    jwolf09 jwolf09 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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