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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    Back and Forth...

    ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to throw myself in his arms and be comforted. Though to be honest I don't know that he would be any comfort. This is a time...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective.

    I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He became very indignant as I went on. He began to rant about my needs within the relationship. Reminding me of how many times Jake rejected me and...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    Please Tell Me What You Think.

    Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with my life and not justify my actions. Especially when my friends tell me that they are sure that I wasn't the only one out there...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst

    The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care. He acted like he did in the beginning, but now he acts like he could care less. I have no one to talk about this. It hurts so bad. I am so...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    The Story Continues

    Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is cold and distant; the next he is loving and sweet. I have been a bit aloof myself at times, especially when he is being...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Another Day Of Loneliness

    Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes me long for days past, when there was someone there, someone I could call and even if they couldn't come over they would at least...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One

    So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down that he didn't, but he couldn't account for the incubation period. Things calmed down or so I thought and then he hit me with a bombshell...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak?

    I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find that my experiences include writing about the pain of loneliness. Which makes me wonder which is worse, the pain of being alone and unloved or having...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Heartbreak

    Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right after I had my baby in May we got kicked out of our house because of my husband, and ever since I have resented...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Dumped Again And Again

    Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we went out - secretly because he was married but was separated for the past 7 years. He was indicating he will be trying for...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    The past 6 years have been a constant battle of depression, loneliness, paranoia Etcetc. I'm in that time of my life where I either want to give up completely or work hard to get...
    Exoduss Exoduss 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I'm very unsure whether the sadness and loneliness that I feel most days, today it even make me unable to sleep, are just sadness or signs of depression :'(
    agnest agnest 18-21, F 1 Response 36 mins ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Loneliness is a feeling that strikes when you are missunderstood and there is no one to share good or bad...even tho sometimes you are surrounded by people. I think that's the...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I agree loneliness is painful but not as much as stepping on a Lego. It's hell on earth. Not even satan would be cruel enough to create that monstrosity
    ILoveYourSmile ILoveYourSmile 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I have been having a particularly hard weekend dealing with the loneliness of living with a spouse with chronic pain so I searched the web and found this site. As I read some of...
    hispainismypain hispainismypain 61-65, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My dad is an active alcoholic and has not been in my life since I was 12. My mom struggles with an eating disorder. My parents are busy fighting their own demons and depression but...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    They say "Pain is temporary,and forever is the gain" But in reality pain never stops and it all goes to vain, After all the suffering You start to sense your life is just a disdain...
    depressedguy22 depressedguy22 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 6

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    I recently went through my first heartbreak.. And it's killing me.
    athleticnerd athleticnerd 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Lonliness is a double sided sword. Sometimes being alone helps you focus; but that's dull edge. The bladed edge of loneliness is what people die from everyday. When your memories...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M Jun 23

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    I fight depression, darkness, and loneliness all the time! I have very few friends, idk why.... Depression is awful... It sucks all life outta you and then leaves you weak and dark...
    Ellias95 Ellias95 18-21, F Jul 2

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    Why am I here? No one was given permission to put me here. Absolutely no one. I've tried to check out before, I'm such a wimp. My heart aches from my troublesome past I wake up in...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    It's a pain to see everyone around me continue to go on with their lives while i just sit home alone with nothing to do. I've tried going out, but clubs and dancing and other...
    Dashiverse Dashiverse 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I am NOT a crier. But lately I find myself crying at the smallest things, like mornings; sad music; someone talking about pain, hurting, and suffering; and being alone in my...
    girlon3rdfloorsuite9 girlon3rdfloorsuite9 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 3

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    For a month now I havnt been happy . The way it ended with this girl that seemed to really like me left me mentally , emotionally and sexually frustrated . Not sure if I want to go...
    Musicaddict02 Musicaddict02 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 4

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    When I was thirteen, something happened and I changed my mindset overnight. I used to be the favorite of my family because I was obedient and just all-around nice, and I have...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    The only reason Im still alive after an 9 year battle with depression/anxiety/suicidal thoughts is because I don't want to put my loved ones through my loss. Unlike a lot of...
    missmichigan21 missmichigan21 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Life is too much. There's nothing left to live for. I won't do it because I'm a coward and I don't want to hurt those around me. But I'm all alone really. My family isn't a family...
    ThisIsASecretAccount ThisIsASecretAccount 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have struggled with depression since I was 12 or so (I am 31). Even with meds, it's getting worse. I can't function. It takes everything I have to get out of bed and eat...
    Maritmus Maritmus 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'd say abuse of all different forms, but it does boil down to loneliness. In all of those forms, it is hard to escape as an individual.
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F Jun 23

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    Today is another day where I'm at home, sitting in front of the PC, not doing anything...just surfing the Internet. And I think...I think a lot. I think that I still am an absolute...
    MrC88 MrC88 22-25, M 14 Responses Jun 29

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    My depression was never as bad as most...I never felt so strongly that I had the guts to use a knife to cut and I never felt so strongly that I couldn't be persuaded that suicide...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    I've never really attributed the word 'depressed' to myself, but I suppose it fits. It's like, no matter what point I reach in my life, I just don't feel happy. Of course, there...
    Evanesce918 Evanesce918 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 11

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    Somedays are worse than others. Somedays I'm more frustrated than depressed. I think those are the days I'm closer to identifying what's wrong with me, so I guess those could be...
    CurioBabbit CurioBabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    The only thing I want in life is to fall in love. I could care less about anything else for I feel that if I am in love and she loves me nothing else matters. I am a nice guy and...
    bambam45 bambam45 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Loneliness is- if u have tried 100 social websites and found no friends. I feel unloved on every social site. I dont know why im here, i seek pitty and i get pitty but then they...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I have fought depression and loneliness since my ex fiancee cheated on me 3 years and I had to leave.
    IamMell IamMell 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I agree with everyone here. I am now 12 weeks post surgery for a full tear of my rotator cuff. It's more painful than the imagination. Simply indescribable and my heart goes out...
    NomadicMe NomadicMe 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 27

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    widevocation8051 widevocation8051 26-30, F Jul 3

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    I have been in a massive amount of pain for the last few days but this pain has been on and off for months now. I thought that maybe it was my posture or something but after doing...
    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I have had chronic back pain for about 3 years now. It used to hurt so bad sometimes I didn't want to move, just lay there eyes open wide. I tried everything, physiotherapy...
    jonacular jonacular 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I have crippling pain all the time. Sometimes it's two or more pains at once. Generally I have back pain, ankle pain, neck pain, wrist pain, headaches, and/or migraines.
    kat990 kat990 13-15 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I have been living with serious pain since I was 16. I was in a car accident where I was rear-ended by a car that was speeding. Since that day I have had chronic neck and lower...
    i4it4t i4it4t 36-40, M Jun 30

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    Kind of ironic, isn't it? The way we cut to stop pain. We inflict pain to forget pain. Trade emotional pain for physical pain because it's easier to take. But people don't see this...
    VolleyBallPrincess14 VolleyBallPrincess14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Just like three days grace says. Pain without love. Pain can't get enough. Pain I like it rough cause id rather feel pain than nothing at all. Could you imagine never feelingl...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    It's not that I want to die (not anymore...not since I started praying and trusting in myself and a higher power), but i just want the pain to stop. I know that one day, things...
    lunabyrd666 lunabyrd666 18-21 Jun 24

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    Rough morning --- rain coming --- and not enough time. Asked the young fellow working for me if he could paint the new foundation. About 800 sq ft. He seemed all about it and I...
    MaskedRascal MaskedRascal 36-40, M Jun 25