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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective.

    I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He became very indignant as I went on. He began to rant about my needs within the relationship. Reminding me of how many times Jake rejected me and...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    The Story Continues

    Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is cold and distant; the next he is loving and sweet. I have been a bit aloof myself at times, especially when he is being...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Back and Forth...

    ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to throw myself in his arms and be comforted. Though to be honest I don't know that he would be any comfort. This is a time...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak?

    I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find that my experiences include writing about the pain of loneliness. Which makes me wonder which is worse, the pain of being alone and unloved or having...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    Dumped Again And Again

    Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we went out - secretly because he was married but was separated for the past 7 years. He was indicating he will be trying for...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One

    So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down that he didn't, but he couldn't account for the incubation period. Things calmed down or so I thought and then he hit me with a bombshell...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    Please Tell Me What You Think.

    Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with my life and not justify my actions. Especially when my friends tell me that they are sure that I wasn't the only one out there...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst

    The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care. He acted like he did in the beginning, but now he acts like he could care less. I have no one to talk about this. It hurts so bad. I am so...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Heartbreak

    Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right after I had my baby in May we got kicked out of our house because of my husband, and ever since I have resented...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Another Day Of Loneliness

    Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes me long for days past, when there was someone there, someone I could call and even if they couldn't come over they would at least...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I'm the spouse with chronic pain. he has it too but not as severe as mine and our daughter does too. it's really hard and I feel useless. he doesn't make me feel that way. he's a...
    crazybipolarchick crazybipolarchick 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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    i had an appointment with my physiatrist yesterday and he basically said he can't help me anymore and has no more options in terms of treatment.... how do i get my mom to let me go...
    sweetiepee101 sweetiepee101 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of people telling me to get over it. "Just sleep it off, you won't be sad tomorrow." Depression isn't just about being sad. Sadness is about 15% of it. 35% is a mixture...
    DoneAnd0ver DoneAnd0ver 18-21, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I can't take all this pain, my boyfriend left me and came back and then said he likes someone else, I'm crying hard, I don't know what to do anymore I want to be with him but...
    depressedqueen12 depressedqueen12 16-17, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    If your period pain is really bad I recommend you try going on birth control. It really does help the majority of the pain. I use to be lying on the floor in the middle of the...
    JesusismySaviour JesusismySaviour 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm Sorry but love without pain?? I don't think it exists, for even when we are at our happiest in our lives, pain dwells within us .-. . Also, theres always to be pain when you...
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I am so accustomed to "pain", I grew used to it and loved feeling it. I don't do this to initiate a pity party and I don't do it for attention. I love making myself suffer in...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes the loneliness is crushing. I'm told that I'm pretty and that I have a great personality. Yet I'm alone. Sooo... yeah. I miss intimacy. I miss feeling special. I miss sex...
    kitakat00 kitakat00 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate this loneliness. I miss everyone
    Gina1993 Gina1993 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    How to Really Get Deep Pain Relief the Fastest #PainRelief , (http://luv2sex.theblogpress.com/?p=4387) Read on to find out How the Sun HEALS Your Pain and Allow You to Get Deep...
    how2stayyoung how2stayyoung 51-55, M a week ago

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    I am in strange feeling of heaviness... I don't want anyone and feel the load of pain in heart will stop my heart beat... I feel difficulty in breathing and even sitting alone...
    thinknew84 thinknew84 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    emotional pains leave scars that never fade. physical pain is temporary.
    amymayoral01 amymayoral01 51-55, F Jul 22

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    I am single for the first time in 4 years. I don't regret the relationship, I had so many good memories that I wouldn't trade for anything. With this new freedom, I discovered new...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 21

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    Sometimes the emotional pain is so debilitating that I punch myself on the leg. So that my body can feel the pain my brain and heart feel and I can get past the moment.
    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    As I drown in my loneliness, Loose time in the salt of my tears, I long and ache to feel just one loving caress, A kiss that fills my soul, until it erupts with passion. Loneliness...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme 41-45, F Jul 21

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    A song came on and it reminded me of every beautiful moment in a relationship that I would last forever. There's not a whole lot I wouldn't do to make you feel my love, its...
    wreckofagirl wreckofagirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    oh this sucks. i had a tumor removed from my bladder and the pain is getting bad! im wanting another pain pill but my brother wants me to hold off a few more hours. ugh i miss...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm not sure I even fight them. I live with them - the depression and the loneliness are part of me and I don't know how to change. I'm 23 years old. I graduated from a...
    Bradley004 Bradley004 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Nobody helps me ... i think it's the reason i am here. i just need to vent all my frustations, sadness, loneliness, suicide attempts, insecurities, no love... sigh... why do i have...
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 7 Responses Jul 18

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    I sure do know what real pain is. Real pain is my ongoing cluster headaches and the 4 wk long nightmare in hell of 24/7 Trigeminal Neuralgia. My kidney stones, gallstones and 47hrs...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 18 Responses Jul 17

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    Its just another day ending alone, everyone celebrating Eid .. After losing everything.. I spare extra hours at work ... Its continued pain
    thinknew84 thinknew84 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I fight my feelings of hurt, pain, used, fooled, cheated on, lied to, and heartbroken by my friends and ex boyfriend. If I let those negative feelings continue, I might go back to...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    almost 18, never had real friends which is very painful for me, and my only friend i was going out on weekends just found another people, not that he started to hate me but he has...
    AntonioMK AntonioMK 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I have for a long time now been alone and feeling the loneliness that comes with it. I've been fighting it on my own for a while, no one gives me the time of day and anytime I...
    CityWok88 CityWok88 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Why Far Infrared Heating is the Best for Painful Muscles? (http://luv2sex.theblogpress.com/?p=4369) Read on to learn why a far infrared heating pad provides a world of difference...
    how2stayyoung how2stayyoung 51-55, M Jul 15

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    Severe lower back pain has been a problem for years. I feel like at my age I shouldn't have to struggle just to finish household chores. My pain led to me losing my job two years...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15

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    I suck at painting. But I don't care. I use painting to express problems such as my mental illnesses; psychosis, ocd, depression, social phobia. I usually do abstract-ish paintings...
    zoesimonesays zoesimonesays 16-17, F Jul 14

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    How to Really Break the Thought-Pain Cycle Absolutely? #PainManagement, (http://luv2sex.theblogpress.com/?p=4367) You definitely can break the thought-pain cycle by making your...
    how2stayyoung how2stayyoung 51-55, M Jul 14

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    5 Really Awesome Helpful Steps for Painful Back Muscles #EaseBackPain, (http://luv2sex.theblogpress.com/?p=4363) Painful back muscles can occur when the muscles are being pulled...
    how2stayyoung how2stayyoung 51-55, M Jul 14

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    My hands hurt. That is the worst of it. My hands. They are always aching. It's like a constant dull ache in the joints. It's in the fingers and the wrists. It started in my left...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Often it's the ones who smile the most who hurt the worst... And I smile more often than I should to cover up the pain of my heart and soul shattering day after day...
    browncoat93 browncoat93 18-21, M Jul 11

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    I am 21, have endometriosis with severe pain. I had surgery to remove some ovarian cysts but the doctor said they will continue to grow. She gave me some time to try and have a...
    vmarie42494 vmarie42494 18-21 1 Response Jul 9

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