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I Am In Pain Loneliness Vs Heartbreak

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    Back and Forth...

    ...the see-saw sways. I get used to the idea of being alone, convincing myself I am better off that way. Then something like this hits and I would just like to throw myself in his arms and be comforted. Though to be honest I don't know that he would be any comfort. This is a time...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    The Story Continues

    Well Jake and I decided to continue in our current relationship as is, until I move at the end of August. It has been a roller coaster ride. One day he is cold and distant; the next he is loving and sweet. I have been a bit aloof myself at times, especially when he is being...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Jul 30, 2009

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    Which Pain Is Worse, Loneliness Or Heartbreak?

    I have always said that I could handle physical pain a lot better than emotional. Today I come here to unburden my heart and find that my experiences include writing about the pain of loneliness. Which makes me wonder which is worse, the pain of being alone and unloved or having...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    A Combination Is What Is The Worst

    The worst pain imaginable is dealing with loneliness and heart break. I had a friend and now my friend is not talking to me. He doesn't care. He acted like he did in the beginning, but now he acts like he could care less. I have no one to talk about this. It hurts so bad. I am so...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Heartbreak

    Ok so I just want to get other peoples opinion on what I am going through right now. First, i would like to say that I am married and have an 8 month old baby. Right after I had my baby in May we got kicked out of our house because of my husband, and ever since I have resented...
    skylarsmommy skylarsmommy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Please Tell Me What You Think.

    Ok, I have admitted that I was in the wrong and I got what I deserved when my boyfriend broke up with me. I have been doing my best to get on with my life and not justify my actions. Especially when my friends tell me that they are sure that I wasn't the only one out there...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    A Soap Opera If I Ever Heard of One

    So lots of things have happened. Jake came over in the middle of the night and I had it out with him about him cheating. He swears up and down that he didn't, but he couldn't account for the incubation period. Things calmed down or so I thought and then he hit me with a bombshell...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Sep 11, 2009

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    Dumped Again And Again

    Till I was 40, I had led a very sheltered life. I dated rarely and looked after my parents. Then a met a guy who said he loved me. I believed him and we went out - secretly because he was married but was separated for the past 7 years. He was indicating he will be trying for...
    draupadi draupadi 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2009

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    Another Day Of Loneliness

    Today, I was sick. No one to take care of me. No one to hold my hair back as my toes came out with my teeth. I hate days like this, because it makes me long for days past, when there was someone there, someone I could call and even if they couldn't come over they would at least...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Apr 29, 2010

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    A Good Friend Gave Me Some Perspective.

    I was talking to a friend of mine a little bit ago about the whole situation. Unloading on him my guilt and regret over my actions. He became very indignant as I went on. He began to rant about my needs within the relationship. Reminding me of how many times Jake rejected me and...
    augustrose augustrose 36-40, F Aug 7, 2009

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    I, for some reason, experienced a lifetime worth of heartbreak in the past year. It's the worst, heaviest, most constant pain Ive ever experienced, and im having a very hard time...
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    It hurt, yeah. Probably the deepest pain you will ever feel is losing your first love. Except I didn't just lose him, he lost himself. It was sad to see someone you were once to in...
    LorenFlower LorenFlower 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    So here is my story. It isn't easy to share because I am not only heart broken but also the source of heartbreak and I feel like a victim and like perpetrator at the same time. I...
    pickingdaisiesnow pickingdaisiesnow 31-35, F 1 Response May 10

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    I left a really great guy. :( He did nothing wrong.. Instead I was battling with my own issues of fear, depression, and wanting to be happy with myself. He had it all together. He...
    Mseducated18 Mseducated18 18-21, F 3 Responses May 13

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    In your loneliness and pain, you've created a nasty little imp for an imaginary friend, as many many people have, including me, and you listen to its stories about "rotten...
    WattDeFalk WattDeFalk 56-60, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I had one of those moments today...I sat in my room and just balled my eyes out everything that has happened to me comes rushing back and it hits me again why do I deserve this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 29

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    i have hidradenitis suppurativa. this horrible disease that has no cure. the pain is so bad i dont even want to live anymore. im tired of suffering daily and my husband and...
    htoure21 htoure21 31-35, F May 8

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    Your shoulder is injured but you can't do anything about it and now you are out partying it's starts to kick in (the pain I mean) and you just feel so useless overalls because you...
    E5RedViper E5RedViper 18-21, M May 9

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    Everyday is painful for me. Looking myself in the mirror is complicated for me because I do not see beautiful. It is difficult for me to love myself and being alone for 23 years of...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010 22-25, F 4 Responses May 13

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    I live in a tortured painful body,mind and soul. My heart aches from loneliness,my body aches from years of illness and injuries.I'm alive but as far as I'm concerned all I am is a...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response May 19

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    At some point, we all experience this, very painful.. Someone you thought will be till your old age leaves you in the middle of the journey... You can't do a lot but just move on...
    simplydbest simplydbest 22-25, M 3 Responses May 11

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    I thought I knew pain, in all its agony, its angles, edges. But heart-break is whole other ball game. By falling in love with someone, I not only put their happiness first, but I...
    Tearystar1027 Tearystar1027 18-21 May 12

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    Heartbreak is terrible,it changes a person from this sweet person to this evil person. People shouldn't play with others emotions.
    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F May 11

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    I've experienced it shortly after expericing betrayal. All of my significant others have left me for others and yet I'm always described as "the best girlfriend" I'm told...
    Mintleafcookie Mintleafcookie 22-25, F 1 Response May 11

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    Do you really know what that is, it is neither a failure relationship nor to lose a heart of someone, it is something entirely different and far crueller than that, it is a lost...
    umayyad umayyad 31-35, M 1 Response May 17

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    We all fight depression and loneliness. We all can help each other. Like myself I suffer from depression and loneliness on a daily basis. I know its hard its very ******* hard. We...
    Eastroller Eastroller 18-21, M 1 Response May 11

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    its a pain inside out...cant breathe at times...
    thinknew84 thinknew84 26-30, F 1 Response May 11

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    For months I've gone back and forth. I no longer fear death. My biggest fear at the moment is continuing to live in this dreadful existence. I have already planned my escape. I'm...
    Dade34 Dade34 22-25, M 3 Responses May 14

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    I want to have family and friends that love you no matter what and listen and hear your pain and your joy. I want to feel welcome in a room and missed when I'm gone. I want to be...
    dreamrgrl79 dreamrgrl79 26-30 1 Response May 15

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    May we awake every morning relishing a few moments warm secure and depression-free, before painful memories return to change us back to that less-healthy state. I fight depression...
    WattDeFalk WattDeFalk 56-60, T 3 days ago

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    My medication ain't helping and I feel so alone, so isolated I can't trust anyone around me, no one understands me I just wish I had someone who won't judge me be it my mental...
    neeb1234 neeb1234 18-21, M 6 Responses May 4

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    Was I right to end it?? I broke up with my girlfriend because it was to much stress but now I'm back to the loneliness. Can't sleep don't want to eat not producing at work when...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 4

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    Am 27 today.... I look back at the last 27yrs of my life is there is one thing I regret the most is not dying at child birth before my first cry cos am too weak for suicide, I have...
    mioboy mioboy 26-30, M 3 Responses May 11

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    sometimes I react to things by getting angry. its a defense mechanism to guard of the loneliness within. it also works by pushing people away. I obviously regret losing my temper...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 18

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    Right so I am 29 years old and coming up on 30. I haven't had a real relationship before (had 1 gf who was on a rebound i reckon when i was 19) and I have no luck with dating and...
    Roadkill8386 Roadkill8386 26-30, M 2 Responses May 19

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    I am lonely and depressed all the time. I havent had a girlfriend since 2nd grade and ive never kissed a girl let alone had sex im 21... the comfort i do find is with anime or...
    twiztidrob93 twiztidrob93 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate to feel lonely ... I hate sleeping by myself I want someone to hold me .. love me... care for me the way I would care for them.. it has become a daily routine put on your...
    littletab littletab 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have always felt unhappy since was a teenager and that people around me did not understand me. I had friends, of course, but most of them were not the sort of friends that I...
    lonelywriter2015 lonelywriter2015 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Let me get straight to the point. Love is painful. It is no other way. It cannot be changed. It is pain in love. People turn the world upside down seeking for someone to love...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F May 2

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    I have felt the worst pain I've ever felt. How could this be more painful than anything else I've ever experienced in my life?.. More painful than my dad having a mini-stroke...
    MissNexp MissNexp 26-30, F May 10

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