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I Am In The Process Of Getting Over A Heartbreak

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 390 People

    Girlfriend Of 9 Months Left Me After I Left For Training In The United States

    Im from Singapore.. been together with my current gf YX for nearly 9 months before i had to be deployed overseas for training. I would be gone for about a year and a half. My relationship with YX was pretty topsy turvy. She seem to always thought we had a frequency problem whilst...
    Aaronleesg Aaronleesg 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    So I get over one guy

    that I'd been stuck on for MONTHS, that I never thought I'd stop loving. I endure so much pain, lose so many people through that heartbreak and I finally get over it. But a few hours later another guy's got to come along. He hits me up, we meet up and go to the mall on a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 19, 2014

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    Just lost the love of my life

    because he thinks he doesn't love me anymore.
    Hurtingboy Hurtingboy 26-30, M May 29, 2015

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    The guy I've been seeing

    for a while now has been "busy" lately. Just the other day he said that he couldn't hang out bc he was with one of his friends. He's always with this guy and I know him so it doesn't bother me at all bc I'm glad he can be with his friends. He said he would talk to me later. So...
    marieflorence109 marieflorence109 26-30, F Feb 20, 2015

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    4 1/2 year relationship we've been married

    for about 5 months and separated. We are at the point where one minute we love each other like crazy then the next hateful mean and screaming and yelling. We both have been married previously and have 3 teenagers at home. He has lied so many times and not just normal lying I...
    colealica1779 colealica1779 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    hannahdhoover hannahdhoover 16-17, F Jan 29, 2014

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    We went out a little over a year

    and broke up Friday, so you could say the cut is still fresh. He was my longest relationship and I honestly thought he was going to be the one. Then again I'm still young so what do I know. We moved in together six months after dating and honestly it has got to be one of the...
    anitamigna anitamigna 18-21, F Sep 23, 2014

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    Truly Trapped.

    I am trying to get over a relationship with someone who has been my best friend first and a boyfriend later. I haven't been able to stand his dominating ways of late. I thought i could change him, but I was wrong. How could things go so terribly wrong? I feel so wounded. And he...
    trapped21 trapped21 26-30, F 4 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Time Has Passed

    Here i am again but this time things are diffrent for me. I have been through alot since i last posted here and to be honest I can say I have moved on. I haven't been in a relationship since my ex but i have come a long way since then. The pain and longing I felt because of her...
    Jboy67 Jboy67 22-25, M Apr 27, 2013

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    SJS15 SJS15 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Difficult Situation

    I have got myself into a difficult situation, and I don't see any acceptable way out. First some background, I have always held 2 core values, for as long as I can remember: 1) Be a man: Be self-reliant, help others more than you are helped, don't allow yourself to be a burden...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Ten Years

    It was ten years and gone in less than ten minutes. It hurts.
    Dayzed Dayzed 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2010

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    So Confused...

    I actually don't want to describe this sort of heartbreak I've been feeling because I just find it too complicated & confusing...But, yeah, I'm in a process of trying to move on from someone who I have no idea likes me or doesn't like me back, but it doesn't matter. He has a gf...
    SeraphicSoul SeraphicSoul 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Been 4 months and I still feel pain.

    Some days are really bad, but I think I am finally having progress. When my internet was turned back on, I usually stalk his Facebook and see if he was on. But today, I didn't want to or cared to look at it. It might not seem like much, but after he broke my heart and...
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2015

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    I am still angry at him.

    I want an sincere apology. What he has done, will always affect me. Yet, he acts as if he doesn't give two *****. I want to **** him up, but I'm trying to move on.
    lovethybey lovethybey 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2015

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Two)

    Sometimes it’s Necessary to Throw Salt in the Wound Chemically speaking, table salt consists of two basic elements: sodium and chlorine. By themselves, these two components are potentially dangerous. Sodium will ignite if it comes into contact with water, and chlorine is...
    suej1212 suej1212 51-55, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I have been single for 3 months

    and I still love my ex! I've tried to talk to other guys but none of them compare to him. The only reason we broke up is because I found out he's my 4th cousin. We didn't grow up together so We didn't know.
    A0038 A0038 18-21, F May 11, 2014

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Three)

    You Have To Let Go Of the Shells to Reach the Starfish There are times in our lives when we truly love something or someone so much we cannot imagine our life without it. This holds true whether it is our favorite old sweatshirt, the one we got in college that, over the years...
    suej1212 suej1212 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Nikki978 Nikki978 18-21, F Apr 9, 2014

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    Just when I think I am over her,

    and then I realise how much I miss her still. I guess the worst thing was losing her as a friend. The break up I can handle, but losing her friendship was harder.
    YokoOnosVision YokoOnosVision 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    Some days are good and some days are bad.

    I'm kind of afraid of loving again but I really want to fall in love. I'm scared of giving my heart to someone that will break it. When you are in love with someone is so difficult to see that they aren't good for you because you want to believe that they are even if you know...
    American19 American19 18-21, F Oct 4, 2015

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    Just figured out my crush,

    he's a senior, grade 12. That he have a girlfriend lol. Its okay :') really.........................:'''')
    sabrinabryn sabrinabryn 13-15, F Aug 5, 2015

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    The Pain Of Acceptance

    I am a bisexual woman married to a great guy. At 44 I unexpectedly fell in love with a 19 year old woman. Before that I'd had no idea about my unconventional sexuality. She and I were madly in love but I could not leave my family for her. As wonderful as our relationship was it...
    broadwayplease broadwayplease 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Today a boy I thought was cute took a double

    take at me. I quickly turned away, though. I was shy...and nervous. Nothing new about that. I dressed nicely today, my makeup was perfect, and my hair was pin straight. Wish you could've seen me. But you didn't text me today. You didn't text me for a month now. Is it weird that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    It's been 3 1/2 months

    since he left me and, boy, has it been a ride. But I think I'm finally starting to make some progress and I feel like it's real this time. I don't see him as much in the things he liked. I don't think about him quite as much or get anxious and think of how things could've been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2013

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    I'm finding so hard to move on from my

    heartbreak it's been a year and I still feel so much for him I just dunno how to feel me again. I feel so broken and empty. I dunno will it get any easier? I just need some hope tht things will get better..I just feel so alone
    brooky123 brooky123 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19, 2015

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    and it feels pretty damned good (most of the

    time). Getting back to me... Woot!
    canthinkofanything canthinkofanything 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2015

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    Idk how good I'm doing to get over it

    but I'm trying. My boyfriend always tries to convince me that he loves me and I give my everything to him bc I love him with everything I have but then he goes and hurts me and tries to apoligize and say how much he thinks about me and how much he loves me again. It feels good...
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2014

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    Things Are Getting Better

    The process is hard, but here are a few things I have learned I need to do everyday to keep spirits higher: 1. get dressed, even if you aren't going anywhere. Staying in pajamas added to depression. 2. Make the bed, it adds order to the room 3. pick up clothes off the floor...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I am single and I think this will be the case

    for a while. I have had too many bad experiences with a variety of a-holes and hurtful people. Even the guys that didn't mean it, they still hurt me. I like to go out. Love to dance and meet and talk. However lately I haven't even had the motivation to hook up with anyone. I...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2014

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part One)

    Break-ups are never easy. Whether you’re the one who did the dumping or the one who was dumped, there’s nothing worse than the feeling of emptiness when you realize you’re alone. In any break-up, there are two parties; the one who is leaving and the one who is being left...
    suej1212 suej1212 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2013

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    My girlfriend left me last October.

    Her reason was that she was too busy getting ready for college. It's been at least half a year and it still feels like yesterday. I still have feelings for her and every time I see her in school it's like breaking up all over again.
    sentenial sentenial 18-21, M Apr 13, 2015

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    I am picking myself back up

    after heartache. Nothing like accepting and reinvention.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24, 2015

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    I'm At The Mercy Of My Feelings

    I called my girlfriend five weeks ago and she said she didn't love me anymore. We were together for three years, and over the course of one week she simply abandoned me. She was the obsessive type, I had talked to her on the phone almost every night since I had met her. She...
    dklarosa dklarosa 18-21 2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    its so hard to move on from a break up

    if your significant other is your bestfriend and colleague.. i cant mingle with my frendz bcoz it reminds me of all the happy memories together.. i cant work properly bcoz we spend most of the time discussing about our profession.. and every inch of my home reminds me of him.. i...
    Psyche09 Psyche09 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2015

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    Crazy that we were only seeing each other

    for two months, never an exclusive couple, haven't seen each other in several months....yet I'm still so far from over it. Maybe it's because he was my first--after 22 years of absolutely nothing, that's a pretty big deal. He's truly despicable, and I know that all he cared...
    rlc91 rlc91 22-25, F Mar 26, 2014

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    10 years since we were 17.

    .. how do you finally move on after giving a person chance after chance after chance... if anyone knows the answer, please tell me... I feel useless.
    CharlotteTeller CharlotteTeller 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2015

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    I don't know even know

    where to start getting over this person. she made me feel amazing and made me happier than I did ever. we agreed it was too hard to continue it but doesn't stop me wanting it but cause I know it won't happen how do I gets those thoughts and wants out of my head.
    cmbryan316 cmbryan316 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    It's hard to fall in love with someone

    who never looks at you the same way.
    Zuperaim Zuperaim 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Your Ghost.....

    I watch you walk by in a vague memory Reminders of days that once used to be You loved me so boldly and gave me such hope Now living without you, I'm trying to cope I realize today my life with you was a dream The world once so certain falls apart at the seam For a time I was...
    suej1212 suej1212 51-55, F Nov 8, 2013

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