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I Am In The Process Of Getting Over A Heartbreak

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    Your Ghost.....

    I watch you walk by in a vague memory Reminders of days that once used to be You loved me so boldly and gave me such hope Now living without you, I'm trying to cope I realize today my life with you was a dream The world once so certain falls apart at the seam For a time I was...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Nov 8, 2013

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    The Pain Of Acceptance

    I am a bisexual woman married to a great guy. At 44 I unexpectedly fell in love with a 19 year old woman. Before that I'd had no idea about my unconventional sexuality. She and I were madly in love but I could not leave my family for her. As wonderful as our relationship was it...
    broadwayplease broadwayplease 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    So I get over one guy

    that I'd been stuck on for MONTHS, that I never thought I'd stop loving. I endure so much pain, lose so many people through that heartbreak and I finally get over it. But a few hours later another guy's got to come along. He hits me up, we meet up and go to the mall on a...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Jan 19

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    It Gets Easier To Handle...

    well.. I am not very good with talking about feelings. Everything else is really easy since I love bitching about all kinds of things, but feelings.. It just feels really weird to talk about it even when they are intense. But here I go..This has been my first 'real' relationship...
    robertnovak robertnovak 26-30, M Jul 2, 2012

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    Truly Trapped.

    I am trying to get over a relationship with someone who has been my best friend first and a boyfriend later. I haven't been able to stand his dominating ways of late. I thought i could change him, but I was wrong. How could things go so terribly wrong? I feel so wounded. And he...
    trapped21 trapped21 26-30, F 4 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Maybe This Will Work

    I've been obsessing over a break-up for almost three months now. It isn't healthy. BUT, I am finally getting over it (I think...fingers crossed)! All I have to do is replay this one particular song over and over and over until it gets on my nerves. If I get tired of listening to...
    mysticwaters mysticwaters 18-21 1 Response May 26, 2013

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    Things Are Getting Better

    The process is hard, but here are a few things I have learned I need to do everyday to keep spirits higher: 1. get dressed, even if you aren't going anywhere. Staying in pajamas added to depression. 2. Make the bed, it adds order to the room 3. pick up clothes off the floor...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Nights Like These.

    I hate nights like this one. I starts off good and it seems to keep rolling like that all night I get stoned and just start looking at how good I truly have cause my has been and could be way worse but then it hits me, everything it took to get here and how many people were hurt...
    Jboy67 Jboy67 22-25, M Jul 24, 2012

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    So Confused...

    I actually don't want to describe this sort of heartbreak I've been feeling because I just find it too complicated & confusing...But, yeah, I'm in a process of trying to move on from someone who I have no idea likes me or doesn't like me back, but it doesn't matter. He has a gf...
    SeraphicSoul SeraphicSoul 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Recently

    Yeah, so Short version: Young, stupid, thought I was in love with my best friend. We've been dating the last six months, and Had our first kiss yesterday (my birthday). When she told me she loved me, and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. We were planning on waiting...
    Caleb8D Caleb8D 18-21, M 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    Ten Years

    It was ten years and gone in less than ten minutes. It hurts.
    Dayzed Dayzed 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2010

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    Best Friends Not Bf/gf

    In the begging of 9th grade my bff, "Keri" wanted to know more abt this guy in our class named "Casey". So I was the one to get to know him. Keri had moved away right after I was getting to know Casey. After being around him for a while i fell in love with him and became his only...
    kelliepicklerfan kelliepicklerfan 18-21 Jul 27, 2010

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    Nikki978 Nikki978 18-21, F Apr 9

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    Lost, Confused And Broken.

    So I use to be in love with this girl named Tessa. She was my world, but she was scared of relationships but she always told me she loves me and all that mushy stuff, well i told her i love her too. About a week ago she just stopped talking to me just like that. It broke my heart...
    musiclove737 musiclove737 16-17, F Apr 4, 2012

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Three)

    You Have To Let Go Of the Shells to Reach the Starfish There are times in our lives when we truly love something or someone so much we cannot imagine our life without it. This holds true whether it is our favorite old sweatshirt, the one we got in college that, over the years...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Girlfriend Of 9 Months Left Me After I Left For Training In The United States

    Im from Singapore.. been together with my current gf YX for nearly 9 months before i had to be deployed overseas for training. I would be gone for about a year and a half. My relationship with YX was pretty topsy turvy. She seem to always thought we had a frequency problem whilst...
    Aaronleesg Aaronleesg 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Two)

    Sometimes it’s Necessary to Throw Salt in the Wound Chemically speaking, table salt consists of two basic elements: sodium and chlorine. By themselves, these two components are potentially dangerous. Sodium will ignite if it comes into contact with water, and chlorine is...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I'm At The Mercy Of My Feelings

    I called my girlfriend five weeks ago and she said she didn't love me anymore. We were together for three years, and over the course of one week she simply abandoned me. She was the obsessive type, I had talked to her on the phone almost every night since I had met her. She...
    dklarosa dklarosa 18-21 2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    hannahdhoover hannahdhoover 13-15, F Jan 29

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    It's been 3 1/2 months

    since he left me and, boy, has it been a ride. But I think I'm finally starting to make some progress and I feel like it's real this time. I don't see him as much in the things he liked. I don't think about him quite as much or get anxious and think of how things could've been...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Difficult Situation

    I have got myself into a difficult situation, and I don't see any acceptable way out. First some background, I have always held 2 core values, for as long as I can remember: 1) Be a man: Be self-reliant, help others more than you are helped, don't allow yourself to be a burden...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I am single and I think this will be the case

    for a while. I have had too many bad experiences with a variety of a-holes and hurtful people. Even the guys that didn't mean it, they still hurt me. I like to go out. Love to dance and meet and talk. However lately I haven't even had the motivation to hook up with anyone. I...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Time Has Passed

    Here i am again but this time things are diffrent for me. I have been through alot since i last posted here and to be honest I can say I have moved on. I haven't been in a relationship since my ex but i have come a long way since then. The pain and longing I felt because of her...
    Jboy67 Jboy67 22-25, M Apr 27, 2013

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part One)

    Break-ups are never easy. Whether you’re the one who did the dumping or the one who was dumped, there’s nothing worse than the feeling of emptiness when you realize you’re alone. In any break-up, there are two parties; the one who is leaving and the one who is being left...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Aug 13, 2013

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    One Day At A Time

    Hi everyone, I am happy I found this website to tell my story and find others that are going threw the same things as me. So with that being said I am going to share my short story. Ever since I was younger I never had a "real relationship". Only friendships and sex. I finally...
    luckshoney luckshoney 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Crazy that we were only seeing each other

    for two months, never an exclusive couple, haven't seen each other in several months....yet I'm still so far from over it. Maybe it's because he was my first--after 22 years of absolutely nothing, that's a pretty big deal. He's truly despicable, and I know that all he cared...
    rlc91 rlc91 22-25, F Mar 26

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    My Husband Left Me

    It has been about two months now since my husband has left me. I am depressed on a daily basis and I can not manage to get him out of my heart and my head. All I ever do is think about him. We have 6 beautiful children together and he hasnt bothered to spend any time with them. I...
    MzDiva32 MzDiva32 31-35, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F Mar 24

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    so in like February I was dating this guy [we'll call him James] and at first I reallyyyy liked him. a lot. then when we started dating, it was cool at first. but then he started...
    mahogany2136 mahogany2136 13-15, F Apr 7

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    little by little your grasp on me is getting looser
    aabostwick aabostwick 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Ok ... I'm gonna be honest (chukle) Yes I look strong.. and I am brave lol... thats true... But.. inside I am weak, sensitive, and vulnerable... yes just like a ballon hahaha :p...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I woke up this morning..... and I didn't go looking for you... After the 3rd cup of coffee I realized.. I don't need you anymore.. Maybe I never did. Then I opened the window The...
    Ariannabella Ariannabella 31-35, F Mar 20

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    The worst part of your past, is living with the scars that scare you away from even wanting to get back on the horse, or let someone in... cj.
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can Honestly say, I'm almost 100% back to my old self :) listening to same old songs, talking to everyone about anything lol, and most important... I HAPPY :D
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I am having such a hard time getting over my last relationship. I met him online, on Facebook out of nowhere. We started hanging out, and things started to get more intense. He...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M Mar 20

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    My one spanking from grandma. My maternal grandfather was a Baptist preacher, and my grandma was a teacher. They raised my mom strictly with spankings through her teens, and were...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I am so sad and scared about the future for myself and my kids because I have come to the realization that I need to file for divorce from my husband of almost 14 yrs. I am...
    tornandhurt tornandhurt 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 25

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    I want to find the perfect guy. However to find the perfect guy I needed to experience the guy who I thought way "the perfect guy" but turn out to be an a**hole I met this guy...
    aliceS96 aliceS96 16-17, F Mar 29

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    i'd like to go back in time and start over again because i have done so many mistakes i wish i could do this but i know i cant,if it was like that then first thing i wanted to...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    So I'm just going to go on a little rant here (it's a bit long)...there are just some things I need to get out and I don't really have anyone to talk to that would understand..any...
    ashh7 ashh7 18-21, F Mar 23

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    You treated me like a princess and my love for you grew stronger as each day passes it was really strong until one day, you left me hanging I was invisible to you but I waited...
    amaiamai amaiamai 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Life was good! simple! And i was happy! A new semester started at high school and this new kid had joined! No one really cared but Eventually he stared liking one of my best...
    lisamarie26 lisamarie26 22-25, F Apr 3

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    It's been two weeks since I've heard your voice. It's been longer since I've seen you. You would think I would be used to it but the truth is it gets harder everyday. Who tells...
    RBH101 RBH101 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    From the time I got pregnant weve been argueing he didnt even want me having our child he tried to pay me to have an abortion and then when my child was born thats when he grew...
    laqquita21 laqquita21 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    i dated the girl i am in love with 6 years ago. i screwed up. i left her for another girl who ended up cheating on me more than once. i left the cheating girl to get back with the...
    MrScrewUp94 MrScrewUp94 18-21, M Mar 25

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    My ex broke my heart, I can't seem to get over her. It's like I can't do anything any more I'm really really anxious it gets hard for me to breathe and my heart beats so fast. She...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I am trying to give up processed foods. It hasn't been too difficult thus far but luckily I have a great support partner. Processed foods is almost impossible to get completely out...
    erh11 erh11 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I knew amicable wasn't going to be able to happen. My STBX has already reneged on our first arrangement. Immediately went to see my attorney to set things in motion to stop his...
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