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I Am In The Process Of Getting Over A Heartbreak

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    So I get over one guy

    that I'd been stuck on for MONTHS, that I never thought I'd stop loving. I endure so much pain, lose so many people through that heartbreak and I finally get over it. But a few hours later another guy's got to come along. He hits me up, we meet up and go to the mall on a...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Jan 19

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    Your Ghost.....

    I watch you walk by in a vague memory Reminders of days that once used to be You loved me so boldly and gave me such hope Now living without you, I'm trying to cope I realize today my life with you was a dream The world once so certain falls apart at the seam For a time I was...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Nov 8, 2013

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    Truly Trapped.

    I am trying to get over a relationship with someone who has been my best friend first and a boyfriend later. I haven't been able to stand his dominating ways of late. I thought i could change him, but I was wrong. How could things go so terribly wrong? I feel so wounded. And he...
    trapped21 trapped21 26-30, F 4 Responses May 28, 2013

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    The Pain Of Acceptance

    I am a bisexual woman married to a great guy. At 44 I unexpectedly fell in love with a 19 year old woman. Before that I'd had no idea about my unconventional sexuality. She and I were madly in love but I could not leave my family for her. As wonderful as our relationship was it...
    broadwayplease broadwayplease 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Ten Years

    It was ten years and gone in less than ten minutes. It hurts.
    Dayzed Dayzed 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2010

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    Best Friends Not Bf/gf

    In the begging of 9th grade my bff, "Keri" wanted to know more abt this guy in our class named "Casey". So I was the one to get to know him. Keri had moved away right after I was getting to know Casey. After being around him for a while i fell in love with him and became his only...
    kelliepicklerfan kelliepicklerfan 18-21 Jul 27, 2010

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part One)

    Break-ups are never easy. Whether you’re the one who did the dumping or the one who was dumped, there’s nothing worse than the feeling of emptiness when you realize you’re alone. In any break-up, there are two parties; the one who is leaving and the one who is being left...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Aug 13, 2013

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    hannahdhoover hannahdhoover 16-17, F Jan 29

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    So Confused...

    I actually don't want to describe this sort of heartbreak I've been feeling because I just find it too complicated & confusing...But, yeah, I'm in a process of trying to move on from someone who I have no idea likes me or doesn't like me back, but it doesn't matter. He has a gf...
    SeraphicSoul SeraphicSoul 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Difficult Situation

    I have got myself into a difficult situation, and I don't see any acceptable way out. First some background, I have always held 2 core values, for as long as I can remember: 1) Be a man: Be self-reliant, help others more than you are helped, don't allow yourself to be a burden...
    MrWinstonSmith MrWinstonSmith 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    I'm At The Mercy Of My Feelings

    I called my girlfriend five weeks ago and she said she didn't love me anymore. We were together for three years, and over the course of one week she simply abandoned me. She was the obsessive type, I had talked to her on the phone almost every night since I had met her. She...
    dklarosa dklarosa 18-21 2 Responses Dec 15, 2012

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    Crazy that we were only seeing each other

    for two months, never an exclusive couple, haven't seen each other in several months....yet I'm still so far from over it. Maybe it's because he was my first--after 22 years of absolutely nothing, that's a pretty big deal. He's truly despicable, and I know that all he cared...
    rlc91 rlc91 22-25, F Mar 26

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    Lost, Confused And Broken.

    So I use to be in love with this girl named Tessa. She was my world, but she was scared of relationships but she always told me she loves me and all that mushy stuff, well i told her i love her too. About a week ago she just stopped talking to me just like that. It broke my heart...
    musiclove737 musiclove737 16-17, F Apr 4, 2012

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    Nights Like These.

    I hate nights like this one. I starts off good and it seems to keep rolling like that all night I get stoned and just start looking at how good I truly have cause my has been and could be way worse but then it hits me, everything it took to get here and how many people were hurt...
    Jboy67 Jboy67 22-25, M Jul 24, 2012

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    It Gets Easier To Handle...

    well.. I am not very good with talking about feelings. Everything else is really easy since I love bitching about all kinds of things, but feelings.. It just feels really weird to talk about it even when they are intense. But here I go..This has been my first 'real' relationship...
    robertnovak robertnovak 26-30, M Jul 2, 2012

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    It's been 3 1/2 months

    since he left me and, boy, has it been a ride. But I think I'm finally starting to make some progress and I feel like it's real this time. I don't see him as much in the things he liked. I don't think about him quite as much or get anxious and think of how things could've been...
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Dec 30, 2013

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    Nikki978 Nikki978 18-21, F Apr 9

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    One Day At A Time

    Hi everyone, I am happy I found this website to tell my story and find others that are going threw the same things as me. So with that being said I am going to share my short story. Ever since I was younger I never had a "real relationship". Only friendships and sex. I finally...
    luckshoney luckshoney 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Maybe This Will Work

    I've been obsessing over a break-up for almost three months now. It isn't healthy. BUT, I am finally getting over it (I think...fingers crossed)! All I have to do is replay this one particular song over and over and over until it gets on my nerves. If I get tired of listening to...
    mysticwaters mysticwaters 18-21 1 Response May 26, 2013

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    I have been single for 3 months

    and I still love my ex! I've tried to talk to other guys but none of them compare to him. The only reason we broke up is because I found out he's my 4th cousin. We didn't grow up together so We didn't know.
    A0038 A0038 18-21, F May 11

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    Things Are Getting Better

    The process is hard, but here are a few things I have learned I need to do everyday to keep spirits higher: 1. get dressed, even if you aren't going anywhere. Staying in pajamas added to depression. 2. Make the bed, it adds order to the room 3. pick up clothes off the floor...
    happyadventurer happyadventurer 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Time Has Passed

    Here i am again but this time things are diffrent for me. I have been through alot since i last posted here and to be honest I can say I have moved on. I haven't been in a relationship since my ex but i have come a long way since then. The pain and longing I felt because of her...
    Jboy67 Jboy67 22-25, M Apr 27, 2013

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    My Husband Left Me

    It has been about two months now since my husband has left me. I am depressed on a daily basis and I can not manage to get him out of my heart and my head. All I ever do is think about him. We have 6 beautiful children together and he hasnt bothered to spend any time with them. I...
    MzDiva32 MzDiva32 31-35, F Dec 16, 2012

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    Recently

    Yeah, so Short version: Young, stupid, thought I was in love with my best friend. We've been dating the last six months, and Had our first kiss yesterday (my birthday). When she told me she loved me, and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. We were planning on waiting...
    Caleb8D Caleb8D 18-21, M 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Three)

    You Have To Let Go Of the Shells to Reach the Starfish There are times in our lives when we truly love something or someone so much we cannot imagine our life without it. This holds true whether it is our favorite old sweatshirt, the one we got in college that, over the years...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2013

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    Getting My Heart Broken (Part Two)

    Sometimes it’s Necessary to Throw Salt in the Wound Chemically speaking, table salt consists of two basic elements: sodium and chlorine. By themselves, these two components are potentially dangerous. Sodium will ignite if it comes into contact with water, and chlorine is...
    suej1212 suej1212 46-50, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I am single and I think this will be the case

    for a while. I have had too many bad experiences with a variety of a-holes and hurtful people. Even the guys that didn't mean it, they still hurt me. I like to go out. Love to dance and meet and talk. However lately I haven't even had the motivation to hook up with anyone. I...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Idk how good I'm doing to get over it

    but I'm trying. My boyfriend always tries to convince me that he loves me and I give my everything to him bc I love him with everything I have but then he goes and hurts me and tries to apoligize and say how much he thinks about me and how much he loves me again. It feels good...
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Girlfriend Of 9 Months Left Me After I Left For Training In The United States

    Im from Singapore.. been together with my current gf YX for nearly 9 months before i had to be deployed overseas for training. I would be gone for about a year and a half. My relationship with YX was pretty topsy turvy. She seem to always thought we had a frequency problem whilst...
    Aaronleesg Aaronleesg 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2, 2013

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    Met him through a friend, we had incredible chemistry after met couple of times. I had never expected myself would have an affair and especially with a man apparently isn't even...
    crossingroad crossingroad 26-30, F Jul 1

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    Those instances where my husband will come up n "pretend" to care that he loves me, gives me a kiss, whatever. He doesn't enough so why would it matter otherwise? Whatever it took...
    lonelysara1211 lonelysara1211 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I found out my husband had been having an affair and I left him. I had no desire to pursue anything with anyone else, because I knew I was vulnerable, & that I was still...
    RayMizae RayMizae 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    We all have good days and bad days. Unfortunately this is a bad day... I lost my best friend a year and a bit ago and it's been REALLY HARD. But you just got to push through it...
    TheMusician4231 TheMusician4231 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend cheating on me. I moved to Seattle and fell in love with my only friend there. He separated from his wife because she...
    marieash marieash 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    It has been a long, long time. Since the incident. You would know what I am talking about if you go back to my first post ever. I am finally able to not think about it every day...
    TAMBlitz TAMBlitz 13-15, M Jul 2

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    Talking to an ex boyfriend. He was my first lover, but he's not good for me at all. I know I shouldn't be talking to him, but I just can't see myself ever getting over him.
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F Jul 18

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    My boyfriend was out of town on the day of my birthday, when he got back (two weeks later) he promised he would make it up to me. So i agreed and he planned this whole night and it...
    HashtagBells HashtagBells 22-25, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I meet many people either in person or online and the one thing I like to do is get to know them. The most amazing thing about meeting people is the process of getting to know them...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I recently went through my first heartbreak.. And it's killing me.
    athleticnerd athleticnerd 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    My bf just recently broke up with me (sunday night) to be specific, and i posted here bfre that i was having a hard time moving on. But now day by day i manage to wake up with less...
    nickisteph nickisteph 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I over analyze everything and over think everything. My sister often tells me; for me to make a decision on something I have to consult congress. I envy people who can just make...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    as it happens again, I get scared. Not of the loss I am experiencing, not of the missed chance of actual happiness, or her smile that use to give me a physical feeling of...
    xavis xavis 26-30, M Jul 14

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    Well after months and months that then pass by. The depression, anxiety, stress and other stuff. I'm actually in the process of getting things together in my life now. The people...
    BressonX8 BressonX8 18-21, M Jul 3

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    For a while, whenever I got stuck in stressful situations, I would just turn off my thought process until they passed. I think it's also a meditation technique but I would simply...
    spenerish spenerish 22-25 Jul 2

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    I can watch elf every day. ELF is the movie. It's funny and it's Christmassy. Who doesn't like Christmas movies.. I take elf over any other Christmas movie
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Everyday i am feeling fatter, my goal for now is to be 400lbs, i am not far off this but what would speed up the process of reaching my goal?
    Joannegainer93 Joannegainer93 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 2

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    Maybe it's the anxiety disorder, but i flip out over everything. I have crazy thoughts and process every possible or impossible way of things going terribly wrong at every moment...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 13

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    i got spanked on fourth of july in front of family us kids were setting off fireworks which was really fun then i started fighting with derrick and he was being a d*** daddy and...
    Tygersilk Tygersilk 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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