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I Am Incredibly Lonely

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    I Really Do Feel Alone..

    Okay to get this off my chest.. thanks. okay uhh..   when i was 13.. i was bullied. to the point where i didnt wanna live anymore. i started cutting myself until a teacher found out in school and called my parents. dad didnt speak for three days, had mom crying.. as it...
    LawRaJayne LawRaJayne 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Im So Lonely

    I cant make good friends or get into a relationship and I don't know why. I am a nice person I'm smart and friendly, but i always get ignored.
    stunbomb stunbomb 18-21, M Jul 4, 2013

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    I'M That Girl

    that tries to tell herself that she doesn't need a relationship to be happy, but no matter how much a try to convince myself, i still can't shake the feeling of being alone forever. i have never had a boyfriend and I'm 18, its actually really humiliating , i go out with my...
    sabby21 sabby21 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    How Did I Get To This Point?

    I haven't been on a date in 3 years. 3 years. I'm in my early 20's--life should be at my fingertips, but everything is just slipping through them instead. I'm not returning to school to finish my degree, my home life...my goodness, my parents hate each other; my sister is 3...
    krisskriss krisskriss 22-25 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    I feel like loneliness is consuming my insides.

    It's at the point where I can't really feel much of anything else. I want a girl to hold and kiss and just love, but it's impossible. Everyone's always too willing to say "you'll find her eventually", but nobody's ever willing to be her. It destroys me so much that I just want...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    I Am Very Lonely

    And I am attending the wrong world. I very easily befriend, I used to very easily trust people. Most people abuse this. That is why I am now very lonely - I need people, and I need them for real, but I can never ever believe or trust anybody. Been...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 3 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Meh

    I am all alone, and I only have myself to blame. I alienated all of my friends, pushing them aside time after time. This is what I wanted? I am not sure why. I don't want to 'talk about it' with them but I really wish I still had the option. I would give anything to just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    I really hate being alone at school

    and at home. At school, my "friends" exclude me in any way possible and rub it in my face that I wasn't invited to anything over the weekend. At home, I am tortured with the thought of my friends having so much fun without me. I try to do stuff on my own, but my parents always...
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 2 Responses May 27

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    Can somebody pick me up to have -S-E-X- message

    me if you can drive to me. If you live in the New Jersey or that area message me Im 18 my names ally message me if your interested ; D
    nightOwl130 nightOwl130 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Thats All It Was...

    A peck on the cheek...that is how it started and that is how many other things unraveled and ended too. Yesterday was the best I have felt in a long time. I was finally feeling really good about myself, good about my outlook on it, the direction it was heading and the people I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    Friendz

    I always had good friends near me throughout my life.Now I'm in a situation all friends are left me for on their own life and to fill up their responsibilities.Though the FB and and other networks are connecting us, its differ from being together... Hi fives...punches..nudges...
    shri85 shri85 22-25 Jun 20, 2012

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    Older Love

    seems the older you get the harder to find a person to spend your life with that has some idea about living life with our going to bars and being drunk
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2011

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    Very

    It seems no matter what I try, I still end up alone. I try to stay in contact with people one way or another and they always end up not speakng to me for one reason or another. The last person I was tIalking to recently stopped contacting me because she is part of this group I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jun 8, 2012

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    Thoughts

    Just feeling amazingly sad and lonely right now.... I've had these feelings, an inevitable sadness, for a long time since I began to feel really depressed around junior high. And it's been years since then, but I've been sad a lot... Feelings of depression have came on and off...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    My Own World, No One Is Inside It But Me.

    I must be truly mad. I am so incredibly alone, but I don't try to meet anyone. I am so painfully seperated from the world around me, but I don't try to belong. I cry every day, feeling feelings of crushing despair, and occasionally, psycotic rage. My mother thinks I am Bi...
    AnarcistNutter AnarcistNutter 26-30 12 Responses Jan 19, 2008

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    A Whole New Level

    loneliness has always been with me ..... i guess its just one of the cards i was dealt but this is a whole new level of it. I used to go to sleep with it ....but always had a hope that it wouldnt be like that anymore one day....cause i would have you....and that would always...
    Astory4supper Astory4supper 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    No Friends....

    I haven't had a friend in 9 years. A few weeks ago, a cute boy at work said I was pretty and would like to do something, but his calls and texts have ended, now he doesn't even look at me. Anywhere I go everyone is chatting, but I am never included. If I try to comment, I just...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Feeling Lost...

    It's not healthy to have zero friends, which is exactly what I have. I use to visit family all the time and we'd all hang out together. I am talking about grandmothers and cousins and aunts and uncles....now that never happens except Christmas... I had friends who I could talk...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    I hate being so alone.

    There could be people in the same room as me, but I'm still lonely :( feels like I have no one, especially no one caring in my life. Everyone's so selfish.
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Hour Of Darkness...

    i really am all alone, i spend endless days sat in front of this computer with nobody around for love or support, i feel like life is pointless and wonder if this is how things should be , i have no money i am on the sick,why is life so damn tough , i feel helpless and envy the...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 4 Responses May 18, 2012

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    No One

    My mum went into depression when I was around eleven, after Shaun ran away because he couldn't stand how everyone treated him. It was the hardest time of my life and I devoted myself to standing by my mum. She got better but then my anorexia spiralled out of control. My mum is...
    wordhustler95tb wordhustler95tb 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    I'm lonely, I can't get a girlfriend and i have been lonely for years and don't know how many more years I will be lonely
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    people come and do their checks to see that i am still breathing. they try and talk to me they try and 'connect' with me but its all fake. i am not their. i think i checked out a...
    systemslut systemslut 26-30, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm married an it's over an I'm looking for love cause I'm lonely
    Brad501 Brad501 31-35, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Ehh... Well lonelyness. Something i have been feeling for quiet a few years now. Being alone every single day, not haveing any friends at all too talk or interact with. Think the...
    litelroy litelroy 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm used to being lonely, and people like to make a big deal about it. They say I shouldn't have to be used to it. Maybe they're right, but just because I shouldn't have to be used...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    It seems like in those hours when no one is talking to me and I'm alone with my thoughts that's when I feel like I am incredibly alone. When all I can think about it not being here...
    SpecialKind SpecialKind 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    There was a cyclist killed in my neighborhood on Friday. The community responded with a "meeting/memorial ride." I attended because I was deeply moved (I saw the body in the street...
    lilsnackmoney lilsnackmoney 26-30, F Jul 20

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    At 12 I started to notice a mood and personality change and have chalked up my sadness, mood swings, lack of interest, and inconsistent insomnia to near comatose states to being a...
    Bobbyckat Bobbyckat 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Gravitonas - People Are Lonely ft. Army of Lovers Life is a rollercoaster life is a rattlesnakeLost in a crowded place people are lonelyLife is a kitschy poster life is a massive...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I on the other hand, have wrapped my arms all around these couple precious times which i can squander my ideas around the rolling waves, devote my time counting the measures till I...
    Burtctk215 Burtctk215 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    The Cape Town Wine location begins about twenty five km away from Cape Town near Durbanville and Bellville. The map underneath reveals all the main spots which can be A part of the...
    Darrickexp Darrickexp 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Every day I notice more and more how little I have in common with the people around me. I feel so isolated. Almost as if I am a pigeon between a group of parrots. We all get...
    AnomalousEarthling AnomalousEarthling 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm lonely and I admit I'm the one at fault. I always thought I was merely being picky with people. I used my introvert personality as an excuse as to why I only have a few close...
    GreyMatter1 GreyMatter1 70+, F 6 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm not lonely for friendship, emotional intimacy, shared laughter, or sweetness. I'm lonely for physical intimacy - not just sex, per se, but the feeling of being desired by...
    Screenwriter66 Screenwriter66 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I see a lot of folk's on here write about how lonely they are,(now I'm not a Doctor), but I feel loneliness is a state of mind After my wife passed, I was very lonely, I would sit...
    sweetcharlene41 sweetcharlene41 70+, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    To all of the lonely feeling people out there. I myself feel lonely quite often. I have found somewhat of a cure in bicycle riding. I can just ride for hours out there, plus it's...
    UnclesGiraffe UnclesGiraffe 41-45, M Jul 20

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I have always been that friend. The one that you love to keep around because you know they'll always be there. That friend that will listen to all your problems, stick up for you...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder and anxiety. I finally went to the mental hospital, two times in a three month period, after an attempted suicide and a lot of...
    heapograss heapograss 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 26

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    My life has always been lonely thou I was born alone without nothing in life but god gave me family thou in tht family I'm never involved .. Before I used to go everywhere with...
    Maha123k Maha123k 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Am lonely...no because am alone or have no one around me..hell I get lonely even when am out clubbing with my friends..the main reason as to why am lonely is because am afraid of...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    I feel utterly depressed, because I do feel lonely most of the time. I think it began when I had a disagreement with my parents 2 years ago. I tried writing a letter which I have...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Aug 10

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    I am alone in a world filled with people. I have a mask that protects me, saves me, from the criticism and judgments of others. I have a whole in me that reaches far beyond my...
    AlluringDarkness AlluringDarkness 18-21, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yup. Just that. I'm lonely. I want to feel loved by someone. I want to know how it feels to be kissed. To be touched. To be needed by someone...to be loved. Just that. And as...
    ibak12 ibak12 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Growing up as an only child with two full time working parents, feeling lonely is the norm for me so even when I try to reach out to people, I still always end up feeling as lonely...
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 21

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    Hi.I am so lonely and depressed right now. 7 months ago I met a girl.I got to get her with her.I was for the first time happy I have always been lonely and depressed for crying...
    spidergrrr spidergrrr 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I get this lonely feeling too often and it makes me lose focus on other stuff. I have friends, very good friends who are always there to help and hang out, but I still get lonely...