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I Am Incredibly Lonely

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    My Own World, No One Is Inside It But Me.

    I must be truly mad. I am so incredibly alone, but I don't try to meet anyone. I am so painfully seperated from the world around me, but I don't try to belong. I cry every day, feeling feelings of crushing despair, and occasionally, psycotic rage. My mother thinks I am Bi...
    AnarcistNutter AnarcistNutter 26-30 12 Responses Jan 19, 2008

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    Feeling Lost...

    It's not healthy to have zero friends, which is exactly what I have. I use to visit family all the time and we'd all hang out together. I am talking about grandmothers and cousins and aunts and uncles....now that never happens except Christmas... I had friends who I could talk...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    I Am Very Lonely

    And I am attending the wrong world. I very easily befriend, I used to very easily trust people. Most people abuse this. That is why I am now very lonely - I need people, and I need them for real, but I can never ever believe or trust anybody. Been...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 3 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Meh

    I am all alone, and I only have myself to blame. I alienated all of my friends, pushing them aside time after time. This is what I wanted? I am not sure why. I don't want to 'talk about it' with them but I really wish I still had the option. I would give anything to just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    Friendz

    I always had good friends near me throughout my life.Now I'm in a situation all friends are left me for on their own life and to fill up their responsibilities.Though the FB and and other networks are connecting us, its differ from being together... Hi fives...punches..nudges...
    shri85 shri85 22-25 Jun 20, 2012

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    How Did I Get To This Point?

    I haven't been on a date in 3 years. 3 years. I'm in my early 20's--life should be at my fingertips, but everything is just slipping through them instead. I'm not returning to school to finish my degree, my home life...my goodness, my parents hate each other; my sister is 3...
    krisskriss krisskriss 22-25 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Thats All It Was...

    A peck on the cheek...that is how it started and that is how many other things unraveled and ended too. Yesterday was the best I have felt in a long time. I was finally feeling really good about myself, good about my outlook on it, the direction it was heading and the people I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    I'M That Girl

    that tries to tell herself that she doesn't need a relationship to be happy, but no matter how much a try to convince myself, i still can't shake the feeling of being alone forever. i have never had a boyfriend and I'm 18, its actually really humiliating , i go out with my...
    sabby21 sabby21 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    I feel like loneliness is consuming my insides.

    It's at the point where I can't really feel much of anything else. I want a girl to hold and kiss and just love, but it's impossible. Everyone's always too willing to say "you'll find her eventually", but nobody's ever willing to be her. It destroys me so much that I just want...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Thoughts

    Just feeling amazingly sad and lonely right now.... I've had these feelings, an inevitable sadness, for a long time since I began to feel really depressed around junior high. And it's been years since then, but I've been sad a lot... Feelings of depression have came on and off...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    Hour Of Darkness...

    i really am all alone, i spend endless days sat in front of this computer with nobody around for love or support, i feel like life is pointless and wonder if this is how things should be , i have no money i am on the sick,why is life so damn tough , i feel helpless and envy the...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 4 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Very

    It seems no matter what I try, I still end up alone. I try to stay in contact with people one way or another and they always end up not speakng to me for one reason or another. The last person I was tIalking to recently stopped contacting me because she is part of this group I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jun 8, 2012

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    Im So Lonely

    I cant make good friends or get into a relationship and I don't know why. I am a nice person I'm smart and friendly, but i always get ignored.
    stunbomb stunbomb 18-21, M Jul 4, 2013

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    I really hate being alone at school

    and at home. At school, my "friends" exclude me in any way possible and rub it in my face that I wasn't invited to anything over the weekend. At home, I am tortured with the thought of my friends having so much fun without me. I try to do stuff on my own, but my parents always...
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 2 Responses May 27

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    A Whole New Level

    loneliness has always been with me ..... i guess its just one of the cards i was dealt but this is a whole new level of it. I used to go to sleep with it ....but always had a hope that it wouldnt be like that anymore one day....cause i would have you....and that would always...
    Astory4supper Astory4supper 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    Older Love

    seems the older you get the harder to find a person to spend your life with that has some idea about living life with our going to bars and being drunk
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2011

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    No One

    My mum went into depression when I was around eleven, after Shaun ran away because he couldn't stand how everyone treated him. It was the hardest time of my life and I devoted myself to standing by my mum. She got better but then my anorexia spiralled out of control. My mum is...
    wordhustler95tb wordhustler95tb 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    No Friends....

    I haven't had a friend in 9 years. A few weeks ago, a cute boy at work said I was pretty and would like to do something, but his calls and texts have ended, now he doesn't even look at me. Anywhere I go everyone is chatting, but I am never included. If I try to comment, I just...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    Can somebody pick me up to have -S-E-X- message

    me if you can drive to me. If you live in the New Jersey or that area message me Im 18 my names ally message me if your interested ; D
    nightOwl130 nightOwl130 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    I hate being so alone.

    There could be people in the same room as me, but I'm still lonely :( feels like I have no one, especially no one caring in my life. Everyone's so selfish.
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I Really Do Feel Alone..

    Okay to get this off my chest.. thanks. okay uhh..   when i was 13.. i was bullied. to the point where i didnt wanna live anymore. i started cutting myself until a teacher found out in school and called my parents. dad didnt speak for three days, had mom crying.. as it...
    LawRaJayne LawRaJayne 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    I spend about 90% of my time by myself at the moment. It's odd because I am uncomfortable around almost everyone and yet crave human contact at the same time. Sometimes I'll just...
    thenewboy87 thenewboy87 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I'm so incredibly lonely. It's gotten to the point where I can not stand the thought of being left alone anymore, most of the time I enjoy being by myself but lately it's gotten...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    Well yea , I'm 18 white male , I'm short ....lol like 1.6m and really lonely I found a girl couple days ago and we been chatting a lot lately and I really like her , I kinda fell...
    h3lldriv3n h3lldriv3n 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    Never felt so lonely before, had good news but doesn't know who to share with. So guys, hey I'm going to Macau next week for vacation I guess ! :D ! ! Cheers for me ! 😍
    Malsse Malsse 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    It hurts, it truly hurts mentally and physically and I can't take it. Even if in a crowd of people I am lonely I have no one and I'm Pretty sure no one would want me.
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Im so lonely and bored and exhausted all the time. Im a pretty positive person and i love being happy. I have a friend though, who i love dearly, but he just brings me down a lot...
    thekittykat thekittykat 13-15, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Mental Olympics. That's what my therapist told me I am doing every day trying to hold my marriage together. That it takes every ounce of my energy to hold it together. I am...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    I sit in my room listening to music or watching a movie and I pretend that someone is there talking to me and I'll talk back and sometimes they're a significant other and I'll...
    LittleBlackSubmarine LittleBlackSubmarine 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I am lonely, but only a little bit. I think that it's good to be lonely sometimes. When you're lonely you learn to work through things yourself and what you actually like without...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I appreciate these stories, and was looking to post on one of them. However, many of the men and women seem to be young; with children. Mine are grown up or almost there: 20 and 17...
    missingtranslation missingtranslation 46-50, F 8 Responses Sep 13

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    Lonely lonely lonely lonely
    Thelonaziso Thelonaziso 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    Do you know that time when you just start to think. "The time passed me by so fast and in this time, here and now, I'm still is lonely". I think I'm lonely since I remember myself...
    1plum 1plum 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't always feel lonely, but it does hit me sometimes on the weekends when I see couples or groups of people having fun and laughs on a patio. Mostly I enjoy my solitary...
    meggerz14 meggerz14 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    I love being alone, but I never signed up for being lonely. I'm surrounded by people, yes. But I don't have anyone, whom I feel truly understood and accepted by. I have someone to...
    Lindadk Lindadk 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I have my precious baby girl with me who I take care of daily and I love. My house is always loud and never empty but I just can't help but to feel lonely. After my last...
    Chelsea21216 Chelsea21216 18-21, F Sep 7

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    Don't even know why i am doing this, but here it goes. I am 22 year old guy, who had his share of sorrow trough most of my life. My first memories as child are of my grandfather...
    TheLostSoulTravaler TheLostSoulTravaler 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I am married and was lonely, but I have met someone on here that has made me rethink the lonely. Not as lonely as I was by far.
    oriolesfan464 oriolesfan464 46-50, M 7 Responses Sep 11

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    My boyfriend is always on his phone talking to other people on Facebook or on xbox live playing cod. Im sick of that. I swear its like he'd rather talk to anyone else in the whole...
    sadsadduck sadsadduck 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    For a little while I thought my loneliness was gone forever, needless to say I was a bit too optimistic. After being in a relationship for almost five years now I have come to...
    4four2twenty0 4four2twenty0 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Feelings lonely. But then I always feel lonely even when in a room full of people. I guess maybe I just want someone to talk to.
    dreamslayer1313 dreamslayer1313 26-30, M Sep 1

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    Disclaimer: not looking for a friend here. I just need to vent. Lately I've been so lonely. My father passed away so I moved out of town with my boyfriend and his family. He never...
    AnonymousDabbler AnonymousDabbler 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I feel so lonely ive got loads of friends and my family around me but i stll feel lonely why is this
    philm79 philm79 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Iv'e noticed a lot of people on here sad and lonely, people of all age's. My wife passed away suddenly Jan. 2013, and I'm sad and lonely to, but I try not to let it get the better...
    sweetcharlene41 sweetcharlene41 70+, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Hey guys this is sort of a rant/me needing some advice. So school just started, and it’s been alright so far. Last year, I stopped being friends (like stopped talking or...
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I am very buse but feeling is lonely lonely
    hotiscull hotiscull 31-35, M Sep 9

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    I am so lonely that it is depressing. All of my free time is spent lousy in thought and where those thoughts go scares me. I know that if I were to die tonight then the pain of...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    I am so lonely that it is depressing. All of my free time is spent lousy in thought and where those thoughts go scares me. I know that if I were to die tonight then the pain of...