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I Am Incredibly Lonely

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    Thoughts

    Just feeling amazingly sad and lonely right now.... I've had these feelings, an inevitable sadness, for a long time since I began to feel really depressed around junior high. And it's been years since then, but I've been sad a lot... Feelings of depression have came on and off...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    I Really Do Feel Alone..

    Okay to get this off my chest.. thanks. okay uhh..   when i was 13.. i was bullied. to the point where i didnt wanna live anymore. i started cutting myself until a teacher found out in school and called my parents. dad didnt speak for three days, had mom crying.. as it...
    LawRaJayne LawRaJayne 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    How Did I Get To This Point?

    I haven't been on a date in 3 years. 3 years. I'm in my early 20's--life should be at my fingertips, but everything is just slipping through them instead. I'm not returning to school to finish my degree, my home life...my goodness, my parents hate each other; my sister is 3...
    krisskriss krisskriss 22-25 1 Response Aug 23, 2013

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    Older Love

    seems the older you get the harder to find a person to spend your life with that has some idea about living life with our going to bars and being drunk
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2011

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    I feel like loneliness is consuming my insides.

    It's at the point where I can't really feel much of anything else. I want a girl to hold and kiss and just love, but it's impossible. Everyone's always too willing to say "you'll find her eventually", but nobody's ever willing to be her. It destroys me so much that I just want...
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Im So Lonely

    I cant make good friends or get into a relationship and I don't know why. I am a nice person I'm smart and friendly, but i always get ignored.
    stunbomb stunbomb 18-21, M Jul 4, 2013

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    Meh

    I am all alone, and I only have myself to blame. I alienated all of my friends, pushing them aside time after time. This is what I wanted? I am not sure why. I don't want to 'talk about it' with them but I really wish I still had the option. I would give anything to just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    No One

    My mum went into depression when I was around eleven, after Shaun ran away because he couldn't stand how everyone treated him. It was the hardest time of my life and I devoted myself to standing by my mum. She got better but then my anorexia spiralled out of control. My mum is...
    wordhustler95tb wordhustler95tb 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 19, 2012

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    I hate being so alone.

    There could be people in the same room as me, but I'm still lonely :( feels like I have no one, especially no one caring in my life. Everyone's so selfish.
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Feeling Lost...

    It's not healthy to have zero friends, which is exactly what I have. I use to visit family all the time and we'd all hang out together. I am talking about grandmothers and cousins and aunts and uncles....now that never happens except Christmas... I had friends who I could talk...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Friendz

    I always had good friends near me throughout my life.Now I'm in a situation all friends are left me for on their own life and to fill up their responsibilities.Though the FB and and other networks are connecting us, its differ from being together... Hi fives...punches..nudges...
    shri85 shri85 22-25 Jun 20, 2012

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    I'M That Girl

    that tries to tell herself that she doesn't need a relationship to be happy, but no matter how much a try to convince myself, i still can't shake the feeling of being alone forever. i have never had a boyfriend and I'm 18, its actually really humiliating , i go out with my...
    sabby21 sabby21 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    Hour Of Darkness...

    i really am all alone, i spend endless days sat in front of this computer with nobody around for love or support, i feel like life is pointless and wonder if this is how things should be , i have no money i am on the sick,why is life so damn tough , i feel helpless and envy the...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 4 Responses May 18, 2012

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    No Friends....

    I haven't had a friend in 9 years. A few weeks ago, a cute boy at work said I was pretty and would like to do something, but his calls and texts have ended, now he doesn't even look at me. Anywhere I go everyone is chatting, but I am never included. If I try to comment, I just...
    SweetPea87 SweetPea87 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 10, 2011

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    I really hate being alone at school

    and at home. At school, my "friends" exclude me in any way possible and rub it in my face that I wasn't invited to anything over the weekend. At home, I am tortured with the thought of my friends having so much fun without me. I try to do stuff on my own, but my parents always...
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 2 Responses May 27

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    Very

    It seems no matter what I try, I still end up alone. I try to stay in contact with people one way or another and they always end up not speakng to me for one reason or another. The last person I was tIalking to recently stopped contacting me because she is part of this group I...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Jun 8, 2012

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    Can somebody pick me up to have -S-E-X- message

    me if you can drive to me. If you live in the New Jersey or that area message me Im 18 my names ally message me if your interested ; D
    nightOwl130 nightOwl130 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Thats All It Was...

    A peck on the cheek...that is how it started and that is how many other things unraveled and ended too. Yesterday was the best I have felt in a long time. I was finally feeling really good about myself, good about my outlook on it, the direction it was heading and the people I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29, 2012

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    A Whole New Level

    loneliness has always been with me ..... i guess its just one of the cards i was dealt but this is a whole new level of it. I used to go to sleep with it ....but always had a hope that it wouldnt be like that anymore one day....cause i would have you....and that would always...
    Astory4supper Astory4supper 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    My Own World, No One Is Inside It But Me.

    I must be truly mad. I am so incredibly alone, but I don't try to meet anyone. I am so painfully seperated from the world around me, but I don't try to belong. I cry every day, feeling feelings of crushing despair, and occasionally, psycotic rage. My mother thinks I am Bi...
    AnarcistNutter AnarcistNutter 26-30 12 Responses Jan 19, 2008

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    I Am Very Lonely

    And I am attending the wrong world. I very easily befriend, I used to very easily trust people. Most people abuse this. That is why I am now very lonely - I need people, and I need them for real, but I can never ever believe or trust anybody. Been...
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 3 Responses May 10, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm so incredibly lonely. It's gotten to the point where I can not stand the thought of being left alone anymore, most of the time I enjoy being by myself but lately it's gotten...
    ThatDarnKatz ThatDarnKatz 16-17, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I spend about 90% of my time by myself at the moment. It's odd because I am uncomfortable around almost everyone and yet crave human contact at the same time. Sometimes I'll just...
    thenewboy87 thenewboy87 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Do you know that time when you just start to think. "The time passed me by so fast and in this time, here and now, I'm still is lonely". I think I'm lonely since I remember myself...
    1plum 1plum 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I'm lonely. I have beautiful friends and family, but I'm still lonely. I have an amazing little boy, who teaches me things about humanity every day, but I'm still lonely. I am...
    rainbowdolohin rainbowdolohin 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    Suddenly i feel the fever and all i wish is a good porridge. But im alone so i literally crawl to my bed drink medicine and shiver. In my mind, how lonely i could be? If i die...
    tagosworld tagosworld 31-35, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Feeling so lonely...I don't understand why when I feel this lonely I subconsciously isolate myself even more. Is there anyone out there I can talk to?
    TheSimpleButterfly TheSimpleButterfly 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 mins ago

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    I Am Feeling Really Lonely & Slowly My Close Ones Are Drifting Away 😨
    KiranDee7 KiranDee7 16-17, F 7 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Why can't people help eachother. I would stay up all night, dedicate my life to a person that was lonely. Why can't there be people to do that for me! Why do I have to be the one...
    Victoe123 Victoe123 13-15, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Hi. How can I express these feelings? Who will understand what does it mean to struggle with yourself, with who and what you are. Loneliness is like a cracking hammer that is...
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    It really sucks when your with someone and you still feel so utterly lonely. I have no friends, can't seem to connect with anyone; Let alone myself. I have this almost longing to...
    Lifelover38 Lifelover38 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I Love being alone, like reading books, listening to music, eating alone, just chilling out. But I realize I don't like being lonely... people with their kids, boyfriends, and...
    Famestar10 Famestar10 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Thanks God, I have everything in my life: family, good friends and beauty. I feel lonely and depressed, though. And I think this is because there has been any boy who really loves...
    sumela sumela 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I just cried for the first time in years. It was good I guess to get it all out of my system but at the same it was extremely painful to feel all the hurt and sorrow inside of me...
    Ladida91 Ladida91 22-25, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I've always been lonely since I'm a child. No brothers or sisters, parents divorced. Sometimes I feel I have to hear something, anything but silence. So I just turn on the TV, I...
    PaleRaven PaleRaven 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I found the love of my life but he left me not because he doesn't love me anymore but because we live far away and school work is a big thing for him this year an he feels that he...
    Vienna488 Vienna488 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Mental Olympics. That's what my therapist told me I am doing every day trying to hold my marriage together. That it takes every ounce of my energy to hold it together. I am...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 1

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    I sit in my room listening to music or watching a movie and I pretend that someone is there talking to me and I'll talk back and sometimes they're a significant other and I'll...
    LittleBlackSubmarine LittleBlackSubmarine 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 9

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    I am lonely, but only a little bit. I think that it's good to be lonely sometimes. When you're lonely you learn to work through things yourself and what you actually like without...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well, im lonely.. But not lonely lonely, but lonely.. I heard someone said to me (an friend that i spoke to online) That she said that that she was sure that i had a lot off love...
    kraken1122 kraken1122 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 28

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    Lonely girl Is what I see When I look in the mirror Deep inside those tearful eyes A Lonely soul is staring back at me Lonely girl Can't you smile a little? A lonely world Full...
    smilethepainaway smilethepainaway 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    I appreciate these stories, and was looking to post on one of them. However, many of the men and women seem to be young; with children. Mine are grown up or almost there: 20 and 17...
    missingtranslation missingtranslation 46-50, F 7 Responses Sep 13

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    I see this image of a little fat 8 year old boy waiting outside his friends family home. He's lonely, very lonely . He's waiting there for hours , looking at the bedroom curtains...
    piscean1965 piscean1965 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    10 Tips on How to Work Through Feelings of Social Isolation: 1. Stop comparing your life to the lives of others. Absolutely everything you “know” about others is based on...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Lonely lonely lonely lonely
    Thelonaziso Thelonaziso 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    Without the constant rummaging of hormones through my veins, I am suddenly left not feeling compelled to live my life through a social channel.... If the last few weeks of my life...
    99hello99 99hello99 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't always feel lonely, but it does hit me sometimes on the weekends when I see couples or groups of people having fun and laughs on a patio. Mostly I enjoy my solitary...
    meggerz14 meggerz14 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    I love being alone, but I never signed up for being lonely. I'm surrounded by people, yes. But I don't have anyone, whom I feel truly understood and accepted by. I have someone to...
    Lindadk Lindadk 18-21, F