I Am Insecure About Myself

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    I believe that my boyfriend will leave me

    because I'm not skinny enough
    misachantakuni misachantakuni
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    Hello, My name is Nicole,

    i have been a psychic since i was 15 years old, i have been helping people with there love lifes, finance’s, Jobs, and just being there for there everyday coaching, a lil about me that you should know … i always give the 100% truth no sugar coating at all, i dont like to...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole
    26-30, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    Self Doubt.

    I know noone should be insecure about themselves. everyone is to some point though, no matter how much they try. I try so hard not to be, but it doesn't do much good. I still am. I know I'm not the hottest girl on the planet. Wouldn't want to be. but sometime it would be...
    UndeniablyConfused UndeniablyConfused
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Dec 18, 2008

    Insecurities about my body are not really

    that major but have been around for quite sometime now. I am a bit overweight for my height and I have always been a bigger guy, particularly in the my later years of high school. Being overweight doesn't really bother me too much personally, I can cope with the extra kilos...
    DJMonstaaMasher DJMonstaaMasher
    18-21
    Mar 16

    Everyone has their insecurities,

    so do I, but i spend time trying to hide them. I dont like being perceived as weak, an insecure little girl with issues. I don't want to be seen that way, although sometimes I wish I did. I feel so lonely sometimes and I'm stuck with this voice in my head always judging me...
    LoveAlwaysRoses LoveAlwaysRoses
    18-21
    Mar 30, 2014

    I am very insecure I don't think I make others

    feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga
    31-35, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    I Hate It!!

    I have always been very insecure about my self. I dont know why i feel that way, but its so hard to control. I have really tried to change been insecure about my self, because i feel like it has been affecting my relationships. I really hate been so insecure i just wish i didnt...
    cynthiaeliza cynthiaeliza
    22-25, F
    Aug 14, 2011

    yeah, and even more when I realized everyone is

    better when I'm not in their life...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    Feeling Ugly

    I've always had issues, from anxiety to family to trust but I feel my worst issue is my insecurity. "You're pretty", "Why are you even worrying about that?" "Get over it" and more things similar to the previously listed. I don't know what exactly started the insecurity. I mean I...
    SilentInsecurities SilentInsecurities
    18-21
    Aug 29, 2012

    I am very insecure I don't think I make others

    feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga
    31-35, F
    Jul 23, 2015

    Like really really bad & I hate it

    when my family makes fun of something I'm the most insecure about....
    Queennnnnnn Queennnnnnn
    16-17, F
    Dec 3, 2014

    Whenever I'm on Instagram

    or tumblr I somehow come across supermodels or just extremely attractive people and I know it's easy to just say "avoid social networking sites" but it's not that simple. it's almost like an addiction to remind yourself that you'll never look like them. Torturing yourself...
    lifecanbebeautiful lifecanbebeautiful
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    I've never had a lot of confidence.

    I just always assume I'm not good enough.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 29, 2015

    It's Starting To Affect My Friendships

    My girlfriend and i were together for a year, we were deeply in love (or at least i was) and even discussed our future together numerous times. One day however, i caught her cheating on me, and if that wasnt enough i then had to find out through one of my friends who she was...
    benith benith
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2012

    I struggle with low confidence

    and low self esteem, but I'm definitely trying to put in the effort to build it all up again. I tend to compare myself with others, which I think happens naturally with everyone. One thing I'm learning is that it really is damaging. It's hard to stop, but it's extremely damaging...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I feel so disconnected from everything around

    me. I feel stagnant, like my life is still and not going in any kind of direction. I will be 18 this month, and it's my senior year of high school. I'm freaking out. I want to finish this year on a good note, and I want things to change in my life, but I feel a little hopeless...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2015

    I hate to see the other girls at school.

    I'm flabby and chubby. while other are flat and thin. They have nothing to worry about but their hair. And how I worry about my weight and hair and my appearance too. How I tried to look pretty and dress better, no matter what I do. They're always better looking. I wish they had...
    pomtonic1109 pomtonic1109
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 30, 2014

    Grrr..

    I haven't been this insecure in years; since high school.  I finally found away to love myself, without a care of my appearance.  I found people were more genuinely attracted to me when I was secure and loved myself.  I have moved to a new town recently, had a...
    megpan megpan
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2010

    I am insecure because everyone expects me to me

    "perfect, nice, and other stuff" but I can't be myself everyone is so judgemental..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    From Failure To Fruitful

    Often our plans fail that God's plans for us may succeed. - Ellen G. White I have had many so called "good" ideas or plans that failed and it turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I have also had experiences in my life that appeared to be a complete failure and turned...
    girl4god girl4god
    36-40, F
    Mar 2, 2012
    SilverSapphireDragon SilverSapphireDragon
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 1

    My manager once said to me there is a

    differenxe between having confidence and having self-confidence. It made me think alot. I am a very confident person, always have been, probably always will be. But when it comes to self confidence I have very little. For example, on a night out I would be the first person on...
    tileesi tileesi
    26-30, F
    Oct 16, 2015

    But I never project my insecurities onto other

    people, and make them feel bad.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 22, 2015

    I Don´t Know How Not To Doubt Myself

    I need serious help. This thing is affecting me to much already here's the thing: I don't trust myself, I doubt my capabilities and that makes me super shy. I have no issues making friends, in fact I usually take the first step... ok but, I can't talk to a receptionist or to...
    candrea candrea
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2012

    Even though i have some others tell me how good

    of a person I am, it's hard because I see so many other people in life who are truly happy. Who have not let life bring them down. I hate myself for the choices i made and i feel even though i help a lot of others, it's not enough. What good is it if I can't find a way to help...
    EternityF EternityF
    26-30, F
    Jul 24, 2015

    I hate feeling like I'm behind.

    I know that I'm still very young, and I have a lot of growing up to do, but sometimes I feel like I need to have myself together, or that I should've had myself together long ago. Everyone seems to be coasting through life so easily. Getting jobs, getting their license, getting...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    I am and it is starting to damage my

    relationship but I can't seem to get myself out of the spiral. She shows me she's loves me and wants to be with me but I am still a secret I understand her reasons for this but I can't get it out of my head I want to be part of her life and help and support her. So when she goes...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    There are times when i just feel good

    and a single thing ruin it and it triggers all of my insecurities. Even though i talk to myself that i should be thankful and think about the less fortunate children than i am, i still can't get rid of this insecurities that i have. I always feel that there are a lot out there...
    DauntlessWallflower DauntlessWallflower
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 13, 2014

    A Sad and Lonely Place

    I have little or no self-confidence when it comes to relationships. I have really big commitment issues. I'm unusually shy which makes it difficult to make any friends. I don't have very many and I spend most of time alone. I don't have any special talents. I don't excel at...
    typicalamerican typicalamerican
    18-21
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2008

    The Green Eyes

    I, like many of us, have moments of insecurity. However, my moments are not few and far between, no no. The feelings come when I wake up, through the day, in the evening, when I go to bed, and in my dreams. I have always been shy at first, until I get comfortable, but even then...
    SilentScreams66 SilentScreams66
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2011

    What Helped Me

    "When doubts filled my mind, your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer." Psalm 94:19I am writing this today for everyone reading this who deep down feels less than, who feels like they might not be somehow "eligible" for healing and blessings, who feel like God is there for...
    girl4god girl4god
    36-40, F
    Feb 24, 2012

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