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I Am Insecure In My Marriage

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    Hey All, I'm brand new here...but thought i'd try it all out. I'm newly married. 24 years old and 9 months pregnant with our first child. I've known my husband for two years and been with him for a year and a half. He is wonderful to me, my best friend, my number one fan...
    1sttymemommy 1sttymemommy 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    Hi everyone, I guess I'm a refuser, and I found this forum because my partner has told me about how she's been reading these postings for solidarity. She says that when I touch...
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    Ive been an insecure person basically all my life. It's horrible how insecure I've been. I've been working on it and I think I'm getting better but I still have a long way to go I...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    I feel insecure about so much pretty much a the time. I always have. I hate feeling so insecure. It's messing up my life
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    I really do. I'm not the prettiest girl in the world and I'm okay with that. I love who I am and how I look. I still have my days though. I look in the mirror and wonder "why am I...
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    I'm so insecure that it just destroys every relationship I have...... :/
    hsch212 hsch212 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Everyone thinks I'm this confident strong woman but deep inside, but I'm so insecure because of my relationship. My husband has had a past of cheating and flirting with random...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 20

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    I'm really insecure about some parts of my body, I get really jealous of other girls that at some points I have looked into surgery, the only reason I haven't is because of the...
    rainbowmuffins rainbowmuffins 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 20

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    very insecure . I've been called fat && ugly non stop .....
    depressiontookover depressiontookover 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Yeah she's pretty don't get me wrong and I pull in the guys. But deep down I am insecure about myself it got so bad that avoid looking in mirrors. It's hard to not want to cry when...
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I bring myself down way too easily but i can't help it, i'm so insecure about everything
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 26

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    My boyfriend is so insecure it's aggravating my soul. This is the same reason my last relationship ended and I don't want this one to go in the same direction.
    CR03 CR03 18-21, F Dec 3

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    Like really really bad & I hate it when my family makes fun of something I'm the most insecure about....
    Queennnnnnn Queennnnnnn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I am insecure about my penis.... *sad face* :(
    LongNeckJoe LongNeckJoe 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 4

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    It's happening. Me I thought it would never happened to me but it's hitting me harder and harder each day. I am insecure about my looks better yet I'm ugly. U see me and u will...
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I have become really insecure in my relationship at the moment. I have been with my partner for 12 months now, in the beginning of our relationship I found he was messaging a...
    banesgirl banesgirl 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been married for 25 years and even thought my marriage is not meeting many of my needs, I am petrified to leave it! For many years, my husband would not touch me sexually. I...
    Needhopeandsupport Needhopeandsupport 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
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    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think its pointless to wait until marriage. The people who judge others for having sex before marriage are backward and archaic. I hope people out there aren't made to feel bad...
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    I feel scared to tears that I see life flashing by whilst living in a sexles marriage. I support everything willingly & happly for wife and family but every day for several years...
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    World4me World4me 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 21

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    I didn't wait until marriage, I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait...
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    I am so tired of living in a sexless marriage. It's a nightmare. I need to leave, get a divorce, and be on my own but I have no clue how to leave, and be on my own. I keep thinking...
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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
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    Ive been married for 1 year and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my...
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    Wow... the title couldn't fit me better... I've been married for 14 yrs to a man that use to be a good man... that is before he retired from the army and before he started getting...
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    You know what hurts? What really, really hurts about my marriage? That I am my Husbands Best Friend. He's told me this. It's true, all the good friends I've known him to have...
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    From being in a sexless marriage for the last three years or so, I have really become discusted and sad with my life. This last year has been zero attempts because of menopause I...
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    Hi, I am in a marriage with very little sex... It is a total turnoff to get "no" again and again. She gets lots of attention, hugs and kisses from me all the time, but I am tired...
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    Just curious - when you say 'sexless marriage' - is it completely void of sex or is it at a lesser frequency than you prefer? If so, how often would you say it currently happens?
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    confronted my husband... boy did that backfire. presictibly he denied that he had any intention of cheating. He went on plenty of fish to "meet friends." boy he must really think I...
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    And we shouldn't. Do you know what made society shame sex and confine it to marriage? Christianity. What started as a zealous, heretic religion turned into what we know today...
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    I hate the word marriage because I regret been in one , I can't wait to be free
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