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I Am Insecure In My Marriage

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    Hey All, I'm brand new here...but thought i'd try it all out. I'm newly married. 24 years old and 9 months pregnant with our first child. I've known my husband for two years and been with him for a year and a half. He is wonderful to me, my best friend, my number one fan...
    1sttymemommy 1sttymemommy 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    I know lots of girls around my age who did not wait until marriage to lose their virginity and to have their kids. Well guess what? I am one of those girls too who did not wait...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So, I have been having troubles in my marriage for a long time now. I use to vent my frustration here. I decided I did not want to do that anymore, that it was...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm extremely insecure at how short I am, and how young it makes me look. I look like I'm a teenager and im almost 22. I'm also 5'0. I've heard many times short girls are cute, but...
    CandyandPanties CandyandPanties 18-21, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am very insecure about my body
    Thedarkprincessooo Thedarkprincessooo 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am insecure because everyone expects me to me "perfect, nice, and other stuff" but I can't be myself everyone is so judgemental..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so depressed right now I can't even function. Truthfully, my husband hasn't had sex with me in 3 years. I've fallen in love with a man who is married, and we are amazing...
    escapingcaptivityofspirit escapingcaptivityofspirit 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    A revelation? My husband and I started marriage counseling this past Monday. It was hard. Having to sit there and explain to a stranger why you are there...with your husband...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel so insecure when I am on the phones when in customer service field, I feel like I'm not sure how I can improve my life and skills
    marissa521 marissa521 31-35, T 5 days ago

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    I'm very insecure of myself so if you call me ugly I'll believe it in a second.
    VasquezM VasquezM 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to have sex with my boyfriend. But I'm very insecure about my body. How do I get more confident so I'm not so nervous?
    LoserMaterial LoserMaterial 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am very insecure I don't think I make others feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I am very insecure I don't think I make others feel bad I say lot's of my thoughts on here but I don't go on about it in person
    susangoga susangoga 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    It seems as I get older I get way more insecure. I look like an ugly 12 year old and then there's actual 12 year olds that are got and look 17 and it's not fair. I have no idea...
    laurenzerbe laurenzerbe 16-17, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband text me that he would rather be a monk than to have sex with me, and that if that is my need, I should go elsewhere to satisfy it. My heart sank. Finally....I have more...
    GreyStreet98 GreyStreet98 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yes I have really let myself go. I have given my body an absolute beating by past substance abuse, I am skinny as a rake, I used to be fat, I have been all shapes and sizes, and...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F a week ago

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    My boyfriend went mini golfing with a friend that is a girl and I am having crippling anxiety that he is cheating on me. I know that it's absolutely crazy and that he loves me but...
    basicallybroken basicallybroken 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm a bit embarrassed. My girlfriend came over earlier and whilst looking at my phone discovered that I had searched her previous boyfriend. I don't know what possessed me to do it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18

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    Well I'm still with my boyfriend although he has had an arranged marriage last March. It kills me. He just went out there for Ramadan to finally pick her up and take her in the US...
    4evergrey 4evergrey 31-35, F Jul 17

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    Procrastination is my middle name. That's why I'm here after 20 years. But this year, my goal is to leave this group and join the one (does it exist?) that says "I left my sexless...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 17

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    hi everyone, I'm bella. i'm really insecure about my body image, and how I look in general. not to sound selfish or anything, but people do say that I'm attractive/pretty, I just...
    BellaBlossoms BellaBlossoms 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 17

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    This is so exciting that gay marriage is now legal. I think it's great couples are given the right to marry whoever they wish. And not a damn thing anybody can do about it. Yes I...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    So i'm in a serious relationship with a very amazing, great guy. Yet, as the relationship has progressed over the past year, I find myself becoming more and more insecure! For one...
    moaninglisa1536 moaninglisa1536 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    When I met my husband, I was 28, and had reached a point in my life when I was sure I wasn't going to meet the right guy. I'd been in an out of relationships with total jerks or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I am new and want to identify why I'm here... I am on my 2nd marriage, going on 13 years now, have issues and I need help. I thought to myself "find a support group" and thought...
    Cwllm Cwllm 46-50, M Jul 15

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    I read "The Corrections" by Jonathan Franzen about 10 or so years ago. It's about a sexless marriage and the damage it did to their children's sexuality. That's not what the...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 13

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    It will be 14 years of marriage in August and 3 sons together ages 11 & 10 yo twins. Problems started roughly 3 years ago. We've been together 5 times within the 3 year period and...
    Missy227 Missy227 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M Jul 13

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    I am really insecure even though i get told im good looking and have a nice body by my girlfriend. I just dont believe her sometimes. Also my ex girlfriend used to have ago at me...
    rog1289 rog1289 22-25, M Jul 12

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    I am extremely unhappy in my marriage :-( Got married in 2012 been 4years and I hate every minute of it ! My husband and his family are deceiving people.My relation was online...
    Mask12 Mask12 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    so my dad is going on his 5th marriage, my mom is on her unhappy number 3 marriage. in my 26 years of life I have experienced divorce between my parents and their significant...
    bretneyc bretneyc 26-30, F Jul 11

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    We have been in an open marriage for just over a year now. We are more of a polyamorous couple, meaning it is more than just sex, but actually taking on a real boyfriend or...
    lackwittyname lackwittyname 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I admit i am insecure but not to the point that i wll curse the girl.I am insecure of everything about her , she has almost everything ,the beauty that every boy would admire her...
    davinesarah davinesarah 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Everytime I hear the word, marriage, I think of Shirley Long from Money Pit "Why do we need a piece of paper from the state of New York.' but marriage can make or break a...
    LonerGirl24 LonerGirl24 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    I've never been this insecure in my life, it's like I've hit rock bottom. Maybe it's cos I always feel so alone and rejected.
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    ‘I feel distant from my spouse. I feel like we’re a million miles apart.’ ‘I try to get my husband to open up, but instead he just shuts down.’ ‘I don’t know if I...
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    at 125 I hate my body now more than ever. I've been sickly insecure about my body for years, and eating disorders ruled my life. I'd do anything to get back down to 110, whatever...
    AlwaysRestless AlwaysRestless 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I never actually thought that I am. Not until my mom said one day, 'you know you shouldn't be so insecure of yourself' that it hit me. But then again many are insecure of their...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah 16-17, F Jul 7

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    People are unhappy in marriage because they get marriage for the wrong reasons. If you choose to be married, you have to maintain your own identity and be willing to communicate...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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