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I Am Insecure In My Marriage

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    Hey All, I'm brand new here...but thought i'd try it all out. I'm newly married. 24 years old and 9 months pregnant with our first child. I've known my husband for two years and been with him for a year and a half. He is wonderful to me, my best friend, my number one fan...
    1sttymemommy 1sttymemommy 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    Let me start by saying this. If you are so miserable in your own marriage that you feel justified in having an affair with another person who is also married, thereby ruining that...
    knittingbadsweaters knittingbadsweaters 41-45, F 1 Response 51 mins ago

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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
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    Why is it even called gay marriage, we don't call male x female marriage hetromarriage
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    Well my marriage was hell. Ok. That may be a little unfair. The end of it certainly was! I'd watched all my families marriages fall apart. I have seven cousins across three...
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    It's called 'marriage' you can't help who you fall in love with. It shouldn't bother people who they marry, it's their life....I'm quite proud that New Zealand is the first place...
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    Almost a month out post divorce. I didn't realize how much you could cram into one month. So overall I would say I am feeling stagnant, however the outside world may see progress...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 10 Responses Jul 7

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    How can you sleep? When you know your marriage is falling apart... 😳
    mjg85 mjg85 26-30, F 16 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    And why wouldn't I? The ONLY reason I could see for anyone to have anything against gay marriage is religion. But if you are against gays because of religion then you are a...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    after 12 years of marriage and 2 1/2 years of NO sex at all... my husband walked out on me today. I feel so lost at the moment. I'm left here with 2 kids to raise. I have no...
    helenback helenback 36-40, F 16 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2014/06/7-ways-to-avoid-having-a-sexless-marriage/
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Since finding out about the pmdd things have been steady., and satisfying. My H has noticed me getting attention (such as looks and what not) from other men. It has made him very...
    fantisizer fantisizer 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 16

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    Yesterday daughter and I were discussing our impending 21st and 50th birthdays Asked husband what will he be getting me for this special birthday His response : a divorce that...
    fivefoottall fivefoottall 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    This is to true ... iv dealt with at lease two of these PA types of people before, iv never thought about it, that it could manifest in a male, lol. All i can add at this point to...
    Batiya Batiya 61-65 4 days ago

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    I don't know, I feel awkward about posting my insecurities, even here where no one knows me. But I feel too shy.. Here goes nothing I'm really insecure about my face. I think I...
    emidog emidog 13-15, F Jul 3

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    People tell me I am really great, but I don't feel that way. I am so freaking insecure I can hardly breath sometimes! And it's not even about my body, it's about me. I feel as if I...
    WAWM WAWM 18-21, F Jul 4

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    I am a lot less insecure with my body then I was last year, I use to hate everything about myself especially when I had zit outbreaks or dry skin and or when I just didn't like the...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Jul 13

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    I've always been insecure. Even as a child all I ever wanted to be was this "perfect" kid my parents were pushing me to be. And I think that's why I'm still insecure now, mainly...
    joshbeaudoin joshbeaudoin 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm feeling pretty insecure right now. It's one of those moments where I feel unattractive. I'm also feeling like my personality sucks too. Sometimes I just need someone to let me...
    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I wicked insecure and food freaks me out (actually CALORIES freak me out) an on my period I binge.. I have resorted to chewing a sheet in attempt to like not eat fuckkkkk halppppp
    ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Many times when I am almost awake, I have terrible insecure feeling. I feel I am abandoned in an island. I feel I am dying
    jackieLu jackieLu 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I dated my ex for three years and he cheated on me constantly and now I'm really insecure about everything my looks, my weight, my hair nothing seems right anymore and I feel like...
    jassssl jassssl 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I am very insecure about the way I look. My facial features the whole shabang. I don't know why I think I'm beautiful somedays, and ugly others.
    LunarBeam LunarBeam 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I haven't even hit 1000 today I don't think I hit 900 idk I suck with numbers but I think I only hit about 890 And I wish I hit less bit w.e. Tomorrow is a new day :P anyways it's...
    ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat ImNotOkayWhyCantYouSeeThat 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm insecure about my body. I'm not fat per se, but I'm also not thin. My weight fluctuates so much even though I try to exercise and eat a proper diet. I hate the impossible...
    chadwiak01 chadwiak01 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I hate that society defines which person is hot and wich is not, I'm fat and that makes me feel so insecure, I cried almost every but deeply inside so nobody can see me, i want to...
    depteen depteen 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I am extremely insecure about myself and today i got over it by buying my first bikini in years now when I get back home I'll start working out more so it looks better I'm so happy...
    Excuseme1357 Excuseme1357 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I am so insecure all the time and I can't help it
    Erin1440 Erin1440 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Codependant. Result of insecure. But a joy at times.
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    People are really insecure and get jealous when a girl like me knows what she wants
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    I'm a 19 year old college football player. I'm 6 foot 7, 230 pounds. My whole life I've grown up being told how much potential I have in athletics and other areas of life simply...
    dabah2014 dabah2014 18-21, M Jul 20

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    I always feel like someone is looking down on me. ALWAYS. Whether it be because of how I dress and act or because of who raised me. I guess I don't really help myself either...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I have always been insecure about my appearance. I just recently started sending my pics to guys on apps because if rather be turned down first off instead of create something and...
    Jbsc21 Jbsc21 22-25, M Jul 20

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    People keep on saying that I have a horse mouth, lips, over whatever. I feel very insecure about that 😔
    iv0ryr0s3 iv0ryr0s3 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am so insecure. I won't let anyone even touch me. I am so ugly and have too many flaws
    AmericanPie91 AmericanPie91 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know why, I'm just really insecure And I feel so bad about the way I look and act and talk. I just pick out all of the flaws I have
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    I totally am. And I don't know why. My husband is so hot and tells me I'm pretty everyday. But I still am just insecure with myself. Which causes jealousy. Which makes me feel...
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    ForeverInDarkness22 ForeverInDarkness22 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
    srinivasleela84 srinivasleela84 26-30, F Jul 7

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    To me, marriage is TOO binding. Honestly, how many people can actually be happy together forever? The answer is 50%. half of marriages end in divorce. I believe that being in an...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15 Jul 10

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    Hello all you wonderful EP folks, I have another update on my formerly sexless marriage. If you want the back story, read my previous posts as they will shed light on the progress...
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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    "Im in a sexless marriage but I won't cheat on my spouse." The problem you hope to never face but are never prepared to face. Often people are at the end of their rope, having...
    Happablap Happablap 26-30, M 6 Responses Jul 20