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I Am Insecure In My Marriage

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    Hey All, I'm brand new here...but thought i'd try it all out. I'm newly married. 24 years old and 9 months pregnant with our first child. I've known my husband for two years and been with him for a year and a half. He is wonderful to me, my best friend, my number one fan...
    1sttymemommy 1sttymemommy 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    Is it somehow me? I need some honest advice/thoughts from complete strangers. So I have been married for just over 2 years and haven't had bouncy cuddles for just over a year. I...
    Goneburger76 Goneburger76 36-40, M 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    What I have to come realize in my sexless marriage is it is not the sexual acts per se that I miss most, but it is the intimacy and connection that comes before/during/after sex...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 14 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    One man, one woman. No sex until marriage. Traditional Christian vows including "to love, honor and Obey" for brides. Husband as undisputed head of the family and sole provider...
    MrsAshleyR MrsAshleyR 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, I'm not really insecure, but I didn't really know what other group to put it, or perhaps it is insecurity. I wanted to share a story about something about my personality...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    She's coming over in an hour. I'm going to have "the talk". It isn't about sex per se. It's about making love. I love her sooooo much that I ache to show her sometimes. It's...
    BinaryBill BinaryBill 61-65, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married 18 years. 2 Kids. Can count on both hands how many times we have had sex in the past decade. We've been to therapy twice. We have had hard conversations. I have...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I grew up with a father who could not fathom how men cheated on their wives. I heard him say multiple times, "It's not that hard to be faithful." He set up boundaries for himself...
    MidnightLaughter MidnightLaughter 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 29

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    I just want to share. I joined this place after two years of struggles in my marriage. I have gone by various names in here : Thedarkenedshadow Dsop Some people have followed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Pulling the trigger Our marriage is over. Not only could you poke me with a fork, the thing that is being poked is now charcoal. A pneumatic drill couldn't poke it. My husband...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 25

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    Chumps I recently found a web site that gives advice to chumps. "Chumps" people who wake up one day finding their partner has been unfaithful. The Chump wisdom she gives to the...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    hey there , I am Frank. i,m from new berry . 3 months backs i was so tired from the daily issues i was having at my marriage front . Everyday we tried to give our relation a new...
    franklampard14 franklampard14 31-35, M Jan 25

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    Back in my young and single days, before I married and had kids, I used to frequent the nightclubs with my friends and dance the night away. I love dancing, plus I am a social...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 7 Responses Jan 25

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    Irritated I am not sure how I feel about this. My ex husband is getting married again. I actually feel pretty good about that. Apparently my kids "new mommy and little sister" (as...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I always have been. Most of my insecurities have little-to-no basis in reality; of that I am aware. Still, I constantly worry about how other people perceive me. I am very insecure...
    TryingMyBestToSmile TryingMyBestToSmile 18-21, F Jan 23

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    I need some advice please. A friend has been in a 20 year relationship (no kids, not married). Six of those years have been sexless and loveless. Lots of damage was done and now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 23

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    So I was part of the sexless marriage group from 2008, I have now been divorced for almost a year. At the time I finally decided on a divorce he was seeing 8 other women, some...
    spiderb spiderb 36-40, F Jan 23

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    idk y but I feel insecure when it about sex. like especially now in my current relationship. I am 22 and he is 17. Even tho he is younger than me he's actually more sexually...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    She's been involved in anonymous sex during our entire relationship and 30 year marriage. She got caught and now claims to not know that "other " personality ",can't remember...
    oraleebrown1 oraleebrown1 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I believe that sex is something to be saved for marriage. That being said, I am not a virgin. I have only had sex twice with one person. I was in a bad place and didn't value...
    texas1917 texas1917 18-21, F Jan 22

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    I know a blanket statement can't capture all the factors that go into a sexless marriage, but you have the opposite sex's (or the same--however you swing) genitalia right there...
    TW8NY TW8NY 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    Well, my wife asked why I have been so down lately. I told her because our celibate marriage is very depressing to me. Her Responses 1) She is not sorry we are in a celibate...
    flashjohn flashjohn 46-50 Jan 21

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    I can't help but feel disgust even thinking having more than one sexual-partner in life. It is clearly not for me! I've read somewhere that every person you intercourse with, you...
    DragonSheep DragonSheep 22-25, F Jan 21

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    I have been married for just nearly 3 years this coming week and having one daughter aged 2. Since our marriage, we don't really have sex much often. It's not that either of us...
    nazrule11 nazrule11 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I have been married for just nearly 3 years this coming week and having one daughter aged 2. Since our marriage, we don't really have sex much often. It's not that either of us...
    nazrule11 nazrule11 26-30, M Jan 20

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    Well, my wife told me that the 5.5 years of celibacy she has forced on me was all my fault. Also, I should be happy and satisfied with a marriage even if we never have sex again...
    flashjohn flashjohn 46-50 2 Responses Jan 20

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    H left for two weeks. He was crying when he left saying he does not want this. I feel bad but I am confused. I don't think I would have fallen in love with someone else if I was...
    Lann2015 Lann2015 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Yes marriage is more than a peice of paper. it's a trap to keep men broke and unhappy.
    timberland1972 timberland1972 41-45 3 Responses Jan 17

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    yes marriage is hard work and both man and wife makes many sacrifices but fail to realize that they come before their individual friends
    itsBob itsBob 51-55, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    Getting paid taking selfies ?yes please! Lol does that make me insecure? No. Learning to love yourself inside and out and enjoying makeup for just enhancing that's what makes it...
    curiouskitty36 curiouskitty36 36-40, F Jan 16

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    I've only witnessed the institution of marriage work for people 2 generations before me. Sure there are some people who make it work, and some do so effortlessly, but most people...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    All i can think about is how i'm at the prime of my life but am not getting any. Breaks my heart so much i start crying and then feel silly for crying over a little thing and then...
    Verraoh Verraoh 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    After sixteen years, I am leaving my sexless marriage. I don't know what the future has in stake and I realize I may be alone for the rest of my life. It's been a hard reality...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 15

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    I didn't wait until marriage to say I love you. And I feel like my virginity is gone even though it's not. Im not messing around so... Joke if u want.
    Everyheartbeat Everyheartbeat 26-30 5 Responses Jan 15

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    Legal decision makers/Religious leaders construct their own rules to benefit their circle of community. They preach and condone child bride to keep their disgusting sexual fantasy...
    Sofiiamafia Sofiiamafia 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 15

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    I am in a sexless marriage. It really sucks and I am getting weary of it. If anyone is interested, I started a facebook group. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1533260103638320...
    flashjohn flashjohn 46-50 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I'm 18 years old. I currently live in the same house with my boyfriend. we had sex about a few months before we had gotten together (age 17 at the time) and we were best friends...
    AugustOlvera AugustOlvera 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    Now that we are in the process of separation he is telling me things that he never told me before. That he never felt like he was good enough in bed. So therefore stopped trying...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 14 Responses Jan 14

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    My marriage is sexless , thank goodness . I can't have sex with someone I strongly dislike. I'd rather drink 4 gallons of sea water than have sex with my wife . Maybe even 5...
    Mesmerised Mesmerised 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 13

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