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I Am Insecure In My Marriage

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    Hey All, I'm brand new here...but thought i'd try it all out. I'm newly married. 24 years old and 9 months pregnant with our first child. I've known my husband for two years and been with him for a year and a half. He is wonderful to me, my best friend, my number one fan...
    1sttymemommy 1sttymemommy 22-25 1 Response May 21, 2009

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    It's rare that I'm insecure. However one thing that I am insecure about is when me and a female friend would link arms while walking in public or holding hands. Or put their arm...
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    Christmas Day was hard for me as even though I spent it with my girls and family I wasn't with the one I love and I hardly had any contact with her and this has hurt me deeply...
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    I'm feeling so insecure after the holidays. I feel like I gained 1000 pounds -.-
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    I'm extremely insecure about my appearance. People who aren't, just think people who are, are looking for attention.... AND WE'RE NOT! You will never freakin understand what it's...
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    I get intimidated easily. I am insecure. I dont like an environment where I feel inferior to others. Hate situations like that.
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    I'm so insecure about myself I'm constantly accusing my husband of cheating on me.
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    I'm insecure about myself and I can't stand it, it comes out when I speak when I talk to other people and the worst is I don't realize the awkwardness until it's done, the well of...
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    ever since i got in a relationship ive just been more insecure and i know its because ive got self esteem issues but what do i do im so tired of feeling like **** again
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