I Am Insecure Sometimes

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    Insecure All The Time

    I am a good hearted and kind person, I know that.  i am not bad looking at all, I am pretty, I am compassionate, loving, very giving of myself.  But yet I am still so insecure of myself.  I never find myself to be good enough for anything or anyone.  Also, my hubby is very...
    SombreAmaranthineAmour SombreAmaranthineAmour
    31-35, F
    May 16, 2011

    I Think Yes I Am

    I do feel insecure, infrequently but still today, I can feel insecure.I believe it is because transgendered individuals feel that extra awkwardness about themselves always feeling that wrongness with our physical body.So, that has to spill over.I have taught myself to be...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2012
    Smiling4Me Smiling4Me
    18-21, F
    Mar 7, 2014

    I'm not like a girl at all I don't wear makeup

    I don't dress nice, well I try to dress nice but I don't look good like other girls, I wish i could wear makeup but I just don't really know how to apply it and I get major anxiety if I do wear any kind of makeup in case people judge me:/ but like everyone every other girl wears...
    SarcasticCxnt SarcasticCxnt
    Aug 1, 2015

    You Deserve Better...

    Do you ever feel like nobody gives a ****?That's definitely how I've been feeling lately. I get people telling me everyday that they love me (which I am so grateful for) but then they turn around, when we go to parties and stuff, and act like I'm not even their friend. All this...
    TheListener224 TheListener224
    Jun 3, 2012

    Yes, girls buy expensive stuff to impress other

    girls, because no guy has ever said "Oh, she's ugly, but that purse bro.. I had to smash."
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    4 Responses May 14, 2015

    I have my confidence

    but I still have those few insecurities that can eat Mr alive. For example, I never walk barefoot because I'm horribly insecure about my feet
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    2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    And It Scares Me

    I don't like being insecure and I know that by being this way I have a higher chance of pushing away the exact people I want closest to me. I don't want to make someone feel like they are responsible for me and my happiness. I don't like to talk about it because I don't want to...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    7 Responses Dec 8, 2008

    I use to be extremely insecure about myself it

    use to be a big issue for me... Now I am not as insecure... Most times anyway. That's thanks to the fact that 10 months ago I got so lucky and ended up meeting the most incredible girl on this earth, she help me over come a lot of my insecurities and I try to help her and we...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 22, 2014

    Most of the time, I dismiss what people may

    think of me and do my own thing. But I practically have little breakdowns from time to time. Rarely. I feel a bit ridiculous asking this but, what do you think of my appearance? I'm the one with the braids.
    CerriVane CerriVane
    13-15, F
    Nov 6, 2015

    Once In A Blue Moon

    You know i have dated many people and had also relationship's but i think what the big down fall was me being insecure but maybe not all the way you think, see i am not a very insecure person by nature and who i am but a lot of the time its the other person i am who leads me to...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart
    18-21, T
    Dec 23, 2011

    As a survivor of childhood abuse,

    I have often struggled with many insecurities. I missed out on many coming-of-age experiences in my younger days because of the abuse. When I entered the adult world, it became painfully obvious to me how much growing I had to do to get to even a basic level of success in life...
    RatTheRat RatTheRat
    Mar 16, 2014

    Tbh, I've gotten to the point

    where I didn't go ANYWHERE. But then one day I realized that I'm not ugly, I just surround myself with beautiful, judgmental ********, that's all.
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    1 Response May 12, 2015

    Why do we feel this pain like we have no game

    we gave it all but we never got anything in return
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    1 Response Sep 11, 2014

    Why Yes, I Am Insecure...

    "Why are you so self-conscious?" I've gotten asked this question so many times recently. And, unfortunately, I don't have a good answer. Not completely true. My answer is always the same: "When you struggled with depression and eating disorders for three years, you tend to be...
    wannabewriter42614 wannabewriter42614
    22-25, F
    Oct 18, 2012
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    I have a history. Both my parents died

    when I was a kid so I go through bouts of depression and anxiety that I strongly work on myself through. My fiance told me today he thinks that a relationship would be easier if he were with someone else. I think he's wrong because every relationship is hard work and every...
    childrenoftheearth childrenoftheearth
    26-30, F
    Jan 27, 2015


    Just 20 or 30 minutes ago, my step dad took my niece and went to go pick up my sister. My little brother is at dads house, older brother is god-knows-where and mom is at work. So I have a big empty house all to myself with a fake baby for health class that I have to take care of...
    hurts2much hurts2much
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 1, 2011

    this is going to be long,

    but i hope someone can help, i have been with my gf now for 7 months, but before we went out, she was seeing my friend, they werent anything serious and she told me she was leaving him cause they both had no interest, so she left him and she kissed me and said she was so happy...
    catchoftheday catchoftheday
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 10, 2014

    I try to help lots of people in my life

    and my friends and family are very important to me. Whilst I try and remain optimistic all the time, there are times when I can't help but feel insecure. This is all down to past experiences and past behaviour from "friends and colleagues". When I perceive the same actions or...
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    Jun 17, 2014

    I Hate That I'm Insecure With My Boyfriend

    Theres a couple issues. My boyfriend is incredible and is always complimenting me. Except for his stupid mustache (LOL) he is very handsome and pretty fit too. I've never met someone so sweet and it makes me feel like he is too good for me. He is a girls collage coach and the...
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    Nov 1, 2009

    He says he loves me. I know.

    But I can't help but think in the back of my mind how that is so. Because I'm a good woman, he says.. And I think, my mom was a good woman who was ****** over by men. These men pretended to love you, they lied , pathologically because they've been together for years. I been...
    MeAgainstDaWorld MeAgainstDaWorld
    18-21, F
    Jan 17

    Sat with my boyfriend who's sat texting my

    friend because he wants to be friends with my friends and I've told him I'm okay with it but I actually don't know how I feel about it:/
    SarcasticCxnt SarcasticCxnt
    Nov 22, 2015

    I am insecure because I was hurt by everyone I

    met in one way or another family friends, I'm gay and it feels like everyone avoids me because I am who I am I just need more friends
    Raine2323 Raine2323
    22-25, M
    Jan 25, 2014

    Especially when much older men are in the

    restroom using a public restroom when I am in there using the restroom. It's too creepy even for me.
    TransGirlNamedJade TransGirlNamedJade
    26-30, T
    Sep 18, 2014

    I'm probably insecure more times

    than I'm not. I've been trying for years to figure it out and try to fix it but it's still very much a work in progress
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    Sep 26, 2014

    Feeling Put Down by my Boyfriend.

    I have been dating a guy for about 3 months now and he is very nice but sometimes I find some of the things he says to be insensitive. I am 21 and average looking and he is 27 and quite handsome. A lot of people give him compliments on his looks and a lot of girls like him and I...
    Valentina16 Valentina16
    18-21, F
    Nov 18, 2013

    "Your smile curves downwards" When he said

    that it struck a nerve. My mouth does this to hide my insecurity It has become habit It has become instinct It just makes me sad that I can't have an upward smile because I'm insecure about showing my missing teeth on the each side of my mouth. I do that so people who I meet for...
    emelon12 emelon12
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    I hate that feeling when you finally try to let

    out how you feel about yourself and your life to a person but they keep on trying to make controversy of the conversation when the best advice is simply just a hug or 2 minuets just about you
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    Jun 3, 2015
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