I Am Intense

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 583 People

    Too Serious

    I can't believe sometimes when I catch myself being so intense. And then realizing that it is really down there somewhere all along, even when it's not showing.  My focus is so strong, I'm no longer aware of the world around me. I'm sure it comes from being too serious...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2008


    The brightest splash of color on the painting is the one that catches the eye. It is the one that pulls you in, the one that holds you there...staring...The brightest splash of color on the painting that you love so much, the one you stare at when your world doesn't make sense...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 2, 2013

    Out of Everything People Tell Me ...

    When I set my sights on something, I am incredibly competitive and intense.  To a FAULT. Intensity is not ALWAYS bad. Just sometimes ...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2009


    Intensity I remember the good things about being intense. And the bad. I Felll in love with a green eyed  chestnut blonde with  firm rose lips.  I would hold her tight and press her against the wall of an empty hallway or elevator as we rose ever higher to the...
    solosoy solosoy
    1 Response Jun 13, 2008

    Be Your Own Example Of Kindness

    When I was younger, getting bashed by people you haven't or have known for a while is tremendous feeling. It affects me to a point of wanting to confront the person impulsively. Some would advise for me to drag the basher and show my violent side and some would tell me to calm...
    sweetsca10 sweetsca10
    26-30, F
    Oct 9, 2013

    Tiring and Seemingly Unnecessary.

    I`m tired of feeling everything so intensely. Of being affected so much. I think maybe I`ll just relax. Take a load off...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2007

    Long Line Of Intensity

    I have intense parents on both sides man. That would make almost anyone be intense, lol.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 1, 2011

    I Am Intense.

    I Am Intense. I Am Intense.
    Cinderelly Cinderelly
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Sep 10, 2007

    I Have Been Told I'm Too Overwhelming

    What is wrong with telling someone you miss them?What is wrong with it?!Why are people so afraid of compliments, romance, feelings?I have been told by about 3 guys this year that I come on too strong and that I'm intense...and that is just how I am. I have toned down so much...
    minnieadams minnieadams
    26-30, F
    Aug 22, 2012

    Emotional Star

    A blistering, scorching bundle of different emotions which would chill the surface of the sun. I exaggerate at times too.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2010

    Everything Is Stronger.

    When I'm sad about a little thing like spilling a drink on my shirt or my computer freezing I cry,I get sick over it,I go into a depression. When I'm happy about a little thing like my favorite show being on or someone I like writing to me,I smile and laugh and scream in joy and...
    YoungGothicWriter YoungGothicWriter
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2013

    Intense Personality

    When I love, I love deeply and passionately. I feel intensely about things and people. There are no half way measures. My husband says I am very black and white about things. I am moved by beauty. I cry easily. Get hurt by the slightest remark. Everything makes a profound...
    Cheyenne02 Cheyenne02
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2012

    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 26, 2015

    My Mind; The Vortex Of Wisdom And Emotions!

    "I Am Intense", what can I say the title doesn't lie.  I will blow you away.  You may think I'm exaggerating but just spend one day talking to me and you'll see.  I may make  some admirers that same day, and I may as well as push some away.  But what...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 25, 2010


    In the past I have tried to hide my intensity – it caused someone I loved to walk away from me…someone that had professed to love me decided that it was too much – he wanted me but a slightly less intense version of me. For weeks I battled with myself &ndash...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 25, 2009


    I'm pretty damn intense. Is there any such thing as being too passionate? It's not that I'm crazy, per se, it's just that everything I think and feel seems to be so.. amplified. And as far as my interests go, it seems like things have to be equally wild and passionate in...
    coolname coolname
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2009

    My Nature

    To my male friends.. please do not confuse this with moody.. My emotions run deep and true... Covet this very nature, dear friends.. for it one day, may benefit you.. intense 1 a: existing in an extreme degree ...
    Awakening Awakening
    31-35, F
    29 Responses Apr 5, 2008

    Am I Too Much?

    My friends are laughing at me that I am just too intense in what I like. It is actually true. If I like a subject I explore it till I get tired. If I like a movie or a book - I watch it several times till I figure out all the details and get my fill. It is difficult for me to...
    2much41life 2much41life
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2011

    One day a friend told me I had an "intense"

    personality. I don't let others define who I am but I can't help but agree. I'm not lighthearted and if you're going to hang out with me be prepared to take everything to the extreme. :P
    herewegothen herewegothen
    18-21, M
    Oct 19, 2014

    C'est Moi!

    i'm up i'm down. i do and say whatever i want. i go from being the life of the party to hiding in a corner in the blink of an eye. i can make you feel like the biggest, or smallest person in the world. i involve myself in whatever activities seem okay at the present time...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 14, 2009

    I Am Also Way Too Intense!

    Your experience is an answer to an inner prayer I just said! Honestly, most of the time I feel like I am so weird for how intensely I feel and express myself! Not sure most people can help. I too am in therapy -- on anti-anxiety meds. I have a legitimate reason for why I am...
    dragonlight dragonlight
    46-50, F
    Oct 8, 2013

    A Sweet...sweet Escape...

    Because ultimately there isn't one...... You go round and round in circles..... in your own head.... In your own Life.... then..... in others. Its quite an adrenaline at first.... Where you laugh it off coz your scared and its new, no your not enjoying it, but you...
    twilighteyes twilighteyes
    3 Responses Feb 25, 2010

    So when I get into something I get into

    something. Part of its personality trait, hint of star reading ( I do act kinda empathetic pieces lme smh....) and bipolar trait is obsessing....right now it's Spotify and alt synth pop; Dear Rouge, Chvrches, the Dø, ...all I listen to. Yeah I get all fired up don't I? Lol Oh...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire
    41-45, M
    Feb 23, 2015

    Hey Baby.

    I'm intense.My emotions...woah they are overwhelming O.OIf I LIKE YOU, damnit, I LIKE YOU.If I dislike you, I'll let you KNOW rather quickly.I'm either on or off. No bullshit. Well, I DO tend to sugar code things, but, aside from that, I'm pretty assertive. I'm intense. There's...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    Jul 26, 2011

    Ooohhh! Scary Short Girl.

    The title says it all. I pretty much scare people with the strength of my opinions and my positions on alot of issues. Oh, and the fact that I have a mouth that would make a sailor blush. Here's the thing that bugs me, what in the world is so weird about someone (by someone I...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2008

    Too Intense

    Is that possible - i think i am too intense for most people - i expect too much and when i give i give completely - most people cannot handle it or do not want that much reality in their lives so i often feel alone and misunderstood. I feel like people don't see me - usually...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Jan 19, 2008

    More Like In-houses...

    Get it??? Intense = In tents... but I'm more than that = in houses...  **crickets chirping* knock knock - anyone out there???? Actually I have been known to be pretty intense... I try to be more lighthearted but I think I feel too passionately about my life and who I am to...
    phidget phidget
    31-35, F
    Jun 16, 2008

    Never Really Thought Twice

    I'm intense - many people who have known me on here would tell you that. So would my customers, whether I'm prattling away over some newsworthy issue or lying in bed quietly listening to my music - it's always there. That super intensity that seems to remain inches from the...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 9, 2009

    Extremely Intense ...

    Oh yeah I am totally intense Im intense in love Im intense in kiss Im intense in sex Im intense in relations Im intense in life I couldnt be more intense than this Or else Ill be more intense than everything you could imagine oooh Yeah ,, That much intense ...  
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jun 10, 2009

    Intense Doesn't Mean Psycho

    I have this thing where I feel the need to be honest. Brutally honest. Even when it sucks. Or makes me look bad. In a world where people do anything to avoid admitting they are wrong or to avoid taking responsibility for their actions, I feel very strongly that the people I...
    erocka erocka
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2008

    Bring Her Out Within me lies a beast of passion

    waiting to be awakened Entice her with your touch, bring her out from nights of ration Tease her with your tongue, conjuring all emotion, an animal in hiding Bring her out with your touch, the power of attraction, your power guiding Untamed forces acting upon each other...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    Why Does That Scare People??

    When i make a goal - i stick to it. Ok, well maybe not losing those freaking 15 pounds but - hello - i moved to a new freaking state to go to freaking law school. Yeah - i do my readings ahead of time, no i do not skip class - yes i already read the assigment for tomorrow - are...
    mustIlikeeveryone mustIlikeeveryone
    1 Response Sep 30, 2009


    I have come to realise that in past relationships I have been too intense which I believe is due to lack of confidence and insecurity.  Knowing this now means I can try to do something about it. 
    Whitecloud Whitecloud
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 25, 2008

    Hold Much Energy

    i am also in the boat.  even when I sit quietly-I hold a great weight of energy within me.
    archer100 archer100
    26-30, F
    Feb 16, 2008

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