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I Am Into Bdsm

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    I am a Dominant male looking

    for a young submissive. I already own one submissive, but through conversations with her, we aren't interested in the possibility of adding another to our relationship. Our relationship is purely online at the moment. Message me if you're interested and we can discuss further...
    conorrwebb conorrwebb
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    Dan Savage - The Savage Lovecast The best place

    to get all your kink friendly sex advice!
    TheQueenofEP TheQueenofEP
    22-25, F
    Oct 5, 2015

    Party Bloopers

    Written by Yossi The truth is, yes, I've been to many parties, but not as a participant. Some wouldn't agree, but I'm a helluva cook and I make knock-out pastries and hors d'oeuvres. Also, my background gives me quite the leg up when it comes to following protocol. Most of my...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jul 27, 2011

    So I was asked to take some pictures the other

    night to show off my new shoes. I have a pair of patent leather 4 inch stiletto pumps with locking ankle straps. I was told to get a pencil skirt so I did. I put on some black thigh high stockings with garters. Pencil skirt. Corset. A button down shirt. And a corset. My...
    Photogeek47 Photogeek47
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    I Am Not a Paraphiliac!

    Just because "normal" sex is not appealing... Just because I enjoy pain with my pleasure... Just because I like a man to take control, spank me, hurt me, consume me... Does NOT mean I should be put into a category with pedophiles and criminals. I am a...
    Udneverguess Udneverguess
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2009

    I Love dominating my slaves ,

    but i love making an emotional bond with my slaves. its kind of my dark side . So far i only practiced with 3 girls two of them are my ex.
    urshotRod urshotRod
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 18, 2014

    I will be having a high impact session with my

    sub next week. feel free to discuss.
    mjaxson2323 mjaxson2323
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 24, 2015

    I have started my own personal harem.

    I am looking for women who want to join a bdsm harem. Any women who are serious in serving a master in a harem setting contact me.
    tsastini83 tsastini83
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    Very much! I hope to eventually make my

    fantasies a reality! Just need to find the right daddy/master.
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel
    31-35, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    I was telling my owner about some of the guys

    who have contacted me and some of the things they had said. I admit that some are just flakes, some are rude, but for the most part a lot of them are real doms and masters. Some have little or no experience which is fine because that comes with time. Like anything you learn...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Sep 9, 2014

    It Never Goes Away

    Years, no, decades ago a dominant lady exposed the submissive in me.  The experience has no peer.  The relationship eventually ended after some months.  I later began a successful marriage to a wonderful wife.  The marriage continues successfully to this...
    seeallsides seeallsides
    56-60, M
    Jul 1, 2008

    I might as well put this up

    since it's an integral part of my life. I have been into BDSM since I began to investigate my own sexuality. I have been in three relationships in which this was some part of my life, and I know that to be happy it will have to remain a part of my life. I find it is becoming...
    FleetlordAtvar FleetlordAtvar
    26-30, M
    Mar 11
    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    My First Bdsm Adventure

    It was over 15 years ago and it was with a much older woman. At the time I had never been with a woman, let alone being totally used by one. She took me to her place and it wasn't long before I was naked and had a ball gag in my mouth. She put clothespins all over my body and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 9, 2012

    A D/s Pee-holding Fantasy

    I tried finding understanding in some pee-related groups, but have had no luck. I am cross posting this story here in the hopes of getting some feedback from anyone who understands D/s a little more... Let me start by saying that I am turned on by D/s exchanges involving pee or...
    Tybris Tybris
    31-35, M
    Apr 2, 2012

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to time...my behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Jan 2
    sukoyacharles sukoyacharles
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    I am into BDSM. I am a Dom,

    but it is so hard to find a woman that is into it as well. All I want to find is a nice submissive girl to have a good relationship with, is that too much to ask for?
    masterdamien1990 masterdamien1990
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    Looking for friendship with a dominant lady

    who enjoy using and dominate me , either on line or real if you live in England
    Sami1976 Sami1976
    36-40, M
    Jan 14

    Doomed

    I always read bdsm stories and fantasized about it, but my bf is disgusted by it, even the little tiny bit i've shared with him.... i feel like maybe i am doomed to never experience something that woud make me feel happy and complete...
    yakbac008 yakbac008
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jul 14, 2009

    I have been into this lifestyle

    since I was 18. I have learned and grown a lot through it. I have had three submissives, many play partners, and have been an educator in it for over four years.
    KinkyIntellectual KinkyIntellectual
    31-35, M
    1 Response Dec 14, 2014

    I am a slave and I have been

    for a long time. I am happy being what I am because I feel it is what I was born to be. I am looking for females from anywhere who want to be slaves too. To those of you who think that I am just looking for more for my Owner that is not the case. Sure, I would like to find more...
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Aug 28, 2014

    Be Careful What You Wish For

    Written by Yossi Fetishes are a part of how some of us define our sexuality. While I believe that such expression is healthy and good, I caution you. You CAN go too far. I want to talk specifically about age-play and Daddy/ds. So many have written much better exposition on the...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Aug 6, 2011

    Standing Tall

    Recently, I overheard someone say, "oh, those freaks are nasty, that's so disgusting that they do that." Want to know what they were talking about? Yeah... me too! I found myself in a quandary. I can't tell you how many times I've used that very same phrase in one way or another...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned
    46-50, F
    22 Responses Mar 21, 2011

    I used to be a cutter.

    I enjoyed the anticipation, the sharp pain, the control. I've always been fascinated by weapons. Especially medieval weaponry. I love daggers. I'll be doing a story about my fantasy about having my clothes cut off. I enjoy fear fantasies. I think it's the intensity. I would say...
    AmberDawn78 AmberDawn78
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 30, 2014

    Happy to be a part of the kink community.

    Nonmonogamous submissive little girl here to share and create experiences with the Project. I aim to please. NSFW is my MO. You've been warned!
    FindMeElsewhere FindMeElsewhere
    22-25
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    The Reasons

    I dont know how to say this. I like the idea of bdsm, I have never tried it with anyone. Only alone. Thou I am an open person, some might say too open and so on this is one of the few things I dont talk about. It is something I do only myself. I guess I am a masochist or...
    Kaitlyn92 Kaitlyn92
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

    Why does it seem, at least to me,

    that so many Dominants and or Sadists abhor tears? I am a strong woman all day. I see things that would make most people cry on the spot. But I keep a calm face and tend to my patients, stuffing those emotions down despite myself. If I cry in front of you, it means I trust...
    Eclecticelle Eclecticelle
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    The thrill of having my wrists

    and ankles bound by you ignites a spark between my legs...cranked open so you can plunge yourself in without warning or mercy... Blindfolded and helpless before your hands, tongue, and throbbing member, I can only wait as I drip and pool with zealous anticipation... "Who is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    Give me more please Master.

    I need your rope. Bind me tight in the position of your choice so that I am unable to move, barely able to breathe, and completely exposed. Feel my flesh squeezed thought through the knots, caress the goosebumps raised by your fingers. I need more Sir. My marks are fading...
    Eclecticelle Eclecticelle
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    I like bdsm. And I've been told

    that I make a good Dom. Right now I'm looking for a woman to be my sub. To share her does and don'ts and to share in all the pleasures and benefits. If there is anyone interested. Message me. Let me know what your looking for and together. We can have a fantastic time in this...
    Cloudwolf1313 Cloudwolf1313
    26-30, M
    Nov 26, 2014

    Where To Start

    I am very interested in BDSM. I have no idea where to start though. Can anybody help me?
    lost0123 lost0123
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 3, 2010

    First Experience

    so, the past 4 months was my first foray into the world of BDSM, in this time i have discovered many things about myself and the limits i posses, i should stress that i have PTSD and that makes any act of entrapment or oppression used to set off anxiety attacks, forces me to...
    shiftu shiftu
    22-25, M
    Mar 3, 2013

    Kinky Nj Weekend From My Blog

    My Miss (Lydiab6) wanted me to write about our weekend together at the Brimstone kink event a couple of weeks ago. I'll start off by saying that it was an amazing time. We got there on Friday afternoon and stayed until late Sunday night and because we volunteered to help out with...
    marla1979 marla1979
    36-40, T
    5 Responses Dec 8, 2012

    A Bottom's Day of Longing

    God, I miss BDSM. I miss talking with others about BDSM. I want to play. I haven't played in a very long time and there are days when I really miss it. I am not content with fantasies. Today, I want the real thing. I want to FEEL. I long to be topped by a loving but firm woman. I...
    femme7 femme7
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2008

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    SirsKnottyGirl SirsKnottyGirl
    26-30, F
    Jun 24, 2015

    This is just for real female slaves

    who are looking for an owner who is not into the usual organized bdsm scene but real! thevergeofchains.yolasite.com
    titebox titebox
    41-45, F
    Oct 3, 2015

    It intrigues me. I've known about it

    for a couple of years now, but now I'm only 18. I guess I just don't know if I've had enough experience to really say if BDSM is something I'm really, really into. Or if it even matters. I'm just confused, but interested nonetheless.
    pancakesarebetterthanwaffles pancakesarebetterthanwaffles
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    I am a Dominant man looking

    for a female submissive who lives in the UK, for online and the possibility of real life play and a relationship. Message me if you are interested and fit the criteria.
    conorrwebb conorrwebb
    18-21, M
    Aug 23, 2015

    Sadly my posts keeps getting censored despite

    not using a lot of bad language. So I had to rephrase things in a silly way but it should be obvious what I'm referring to. I have known I'm into it for some time after trying things out with my ex. I'm a dom male and I like tying girls up, control, working their cute little...
    39steps 39steps
    22-25, M
    Sep 15, 2015

    Im selling tons of used panties message me

    if your truly interested in them make an offer
    usedpantiesforsale usedpantiesforsale
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2015

    I used to be on this site about 1.

    5 years ago. I had stories posted that were actually pretty good and I thought since I was returning, I'd post them again. But the guidelines have changed. Apparently, my stories are not approved according to the thought police. There are some swear words and some graphic...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 20, 2014

    It's a way of life, not something to spice up

    your escapades in the bedroom. There is a lot of stigma attached to BDSM. People need to research and understand the dynamics of this lifestyle and how it really works. They don't understand that for some, it's what they NEED. I wish people were a little more open-minded, at...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 9, 2015

    I want to explore BDSM definitely,

    I just don't know how to get into it. But I also don't know if I'm mentally ready for it. I have issues nobody wants to, or should have to, deal with and I'm really too dependent. So I suppose I really just need to stop being so...pathetic before I get into, but I don't know how...
    pancakesarebetterthanwaffles pancakesarebetterthanwaffles
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 24, 2015

    Comfort And Respect

    We've shared so much, you and I. I've trained you how to push beyond your limits and why it is not a pleasant experience to disobey. I've taught you things about your body that no one else ever could and I've taught you how it will be to live the lifestyle. I've been firm and...
    Leatherheart Leatherheart
    36-40, M
    Feb 1, 2010

    Being In Restaints Daily

    Walking around with my restraints on and then going to bed never knowing whats going to happen keeps me on. I'm always told to put my collor on along with my leash and doing things around the house. I love it when I'm in my restraints all the time and then going to the store also...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 9, 2011
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