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I Am Involuntarily Celibate

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    Chronic Penile Pain For 3+ Years

    I wasn't always involuntary celibate, I used to have a pretty active sex life. Around 3 years ago I began experiencing pain in the penile shaft along with an hourglass indentation. The first doctor I went to said I had Peyronie's disease & to take vitamin E & ibuprofen & maybe it...
    brewpunk74 brewpunk74 36-40, M Jul 17, 2012

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    This Whole Thing....

    This incel problem, is something I can't stop thinking about. It drives/has driven me crazy and gotten me so angry before. I mean, how and why does this happen, and go on for so long? Why me? Is it looks? Lifestyle? Or something else. I can't say I have put in much...
    OneLonelyDude OneLonelyDude 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    So Close, Yet So Far Away

    I grew up in a rural Bible Belt part of the country, and although my parents were loving, I found that I could never connect with women there while I was growing up. I went to college, and the situation was entirely different.  But because I was so inexperienced, I was...
    widukind746 widukind746 26-30 1 Response Sep 13, 2010

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    I Don't Really Know Where To Even Begin...

    Other than the fact that this problem, and my either own lazyness or inability to overcome and solve it, has driven me crazy, left me feeling more desperate and empty, and more behind than anyone else it feels like. It hasn't been a happy easy thing for me to just accept. It...
    OneLonelyDude OneLonelyDude 22-25, M Nov 3, 2009

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    Stifled, Strangled Passion

    Yes I would say I am involuntarily celibate: I don't choose to strictly get along with internationals or just anything but locals but somehow that is how it works. So why is it a great tragedy for a man in his late 20s you ask? Because men hit their peak at 18 while women get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    I Don't Think It'll Ever Change.

    I am 37 years old and have never had a relationship. Never been taken out to dinner, never strolled down the street on a lazy Sunday afternoon holding hands with someone, never been to the cinema with someone, or got up late on a weekend morning and made pancakes for two, for...
    single37 single37 36-40 Apr 14, 2012

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    Without the Right Affection and Sexual Contact...

    One can go insane. Look at me, living proof! It's not that I choose not to have sex because of any moral reason, it's because I just don't get asked to...by the right people. No, I'm not ugly or picky, or a *****, because that's what some people have said. I'm not socially...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Aug 29, 2009

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    Incel, Not Virgin...

    I already have a story up about being a virgin, one of the first I wrote when coming to EP. Looking at it now, and reading other people's stories about being a virgin has made me realize that I think the term "virgin" is much too broad. I refers to anyone who has not...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 18, 2009

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    Yes, I'm Still Incel...

    When I created this group as TheRealWoman, I had hoped that things would improve. They haven't. Over a year ago, I gave a lonely male acquaintance a hand job after two drinking sessions, which made him propose marriage. Of course, I said "No. I hope you find someone.". He now has...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response Jan 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    For almost 4 years. Only until recently have I been struggling with it. Either I'm a ho or I do absolutely NOTHING. There is zero in between. Zero chill.
    ImJustHereTho ImJustHereTho 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Let's call this "Caution: Slippery Slope!" I am pansexual and polyamorous too. What the hell is my brain doing to itself? I never knew there was a definition for who I have always...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 Jul 14

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    Alright alright alright yall settle down settle down settle down. If you don't know where you are this is STATISTICS 101 and I'm your teacher Lyfe Jennings in the flesh baby. Books...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I posted my story on here about a year ago, and I thought it was time to update everyone on how things are going.... Not well, unfortunately. We are still abstinent or celibate...
    JBMaine75 JBMaine75 36-40, M Jul 5

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    I just got back from Texas. I had so much fun with him, and the next time I go back I will be staying for good. So I got to meet the rest of his family and I also had fun with his...
    JuBear424 JuBear424 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I want a girl besides my mom say she loves me. I hate being the guy that goes everywhere with his friends as the third wheel. I can't even go fishing with my friend without him...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    So yesterday was a very rough day for me and my family. My baby brother whos 2 years younger than me but still the baby of the family, felt into a crisis and as heart breaking as...
    Marypossa Marypossa 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Last October, my drinking had gotten to the point where a concerned out-of-town acquaintance called the local police out of concern for my well-being. Long story short, I was...
    brattyjenn brattyjenn 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    i just learned how to gleek after doing it involuntarily and repeating what i did and i just did it haha its pretty fun definitely going to do it all night till i have some deadly...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M Jul 11

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    I love this site! I knew in theory that there were people with my problem, but had never met any of them. Like others here, I don't know what is wrong with me. I do my best, but...
    chazman48 chazman48 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Too caring and involuntarily honest.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 13

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    Afraid to go to hell for "gluttony". I SWEAR! These psychiatric drugs, I realized...force us to SIN involuntarily. Me being on psych drugs nearly all my life & the side effects are...
    otad12 otad12 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Involuntarily. Yes i know i know. But sleep is elusive. Lmao. Sigh.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 18

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    The characters are : H&M M ’ is an African adolescent , she is someone who seems so calm and discrete , she is bookish and so interesting in literature , all the people say that...
    Violetta15 Violetta15 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Well I think I am weird in many respects, so I try to accept all the different kind of weirdness! LOL! Though I wish more people to be accepting of each other, I don't think the...
    amanyadava amanyadava 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    It's weird, but whenever I'm with friends, I basically look at myself from an outside sort of view. When I'm with them and I say something inappropriate or if I use a curse word, I...
    londontravella londontravella 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The idea for a Rush to Level50 I had already within the society, that then sabotages USA later. so a level-Rush I've already in Aion and society Wars a pair of force through and...
    rsgpfastgold rsgpfastgold 22-25, M 3 days ago

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