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I Am Jealous of My Boyfriends Kids

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    toriccaa toriccaa 26-30, F Nov 26, 2015

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    I'm not jealous of my fiancées kid,

    I have just found it harder to deal with that fact that he has her the farther along we get in our relationship. At first I was fine with it. You can't go back and change the past, and I sure wouldn't make him feel bad for having a child before he was ready, but something about...
    shadowkat13 shadowkat13 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2014

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    I Hate Myself For Resenting His Children & His Life.

    This is all over the place......sorry...it's been a rough few years & need to get this out. I (32) have been with my partner (46) for 2 years, and moved in with him & his elderly mother, who is incredibly draining. The minute I moved in with him, she began asking me to do her...
    yuriko79 yuriko79 31-35 2 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    I Can't Seem To Accept My Boyfriend Has Children With Someone Else

    Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years now and for some reason my feelings towards his two daughters have gotten worse. I've run into a lot of issues in the past with their mother wanting him back and now I can't seem to accept he has children with her. Lately I've accepted...
    Yeribeth Yeribeth 26-30, F 54 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Why....

    My thoughts are all in the forms of questions.... Why me? Why did I have to fall for this guy? Why does he have to have children who act like this?? Why can't he just have normal, well-behaved, easy to like children?? Why can't I just like his children?? Why would I...
    GBDoll GBDoll 22-25 2 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    Let Us Sleep!

    Okay, I don't have any kids of my own, but I've been dealing with my new boyfriend's child lately. She has no respect for me, never listens when I ask her to pick up her toys, and apparently doesn't like me. Now, here's what I don't understand. She comes into his bed every...
    IAmReaching IAmReaching 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 31, 2011

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    They're Kids For Crying Out Loud

    lately i find myself jealous of my boyfriends kids because, well i'm ashamed to say, i just want him to spend time with me, focus on me. he spends quite a bit of time at my house, so when it's a 'kid' night for him and he can't come over.... i don't know it just feels like theyre...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 18 Responses Oct 11, 2007

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    Cart Before The Horse.........and Again, And Again......quite The Story?

    Maybe some of you all can help me with something................it's a little thick!!!!My guy is a bit younger than me.  He is 39/me 49), he has an 8,9 and 10 year old.  My kids are 15 & 17.  I live in a State that I never would have picked for myself....nonetheless I am 'here...
    mountain007 mountain007 46-50 3 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    My story is same as most.

    But I wouldn't say I'm jealous of my boyfriend's daughter, it's the 'firsts' and mother of his daughter I'm pissed off about. They were never really dating. He was actually dating someone else and started talking to the mother of his child on the side - the two women eventually...
    kxxym kxxym 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2015

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    Why

    hi every one im looking for some feed back on my problem, some times i think there is something wrong with me for been jealous in this situation , well im 21 my partner just turned 29, we have been togethar over a year now an i really love him , the thing is he has 3 kids from a...
    suzie2011 suzie2011 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    This may seem totally unconventional

    but it's not the kids of jealous of. It's the fact my current boyfriend of 3 1/2 years had a vasectomy in his last marriage after having two kids. At first I wasn't positive I wanted kids & now it pains me to see how great a dad he is but we can never experience that joy of...
    confusedgorgeous confusedgorgeous 26-30, F May 19, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I have been in a relatioship

    for almost two years. He has a three year old son. His child has lived in another state for year and has just moved back. My boyfriend works Monday through Friday, so the only time we really have to spend together is the weekend. He now has his kid every weekend. I feel super...
    sydneyperez sydneyperez 18-21, F 3 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I am so happy to have found this thread.

    I have no one to speak to because all of my friends are in relationships with men without any children or are single. I am 25 and my boyfriend is 35. He has a daughter who is 10, by an ex girlfriend. His daughter doesn't live with him (I don't live with him yet but go there a...
    soconfused12345678 soconfused12345678 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2015

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    Want to know what's sad?

    I love him, I'm not talking about Tony. I'm talks about the baby. I'm talking about his son.....I know I shouldn't love him. He's a living breathing reminder of their love of the infidelity....but I do....sometimes I think I love him more than she does...Tony thinks it hurts me...
    Ppwincess1901 Ppwincess1901 18-21, F Jun 11, 2015

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    hello, so I've been with my fiancé

    for a year & 4 months. when we first started talking & dating i was okay with the fact that he had a son. he son just turned 2 in October. so a few months into our relationship his ex which is his sons mother starts messaging me to stay away from her sons dad which was my...
    Lizethmoraless Lizethmoraless 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    I am jealous of my bfs daughter,

    its the same I do love her but not the way my bf does plus makes me feel uncomfortable when he is around his kid because she calls him daddy also he will be sometimes talking abt how the breast milk tastes and stuff makes me jealous.
    aaskapatel aaskapatel 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2014

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    AMEN. Everything you said made me sick to hear

    because its exactly how I feel and Ive never admitted it. I am a gay woman, dating another woman who has two beautiful, fun, kind and respectful little boys. We live together and have them half the time and honestly, the way she loves them was a huge part of why I fell for her...
    caferacer123 caferacer123 31-35 2 Responses Apr 7, 2015

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for 2 years we have a 6 month old and he has a little boy from a previous relationship. I do struggle with this more now because since having our son his ex had gone from using their child as a weapon, not letting him see him, saying I was the most disgusting person going, not...
    Jenbell3 Jenbell3 26-30, F Jul 7, 2015

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    This is my first time on here

    and just needed someone to listen.I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years,we split up for a year and I started seeing other guys and he got someone pregnant even though they were not together.I decided to give our relationship another go but now 6 months on he has decided he...
    hannamua hannamua 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    For a long time I've held up these walls,

    not really letting anyone I date in. Emotionally I closed all my feelings off to a lot of people.. Friends and family. I'm not one to share a lot. I dated this guy back in 2011, I thought he was too emotional and didn't like the fact that he was trying to rush a relationship...
    MMM3723 MMM3723 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2014

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    Why Do I Feel Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Kids?

    My boyfriend is 8 years older than I am, and we have been together for four years. We have lived together for almost the entire relationship. He was married for a year, and had two children very young. For some reason, I just cannot get over it! I use to not even care, but...
    needadvice7 needadvice7 22-25 4 Responses Sep 27, 2010

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    I know I've posted here before,

    but I felt the need to post again since some **** has come up. And I could use some unbiased advice! A few days ago, I posted a photo of my fiancée and I on Facebook. I tagged him in it and a couple people liked it and commented. The last comment was from his kid's grandma...
    shadowkat13 shadowkat13 18-21, F Jul 14, 2014

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    I feel like I am in the same boat

    as everyone else on here. Both my boyfriend and I have grown children. We were both thankful for that when we started dating. My children adore my boyfriend and my boyfriends sons adore me. We have been together for over 2 years now. The issue is my boyfriends daughter, who...
    mominmass mominmass 46-50, F 13 Responses May 23, 2014

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    She Needs Him More Than I Do...

    I just started dating this amazing guy a little over a month ago, so it's a very new relationship still. This is the first time I've ever dated someone with a child, so it's a new experience for me. He has a daughter who just turned three. He and his ex-wife split up because she...
    IAmReaching IAmReaching 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Should I Stay Or Should I Go

    My boyfriend has been divorced for 7 years. I have been with him for 3. He has his children (age 11 & 14) every weekend. I have grown to resent them. Recently his ex filed for an increase in child support and I encouraged him to file a complaint to change the visitation to...
    mrtijm mrtijm 46-50 4 Responses Sep 24, 2010

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    Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Ex And Son

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years now, he's 24 and I'm 21. His son is going to be 5 in October, and he's a good kid but he's not mine. And lately he's been bringing up getting married. And I love him but I'm not in love with the idea of his kid and ex-wife...
    killerspacecowz killerspacecowz 18-21 2 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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    The Things I'Ve Come To Understand...! Hope It Helps You.

    First of all, thank you for posting your stories. It seems like we all have a lot in common when it comes to boyfriends/husbands with kids. In my case, I've had this feeling too. I too have a boyfriend with two kids. I too have felt the "jealousy" which also refers as...
    RoseLolita RoseLolita 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    It's helpful to know

    that I'm not the only one who's going though the same situation. I always swore to myself that I would never be with a man that had children, but yet here I am. I've had a crush on my boyfriend since I was in high school(I'm almost 30 now). When I saw there was an opportunity to...
    BlackStarryNight BlackStarryNight 26-30, F Dec 14, 2014

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    Sabotaging My Relationship By Being Jealous

    First of all, I have to say, I'm beyond relieved to see that what I've been feeling is normal, and I'm not some evil villain. Well, if I am, we all are :-D I am 28, and my boyfriend is 31. I don't have any children, but he has three (a four year old daughter, and two boys, ages...
    cnacker1 cnacker1 26-30 2 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    The above I didn't know

    where else to post this. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I love him to pieces, he is everything I ask for accept he has a daughter with an ex girlfriend. 1. I can't get over that I have to share him 2. I can't get over that I will never come first to him 3. I'm...
    Mistygemma92 Mistygemma92 22-25 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I Need Help Please.

    Hi. So to be completely honest, I don't know what I am doing here. I just found this site purely because I need advice. Maybe I don't even need that. I just need to talk and I need for someone to understand. I need to feel like I am not insane. Let's start with age. I am 19 years...
    MadRose93 MadRose93 18-21 1 Response Jul 30, 2012

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    Reading through some experiences like mine,

    I began to tear up. I didn't feel alone knowing there are girls out there who feel my pain. I'm so tired of feeling alone. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. He has two young kids with his ex fiance. They are 11 months apart. He proposed to her...
    tanahkay tanahkay 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2015

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for almost 2 years. He has 2 kids, 16 and 10. They are his life, which I understand. I don't have kids of my own, but can still understand. But, he never makes me a priority, whatever they want, they get. He does not discipline them. He is 10 years older than I am, I'm 31, he is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 24, 2015

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    I have been married for almost 2 years

    and we were together for 2 years prior to that. I have trouble understanding what I am actually feeling so how can I express these feelings to someone else and get things off my chest. He has 2 boys, 5 and 8. My husband is brilliant, believe it or not, he puts me first and goes...
    jaydemarch jaydemarch 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2015

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    Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Daughter?

    I don’t know what to do, and this feeling wont go away so im jus gonna write with hopes that ill feel somewhat better afterwards. Ive been feeling this way for a while now…I was hoping that, with time it would get better or just go away, but its getting worse every day. I jus...
    smiddleb smiddleb 18-21, F 8 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Kids And Depressed

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for three years.  I have 3 children of my own (22, 20 and 16).  My boyfriend has two boys 15 and 10.  My children do not live with us.  Recently my boyfriends 15 year old moved in with us and the 10 year old still lives...
    belnat belnat 41-45, F 11 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bellecc11 bellecc11 26-30, F Jul 7, 2015

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    Dislike My Boyfriend's Kids ...

    Wow, I really thought I was the only crazy woman who didn't want anything to do w/ her boyfriend's kids! It is the strangest thing. I LOVE kids. My friend's kids, my nieces and nephews, my own girls...anyone else's kids, but HIS. Weird, isn't it? I just can't bring myself to even...
    vallaw vallaw 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for over two years and he has three children 10,8 and 5. My son is 22 and he doesnt live at home anymore.Our issue is he don't help pay any bills at the house. He pays only his car, insurance, child support etc. always claiming he has no money to contribute. He started out...
    Lonely1infla Lonely1infla 46-50, F Mar 11, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Has A Child With His Childhood Crush..

    So, this may seem like a long story but I really need advice/help on this subject. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years now and I knew that he had a child with another woman from the get go but at that time it didnt seem to bother me but as time went on my...
    EVmarie EVmarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I feel so blessed to have come across these

    posts because I have been struggling for so long with this same issue. my boyfriend and I will have been together 3 years this coming up May. When we first started talking he told me there was a possibility that he could have a daughter from a girl he had a one night stand with...
    missfancyy07 missfancyy07 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 11, 2015

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    It seems I have a lot in common with everyone,

    which makes me feel better. I thought I was the only one who was feeling this way. I just cant seem to cope with my boyfriend having two kids. It's been well over a year and I love him, but I just feel so jealous and like our relationship doesn't matter. His children are 10 and...
    PixieDustSami PixieDustSami 26-30, F 18 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    So glad I'm not the only one

    who feels this way. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now (I'm 23, he's 24) and he has two kids (2 & 4). I knew he had kids before we started dating and didn't think it would ever be a problem. However, I've been struggling with it a lot lately. Our situation is a...
    beb2010 beb2010 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2015

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    I'm Jealous Of My Boyfriends Ex Wife And Kids

    My boyfriend is 29 and im 23. We've only been together about 3 months,but we've known each other for about 5 years. We are very happy together,though there is 1 thing that annoys me. I feel bad for thinking it. He is currently going through a divorce,and has two kids aged 3 and...
    FixYou52 FixYou52 22-25 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I have been living together

    for 5 months now and we each have a child both are boys his son is 5 and my son is 6. They get along for the most part they bicker here and there but nothing serious. My boyfriend moved into my place and we plan on getting a place of our own very soon. His son stays with us 4...
    RoseyL RoseyL 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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