I Am Jealous of Those In Long-term Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 228 People

    Can't Help It...

    It seems I'm constantly surrounded by people talking about their boy/girlfriend... People having fun, spending time with each other, getting married, starting families... People at work discussing their relationships... People on Facebook gabbing about how much fun they had last...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Sep 9, 2010

    Envy Rots The Bones

    INTRODUCTION: A. A person may be faithful church-goer and live a morally good life, and yet harbor enough “envy” in his heart to damn his soul 1. “Envy” is a common sin, with almost every person having some problem with this green-eyed monster at some time or another. 2...
    Prodigal82 Prodigal82
    31-35, F
    Sep 26, 2013

    I'm jealous because I had the long term

    'picture perfect' family . So now when I see couples & their kid or kids, I instantly get jealous sad & mad. Ugh
    krmdr krmdr
    22-25, F
    Apr 7, 2015

    I Am Jealous Of Couples In A Long Term Relationship

    I feel sick and bitter inside when i see couples that have loved each other for a long time. And i think the reason why i feel like that towards them is because i have never dated or had a girlfriend before, well i have had a few but they were extremely short term relationships...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Dec 30, 2009

    G And S

    They've been together for a while now. I was friends with one of them. But the year they started dating, my 'friend' just... changed. Different now. I've asked some people who were also friends with my friend, and we all share the same opinion. Change DID happen. And not for...
    shadowedfantasies shadowedfantasies
    18-21
    Jun 24, 2013

    Sad An Lonely Always

    I can't even start one. let alone have a long term one. I don't even have long term friendships. always get bashed, or hurt, always get guys hurting my feelings making fun of me... **** i wish i was pretty and rich...maybe guys would like me then...they don't really like clever...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2010
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Nov 16, 2015

    They Inspire Me, That Forever Is Possible.

    i think everyone who joined this group including myself, feel jealous but also inspired that "it is possible" to stay together through the good & the bad. No matter what. Please don't hate on an opinion coming from an 18 year old. i may be young, BUT i do know, what love is...
    DJgovender11 DJgovender11
    18-21, M
    Oct 14, 2012

    I am hurt whenever I see people in long term

    relationships because it's something I'm not sure I'll ever have. I don't fault others for their love but I'm not wrong in wanting it for myself too. My relationships are like a comet that always burn out. I wish someone would share their secret with me.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Sep 26, 2015

    Long Term

    I didn't know how lucky I was till I split with my wife, she was up for anything between the 2 of us, each night I went to sleep with my arm round her breasts. Don't think I will meet the same again.
    Likelife Likelife
    61-65, M
    Mar 22, 2012

    Why Not I Am?

    Actually we can say it is natural tendency of human being he always look up for those things which he dont have and other have it ...Here is the creation of jealous feeling in mind ..All social site help us to do these thing more and more to watch other peoples life more and more...
    ashu4569 ashu4569
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 23, 2012

    not really, I'm really "happy"

    for em. sure, I get a lil envious at times and i wonder why not me? but, jealousy is so very unattractive and it only leads to senseless hate. plus, you dont know what goes on behind closed doors? maybe they just appear to be happy? everyone thot that me and my hubby were happy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 31, 2015

    Lol

    Pshhhhh yeah.Lucky fuckkers.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

    I Want One

    for so long now i wanted one... cant get one... my longest relationship was 9 months.... and that failed miserably
    BeautyHeartClash BeautyHeartClash
    18-21, F
    Jun 5, 2011

    I've never had a relationship

    that lasted longer than six months. My longest relationship was six months and the shortest was five days. I'm so jealous of couples that have been together for a year or more. My older sister has been with her boyfriend for two years and still going strong. I've been cheated on...
    mizzimabeautifulchick mizzimabeautifulchick
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2015

    Jealous Isnt Even the Word

    I cant stand to see these happy couples who have been together for yrs ... It makes me sick ...  why cant i have a relationship that lasts that long???? especially how Gooey they are towards each other  bleh .... being single isnt bad .. you have freedom ... but even in...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2007

    Iso Happy Loving And Kind Woman 4 Ltr +++

    I am available. : ) I am still looking for my soulmate good hearted gal very sweet and loving to me. : ) Lets talk.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112
    41-45, M
    Jan 11, 2013

    Loveless

    haha i'm 20 and i've never been in a relationship and have been just plain unlucky in love .and it really sucks to be around people in love..makes me feel ugly and lonely ='(
    muffinlob muffinlob
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2011

    I want to be in a long-term relationship,

    but at the same time I want to be alone for awhile, sit on tumblr for hours and not be bothered. I also want someone to really get to know me and love me but I also want to love myself.
    MoonUnitSpiff MoonUnitSpiff
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    Ugh to Singledom

    Being single has its perks, don't get me wrong.  However, it has begun to be completely miserable when going out with a group of friends that somehow managed to all be coupled off.  I mean, sure, there's the few stragglers of the group, but I (as one of the single...
    qlcrisis qlcrisis
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 21, 2007

    I can't help it anymore!

    I am very jealous of that muslim girl! This how it started. I fell in love with a Christian man. He talks to muslims to learn their culture/life. He told me that he fell for a muslim woman once but she had a fiancee, so there was no relationship between them. He confess to me...
    greenamythese77 greenamythese77
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015
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