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I Am Jealous of Those In Long-term Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 203 People

    I want to be in a long-term relationship,

    but at the same time I want to be alone for awhile, sit on tumblr for hours and not be bothered. I also want someone to really get to know me and love me but I also want to love myself.
    MoonUnitSpiff MoonUnitSpiff 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Lol

    Pshhhhh yeah.Lucky fuckkers.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Envy Rots The Bones

    INTRODUCTION: A. A person may be faithful church-goer and live a morally good life, and yet harbor enough โ€œenvyโ€ in his heart to damn his soul 1. โ€œEnvyโ€ is a common sin, with almost every person having some problem with this green-eyed monster at some time or another. 2...
    Prodigal82 Prodigal82 31-35, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Iso Happy Loving And Kind Woman 4 Ltr +++

    I am available. : ) I am still looking for my soulmate good hearted gal very sweet and loving to me. : ) Lets talk.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Jan 11, 2013

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    I'm jealous because I had the long term

    'picture perfect' family . So now when I see couples & their kid or kids, I instantly get jealous sad & mad. Ugh
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F Apr 7

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    G And S

    They've been together for a while now. I was friends with one of them. But the year they started dating, my 'friend' just... changed. Different now. I've asked some people who were also friends with my friend, and we all share the same opinion. Change DID happen. And not for...
    shadowedfantasies shadowedfantasies 16-17 Jun 24, 2013

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    Jealous Isnt Even the Word

    I cant stand to see these happy couples who have been together for yrs ... It makes me sick ...  why cant i have a relationship that lasts that long???? especially how Gooey they are towards each other  bleh .... being single isnt bad .. you have freedom ... but even in...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 22, 2007

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    Loveless

    haha i'm 20 and i've never been in a relationship and have been just plain unlucky in love .and it really sucks to be around people in love..makes me feel ugly and lonely ='(
    muffinlob muffinlob 18-21, F Nov 17, 2011

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    I Want One

    for so long now i wanted one... cant get one... my longest relationship was 9 months.... and that failed miserably
    BeautyHeartClash BeautyHeartClash 18-21, F Jun 5, 2011

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    I Am Jealous Of Couples In A Long Term Relationship

    I feel sick and bitter inside when i see couples that have loved each other for a long time. And i think the reason why i feel like that towards them is because i have never dated or had a girlfriend before, well i have had a few but they were extremely short term relationships...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    They Inspire Me, That Forever Is Possible.

    i think everyone who joined this group including myself, feel jealous but also inspired that "it is possible" to stay together through the good & the bad. No matter what. Please don't hate on an opinion coming from an 18 year old. i may be young, BUT i do know, what love is...
    DJgovender11 DJgovender11 18-21, M Oct 14, 2012

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    Sad An Lonely Always

    I can't even start one. let alone have a long term one. I don't even have long term friendships. always get bashed, or hurt, always get guys hurting my feelings making fun of me... **** i wish i was pretty and rich...maybe guys would like me then...they don't really like clever...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    Can't Help It...

    It seems I'm constantly surrounded by people talking about their boy/girlfriend... People having fun, spending time with each other, getting married, starting families... People at work discussing their relationships... People on Facebook gabbing about how much fun they had last...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M 6 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    Ugh to Singledom

    Being single has its perks, don't get me wrong.  However, it has begun to be completely miserable when going out with a group of friends that somehow managed to all be coupled off.  I mean, sure, there's the few stragglers of the group, but I (as one of the single...
    qlcrisis qlcrisis 18-21, F 4 Responses May 21, 2007

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    Why Not I Am?

    Actually we can say it is natural tendency of human being he always look up for those things which he dont have and other have it ...Here is the creation of jealous feeling in mind ..All social site help us to do these thing more and more to watch other peoples life more and more...
    ashu4569 ashu4569 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Long Term

    I didn't know how lucky I was till I split with my wife, she was up for anything between the 2 of us, each night I went to sleep with my arm round her breasts. Don't think I will meet the same again.
    Likelife Likelife 61-65, M Mar 22, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Its a strange one this. I was in a long term relationship that ended on very bad terms and was stuck for someone to go on a summer holiday with. I ended up going backpacking alone...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response May 4

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    im a nice guy just trying to find the right girl i have not had the best of luck but if anybody would like to try something new pm me :)
    omegakingz780 omegakingz780 16-17, M Apr 26

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    I have been in a few ltr's but I would like them to last longer. I'm questioning my tolerance level but seem to choose s poor match. I really want to look at myself more inside...
    twoputt twoputt 36-40, M May 7

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    I am NOT looking for Mister Perfect. I just want a man that is going to treat me right and be their for me. I don't care about his looks. I just want someone that will adore me...
    rubyjuly rubyjuly 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I met my husband through the man who is now my brother-in-law. At our wedding he was the best man and in his speech he said "I may be losing a good house keeper but I am gaining a...
    ag00dwife ag00dwife 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. Also we've both never been in a relationship before and i feel that's crazy in a good way. I can't believe he has SO much...
    CandyDreamsx CandyDreamsx 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I probably have a really unique love story that I always love telling. I met my boyfriend on an internet game called Runescape about seven years ago. I lived in Michigan while he...
    RedrumRaven RedrumRaven 18-21, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Hello i will share my storry about long distance relationships. P.s sorry my englis is low. i`am in long distance relationships alredy 4 years and we engage. but sometims my men...
    Dzilis Dzilis 18-21, F Apr 26

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    I do believe a long distance relationship can work, as long as there is communication and trust with each other and of course being loyal, but I think a long distance relationship...
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M May 12

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    Some days are better than others that's for sure. Sometimes I feel like I'm wasting my time, other times I feel like it's going to be so worth it in the end. What's a relationship...
    MickxLove MickxLove 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    gofund.me/t9se228 well here is my link for my finding let me tell you a little bit about me well My name Is Mandy I am in a long distance relationship from the past 3 years and my...
    americangal americangal 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    I got a girlfriend just yesterday and she was lesbian maybe bi. She was my crush in junior high. She got a girlfriend before and they celebrate their 7 months just yesterday and...
    mar1232 mar1232 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm waiting on a soldier and people say it's stupid to be in a long distance relationship. But seeing all of your stories have made me stronger in knowing that my relationship will...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 29

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    My girlfriend and I due to our jobs and prior obligations had to do a long distance relationship. I had to admit it sucked at first but we found a way through it. We were only 3...
    lonestallion153 lonestallion153 31-35, M May 13

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    I've always wanted a long distance Relationship. Someone I can Skype with or FaceTime and Facebook chat. I suppose maybe sometimes it would be hard but then you would fall in love...
    lostgirl112 lostgirl112 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    I'm in long distance relationship. We are 10,000 miles away. We have been talking for 1.5 yrs. We call ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend but we never met. He planned to visit me...
    Thissmomo Thissmomo 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    i believe long distance relationshipd can work , but i also believe they r the hardest .. missin u more , it has been 13 months now , am i ever gonna see u again ..
    missmonday missmonday 18-21 4 Responses May 1

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    my long distance relationship was the most powerful and real thing I've ever felt, I've been so scared to try again because of the ups and downs I have faced with it, but I have...
    dizzyneat dizzyneat 16-17, F May 6

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    I had a long distance relationship that didn't work out and it was heartbreaking
    didsome didsome 31-35, M May 8

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    My girlfriend lives in Texas and im in Ohio but i cant help but be with her. I used to never think a long distance relationship could work but i guess you cant help who u fall in...
    LordJashin LordJashin 13-15, M 1 Response May 12

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    Over a year of a very long distance relationship..and when you fall in love with someone the distance sucks!!!! But I will stay strong. See her about 3 months a year .. Hopefully...
    josh221992 josh221992 22-25, M 1 Response May 12

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    Long distance relationships can work. I was in a 2 year LDR, me in Indiana and her in New York City. Both people have to want it and also be creative with travel and communication...
    SolomonicCoke SolomonicCoke 22-25, M 1 Response May 13

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    I've never had a long distant relationship only with friends. I am very trustworthy and loyal and I will text back haha but I'm 14 so idk ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ boys at my school are all the...
    xjazzahx xjazzahx 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi everyone, So I set up a gofundme for my French boyfriend and I to reunite this summer. I feel somewhat guilty for asking you guys for money, because I'm not asking for a...
    Kaylaandkillian Kaylaandkillian 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hi everyone, So I set up a gofundme for my French boyfriend and I to reunite this summer. I feel somewhat guilty for asking you guys for money, because I'm not asking for a...
    Kaylaandkillian Kaylaandkillian 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    he was thousands of miles away, moved here permanently and cheated on me with another girl when he got here...though I still have hope that long distance relationships work
    ImaWizardKindOfGirl ImaWizardKindOfGirl 18-21, F 4 days ago

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