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I Am Jealous of Those In Long-term Relationship

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    Can't Help It...

    It seems I'm constantly surrounded by people talking about their boy/girlfriend... People having fun, spending time with each other, getting married, starting families... People at work discussing their relationships... People on Facebook gabbing about how much fun they had last...
    KewlioMZX KewlioMZX 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    Loveless

    haha i'm 20 and i've never been in a relationship and have been just plain unlucky in love .and it really sucks to be around people in love..makes me feel ugly and lonely ='(
    muffinlob muffinlob 18-21, F Nov 17, 2011

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    Sad An Lonely Always

    I can't even start one. let alone have a long term one. I don't even have long term friendships. always get bashed, or hurt, always get guys hurting my feelings making fun of me... **** i wish i was pretty and rich...maybe guys would like me then...they don't really like clever...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    Iso Happy Loving And Kind Woman 4 Ltr +++

    I am available. : ) I am still looking for my soulmate good hearted gal very sweet and loving to me. : ) Lets talk.
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Jan 11, 2013

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    I Want One

    for so long now i wanted one... cant get one... my longest relationship was 9 months.... and that failed miserably
    BeautyHeartClash BeautyHeartClash 18-21, F Jun 5, 2011

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    I Am Jealous Of Couples In A Long Term Relationship

    I feel sick and bitter inside when i see couples that have loved each other for a long time. And i think the reason why i feel like that towards them is because i have never dated or had a girlfriend before, well i have had a few but they were extremely short term relationships...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 30, 2009

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    Jealous Isnt Even the Word

    I cant stand to see these happy couples who have been together for yrs ... It makes me sick ...  why cant i have a relationship that lasts that long???? especially how Gooey they are towards each other  bleh .... being single isnt bad .. you have freedom ... but even in...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2007

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    G And S

    They've been together for a while now. I was friends with one of them. But the year they started dating, my 'friend' just... changed. Different now. I've asked some people who were also friends with my friend, and we all share the same opinion. Change DID happen. And not for...
    shadowedfantasies shadowedfantasies 16-17 Jun 24, 2013

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    They Inspire Me, That Forever Is Possible.

    i think everyone who joined this group including myself, feel jealous but also inspired that "it is possible" to stay together through the good & the bad. No matter what. Please don't hate on an opinion coming from an 18 year old. i may be young, BUT i do know, what love is...
    DJgovender11 DJgovender11 18-21, M Oct 14, 2012

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    Envy Rots The Bones

    INTRODUCTION: A. A person may be faithful church-goer and live a morally good life, and yet harbor enough “envy” in his heart to damn his soul 1. “Envy” is a common sin, with almost every person having some problem with this green-eyed monster at some time or another. 2...
    Prodigal82 Prodigal82 31-35, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Because I Just Am...

    Of course I am jealous of those in long term relationships...at least the actual happy ones. Now adays we are bred to believe that the only way to be happy is if you are in a long lasting relationship...so YES! I am jealous...I wish when I was dating that I could go over a week...
    luvinbbygrl10 luvinbbygrl10 22-25, F Oct 12, 2012

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    Lol

    Pshhhhh yeah.Lucky fuckkers.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2011

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    Long Term

    I didn't know how lucky I was till I split with my wife, she was up for anything between the 2 of us, each night I went to sleep with my arm round her breasts. Don't think I will meet the same again.
    Likelife Likelife 61-65, M Mar 22, 2012

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    Why Not I Am?

    Actually we can say it is natural tendency of human being he always look up for those things which he dont have and other have it ...Here is the creation of jealous feeling in mind ..All social site help us to do these thing more and more to watch other peoples life more and more...
    ashu4569 ashu4569 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2012

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    Ugh to Singledom

    Being single has its perks, don't get me wrong.  However, it has begun to be completely miserable when going out with a group of friends that somehow managed to all be coupled off.  I mean, sure, there's the few stragglers of the group, but I (as one of the single...
    qlcrisis qlcrisis 21-25, F 3 Responses May 21, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    On March 5, 2011 someone on here became my bff of all times. he was always there for me. on july 7, 2013 we became a couple. on december 25, 2014 we started skypeing everyday. on...
    RobertsLove17 RobertsLove17 16-17, F Jul 29

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    Okay here's my story, i met a guy online, we became best friends on internet. I know his full background, he know my full background too. I even met his father, brother and grandpa...
    AnnieChua AnnieChua 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Hi Everyone Well, as the title implies I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and I could really use some advice/help. I mean, I love him very much, but sometimes...
    Cassandrae Cassandrae 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It all started back in 2011 when I was 18, just a few months away from turning 19. I had been using a site called flashflashrevolution.com because I was interested in the game it...
    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Almost three years ago, I remember my faith in long distance relationships was fading away. Experience showed me that behind those people I thought I knew and cared about were...
    SquareOne1 SquareOne1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F a week ago

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, we've been talking for 7. We've never met, we started talking through twitter, and I'm in Wisconsin and he's in Texas. I...
    savannahsays savannahsays 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Long distance relationships can work, but only if the two companions are honest, loyal, communicating ( not meaning up each other's ***** ), and trusting. A long distance...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    May 21st 2014 was the day I was told that my dad had cancer for the third time in his lifetime. That day turned my life upside down in not just the family aspect of my life but...
    Gurl27 Gurl27 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    For some reason I really want a long distance relationship. I've been in one before, and it was the best. I'm actually the one that ended it because I was immature and stupid. I...
    nakoj nakoj 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Not touchin or kissing so what is the meaning of success ? I think long distance relationships are all about patient and in my opinion life is to short for long distance...
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. We met through Instagram and met in person. I visit him and he visits me. However, we haven't...
    StayCalmImYours StayCalmImYours 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Being apart from the person, you love has to be one of the most challenging experiences in a persons life. Every day that you are apart. Can't help but be reflected on as...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    USA/Ghana-- 7 years ago I went to Ghana with a Ghanaian-American guy I was dating at the time (let's call him Yaw). Since Yaw's main purpose in going to Ghana was to visit family...
    Eureka54 Eureka54 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Long distance relationships are so much better then short distance relationships. I mean, you have to have such faith and trust in a person to know they wont cheat or lie. And...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I think they can. Just depends who you're with. Things can go great one day and just pure crap the next. I've been in several long distance relationships. They've been okay, but...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I believe that long distance relationships can work. As long as there is trust and love
    kaseys14 kaseys14 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    i remember being in a long distance relationship with a guy i went to school with in 7th grade. he was the finest guy i ever met so far. it was a pretty cool relationship but it...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Alright so I am not going to try to go into the details of why me and my fiancée are in a long distance relationship because it's going to take up to much time.. (That and I have...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    F.uck you--- you don't work okay? Better go f.ck yourself than f.ucking with our lives.hate you just ruined me huh? F.uck you "long distance relationship can work" you are a f...
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    If You Have Been Or Are In A Long Distance Relationship Please Tell Me About Your Experience And How To Make It Work Or Why It Didn't Work.
    Hajile2238 Hajile2238 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    If you both trust each other then I think they can easily work! I think I'd be really good at a long distance relationship!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 30

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    I have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, my boyfriend(who is also in the navy) Lives in America and I live in England. He's gonna be deployed to hawaii soon so...
    jessicalouisexo jessicalouisexo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 10 months so far and during all that time , I've never met my boyfriend yet not even once. Every time I try to plan to meet...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 Aug 6

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