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I Am Jealous

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    I HAVE met someone I have fallen in love with

    and just realized I am so jealous,,,I have never been the jealous type before,,,but what I feel for him is so different and special,than what I have ever felt for anyone else ever.I love him so much.
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    That's ashame but I am jealous of my

    boyfriend's sister I swear I would never wanted bad things for her and sometimes I tried to help her and she even didn't understand that was me that help her however she is such an successful woman and so strong I want to be like her She is 30 years old she is a doctor and a...
    wishifiknewwhoiam wishifiknewwhoiam 18-21, F Jun 24

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    Turns Out My Best Friends a Lesbian!

    Well me and this girl who I'm going to call "Erin" were best friends. I always took it as she liked me. I was getting ready to ask her out when she told me that she was a lesbian! I was shocked. She said I was the only person she was conferable telling. That was a...
    blackberry43008 blackberry43008 18-21 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    I can't tell if I want the life of an actor

    because I think I would enjoy it, or if I am just jealous of their relationships with the actors they work with.
    secertlyLost secertlyLost 18-21, M Jan 20

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    You know, I am happy

    for some of these people that have amazing loved ones, and a great family, and tons of friends who want to hang out with them and whatnot. They're good people, they deserve good, happy lives, I wouldn't wish them ill. I simply wish I could understand how they've accomplished...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    ...though I abandon it,

    daily. The five-thousand mile gulf of separation plays tricks on my mind. She demonstrates her love to me on a daily basis, and she tells me she loves me every day, without fail; yet shadows of her past creep into the picture and cloud my vision; these pathetic worms that wasted...
    quicklycomingundone quicklycomingundone 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    Jealous Of My Boyfriends Female Friends

    I am jealous of my boyfriends ability to connect with other people so easily. I am especially jealous of the female friends he has. They are fun and spontaneous and confident and I wish I were like that, and I feel so inferior to them. It hurts so bad. Its like icant even be...
    emilystrange105 emilystrange105 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    My wife still talks regularly with a former

    lover. Normally this would not bother me so much. My problem is how she hides it and down plays the old relationship. I am very uncomfortable with this man still invading my life in this way. They talk about when they were together from time to time. And often talk of how much...
    Glasswalker Glasswalker 36-40, M Aug 29

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    I Shouldn't Be But I Am

    I feel really bad about it but I am secertly very jealous of my best friend.  We have been there for each other through thick and thin and now that the best thing in her life has happened to her, i am so very jealous.  Here the story. I have been in love with the same...
    radbunny radbunny 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2008

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    I Get Jealous Way Too Easy

    i want you all to myself, you arent even mine but im jealous about you talking to other people. ugh! why do i always get jealous over things that arent mine? it never ends, im good and happy then i get jealous and ruin things, then you leave and im a mess, then i move on and it...
    crunchatizamecaptin crunchatizamecaptin 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I look at other girls

    and wonder what they did to look like them and what they did to make everyone love them. They were confident that they look good and I am stuck in my shell trying to improve instead of enjoying myself how I am. Fabulous hair, Fabulous makeup, fabulous clothes and unique...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I am jealous of Miss Piggy.

    I wanted to marry Kermit!! And she stole him from me!! :'( I am so much sad now!! She ruined my dream of spending my life with Kermit!!But now i have moved on... now i want to marry my Barbie doll!!!! I love my Barbie dolls, i love playing with them, they make me so much happy...
    BIttuLOuIsA BIttuLOuIsA 18-21, M 1 Response May 29

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    I'm not really the jealous type

    but being on house arrest its hard not to be. All of my friends are out having a blast and summer hasn't even started yet..
    sarahest1986 sarahest1986 26-30, F May 4

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    I'm jealous of people

    who have horses. Gosh I can't stand it when people talk about their horses like their **** or say they love their horses but kill them if they can't win a ******* competition for them! I want to kill them when they do that. Then I wonder why the **** do you have a horse of all...
    kelseytoby kelseytoby 16-17 May 5

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    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I Hate Chatrooms And Facebook Because Make Me Jealous

    I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I always had trouble with the fact that he enjoys chatrooms. Maybe I´m insecure yes! but the fact that he could be sending pictures of him to other girls makes me sick to my stomach. When we go out I am always alert for signs...
    Alexaelen Alexaelen 26-30, F Aug 8, 2012

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    Jealousy Good Bad And Ugly

    Intro: Recently someone asked me to write about Jealousy, and so i started thinking about me and how jealousy i used to be, and still am sometimes... There are many different forms of Jealousy, sometimes its envy over someone, maybe they have a better job, more money, maybe they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Shows Us At Our Worst

    I have someone on EP who is jealous of me, I met a woman on EP about two months ago and very quickly we became very good friends. We now talk almost all the time and she and I would happily call each other best friends. This has made another of her male friends jealous and he...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    This Girl At Church.....

    Can somebody help me with this....  and tell me if I'm just way off base or not.  There's this girl at church.... I say "girl" but really she's about 24 and has two kids and a husband.  But she is just ANNOYING me to DEATH!  I don't know if it's...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    Wish I Were'nt

    He's so close to her. He was in love with her. Then he met me... Says he's over her, however remains close to her. I know she does not feel any different about him before I came along.... *sigh*    I know he wishes I were not jealous, but I don't know how to not be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    I Need Advice: Im Unsure If Its Jealousy Or Protectiveness.

    There's a certain girl, "Kay", who my boyfriend, "Manu" is friends with. They were friends for 1 month before I came into the picture. When she thinks I'm not around, Kay gets nosey and acts "differently". Eventually, after seeing a pattern of her awkwardness with my boyfriend...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2011

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    I Am Jealous

    its hard wherever i see couples holding hands kissing cuddling i get upset. yes im jealous but isnt it human nature to want something someone else but you has.Im jealous of their happiness i so wish i could be happy like that. ok im 43 a bit of a loser, i still live with my...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 21, 2013

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    I wonder if Plato or Aristotle ever experienced

    thoughts/feelings/emotions similar to those of the stereotypical young woman. Did they ever see another philosopher's boobs and go "gee, wonder how much she paid for those?" Or spend hours, days, maybe even weeks of their life trying to judge how their butt looked in different...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F Sep 9

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    I am tired of looking at all these people

    who can do stuff better then me. People who just seem to have it all, those people who are just good looking, talented, popular, and everyone loves. When I try to do anything it seems pale in comparison; "oh you can play the guitar? so can Chris! and Christ is TEN times better...
    QwartLane QwartLane 13-15, M 1 Response May 13

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    So many kids get to do things on a daily basis

    I don't get to do. Go out to eat whatever they want, skip school whenever they want, go to friends' houses whenever they want, get crappy grades too and not give a care in the world, and say inappropriate rude things all the time. I must be anal to care about stuff like that...
    foreignthing foreignthing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Im in love with this girl.

    I've never felt this way about anybody. I get jealous over her talking to other guys. She has cheated on me before and I feel like she doesn't tell me the truth about somethings. Am I setting myself up to get hurt. I really want to make it work but I'm scared. Anybody have any...
    xPatrickB xPatrickB 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    I am jealous of my sister,

    she is so damn pretty and I wish I had the life she does. I'm stuck at home with nothing while she has everything. Even the good looks in the family. :c
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    My boyfriend always talks about pretty girls

    and sometimes I front of me. He does it on the side thinking he's slick but I can hear him anyways. It hurts me and it embarrassing because he's with me yet he does this and we've had issues in the past when it comes to his exes. The funny thing is that when I do it he gets mad...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I'm a gay 14 year old male.

    The guy I love, my best friend, is dating another girl. I know he likes me. He told me so. I'm falling head over heels for him and wish we could be together. I know I sound like an ***, but I'm so jealous. Any advice would be welcome.
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T 6 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    What's wrong with me?

    What has broken me? Why does no one want me (who I want)? Why am I not ever good enough? I'm jealous of a guy's girlfriend and the pretty girls he talks to. I'm jealous of other females when they are married. I'm jealous of pregnant women, especially younger pregnant women. My...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 7

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    I Was Shocked to Know It Myself

    I have always thought of myself as an anti-jealousy kind of person, I never believed in jealousy as a concept..and I've never felt jealous when I was with my ex-boyfriend...but I found out that was because I trusted him...I was sure he loved me so there was no reason for me to be...
    Harmonyyy Harmonyyy 19-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    I'm not really the jealous type

    but being on house arrest its hard not to be. All of my friends are out having a blast and summer hasn't even started yet..
    sarahest1986 sarahest1986 26-30, F 1 Response May 4

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    Just to let you know

    that I trust you with all my heart, Everything you do, I want to know All I want you to know is, I like you Like you a lot that I am jealous Otherwise, I wouldn't care anything you do U are the one I like, I love and I care So, just to let you know, I am JEALOUS
    sensualromantic sensualromantic 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    I hate seeing someone you like/have feelings

    for/love/trust act the same way with everyone else..
    Leilajames Leilajames 13-15, F Jul 2

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    I am jealous. I guess this is also has to do

    with low self esteem but also jealousy. I look around and see girls who have perfect skin, hair that never looks out of place, bodies that resemble those of models, and some who get good grades and are popular and have boyfriends. And I can't help but be jealous that they don't...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F Apr 23

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    I'm not really the jealous type

    but being on house arrest its hard not to be. All of my friends are out having a blast and summer hasn't even started yet..
    sarahest1986 sarahest1986 26-30, F May 4

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    Of All The Skinny Girls In The World

    I'm not going to lie, I'm super jealous of all the skinny people in the world! You guys are so awesome and look absolutely amazing! I'm dying with jealousy because I so badly wish I could be like you all! I'm just not happy with myself at all right now. I wish I could be skinnier...
    skyhook2612 skyhook2612 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    WHOEVER is going to warped tour.

    go and See Neck Deep. those guys are from a town not far from me. they are ******* awesome
    TheFlamingLips TheFlamingLips 18-21, M Jun 30

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    Of you..and you... And you out there.

    .(applied to those in my time zone only) Cause i am oncall tonight and i'm sleepy and at times like this i'd wish i'm working in an office during office hour only. *sigh* P/s: i get jealous of u and those lady friends of yours too. Well, to be honest, i dont know whether they...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    Me and my ex of over two years broke up a

    little over a month ago and today I saw him with a new girl. I can't say that I was over him, but I was finally beginning to move on. Seeing him with someone else however, doing the things we used to do, just crushed me inside. Brought back all my feelings for him.. I want to...
    ashley719 ashley719 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    Were Drifting Apart..

    my and my closest friend are drifting apart, i can feel it. The worst part is that she is easily replacing me. I called her today and she told me her friend was sleeping over and theyre having a great time!Yes i am jealous. I dont want her to hangout with anyone else or have as...
    Vervepipe726 Vervepipe726 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Grateful nevertheless to be typing about this

    in lieu of other things about which I could have been typing mere weeks ago. My (admitted) love interest and I had a long talk on FB a few days ago about how much I want to see him in person again, and he promised that we could get together soon. But just now, I happened to be...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F Aug 19

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    I'm Jealous of My Friend's Friends....and I Hate It.

    Someone I consider a close friend has had increasingly less time for me over the last couple of months and it's making me feel like I'm in junior high all over again. We used to talk almost daily, but lately she's found a new group of friends to hang out with and I'm no longer...
    UncertainTruth UncertainTruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Happy Couples And A Single Me. :{

    Happy couples and then there is me single and alone. But I wish there happiness all the time I do. Three of my friends met three of my friends and are now couples. I'm so annoyed how can this happen? My crush rejected me now I'm still alone I hate myself right now! I'm just...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I hate it so much. The feeling I get every time

    I drive past an adult store. I see the sexy lingerie for women displayed out of the front window. I find myself looking at them and thinking... I wish I was female. They get to wear all the sexy things. I get jealous and I hate it... Why was I born male?????
    nikki85jones nikki85jones 26-30 1 Response Jul 2

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    Hmm

    I am tired of being jealous of all the happy people out there I was happy once bit that wad so long ago and that was when I was truely happy and I will,never get that moment back in my life agaon, I am very much in the closet this feeling eats at you when you know what you want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    facebookisdone51 facebookisdone51 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I just couldn't contain my overwhelming

    jealousy no matter what the reason is I simply cannot bear him being close to another girl. I'm so selfish , but I can't help it.....I can't pretend that it never happened I had no idea ... that my heart would hurt this much and I know .... it makes me look like I'm a bad...
    Pinkiepushy Pinkiepushy 18-21, F Apr 29

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    There's this girl that I absolutely cannot

    stand. I'm a very rational person, but I hate her so much. And I hate that I do, because she has done nothing. She and my boyfriend (of almost nine months) and another girl were all best friends. Both of the girls developed a crush on him, but the other girl got his attention...
    LadyBojangles LadyBojangles 16-17, F Jun 25

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    I watched my boyfriend stare at another girls

    ***. 2 different times. I get that he's a man and he can look, but whatever, have some respect for the one you're with. Or at least be subtle about it. But he said it was unintentionally because the outfit she was wearing was very proactive so everyone was staring. Also, she was...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Apr 29

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    I get jealous. I can't help it.

    Call it insecurities or whatever but of course I want you all to myself. I get jealous when someone else has a piece of you I'll never have. I'm stingy and want you all to myself. I could have you every minute of every day and still not have enough. I crave your attention and...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    She used me as a rebound guy,

    doesn't even want to be my friend. She led me on, it makes me upset. Now she is going to be with some other guy, I know it. I knew they were friends, but I know it will develop into something more because I see them around alone together. Why is life so unfair?
    catbills catbills 18-21, M May 4

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    I don't know how love tastes like without any Jealousy. I don't know how lovers can possibly love with no jealousy, it exceeds my imagination. I'm pretty confident of who I am...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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