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I Am Jealous

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    jamesbond1551 jamesbond1551 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Happy Couples And A Single Me. :{

    Happy couples and then there is me single and alone. But I wish there happiness all the time I do. Three of my friends met three of my friends and are now couples. I'm so annoyed how can this happen? My crush rejected me now I'm still alone I hate myself right now! I'm just...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    My Sister In-Law

    I am so jealous of my sister in-law I know I shouldn't be but She knows I am working my butt off to lose weight and trying as hard as I can and she isn't even trying and losing more than me and she already looks way better than me and she has a 2 in half year old She still has...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I'm jealous of people younger

    than me (like 13-17) I may only be 19 but I feel like people in that age group have so much more fun than me. Most of them don't have jobs, which means they can enjoy being out of school. They're always so available. Anyone else feel this way?
    Redspikex Redspikex 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    So many kids get to do things on a daily basis

    I don't get to do. Go out to eat whatever they want, skip school whenever they want, go to friends' houses whenever they want, get crappy grades too and not give a care in the world, and say inappropriate rude things all the time. I must be anal to care about stuff like that...
    foreignthing foreignthing 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Jealousy

    I feel terrible for being jealous...but I am. She's so beautiful and pretty. She's an average student..but she's loved by the world. She's got an amazing boyfriend who just loves her to bits. The fact that even he's good looking..just adds to that jealousy. She's social. She...
    wecry04 wecry04 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2012

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    My Friends

    I have never had a boyfriend (yet hopefully) and I have always wanted someone to be my side and love me so I get so jealous of my friends having boyfriends and I don't. No one has ever had a crush on me! So I'm just depressed, no boyfriend and no friends now because one back...
    pinkflame pinkflame 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    This Girl At Church.....

    Can somebody help me with this....  and tell me if I'm just way off base or not.  There's this girl at church.... I say "girl" but really she's about 24 and has two kids and a husband.  But she is just ANNOYING me to DEATH!  I don't know if it's...
    Psalm23 Psalm23 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    I Shouldn't Be But I Am

    I feel really bad about it but I am secertly very jealous of my best friend.  We have been there for each other through thick and thin and now that the best thing in her life has happened to her, i am so very jealous.  Here the story. I have been in love with the same...
    radbunny radbunny 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2008

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    I Need Advice: Im Unsure If Its Jealousy Or Protectiveness.

    There's a certain girl, "Kay", who my boyfriend, "Manu" is friends with. They were friends for 1 month before I came into the picture. When she thinks I'm not around, Kay gets nosey and acts "differently". Eventually, after seeing a pattern of her awkwardness with my boyfriend...
    RitaRee RitaRee 22-25, F 1 Response May 9, 2011

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    I guess this really isn't my best feature!

    ! I get jealous and I shouldn't!! I know someday I will be happy but I guess I just have to wait!!!
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    Shows Us At Our Worst

    I have someone on EP who is jealous of me, I met a woman on EP about two months ago and very quickly we became very good friends. We now talk almost all the time and she and I would happily call each other best friends. This has made another of her male friends jealous and he...
    Iain321 Iain321 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    I am jealous of my sister,

    she is so damn pretty and I wish I had the life she does. I'm stuck at home with nothing while she has everything. Even the good looks in the family. :c
    Taylorgangbby Taylorgangbby 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I am jealous. I guess this is also has to do

    with low self esteem but also jealousy. I look around and see girls who have perfect skin, hair that never looks out of place, bodies that resemble those of models, and some who get good grades and are popular and have boyfriends. And I can't help but be jealous that they don't...
    jenseb jenseb 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    Hmm

    I am tired of being jealous of all the happy people out there I was happy once bit that wad so long ago and that was when I was truely happy and I will,never get that moment back in my life agaon, I am very much in the closet this feeling eats at you when you know what you want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Of All The Skinny Girls In The World

    I'm not going to lie, I'm super jealous of all the skinny people in the world! You guys are so awesome and look absolutely amazing! I'm dying with jealousy because I so badly wish I could be like you all! I'm just not happy with myself at all right now. I wish I could be skinnier...
    skyhook2612 skyhook2612 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Jealousy

    I am jealous of all the people around me. I see how much better they are than me. Smarter, prettier, funnier, stronger, nicer, they have me beat in every aspect. I try my best to ignore it, but its true. I see what they all have and I see that I'm not worthy to have it. My whole...
    melmo64 melmo64 22-25 Jun 23, 2013

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    Turns Out My Best Friends a Lesbian!

    Well me and this girl who I'm going to call "Erin" were best friends. I always took it as she liked me. I was getting ready to ask her out when she told me that she was a lesbian! I was shocked. She said I was the only person she was conferable telling. That was a...
    blackberry43008 blackberry43008 18-21 1 Response Jul 9, 2009

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    Jealous Of Friend

    I'm jealous of a friend of mine. He has so many friends around him, be there for him, he does so much better job than I do.... Even though we're good friends, I just never told him that, even though I envy him, I still like him regardless, it's just, I always feel I will never be...
    robin87610 robin87610 13-15, M Jul 27, 2013

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    Were Drifting Apart..

    my and my closest friend are drifting apart, i can feel it. The worst part is that she is easily replacing me. I called her today and she told me her friend was sleeping over and theyre having a great time!Yes i am jealous. I dont want her to hangout with anyone else or have as...
    Vervepipe726 Vervepipe726 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    Seeing Couples Together When You Are Single

    When I was in a relationship, seeing couples didn't really make me think anything other than how I had that too. But now that I am single, seeing couples together really depresses me. I look at them holding hands, kissing, or holding each other, and I remember that I used to be...
    LonelyGirl1230 LonelyGirl1230 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22, 2013

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    Got It All Still Room To Complain

    my best friend has it all yet shes always saying how "depressed" she is and how horrible life is yes she had a ****** up childhood but for the past 5 years your life's been pretty perfect you have both your mom and dad I DONT you have 2 sisters that love you and are there for you...
    paradoxkey paradoxkey 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    I Was Shocked to Know It Myself

    I have always thought of myself as an anti-jealousy kind of person, I never believed in jealousy as a concept..and I've never felt jealous when I was with my ex-boyfriend...but I found out that was because I trusted him...I was sure he loved me so there was no reason for me to be...
    Harmonyyy Harmonyyy 19-21, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    I Don't Even Know Her...

    Me, my lover and his ex-girlfriend. He was 'with' her for 10 years. 'With' because their relationship pattern went thusly: friends for a while, partners for years, then 5 years of him being her default when she wasn't hooked up with someone else. He is devoted to her. She moved...
    greenheaded greenheaded 31-35, F Sep 9, 2013

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    Jealous Of My Boyfriends Female Friends

    I am jealous of my boyfriends ability to connect with other people so easily. I am especially jealous of the female friends he has. They are fun and spontaneous and confident and I wish I were like that, and I feel so inferior to them. It hurts so bad. Its like icant even be...
    emilystrange105 emilystrange105 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    Jealousy Good Bad And Ugly

    Intro: Recently someone asked me to write about Jealousy, and so i started thinking about me and how jealousy i used to be, and still am sometimes... There are many different forms of Jealousy, sometimes its envy over someone, maybe they have a better job, more money, maybe they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I'm a gay 14 year old male.

    The guy I love, my best friend, is dating another girl. I know he likes me. He told me so. I'm falling head over heels for him and wish we could be together. I know I sound like an ***, but I'm so jealous. Any advice would be welcome.
    VerdlaTal VerdlaTal 13-15, T 6 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Wish I Were'nt

    He's so close to her. He was in love with her. Then he met me... Says he's over her, however remains close to her. I know she does not feel any different about him before I came along.... *sigh*    I know he wishes I were not jealous, but I don't know how to not be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    My boyfriend always talks about pretty girls

    and sometimes I front of me. He does it on the side thinking he's slick but I can hear him anyways. It hurts me and it embarrassing because he's with me yet he does this and we've had issues in the past when it comes to his exes. The funny thing is that when I do it he gets mad...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I can't tell if I want the life of an actor

    because I think I would enjoy it, or if I am just jealous of their relationships with the actors they work with.
    secertlyLost secertlyLost 18-21, M Jan 20

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    Jealousy

    So here's my story....my boyfriend likes skinny model type girls, I am not one!! I am chubby but am pretty, I always want to break up cause I feel that I am not up to his standards cause I can't these skinny pretty types! How do I over come this?
    Sam2277 Sam2277 41-45, F Oct 6, 2013

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    I Did Not Know That

    I am not a really jealous person. I have never really been jealous when my mother was holding another baby or playing with another kid though they all said that I was. I think that they just like to say things like that because it's normal to say things like that in those...
    ashfaaqb ashfaaqb 18-21, M Sep 10, 2013

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    Apparently So

    I don't like it when woman flirt with my husband if that makes me jealous then so be it. I can't help it I just want to keep him all to myself. I don't like sharing things that are mine I never really have. I'm a nice person but I'm apparently I'm a lil jealous.
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I Hate Being Jealous

    I have a huge issue about being jealous of other people. It seems like I am jealous of just about EVERYONE around me. I am beginning to really hate Facebook because all I have seen for the past few months or so are statuses and pictures of others hanging out with their friends...
    CocoTee CocoTee 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    I'm Jealous Of A Traumatized Girl In Protected Living

    I know this girl. She's a few years older than me, and she's been through some seriously painful things (rape, abuse, ED, bad medical treatment...), and these days she lives in some kind of "Protected Living" complex. She has her own studio and a pet, she has to cook for herself...
    Quantumphysica Quantumphysica 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    Girls n movies, girls at the shops,

    girls singing, photos of girls.. I'm jealous. I hate myself & never feel beautiful.
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    My Boyfriend's Ex

    I'm jealous of my bf's ex.. and i can't seem to get over it. It's been more than 4 years they are not together, but he still has some things from her, gifts, etc. We were friends at the time they were together and breaking up so i know how special their relationship was, he told...
    Ra1nbow Ra1nbow 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I Get Jealous Way Too Easy

    i want you all to myself, you arent even mine but im jealous about you talking to other people. ugh! why do i always get jealous over things that arent mine? it never ends, im good and happy then i get jealous and ruin things, then you leave and im a mess, then i move on and it...
    crunchatizamecaptin crunchatizamecaptin 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Jealousy Is A Disease

    And I'm sick of being ill. I feel horrible to not be able to feel content for my friend's happiness. All I seem to think about is "why is it happening to them and not to me" I even find myself thinking that prettier or funnier and wondering why is it that nothing good ever...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    I Am Jealous

    its hard wherever i see couples holding hands kissing cuddling i get upset. yes im jealous but isnt it human nature to want something someone else but you has.Im jealous of their happiness i so wish i could be happy like that. ok im 43 a bit of a loser, i still live with my...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 21, 2013

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    I Hate Chatrooms And Facebook Because Make Me Jealous

    I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I always had trouble with the fact that he enjoys chatrooms. Maybe I´m insecure yes! but the fact that he could be sending pictures of him to other girls makes me sick to my stomach. When we go out I am always alert for signs...
    Alexaelen Alexaelen 26-30, F Aug 8, 2012

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    I'm jealous of my little brother.

    It sounds bad but he makes me hate myself and makes me think of myself as a pathetic loser. 1) At 22 he landed a job making $40,000... I was making $35,000. 2) He's been w his GF for 3 yrs and are madly in love. I haven't had a relationship ever in my life and every time I...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F Jan 26

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    Not the half of what she is.

    ... I know that jealousy is not healthy, it's a feeling from the devil i guess. But sometimes we have to be honest with what we feel. No matter how i try to divert the jealousy that i feel, i still can't help it, ok i am jealous. I'm jealous of the people with someone to text...
    NoellePage NoellePage 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    I'm Jealous of My Friend's Friends....and I Hate It.

    Someone I consider a close friend has had increasingly less time for me over the last couple of months and it's making me feel like I'm in junior high all over again. We used to talk almost daily, but lately she's found a new group of friends to hang out with and I'm no longer...
    UncertainTruth UncertainTruth 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Wanting To Be Her

    It's like I stand in her shadow where no one notices me. That's all i ever wanted. To get noticed. I feel invisible. Like I'm not even there. She gets called beautiful, pretty, gorgeous and I get called ugly. She has long silky hair something that I always wanted to have. She has...
    skullcandy321 skullcandy321 18-21, F Jun 22, 2013

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    Why.

    My partner got a new phone. I pay for our phones but now. She's gets a new one for her friends so they all have the same service . That doesn't bother me it bothers me that she doesn't want me calling it and she barely gave me the number. She disabled and has reconnected with...
    Faithinyoumy1 Faithinyoumy1 31-35 Nov 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    " She looks way better than i do..." "She looks gorgeous and smart." "She's tall..." " She's the best friend of my boyfriend..." "How can they be so close until the extent they are...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My ex boyfriend was so jealous of everything I would do. If I didn't text him back in a what he thought was time appropriate he'd ask me all sorts of questions. He was nice and...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    All my life I have dealt with jealous people. People who smile in my face but wish me harm when i'm not looking. People who constantly compare their lives with mine. I've learned...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for going on three years and recently my jealously is getting out of hand. He has been with more girls then I have, which doesn't bother me...
    Gucci1990 Gucci1990 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I can admit I do get jealous at times. Sometimes it motivates me and other times I let it go to my head and beat myself up about it. I'm not the type of person to hate just...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I am get very jealous when my fiance talks to women. He's such a great guy and he's a chick magnet I guess. Its so bad that I cant even watch a movie with him anymore if there's a...
    fb715 fb715 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So I've been texting to a guy for 3 months now, all day, every day on a purely friendly basis & a bit if flirting but I'm finding myself being jealous when he mentions his ex has...
    SlightlySparkles SlightlySparkles 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not sure why it is that I get jealous when I suspect that the person I'm taking to Is talking to someone else.
    fgarci04 fgarci04 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Oh. This is me. If I am not invited to something.. Or if I see a close friend hanging out with her other friend and not me. Like God. Jealous cloud follows me around the WHOLE day...
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25