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I Am Judged Cause I Am Different

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    I always feel like I need improvement.

    Because , I am judged by the way I am. I am judged by what I do. Anything I do right or wrong I get judged so I think that being me is the only possible way to be happy
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    All Of Us

    We're all judged for something. I can't explain how I am different, I just know that I am. I feel ways that other people don't feel, and in a way we're all that way. But I'm sensitive and emotional in ways that other people can't understand. People in general don't like me...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2010

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    Especially These Days

    Now that I'm not trying to camouflage myself as much as in the past, my mannerism and feelings show more readily. When I'm out, mostly at work or sometimes at social gatherings, many people look at me differently. I can see the quizzical look in their eye and some even a tilt in...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    i hate people that judge other people

    because they are different to themselves. It just annoys the crap out of me
    baconnater3000 baconnater3000 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    Why?

    Why is it that others judge who or what we are.  I am different because of my gender, sexuality, intelligence level, social and financial status, race, religion and cultural background.  I look at people for who they are..PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS!  So what if they are...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    The World Sees Those As Different As a Threat.

    Any time I have a different opinion then the general accepted ideas I always see how those judgments influence the attitudes of those around me.  Instead of wanting to discuss ideas or explore new ideas I am separated from the group and suffer a group attack.   I ...
    unicorn218 unicorn218 26-30, M 1 Response May 6, 2009

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    The Main Problem Is That No One Understands What I Am - Then

    EVERYBODY KNOWS. But they even almost always read what I say/ do WRONG - THEN THEY ALL KNOW THEY DO. I AM NOT LIKE ANY OF U, FUNNY UNETHICAL NON-HUMAN HUMANS! I AM NOT LIKE ANYTHING ANYBODY U KNOW OR CAN IMAGINE.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    Some people are so nice thank you to everyone I

    have met on EP you make my life a little happier . Those of you who are horrible please stay away from me !!
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    Truth

    Just look at my profile to be convinced. But I was born like that, worse for you !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    I have had enough of being judged.

    ...it's not right and you don't know what I have been through...so just shut the **** up
    SexySam93 SexySam93 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    I'll Always Be Different. Not By Choice.

    I'm gay and I'm a Christian. The scientific community will always view me as a joke and disregard any insight I might have because I'm automatically labeled a moron. The religious community will always loathe me for being a filthy homosexual and will consider any viewpoint I ...
    Konrad Konrad 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    Not Normal.

    I am judged harshly by my family and community at large. I am somewhat of a hermit, and have been for years due to having a fear of being in or around crowds. I am socially awkward around people in person, conversation skills lack horridly. My life revolves around being shut up...
    DarkerGaming DarkerGaming 22-25, M 16 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    This Is Messed Up?

    I have lived in England for the last ten years, and I've learned that in school.... many people are very grumpy, goomy, straight faced and hate all forms of happiness. Thankfully I'm moving out of the country to the land of America, (where people are a hell of a lot friendlier...
    diggydawg diggydawg 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I feel like an alien in Utah.

    Most people are not comfortable around me since I am an atheist, vegan, colored and not local. I tried my best to be a nice person knowing that I am different here but sometimes people are so hateful. :-(
    HowTny HowTny 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    If people knew I am soft,

    in the inside, or willing to take the bullet for anyone, including my enemies, they would understand. But they only think of me as a nerd with no life... Im a high school (Navarro High School), but people treat me as if im stupid or even dumb, i dont want to be treated like that...
    joe1001101 joe1001101 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2014

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    I cant I actually got judged on HERE to say the least.... I get im weird and sort of messed up but really, its not like i rub "my experiences" in peoples faces. Im normal, i just...
    Wehtt4m Wehtt4m 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I just realized I spend a lot of time arguing with people who are not worth the argument. It causes unnecessary stress, and it wastes my time. From now on i'm picking and choosing...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah, but no matter what I'll be judged like having too big boobs a bum, being too short being black :(
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I think lts sad that we live in a society that judges people based upon what they look like I know I'm guilty of being judgmental in the past and I do make a effort not to judge...
    LuiGina LuiGina 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I hate being judged and have people make their assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    F**king hate it when people are judged by strangers; just because you know exactly what they like/love, and know what you want in life. Don't judge me when you don't know me...
    Varjo Varjo 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Got bullied when I was young for it. Got weird looks at high school for it, for not playing the part of a copy cat. I always struggled at school. I've had a lot of hard times. No...
    THISarcane THISarcane 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    My boyfriend has been engaged before he met me and says he don't wanna get married, first i used to think that he says that because he's been through a failed engagement but when i...
    esraaahmed91 esraaahmed91 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I ended up re - friending my ex friend on fb. All this because we liked the same guy. (No longer speaking to). I still have hurt from when I told her I liked him too. yet she went...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I have always been different. Yes I dress like a bad ***.yes I try to act like one. But deep down,I just want to do good and help those in need. I listen to different music. I wear...
    DarkSecret62 DarkSecret62 18-21, M Jan 5

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    TheScientis7 TheScientis7 22-25, T 6 days ago

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    I've got friends from different ages,races,colours,even faiths! What connects us is far more important than anything that divides us ! We met through various jobs or projects I've...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    I'm always liking different books, movies, or songs. If I get a friend to watch a movie I absolutely loved, they would have a totally different opinion on it. :P
    EnchantedMia EnchantedMia 13-15, F Dec 26, 2014

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    I an different in so many ways and thats one of them. I have tow big brothers and they are both doctors and a little brother and sister both of them want to be come doctors. Is...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    To me I don't see beauty as skin .. I see her ... Her personality Her mindset Her goals Her drive Her ability to make me feel normal When I know I'm not, she's ok with it.. We...
    iLuV2 iLuV2 26-30, M Jan 3

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    It's hard for people to see past whatever may be "different" in a person that they meet, and that's okay! That's why everyone is a little different it makes up who we are as an...
    AlyMarie1 AlyMarie1 13-15, F Jan 4

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    Most people have a problem with me beeing different . They us to bully me because of that but thay stopped now . I see the world different then they do that makes them see me as...
    bestimmung bestimmung 18-21, F Jan 4

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    So here is my Story.. I am a regular guy well educated from some of the finest colleges and with a job to envy. I have achieved every mile stone like Buying a great car a nice home...
    laaquila laaquila 31-35, M Jan 5

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    To order to succeed in life, sometimes, you need to act different and change your strategies
    bluesky666 bluesky666 16-17, M Jan 6

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    I'm quiet. Don't talk much. I think everyone is different, yet they try to be the same as society cracks thing up to be. It's not that I want to break away, I already have. I was...
    BeckettKreiss BeckettKreiss 16-17, T 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm different I think :/ I think im weird and different idk
    eltrakills eltrakills 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel like I act so differently depending on who I'm with and where I am. I feel like I give some people exactly who I am and give others this completely fake version of myself. I...
    sml2298 sml2298 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    So apparently I have enough skills to make a funny comment that gets everyone laughing but it backfires cause ones they take notice they initiate conversation which can't do and...
    AlexanderGarcia AlexanderGarcia 16-17, M Jan 16

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    I wouldn't say I'm that different, I'm maybe more kept to myself that I am at school ... I love other peoples life's
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    my mom died when I was 13 almost two years ago now. im 14 about to turn 15 and I have a older brother who is 18. me and my brother both live with my dad (my mom and dad were still...
    lauraquinn lauraquinn 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I'm very different from others, but my boyfriend loves me and I love myself. I've learned that when others see you through their colored vision, you don't need them in your life.
    Leofflaed Leofflaed 18-21, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Ever since I was in seventh grade I've always had this whole other world in my mind. It first started when I saw a movie and I started pretending I was the male in the story. I...
    vvjazmin vvjazmin 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Maybe a little too different
    PsychologyNerd PsychologyNerd 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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