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I Am Judged Cause I Am Different

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    I have had enough of being judged.

    ...it's not right and you don't know what I have been through...so just shut the **** up
    SexySam93 SexySam93 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    Not Normal.

    I am judged harshly by my family and community at large. I am somewhat of a hermit, and have been for years due to having a fear of being in or around crowds. I am socially awkward around people in person, conversation skills lack horridly. My life revolves around being shut up...
    DarkerGaming DarkerGaming 22-25, M 16 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    I hate how people always stare at me

    and make fun of me because I'm emo.
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2015

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    I'm judge to because I am different.

    Look at my profile and you'll see my differences?
    ChrisStar2015 ChrisStar2015 26-30, T May 29, 2015

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    All Of Us

    We're all judged for something. I can't explain how I am different, I just know that I am. I feel ways that other people don't feel, and in a way we're all that way. But I'm sensitive and emotional in ways that other people can't understand. People in general don't like me...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2010

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    Some people are so nice thank you to everyone I

    have met on EP you make my life a little happier . Those of you who are horrible please stay away from me !!
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    This Is Messed Up?

    I have lived in England for the last ten years, and I've learned that in school.... many people are very grumpy, goomy, straight faced and hate all forms of happiness. Thankfully I'm moving out of the country to the land of America, (where people are a hell of a lot friendlier...
    diggydawg diggydawg 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    Truth

    Just look at my profile to be convinced. But I was born like that, worse for you !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Debra...you have both parents.

    ..you are rich....you get everything you want....stop being a bi*ch and try too be nice for once....why don't we just switch places for a weekend...then you will know how it feels too be me and anybody without both parents....stop judging me for not having things or for things I...
    CountryLover321 CountryLover321 16-17, F Feb 20, 2015

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    The World Sees Those As Different As a Threat.

    Any time I have a different opinion then the general accepted ideas I always see how those judgments influence the attitudes of those around me.  Instead of wanting to discuss ideas or explore new ideas I am separated from the group and suffer a group attack.   I ...
    unicorn218 unicorn218 26-30, M 1 Response May 6, 2009

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    Especially These Days

    Now that I'm not trying to camouflage myself as much as in the past, my mannerism and feelings show more readily. When I'm out, mostly at work or sometimes at social gatherings, many people look at me differently. I can see the quizzical look in their eye and some even a tilt in...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    and the worst part is being judged by your

    parents because you didn't meet their expectations. The saying, "Everyone is different" is the most bullshitty philosophy I have ever heard because people can go as far as getting hanged for being different... I just wish I could live in my imagination where no one gets judged...
    BlackBloodDemon BlackBloodDemon 13-15, M May 24, 2015

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    i hate people that judge other people

    because they are different to themselves. It just annoys the crap out of me
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    I feel like an alien in Utah.

    Most people are not comfortable around me since I am an atheist, vegan, colored and not local. I tried my best to be a nice person knowing that I am different here but sometimes people are so hateful. :-(
    HowTny HowTny 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    Why?

    Why is it that others judge who or what we are.  I am different because of my gender, sexuality, intelligence level, social and financial status, race, religion and cultural background.  I look at people for who they are..PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS!  So what if they are...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    If people knew I am soft,

    in the inside, or willing to take the bullet for anyone, including my enemies, they would understand. But they only think of me as a nerd with no life... Im a high school (Navarro High School), but people treat me as if im stupid or even dumb, i dont want to be treated like that...
    joe1001101 joe1001101 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2014

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    I'll Always Be Different. Not By Choice.

    I'm gay and I'm a Christian. The scientific community will always view me as a joke and disregard any insight I might have because I'm automatically labeled a moron. The religious community will always loathe me for being a filthy homosexual and will consider any viewpoint I ...
    Konrad Konrad 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    The Main Problem Is That No One Understands What I Am - Then

    EVERYBODY KNOWS. But they even almost always read what I say/ do WRONG - THEN THEY ALL KNOW THEY DO. I AM NOT LIKE ANY OF U, FUNNY UNETHICAL NON-HUMAN HUMANS! I AM NOT LIKE ANYTHING ANYBODY U KNOW OR CAN IMAGINE.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    I always feel like I need improvement.

    Because , I am judged by the way I am. I am judged by what I do. Anything I do right or wrong I get judged so I think that being me is the only possible way to be happy
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Well, I am ... Whether my differences are good or bad, and whether you like it or not
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    my friend Emily is totally different from me like I'm a guy she's a girl but I guess were both smart in our own way but in the real world that's a double standard for nerd. I mean...
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    I really do feel as if I'm alienated from society and everyone in a way, I mean I can find people I relate to, but no one who really, really understands me and how different and...
    PrometheusArcanus PrometheusArcanus 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    i feel like people with anxiety/depression are left without a rope in terms of working society. It debilitates me in a way that i never knew the full scope of until now. Every job...
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    I assume in a different country maybe
    TheAvenue TheAvenue 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I hate being judged by people about my grandma and when I try to put a sentence together sometimes I get treated as a kid when People don't let me explain things when trying to...
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    My mom thinks I have autism. My dad thinks I have ADHD. I've always had a different opinion compared to the other kids and it feels like I'm being forced to bend and conform to fit...
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    I have finally come to except my fate, I am not meant to be social in a cliche, I am not meant to have thousands of friends, I am meant to have a shining face among the grey...
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    I always feel like I am being judged. Like, if I do something someone doesn't like I might de disowned or bullied. Not that I am not already bullied already, i just am scared it...
    ThatFallenMer1 ThatFallenMer1 13-15, F Jan 28

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    Often the people i find interesting are completely different from me. I love variety
    RagnarLothbrok RagnarLothbrok 31-35 1 Response Jan 28

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    Even though I am no longer with the girl I was dating at the time, I do not regret losing my virginity to her, because we both loved each other at the time, and it was special to...
    NeonAshes NeonAshes 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I recently moved to a new city and it feels like a whole new world. I can seriously do with more genuine friends. Perhaps EP is not the right place to make real life...
    Mystiquelady Mystiquelady 36-40, F 20 Responses Jan 25

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    Feelings and emotions, that will never last, we should put them behind us, back in to the past, we shouldn't dig them up, because it will cause pain, feelings and emotions...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jan 24

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    I am the youngest of two, but if you met me and my brother at the same time, you would think I am a couple to a few years older than him. I have looked alot older than my age since...
    sillysweetgirl9 sillysweetgirl9 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    There's nothing wrong with different. Different is good. However, if someone says you're different, puts a pause before the word different, and says different in a slightly...
    RustySubway RustySubway 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    Ever since I can remember, I've always felt different than everyone else. It's hard to describe, but I get the feeling you understand. I've always felt more mature than most my age...
    ExploreroftheUnknown ExploreroftheUnknown 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 23

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    We aren't the same. My tears look and sound different than what you are accustomed to. If you think we are close and I disagree then who do we believe? You? Me? It's possibly I'm...
    Everyheartbeat Everyheartbeat 26-30 Jan 23

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    Hi am single age 47 who is trying to find love or relationship hi have learning difficulties and emotional feelings but hi am even being judged by that hi live in uk Kent area
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    Hi am being being judge by my messages a my grammar and explaining things on experience project
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 23

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