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I Am Judged Cause I Am Different

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    The Main Problem Is That No One Understands What I Am - Then

    EVERYBODY KNOWS. But they even almost always read what I say/ do WRONG - THEN THEY ALL KNOW THEY DO. I AM NOT LIKE ANY OF U, FUNNY UNETHICAL NON-HUMAN HUMANS! I AM NOT LIKE ANYTHING ANYBODY U KNOW OR CAN IMAGINE.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    Truth

    Just look at my profile to be convinced. But I was born like that, worse for you !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    and the worst part is being judged by your

    parents because you didn't meet their expectations. The saying, "Everyone is different" is the most bullshitty philosophy I have ever heard because people can go as far as getting hanged for being different... I just wish I could live in my imagination where no one gets judged...
    BlackBloodDemon BlackBloodDemon 13-15, M May 24

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    Especially These Days

    Now that I'm not trying to camouflage myself as much as in the past, my mannerism and feelings show more readily. When I'm out, mostly at work or sometimes at social gatherings, many people look at me differently. I can see the quizzical look in their eye and some even a tilt in...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    I'm judge to because I am different.

    Look at my profile and you'll see my differences?
    ChrisStar2015 ChrisStar2015 26-30, T May 29

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    This Is Messed Up?

    I have lived in England for the last ten years, and I've learned that in school.... many people are very grumpy, goomy, straight faced and hate all forms of happiness. Thankfully I'm moving out of the country to the land of America, (where people are a hell of a lot friendlier...
    diggydawg diggydawg 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    If people knew I am soft,

    in the inside, or willing to take the bullet for anyone, including my enemies, they would understand. But they only think of me as a nerd with no life... Im a high school (Navarro High School), but people treat me as if im stupid or even dumb, i dont want to be treated like that...
    joe1001101 joe1001101 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12, 2014

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    i hate people that judge other people

    because they are different to themselves. It just annoys the crap out of me
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    Some people are so nice thank you to everyone I

    have met on EP you make my life a little happier . Those of you who are horrible please stay away from me !!
    SexyLexiMX81 SexyLexiMX81 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I hate how people always stare at me

    and make fun of me because I'm emo.
    CatWithScars CatWithScars 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have had enough of being judged.

    ...it's not right and you don't know what I have been through...so just shut the **** up
    SexySam93 SexySam93 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    I always feel like I need improvement.

    Because , I am judged by the way I am. I am judged by what I do. Anything I do right or wrong I get judged so I think that being me is the only possible way to be happy
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Not Normal.

    I am judged harshly by my family and community at large. I am somewhat of a hermit, and have been for years due to having a fear of being in or around crowds. I am socially awkward around people in person, conversation skills lack horridly. My life revolves around being shut up...
    DarkerGaming DarkerGaming 22-25, M 16 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    The World Sees Those As Different As a Threat.

    Any time I have a different opinion then the general accepted ideas I always see how those judgments influence the attitudes of those around me.  Instead of wanting to discuss ideas or explore new ideas I am separated from the group and suffer a group attack.   I ...
    unicorn218 unicorn218 26-30, M 1 Response May 6, 2009

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    Why?

    Why is it that others judge who or what we are.  I am different because of my gender, sexuality, intelligence level, social and financial status, race, religion and cultural background.  I look at people for who they are..PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS!  So what if they are...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I'll Always Be Different. Not By Choice.

    I'm gay and I'm a Christian. The scientific community will always view me as a joke and disregard any insight I might have because I'm automatically labeled a moron. The religious community will always loathe me for being a filthy homosexual and will consider any viewpoint I ...
    Konrad Konrad 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    I feel like an alien in Utah.

    Most people are not comfortable around me since I am an atheist, vegan, colored and not local. I tried my best to be a nice person knowing that I am different here but sometimes people are so hateful. :-(
    HowTny HowTny 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    All Of Us

    We're all judged for something. I can't explain how I am different, I just know that I am. I feel ways that other people don't feel, and in a way we're all that way. But I'm sensitive and emotional in ways that other people can't understand. People in general don't like me...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2010

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    Debra...you have both parents.

    ..you are rich....you get everything you want....stop being a bi*ch and try too be nice for once....why don't we just switch places for a weekend...then you will know how it feels too be me and anybody without both parents....stop judging me for not having things or for things I...
    CountryLover321 CountryLover321 16-17, F Feb 20

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    I am incredibly sad and lonely. We moved across the country so that we could be near my husband's children and grandchildren. Instead, I've been shunned. I don't know if it's...
    jennifr1966 jennifr1966 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Being judged? hate it more than almost anything but I'm learning that if they're so judgemental and bold enough to keep saying it your face, you need to do the same! And not fight...
    Clipz4her Clipz4her 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    man I hate being judged by people I did 17 years in prison just to get out to go back to do 15 more months in prison I mean I got locked out when I was 15 for assault kidnapping...
    allenmra1 allenmra1 36-40, M 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Mabey because they still cause me pain I don't forgive
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just feel different than everyone. I don't have friends I just don't understand it
    AldiYunusSaleh28 AldiYunusSaleh28 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    How To Turn Six Dollars Into Six Thousand Dollars: I found this on a bulletin board and decided to try it. A little while back I was browsing through newsgroups just like you are...
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    i wrote something in here a few days ago from my previous account.... i think it was "They say I am mad because of this". And tbh i liked the response so here i am sharing again. I...
    madmax24 madmax24 18-21, M a week ago

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    I just got judged by someone who goes to church on regular occasions. Because I don't go to church, means I'm not a good person, when I'm the one that puts my life on the line...
    Bryan29 Bryan29 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19

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    After being rejected (very nicely) by a guy on an internet dating site I decided to delete my profile, but couldn't find the delete function so left it til the morning. That next...
    Nenmir Nenmir 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    i just don't only feel.....i am really different from others...life often teaches us many things...sometimes about others but sometimes ,...it could be just about yourself...all...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F Aug 18

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    I can be friends with total opposite of me Granted Im a different breed and think and do things different does not mean we cant be friends. Who knows may learn something.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    i guess i just feel judged by everyone. judged for my interests or hobbies, judged for how i look, judged as stupid, judged as someone who is scattered. never really truly valued.
    ackleholic ackleholic 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am sure it will be a good experience to know people around the world with different thinking and mindsets... Happy friendship...
    ShantanuD ShantanuD 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I woke up again to that sight. There he was. So unique in his age. I blocked out all the people who tried to tell me the truth about us and just focused on his face. He was so kind...
    coerietheraven coerietheraven 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I have a very good friend on EP. She cares and loves me so much. Comforts me when I am depressed. I equally want her to express but she says she has difficulty expressing. I am...
    deceptiveoutofcloset deceptiveoutofcloset 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I like how my personality is different from others.
    Yourfavnextdoor Yourfavnextdoor 16-17, F Aug 15

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    And that's what make my friendship with you guys unique, you know who you are. I don't care that millions of people can see this cause it doesn't matter. You two make my life...
    hannapanna hannapanna 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    It's not a feeling, it's just how it is. It's not a bad thing, if we weren't all different how boring would that be? You really have nothing to compare to. If you're going by the...
    ItsSIRtoyou ItsSIRtoyou 41-45, M Aug 14

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    I live two separate lives. One is spent in blissful ignorance of real life . I spend peaceful days with my adorable nephews, walking across sunny meadows , watching wildlife...
    Gladez Gladez 36-40, F Aug 13

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    As a Balkan immigrant girl I feel so different when I talk with people because I grew up with bits of the culture from there and I accidentally use different stuff. I got so...
    Katerinafaith Katerinafaith 16-17, F Aug 13

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    "They laugh at me because I am different. I laugh at them because they are all the same." - Kurt Cobain 👽
    NikyLoveM NikyLoveM 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    My best friends and I are very different. We come from very different backgrounds and believe diffrent things. Many times we marvel at how close we are and how it was literally...
    Sassychick06 Sassychick06 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I don't understand why people bully me for something I already know. Yes I know I'm different from you, but is that really a reason?
    W3areallmonsters W3areallmonsters 13-15, F Aug 12

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    Everyone is different and unique which is why people connect so well with other people. Would you really enjoy talking to someone who is exactly like you? I actually need us to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 11