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I Am Judged Cause I Am Different

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    The Main Problem Is That No One Understands What I Am - Then

    EVERYBODY KNOWS. But they even almost always read what I say/ do WRONG - THEN THEY ALL KNOW THEY DO. I AM NOT LIKE ANY OF U, FUNNY UNETHICAL NON-HUMAN HUMANS! I AM NOT LIKE ANYTHING ANYBODY U KNOW OR CAN IMAGINE.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 2 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    This Is Messed Up?

    I have lived in England for the last ten years, and I've learned that in school.... many people are very grumpy, goomy, straight faced and hate all forms of happiness. Thankfully I'm moving out of the country to the land of America, (where people are a hell of a lot friendlier...
    diggydawg diggydawg 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I'll Always Be Different. Not By Choice.

    I'm gay and I'm a Christian. The scientific community will always view me as a joke and disregard any insight I might have because I'm automatically labeled a moron. The religious community will always loathe me for being a filthy homosexual and will consider any viewpoint I ...
    Konrad Konrad 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    All Of Us

    We're all judged for something. I can't explain how I am different, I just know that I am. I feel ways that other people don't feel, and in a way we're all that way. But I'm sensitive and emotional in ways that other people can't understand. People in general don't like me...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2010

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    Not Normal.

    I am judged harshly by my family and community at large. I am somewhat of a hermit, and have been for years due to having a fear of being in or around crowds. I am socially awkward around people in person, conversation skills lack horridly. My life revolves around being shut up...
    DarkerGaming DarkerGaming 22-25, M 16 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    I always feel like I need improvement.

    Because , I am judged by the way I am. I am judged by what I do. Anything I do right or wrong I get judged so I think that being me is the only possible way to be happy
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Some people are so nice thank you to everyone I

    have met on EP you make my life a little happier . Those of you who are horrible please stay away from me !!
    LexiMX81 LexiMX81 36-40, T 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Truth

    Just look at my profile to be convinced. But I was born like that, worse for you !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Why?

    Why is it that others judge who or what we are.  I am different because of my gender, sexuality, intelligence level, social and financial status, race, religion and cultural background.  I look at people for who they are..PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS!  So what if they are...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 2 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    The World Sees Those As Different As a Threat.

    Any time I have a different opinion then the general accepted ideas I always see how those judgments influence the attitudes of those around me.  Instead of wanting to discuss ideas or explore new ideas I am separated from the group and suffer a group attack.   I ...
    unicorn218 unicorn218 26-30, M 2 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Especially These Days

    Now that I'm not trying to camouflage myself as much as in the past, my mannerism and feelings show more readily. When I'm out, mostly at work or sometimes at social gatherings, many people look at me differently. I can see the quizzical look in their eye and some even a tilt in...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    i hate people that judge other people

    because they are different to themselves. It just annoys the crap out of me
    baconnater3000 baconnater3000 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I feel like an alien in Utah.

    Most people are not comfortable around me since I am an atheist, vegan, colored and not local. I tried my best to be a nice person knowing that I am different here but sometimes people are so hateful. :-(
    HowTny HowTny 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    If people knew I am soft,

    in the inside, or willing to take the bullet for anyone, including my enemies, they would understand. But they only think of me as a nerd with no life... Im a high school (Navarro High School), but people treat me as if im stupid or even dumb, i dont want to be treated like that...
    joe1001101 joe1001101 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    I'm afraid of posting my info .... I don't wanna end up getting judged for talking online about my life /:
    sf619 sf619 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    People are judgmental and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I come from and live in a place where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Yeah i didn't know where to put this so I picked a random one. Okay so, about a year ago I was a different person. I was still depressed and self conscious but i always liked...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not looking for a response or a comment by someone that wants to give me a life lesson or thinks he or she is a miss or mr know it all. However I just wanted to say don't judge me...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I can't keep it in this burning small flame wanting to flare up and rise, every word spoken I hear if not at that very key moment it slips through my ears and in my soul making its...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I'm always being judged everywhere I go. I have never judged a person in my life so why do people judge me? People always assume that because I believe in the supernatural that I...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I don't really care cause if you judge me I'll judge you regardless if I know you or don't know you whether verbally or as a thought. For those of you that don't agree I say It's...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    "Judgement often comes instantly on things we don’t even understand. If we had the same scenario before, and land on the same situation, we judge. Even if we don’t understand...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 16

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    becouse if people would really took the time out to know me they would get a different perspective an understanding of who i really am as a person :)
    lonelyLonny lonelyLonny 31-35, M Jul 11

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    I am always judged by people around me. People think I am slow or too weird and its really hurtful. I am never nasty to people I go out of my way to be nice to them, but everyone...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M Jul 4

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    I feel different... Whoever you are, if your reading this, I'm sorry that it doesn't make sense but I come with an odd problem or ability of feeling different while losing the...
    flopet17 flopet17 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I meet many people either in person or online and the one thing I like to do is get to know them. The most amazing thing about meeting people is the process of getting to know them...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Am Not Here To Judge Or To Be Judged
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me grow up
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    i get judged all the time, whatahell just because i like rock, metal, and alternative because my wardrobe is mostly black clothes because of how i am ? people need to respect and...
    blackoceans blackoceans 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    A million words would not bring things back as they were, I know because I've tried. Neither would a million tears, I know because I've cried. But now I can see the flower upon...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    ok,then you can start to work being friend with me. cause ım totally different :/
    idunnowhttodo idunnowhttodo 22-25, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    There are stupid things ive done and said and i just wish i didnt. Idk i feel like everyone all my friends and everyone looks at me like im stupid. Even now i just am annoying...
    personidk personidk 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Lol when ever I tell somebody this or even my family,they never believe me cause I guess I never stepped up. I was scared to "snitch" so I just go with the flow now and pretend it...
    jordinv jordinv 16-17, F Jul 5

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    My mom treats my cousin as if her own son and pushes me to the side.It makes me feel like she doesn't want me.for example today I was planning to go visit my dad and I haven't seen...
    shygirlaquamarine shygirlaquamarine 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    So I did the personality test (http://www.16personalities.com) too like many people have and I was suprised by how well certain aspects fit me 0.o I always felt like not many...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm a mechanical engineering grad student and over the years I've been groomed into a professional. Over time experts see and notice things that others would not. For example an...
    RedScythe RedScythe 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Freedom of Religious Beliefs are finally being put across by the American's Secretary of State, James Kerry. The christians are being suppressed in 2013 in Syrians which had...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm different and I don't care who knows it Somethin' about me It's not the same, yeah I'm different and that's how it goes Ain't gonna play no ******* game Got a different way a...
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M Jul 6

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    In college there was an impossibly handsome guy named Jacob. We went to a huge college , a myriad of people who belonged in different groups like goths, emos, jocks, athletes. And...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Can you find a small, hard, benign growth on your skin? If yes, you have a wart. Warts are actually an infection in the top layer of the skin or local growths in the skin that are...
    wipeoutwartsfast wipeoutwartsfast 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    How are we so "different"? If "different" is just a thing. If we all have certain features, What does "different" bring? People filled with hatred, Can't possibly see, That there...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 9

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    Let's start off with the fact that I'm 16 so that those of you that think, "Oh, she's 16? Obviously she was being dumb and that's why she wrecked". If that's what you think, feel...
    Haleyscomet1616 Haleyscomet1616 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have always felt different, but I have moved from being different from " the rest", to being different from you, and you, and you, who are different too.
    gio36 gio36 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    It's interesting that the Japanese tv dramas always like the stories about people with double sides of personality. It's like, the same person, but in one period of time is being...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F Jul 12

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    I'm a sucker for cute girls. I like girls who are different. I like girls who are childlike in the heart. It's so rare that I find girls who don't wear make up and don't like...
    NotYourAverageAsianGuy NotYourAverageAsianGuy 70+, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I'm different in many ways from others and perfectly okay with it. Just because you may be ok with doing something and I'm not doesn't mean nothing. Everyone is different in their...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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