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I Am Learning About Dominance Submission

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 304 People

    Submitting To Something Greater Than Oneself......

    I have been "non Vanilla" for as long as I can remember. Although I never used this coin of phrase, and was not familiar with what "non Vanilla" meant or implied. My journey started when I got my hands on a riding crop in college. Taken from a roommate who was an equestrian rider...
    pleasureofanother pleasureofanother
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    On Humble Ground

    There is a humble ground a submissive sits on; the acknowledgement that there is a desire to have someone watch what they do and how they do it as well as the desire to follow the path that has been chosen for them. For a surrendered person this is a natural desired...
    RogerThompson RogerThompson
    41-45, M
    1 Response May 20, 2013

    My Favourite : )

    I would love to submit to a strong man....
    beautifulmermaid beautifulmermaid
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I want a woman who enjoys having her clothes

    picked out for her to wear and enjoys spankings
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 30, 2015

    Waiting

    I am deep into this s&m b&d thang . my fiance not so much he is very kinky and even is the reason why i am choosing submission ... but is uncomfortable with being my master fully . He plays with me by being dominant at times and then I'm yearning . waiting  even though...
    MistersBitch MistersBitch
    26-30, F
    Feb 25, 2010

    Fabulous Fingers

    I have always enjoyed massaging, teasing and ************ my lovers with my fingers. I have an average to small **** and I know that pounding it inside my lovers ***** or *** all by itself would not send them into the sexual orbit that I thought they deserved. I have spent...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2013

    I Feel I May Be Undersood Here...

    Am trying to accept the fact that I am a female, trapped in a man's body. Still, even when I dress as a female or think of myself as a female, I find that I only want to be with another female. And although I would want us to be good friends, I find that I would also like her to...
    xrobbiegirlx xrobbiegirlx
    51-55, T
    Sep 10, 2012

    Dream Come True

    I always felt that I am missing something from my life. I was craving for something new and exciting. I was craving to Submit and to be Dominated. I felt that I was lost and no return back. Two months ago Sir found me, I call this fate. Fate for both of us. I can't express myself...
    Lena200 Lena200
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

    Or I WAS learning - now I've screeched to a

    halt, in between my online D/s experiences and whatever the heck is going to happen next! =O I did kind of arrange a sort of play partner - but I think he's changed his mind :( But maybe that's just my mind working overtime while I'm tired and feeling unwell - alongside my...
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    46-50, F
    Oct 23, 2014

    Lessons Learned........

    Lessons being learned...... As I process a recent disappointment with a Dom (and only a month ago more than a disappointment from trusting another, I believe to be a real Dom, too), an interaction that transpired on webcam (something I am not adept at)  that was extremely...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 17, 2012

    I am very new to this Lifestyle,

    but I fully believe that already I have learned many things that will benefit others new to a "taken in hand", "Head of Household", or perhaps even Master/sub relationships. This first blog may be quite wordy, but I think it necessary to give a background on our situation. The...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    Jan 14, 2014

    I Submit

    One thing I have learned for sure is that it is a very powerful experience. One actual R/T scene  will fuel my fire for several days. Even if it is just reading about it. For me I thrive on the verbal stimulation and being tied up or forced to sexually serve. The more...
    sub2gostdancr sub2gostdancr
    41-45
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2009

    Where To Begin? (note: There Is Quit A Bit Of Reading, So If Not Interested Skip To The Very Bottom. That's Where I Cut To The Chase.)

    I'm 24, and have fantasized about Dominance, submission, bdsm, bondage, etc... stuff for as long as I've been familiar with my own "tools". I've been into many fetishes, but i always come back to the Dominance things and all. I'm turning a new corner in my young life. In the...
    Jan 21, 2013

    I Submit

    One thing I have learned for sure is that it is a very powerful experience. One actual R/T scene  will fuel my fire for several days. Even if it is just reading about it. For me I thrive on the verbal stimulation and being tied up or forced to sexually serve. The more...
    sub2gostdancr sub2gostdancr
    41-45
    Sep 13, 2009

    New To Ds And Being A Dominant!

    I never even thought of entering the world of D/S. It seemed so much darker than anything I was ever in to. I was pretty Vanilla, or so I told myself. That was until my girlfriend gave me a fanfic to read...and I am still reading it. It was in the process of reading it I...
    awheeler65 awheeler65
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 9, 2010

    Wanting To Learn.

    I have always thought myself to be submissive, I enjoy pleasing,being told what to do, and making people happy. I would love to have a teacher though. Truly start my submissiveness. ;D
    Daz3dChika Daz3dChika
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2013

    I need your advice. As I have mentioned in one

    of my previous blogs, I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all too well the do’s and do not’s of TPE. Please don’t misunderstand, I love everything about her and cherish her like none...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    Jan 22, 2014

    So I'm Start A New Veiw Point In Life.

    So I'm no stranger to BDSM I've been into the goth and things to that affect for many years. I was resently in a relationship where I the women I was with was encouraging me to be more emotional when it came to peoples feels. We broke up and now I feel that urge come back to be...
    Blost17 Blost17
    26-30, M
    Jul 18, 2012

    An Assignment.........

    Sir gave me an assignment this week. This is not the first assignment that He has tasked me with, yet it was the first that moved our play outside the confines and comfort of my home...to my office. I am always free to submit or not submit, I am always asked if I am ready to...
    pleasureofanother pleasureofanother
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2011

    Yesterday I received a razor strap in the mail

    that I had ordered on the internet. I am told that it is a very good one that is Russian Made. I was at work when it arrived yesterday and you cannot believe the thought process that my brat went through agonizing over what she should do with it before I got home last night...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2014

    "I Love Him More Than I Hate What He Wants Me To Do"...

    So here's my problem. I have been fiercely independent my whole life, not because I chose to be, but because I was with a man (and I use that word loosely) who forced me to be that way with his incompetence. Of course I eventually used my over-grown brass balls to find the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 26, 2013

    Meeting Sir

    My airplane landed, my heart started to beat faster. Meeting Sir for the first time. I was very excited but mostly happy. Walking thru the croud, opened the door and there He was, waiting for me. He hugged me and kissed me so passionately...Sir's tuch was everything to me. This...
    Lena200 Lena200
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2013

    You Never Stop!

    Yes I am a Dom,That is that I perfer the dominant role,  I dont know everything but i keep my ears open and listen and read all I can about the D/S lifestyle and the relationship. I dont think anyone can know everything about D/S and I beleive we should always be on the lookout...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 21, 2013

    Trying

    I am involved in a BDSM group... I would like to find a guy in my group to submit to, or a girl to dominate... Or both :)But I would want a mentor to make sure I was doing things right ;)
    BlissfullyBruised BlissfullyBruised
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2011

    I Am A Closet Dominant

    I thought I was more of a submissive in my relationship with my wife. For years, I would listen to her, and almost always do things the way she wanted to do them. I never felt comfortable, though, and didn't understand why. Then I found an online 'game' called Second Life...
    HammerSwindlehurst HammerSwindlehurst
    66-70, M
    1 Response Nov 15, 2009
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