I Am Learning to Set Healthy Boundaries

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    I just started reading the book,

    I think I should take it slow and practice as I go. I miss being the assertive aggressive me.
    dramafever dramafever
    36-40, F
    Feb 13, 2015

    Relevant

    I love this group right now because it's so relevant to what I'm going through. For 30 years I have lived as a person who didn't know how to make healthy boundaries. I just lived my life trying to please everybody and anybody and if that meant that I would sacrafice something...
    Djambo500 Djambo500
    26-30, M
    Jul 26, 2012

    Becoming A Fully Alive Human

    Wow - I've made a lot of progress. I should have since I'm 47 years old now - get upset from time to time with all that time wasted. When I look at my life - I'm way way better than how my life should have been, how it started out. Thank you, God! My first step was to go to...
    deleted deleted
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    Dec 3, 2012

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