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I Am Legitimately Incontinent And It's Not A Fetish

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 136 People

    Not Even

    I've been at least mildly incontinent since I was 15. I started dripping on my panties and wetting the bed again. I've never thought it was fun or attractive. I always felt ashamed and dirty for my sickness. I had to start wearing diapers or pads to try and stay dry. Sometimes, I...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Thank You

    Thank you for starting this group! I have had a wetting problem for nearly all of my life, along with a host of other ailments to deal with. I have had some very embarrassing moments, mostly when I was younger, but I have learned to approach it like an adult. When I consider it...
    billblake billblake 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Am

    I have allways had a problem staying dry at night I also wet my pants a lot as a kid even in high school I wet my pants i was teased a lot it did suck
    pattyann55413 pattyann55413 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    New To This Community

    Hi, I am Renea! I am trying to connect to people like me. I know there are weirdos out there so please leave me alone. I recently started collage and was discharged from the Army medically. I was in a vehicle rollover while deployed and broke my back. I made an almost 100...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Losing Control - And Gaining Confidence

    The males in our family have a history of becoming incontinent later in life. (by later I mean late middle age to retirement age). I've got posts up in a couple of other groups, primarily related to catheterization - as that became the best solution for me and my lifestyle...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 3 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    So Use To It - Don't Care Al All...

    Never had any urine control, so have been in diapers my whole life. This was a bit of a problem going through school with all the teasing, exc., but not even really out of school yet - more like either Junior or early in the Senior year of High School, really, just haven't cared...
    RdBarchetta RdBarchetta 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2012

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    Well they finally proved it!

    After nearly 2 years of trying to get my docs to understand my issues weren't in my head, or a fetish, they finally did full urodynamics testing on me yesterday - and discovered (surprise surprise) that when my bladder approaches 50% - 75% of its full capacity, it starts...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Recently Incontinent

    Well basically, I am 18. I became incontinent after I got a uterine infection after an operation. Since then I fell extremely embarrassed about it because it has been such a drastic lifestyle change. As I am still in high school i have incurred many situations that could be...
    clocloclo clocloclo 18-21 4 Responses Feb 7, 2012

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    Doubly Incontinent

    After months of struggling and denial I finally admitted to myself in about February this year, that I'm doubly incontinent. I have spinal stenosis which means that there are bone growths inside my spinal canal which puts pressure on my spinal cord. I am partially paralysed and...
    bent65 bent65 46-50, M 6 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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    Incontinent Since Birth

    I have been wearing Tery nappies/Plastic back nappy pads and rubber/pvc pants, since birth, it isnt very pleasant, and I have always treated with hatred, for spoiling some great relationships that I had before I married some 47 years ago, my good wife knew about my night time...
    BasilP BasilP 66-70, M Mar 13, 2013

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    My Story

    ive always been incontinent, i do intermittent catheterisation but for me i have developed a pee fetish
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 24, 2012

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    Yes It's Real

    I've been incontinent at night my entire life, and more recently losing control in the day. But over time it had also developed into a fetish for wetting myself - I do wet myself more than I naturally would. But that doesn't change the fact that I am legitimately incontinent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 23, 2012

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    Continuing To Resolve My Issues - The Medical Journey Continues

    Well it seems there's no end to the tests that can be done regarding incontinence - nor the number of tools they can run up inside you to check for things. My 2nd cystoscopy was Friday, along with a urodynamics test involving 2 small catheters in me testing volume, voiding...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 7 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    My Underwear Is Different

    I have come to terms with being incontinent over the years. From what I have seen, there is a strong genetic correlation in my family with incontinence. My grandmother, father, mother, and multiple cousins have all dealt with it at some level. My experience with incontinence has...
    analogguy analogguy 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    Cheer Captain

    I have had this all my life with pee and recently poop. I have many medical conditions. Because of this I was always in diapers, the thick bulky kind too. I had to wear them everywhere, to school, to the mall, sleepovers, parties. I was also a varsity cheerleader, the captain in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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