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I Am Lesbian Married to a Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 50 People

    God Help Me!

    First of all I would like to thank all the members of this group. Befor descovering EP and this group I felt so trapped! Ifelt like some obsessed freak and gradually become quite withdrown from my friends and generally everybody. But now, when I learned that I am not aloone in my...
    tommylboy tommylboy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2012

    How He Found Out

    I am a lesbian married to a man.  I love my husband very much. I love being married to him. My husband had a clue I was attracted to women early in our marriage. His suspisions were made real when he found the evidence I was looking on the Internet. I came clean and it has...
    lotusqueen1967 lotusqueen1967
    36-40
    4 Responses Feb 6, 2008

    So Lost...

    I don't know where to begin... I guess I always knew subcontiously that I am a lesbian, I just never dared to admit it. There were so many signs... as a kid I refused to wear girly clothes or skirts / dresses... I only wore flat shoes... I only played outside, soccer, with the...
    Chrissyhelp Chrissyhelp
    26-30
    Aug 8, 2012

    This Is Torture

    I have been married to my husband for almost 11yrs I have always been attracted to women and was also attracted to men I identfied as bi-sexual for most of my life but it has gotten to the point that I am not attracted to men anymore all I can think about is being with a woman...
    simplyme31 simplyme31
    31-35
    1 Response Aug 6, 2010

    A Lesbian In The City.

    I've recently found this site.  Any support is better than none.I've been a lesbian my entire life, only to really acknowledge it about15 years ago.  At first I did the whole "I'm bi thing".. wrong!, then I tried to forget it. Wrong!, then I pushed it down and only let it...
    ASong4Kassidy ASong4Kassidy
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 15, 2012

    The Big Question Of The Day Is...

    Why are men trying to fan me, and sending me suggestive messages? I the fact that I'm posting HERE, in the "I'm into WOMEN" section, not enough of a sign? GAH! Please, someone enlighten me. ...and I'm not talking about the kindhearted men who are on the other side of this and...
    onmywayhome onmywayhome
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    I am a first nations native married to a man,

    hoping to hook up with some other women just to chat
    FirstNationsNative FirstNationsNative
    41-45, F
    Mar 30, 2015

    Hey Ladies....

    I was just replying to a conversation with some of my favorite ladies here on EP, and I was thinking that maybe my thought process on being a woman who has fallen in love with a woman would be helpful to somebody. 11 months ago, a dear friend sent me this Marianne Williamson...
    onmywayhome onmywayhome
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2012

    And Now...

    So since my last story my world has been flipped upside sown. Seperated for 3 maybe four months now. My anniversary was friday. My husband called and was pouring his heart out to me... Wanting "our day " to fix all that has been forever ****** up in our relationship. I felt so...
    IamNiko IamNiko
    26-30, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    Lesbian Married to a Man...

    but no, this is not why we don't have sex. A lot of people think it's unfair to the man if you're lesbian and married to a straight man. It's not always the case. My husband has ALWAYS known about my sexuality, even before we got married. I am not automatically "bisexual...
    Masoquista Masoquista
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 2, 2008

    Now What?

    I am 20 years old, female, and married to a wonderful, funny, handsome man. I truly love and care for him, and we have a beautiful 8 month old son together. We have been together for a year and a half, and I came out to him yesterday. I am so sad and feel trapped in my fake...
    ledzeppmama13 ledzeppmama13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2012

    Almost There (Then And Now)

    So here I am... Confused, excited, new ! Last week I came out to my husband... Earlier I was reading on EP stories of other brave ones and felt like that what I m reading is something semi-real that happen only to lucky girls, that they won kind of lottery which I ll never win...
    tommylboy tommylboy
    26-30, F
    Feb 19, 2013

    Almost There (Then And Now)

    So here I am... Confused, excited, new ! Last week I came out to my husband... Earlier I was reading on EP stories of other brave ones and felt like that what I m reading is something semi-real that happen only to lucky girls, that they won kind of lottery which I ll never win...
    tommylboy tommylboy
    26-30, F
    Feb 19, 2013

    Any One Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled
    31-35, F
    Jan 21, 2013

    Stuck

     I love my husband. I really thought I would just get over this. Just be happy with him. He is the only man I have ever been with. We were room mates years ago, and eventually I developed a crush on him. We decided to try to make a relationship work, and if not then we'd...
    Zoei Zoei
    26-30, F
    6 Responses May 2, 2009

    I Am a Married Lesbian.....

    As a young child, when some little girls played house, or doctor with little boys, I played these games with other little girls.  However, I did not think it was wrong, until we were caught.  Still, I was not told it was wrong for little girls to play in that manner...
    Summerayn Summerayn
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2009

    It's My Life...

    When I was in sixth grade I figured out I was bisexual. One of my best girlfriends grabbed my hand and pulled me down the hall into a  classroom. I still remember the softness of her hand and the butterflies in my stomach. I was 12 years old. During my first year of high...
    SamIsSam SamIsSam
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 30, 2009

    Have to Get Out

    This is my situation exactly. I lived as a lesbian for 6 years before I allowed myself to get married (WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE EVER!!!). I had never wanted to get married, and have only ever been slightly attracted to men, probably out of convenience. Long story short, I was...
    DogDaze DogDaze
    31-35
    6 Responses Jun 22, 2008
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