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    I have been attached to hopes and dreams that can now never be
    Orangetas Orangetas 51-55, F 13 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    bemyvalentine bemyvalentine 51-55, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i am letting go with a heavy heart .....a heart so heavy that the weight of carrying it around for so long has troubled my very soul ......its a burden i can be without .......i...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 Apr 4

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    Venting to set myself free... To my enabling soon to be ex in laws... As part of letting go and moving forward, I've got to vent these thoughts and hurts. Forgive them. Set them...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M Apr 8

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    Ive had a really hard and bad experiences in the past. I got bullied which led me to quit and not finishing college. But now i really regret quitting college and letting those...
    changemylonelyworld changemylonelyworld 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I have such a hard time letting my walls down. Also the fact that i was in a seven yr relationship that just recently ended doesn't help. But I just can't trust people at all. I...
    Fantasy646 Fantasy646 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    I realized I deserve so much better when things started to change between me and my boyfriend. I know he doesn't love me anymore but he's having a hard time to tell me. His actions...
    dramacloset dramacloset 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    I always try to be open and honest, be the person I would like to be seen as. It can be difficult sometimes and I have opened myself up to a lot of untrustworthy, nasty people over...
    Bellastasia Bellastasia 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Venting to set myself free... Dear Soon-to-be Ex... As the divorce you have wanted so badly the last 17 months is near, I am writing this in order to let you go. To stop...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    All the time I'm letting go of my friends they want help and I try but they keep pushing me away I can't let that happen but they told to let them be so I left them alone. Once I...
    RyanLThomas RyanLThomas 13-15, M a week ago

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    I need to let go of my anger, sadness and loneliness before I can truly be happy. The problem is, I was never good at letting go.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Several things I have learned while I am still in my 20s is letting go and not reacting to it. I have learned that everyone in life will always disappoint you. You can love and...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Tonight I just can't stop my tears... I am letting go the love of my life... I don't know what to do... Just giving up on him.. Four years loving someone unconditionally and one...
    Edlacage Edlacage 22-25, F 23 hrs ago

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    Today I feel much the same way I felt about a year and a half ago. It's been a good amount of time since I broke up with a very special person and things have gotten only a little...
    dannylivinlife dannylivinlife 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    When is the right time to remove someone out of your life
    thatstar96 thatstar96 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    All of you . . .my few true kindred . . my family . . even my psychiatrist I would like to have been a better person even for him . . . I cant bear the half-life of emotional...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I know that this is one of the biggest things that diminishes my quality of life and I am working on it. Yet, I have not been very successful in changing. Although, I am friendly...
    whatnow73 whatnow73 36-40, M Mar 25

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    I realize that I have to let go of my past and have to move on throughout my life if I keep thinking about my past I'll keep being weak and never going back up I have become...
    vivienhuang13 vivienhuang13 13-15, F Mar 25

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    If you love someone let them go if they come back they meant to be yours's . How many fellows agree with this ?? Please shate your expirience regarding it as want to know does it...
    xanshi xanshi 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    How can my feelings still be intense when we haven't interacted in months. Do you still think of me? I can't imagine you feeling so much for me and now nothing. Is that true? Or...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F Apr 1

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    I've let so many people down in just one day. I let down my mum, my friend that needed me for her beauty exam, I've let down my head of year, I've let down my teachers, I've let...
    venetiaroses venetiaroses 13-15, F Apr 2

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    Please don't hate me for loving too much, for needing you so much. I am sorry that my hearts got so entwined in you that my soul can never let go. I have tried everything even...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I've been hurt one too many times by people who claimed they wouldn't hurt me. I don't trust very easily and have yet to find someone with genuine intentions I can depend on.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm afraid of being the person who betrays people when I gain their trust. But I'm also afraid of being betrayed. The result is that I know more of my friend's secrets. They know...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Venting to set myself free... a letter to Mr. Wonderful: Dear Mr. Wonderful... Just needed to getting a few things off my chest and share some lessons learned that might help you...
    ChangingDad ChangingDad 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I is hard to trust humanity. are there any good people left?
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 8

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    when everyone looks to you who do you look at ? I look at God.... but yet I feel like he is getting me ready for a new test.... that I can only hope to pass
    englishbbv englishbbv 22-25, F Apr 9

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    There are only two people in my life that know me very well - and even they don't know *everything* about me. I guess it's safe to say I do not trust very easily, but I do find...
    HappyandSad20 HappyandSad20 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    i will do anything for my friends and because of that I expect to much from them when i need it. When the time come, they do nothing. I dont want feel this way
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I used to be a rather trusting person but as of recently I've discovered that some people really aren't your true friends no matter what they say. I would say that currently I only...
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Sometimes I look at the amount of people in this group and wonder if they are all really being sincere when they join this group. Have they all been hurt? Have they maybe hurt...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    This post is for ep member 3 and those I may have hurt unwillingly.If YOU DON'T FORGET AND FORGIVE ,IT WILL BECOME A BIGGER PROBLEM FOR YOU.Good to forgive ;Best ,to forget...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    "Mercy Me" She said, "Please, mercy me..." Back and forth they went, never finished and yet never decidedly committed. He painted her past two years ago, painted with the...
    ThQnOfHrts16 ThQnOfHrts16 22-25, F Apr 13

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    I finally got it. U do not have to write me another clue. I am going to work on me. U just don't want me and I accept it all.
    GirlonFiyah GirlonFiyah 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    some peolpe just want you when they need it. I have benn there before but because of my personality I can't never do that to a person. I put someone else feelings before me.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    When I gain something and hold you so close to my heart... I cannot let you do. I try my best to keep my emotions in check but to let someone go... It is so very difficult.
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I befriended someone on EP opened up to them, tried to help them in their so called troubles, only to find that they were not what or who they made out to be. Really upsetting when...
    aloneagain13 aloneagain13 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am trying to let go and move on...does anyone know when you know that it is so? I know that I havent fully moved on, because I actually creep his emails still, and I think about...
    GOATSDOROAM GOATSDOROAM 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So don't bother trying, you'll likely fail.
    TheMaskedPuppeteer TheMaskedPuppeteer 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It gets a little easier every day. I was what you needed then. She is what you need now. The things she is giving you now, I can't. It is so great to see you happy. I am doing my...
    MyLifeIsNow MyLifeIsNow 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't want to . But baby.. You take lust too far and I won't let you break my heart. Not again
    MastersMistress92 MastersMistress92 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So it's been 4 months and I'm feeling good and yea there been guys in between but I don't have no hard feelings or love for them still loving the guy that I always want !
    Revelyn Revelyn 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Staying with someone you really love even when you know it's better letting go is like standing under the rain. It feels good but you know it's going to make you sick! :p
    zoiera zoiera 26-30, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    April 23. Opening Ourselves to Love. Allowing ourselves to receive love is one of the greatest challenges we face in recovery. Many of us have blocked ourselves from receiving...
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    April 23. Opening Ourselves to Love. Allowing ourselves to receive love is one of the greatest challenges we face in recovery. Many of us have blocked ourselves from receiving...
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    April 23. Opening Ourselves to Love. Allowing ourselves to receive love is one of the greatest challenges we face in recovery. Many of us have blocked ourselves from receiving...
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    It was a difficult time in my life. I think they call it a midlife crisis. Having recently gone through the divorce, I was unhappy with my life - bored, tired... alone. So many...
    esmeraldream esmeraldream 26-30, F