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I Am Letting Go of My Lover and It Is Scary

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    For College

    We have a great relationship, but I want to play the field before settling down. We want the same things out of life, but he has not proven that he can hold down a job. He's a high school dropout. He helped me through maybe the most difficult time of my life, and once I've left...
    abigail12 abigail12 18-21 Jul 13, 2011

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    Alone Again

    I became accustomed to being around a certain person. I knew he wasn't the best person for me but I hated doing things alone.  It was nice having the attention and being "loved" but it got to the point where I was sick of the broken promises and the lies and...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    My Exgirlfriend Called.

    omg, it blew me away.  I just spoke of her yesterday for the 1st time in yrs.  It's crazy as they say, it seems just like yesterday.  Our relationship was so intense, the thought of her coming into my life again is: it's not going to happen.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Heartbroken

    my partner of six years doesnt love me anymore and my heart is broke and i dont know what to do. when we used to argue it was him always doing the chasing after me, and i was a cow! he took on my 4 kids and i had 1 with him, he has loved us all. i didnt know what i had till one...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    so the movie Horns popped up on Netflix under scary movies. just so you guys know; it is not a scary movie. it's a pretty good movie. entertaining. but not scary in any way. it's a...
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Not just scary movies but scary things. Life is scary depending on how you perceive it.
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    I have to admit divorcing after 17 years of marriage, a part of me could never put all my heart and soul into one man again. For four years, I dated three to get the ONE I needed...
    Partstoadream Partstoadream 51-55, F 1 day ago

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    I hate scary movies that are shot like it's supposed to be a amateur footage. it's not scary. I'm not going to feel like it's more real because of the crappy quality of the movie...
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    Yes I am .I love you enough to let you go. I'm letting you go without any hard feelings, without any kind of resentment. I'm letting you go but I'm not letting go the love that we...
    lovemylife2210 lovemylife2210 26-30, F Apr 17

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    Isn't this everyone's ultimate dream. Lately I've been thinking is it really necessary?Why can't the passion in the bedroom be all it could be without being your lovers best...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Of all this self hate and high expectations for my life and body. I am letting go of exisiting for everyone else but myself. I am more important, more valuable, than a number on a...
    poodahpop poodahpop 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 31

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    Mrbenzidrene is female and judgmental and hides behind her profile she is scary and a worse
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 4

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    I love my camping trips with the family. Late at night, keeping warm by the fire while my older cousins tell tales scary enough to keep me up am for days.
    justnicky justnicky 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Recommend good scary movies!!! Preferably some Netflix ones.
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    Had such a ****** up scary dream last night that I'm petrified to go back to sleep ?????? - it's like 9:55 am rn still feeling bloody tired.
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F a week ago

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    So my boyfriend wanted to go see a scary movie. I told him I don't like them, and begged him not to go. But he called me a brat and said I was being selfish. So I went ...bad idea...
    madenew22 madenew22 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really could hahaha. Or even without a lover. Maybe with a laptop. Maybe with some musics to play... I just the love sounds of rain pouring down my window and the windy air...
    Amberzz Amberzz 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I have a lover who is my best friend :P we started out as friends, became best friends, then the best friends wasn't enough So we are now boyfriend and girlfriend :P I love you...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    If u love some one thn dont ask him cos if u tlod thm and just see ur love if u told any budy evn ur lovr thn ur love is gone aftr some time its my prsnl expirinse My lover is...
    Kashiflashari Kashiflashari 22-25, M Apr 2

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    Nothing,. i just think that if your best friend will become your lovers. There's a strong foundation of your relationship.. But sometimes it's hard to level up your friendship into...
    GailCine GailCine 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I have a cross dress lover, mischef, we have such girly fun, I do love her.
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    And I love you to mizmaid I enjoy being you girly lover
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    I am not good at letting go, going through a lot in life, and trying to let go is very difficult for me. I am slowly learning the process of forget and forgive, also to let old...
    Tyfly Tyfly 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Sounds ideal but why not? I believe that the foundation of any genuine and lasting relationship is a solid friendship. Someone who seeks to understand your thoughts, listens to...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    Nate came to my house Saturday because my mom invited him inside when she saw him with chris. AND he had the nerve to bring in his new girlfriend in my home too! But I tried to...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Apr 6

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    But before I talk about coffee, I just want to state that my reasons for being part of the Experience Project are to a) share stories and trials of my life that are important to me...
    DepressedDemigod DepressedDemigod 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I only like coffee if I have my French vanilla cream. I'm also an ice cap lover.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I want a lover like my best friend. But not the same person.
    strawberrycreamcake strawberrycreamcake 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I want someone who can keep company with me,understand me,talk with me.be my best friend,my lover.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I want a lover she must be above my age
    badmind24 badmind24 22-25, M Apr 12

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    Ive been thru lots of hurt so its hard letting others in. I have to know you for a long time before I can trust you enough to let you get close to me as a friend.
    zzz1silentheart zzz1silentheart 18-21, M Apr 12

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    I think i would be. If I have a lover that I adore that is.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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