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I Am Letting Go of My Lover and It Is Scary

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    Heartbroken

    my partner of six years doesnt love me anymore and my heart is broke and i dont know what to do. when we used to argue it was him always doing the chasing after me, and i was a cow! he took on my 4 kids and i had 1 with him, he has loved us all. i didnt know what i had till one...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    Alone Again

    I became accustomed to being around a certain person. I knew he wasn't the best person for me but I hated doing things alone.  It was nice having the attention and being "loved" but it got to the point where I was sick of the broken promises and the lies and...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    My Exgirlfriend Called.

    omg, it blew me away.  I just spoke of her yesterday for the 1st time in yrs.  It's crazy as they say, it seems just like yesterday.  Our relationship was so intense, the thought of her coming into my life again is: it's not going to happen.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    For College

    We have a great relationship, but I want to play the field before settling down. We want the same things out of life, but he has not proven that he can hold down a job. He's a high school dropout. He helped me through maybe the most difficult time of my life, and once I've left...
    abigail12 abigail12 18-21 Jul 13, 2011

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    This is rather a pipe dream because my wife is not much of a lover and I am too honest (cowardly?) to find another. But if I suspend reality I can imagine a world where this is...
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    My lover is my best friend so that's a win-win. He's always there for me, even through my hardest times he's right there with me helping me through it all.
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    I love watching scary movies but I get scared so easily lol that's why I have to watch it usually with people or next to someone
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    i want someone i can count on, trust, love, andsomeone that feels the same as me. the love is something of a fairytale. a myth. something that may never happen and its looking more...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    Just out of a relationship and looking for a new best friend and lover.
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    Feelings for this guy just lead to criticism and guilt. And I have the right to feel that way because he's out of my reach and I barely know him completely. I'll still care about...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 5 days ago

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    I believe this is something more important and healthy than that pat self help technique addicts and co-dependents use to grow strong and free of those things which impinge upon...
    Annodumbaknee Annodumbaknee 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    My spouse, my lover, my soulmate is my best friend. We are blessed!
    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I luv scary movies and mystery movies like "Scooby Doo" and more.....
    jadasmith24 jadasmith24 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Well I can say that having your lover as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I met him while in training. My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I still believe that you will end up living in the world that you will create, where 1. your dominance should only reach up to 75%, and the rest 25% be the results of your...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm one step to letting go tho its not easy but im trying
    sherisha sherisha 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    My lover is my best friend. We stay up until the wee hours of the morning, laughing and brainstorming. What would I do without the support and understanding that only my partner...
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    My lover is my best friend, but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Not lovers, but more than friends I bet that in childhood you had many friends, boys or girls, it doesn't matter, you were playing and laughing without worrying that...
    RosaryLaCroix RosaryLaCroix 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    When you work close to nature like I do the world is a better place. Animals never discriminate or judge you, and the forests have been consistent for thousands of years. Sometimes...
    LadySylvia LadySylvia 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Absofreakinlutely i do. Even ol skool cheezy stupid af 1's that make u wanna **** yo pants.
    Sugasug Sugasug 41-45, M Jun 22

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend (-; friendship is the most important thing in a serious romantic relationship.
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    when I saw the blood gushing from my wrist. I felt accomplished. good. I was happy. I took my blade and from the blood I wrote things. I liked it. I wanted to cut more. I feel like...
    flo877 flo877 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    I am an animal lover, but I'm not an overly sentimental bunny hugger. I admire the beauty and respect the dignity and majesty of animals without the need to hold anthropomorphic...
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    I am letting go of how he made me feel worthless instead of a lover and I'm moving on because i was existing fine before him. I am letting go of how he made me feel irrelevant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 20

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    My day does not start until I have a smoke and a cup of coffee, like seriously.. If I do not have my coffee it's like.. a disaster waiting to happen. My day will go to complete...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I want to be someone i can call my friend.Who is also my lover/partner.Who truly gets who i am on the inside.I don't want something that would fail.I want to be with someone until...
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    SanFransokyo SanFransokyo 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I'm a lover but if I have to kick some *** I will
    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M Jun 19

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    Letting go of bad memories and cutting all the people who take me for granted; not a big loss to me in fact it's the other way around. Afterall, I can do everything by myself.
    IchirinNoHana IchirinNoHana 22-25, F Jun 19

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    Hey. Is there someone married and has lover on side??
    userfromearth userfromearth 26-30, M Jun 18

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    I am slowly letting you go. I think it's too much for us to handle. I am so sorry for what happened. I need to let you go. I have listen to you, gotten advice , and my feelings...
    Notsosimpletoday Notsosimpletoday 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    My cousin was the art director for the movie "We are Still Here"! I am so excited and happy for him! And I desperately want to see the movie, because it's a scary one, but it is...
    kcyata kcyata 41-45, F Jun 18

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    ANGRY AND DISGUSTED I just saw in the news on Italian TV that in China there will be taking place tge so called Yulin dog & cat meat festival. I dont want to be disrespectful...
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