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I Am Letting Go of My Lover and It Is Scary

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    Heartbroken

    my partner of six years doesnt love me anymore and my heart is broke and i dont know what to do. when we used to argue it was him always doing the chasing after me, and i was a cow! he took on my 4 kids and i had 1 with him, he has loved us all. i didnt know what i had till one...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    Alone Again

    I became accustomed to being around a certain person. I knew he wasn't the best person for me but I hated doing things alone.  It was nice having the attention and being "loved" but it got to the point where I was sick of the broken promises and the lies and...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    For College

    We have a great relationship, but I want to play the field before settling down. We want the same things out of life, but he has not proven that he can hold down a job. He's a high school dropout. He helped me through maybe the most difficult time of my life, and once I've left...
    abigail12 abigail12 18-21 Jul 13, 2011

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    My Exgirlfriend Called.

    omg, it blew me away.  I just spoke of her yesterday for the 1st time in yrs.  It's crazy as they say, it seems just like yesterday.  Our relationship was so intense, the thought of her coming into my life again is: it's not going to happen.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    I'm leaving the past were it belongs. I feel like it's effecting my present and my present is causing problems for my future because of it, because i can't let go. I realized that...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am not stupid.... Just had to say that... Just because I play a fool for u does not mean I am one in reality... Sometimes pretending you don't know is easier than...
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    I absolutely love dogs~! Puppies more because they are so kawaiii!!! I have a pet dog name Diesel :3 do you see a picture? That's him ^_^ That was the day I came back from the City...
    TigerTheBaka TigerTheBaka 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Sensual indulgence of placing a lovely creamy chlorate on my tongue and letting it melt is delicious.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 13

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    It's funny I like this experience! Scary movies scare me. Bad. It's like I forget for a moment that it's a movie, I believe what I'm watching. I have bad nightmares and may even...
    princesskitten8 princesskitten8 26-30, F Jul 2

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    I love to watch scary movies but watching them alone gets old fast. If you are a female 18-40 and love scary movies, hit me up and message me!
    spikekekoa spikekekoa 22-25, M Jul 19

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    I love watchin em but there not scary to me but if I said I haven't pretended to be scared to get closer to someone I'd me lying lol good times good times.πŸ˜πŸ˜‰
    Tyelioo Tyelioo 13-15, F Jul 2

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    I can , but at home lol. I'll fast forward through the entire thing to see where the scary parts are at .. Yup .
    MSCris MSCris 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    It hurts sohhh badddd. Scary or odd. Both hurt. Was at library. Got cramps. Beat them away. Got laughed at. Kept focused. But was fighting mad. A cute...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 15

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    Well.....I think it's scary The Red Room There's this Japanese girl and she gets in a taxi and the taxi driver asks her "where do you want to go" she replies " go straight down...
    malakai85 malakai85 16-17, M Jul 19

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    Love Scary Horror Movies............
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Jul 23

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    When I look back it's not that scary anymore. But at the time I was only a young child. When I was around 6-7 years of age I was very much into gymnastics, I used to go to a club...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Somebody please talk to me :'((( I just woke Up from a scary dream :'(
    melanie17 melanie17 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Personally from past relationships, the relationship ends as lovers but we are still great friends. I always go into a relationship with a great friendship because a relationship...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    But I'm starting to take things one step at a time. I'm the type who is easily gets attached to people yet having a hard time letting go of something or to someone. I've decided...
    raldy raldy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Hi! I'm a chinese-indonesian girl. I'm looking for a lesbian lover. Been single since 1.5 years ago lol. Looking for someone who is attractive, funny and want to share my life with...
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Oh yes way....I'm letting go of the past and moving forward to the future, what's left is just a memory
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F Jul 3

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    My life over the last twelve months has been hell since I Divorced Graham but im letting the past go and moving on ill never forgive the lying cheating bastard but I am not that...
    myleeneklass myleeneklass 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I know I held on far longer than I should have. I know I already lost my wife/my best friend years ago. I couldn't let go of the deeply routed genuine love, the amazing memories...
    someonerandom someonerandom 22-25, F Jul 5

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    I would love for him to be my best friend first and then slowly overtime we fall madly in love. He would be my homie, my bestie, my lover. Our relationship would be far from boring...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 6

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    How can I not be a lover of art when I live in Paris, one of the places with the most art museums! I like to create art myself. I get inspired by a lot of things!
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    β™«I'm a cheap backseat lover well let's get it on then β™«
    anon13434 anon13434 18-21, M Jul 8

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    A Short Poem: I have trouble letting go, it's true But I know it's what I have to do... I have to start over, begin anew... Even though I still love you...
    Brokenglassapple Brokenglassapple 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I have trouble letting go of the past.. But recently I've learned that if they wanted to be in my life then it wouldn't be considered the past.. So don't miss meπŸ˜πŸ˜˜βœŒοΈπŸ‘‹
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I am an animal's lover. My girlfriend is a real beast.
    lefft lefft 31-35, M Jul 17

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    So months now and I'm still holding on to a never ending abyss of a future I don't even know where to start explaining my life and how many problems are just running into me...
    Beauty1Rose Beauty1Rose 18-21, F Jul 19

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    Okay, maybe I kinda over exaggerated about everything in my Long distance relationship. We'll my "boyfriend" posted a picture on Instagram and it said he took the photo at some...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    An age different couple married 20 years knows the meaning of how to be lovers and BEST friends at the same time....I love that 6
    dextermlap dextermlap 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Love never chanqes... it just rearranges..<3 The Worst Thing In Life Is To See Someone You Love, Love Someone Else How can you mean nothing to someone who means everything to...
    vg1403 vg1403 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Letting go of the people who wasted my time talking to them and spending time for them. I thought they are my friends so I'll just be a ***** and get them out of my life.
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I am selective about letting people get close to me. I have come to realize that it probably doesn't matter how selective you are or not. Most people do what they want in the end...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    i want a lover like my dream girl i love u very much but who is she i d'nt know if u so response me............
    vinayloveboy vinayloveboy 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I want a lover to give me love and affection, passionate love making is the best.. I'm so romantic and caring it is too bad for my health. I want unconditional love, a partnership...
    GEsmeralda GEsmeralda 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    any coffee lover from Indonesia??
    keflo keflo 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    what do u do when ur lover was your best friend to ,,and you could talk about anything and just laugh over anything,, it hurt they left you,, but you knew it would happen ,, I the...
    notlcare notlcare 56-60 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It took me some time. But I declare that in the name of Jesus I am letting go of my past relationship. I am so grateful to be able to reach this point in life. I don't want to see...
    ImmaBeJustFine ImmaBeJustFine 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Lover, friend, investor, maker, give me a freaking IV for Pete's sake.
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I thought that we were best friends till he told me "no your just my lover not my best friend, my ex is my best friend" i never felt so much pain before.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can resist many temptations but a bar of chocolate gets me every time. When my husband has bought me a bar of chocolate I tell him off for tempting me to spoil my figure. Then I...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I experience having a Boyfriend who is also my Best Friend but we're not together now because of Her EX .. He promise that he will come back to me Maybe someday .. Is it real or...
    CamilleJane CamilleJane 16-17, F 6 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Who wouldn't but... If only I could find them...
    SimplyPleasing00 SimplyPleasing00 16-17, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I had a really bad teacher for history in year 12 which bummed me out. I was hoping to learn and be fascinated like I usually am when learning history, but instead I was just bored...
    ChloeMaay ChloeMaay 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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