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I Am Letting Go of My Lover and It Is Scary

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    My Exgirlfriend Called.

    omg, it blew me away.  I just spoke of her yesterday for the 1st time in yrs.  It's crazy as they say, it seems just like yesterday.  Our relationship was so intense, the thought of her coming into my life again is: it's not going to happen.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Alone Again

    I became accustomed to being around a certain person. I knew he wasn't the best person for me but I hated doing things alone.  It was nice having the attention and being "loved" but it got to the point where I was sick of the broken promises and the lies and...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    Heartbroken

    my partner of six years doesnt love me anymore and my heart is broke and i dont know what to do. when we used to argue it was him always doing the chasing after me, and i was a cow! he took on my 4 kids and i had 1 with him, he has loved us all. i didnt know what i had till one...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    For College

    We have a great relationship, but I want to play the field before settling down. We want the same things out of life, but he has not proven that he can hold down a job. He's a high school dropout. He helped me through maybe the most difficult time of my life, and once I've left...
    abigail12 abigail12 18-21 Jul 13, 2011

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    What are some good scary movies or shows to watch?
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    mercifulpennies mercifulpennies 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    So this was wen I was 4 years old it was actually scary because I had cancer and I really thought I wasn't goin to make it but I did an I am really happy that I did.
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    Crossfire14 Crossfire14 13-15, M Aug 27

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    I love scary movies but I get scared Easly
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Aug 27

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    I wanna hear scary story's
    deadinsidebutscared deadinsidebutscared 13-15, F Aug 30

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    But I can never find good ones on netflix. What's your favorite scary movie?
    ALEHTHEKID ALEHTHEKID 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I hate scary movies omg my sister is making me watch one I feel so ******* scared
    nadirah96 nadirah96 18-21, F Sep 2

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    And thats why scary movies for :)
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    I'm sadly still letting my ex who tore me into pieces get to me. We've reconnected, after him treating me horribly and showing time and time again he doesn't care about me. Not...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F Sep 7

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    It started after I fell in love with the love of my life at least k thought that before. He'd leave me in the dark for months and come back saying he's sorry. He claimed that he...
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    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    Coffee. Only the word brings joy into my heart. Thinking back to the various people in my life and their coffee. Making coffee in the morning, drinking coffee to stay awake...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    Its has been 6 years i haven't in relationship. I remembered just has twice ex bfs in my entire life. All my ex bfs told me i am the best lover their ever meet on their life but i...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I dont let many get close to me... Not because im snobbish or antisocial... Im just very guarded... Ive been hurt much in my life and i put up walls to protect that from happening...
    sunpea sunpea 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Step one: find that lover.
    1976toes 1976toes 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 28

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    Im letting go of everything as well as everyone except the few i keep dear in my heart. my soul is filled with grief no more. im looking past it all and forgiving and forgetting...
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    yesterday, was probably the hardest thing i had done in my life, letting go the place i used to live for 19 years, and i was crying because it was hard to let go everything that...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Aug 31

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    Oh beautiful dark bitter lover, who wakes me in the morning light, you kiss my lips and stir my soul. Without you my day has no glow.
    Wheels64 Wheels64 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I lover older women? LOL I do love older women!Anyway, Jessica Lange omg there's just something about her that totally does it for me :) 
    RaceCarrington RaceCarrington 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Watching stars and airplanes. Having trouble letting go of the past and what I thought my future would be. Realistically I know and understand this is the best ( the only way to...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I'm letting the girl I love Go. It's hard for me to move on and carry on without her. but it's the only way to work it out. I love her with all my heart and soul. but were not...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    It still hurts & letting go is never easy. But it's a must & I'm already a better person because of it. Always try & make a positive out of a bad situation & you will reap the...
    JaixxNinexx JaixxNinexx 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Would love a lover who is into swinging because I am thinking of getting into it
    Adriano38 Adriano38 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    From what I've seen growing up, and being a product of high school sweethearts, I believe that's it's very important to have a lover that's a best friend.
    MrBigg0599 MrBigg0599 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend. But for some reason I want more.. This other guy. But it feels wrong to leave someone who is so good to me for someone I just met.
    Isaiah4310 Isaiah4310 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Finally, I have accepted things I cannot change and I'm moving forward. It's been a long journey to get here. I've done a lot of soul searching and have come to one conclusion...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 34 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think that's so cool to have a lover that's ur bestfriend
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It hurts to admit but I have to say it out loud, I am letting go and moving on. After four years together, I need to let him go and the idea of us go. He is the love of my life and...
    shasha73 shasha73 41-45 5 days ago

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