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I Am Letting Go of My Lover and It Is Scary

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    Alone Again

    I became accustomed to being around a certain person. I knew he wasn't the best person for me but I hated doing things alone.  It was nice having the attention and being "loved" but it got to the point where I was sick of the broken promises and the lies and...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    My Exgirlfriend Called.

    omg, it blew me away.  I just spoke of her yesterday for the 1st time in yrs.  It's crazy as they say, it seems just like yesterday.  Our relationship was so intense, the thought of her coming into my life again is: it's not going to happen.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 13 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Heartbroken

    my partner of six years doesnt love me anymore and my heart is broke and i dont know what to do. when we used to argue it was him always doing the chasing after me, and i was a cow! he took on my 4 kids and i had 1 with him, he has loved us all. i didnt know what i had till one...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    For College

    We have a great relationship, but I want to play the field before settling down. We want the same things out of life, but he has not proven that he can hold down a job. He's a high school dropout. He helped me through maybe the most difficult time of my life, and once I've left...
    abigail12 abigail12 18-21 Jul 13, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I took the test The Liberated Lover 68% partner focus, 52% aggressiveness, 60% adventurousness based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that: You prefer your...
    txbandit70 txbandit70 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    Well whadya know! *wink* Your result for The Lover Style Profile Test ... The Surprising Lover 68% partner focus, 48% aggressiveness, 55% adventurousness based on the results of...
    djtiger djtiger 46-50, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    *what the heck do you have to do to be a CARNAL lover!!!!* lol.... i thought for shur I'd be one... but I am the: Liberated Lover 59% partner focus, 76% aggressiveness, 65...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Right now I am currently in a tough spot. I'm a very good-looking kid, who even had the nurses talking at the hospital when I had my operation. Not to sound cocky but that's what...
    thekid2010 thekid2010 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    Well i did try but when the other person is not willing to have a long distance relationship that kinda cuts me off at the knees. I would have definitely gone to the trouble of...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I know I've held so many memories with emotions, and people that are dear to me in my heart. I loved someone dearly and in return I have fet loved before. It's really hard to let...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    Letting go of the evil bondage that was on me. Letting go of unforgiveness, letting go of the past. Going through a spiritual cleanse by CHRIST. Want to start healing others...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    When I look back it's not that scary anymore. But at the time I was only a young child. When I was around 6-7 years of age I was very much into gymnastics, I used to go to a club...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Somebody please talk to me :'((( I just woke Up from a scary dream :'(
    melanie17 melanie17 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Remember the books called scary stories, that **** was meant for kids to read! That was not okay for kids to read. I couldn't even read the stories when I was little, I'd just look...
    Wynnieskye Wynnieskye 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I've never liked scary movies. I just think that some people can handle it and some people can't
    jenney14 jenney14 13-15, F Aug 8

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    The last scary thing i watched was a trailer of the movie which still some how gave me nightmares and its only a trailer.
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    The New Silent Hill Can't wait for this to come out..I love scary games.. lol https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0B7rgDikl0k
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    Every time I let someone get close to me which rarely happens they always end up disappointing me. Now I'm done letting people get close to me. I'm going to push everyone out now...
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I don't know how love tastes like without any Jealousy. I don't know how lovers can possibly love with no jealousy, it exceeds my imagination. I'm pretty confident of who I am...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I'm letting go of people who constantly let me down or disappoint me. I'm getting rid of those who tend to bring me down. Letting go and moving on. If you don't hear from me, you...
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    i want a lover like my dream girl i love u very much but who is she i d'nt know if u so response me............
    vinayloveboy vinayloveboy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    any coffee lover from Indonesia??
    keflo keflo 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    what do u do when ur lover was your best friend to ,,and you could talk about anything and just laugh over anything,, it hurt they left you,, but you knew it would happen ,, I the...
    notlcare notlcare 56-60 1 Response Jul 27

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    It took me some time. But I declare that in the name of Jesus I am letting go of my past relationship. I am so grateful to be able to reach this point in life. I don't want to see...
    ImmaBeJustFine ImmaBeJustFine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Lover, friend, investor, maker, give me a freaking IV for Pete's sake.
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I thought that we were best friends till he told me "no your just my lover not my best friend, my ex is my best friend" i never felt so much pain before.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Looking for Lovers who can elder than me 10-20 years <><><><><<><
    Jimmy365 Jimmy365 26-30, M Aug 1

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    "lover"..."addict"...what's the difference? It's like that whole, potato, tomato thing....
    1naughtiesfriend 1naughtiesfriend 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I'm a French vanilla coffee lover.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Online I have learned that is easier to let me come into my life. Maybe it's because I can lay all my cards on the table and you can take me or leave me. I think in person I worry...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 3

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    Personally, I think Diabolik Lovers is a better love story than Twilight lol. But seriously vampires sparkling in the moonlight?! Ayato would rather die than sparkle. And the...
    sayakakyouko sayakakyouko 13-15, F Aug 3

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    I want a girlfriend. My wife , lover and best friend that can make me believe that love still exists
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    I dated with nearly 10 guys but haven't found my lover. My dating stopped after one or second meeting because sometimes both sides were not interested in each others or sometime...
    katnguyen katnguyen 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I would love to have a lover who is my best friend. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and 10 months. I always want to talk to him about everything. He never tells me...
    sweettea1005 sweettea1005 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    Ok so a couple years I go I fell in love with a man who made me feel so intense but in every way .. When we were together everything just clicked , it's like we were made for each...
    pinkmonkey91 pinkmonkey91 22-25, F Aug 9

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    Legendary lovers by Katy Perry
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F Aug 10

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    It's about being that person that glitters with energy and passion. The right lover/BFF will either be scared away orrrrr fall helplessly in love from first sight. Master the bold...
    1111Lina1111 1111Lina1111 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    If I see an animal that is stray I wi gladly take it and take care of it. I love dogs cats any kind of animal..I'm an animal lover. I wish to work as a Animal Doctor(:..I always...
    Bbygrlnene Bbygrlnene 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I think I have achieved this. My fiance is probably the only true friend I have, a wonderful lover, a caring partner, and a happy and silly companion who always manages to make me...
    Meriyne Meriyne 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Yes! I'd love to be with a woman who is a lover and a friend. Someone to stand with me when things don't look so good, when I've tried my hardest but things still didn't turn out...
    shymotorcyclerider shymotorcyclerider 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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    " one of the hardest lessons in life is letting it go. If it's hate guilt reget or revenge it fells impossible to move on but it's done and over so what's the point of getting...
    darkmoonwolf darkmoonwolf 18-21, F Aug 14

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    I am a certified chocolate lover and i always have a stock of chocolates with me.I do not eat chocolates everyday, but chocolates have this calming effect on me. chocolates put me...
    MeJustBeing MeJustBeing 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am absolutely a cat lover. The last one that i had was so adorable. I loved it when i would be sitting on the couch and he would just make himself at home on my lap. His purring...
    BloodyVampire BloodyVampire 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Coffee. Only the word brings joy into my heart. Thinking back to the various people in my life and their coffee. Making coffee in the morning, drinking coffee to stay awake...
    ValR ValR 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Its has been 6 years i haven't in relationship. I remembered just has twice ex bfs in my entire life. All my ex bfs told me i am the best lover their ever meet on their life but i...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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