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I Am Living In A Sexless Marriage Of 25 Years Last 8 Alone

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    37 female in a sexless marriage. I feel too young to be going through this
    sexyingrey sexyingrey 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am trying to come to terms with everything. My husband wants a sexless marriage. Why? Because he feels sex interferes with his spiritual progress. I have tried talking to him...
    mairia mairia 26-30, F 15 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    being in a sexless marriage is so frustrating. I shouldn't have to beg my husband for sex it's so sad
    sexyingrey sexyingrey 36-40, F 1 Response 44 mins ago

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    Well I did it. I took everyones advice in ILIASM, and I consulted an attorney in the event that I may need to pull the parachute on my marriage. Thank you Bazaar for hammering this...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    Several years on this website now. I have decided to continue living sexless, occasionally discuss my life with others through the years. Why go on, you ask? Tonight is a very good...
    manfromamsterdam manfromamsterdam 51-55, M 11 Responses Oct 5

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    Slaying Dragons: A Sleepless Journey Into Oppositeland… Having spent over a year wandering in Oppositeland, the refuge for escapees from a sexless marriage, I am experiencing...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 16 Responses Oct 11

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    hi, im indonesian (28yo) and i married with a japanese man (28yo) 2 months ago. we have been together 11 months then he finally marry me. but i already facing a sexless marriage. i...
    yn12986 yn12986 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Good-bye EP Friends! Hello to all members of this forum, but especially those whom I have come to know over the past two years. I am here to say goodbye. I am very grateful to...
    Buroak Buroak 51-55, M 22 Responses 1 day ago

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    hi, im indonesian (28yo) and i married with a japanese man (28yo) 2 months ago. we have been together 11 months then he finally marry me. but i already facing a sexless marriage. i...
    yn12986 yn12986 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 7

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 16 Responses Oct 13

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    I am 37 years old and have been in a relationship with my current bf for 13 years. We aren't legally married, but we have lived together for 12 years and we have one child together...
    lyssak lyssak 36-40, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    Coercion. Years ago I read about husbands forcing their wives to perform a certain sex act (named at the end of this story for those curious) under the threat of divorce. It was...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 16 Responses Sep 25

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses Oct 17

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    Its easy to justify ourselves for not leaving an unhappy marriage. "I dont want to leave the kids", "We are going to therapy", "I cant afford it", and "He said he would change" are...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 13 Responses Oct 9

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    I MUST learn how to live celibate. It is difficult at best. This is something that I never expected out of life. I gave more than my share to my sexless marriage. We had been...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 17 Responses Oct 11

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    I'm new here and hope my post makes it to the right place. I've been with my H for 17 years. He's 10 years older than I am, I'm 55. from the beginning he had ED problems, but I...
    Sarita22 Sarita22 46-50, F 20 Responses Oct 14

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    I'm in a quandary + need answers. I've been living in a sexless Marriage for 14 yrs. Himself loves me but doesn't desire me. We met when he was single + living in a bedsit. He...
    124Bee 124Bee 51-55, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I went to a marriage where there was the good times but in the last it was a sexless marriage it was them I was abandoned. Left alone. Battled depression. Got counseling was hoping...
    sunney55 sunney55 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is the first time i have posted an experience after reading stories and chatting to others about our issues over a number of years Please excuse my way of writing this as its...
    john818 john818 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 3

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    I've been in a long term sexless marriage (decades). I was sexually insecure at the time of the marriage, and she was too, so it worked at the time for both of us. Over all those...
    Figureitoutguy Figureitoutguy 51-55, M 9 Responses Oct 12

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    Itoo live in a sexless marriage , I know he is not cheating but what is he doing? We have been married for26 years and it has dropped off in the last ten years , to almost, heck...
    she333 she333 46-50, F 12 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I’ve been reading sexless marriage posts for a while now (being in one myself). In a way the experience of reading these posts is like beginning to recognize it as a hydra - the...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    I have been married for 34 years. We stopped having sex around 5 years ago. I am the husband. My wife tells me she just isn't interested in sex anymore. She knows I am not the kind...
    Leo502K Leo502K 61-65, M 20 Responses Sep 27

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    Update. I have been officially divorced since July 30th, 2014. We divorced amicably and are still friends. I moved out of state and currently live with my parents (during the...
    frustratedndc frustratedndc 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband is overweight, but is kind, considerate, even handsome. We have two kids together and have a wonderful family life. Since we've been married (4 years now), the sex...
    mzansigirl mzansigirl 36-40, F 23 Responses 3 days ago

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    It is what it is. By the end of my first marriage, I wasnt having sex with my wife. Not because I didnt want to, I just couldnt. I was not attracted to her anymore. I dont mean...
    RobertCarlos RobertCarlos 46-50, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    I would very much like to connect with women in St. Louis who, like me, are living in a Sexless Marriage that would like to get acquainted and see where things may lead.
    johnstlouis johnstlouis 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    Rewiring Needed! I was wondering today how many people have gone from one poor relationship partner to the next? It seems to me that a lot of us in this group have been with an...
    Artvg Artvg 41-45, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't ********** last night, but I did exchange sexual words with a woman (also in a sexless marriage) on EP last night. We were just about to video chat when her husband came...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love God. I love God's Word. However, I am still a human with human needs & desires that have NEVER been met by my spouse in over 10 plus years of us being married. I have given...
    herlivingspirit35 herlivingspirit35 31-35, F 23 Responses 1 day ago

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    Well, today is officially the last day I can say that I live in a Sexless Marriage. At 9am PST, my attorney will appear in front of a judge to have the divorce approved & signed...
    4hopefloats 4hopefloats 41-45, F 21 Responses Oct 1

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain but I would probably b in a sexless marriage if I never initiated the sex or intimacy with my wife. I always initiate, my wife never will and when I do...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 4

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    The clock is almost reaching midnight here. My brain is still so active of thinking about my life. Yes, I am still in my sexless marriage. You could say I am cowered to make the...
    Raisingup Raisingup 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 11

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    What a lot of you don't know about me is that, in addition to a degree in journalism, I also have a degree in counseling. (I haven't used it - although I was a probation officer...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 30 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a general question. My wife and I have sex once a month. It's usually a quicky and it seems to be just to keep me happy. It's not enough for me. When is it a sexless...
    Cha1ngang Cha1ngang 41-45, M 11 Responses Oct 13

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    I am in a sexless marriage and have been for years. I don’t mean a sex reduced marriage I mean non-existent. It is because she has medical issues and I won’t go into that. I...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 6 Responses Oct 14

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    Here's something else to ponder as you consider what to do about your sexless marriage. According to the chaplain that wrote this essay, what dying people tell him they'll miss...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 8 Responses Oct 17

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    Why only women post they are in sexless marriage why not men post aswell?? Is it something like women are more victims in sexless marriage...!!
    Iamhere26 Iamhere26 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 4

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    Undeniable Truths of the Sexless Marriage:The following is a short list of the postulates and theorems posited by the ILIASM gurus that I believe answer the queries folks post here...
    CreelUnion CreelUnion 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 14

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    Just had a bunch on my mind and feel like rambling. So I want to share a little about my rehabilitated sexless marriage (see backstory for details) due to a few private emails...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 3

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    If you are in the should I stay or should I go mode, it will go on forever. The only way to get off the fence is if you leave or a major shift happens in your marriage. The shift...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    One can be in a marriage and have sex anytime and anywhere, and still be in a sexless marriage. It's called "unfulfilling". That is my my life.
    andi0507 andi0507 56-60 8 Responses