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I Am Living With A Dead Beat Man Who Refuses To Work

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    Been With A "man" That Will Not Work, Or Support His Children

    I have stayed with this guy for over 14 years, and he will not get a job, because he said that he doesn't want to have to wake up early, and also because he doesn't want to have to answer to someone, or to pass a drug test. He drinks malt liquor daily, and smokes cheap cigarettes...
    juststupid juststupid 36-40 Sep 22, 2012

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